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Monday, 7 November 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

FROWNS....




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
AS YOU MAKE YOUR BED.

HELLO Stella, thank you so much for what you do with your blog and how it's really been helpful to a lot of us. Well I'll go straight to my story.

I really suck at writing stories but I'll try. Lol.

So there's this guy I've know for year's now, like he's been asking me out for almost 2yrs but i really wasn't serious with him,even dated someone while he was still on my case and he knew i was dating the person cos hes seen us together. 


Fast forward to one year later i broke up with my then boyfriend and this guy was still on my case o. So i shaa decided to just agree for him last last,he had this very innocent,calm and peaceful look. Young and he was a hustler. My family loved and welcomed him. We dated for few months(although we've known for years,but not dating) we had lots of good,memorable time together. I swear the guy gave me so much peace and Joy like I've never experienced before. He was so into me,always asking me to be the mother of his kids. Awww. Lol.

So i left the country for studies,he cried ehen and always cried when he calls on the phone.

Well,time passed and we spoke once in a while mainly cos of the calling rate from nija to abroad,but we chatted on facebook once in a while,he's not an online person tho. Always working.

To cut the long story short i met this other guy here and we started loving each other shaa(I'm a lover girl,and i hate myself for that) he was dating some other girl but left her for me. Well we dated and i got pregnant for him,never knew i was until i was almost 2months gone,we tried to abort but the doctor's refused. So i was stuck and had to keep the child. Froze school cos of shame and all until i had my child. My family was so mad at me. Meanwhile my guy in naija heard and almost ran mad(seriously) his friend's were calling,messaging and asking me what happened, said he's been crying and down. Kaii i felt bad oo Stella. Cos i really love this guy too.

My family said i can't have a baby out of wedlock so the baby daddy family had to go see my parents and i think they paid bride price or so,but my mum said all traditional marriage rights has not been done,cos she keeps asking when we're coming to finalise everything.

Well my problem now is,we've lived together for almost 6 yrs now,but nothing to show for it its been from one struggle to another, we feed from hand to mouth,constantly begging and borrowing. I use my school fees sent from my family to pay rents,bills,food. He's a hustler and love's us but it's just not getting any better. They say it's spiritual attack from he's uncles,i really don't know. Done alot of prayer's, fasting. 


At a point i was even attacked. I started a business recently and that's whats we have all been leaving on,our child has never been to school for once,and he's 6years old now. He's brother came to stay with us and he does absolutely nothing apart from eat,sleep and use free wifi to chat and call girls. I practically feed everyone and pay the bills. I've complained and i'm tired. 


Stella I'm feed up,like i cry always asking God why me,why did be let me get into this,so many whys.even my family stopped sending me money cos they feel I'm in a man's(husbands) house,non of them knows what I'm going through (im so secretive)

Few weeks back my sister tells me my niaja bf is asking for my number(that's after 6yrs o) the guy never still wan leave me. He messaged me and said "this is your husband that you refused to marry" lol,chaii i just knew it was him. I felt so bad again,we've shaa been talking real good. He said he's never been serious with any other lady since that time i left,but he finally decided to get married, and paid the bride price for his soon to be wife. 

We've been talking well and i think the chemistry is still there,he doesn't like to talk about her to me,said we have to see before he gets married. Dude is still into me oo. I really feel loved chatting with him,cos I've been a lonely boring lady for the past 6yrs.Please i need advice on what to do,although im really now focusing on my business and my child(still fending for everyone tho) but honestly i am tired and frustrated. 

Never enjoyed love making with my baby's dad cos i felt he made me waste my youth,turned me into a mum at 21 and now we can hardly take care of this innocent kid,so what's the point of having sex? I'm just 26 and i feel i am still too young for all this.

Sorry for the long story, but this is the only platform that i can comfortably share my story,i have no friends. Thanks Stella, pleases post this o,I'll be reading comments.



*Your story looks twisted..you live abroad and your child is six and never been to school?If you live abroad,the government should be able to take care of that and even pay you every month if you apply that you are jobless.

I dont know what to tell you except that you should leave that your ex alone to move on with his life and not to tie him down cos you sound like you will give him the Cookie once you see him.you made your bed already so please lie on it.
Your story sounds somehow,where exactly abroad are you?


148 comments:

Beloved said...

For real ??

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Your baby's dad wasted your youth and turned you into a mum at 21??? You just spoilt this chronicle. Did he force you to sleep with him? How can you say that? You made a mistake but don't blame it on the man alone. It was both your mistake. Not his alone.
And the only reason you are complaining it's cos things are not going fine right now

Loveme Jeje said...

Amu matter. Weldone. You don lie for the bed now. dont arrange the bed

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Chronicles..... Advice, leave ur ex and focus on your child n business. Shikena

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Don't blame ur baby daddy cos u are the foolish one here, learn how to take responsibility for ur actions, did he rape u, how did he turn u into a baby mama @21, u opened ur legs for him without stress so carry ur cross.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster,
So your parents sent you to school to learn and you brought shame,disgrace by getting married to a broke ass!...
Stop complaining and face the market you bought!...
When I tell you girls here to stop mingling with broke ass,some of you will start calling me names!...
Carry your cross abeg!...

Anonymous said...

So your life is ruined and you want to ruin the poor boys life too?

Pls face your life and keep loving love! Abi that was why you left him for the abroad guy!

Pls focus on getting married properly and marriage blessings might locate you and your baby's dad!

PLATINUM said...

Poster u are a thief!!! Yes, so bcos that ur hubby doesnt hv money u now want to carry ur baggage n destroy the life of the guy in nigeria. Leave him alone! Yes!! Leave him alone!! All those years he was begging u u refused now u want to come n tie him down? Allow him to move on and u face ur own family. Ana kogheri!!πŸ˜€

Bianca BRUNO said...

Maybe she returned back to naija after having the baby and probably another state from her parents hence the money they send.
Well poster I really have no candid advice for you. I know how frustrating it is for you to be feeding the house.
Just pray abeg.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

So now your husband is to blame for your woes and not you? When you could have faced your studies, had protected sex maybe but no skin to skin is sweeter.
You're the architect of your misfortune and you should be glad your baby daddy now by force husband agreed to go with your parents forceful marriage.
You should also fault your parents for forcing a man to marry you when you're to blame for getting pregnant out of wedlock.
Just say you want to cheat instead of this your lamentation.
Now someone you left is desirable to you? Anumanu.
Better come back to Nigeria, you didn't say you're done schooling. Just come back and stop wasting more time there.
Your husband obviously loves you reason he has stayed with you for 6 years still trying to make ends meet but here you are thinking of jumping into another man's hands instead of finding solution to your problems.
Didn't your parents know you were well to do to take care of yourself before marrying you off.
To cover one Shame, they have thrown you into more pain and shame.
Tell your husband how you feel and you two should come up with a plan to make things work for your family.

Anonymous said...

Oh well! Ghana could be abroad too!

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Congo too na abroad to some people na. I don't know how some women do it o I can NEVER spend my money on a guy NEVER I no kuku get the money sef. Better dump that your live in lover and his brother and move on with your life. Cut all of them off! Including your ex and btw, he didn't force you to become a mother at 21 you both did it stop blaming him.

Ehi Human hairs and handmade wigs London said...

Your are enjoying his chats because you are lonely and bored. There is nothing the both of you can do now,so please let him concentrate on his wife and you need to face your family. Love yourself first.

Anonymous said...

Stella, Benin Republic is "Abroad"!
Poster you have a very twisted personality. You left schooling to pursue sexual immorality. Hope you've repented of this since you are talking about "praying and fasting".

"They said the attack is from his uncles"; who said? Looks like you've gone to mediums and given your life to Satan.. Repent girl and see a turn around in your life.

Tierney said...

I concur with stella..dis story is jus sumhow nd pls leave dat young man to marry who he wants to marry

charitybino said...

Mtchew.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

She lives in GHANA.

Borrow sense. You are a married HOE.leave the guy to get married in peace.

You can't HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT!

Anonymous said...

Stella your write up is so funny eh , even Benin Republic is "aboard". This chronicle is so annoying. I dislike girls like you,you now want to come and disrupt that guy's life thereby causing another poor girl heartbreak. You have made your bed , lay on it.

Awesome R said...

Poster, please leave your naija ex-bf alone. You are just looking for the easy way out. Unfortunately, hooking up with ur Ex isn't it. Rather, u would be compounding your problems.

Anonymous said...

(I'm a lover girl,and i hate myself for that) he was dating some other girl but left her for me. Well we dated and i got pregnant for him,never knew i was until i was almost 2months gone,we tried to abort but the doctor's refused.

IMAGINE THIS GIRL?
HE LEFT SOMEONE FOR YOU, HE WILL LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE
YOU WERE READY TO KILL AN INNOCENT BABY "HAD THE DOCTOR AGREED"
THANK GOD FOR THAT DOCTOR
ANOTHER PERSON WILL KILL YOU (GEN. 9:6)
IF YOU DO NOT REPENT

Nonye Inspired (James Bond's Girl) said...

Stella shared the same curiousity that I have..Please are you ''in the abroad'' or Naija.where are you? I think you should just leave that man alone he is not your husband so why live with him..Becos u got pregnant for someone doesn't mean you should marry that person..You are 27 I guess, u should know better , ur child deserves the best and should not be involved in your drama, send him to naija to your parents since you cant cope let them take care of him ..Get something doing and also ask for forgiveness from the first guy because you never loved him and if you do now, be serious and stop playing with his emotions..

Anonymous said...

"Where exactly abroad are you?"
Hahahahaha... Stella cannot fit come and kill me o
Oya Poster tell us, where exactly abroad are you, cos am seriously suspecting ghana.

*StellasNamesake*

Becky Divine said...

God why you? You say??
Please don't bring God into this matter. God blessed you with an opportunity to travel abroad to school and a good man that loved and cared for you!

But what did you do? You singlehandedly threw away your future with a good guy for a horny bloke, then dropped out of school cos of what again? Shame you say? When you're supposedly not in Nigeria o hmmmmm

Leave that Ex bf of yours alone and face your life. Of course he still cares for you and he will definitely fuck you if he gets the chance to. But he won't be yours ever again nor leave his bride to be for you! That ship has long sailed....don't be deceived.

He is just telling you stories about how he doesn't want to marry anyone else but you blah blah blah.. cos he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. So i suggest you be the wiser one here and don't give in to the temptation, pray for a better future for you and your child. And it's about time you leave that good for nothing baby daddy of yours!

ZIONA said...

stella disposter is a big liar,u just read my mind on the child never going to skool.but she has money for wi-fi.no one will give u funds here with ur cheap lies

Anonymous said...

This your story ehn, your child has never been to school? Hmm you don't even sound like someone suffering, abeg what ever the case may be just leave this man before you start cheating on him, he'll get over you, go with the guy in nigeria and try your luck, you gaan you don't know what you really want for yourself

Fuck you said...

How can u send a child to school and all she brings forth is a child...am ashamed of u on behalf of ur parents...useless girl

Anonymous said...

Sokme chronicles are so twisted and not straight that I start thinking some people come here to play with our heads

Scarlett said...

Liar liar pants on fire. mtchew

Atheist. said...

A pack of condom would have saved you from sending this chronicle, & literally 6yrs of unhappiness, tsk tsk tsk.... Have u ever sat to ask if ure the jinxed one? This obsessed guy might have just dodged a bomb, but wouldn't realize it, pls don't go complicating that dudes blossom & promising future, deal with ur peril demons, Okafors law is just a selfish law, & the result dsnt always balance equations simultaneously amongst parties..... "Limerance" is what's worrying that dude, help him by unplugging the communication cable.

Highness Gwen said...

don't go and frustrate that guy again ooo stay with ur babys daddy abeg ahn ahn

nina chocomile said...

very senseless chronicle. waste of my precious 10 mins. mshewwwww.

Anonymous said...

Everything that happened to you is your fault. Don't blame your man or youthful exuberance.

Your advice to young girls should be: practice safe sex, be matured and get an education.

You are an adult now so take care of yourself but what I beg of you is DO NOT RUIN THAT YOUNG MAN'S LIFE SINCE YOURS IS RUINED. ALLOW HIM MARRY THE BABE HE WANTS TO. LEAVE HIM ALONE AND DONT INTERFER IN HIS LIFE.
CARRY YOUR BAD LUCK AND GO!

TM David-West said...

I'm irritated with this chronicle. Young woman, you're self-centred. Your husband didn't do this to you. You did it to yourself. And now, you're toying with your ex whilst he's literally married to another and blabbing about how he's into you ooo... Mtcheew!

Anonymous said...

Togo

crouchingTigress said...

Abroad can be Togo or even Benin Republic.

Chike TEFLON said...

Giving birth to a child out of wedlock is not a sin. The only sin you committed is fornication, and those people you are ashamed of might have committed fornication and adultery more than you.
My dear since bride price has been paid, forget about your ex and focus on your family.
Don't you have valid papers?
Meet the government as Stella suggested or is your abroad any of the countries in West Africa?

Chidinma Gift said...

Poster ayam not understanding this your story

Chike TEFLON said...

Giving birth to a child out of wedlock is not a sin. The only sin you committed is fornication, and those people you are ashamed of might have committed fornication and adultery more than you.
My dear since bride price has been paid, forget about your ex and focus on your family.
Don't you have valid papers?
Meet the government as Stella suggested or is your abroad any of the countries in West Africa?

white Berry said...

What did the bible say about marriage( for better for worse). Please poster try to endure whatever you are facing and invite God into your home, first of all beg God for forgiveness for going against his will then you should know that the Lord is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleans us from all unrighteousness. Just keep believing him ur miracle is on the way. You haven't made any mistake, that's ur destiny husband.thank God you said you are focusing real hard on ur business, tell ur husband to apply for jobs and write here to stella so bvs in ur state can still help him with a job so the work load wouldn't be on you alone. Please stay off ur ex, that will only spoil things for you. Please stay bless.

Karma said...

Poster, I'm sorry but you are very selfish, insatiable also....which one is that you cojosnt abort a two months old pregnancy?? Please face your man and leave your EX alone mbok before you'll use your own and scatter his own.....Nonsense!!

Girls want to always have their cake and eat it since i900,oshisco!!

Anonymous said...

Young lady U better stick to Ur cross and do what you can to move your family out of the recession U found yourself than trying to Look out through the fence for the other guy. What is wrong with most of you? The reason why you found yourself in such position is unknown to you but God knows it all, stop comparing your man with the other guy. What if you got married to the other guy and things are hard too, I'm sure you all you will wish be complaining as well. In whatever situation, there is always a reason for everything. Pray and fast and let God take control of your home situation.

zion baby said...

Lolz@Stella with her advice.
@poster leave your else alone and concentrate on your baby daddy abi na husband.
Like Stella said, as you made your bed so will you lie on top
Enjoy your marriage😝😝😝

martini said...

Your case is very simple. Just tell the guy you are living with to go and complete your marriage rites in your village and you will see how fast prosperity will locate your home. It has been discovered over time that such half hazard marriage rites always brings hardship to the parties involved. You dont need fasting and prayers on this. Make sure you thank me later. And just kill whatever link you have with your ex cos thats no chemistry. He just feels bad and wants to taste your cookie once more not Like he is still into you. So just face your problem and get it solved instead of complicating it.

happiness is free/creamy cakes ajah..08186505645.. said...

Stella,her abroad might be Cotonou ooo...na abroad sef na..

Martini Bricks said...

Your case is very simple. Just tell the guy you are living with to go and complete your marriage rites in your village and you will see how fast prosperity will locate your home. It has been discovered over time that such half hazard marriage rites always brings hardship to the parties involved. You dont need fasting and prayers on this. Make sure you thank me later. And just kill whatever link you have with your ex cos thats no chemistry. He just feels bad and wants to taste your cookie once more not Like he is still into you. So just face your problem and get it solved instead of complicating it.

obi victoria ebere said...

Ashawo kobo kobo. That's what you get for sleeping around at your tender age when your age mate were busy planing for there future. U better shush it and continue to enjoy the suffering bcos that's what an hoe like u deserve.

Martins Aboy said...

@poster;the only reason you wanna hook up with your Ex is simply cos your baby Daddy is broke..
im not saying you are greedy,selfish or self-centered;but my question is:

What will you do if you finally hook-up with your Ex and he gets broke at some point?? Can you still continue?? Or would you continue look for another Ex to run to??

Madam,you are your own problem!!
Work on yourself and know what exactly you want in life...

Dont you have potentials?? Standards?? Priorities?? Targets in life??

Build up yourself first madam..find something doing that can sustain you and your child,and if finally you see A man to settle down with;Do it cos you have truly found love! And not cos the person would settle your bills or any other secondary reason you have in mind(even when its hard for you to admit that)

#regards

@MARTINS ABOY

Staphylococcus Aureus said...

Dear poster,
You made your choice, so live with it and stop mentioning God's name anyhow as if He is the root of your problem. And please leave the said village people out of this.
First step is taking Responsibilities for your actions. Forget these two men, grow up first, pick up the pieces of your life and start afresh.
There are many young mothers who are doing well for themselves (first example is me, I had my son when I was 19). So stop whining and more importantly stop blaming your son's dad for taking away your youth. You were 21( an adult)

Blackberry said...

Mumu chronicle, come back naa, if I was ur ex, I would fuck you without condom, give u anal n chase u away!
Nonsense!

diamond in d house said...

Dats d thing wit people, u mk mistake, u ask God y u. Did God ask u 2 cheat on ur bf, did he ask u 2 get pregnant 4 ur baby daddy? He gave u a guy dat luvs u , in fact a guy dat has bin in luv wit u 4 so many yrs kwing fully well u were dating someone else, yet he waited 4 u, wat more do u need if not 2 luv him, respect n b faithful 2 him. Now u r blaming God. Just as stella said, as u mk ur bed, so shall u lie in it. Gudluk wit ur lyf.

diamond in d house said...

Dats d thing wit people, u mk mistake, u ask God y u. Did God ask u 2 cheat on ur bf, did he ask u 2 get pregnant 4 ur baby daddy? He gave u a guy dat luvs u , in fact a guy dat has bin in luv wit u 4 so many yrs kwing fully well u were dating someone else, yet he waited 4 u, wat more do u need if not 2 luv him, respect n b faithful 2 him. Now u r blaming God. Just as stella said, as u mk ur bed, so shall u lie in it. Gudluk wit ur lyf.

Tilly said...

She really made her bed. This is the result of living your live without caution. It ends up in regret. And what is done cannot be undone.
Please let your ex go. Dont use your ragae to spoil his blues. Dont complicate his life with your troubles.Tell your parents exactly what you are going through. Theres no point suffering in silence.
And as Stella said if you are truly abroad,the child's welfare should be taken care of. You must not live abroad if you suffering this much. Talk to your parents and go back home and then think about what next to do with your life and take care of your child.
You messed up but you still have time to make things right

Lillian French said...

stella, nigerians call south africa, tunisia, mozambique abroad.So understand...

Suoebi(Niger delta finest) said...

No be all abroad be abroad na,she might be somewhere else in Africa or Asia

EESAH (Christ Lover) said...

Obviously, the consequence of marrying the wrong way. When a man finds a wife ie, marries her the right way, he obtains favors from the Lord and such marriage. usually comes with blessing left right and centre. But when its done the wrong way, this is how you will be encountering lots of wahala most times.

Pple enable to marry the right way to lessen most of these kinda wahala and to incurs the blessings that comes with marriage . The right way which is, meet ur partner, marry him/her then have sex. Not meet your partner, have sex then marry, or meet your partner have sex and cohabit without marriage like you guys are doing.

ENDEAVOUR TO MARRY THE RIGHT WAY! START ON THE RIGHT FOOT AND WATCH AS GOD BLESSES THAT UNION.

DonMayor said...

Abeg carry your wahala and face front. Leave that guy with his soon to be wife if you no wan make God punish you the more.
You say you be lover girl ? I don't even know what you are feeling like.


You are nothing but a loser.
Olobo werepe.

Karma said...

Easy tiger,Lmaooooo.....

redbotafly said...

Theres no chemistry between u two dnt kid urself.
He only wants to see u so he can gbensh u for d last time before he finally gets married.
Focus on ur biz,family n hw to make tins better.

Tierney said...

Ouch!! Dats cold

Karma said...

You are so right.....Even Cotonou sef,all join

#NaMeTalkAm said...

Your royal highness Madam Stellz.. Republic of Benin might be abroad o..lol..

Karma said...

But she doesn't know you naaaaau.....clap for yourself, as role model that you "IS"!! I'm happy line fell in pleasant places for you dear!!

Empress CHO said...

He made you waste your youth, attack from his uncle, even your ill-timed relationship and consequent pregnancy was blamed on erratic feelings masked in the description "Lovegirl". Aside your penance, you playing breadwinner and St. Povertina to your husband and brother....you really have a problem with accepting responsibility for your actions.

I am wary of Nigerians who rope in voodoo talks and scream attacks when things are not going well for them. Many atimes, it's an attempt to distort reality, create an excuse for results of sometimes deliberate terrible decisions.

You were "dating" this guy, travelled abroad and pressed on lovergirl buttons. Made a deliberate decision to have sex and then you got married. Now, marriage has cleared the whole emotional high and reality is staring down at you. You didn't date your hubby, you guys barely have areas of compatibility, you both didn't make any PLANS. Your problem is not spiritual biko, you met that guy abroad, if it was that bad, he wouldn't see an airport. Your current problem is due to lack of planning, and then his younger brother has to join you people on minimal income. You and your hubby are your witches and wizard

You've made some mistakes....played loose, sorry that comes out kinda judgemental; and now you have the trouble that comes with "belle marriage" in your hands. Do not add manipulator and adulteress into the equation.
This Ex of yours was never a first option for you, your mistake has made him attractive and his soon out of reach status will make him doubly sexy soon to you.
Back off, do not take advantage of his feelings for you and distract him from loving his Mrs right.

You and your hubby need to re-arrange your priorities, send that brother home if he's not useful there. Open up to your family for help. Do not encourage laziness in your hubby with that voodoo story and finally take your case to heaven.
Marriage has been contracted, right or wrong, it counts in the sight of God. In the absence of violence, abuse, threat to life, adultery and dangerous habits and addiction, it can be fixed still.

Finally, making it abroad is not everybody's destiny. If things are so pitiable as you paint...swallow shame and pride and come back to Nigeria. At least, your family can assess and assist you. Goodluck.

Olori footwear said...

Poster just go away please. What a crooked chronicle. He is still into you, o si jupiter? Ya bu nke nwoke?
Again, fasting and praying doesn't make your wahala go away..

Monkeynofine said...

I keep saying it women only have problems where there's no money. MEN please work hard to make it big because even if ur woman share gari with u today just know she ve not find someone that's better than u. lack of money is one of the major problem in marriages these days.

nnuku Sexy pant-like boxers. 08170506432 Order now said...

Dear Poster the difference you are yet to come in terms with is you are married now
when a woman becomes married , it doesn't matter who fends for who.
if it you that has money it becomes our money
so all this i feed him, i fend for him means nothing atall
your money is his money , his money is your money .

Tell him to double his hussle too, and no don't run back to your ex coz your baby papa is a brokeass. you see this cloud wey gather so..
No one knows it could be rain of blessing on him .. it now our not i .. take note

Henny said...

Some of us in Naija that attended local secondary and tertiary Institutions speaks and write better than some people that went to Overseas to further their education, that aside. A lover girl that doesn't know how to use condoms, you left your guy within a short period of time and started sleeping around receiving sperm and getting pregnant now you are crying blue murder. What I see in your case is that you are the bad head. From one struggling guy to another. Six good years, your child is still at home and you call yourself a mother. You cannot provide school fees yourself and your child. Your family provides and take decisions for you because they know that you are a fool. Please let that Naija guy go in peace and continue to sleep on your bed with the bed sheet you use to spread it. OZUO'. See as the thing dey vex me. Idiotic human being wey like dick pass food. Now Your Suffering Continue (NYSC)

Mao Akuh said...

Don't break anyone's relationship/marriage as a result of your foolishness. Na so we dey advice de small small girls of 18-22yrs make dem take things easy, for where, dem no wan gree. SPERM no be water, e dey produce twins, triplet, etc per sex without condom.

Face your life and make sure you give that kid proper education. If you must starve, starve and starve everyone and use the money to raise that kid. What you sow is what you reap.

Fan Emmanuel said...

Hahahaha.... Even Ghana. Yimu!!

Nneyo said...

Tell your husband to go and complete your marriage rites.

Mao Akuh said...

Chukwu biko ekwekwala ka nwa'm mee this kind mistake o...Amen

Olori_1812 said...

poster your story sounds twisted true true..

Anonymous said...

Idiot... You are just saying all this bcos your hubby is going through hard times. Thieves

Henny said...

Some of us in Naija that attended local secondary and tertiary Institutions speaks and write better than some people that went to Overseas to further their education, that aside. A lover girl that doesn't know how to use condoms, you left your guy within a short period of time and started sleeping around receiving sperm and getting pregnant now you are crying blue murder. What I see in your case is that you are the bad head. From one struggling guy to another. Six good years, your child is still at home and you call yourself a mother. You cannot provide school fees yourself and your child. Your family provides and take decisions for you because they know that you are a fool. Please let that Naija guy go in peace and continue to sleep on your bed with the bed sheet you use to spread it. OZUO'. See as the thing dey vex me. Idiotic human being wey like dick pass food. Now Your Suffering Continue (NYSC)

pure inspirations said...

It's funny when things go wrong people turn around and blame God. Smh.

In obeying God's Word is safety, so sweethrt take responsibility for ur actions and stop looking for who to blame.

Don't evn blame ur baby daddy. Blame urself for the decisions u made that put u in this position.

Cos as long as u don't own up and take responsibility, u will get evn more frustrated and unhappy.

This is d time take things d way they are and make d best out of d situation.

Right now u are emotionally vulnerable and looking for a man figure who will give to u d love and romance that u lack in ur life right now and naturally ur ex fits in so perfectly.

But is it a wise move? No.

Leave ur ex alone and focus on ur family. Look for ways to work it out. Bring God into ur home. He knows what to do with a broken situation.

Ur ex is still clearly in love wd u but he has to learn to let go and it's only u who can effectively help him do that.

Sit him down(over d phone of course) and ask him to move on. Give him ur blessings and wish him a happy married life.

Make him understand that what's done is done and keeping in touch wd him won't just hurt both of u but those around u(ur loved ones). He needs to understand d gravity of what's at stake.

It's better u cut ties wd each other and move on wd ur lives cos meeting up will only turn an alrdy bad case into worse case.

Go to work on ur marriage and leave ur ex alone. That path will bring nothing but bad luck.


Mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com

Mrs. Romas said...

Young lady, leave your ex alone in peace. You are a heartbreaker. You spread your bed the way you want, so lye comfortably on it.

Your baby daddy did not turn you into baby mama, you said youare a lover girl, you wanted to live the wild life.

If you truly live abroad, your child should be in school, you don't have to pay school fee in a government school.
Please, face your business and your child and let sleeping dogs lie.

Flakkie Chris said...

This poster is a real piece of shit! I don't like being judgmental in this chronicles section, but this is just the height. You've laid your ashewo bed, now lie on it in peace. Let that guy live his life. Stell's this fucktard abroad na Ghana or ivory coast. Such a waste!

Adeniji Bisi said...

So sad anyway BT I have no words for u...just pray to God to hasten his blessing and leave that innocent guy alone cuz u sound so desperate.

Mc pinky

General Zod said...

The price of selfishness. Why not come back to Nigeria instead of living hand to mouth over there as you said? And why bother with the Nigerian boyfriend when all he wants to do now d smash? All the chats amount to nothung and He will not take you seriously for any reason.

Anonymous said...

Are those countries nt overseas? Jealous lot...abeg shift

Anonymous said...

Dear poster, please get your priorities right, ur son should be in school first imagine that u went to school for the first time at his age forget about ur ex,complete ur marriage blessings including church and make it marriage work, all the best dear

Anonymous said...

Madam take responsibility for your actions,that's the only way to be happy in life..live your life looking forward not backward..focus on your child and on your 'half' husband..decide if you want to be fully married to him or not.not . If your answer is no then move on with your life,hustle and look for ways to work,finish your education and take care of your child..leave your ex alone..allow him to move on with his life and marriage..you never loved him and im sure you probably never will..your'half' husband and your baby are definitely not the cause of your problems,you made wrong decisions in your youth madam..please deal with them and stop blaming everyone else but yourself

RICHBEE said...

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Anonymous said...

She dey Ghana!

Anonymous said...

Stella in d abroad cld be either ghana or Togo na! Dis girl nor serious with her life at all! Beta live dat young man to marry his beloved wife in peace!u laid ur bed,so fucking lie on it! Kapish?

Anonymous said...

Poster,I know you n you really broke your mother's heart with what you did.You were sent to Ghana to study. May God direct you.

Saint Jeanne said...

Stella , African countries na aboard shebi?

Saint Jeanne said...

Stella , African countries na aboard shebi?

Monkeynofine said...

To think he was not her first bf oooo babe was expecting a big
GOLD after sex not babyπŸ˜„

Spicy April said...

Rightly said dear.

IJAY said...

Please stay with your husband ohhhhh don't go and break someone's else home

Anonymous said...

It took you 10mins to read this short narrative? You must be a dunce

Anonymous said...

Where "in the abroad" are you? Women eh, we never learn. maybe others will advice you, your story is very annoying.

Anonymous said...

Or South Sudan. Lolzzzz

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Stella you mirrored my thoughts on the child's education. And poster you're a lose indisciplined person. Can't close your legs or stick to one man. Only u carry belle when u had a bf you love in naija. Abeg women who can't think smartly irritate me. Go meet ur ex let him sleep with you and give you small change and you return back to the miserable bed you laid. If you want to leave your baby daddy juat leave and face your life. What's all this man hopping? Jeez!! And your written English is so poor pls go back to school and try educate that child too!!!

Dauntless Cersei said...

Your tale is disjointed. Please where in the abroad are you? You people are poor yet have Wifi? So you have mind and time to be paying for unnecessary stuff when you have a six year old who isn't going to school under your care?

Bitch....I know you just wanna fuck another dick, pls go ahead and do it then send in more chronicles.

RiRi said...

Maybe d abroad she is talking about is cotonu...coz me I am not understanding all these abroad yarns.

Jules Louis said...

Bia this foolish girl! Leave that your ex alone o. Before u incur more wrath on your self. U don't deserve him. Focus on your already messed up life and teach your child to behave better. Don't drag that innocent man into your shenanigans abeg.

Victor Emeka said...

Confused stupidity is d caption

Anonymous said...

U d kind of girl ma momma warned me about..u probably prefer to collect from ur guy than spend for ur guy..ur bf is jst so unlucky.. Mtcheww

Jules Louis said...

Say what????
She should go to d guy in nigeria for wetin.
Abeg park well!
If d nigerian guy is your brother, won't u go and wash his head with coconut water so he can forget this hoe?

Jules Louis said...

Seconded!

Jules Louis said...

Gbam!

Jules Louis said...

Jeez! Na there e reach?

Mrs James said...

Lol...
See bashing
I love my SDK BVs

S & M said...

God bless u for this comment. One thousand likes.

IVORY said...

Well said, babe is a complete dopehead and if u dare see that your first bobo,name revenge sex o.he'll sleep with you and spit in your face,then get on with his life.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

And stop asking God why u,who else should it be?you betrayed someone that adores n probably worships d ground u walked on and you are there saying one uncle is doing u?common go n face ur baby n baby daddy and leave d innocent guy alone to live his life in peace* tongue click*

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...
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Anonymous said...

Poster aswear u no normal.How can you say he turned you into a mum at 21 as if you are not the one that turned him into a father.Jakujaku girl.You better start loving your baby daddy today.

Anonymous said...

Poster aswear u no normal.How can you say he turned you into a mum at 21 as if you are not the one that turned him into a father.Jakujaku girl.You better start loving your baby daddy today.

Anonymous said...

Haphazard not half hazard.

Anonymous said...

This story is so conflicting:
1. If you truely live "abroad" your six year old kid, should not have a problem attending school (free public school education), except there are developmental challenges.
2. If you live in Nigeria and are able to pay for "free wifi" in your house, then things are not as bad as you imply"

You really need to pick a struggle,let us know where to start from

Anonymous said...

Stella, I don't mean to be harsh here but the girl made sentences that made me angry."Never enjoyed love making with my baby's dad cos i felt he made me waste my youth,turned me into a mum at 21 and now we can hardly take care of this innocent kid,so what's the point of having sex? I'm just 26 and i feel i am still too young for all this". If they were doing well, she wont complain oh! Your parents sent you to school to get good education, you said abroad but I am really not sure where maybe you are in Niger Republic. Instead of you to face your studies, you said mba and you faced dick education and you got pregnant! You weren't forced oh. Face the path you have chosen FOOLISH GIRL! You are so selfish. Change your ways if not you will dance atiloqwu dance on third mainland bridge. Hiss

Blessing Esumike said...

Can we stop judging her pls!
My dear, leave ur husband,enroll ur child in a skool and start afresh. Ure still young the sky is ur limit but pls don't see ur ex oh ,stop talking to him hz gon sleep wt u and get married to his wife don't give him free cookie abeg learn to close urthing

Okpala Cynthia said...

Come and kneel down here at my feet and receive some sense in jesus name. Every confusion clouding your life for the past years, I command it, leave now.

Okpala Cynthia said...

Come and kneel before me and receive some sense. I command every confusion clouding your life to leave now, nowwww

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Kwakwakwakwa...
How did you know?...

Push up said...

Aunty stella she said she lived abroad doesn't mean it's the abroad you are talking about, for all we know it could b ghana. Buhahaha. Well I don't know what to tell you, maybe you should tell your parents about it or come back to nigeria as for that your fomer boyfriend please leave him alone. You made your choice so deal with it, don't drag an innocent woman into your mess

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Yes I will rather collect from my guy than spend on him cause That's the natural order of things. It's lazy men like you and your dad that probably warped your mother's sense of reasoning. Sit your lazy ass around and wait for a woman to spend on you ok? Asswipe!

Anonymous said...

So you aren't taking responsibility for your action, why did God let you fall into this, your husband stole your youth? When you were jumping from one man to another spreading your leg you didn't remember God

Take responsibility for your action and stop lamenting

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Welcome back. I've missed your comments

Anonymous said...

Poster you planted pawpaw and so you are now reaping pawpaw. You think you are frustrated ehn? Well this is just the tip of the iceberg and it gives you an idea of what u put our naija guy thru. And ps everyone is a lover somebody and stop disturbing our ears wiv that 'I am a lover shit' just Bcz you have refused to discipline yourself. Abeg if u were thinking that we all would advise u to divorce your baby daddy you are sleeping on a bicycle. You never enjoyed sex wiv ur baby daddy but u were 'loving each other' and then u got pregnant and now ur son is 6years old? Just shut up!!! And make sure u grow up too and that means u must take responsibility for ur actions. You are the one who has wasted your own youth face the truth and deal wiv it. Evil girl!!! I am a babe but I no fit permit wetin u do this guy, lailai!!! Go and confess to God and repent please. Else your way is still very far.

Marjorie

Isholacooku said...

As a SD card u got calling it heart, rushing urself *lover girl, hmmm you've find the love na, enjoy while it last, you betrayed the poor guy, forming you're easy to get abi, hmmm because you're easy to get that's why all the problems get you easily naa, you didn't talk about all the giidies you enjoyed before marriage from you baby papa, as time don come to face the other side please fave it, una go come turn Stella to emergency Messiah to fix self created problem s that you even filter before sending. You no talk as you dey avoid the guy in Nigeria when you dey gbensh your abroad guy, as you no dey reply the guy msg becos you busy with 360. Abegy waka jare

Madea said...

Stella, if she was on student's visa, she can't file for social security benefits na. She ain't no citizen that is if she is in the U.S tho.
I don't understand people who waive priority aside and indulge in the frivolous. You were sent to go develop yourself and get a certificate, you went to get pregnant. Before 21 you don get at least 3 BFs. Are boys going extinct that you just can't concentrate and bag a certificate for yourself?
You dare ask God why you? No o, it should have been me o. Namsense. Abeg clear for road make we see. See you trying to create a chequered life for yourself for no reason. More so, don't pregnant people attend uni abroad? Hian.

In conclusion, gini ka ina ako???

Anonymous said...

Poster ps come there's still remedy for your case. Come and collect fresh/new brain and it will fix your life. For the corner of your mind na this one too na chronicle? Abeggi! You plant pawpaw you must reap the pawpaw back. Them no tell u the one other person wey dey do u. Na U & your uncles(former bfs) dey do u.

Marjorie

Anonymous said...

No mind the poster make e dey there dey run mumu race. e think say life na ludo. E just siddon make imself casualty later dey look for who go chop blame.

Marjorie

PL THE GREAT said...

She's IN THE ABROAD. if you wanna lie, why not tell a convincing lie? Don't know what you want us to tell you,if at 26 you can't even take responsibilities for your actions.
Abeg next!


Oshisco.

Anonymous said...

I spent for a guy and was treated like rags, the one who didn't spend was treated as gold. Who spending for a guy epp?

Anonymous said...

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peace maker said...

@Staphylococcus Aureus ur name alone indicates that all is not well.And becoming a baby mama @ 19 is nothing to be proud of

World People said...

The dumbest girl ever ... infact u deserve serious beating . When u hung leg on the window like stefynsofly and collected buckets of sperm you ddnt know , u were wasting ur youth? They sent you to read ur books but U couldn't leave man alone to face ur work , even knowing u had a faithful and loving BF back home .
If I hear pim from you , u laid ur bed , now gently climb on it and lie quietly ... i no get wetin to advise you

Anonymous said...

May God help u

Victoria Oddiri said...

It's *Limerence*. U try sha Atheist no doubt.

Anonymous said...

Most girls are foolish stupid and selfish and they end up messing their lives up...u lost ur real husband for a the wrong one....girl, u just reset ur destiny in a negative way...95% of women make thos mistake...a woman will meet the man God created for her , once in her life time, but the devil will certainly come to mess it up for her ...the devil won in this case

Anonymous said...

Poster ps look here and do as Martini has described. One of the best practical steps to solving this issue.
@Martini thanks for addressing the topic

Marjorie

Anonymous said...

Cameroun is abroad too...
Kwakwakwaaaa!
Lmao... Abroad indeed!!!

Anonymous said...

So ur momma asked U not to work hard to be the man of the relationship???
Did she also encourage you to collect from women??? Rubbish!
Na me talk am, I am so with you on this! Any man I date must spend on me and I am not broke at all. I spend on a guy only when he has overspent on me. Lol

Anonymous said...

Jules, are you by any chance related to the Naija guy???
You just carry the matter for head like gala!

Anonymous said...

Cameroun join sef!

Anonymous said...

English teacher, well done ooo!

Mrs James said...

You just a disgrace with your tenses.. Nonsense

Mrs James said...

How you know???

Mrs James said...

After reading all these advices o.... Chronicle poster please don't commit suicide o... Remember your child....

them Go Taya said...

Them go taya

Amacastel said...

All hail to all judgenus bvs nobody is perfect pls u all have made mistake atlist once in our lives,
Poster advise for you is dese:
Park out of that house, since the 2 men in the house refuse to work &live up to their responsibility as men trust me they are sending money back home in Nigeria they relax bcos they felt u are equal to the task me I can't feed any man oo God in heaven knws that.
Go back home to Nigeria that's if you are in African country go & stat afresh seek forgiveness &help from ur family as a prodigal daughter you are they won't kill you they will just tounge lash you that's all.
You are to young to be feeding two lazy broke ass . Hrloo girl if ur ex can help you pls don't hesitate to accept his help but pls don't break his marriage. Pls leave that lazy broke man who knw that he is broke &jobless yet invite his brother over to live with him .if he makes it tomorrow trust me he will look for another more educated lady.
If you are in UK or America then follow stella advise of registering ur child in govt ,then pack out of the house don't go back pls start afresh without that lazy man, God willingly try go back to sch finish up get a better job. The lord is ur strength .

Imported Suzzy Lalaagbon said...

You better wit that your ass with the man you've chosen and stop deceiving yourself!
Guys will say and do anything to get d cookie at d side which kain yeye love up!
N who told u he is crying upandan! Adding salt to d soup.. abegi!

Leave all d lovey lovey story. Njoy ur husband n kid n stop lookn for what's nt dre cos nobody send you msg.

Imported Suzzy Lalaagbon said...

Thanks Ivory.

How can a man be washing your head with jik like ds and ur belle dey sweet.
You thnk the guy I a fool?!
He jst wana ferk u I u go stll give am punani. And yea, he's heard a crious rtship after you severally! You need to open that your head n start thnkn!

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