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Friday, 4 November 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...

CHRONICLES OF MR A AND B


Hello Stella, I was introduced to your blog this year and I love it. I log in from morning till I sleep even though I don't comment. Here is my Chronicles ooo, am a lady of 29yrs wit good job. I met Mr A 5yrs ago, then I just finished from University and still hustling. I didn't know Mr A for the past years, he always take me to hotel and he didn't know my house too.

Then 3years ago, I was critically sick to the extent that my family think I will die but God in a miraculous way heal me. Through out the sickness that I moved from one hospital to another and from one church to another Mr A didn't come to see me at all Infact I was the one that will call him to give him update. After getting better he begged me that he was scared that that is the reason he didn't show up to check on me.

Stella, you won't believe this Mr A had already talked to my ccase friend that he can't marry me bcos my sickness is spiritual and yes it is. After getting better, he latter come to our house last year and lie to my parents that he traveled when I was sick. So later this year,i lie to him that am pregnant and he said I should come to see him so that we can discuss better. 


We talk and I told him I want to keep the baby,he was telling me that it will be difficult bcos he didn't have stable income and that his business is not yet fully grown but I insist that I want to keep it.


 The next thing after discussion is that he was sick,so I later told him that I will inform my parents abt the pregnancy issue the next thing is that he deleted my BBM and when I chat with him in whatsapp he said he can't allow me to destroy his plan becos he wants to travel out.

I cried .....that it means this my boyfriend didn't love me like he said. What will happen if truly I was pregnant nko? Chaii.

He didn't pick my calls for some days,his number is always busy until I texted him that i have aborted the pregnancy he now pick my call.

Stupid me, I continue with the relationship having the pain that this relationship is not worth it.

I met Mr B this year in our company, he was very nice and gentle and we both realize that we finished from the same University. So we became close and we always ‎go out together. So I gave him a chance and from there we both introduce ourselves to our families and we are planning to do our wedding next year God willing. 


So I told Mr A that I need a break from the relationship and I later told him am not interested again. 


He has been begging me since then and making me feel bad that what I did is bad. Moreover this Mr A has two children with his baby mama and the baby mama have been threaten me with all sort and she even said what I experienced from my previous sickness is small that if I didn't leave her baby daddy that what I will see will be hell.

Stella, Please I need your red ink and people in the house advice becos Mr A is talking as if what I did Is very terrible and he said he wants to see me that we need to talk. Please your advice is Needed urgently. Please hide my mail becos am using my office mail...

Thanks



Hmmm Madam from this your email address you be big person ooooh.Anyway remember that thing i asked for..

As this your Chronicle,it is easy na,Mr A is an asswhip,and bad News,please exit yourself from this Baby mama drama...Mr A will only give you more Chronicles...

Abeg make i 'Kaka' small,I dey come back to read comments.



191 comments:

Beloved said...

Chooii

DOMINA said...

Dear God, please kindly remind your children that you've given them a brain that SHOULD BE USED!

CherryCee said...

You did nothing wrong!
Forget Mr A.
Go for Mr B..
...and pray not to have a Mr C in order to avoid confusion.

CherryCee said...

You did nothing wrong!
Forget Mr A.
Go for Mr B..
...and pray not to have a Mr C in order to avoid confusion.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

So dumb people like this still exist on this blog?.,.
Poster,do you eat through your nose?...
So after sleeping and waking up on this blog like you said,you have not learnt anything?...
You are 29 and foolish!...
Mumu girl!...
Ngwanu marry Mr A...
Okpo spoon!,..

Love Struck said...

This 1 no b chronicle jur, small pikin sef will know what to o in this situation when everything is staring @ you in your face. Abi yu need prophet Elijah to tell you to dump n leave A and face your life with B.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

You went to what university please?
Your tutors did a poor job with the way you're murdering English. What a disservice.
Leave Mr. A alone or did he jazz you?the guy is obviously bad to you and he has shown it to you many time yet you spread your legs and let him use you.
Better grow up and atop acting like booby the fool.
I'm even upset you plan on settling down with someone else next year and you're here writing this bullcrap of chronicle.
Girl bye!

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Mr A is not serious and he does NOT love you so nne pls biko move on. What is the point of this chronicle if you are getting msrried next year to Mr B? I dont get it. He's begging to come back. And so? Do you want to go back? Oya go back to him pls.

bukola fagbemiro said...

Poster, you can see the handwriting on the wall already. Please leave Mr A alone and move on with Mr B or whoever you so wish but not Mr A. Is just playing on your emotions, he sees you are fragile at heart and that is why he can toss you the way you like. The babymama of Mr A even threatened you, isn't that enough to run for your dear life madam?

pinky peters said...

Dumb chronicles, can't deal biko.

Asa nwa said...

Are you still asking for advice? Na wa o, the signs are obvious na, you don't need Mr A.

radiant D said...

Forget MrA and concentrate on MrB.

Anonymous said...

Sorry Madam, I can't waste my brilliant advice on you!

You people will just wake up and write chronicle. Even when common sense is there to direct you.

Biko zuzupuo!

shaybee said...

hmmmmmm
am still a virgin though is better I go and join rev.sis bfore dis men break my hrt




men r wicked sha
make una try follow stellz and bvs advice ooo














coming.....

TUSH BABY said...

Jesus fix it

Loveme Jeje said...

Who english epp self. This your grammar self need cane.

Seems you are still in love with Mr. A. Your mumu no get part 2. I no curse you, na advice.

Better leave the two of them and wait on God's given husband for you. Get an open mind when a new man comes but no more cookies

Becky Divine said...

Bia this poster no just annoy me this sunny afternoon o

What's the need of this chronicle exactly? Or you want us to cuss you out till your brain reset abii? Okay lemme indulge you

My dear you are a big fool for going back to Mr A knowing fully well he doesn't love you and wants no serious commitment with you.

But you will be an even bigger fool if you let a good man like Mr B slip from your grasp because of that unserious, time waster you call Mr A.

You have no reason to feel guilty about leaving Mr A. Block him and move on with your Mr A mbok
But i'm appalled to read you're a graduate with the way you write. Please try and work on it inugo, thank you.

nnuku Sexy pant-like boxers. 08170506432 Order now said...

Wow at 29 you can't make decisions that will better your life?
Jeez to say i am shocked is an understatement .
Like seriously ma'm , read what you typed up there and if someone was in such situation what advice will you give them .
if you can't come up with a positive advice , slap yourself 3 times to reformat your brainbox
Thank God you didn't die .. jeez why are some people like this sef ? hian

Nonye Inspired (James Bond's Girl) said...

Dear Poster: Please Mr A is blackmailing you emotionally and you are buying that, allowing him to constant abuse you..He doesn't care about you so move on already. he left you high and dry, what kind of nonsense scared he was..You told him about the pregnancy and see how he played out..Please use ur head and go with Mr B..Haba or did he gbensh u so much that you cant reason well..Grow up oh..I don't like ladies allowing men to mess them up...work on ur self estem..inugo..

peace maker said...

Madam,I just don't get it. Do U really need any advice?

Blackberry said...

Smart girls are getting extinct o!
U mean u r still considering Mr. A abi I no understand?

Wharrahell!
Some girls woulda dumped A n erased him from their minds!
Come, where are u from? Hian!

Anonymous said...

must you write chronicle with all this story of yours oya go ahead with Mr A mumu

SDK MISTRESS said...

and you are 29????

next post please....me too 'dont comment on posts' i only read

ELENA (HER MAJESTY) said...

U got a good job with this cut and join english of yours

Nways...
Forget about Mr A,he's bad news

sexy Daddy said...

Poster,hold your ears and get this advice from a Daddy that I is.Don't ever listen to that your so call Mr A he is a very big bad news!Focus on the Mr B and plan things ahead with him.Stop telling Mr A anything that concerns you again and don't forget to delete anything that connects you to him.Don't forget to tie your two laps.wishing you the best.STELLA COME T0 DADDY!

Tuscany said...

Abeg which sch you gradge from?
Well, if at your age you cant even decide from very glaring matters like this then you arnt even ready 4 marriage

Intelligentia princess loves The Queen. said...

Poster you're my age mate am also planing my wedding against next year. Am also self made,yeah,God has blessed me tremendously.
Listen and listen good never,ever consider that useless mr A. He's a bad news,u should not have given him second chance after that sickness self. Move on with Mr B,get married and enjoy your home with him.ok. May God bless your hustle and perfect your marriage plans.

Anonymous said...

Mtcheew.....

iyke david said...

No need of seeking advice because you know that Mr A is NOT READY for you, he only want to destroy your future!
Pick your shoes and run for your life!

cinderellla said...

Stella, it's like your chronicle inbox is empty. THIS IS NOT A CHRONICLE! Madam, you already know the right thing to do.

Elixir Ray said...

Seriously you need brains.
What advice do you need?

Fancyface said...

I don't know why some young ladies of this generation do and act stupid in relationships. Why must da girls be da ones to "work" hard on making a relationship work? And despite seeing clearly dat d guys they are dating are full of shit, treat dem like shit and are not worth the effort being put into d relationship, they (d girls) still put up with all d nonsense and still stupidly come here to write annoying chronicles and ask annoying questions.

How can u be considering someone who has shown U twice dat he won't stand by u during d bad times? Dats wats pissing me off about dis chronicle. Don't u love urself even a little? U should have cut off all communication D moment u got healed from dat sickness and he didn't show one concern. Wat are u still doing with dat kind of person? Some girls can be sooo annoyingly dumb.

Anonymous said...

Dump Mr A and focus on Mr B. But incase u don't want to, watch war room or drink coconut oil.

Temilola Baby said...

As in! Use your brain madam

Adadioramma said...

I tire for some people here bikonu, what do you want us to advise you madam. Oya keep following Mr A inugo, until you reach Zion.

anonymous said...

Madam what kind of primary school pattern of writing is this one?! I just tire to read the tin!

Princess Iyabeji said...

All i can deduce from your story is that you still have deep feelings for mr A.

I will only advise you to move on, as your mr A is a real time waster.Focus on what you want in your life.

Blessings on you.

Adanne said...

I know you just want to send chronicle, lol.

Mr A is bad news and you even know it but you want to ask us. Just leave him at once and don't entertain any of his emotional blackmail, end info story.

Be wise with Mr B, Get to know him and make sure no baby mama drama too. Sometime love in the office can be funny.

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster from your write up is like you are into Mr A more than Mr B. But I will advise you to go for Mr B. All you need in life is to be happy. Avoid people that will give you chronicles. Domestic violence is better heard than to be experienced. Mr A has nothing to offer you

Adanne said...

I don't think so, but let's still give her.

DonMayor said...

Are you mad ? You mean you can't come to conclusion with what you wrote up there ? You have a spiritual problem.
God help her fix it.

Anonymous said...

Poster, I don't think there's any need for this chronicle, because the difference is clear, you did the right thing by leaving Mr.A, cos you have no future with him, better stick to Mr. B and move on, don't even see him for any discussion, he's bad news. Good luck

TeamPurity said...

The first guy is bad news. Stay away from him. He doesn't love you. Don't honour his invitation for a meeting.

The second guy may be God sent, but I will suggest you abstain from sex until he pays your bride price.


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Sonia Spence said...

The only thing i would like to know before i say what i think, is how the baby mama got to know of your illness.


Mao Akuh said...

Babe you are too big for Mr A's nonsense nah...
You should've left him since...in fact, remind him of what he did when you were sick, how he deleted you from his bbm, etc so that he would feel the guilt. This is the time for you to delete him from whatsapp, BBM, etc and do not look back.

Adanne said...

My sister eeh

SDK MISTRESS said...

doppelganger af vex

SDK MISTRESS said...

hahahahahaaahahahahahahaha

Robyna Wenger said...

How can a graduate type like this? Anyway, i like this "stupid me". Yes you are stupid. He refused to visit you when you were sick and then started telling people your sickness was spirtual so he won't marry you and you forgave him. Then when he thought you were carrying his child he deleted you from bbm and refused to pick your calls until he believed you had aborted the baby, yet you forgave him. As if that wasn't enough drama for you, you yourself involved with a guy that has not one but two kids with a diabolical babymama who is threaten yout life? I am begging you forget the both of them. Your life us more important than being a "Mrs".

SDK MISTRESS said...

ur first line made me smile...love when women are proud of their achievements
#selfmade

Anonymous said...

You are soo dumb in men issue. No be small chooii....what is Mr A doing for you? From what you just said here, it shows he doesn't give a damn about you but you still dey there... The handwriting is so cleary written but you have refused to read it. Why are asking for advice??

Anonymous said...

English has been murdered. Are you sure you are a graduate. Jesu!!!

redbotafly said...

Ds poster is a stark mugu i swear.afta al he did wen u supposedly were pregnant didnt teach u any lesson.
At 29 u r nt smart.wait until he uses u for ritual.
Who knos mr B may nt even be d rite choice cos aperently u r bereft of d ability to make choices of suitors or partners.
Do urself a favor n find a place in d convent n become a NUN n save urself frm al ds.

Henrietta Ewah said...

E slap to poster for brain resetting. I'm surprise ur considering Mr A. Delete Mr. A asap.

The Observer said...

Can't believe poster went to d University. Na wa!

Fire cracker said...

And I say amen to that.

Tee Diva Organic Skincare 58C660AC said...

Let me ask my 16 years old cousin what she would have if faced with such a situation. Be right back to give you and answer.

Wait.. You hear, let me wear my Usain Bolt shoes.




Chop knuckle Stella

charitybino said...

Obviously Mr A is bad news coupled with his baby mama ish
But your tenses ehn

Anonymous said...

I love ur comment like does she need a soothsayer to tell her my A is bad news

Daisee.... said...

Mtchewwww..... Childish Nonsense!!! What school did you graduate from please? Because, this your English is.... Mhen!!!. Common sense would have told you which one to go for, but now I know that Common sense is actually not Common. Ngwanu, go for Mr A now. Nonsense!!!

Anonymous said...

Lmao.. Are you white berry?what company employed you? What uni did U go to?

nekky said...

u are indeed dumb. ur english sef tire me.wat university did u say u went to again? and at 29 writing like this, no wonda u cant seem to make a good decision.

Anonymous said...

As in ehn, so dumb! Someone dt abandoned you when u were sick. U must ve a very low self esteem.

onomebonny said...

God pls give my daughter brain in Jesus name. Poster are u for real? Asking mumu question, pls ignore Mr A and 4get.

Anonymous said...

Fake chronicle, rubbish English, senseless shediot

Princess Scheherazade said...

Ah!
When I saw the part about university, I fear oh... With this kind English?

I don't even believe the story because nobody can be this gullible.

diamond in d house said...

My dear focus on mr B n leave mr A, he is just wasting ur tym n wit intention of marring u. He should be a 4gotten issue.

Lizzy T said...

I wanted to cuss you but then I saw you have already called yourself out by saying "stupid me".

Even a blind person can see the signs talk more of you that has eyes. Even a faulty nostrils can smell the signs talk more of you that has a functional nostrils. I pray thee for you this day that you receive the much talked about "common sense" you need poster. So help you God! (amen).

JSBunny said...

Ose o jare Domina

onyii debby said...

Lolz....u are very funny

Flawless BossQueen said...

Look for Mr C.
Mr A is a no go area at all
Mr B has 2 kids with a baby mama right? B4 u guys will clock one year baby No 3 will be on the way, so you better leave the two alone nd look for another person.

Traffic for this una lagos no get part two.

Flawless BossQueen said...

Look for Mr C.
Mr A is a no go area at all
Mr B has 2 kids with a baby mama right? B4 u guys will clock one year baby No 3 will be on the way, so you better leave the two alone nd look for another person.

Traffic for this una lagos no get part two.

Anonymous said...

I don't know when people will stop criticizing people written English. This is a chronicle, it is suppose to come from the heart. When someone is pained you think they will have the time to start checking their written grammar, you just want to let go and wait to read peoples opinions. Na wa o.

And you poster, be there asking questions that has the answer CLEARLY written on the wall. HISS

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

*stop
*booboo
*times
So annoying when it's time to comment and someone is breathing down my neck 😠😠

Anonymous said...

@Doppelganger I tire oh, I had to scroll back up and make sure I read " I'm a graduate." She needs to go back to school because she obviously missed all of her English classes.

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Madam pls forget about Mr A and plan ur wedding with Mr b

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Linda Eze jiri ya nwayo ina akpari mmadu too much

Anonymous said...

Did you say you went to uni.? You write like a primary school pupil.

Jenny zee said...

Follow Mr A cos s devil u know is better than d angel u don't know.. *yimu* u are dumb

Amebo said...

Lol... But why is nobody talking about her poorly written grammar. Stella biko what did you ask her for bcux I know say you for talk about her bad English

better pikin said...

This is not a chronicle because I don't see any issue here but worthy of note is that you are a graduate and a big woman as Stella said but you murdered english like this. Those days Stella was editing for people before posting things like this were hidden but now we are seeing things. You people should beg Stella to continue editing...

Amebo said...

Blackberry don vex... Abeg calm down she just dey practise how to write chronicle pending on when the real one come.... Ode raise to power 10

Anonymous said...

Thank you for this comment. Dumb girl with a stupid chronicle. The most annoying part is her written English.
Poster which good job do you have with this your grammar?

Anonymous said...

you this stella, i dont understand you...when u are supposed to yab person life u wont..wen u are not supposed to, u go dey yarn dust..this person is a fool continue with the relationship with mr A u hear..when he spoil ur life finish like your rotten English u go know mugu

Anonymous said...

Dear,you brought out all the words I had in my head. She still loves Mr A that's just the best explanation

amanda favour said...

LMAO 😁
James biko jukwa ya ozo

Anonymous said...

Asin! I was super distracted by the "English"!! Stick with Mr. B!
if im wan marry you on top this ya hingrish baby girl carry go!

amanda favour said...

LMAO 😁 @ until you reach Zion.
Maybe the guy has big *cassava*,that's why he's still asking foolish question

Mosi Jubelo said...

Your English, it's well

What exactly do you want us to say?
That you should go back to Mr A?
Why are we like this nao?
It's sooooooooo obvious Mr A is bad news and he's not even a man. Please respect yourself and stick with B. What is the matter nao? I'm sure you can be there saying you love Mr A.
Despite all these, you're confused???
Please just receive sense ok? What rubbish
And the baby mama even told you that your sickness was small, do you need a soothsayer to tell you to flee? Tell Mr B all about him, tell him point blank that you're not interested again and that you're getting married and please you guys should leave each other alone. Don't be emotional about it, let him know you mean what you are saying.
I'm sure you even use to give him money to take care of his children as the Santa that you is na.
Poster, marry B
Leave A alone, A doesn't exist again please.

Mosi Jubelo said...

Lol

Priceless Jewel said...

God gave you brain girl, so use it!!! Mr A is BAD NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!! Open your eyes damn it!!! Face Mr. B in other to avoid resending chronicles that touch!!! You DON'T have a problem! Mr. B wants to play the conscience game with you, block him too & move on with your life, who he epp! Please stay away from Mr. A, A for agbaya! I'm angry mehn, sorry for the insults!


... Jesus is my worth!

Mosi Jubelo said...

Honestly, sometimes I even believe they are made up stories because girls act dumb too much.

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

Dear poster, you sound dull.... Too dull for my liking. Wait, can you tell your left breast from your right breast? Don't dare answer Yes!!
Your chronicle is no chronicle because you don't have a case.
Lastly, continue fcuking Mr. A because your future depends on it.... OhkokohkohkohkohπŸ‘„πŸ‘„πŸ‘„πŸ‘…πŸ‘„

Mosi Jubelo said...

Gbam

ProudlyDeltan15 said...

Na wah o....you need to be slapped to reset your sense so you can think well...leave baggages cos u will only get more baggages...let A go cos U owe him nothing....ProudlyDeltan

Starjoy said...

Poster erase Mr A from your memory completely, he does not love you, he is just saying what he said so that it would not look as if he did not show any signs of love. Go ahead with Mr B

Mosi Jubelo said...

Azin ehn

kike Bunmi said...

Poster you are a fool, after all this Rubbish u just revealed about Mr A you are still asking if you Should continue with him? ur stupidity marvels me.

JWbabe said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Hahha leave her alone,who English epp?everybdy must not be perfect in english,with ur queens english how market?hahahhahah

Anonymous said...

She should warm the coconut oil.
This is not a chronicle, Mr A shouldn't even be an option.

Uchechi Jane said...

Madam poster, u don't need any advice. U know wat the right thing is. What u need now is how to tell Mr B off finish.

Anonymous said...

Stella, forget email address. What does she work at that address as? Her grammar is poor for a graduate. Boring chronicle. Mschew!

Martins Aboy said...

@poster;the best advice you can get is the one given to self...
What is love if the people you care about cant be there for you during your times of trial??

You dont need A sooth-sayer to let you know that you have no future with mr A..
now take or perhaps tag that relationship as A lesson which life dishes out most of the time..learn from that dear!!

For mr B,give him A trial..it all begins with A step!!

Use your head and always go with your brain as well..

#Regards

@MARTINS ABOY

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

I wondered same. Good job must be relative to some.

Anonymous said...

Poster you are very stupid and foolish! You're still talking to this your A guy?'...nonsense.

Sweetheart said...

Like seriously??? You're asking this kinda question @29??? Na wah oooooo. Mr B obviously is unserious, save yourself the heart ache and move on.

Esthy said...

Pls dear don't go to Mr A again, don't ever be in close doors with dis Mr A.Delete him from ur Life,he is a No No for you. His only intentions is to destroy ur Life nd abandon you. So you better be Wise dear, U didn't do anything terrible, he is just making you feel bad so he can get back to you and make u miss ur luck. Dats all I have to say to you.

Anonymous said...

I am with you Queen on this one, this gwegwez just annoyed me witg her stupidity. Rubbish....

Anonymous said...

Linda I support you on this one. This poster is so dumb she can't see the answers to her questions staring her right in d face..
Abeg I can't deal....

Anonymous said...

Kikikikiki @ zuzupuo

abbygirl said...


INDEED THE HEART IS NOT SO SMART.........story for the Gods

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

For you to send this kind of chronicle, it means that our advice is not needed. You know what to do no matter the advice you read here, you only live once so make the choice that will always water your happiness.

Madea said...

Lol. Her tutor wasn't the problem, she is. I bet there are classmates of hers who write well. Smh!
Comments further reserved...

Madea said...

Kwakwakwakwakwa. Real Okpo ngaji.

Anonymous said...

Poster pls o. Leave Mr A Now. Should we kill goat for you before you receive sense?! U owe him no apologies. None. He is bad luck and bad news. I don tell u o. If u like no hear.

Rob said...

Dickmatized woman.. Clear case of a good dick. Symtomps : women get blinded by love and even emotional abuse. They ask stupid questions just like this one up there

Anonymous said...

I just weak for this chronicle. Miss big madam earning well, sense no dey, to construct simple narrative na wahala. Where do you work with such bad command of English and lack of self worth and basic intelligence.

Becky Divine said...

*move on with Mr B

Anonymous said...

So this woman actually needs people to tell her what to do in this situation? When I was 13 years I would've thought better. Smh! Fish brain

Inabeto said...

More like Jesus fix her brain

Inabeto said...

Exactly! Where are you from? Some cave I assume. This chronicle annoyed me. Please give space to people with real life issues. #wasteofchroniclespace

Robyna Wenger said...

Wait oh! It's Mr A that has the diabolical baby mama? Why are you still even talking to him? Are you sure he hasn't jazzed you? This one that he knows that your sickness was spiritual how are you sure it wasn't that same baby mama? Be smart and cut Mr A our of your life permanently. You have a wedding to plan and You are giving that loser face time. Smh

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

I n'atupuru onye nzuzu a onu.How can a 29 year old be this foolish? Someone you should have dumped a long time ago? Keep asking stupid questions.

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

I had a headache reading this...RIP English!

Anonymous said...

So you sent in a chronicle using your office email ?

Anyway, Mr. A is not good for you, delete him from your life. Tell A you're pregnant again and you've been hiding it from him cos you want to keep it, he will leave you alone.

I pity Mr. B though. Good luck.

Chummy cho cho said...

I honestly don't see the problem here?? Delete him from all ur social media handles. And please don't go looking for him no matter what he says... Ignore, Ignore and keep ignoring him...

And his baby mama sef is threatening you and you're still asking questions.. Seems like the guys has ur mumu button.

Blossom said...

Forget Mr. A

Pure Nigerian said...

Just the advice I intended to give, marriage is not for emotionally immature beings; please leave marriage and consider growing up first. I'd rather hit my head on the wall and gnaw at my throat than answer your 'question'

Mr. Chopalone said...

What a stupid question for a 29yr old lady..Kai and ur English is so horrible, what kind of graduate are you biko?

Victor Emeka said...

If u don't leave Mr A now, d thunder....... Will be picking egusi for u

Anonymous said...

My problem is... who is her employer? To think she can't use her initiative to solve this simple drama in her life is alarming!

Anonymous said...

biko, am not 'understanding' this madam poster of 29 years. A did not care and abandoned you when you were sick and at the verge of death, the same A denied you and blocked you when you feigned pregnancy and here you are asking whether you are to choose between A or B. its like you need us on sdk to use white pigeon and seven kolanut and dry gin to wash your head and put brain and sense inside you.
M trying hard to understand why you have been sleeping and waking up on sdk for the past 5years (as you said) yet u have not learnt anything here. infact am tired " Jesus please fix this lady with brain from heaven coz i know there are spare parts in heaven"

Empressitta

Miss Ferragamo said...

Like you said up there,YOU ARE VERY STUPID. Mtcheew you made me waste my time reading this.

Absofuckinsweet said...

Miss poster next time don't waste our time reading your garbage pls marry Mr A and then send in the main chronicle from your grammar I will always know its you even fake pastor knows A is a bad news, you wan make I tell you oya now run along and marry Mr B

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, big woman who cannot write. Your write up is full of errors. And your question is annoying. Receive sense.

Anonymous said...

A fool @29. What a shame!


___YummyMama

Teacher Queen said...

Poster I don't think you have any problem, you know exactly what to do and you are doing it already. Guess you just want Stella to know where you work. Can't think of any other reason why you should send this dumb chronicle. Perhaps, you need a complex role cus you seem to have enough free time to use company mail to send this. You get mind o, it's bad enough you are using their internet, you come join ur office email on top chronicles. Well you won't try that if you were working in my Company.

Robyna Wenger said...

Mr B doesn't have drama.

Nne nwa said...

Hana are u seriously considering Mr A. Oh please he is a big NO. Pls use Ur senses

Tessbaby said...

Madam starting every sentence with"so" is annoyingly disturbing. To ur chronicle i ask, do u really need advice on this? If so then u need more than advice, u need psychological evaluation.

Tessbaby said...

Amen

Scarlett said...

Is this a chronicle? like seriously? you want our advice? Yes you are terrible for dating Mr A when you knew he had a baby mama with 2 kids. You knew she still loved him and you still took him away.

please marry Mr B and send a better chronicle next time (i won't yab your spellings because i can see you were in a hurry and could not proof read)

IJAY said...

Aru suppose to be asking is about Mr A, did ur chronicles just vex me now, biko use ur head biko

IJAY said...

Lols, no in another for Mr. D

IJAY said...

NNE eeeh

IJAY said...

Poster is this chronicle for real or you just want to test our patience, NNE pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee

OLORI said...

Make una no finish dis poster haba!

Poster just follow your heart I guess Mr A wasn't ready financially then that was why he acted that way...plus give him a chance and forget Mr b

You know that the devil you've known is better than the new angel ...goodluck to you!











































And pls don't forget to send another chronicle we'll be here to read!πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

The General's Wife said...

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The General's Wife said...

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The General's Wife said...

That's the only explanation to this kind of behaviour o.... giant spiritual problems.

xaai said...

graduate... Seriously!!! Pls work on your tenses ,spellings and grammar. I think that is more important to you for now.
Whatever happens write Mr A off!!!!!

Snow said...

She seriously castrated the english language for a graduate working in a big firm. See grammatical errors left, right and center... and the chronicle is just plain silly. Everyone apart from you can see the handwriting on the wall. I guess you probably just want to feel better about breaking off with Mr A."It's alright dear, break off with Mr A and Marry B"hehehe...*rolling my eyes to the heavens*

Anonymous said...

Hmmm. The English was murder bcos I was in a hurry to type. English writer should better watch it,it is by the grace of God to get a good job and not by good English. My main question is am I right by breaking up with him through text message or I should see him face to face and tell him.

Chidinma Gift said...

Go for mr b is obvious mr a just want the punani and stop fucking around without condom biko.

Make una leave the English and advice her now shuo.
Stella biko in a case like this try and edit small abeg na beg o

Anonymous said...

Look for Mr C
Forget Mr A and Mr B

Senator said...

Let me support you today ...Poster you are mad infact you are stupid go back to Mr A let the thunder that will fire you come in ten fold Oloriburuku Omo Ale

Anonymous said...

@poster ... I wu anumanu... isi omebiri gi emebi eeh? Asi m ma ajuo gi...Afo ole ka I si n'idi... maka echiche adighi ka onye di afo iri abuo na itolu. Asi m ka m gwa gi na uburu okuko ka nke gi mma. Echere m n'isiri na I n'ehi na blogu a ututu, ehihie na abali mana ahuru m na ekwenti gi buru gi ihe onyo-onyo. O nwegihi ihe I na amuta cha cha.... mana ka m duzia gi odu "were ile gi guo eze gi onu"

Anonymous said...

Poster ps stretch your hand out...and take SENSE. You really need am badly.
If I ever catch you near that time wasting element called BoiA na hot slap you go collect from me!!! Self love is not wrong for you to practise else how else do you love others? Behave thyself henceforth and walk wiv Mr. B. Use shift+del for Mr. A that is to say, permanently delete Mr. A from your life like you dispose the wastes in your body and flush them off never to get back at them. Worthless and toxic is the meaning of Mr. A.

Marjorie

Ob_mmx said...

Stella e be like say your slap don finish, if e dey dash this babe a default reseting SLAP.

Nigerian Burger said...

Why are we so quick to complain about poorly written English and bad tenses? Above all very abusive.

Stella maris Baby said...

Lovely Examination question from poster..
You already know the answer so ans it by yourself..


I am out..





I am a divine project.

Anonymous said...

Graduate?? Which University?..
Forget Mr A or B..for now

World People said...

Lol . See jamb question.

World People said...

Go And see Mr A , let him chop one more time , hopefully the cd would burst , and you will be pregnant for real this time- then he would remind you that he wana still travel out and once more ignore you . After you done born - I knw u will keep it cos u don't seem smart . U will loose the Mr B u have in ur hand and before another man says hello , you go hear nwi.
Last last Mr A wouldn't travel out , he will see a girl he's crazy about and marry her. Na dat time sucide go hungry you . You will contact Mr A again .and this is where he will start sleeping with u all over again , till u born baby 2.
By then u will realize na the juju the baby mama of MR B do you.

ndiani said...

Abasi mbok dem dey worri u from ur village? Madam clear road

Ladi Michael said...

She doesn't need advice at all. All she wanted was insult from SDk fansπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

Ladi Michael said...

The English is obviously paying her bills oh!😁😁😁😁

Anonymous said...

I want to imagine that you have a brain young lady!! How could you still remain with Mr. A after he fled while you were ill? In addition, he removed you from his life when he learned that you were pregnant, yet you continued the relationship with him. Moreover, you have dated for five years and you had never been to his home. What kind of kind of relationship is it? Let me tell you: You are just F*** buddies. He does not care about you and will never care about you. PLEASE use your brain and advise yourself, like you would advise a beloved sister (remove your emotions from your decision makings). Please do NOT continue any relationship with Mr. A, even if you do not end up with Mr. B. I wish you the best young lady. RUN from MR. A because he is bad news for you, your health,your self-esteem, and your emotional well-being. Gosh! I want to hug you, and at same time reset your brain.

Anonymous said...

I want to imagine that you have a brain young lady!! How could you still remain with Mr. A after he fled while you were ill? In addition, he removed you from his life when he learned that you were pregnant, yet you continued the relationship with him. Moreover, you have dated for five years and you had never been to his home. What kind of kind of relationship is it? Let me tell you: You are just F*** buddies. He does not care about you and will never care about you. PLEASE use your brain and advise yourself, like you would advise a beloved sister (remove your emotions from your decision makings). Please do NOT continue any relationship with Mr. A, even if you do not end up with Mr. B. I wish you the best young lady. RUN from MR. A because he is bad news for you, your health,your self-esteem, and your emotional well-being. Gosh! I want to hug you, and at same time reset your brain.

Ol's Network said...

Just negodu... Umu nwanyi na nzuzu...
. Receive sense in Jesus name.

Henny said...

What do you expect from a 29 years old girl that dated a man she doesn't know his address for 5 years and having sex without condoms. I dey pity Mr B. Make she no go infect am. Stupid girls everywhere.

Anonymous said...

Receive sense if your chronicle has an atom of truth in it.ok bye

prisco said...

Poster u don't need soothsayers to tell you wat to do na pls use ur brain.ur brains are not just der for decoration.

Anonymous said...

Hian, use ur brain abeg. Can't u see that Mr A is an asshole. You beta dnt loose Mr B

Nkylorah said...

Poster,may God give you sense and brain too. You are asking about Mr A after all that happened,you don't even need to think one bit about him. He can go hug transformer for all I care. Follow the other guy please and also learn to zip up. MR A IS BAD NEWS

Ronalda. said...

Sweetheart, sometimes a person needs to hit rock bottom to be jolted back to his/her senses. The problem is, in some cases, the emotional scars from hitting rock bottom can last a lifetime causing that person to be scarred for life. Aren't you luck you didn't need to hit rock bottom to "see the light"? Like you rightly figured out on your own, what if you were really pregnant? Do you need it to really happen before you realise Mr A is bad news?

Apparently, you still have feelings for Mr A that's why you're bothered about his opinion. You have to let him go from your mind completely, so he doesn't compromise your future relationship(s). Since when does a lady choosing to be free from a toxic relationship become a terrible thing? My darling, can't you see he is the one who has been doing terrible things to you? He never had honourable intentions for you from the start. Why were you guys always meeting in a hotel and never at his or your house? Why does he always seem to disappear when the going gets tough only to resurface after the storm passes?

Maybe the sex is good and that's why he keeps coming back but, my darling, NEVER mistake sex for love. A man can keep having sex with you, especially if you give it to him good, but he will never commit even after 10 years. The only reason he is begging you and trying to hoodwink you with pseudo-affections, is because he now knows another man is in your life and that distraction will cost him unlimited access to your ‎body. 

Whatever you do, make sure you don't honour his invitation. Such a sinister character can have all sorts of evil plots in his head. He can disfigure you just so no man can have you, like a dog in a manger situation. Yeah, you did something terrible but not to him. You did it to yourself by continuing that toxic relationship with him. Thank God you now have a way out, it would be cataclysmic to look back like the Biblical Lot's wife. I know Mr B has come along but don't just assume he is "the one", so you don't get further disillusioned. Take it slow and really study his character. Don't start planning and selecting wedding dates just yet, because that can taint your mind and you will ignore the red flags just because you can't wait to be married. Like I always say, just because you were in a bad relationship when a second guy surfaced, doesn't mean the second guy is the right choice. The right person may not have located you yet. Sweetie, be calm and don't rush because you're almost 30. It's better to settle down with the right person later in life than to rush in at an earlier stage in your life only for your marriage to end shortly thereafter.

#e-bearhugs.‎

lvahstherapy.blogspot.com said...

From Stella's statement, it shows you are not bogus and if with all your tenses mix up,you work in a big company and you are a graduate, I can only say this is grace in action. Sorry,I didn't comment on your story

Egwuonwu Bertha said...

Are u for real? U seeking for advice. K pls marry Mr A and send in ur Dv chronicle then I will be able to advice u

Anonymous said...

Madam you committed the abortion....stop deceiving yourself by saying u lied about the pregnancy.

la bliss events.decor.cakes. food.chops etc said...

..madam chronicle your grammar is killing .concentrate on Mr B

Ope Yemi said...

You ought to be flogged for this chronicle/question!

Anonymous said...

I swear poster you are making me angry. Send the idiot a tx message and then block him from your destiny forever. Never ever see him again he is dead to you. You wasted 5 years on a dickhead now you are asking stupid questions. I swear you are not street smart at all.

Anonymous said...

Trust me, there's a kind of stupidity that is no respecter of age. I was gisting with an old friend of mine who is also 29. She was telling me how the only 'serious' bf she has is based in S.A. I was like, cool, what does he do there? She goes "hmm.. he's actually into Yahoo yahoo o"
I started laughing & crying at the same time. Smh...

xrystalsplash.blogspot.com said...

I rarely comment but I have to say this, is it that you just want us to get angry and just talk or you just wish to also send in chronicles?? I don't believe you don't know what to do. Haba now, some questions should not be asked seriously.anyway madam use your head and not your heart this time around. You already know Mr A has no good intentions for you coupled with the baby mama issue. Pls I beg of u don't even see him. God has compensated you with a better person so what else do you want?? Pls you need to love yourself more. He's trying to blackmail you emotionally by saying what you did is bad. Just free him already.

Anonymous said...

Lol @uses you for rituals......na wa

Anonymous said...

Where is the chronicle here, cause i see none?? ?

Anonymous said...

Where is the chronicle here, cause i see none?? ?

Anonymous said...

Red pen wo, r stupid ni? Don't try Mr A, my prayer is that your parents will not mourn you. Voodoo things nibo

Olaiya Olubunmi said...

Sorry to say,but this your use of English is beyond me madam,I actually stopped halfway!

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