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Friday, November 18, 2016

John Edobor,Man Accused Of Destroying Wife's Legs With Iron Bar Tells His Story.

John Edobor who is accused of damaging his wife's legs with an iron bar when he repeated flogged on them and has been charged with attempted murder,went on his facebook handle to FINALLY scribble what he calls his side of the story.....Please read if you havent already.



My own story. My Ordeal in the hands of Ivie


Ivie Angela Edobor who lives in Surulere, Lagos, got married at Saint Dominics Catholic Church, 356, Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos on Saturday, 30th June, 2007 at 12:00noon. We did the traditional marriage ceremony at the father’s compound at Abisogun Estate, Alafia Sari-Iganmu, off Lagos Badagry Expressway on a Thursday, 28th June, 2007. And as well as the marriage Registry in Lagos at Ikoyi on the 17th January, 2007 (all the marriage documents are attached).

Ivie and I are blessed with three lovely children (three girls – senior 9 years old; second – 7 years and 4 years old respectively). Ivie and I had lived together all these years in peace devoid of rancour and acrimony together and love.

Ivie Edobor once worked for Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc until she resigned her appointment on the 11th July, 2011 in view of the fact that she was been accused of collecting kickbacks from the bank's contractors in order for her to perform her duties as administrative staff. She exhibited these traits of fraud, corrupt practices and financial misappropriation which led to her termination and dismissal from Econet (now Airtel)
… Prior to marrying me she once worked at a prominent multinational mobile company (Econet now Airtel) where She was dismissed for lack of integrity due to lies in addition to her serial borrowing from her many colleagues.

When Ivie resigned from Stanbic IBTC Bank in 2011, (find attached her resignation letter) in order for her not to be at home doing nothing, we both had a discussion on her nest line of what she could do and then she suggested that she wanted to start importing diapers from the United Kingdom (UK) and start distributing and selling in retail which I obliged her by giving her initial start-up capital of about N500, 000 (Five Hundred Thousand Naira) and as the year progresses, we noticed that the business was moving I had to borrow moneys from friends and with my personal savings to inject into the business which amounted to about N8million (Eight Million Naira Only).

Every year, it was our agreement that audit be done to ensure that, the business is actually doing well and to make sure tax is paid to Government as well. This was actually adhered to in 2012 and in 2013, I noticed that Ivie had refused to call the accountant to come audit her books. I kept insisting on the audit to be done since she knows the accountant and have his contacts and moreover where we were staying in Ajah at No 76, House 3, Street X, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Ajah, Lagos, was not far from where the accountant was actually living in Ajah.

This persisted until in September 17th 2014 when strange faces of people I had never met or spoken with before kept coming to knock at my gate as early as 5a.m. every morning to demand for their moneys from Ivie and when the amount was added together that came knocking and requesting for their moneys it came to about N25,204,250 (Twenty Five Million, Two Hundred and Four Thousand, Two Hundred and Fifty Naira Only). Please see attached the list of people she was owing and these people are available if you which to speak with them. Most of them said Ivie told them that her dad was sick and she needs money to treat her very sick dad. Just like she has said on FB that I dont give her money....

Despite all these borrowings, Ivie could not account for what the sum of N25, 204,250 was spent on and till date she has not being able to explain in clear terms what the money was used for. She could not explain to me or her family members how she spent such huge sum of money. It became clear of recent after two years that she actually borrowed these moneys to save face from shame since Mr. Matthew Agbaire who she was dating was threatening to blackmail her if she could not part with money anytime Matthew Agbaire requested for any sum to use for himself.

On 11 October 2014, one of the ivie’s creditors known as Tolu and her family members, came to the house when I had gone for a training, dragged my sister (Otekpen) out of the bathroom when she was having her bath and assaulted and humiliated her. The matter was reported by me to the Nigerian Police Station, Ogombo, Ajah, Lagos and the matter was recorded in crime diary S/NO 80, Time 2055 HRS. (go and verify for yourselves).
When the threat of violence was becoming too much, I advised ivie to relocate to her father’s house temporarily till a time that the entire or substantial part of the indebtedness would have been defrayed and the threat of violence most especially on the children of the marriage would stop.
After Ivie left our matrimonial home as agreed, we were still meeting on Fridays to Sundays at the matrimonial home in Ajah to discuss our family affairs. And we were during this period still performing our marital responsibility to each other. (evidence to support this assertion with printed copies of correspondence between us and her pregnancy.)

In November 24th, 2015, Ivie was pregnant for me with twins which she confirmed severally in our chat (see attached for your perusal and confirmation the Ultra Sound Scan Report for the LMP and EDD) and the pregnancy grow for 5 (five) months and the babies had become 5(five) months old in June.


Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the apartment in Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie deceded to stay back in surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me while on weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married with his own kids.

Until May 2016, when my kids where on midterm break, and they came to spend the holiday with me in Yaba that two of my children told me that, every night, one uncle Matthew was always coming to the house to sleep in mummy’s room till the next day and he will buy them suya. And when I asked Ivie she initially denied until I showed her a video clip of what the childthat she then admitted (see attached our chat for your perusal) and at this time Ivie was still pregnant.

Since Ivie knew the consequences of her action she begged and pleaded that, she would need to go for confession which she did in June 5th, 2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba. There she promised the reverend father Felix never to go back to such life again. Two days later I received a phone call from the house help that, Matthew came again to take her out and did not return until late in the night. When I asked Ivie she denied and she beat up the house help as well as collected her phone from her.

At this time Ivie had threatened she was going to flush the babies since I am doubting the paternity of the twin. Because, I asked Ivie if you are pregnant for me and still kept sleeping with another man (Matthew Agbaire) so who own the babies? We would need to do a DNA test to actually know who their father is.

Three days later, Ivie and Matthew Agbaire went to abort the babies since she was worried that I kept insisting on the DNA of the children. When I asked ivie what happened to the babies she said she could not face the shame of having bastard children which am not ready to father and this kept me worried up till now since Ivie could kill children that were already formed (7months) babies.

I spoke with the father who lives in Orile, in Lagos and even went to see him about it and all I got from the father was he will talk to Ivie and two of her aunties and I tried calling her mother who lives in UK but she would not pick her calls and as well told my family members about it too.

On what happened in June 19th 2016, incident that got ivie admitted at Tokin Hospital for broken leg, contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got injured during a scuffle between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought out a hammer his tool box in his car to fight me when Ivie at sighting me started shouting ole, ole for the security men to come and kill when Matthew brought her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while the children were left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care for them while Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex. Ivie in an attempt to allow Matthew to run away was holding on to my hands backward and in the course of my struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and then, Matthew wanted to seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his hand on me which I dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the second time after first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she shouted, when saw him trying to raise his hand again, I had to row over ivie and stood on my feet before the security men came to rescue the situation. Matthew quickly rushed her to a hospital in Surulere perhaps the same hospital the twin was aborted by Ivie and Matthew.

Ivie has consistently told people that I have not been taking care of the children school fees (find attached the receipts of my children school fees till date for your perusal) and that because they are girls and not boys that was the reason I drove her out of the matrimonial home. This statement is reckless and unfortunate because I love my daughters and in several instances I had used prominent woman who are role models like Okonjo Iwala to buttress my stand on this even to her. I do know for sure my children will grow up to be greater than men and their knowledge will be sort after around the world. She has push out false information to the public for her to continuously gain sympathy from the public, press, bloggers, the civil society and human rights activist.

In another case, she has said I came prepared with the intention to kill her that night she was injured by Matthew, with a knife and of recent a dagger and crowbar or wheel spanner to attack her. And I keep wondering with the inconsistency the tools she keep naming that I used. The fact is, I came into Lagos that night (18th June, 2016) from school in Ile - Ife at about 9p.m. with my school bag and book in it and my car was parked at the stadium where I drove to her house which is a stone throw away from her house and I did not get Yaba before going to see her that night since we had agreed to meet that night. Matthew was the one who works for a construction company and had his tool box where he brought out his big hammer he used on Ivie.

It will shock you to know that Ivie was married to one Mr. Benedith Jatto on the 17th December 2002 a document she used in her NYSC and equally in her former place of employment while she was working with Airtel Nigeria. I got to know and see all of these when this issue came up and a copy of the document is available for your perusal. And up till date that married has not been dissolved which means ivie is legally married to two men.

Ivie is doing all these for her to hide her shame and the face of Matthew Agbaire a father of two who is still married to his wife, and work in Centrix Allied Limited who is the brain behind her termination of the twin and the her broken leg. It is unfortunate that Ivie is acting this way because as my wife and mother of my beautiful children this is not the way I planned for us.

As a responsible father I have consistently played my role and provided for them to the best of my ability all that they needed.

So please tell me how I went wrong.... You can imagine my shock to find out that I am her 2nd husband...was it wrong of me to have encouraged and empowered my wife? Please tell me which man will take it...she only shouted out so the issue of the children she killed will not come limelight.


























287 comments:

  1. I hope people will be patient enough to read this and know that every story has two sides. What could be the story thwy are blackmailing the lady with??? May the right person win and may God restore joy in the persons life amen.

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    1. I love the fact this man back proof everything he is saying, so ivie just needs to come out and defend herself with proves as well else na them sabi.

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    2. It is always good to hear from two parties involved before passing judgment. Men please always seek the face of God before getting married

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    3. It is always good to hear from two parties involved before passing judgment. Men please always seek the face of God before getting married

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    4. Both of them are not good but the woman has a dirty past.

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    5. Some women deserve a broken spinal cord. Imagine nonsense.

      All these people that act like they own the word Respect, but doesn't act It.

      I pray you find peace of heart Sir

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    6. Hmnnnn I tend to believe this man more. Stella please henceforth take no stance. Let us judge objectively and rationally.

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    7. Whiteberry,all these proofs can be fabricated i hope you know? U can use anybodys name n dp on whatsapp.

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    8. I don't believe any of the stories. These tribes (Edo and Delta) can raise the dead with their lies. If you have not had cause to deal with them, you won't understand what I'm saying. They are very good LIARS.

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    9. White berry, ivie does not need to defend herself against anything,just the way you don't have to defend yourself against your constant begging. the issue here is about attempted murder not adultery. Adultery is not a Crime, same thing with begging, but a sin,let God be the judge of that. Use your brain to think logically instead of talking off point. Women against women since time immemorial. Mtcheeee

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    10. Why did it take u dis long to come out? Why did u go to her house at night? U said she's living with her parents, how come she's staying alone with a help now?
      I av so many questions.
      But this story doesn't add up.
      From experience I know when men want to rubbish a woman, especially a married one, they accuse her of adultery.
      That man that killed his wife last year, after she died he came out to say she was sleeping about.
      Oga, I'm sorry, I don't believe u.
      Even ur evidence can be cooked.
      Well, only God knows who is telling d truth.
      But can a woman be so evil as to accuse u of breaking her legs when u obviously didn't? *sighs*
      Let's see how this plays out.
      But I don't buy d adultery card. Good luck to you.

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    11. UPDATE ON THE CASE OF IVIE EDOBOR: THE NEED TO KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL

      As the Americans would say: "Always keep your eyes on the ball". The best way for the opponent to defeat you in any conflict is to force you to take your eyes away from the ball. That is is practically the move that Mr. John Edobor has made against Ivie Edobor, once he realized the gathering dangers around him.

      When DPA first got involved in this case, I realized that the case possessed every element that is needed for mud slings - sex, scandal, betrayal, power, litigation, violence, pain and suffering. I pitied Ivie because she was clearly at a disadvantage. First, she is dealing in an environment where it is so easy to blame the woman. Second, she faced physical incapacitation with the attendant economic hardship that would prevent her from fighting a good fight. Her enemy took her out in the first round of the fight.

      John remained a manager in Zenith Bank throughout the period. For five months, he used his presence and continued employment in Zenith to prepare to battle his estranged wife. It was only a matter of time before John would brandish his weapons of mud and sleaze. He only waited this long because he thought he was in control of the dynamics of this conflict. But he was wrong. The tide turned last week after DPA entered into the picture. (By the way, I use this opportunity to assuage some DPA members who felt that the role of DPA in this case has not been adequately acknowledged. We need not ask for any acknowledgment. Our work speaks for itself). But make no mistake: DPA pushed for the upgrading of the charge from assault to attempted murder. That was the sole reason I went to court last week. (I didn't go to court just to show solidarity) Also, DPA has clarified the narrative and focused attention on the unfortunate and highly questionable position of Zenith Bank.

      Keeping our eyes on the ball requires us to stay focused on the issues that matter, regardless of attempt to alter the narrative through manipulated and selective evidence peddled on the personal walls of the accused man. One thing is this: John is defending a case that could send him to jail for the rest of his life. The incentive is too high that he would do anything to escape. Lying is the least thing he would worry about. Once John lost his job and now faces homicide-related criminal charges, you must prepare to expect the worst he is capable of.

      Since last week, Ivie has feared many dangers from John. John who had been threatening her since the past 5 months, suddenly began to plead for reconciliation. Ivie was so worried that John was getting to the verge of mental crack up and his stability was much in doubt. She feared for her safety and safety of her children. John was clearly becoming suicidal. I advised her on how to stay calm and on how to be cautions. I must say that if all that John ended up doing was to lie against Ivie with doctored chats logs, then we are relieved that he did much less than we had feared.

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    12. As the saying goes, always 2 sides to a story. Now, to the incidents of that sad day when her legs were broken, none of us know the entire truth. We heard her side, now we have his. Eventually, we may know the truth but then we must ask ourselves questions. This social media trend of hurriedly seeking sympathy from people and eventually soliciting funds from sympathizes worries me. That was where I suspected the Ivie saga was going and eventually we did get there. Ivie is a lady of highly questionable character, HIGHLY!!! She was fired in truth from her 2 jobs as her husband said for the reasons he mentioned. I know this for fact, I have known her for years. We went to secondary school together. Mind you I do not know Mr Edobor, but with all his paper evidence who do you believe? Let me tell you a little about Ivie. In secondary school, at such a tender age, we were all told about how she was being ill treated by her foster parents who had taken all of her inheritance after her parents died and how her step mum had tried to push her off a cliff in England. They wanted her dead! We were all so sympathetic for years!! This story was told in JSS1!!!! Eventually her twin sisters got into the school and we were also told they were kids from her step parents and just for no reason sometimes, as their seniors they'd get punished or sent on funny errands by Ivie's mates out of hate inspired by madam. She was said to have a severe case of asthma. Sometimes, she'd pass out and we'd all be running trying to get her to the sick bay! I remember once a friend of mine had to back her all the way to the sick bay in so much fear. Stella my sister, they were all a pack of LIES!!!!! She lived with her real parents, the twins were her kid sisters and she never, never had asthma. They were all lies! We found out years later. I think in SS2 or so. She'd kept up with the lies for years and embellished even more as years went by. It wasn't strange to hear later that even as an adult, she lost jobs for fraud and lies. Most of us who went to school with her have always believed that what was wrong with her was deep. I know you'd say come on, kids make up stories but such vile stories by a child about your family was just worrisome. In all of this, when this story broke, I just kept saying that we need to hear her husband's side. Her story didn't add up. I wondered why her sisters and family were not in the forefront of this fight. They're on Facebook too, actively so but never championing Ivie's cause and I wonder why. Please don't get me wrong I am a woman, totally against domestic violence but then, we mustn't always be quick to crucify a man on his wife's allegations. Now, if the husband is to be believed, do you see he didn't actually produce the said hammer. I pray both sides find peace for the children's sake and I hope we all learn from this.

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    13. Keeping our eyes on the ball demands that we remember the following:

      (1) Ivie and John were separated since the past two years without any intention to continue the marriage.

      (2) Prior to the separation, John committed domestic violence on Ivie multiple times.

      (3) During the time of separation, John has been with multiple women in sexual relationships, as shown by the picture attached in which John and a woman (not Ivie) were in bed.

      (4) On that faithful night in June, John came to Ivie's house at night and attacked Ivie with weapons and clearly with intent to kill her.

      The above facts are indisputable.

      Now let's us consider the fabled evidence that John has conjured up in his defense. John says:

      1) That he and his wife agreed to separate in order to evade creditors. (You know that is a lie. John is a banker. He knows that such is not a way to evade creditors when your children remain in the same school for a whole year after separation. Indeed, the reason the children remained in Ajah school, while Ivie was shuttling them from Badagry (where her father lived) to Ajah each day for school was because Ivie did not have money to register them in another school near her father's house).

      2) John claims that Ivie got pregnant and aborted it. (Again, you know that is likely a blackmail. John who could not feed three children he already had would not spend nights and days crying that his estranged wife aborted pregnancy with twins. Besides, if that was the case and John felt so bad about that, why would he go to fight Ivie in her house? He should have been eager to divorce her).

      3) John claimed that Ivie had relationship with another man during the time they were separated. He uses manipulated social media chat logs to buttress such contrivance. (But, really, even if were true, which I have refused to enter into, it is most unreasonable to expect that after 2 years of separation, your spouse would remain sexually loyal to you, especially when you had started living with another woman).

      Now, go over all the excuses and reasons that John has given. The only reason missing is the reason why he attacked Ivie Edobor so viciously? John will never find one reason to justify the attack on Ivie. That is the ball that we must keep our eyes on. What is the justification for his action?

      You must know that John was arrested at the scene. He alone was arrested. So, nobody else committed a crime that night. Nobody else attacked anybody other than John. Also, note that after arrest, John made statements and other witnesses made statements. At the end of it, the police decided to arraign him for assault. Note also that even after the case had commenced in court, the government felt that assault was not strong enough. They found that John had an intention to kill Ivie. That was why they changed the charge to attempted murder. It all means that nobody who has examined the evidence from a professional standpoint so far could buy the nonsensical stories John is now peddling. And I urge DPA members to disregards such nonsense. We shall keep our eyes on the ball and we are interested only in one thing - John's excuse for attempting to kill Ivie.


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    14. NOTE: You will see among what John attached a letter that Ivie purportedly wrote to Zenith apologizing for allegedly dragging Zenith's name to the mud. You are smart. You would wonder what kind of Bank would go to the extent of forcing a victim who was still in the hospital to write such a letter. That letter is actually a smoking gun against Zenith. In fact, with that letter, we can upgrade out accusations of Zenith Bank from breach of its social responsibility to active persecution and harassment and obstruction of justice. They forced Ivie to call the incident a family dispute that should be resolved within the family, even while the state is prosecuting it as a crime against the Nigerian public. The reason they forced her to describe the incident as such was actually to influence John's indictment and make it appear that it was indeed a family matter. That is called obstruction of justice.

      This case is just setting. I think that John has grossly miscalculated what is at stake here. The stories he peddles on his Facebook wall do not cut it at all, and DPA members and the general public will keep their eyes on the ball.

      Written By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire

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    15. White berry want kind of human being are you, you're always changing your statements. Stick to one and be happy. Haba

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    16. https://m.facebook.com/groups/133527986816712?view=permalink&id=675593172610188
      John Edobor the liar. Bastard!

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    17. Let's not even compare Ronke's own with this. Ronke's husband even gave a more plausible excuse than that carp up there. Now I know why some women wld not believe their children wen dey say dey abused. I cannot believe women are supporting this obvious lie. I mean d story is so silly it's nauseating. How can you say it's d boyfriend that used hammer to shatter her bones. How many times did d hammer take and hit her so bad that d bones were crushed. Definitely the men wld support deir fellow men even if dey know d truth in deir hearts. Okay sef n.a. d boyfriend you just allowed him to continue hitting her legs till Det were crushed and you Cldnt even defend her.

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    18. The bottom line is why did he break her leg. If she was cheating leave her alone biko that is no excuse to be violent.

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    19. All these evidence can be forged. The whatsapp own is even laughable cos all u need is edit whatsapp names with a friend and come up with this conversation. Now what has her finances and infidelity according to u Mr john has to do with breaking her legs????meanwhile,the picture of u and ur sugar mama playing lovey dovey on a bed is flying upandan Facebook. So why are u complaining if ur wife has a lover? She moved on! By d way,who aborts a 7months pregnancy? Aren't some babies even born at 7months??? Liar oshi!

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    20. Hmmmmm

      God knows I HATE Domestic violence with a passion! Men who hit women are spineless cowards!

      But with this story up here; this man MAY get away with this or better still get very small punishment!

      My only take on this matter is that he should go easy with the lies that he didn't hit her! That injury wasn't something done by mistake. It was a repeated hitting done with rage! And her lover can't do that to her!

      The character of the woman is not the bone of contention here, but for him to bring it up indebtly* the court won't overlook it!

      It's a pity really!

      May God grant her a quick recovery. Afterwards, they should face their lives individually...

      Ps: However, Aunty u get mind o! So u watched TWO fully developed babies wash down the drain because of silly paternity brouhahaha? Chai! Uwammebi*

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    21. I will never judge anyone again. Never.

      So it was even the Mr Matthew that hit her mistakenly cos he missed his target.


      Wow, If this man is right, then he didn't touch her at all.
      It was her boyfriend that hit her mistakenly.

      I'm sorry I judged the man.

      Ivie, if he's right, you know you caused all these right? Your boyfriend is to blame nao.

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  2. Stella you see how stupid you are?

    You see how you judged prematurely?

    You are very immature.

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    1. Close your silly mouth...what makes you think this is the true story.

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    2. U dat is matured y didn't u comment with ur blog ID

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    3. Silly child! Couldn't you state ur point without insult?

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    4. Anno 9.06 Haba , is that not too harsh from you to stella

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    5. You must be a fool. Was Stella the only one who carried the story. Bitter fool.

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  3. I read this on FB early this morning. This man has proof of everything he said, and the proof looks genuine. I only pity the kids involved. There's this page on FB - The Due Process Advocates, they posted a pic of John in bed with another woman. This story is messy. Cheating husband and wife but the wife's own is worse if she was really pregnant for one man and still sleeping with another....that's what animals do!

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    1. Very messy, it's good to listen to both sides of the story.

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    2. He brought all evidence needed, the woman is a useless woman, I was wondering how a man would just come to break your legs or kill you when he can give you rat poison. Useless women should learn from this, abeg carry your broken legs and get out... And yea I belive this man, see how she sounded in her text messages mtchew

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    3. Ivie has feared many dangers from John. John who had been threatening her since the past 5 months, suddenly began to plead for reconciliation. I advised her on how to stay calm and on how to be cautions. I must say that if all that John ended up doing was to lie against Ivie with doctored chats logs, then we are relieved that he did much less than we had feared.

      Keeping our eyes on the ball demands that we remember the following:

      (1) Ivie and John were separated since the past two years without any intention to continue the marriage.
      (2) Prior to the separation, John committed domestic violence on Ivie multiple times.
      (3) During the time of separation, John has been with multiple women in sexual relationships, as shown by the picture attached in which John and a woman (not Ivie) were in bed.
      (4) On that faithful night in June, John came to Ivie's house at night and attacked Ivie with weapons and clearly with intent to kill her.
      The above facts are indisputable.

      Now let's us consider the fabled evidence that John has conjured up in his defense. John says:
      1) That he and his wife agreed to separate in order to evade creditors. (You know that is a lie. John is a banker. He knows that such is not a way to evade creditors when your children remain in the same school for a whole year after separation. Indeed, the reason the children remained in Ajah school, while Ivie was shuttling them from Badagry (where her father lived) to Ajah each day for school was because Ivie did not have money to register them in another school near her father's house).
      2) John claims that Ivie got pregnant and aborted it. (Again, you know that is likely a blackmail. John who could not feed three children he already had would not spend nights and days crying that his estranged wife aborted pregnancy with twins. Besides, if that was the case and John felt so bad about that, why would he go to fight Ivie in her house? He should have been eager to divorce her).
      3) John claimed that Ivie had relationship with another man during the time they were separated. He uses manipulated social media chat logs to buttress such contrivance. (But, really, even if were true, which I have refused to enter into, it is most unreasonable to expect that after 2 years of separation, your spouse would remain sexually loyal to you, especially when you had started living with another woman).
      Now, go over all the excuses and reasons that John has given. The only reason missing is the reason why he attacked Ivie Edobor so viciously? John will never find one reason to justify the attack on Ivie. That is the ball that we must keep our eyes on. What is the justification for his action?
      You must know that John was arrested at the scene. He alone was arrested. So, nobody else committed a crime that night. Nobody else attacked anybody other than John. Also, note that after arrest, John made statements and other witnesses made statements. At the end of it, the police decided to arraign him for assault. Note also that even after the case had commenced in court, the government felt that assault was not strong enough. They found that John had an intention to kill Ivie. That was why they changed the charge to attempted murder. It all means that nobody who has examined the evidence from a professional standpoint so far could buy the nonsensical stories John is now peddling. And I urge DPA members to disregards such nonsense. We shall keep our eyes on the ball and we are interested only in one thing - John's excuse for attempting to kill Ivie.

      #copied

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  4. I only pray that after all this noise the wife made, her hands are clean cos the shame will be on her!

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    1. This man is a liar,for bringing unnecessary stories into it like she was married before blabla,y would she lie that u were d one that hit her?

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    2. This two sides to a story is the reason law enforcement pple always refuse to put mouth in husband and wife matter, they ll say go home and settle! It is a wa oo.

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    3. I've thought about it, this man had no reason to want to break Ivie's leg or be violent with her, he new she was a cheat and accepted her; a liar, he knew the name of her bf and that she was still sleeping with him; he had reported her to her family for aborting a 7 months pregnancy, so he had no reason to harm her. If theres anybody he wanted to harm, it would be Matthew. So I kind of believe that her legs got broken in a fight btw john and Matthew, though nobody knows who actually broke her leg, if it was Matthew or John; only Ivie knows that.

      From the whatsapp chat, John seems like a calm person not capable of attacking Ivie with weapons.

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    4. I guess the reason he parked his car far from the house was just to catch Ivie red handed

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    5. They were depressed so what is he catching her for? He had women he sleeps with na

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  5. This just a feeble and pathetic attempt for the husband not to accept responsibilities for his actions and to also tarnish his wife's image and make her look bad. Whatever the wife does to him, if he can't take it then he should leave the marriage.

    Marriage is not by force and nobody is a slave to marriage. He had the option to walk away and leave the marriage or to break his wife's legs and cause her grievous bodily harm and the risk of her becoming disabled, he chose the latter. Now it is time for him to suffer the consequences of that action.

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    1. Abi oh. The issue on ground is not whether she cheated or is owing millions of money. Na who break her legs we dey talk?

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  6. She cheated, yes, John cheated, yes, but it doesn't warrant him breaking her legs, he shudve just divorced her.

    Plus I tot dey said, delta women don't cheat dat if dey do, d man or kids die? Hahahahaa abeg if u can cheat, be coded. Don't get caught.

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    1. This woman's hands aren't clean afterall, can the gateman te us who really hit her with a hammer if he hasn't been bribed already.

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    2. The woman aborted a 7month old pregnancy

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    3. Blackberry, she's not deltan. Ivie is edo state.

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    4. People! Do not believe those craps posted by John. Its all fabricated. What man will wait until now to tell the world that the wife, Ivie was married to someone else before him? Did he just discover the news of that?

      Their oldest daughter is 9 years old and he had a video of them while they reported to their dad about an 'uncle' visiting their house. What is his motive for the video if that is a first?


      All the accusations, did we miss the part how Ivie got her leg broken...John your explaination no just gel.

      All ye double faces, one minute with Ivie and the next with John...eyes on the matter mbok. #DomesticViolence

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    1. Exactly the point!
      Both of them are guilty so the man should quit the lies and accept the responsibility for his actions. See lies upon lies.
      In all this,he didn't even agree that he's the one who inflicted this harm on his wife. Do we look like kids to him? So in all this,it's only his wife that's guilty? As per iti boribo that Nigerians are?
      This anumanu should be locked up in the Zoe already nau. Ha

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    2. Abortion at 7months?????The guy blackmailed her for that amount of money and she didn't stop sleeping with him?She had been bringing him into her matrimonial home but took him to a hotel even though she wasn't living with her husband anymore?why did he visit her by 1am and then park at the stadium and not in front of her house?

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    3. His lies don't even add up.
      I'm tired of humans mehn, let me just go to space and live among aliens. *sighs*

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    4. Karma.... He picked his car from stadium where he parked before travelling and drove to her house.

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  8. This man is a pathological liar, all these stories all makes him feel more guilty. Whether she cheated or not does not mean you should break her legs or kill her. Typical Nigerian man excuse for domestic violence. You asked her to leave then you started begging her father to ask her to come back. Google this man's name there's a picture of him and another woman on his matrimonial bed on the Internet. All these to spite the wife and look like the victim. If Nigerian women go about breaking the legs of their cheating husbands, most of the men would be crippled. If she wasn't good enough for you why not divorce her or stay separated. Why stalk her at 1 a.m or bother about who she's sleeping with. His receipts don't mean jack. There are eye witnesses that allegedly saw him hit her, is she sleeping with them too. You will rot in jail this man. Marriage is not by force.

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    1. Thank you. The fact is that they are both guilty. I think Edobor thought he and her were settling. If you read d chats you wld see all her complains. Yes she did bad by dating an already married man. If you read she said it's more than sex she needed. She needed companionship. And that was what dt man gave her. As Ivie knew she was settling with her husband she shld have broken off dt rlnship. It is her hubby that scattered her leg. He must have put a spy in her area who called him to tell him dt her boyfriend had come to visit her. That was why he was ready. Ivie May also have her bad characters like d debt she is owing customers. But oga you battered this woman both physically and emotionally. She kept saying he calls her prostitute,meanwhile he also cheats on her.
      Pls I read on that how couples met post of a woman dt wants a divorce,please ma divorce your husband and move on. I beg you,don't allow any body to guilt trip you to staying in a very unhappy situation. Before you turn out to b like this Ivie own.
      I cld see all the holes in his story. You cld even read when she complained that he always found fault with her.
      The sad part of this story is that dis Edobor chats like my husband,very local kind of man. I was scared after reading this chats cos I have chats like this with hubby. N.a. wa...

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    2. As for the abortion part,Ivie no try if she really committed th abortion. I am sure n.a. really shame do am. Plus she wasn't sure of the paternity. If to say she born those children and dey weren't for her husband people for gossip her tire Just like they are gossiping about her.
      People please make yourself happy only. You owe no 1 your happiness. People can only talk. Dt is why I like abroad. You can born leave your husband if he is giving you headache and no 1 wld bat an eyelid becos for them their happiness is paramount. I know God hates divorce but this destruction has bin an accumulation of several years of disdain between this couple.

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    3. But he said the man tried hitting his legs and he moved and the thing landed on
      ivie
      I believe his ownnside of the story. I'm and don't have time for feminism blah blah. The woman is a pathological liar

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    4. Ideato and anon 10:39 you're both retarded and high on horse shit. If Matthew hit her leg by accident like he claims...... but did that leg look to you fools like something that was hit once? If it was a mistake, she would only have been hit on one spot before he realizesIit was a mistake.
      This John is a bloody liar.
      Study the list of the so called people she was owing according to him. A particular family came up 3 times with huge sums. Na so dem sabi borrow people money ni?
      Even the chats were doctored. He deleted some major parts.
      In his email exchange with her, he claimed he had burnt every thing related to her in his house including the children'sbirth certs. They had been separated for 2 years and he was busy frolicking with other women, so you expected her to wait for the fucker abi?
      Why won't zenith bank even sack him sef....... when he used all their paper and ink to print out rubbish.
      What was he doing stalking her by 1am. Her ways are tainted too but that one no mean say make he kill her.
      Some men love to cheat but go begin para when at the receiving end.

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  9. Good to know. I hv always know that d woman is not a nice person. She just told half truths and outright lies in order to gather undue public sympathy.

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    1. S.M.H @ you
      Do you have sisters,nieces and aunties?

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    2. NNE help me to ask him ohh

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  10. Women!!! Women!!! Women!!!... Public disgrace and shame... A Cheating wife is worse than a snake

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    1. Look at the man's disjointed sentences and bad spellings, a former senior staff of the almighty Zenith bank. To think he is currently doing masters in OAU is appalling.

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    2. And a cheating husband is worse than the devil.

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    3. Rob darling, to think you gbensh me this morning. Idiots!

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    4. I hereby called on the Management of the prestigious Obafemi Awolowo University not to associate with Mr. John Edobor. He should not be seen brandishing himself as an OAUite. Tueeeeeh!

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    5. Rob when you day type, you reason say na woman born you so? Ishuakwasi goat.

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  11. OMG! Avon women empowerment, shey una don see?

    I believe this man, he came with a well constructed story and proof.
    Shame on you Ivie, married prostitute. I hope this man gets justice and gets his job back. He doesn't deserve a jezebel like Ivie. Shameless woman.
    All those people fighting for her, you better mind your business.

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    1. Jay em,are u educated at all?

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    2. The man knew all these rotten details about her past including the corrupt, lies, borrowing part and he still went ahead and married her, he found out long ago that she was sleeping with another man, he continued with the marriage and resorted to stalking her, is marriage by force? This man is telling lies too, I don't believe both of them, these 'people' sabi lie well well. I had them as friends in Uni.

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    3. As in?. Delta people and lies?...

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    4. Choi Choi, where did he write he knew about her past? The borrowing part and all happened in their marriage. Make some of una no dey let sentiment dey cloud una understanding.

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  12. Na wa o....
    I love stories that come along with documented proof, this reminds me of Angela okories sexcapade in SA.
    My opinion has totally changed regarding the initial report of the woman, i guess i should say 1st served report shouldn't be Best served report *folds arm in shock*
    But what begs the question here is why the silence till u lost ur job? My dear the era of "Silence is Golden" has gone, same as " the patient dog eats the fattest bone".... Well, maybe he was protecting the kids from knowing about the failed mothers gallivanting & promiscuous ways!
    Jezzz, why bring in a man when ur kids are present, who does that???? I mean why, why, why??? How the fuck sweet reach? Blackberry help me out na???

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    1. So if your wife is cheating on you, you should kill Her? Is adultery now a Crime? So why did Ivie not attack her hubby when he was caught Cheating?. If a woman is not in your house anymore, she is free to do what she wants,just the way you did by bringing a woman into your matrimonial home, and the woman did nothing about it. I thought they say do me, I do you no dey Pain?. Oga please man up and accept responsibility for driving your wife into the hands of another man.

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    2. He said it was d mattew that hit the woman naa, abi you no dey see well

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    3. Yo-yo woman did you read at all? Where did he say he attacked her? Abi because you are a lady you decided to buy her own story for her to the she could also be lying.. Read his story and he made no mention of hitting her. The woman is trying to just drag him into something he didn't do. Her lover was tryinh to kill him and it landed on the woman and she's busy lying to cover her lover..

      I'm glad he is talking now. All areas should be perused properly. .

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  13. Very useless woman. And I read everything to the end.
    I just dey para.

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    1. Useless fool like you too. May your spouse break your legs with a crowbar

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    2. Jay dear, if you believe John's story then just believe Orile-Iganmu is a state in Australia

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  14. Hmmmmm, ebelebe!!! Marriage sounds like bad news sometimes, God help me

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    1. Azin very scary something, where have you been sisturr?

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  15. Hmmmmmm. Na wah o. Ivie for real?!

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  16. If all this man said is true then this woman is a jezebel.
    Committing adultery wasnt enough you had to abort 7 months old twins. Haba na y? Women and lies.
    They will be the first to run to the public to speak out about domestic violence.
    Theres no smoke without fire.
    For most domestic violence there must be some element of provocation from the part of the reciever.

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    1. We should quit judging her...there is something called divorce. If he realized he was dealing with an evil person as he seems to have stated, why didn't he file for a divorce? If everyone woman who has ever committed adultery has their feet smashed and bones broken, wheelchairs would probably become scarce. The focus should be "did he smash her legs or did he not?".

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  17. ANON 9:04 I COME IN HERE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE retarded.All what is posted up there does it warrant to her legs being broken?domestic violence is a crime and i will use this platform to preach against it.

    if she was cheating he should have walked away and stayed away.....NOT BREAK HER LEGS AND COME UP WITH BOLLOCKS!

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    1. Lol but if this story is true, then her arms should be broken as well. I hate thieves

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    2. Thank you stella, that's my point exactly. And if everything is true and also like the woman said he's just trying to get back at the Matthew mentioned by spoiling her name. Pls all this drama should stop. And for the fact that the man painted himself innocent is annoying me so does that mean he was forever and always right in the marriage and even clean too.

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    3. Stella Dimoko Korkus, you said he should have walked away or stay away....instead of breaking her leg... did you read him well?

      Didn't you hear where he said her boyfriend mistakenly hit her while trying to hit him? ....I know you don't believe him but you believed her story that he hit her. Maybe because she is a fellow woman?...

      God who sees all that is done in secret is watching and He will reward each one according to his or her work at the end of time.

      You are suggesting that he walks away or seperate or divorce her....remember if you are a Christian, then divorce is not an option for those who married in the church.

      For him to hit her too is another bad option.... both divorce and domestic violence are not acceptable....

      Stella you said domestic violence is a crime ... I agree with you on this but women are not only victims of domestic violence.... it seems you use your platform to support women whether they are right or wrong but remember God is watching...

      Domestic violence has many sides and types.... domestic violence can be physical or it can be emotional....women easily see the physical side of DV without seeing it's emotional side which they put men...her husband here in this story is undergoing emotional Domestic violence which no one is talking about...

      I don't think any woman will wish her son to undergo what this man passed through in the hands of any serial cheating wife.... (some of us have our sons remember)

      If you say his evidences are not true.... how then are you sure that her evidence which you believed is true....

      Stella I like you... to be honest I love your creativity especially in this blog.... you are in fact a success better than somany bloggers and I sincerely respect you for that....but I'm begging you to not kill me (Lol) for this Comment ....it's the truth because JESUS is the TRUTH. Let us not judge... let's only allow God to judge... let us not support women because they are our gender or because we think women are the weak ones in a relationship.... the truth is everyone is weak too... most men are weak... so many women are stronger than men emotionally and otherwise.... no one is weak and no one is strong (both men and women alike) after all, that's what feminism preaches.

      1) how can a woman abort 7months old twins?.... ( even if she hates God)

      2) how can a married woman sleep with two men at the same time she was pregnant?

      3) how can a woman marry previously (legal marriage) without letting her second husband know?... this is enough for nullification of marriage both in the church or in civil law..... because there was no marriage in the first place... all is deception

      4) how can a woman borrow so much money in millions without accounting for it?

      Dear friends, judge for yourself.... if the man is also cheating on his wife then I condemn it.... it's wrong but who knows if it's the actions of her wife that pushed him to start doing that.... that cannot still justify cheating in what ever form...

      Let us always use this platform to say the truth as it is .... even if the man is at fault or the woman.... we are all equal before God.

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    4. But Stella the man said he wasn't the one that hit the lady but her cheating partner who has a hammer with him so it's not d man who hit her which means he x absolutely innocent if this is true

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    5. Queen Amy did she steal your money? Go and break her arms na.

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    6. OMG do any of you read at all?, he said Mr Mathew broke her legs when he was about to hit him and not him smh

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    7. Stella u believe this man. She should come up with evidence to back up her story too.

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    8. Stella both of them are telling lies. Which Nigerian man will keep sleeping with a woman, his wife for that matter who is cheating continously and even got pregs and aborted for her lover?

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    9. Shame on you queen Amy. So she should be killed because she committed adultery?
      Isn't the man also guilty of adultery? Was his legs broken because of it?

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    10. Pls queen did she steal your kpekus?

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    11. Stella Der pls I don't side any 1 cos some women are worse than jezebels while some men are worse than the devil esp in Lagos,abj &ph we have alot of terrible women honestly behaving like demons in place of civilised ladies

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  18. Let's her the sideman's version of the story.
    They are both intelligent liars.

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  19. Waoooh, dont know what to say.

    This is just a bad marraige and a bad blood.

    So if he was not sacked, he would not have brought all these.

    Only God knows everything. It is painful when marriages degenerate into this

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  20. There are three sides to every story. My prayer for them now is that the person saying the REAL truth wins.

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  21. This man is an idiot!...
    A very big one...she is dating Mathew and so fucking what?...
    Are you not dating other girls?..
    Wicked,useless man that want to disfigure her so no man will look her way again...
    So you sent your wife and your children away because she is oweing people?...

    Thunder fire you there with all these stupid lies you wrote here!...
    How I wish I'm on Facebook,I would have gone to your page to finish you...
    Devil!...

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    1. He is a liar and God will punish him,look at the unnecessary details he included

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    2. Abi oh. He should tell us where cheating and abortion and owing money became a crime that he will break her legs. .

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    3. Abeg queen didnt u read where he said he wasn't d one dat hit her but d so called mattew dat works in a construction company, Nawa for u o

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    4. Brainless married woman as usual, Try to always think twice before you comment.

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    5. Don't mind the he goat. Even though I don't support adultery, but they are both guilty, so why should he disfigure the woman

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    6. No 1 knw d truth but am sure there's no smoke without fire that's for sure.

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    7. Besides the woman is a sidechick to another woman's husband shame on her for inficting pain in another woman's home just to get her ex husband.

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  22. Gawd!!!
    This is detailed oooo.
    Who do we believe now?

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  23. Mumu pple, cnt u read?? She broke her leg on her own. Idiotic Married woman dat will be gbenshing pples hubby wit another Man's baby.

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    1. honestly i tot i was the only one that saw that she broke her leg herself. i think they should separate and live separately happily ever after, they are not compatible on bit

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    2. Very foolish people. They won't read to see that the man didn't hurt her. Even Stella shouting domestic violence like her husband broke her leg. I hate this blog because they take the word feminism to serious here. This man might be saying the truth but they won't check that since the woman complained first. Her story might be false but thru won't stop to ask that question.

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    3. Ode, can't you think? What do you have for a Brain? Do you expect the man to say he is guilty of attempted Murder? Abeg swerve. Go and learn how to reason and argue reasonably.

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    4. Anon 10: 50. You are the bigger ode. Do you expect the woman to say it's her married man boyfriend that broke her leg

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    5. Ona de funny, so if he was d one that broke her leg,he will write it there abi? Think !!

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  24. One more side left to hear before we judge wats happening.
    Yes the man has evidence, I still don't like the fact that they couldn't solve der issues privately.
    Must it always come to this... if this is what they want to be doing now, they all should just call a meeting at civic center then we all come listen to the stories.
    Feel for the kids more... can imagine the billion of eyes on them in school, home and public.

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  25. Na wa oh. Oga which kind plenty plenty documents are these ones? Am I reading for ICAN abi na wet in?
    Well if it's Mr Mathew that broke her legs may justice take its course. Who ever broke her legs should be found out and punished. Abortion or owing monies totalling 2 million (which I don't believe anyways)is not Wat the courts are judging. But the breakage of her legs. That's d issue.

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    1. 2 million. Or 25m? It could be true.. Thank God names are there. Let them verify the story. The woman is already a thief. See as they were busy sacking get every where

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  26. The man is being accused of attempted murder, what do you expect? He will say all sorts to get himself out of the mess. You cheated, she didn't hurt you, you drove her out, into the arms of another man, now you want to kill her. You even uploaded the pix of you and a woman on your matrimonial bed. What were you Expecting?. So this man expects the public to criticize his wife for cheating, when he is also a cheat. When there is a crack on the wall, lizards will enter. He who brings in maggots infested woods into his home should be ready to entertain lizards. You should have handled your wife with care, I bet you never believed she will retaliate by cheating back.

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    1. You are sha daft. Where did he mention he hit her? It because she said he did then it's the truth?

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    2. Will he agree he did it anony? U r d daft one cos he will say anything to appear innocent

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    3. Anon, why then was he the only one arrested at the scene of the incident? Why wasn't the supposed person who broke it arrested.
      Not everyone is foolish enough to believe his lies abeg.

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  27. una don see why pesin noh de put mouth for husband and wife mata. na only the two of dem sabi the truth abeg......

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  28. I thought d shameless and cheating wife said her only crime is that she had 3 girls for him . This is why it's not good to judge an issue based on one parson s account..And she wanted d whole world to see her as harmless as a baby

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    1. Stories like this make you blue steel hard.
      Misogynistic idiot.

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  29. Lol now it's time to bash the woman.
    Men will always use adultery to get away with anything because in Africa it's okay for a man to cheat not a woman.
    How is it possible that she was bold enough to cheat and he accepted her back. She was bringing in a man to sleep with her? Really?
    He should find another lie.
    Anyone can doctor a WhatsApp chat to suit their plan.it took public outcry to get him to say his side.
    Unfortunately, he has involved another family into it, claiming the man she calls her friend is her lover.
    A story that has been in the news for months and he just chose to speak.
    Why didn't he explain this side to his bank before his sack?
    She owes 25 million? How is that possible and she is breathing and walking the earth.
    Anyway, only God knows the truth.

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    1. Lol!!!!! You are right my dear. She is supposed to be in hiding my dear.

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    2. This is d only sensible comment so far.
      This isnt proof, it can all b cooked up. Evn the letter he claims the wife wrote to zenith bank(apology letter) had no received stamp.this is bullshit not 'proof'.By the way tolu's family seems to have so much money to borrow people.Tolu epp me abeg😅😅😅

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    3. Sweetheart take this 💋. You get better sense. This man is a complete idiot. A real man won't rubbish 'the' wife in public like this. Look how easy it is to list her sins when your hands are equally dirty. A househelp called you to inform you of madam' whereabouts,the kids made of video of their mum with Matthew?? Really?! She owes that amount of money and she hasn't been locked up? Edobor, you are a disgusting liar! Well, this is Nigeria where men easily take the women straight to the gallows at the mention of adultery. The most annoying part is, other women are always willing and ready to carry out the execution.


      Shame on zenith bank for giving you a job with your cut and join English. What a petty nigga.

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    4. Anon so you see the Tolu part like me? Tolu family we need money ooo 😂😂😂

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  30. Hmmmmmm this woman has a very colourful past......... Let married couples be truthful to themselves before getting hitched. If u cant accept her for her liars, pls do not marry her. Bcos this will be the result. I personally cannot stand pathological liars and chronic debtors(I'm saying it as it is)cant be friends with such ppl. But still better not to marry such than attempt to kill her Mr John.
    In all this he never named his own mistress also.
    This two ppl have their own flaws and had no business getting married or even reconciling.
    Why is it that men sleep around and if they as little as see a text from a man on their wives fone all hell wld break loss.
    Mr John that she cheated or aborted ur babies doesn't give u the right to harm her. If all we women shld go wrong maiming our boyfriends/husbands when they cheat. All you men wont have legs again.
    This story is complicated mehnnnnn. May God not give me such a marriage problem. This is really messy.
    Ivie, pls look into your behaviour. All this is not a good example to show your daughters.
    Mr John you have anger issues, pls deal with them. You are no saint either. And you have no right harming another human being like that. Cheat or no cheating.

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    1. Gbam!!!! They had no reason to reconsile but Nigerian mentality wld not allow them face the truth and dey went ahead forcing a dead horse to wake up.

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  31. The interest of everyone shouldn't be if this woman is/was perfect but it should be whether this man smashed her legs with the metal object. What He seems to be trying to do is to get people to be emotionally sympathetic with him. The investigators need to focus on finding out if he committed this crime, the rest of the info spilled here is actually none of our business.

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  32. Hmmmmmmmmmmm, e get as e be o

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  33. I could not comment on this issue when the woman told her side of the story but I know there is always two/three sides of a story. This man really tried too hard to rubbish the woman, but did I believe him, NO.

    Mr, How can you find out she is still married to another man yet you continued in the marriage? You also found out that she is promiscuous and having an affair with another man yet you continued and had 3 children with her?

    Sir, your story is disjointed - you allowed her go to her father's house when people were after her and your children, right? so where were the children? And yet, later your father-in-law refused to release her to you?

    How can you convince me that a right-thinking woman/being aborted a 7-month pregnancy? How can a hospital bill be prepared days before the person is discharged?

    What's the proof that these typed list of debtors are real? You were chatting with your wife and only her was sending messages without you replying? I am yet to see the proof our school fees you paid? May be they're among the ones not clear, kindly resend clearer ones for proof. I am not a banker but I wonder what NIBBS documents have to do with this - reconciliation of Zenith and GTB accounts - please, explain?? As far as I'm concerned, all these documents look doctored.

    BTW, why were you sacked by Zenith bank, why did you not sort things out with her when they were still fresh? Why didn't you divorce her? Is Zenith bank against divorce.

    I'm not even saying that the woman is a 'saint' but your own side of the story smells foul.

    Who will give us the third side of the story please?

    TGIF people, I cannot wait to leave this office today.

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    1. You are too much. Two tom tom for you. Don't mind the yeye man. He took his time so he could whatssp his spirit and his soul will reply then printed it out. Very petty man. As if it's easy to owe 27million when she didn't build house. Oniranu

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    2. Thank you for using ur God given brain to discern this matter. It shows you are well learned.

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  34. Meanwhile,it's not possible to abort a 7month old baby!...
    This man is a liar!..

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    1. Says who oh Madam baddo?
      After you'd be makin mouth here like you some bad ass.

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    2. it is possible. i have seen an eight months abortion. some girls are mean

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    3. Its very possible. I know someone that did it. They will induce the baby to come out.

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    4. I am not supporting his actions oh. But it is very possible to abort a seven months old pregnancy. Even though it is risky.

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    5. Very useless man oh. Nobody Nobody should belive his rubbish.

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    6. You are ode o

      It's very possible to abort 7 month pregnancy..

      Please don't be daft

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    7. The only way to abort a 7 months old pregnancy is to birth it prematurely...
      They will force the baby out by inducing you!,..
      No sane hospital will do that to you cause it's life threatening!...
      Most people lose their lives doing that shit so it's not advisable!..
      No sane woman will go through that process just to terminate a baby abeg...

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  35. Violence is never the answer. Divorce shikena

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  36. See as the man dey yeye himself, make he rest abeg, You can't guy a guyyyoyo.

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  37. God take control of the situation...no man should break a womans legs for cheating but you can punish her by leaving honourably

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  39. Such a shame when a good thing goes bad like this. Just so messy.
    Now he's even airing their private chats for the world to see and judge. *sad sigh.
    But his account of how she came about the broken leg is so...implausible. Been trying to picture the scenario but inaa! Just can't.
    Hehe, anyone notice how he convinently placed that Zenith bank pen and the letter headed zenith bank notepad in the pictures? Oga weren't you laid off? Why are you associating yourself with Zenith bank again? Abi the pictures are old?
    Oh well, I hope they all find peace again and their lil girls are taken care of.
    *singing Kelly Rowland's 'Dirty laundry'*

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  40. So she cheated is that why he damaged her legs? If you were no longer comfortable with her attitude the best thing to do is divorce her

    Only people with a dead sense of reasoning would support this killer of a man.
    What happened to amicable settlement?
    Now he has lost his job and no one would employ him ever again!
    And the tag of a woman beater would follow him till the rest of his miserable life
    Marriage is not by force
    If your hubby or wife is nolonger who you married, please file for divorce
    Never in my life will I support violence against women
    Even if the woman is an harlot.

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  41. This story is a tad inconsistent; you told her to go to lere till the matter died down and in the next paragraph you say she refused to come home but you didn't say if she had cleared the debt.
    If you knew she was fraudulent and once married, why go ahead to marry?
    I'm tired of love gone sour cases TBH

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  42. You see why it is good to listen to the 2 sides of a story....if not 3 sef. I read the first story late and didn't comment on it because I found it difficult to believe a man will break his wife's leg because she had only girls. Rather he will marry a 2nd wife or try for a boy with another woman outside.

    I am glad he has cleared the air and with evidences.

    Since his wife is still married to the first husband legally, their own marriage is not legal then...is it not so lawyers in the house?

    May the elders of both families solve this problem between them and Zenith calls him back to his job.

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  43. Let's not use sentiment to judge the case. The last time I checked adultery is a sin not a Crime, and the case in court is not about adultery but attempted murder. Lying is a sin, fornication is a sin, do people get beaten almost to death? The woman is not good, yes, send her away and live your life the way you like, which he has been doing, y go and attack her at midnight in her house? The man also committed adultery but he was not beaten for it, neither is he being charged to court for it. Nigerians and sentiments.

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  44. I dont care if this woman is a prostitute, I dont care if she aborted 10 years old pregnant, I dont care if she is a theif, I dont care if she a devil. That does not give anybody the right to want take her life, let the law deal with all those acussations. This man is just roping himslelf the more. He is simply making this case easier for the judge by saying "This is the reason why I took the laws into my hand". The Nigerian and international law does not give anybody any right to take laws into their hands.

    Its a high time people starts paying for the consequences of their stupid actions. He had no right what so ever to do what he did to that woman. There are law courts where people can get justice the proper way, he should have done that. He has already taken the laws into his hands and I think he should face the consequences and stop trying to justify his actions.

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  45. I dont care if this woman is a prostitute, I dont care if she aborted 10 years old pregnant, I dont care if she is a theif, I dont care if she a devil. That does not give anybody the right to want take her life, let the law deal with all those acussations. This man is just roping himslelf the more. He is simply making this case easier for the judge by saying "This is the reason why I took the laws into my hand". The Nigerian and international law does not give anybody any right to take laws into their hands.

    Its a high time people starts paying for the consequences of their stupid actions. He had no right what so ever to do what he did to that woman. There are law courts where people can get justice the proper way, he should have done that. He has already taken the laws into his hands and I think he should face the consequences and stop trying to justify his actions.

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  46. Cheating on a husband and having an affair is NOT a crime
    Having an abortion is NOT a crime
    Owing people is NOT a crime
    Breaking someone's legs IS a crime
    Assault IS a crime
    Causing bodily harm IS a crime
    Domestic violence IS a crime.

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  47. Marriage is not by force, y should you endure what you are not enjoying. I don't believe both couples cos some element of lies would av been attached to the stories to make either the man or woman look like the good person. And as for the man, can u swear u never cheated since u got married? Anyways, birds of a feather flocks together. If you did not do it, u wife wud nt av done it to u. U are both liars and adulterers. Deal with ur own issues first before pointing at others people's faults

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  48. Stella Dimoko Korkus, you said he should have walked away or stay away....instead of breaking her leg... did you read him well?

    Didn't you hear where he said her boyfriend mistakenly hit her while trying to hit him? ....I know you don't believe him but you believed her story that he hit her. Maybe because she is a fellow woman?...

    God who sees all that is done in secret is watching and He will reward each one according to his or her work at the end of time.

    You are suggesting that he walks away or seperate or divorce her....remember if you are a Christian, then divorce is not an option for those who married in the church.

    For him to hit her too is another bad option.... both divorce and domestic violence are not acceptable....

    Stella you said domestic violence is a crime ... I agree with you on this but women are not only victims of domestic violence.... it seems you use your platform to support women whether they are right or wrong but remember God is watching...

    Domestic violence has many sides and types.... domestic violence can be physical or it can be emotional....women easily see the physical side of DV without seeing it's emotional side which they put men...her husband here in this story is undergoing emotional Domestic violence which no one is talking about...

    I don't think any woman will wish her son to undergo what this man passed through in the hands of any serial cheating wife.... (some of us have our sons remember)

    If you say his evidences are not true.... how then are you sure that her evidence which you believed is true....

    Stella I like you... to be honest I love your creativity especially in this blog.... you are in fact a success better than somany bloggers and I sincerely respect you for that....but I'm begging you to not kill me (Lol) for this Comment ....it's the truth because JESUS is the TRUTH. Let us not judge... let's only allow God to judge... let us not support women because they are our gender or because we think women are the weak ones in a relationship.... the truth is everyone is weak too... most men are weak... so many women are stronger than men emotionally and otherwise.... no one is weak and no one is strong (both men and women alike) after all, that's what feminism preaches.

    1) how can a woman abort 7months old twins?.... ( even if she hates God)

    2) how can a married woman sleep with two men at the same time she was pregnant?

    3) how can a woman marry previously (legal marriage) without letting her second husband know?... this is enough for nullification of marriage both in the church or in civil law..... because there was no marriage in the first place... all is deception

    4) how can a woman borrow so much money in millions without accounting for it?

    Dear friends, judge for yourself.... if the man is also cheating on his wife then I condemn it.... it's wrong but who knows if it's the actions of her wife that pushed him to start doing that.... that cannot still justify cheating in what ever form...

    Let us always use this platform to say the truth as it is .... even if the man is at fault or the woman.... we are all equal before God.

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  49. I read that story to the end
    What I feel? This looks like the truth.

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  50. I read that story to the end
    What I feel? This looks like the truth.

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  51. Hmmm am still reading this man epsitle, I don't think I believe him, not saying the wife is guilty ohhh but haba DAT is not a reason to break her legs na na na

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  52. 'UPDATE ON THE CASE OF IVIE EDOBOR: THE NEED TO KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL

    As the Americans would say: "Always keep your eyes on the ball". The best way for the opponent to defeat you in any conflict is to force you to take your eyes away from the ball. That is is practically the move that Mr. John Edobor has made against Ivie Edobor, once he realized the gathering dangers around him.

    When DPA first got involved in this case, I realized that the case possessed every element that is needed for mud slings - sex, scandal, betrayal, power, litigation, violence, pain and suffering. I pitied Ivie because she was clearly at a disadvantage. First, she is dealing in an environment where it is so easy to blame the woman. Second, she faced physical incapacitation with the attendant economic hardship that would prevent her from fighting a good fight. Her enemy took her out in the first round of the fight.

    John remained a manager in Zenith Bank throughout the period. For five months, he used his presence and continued employment in Zenith to prepare to battle his estranged wife. It was only a matter of time before John would brandish his weapons of mud and sleaze. He only waited this long because he thought he was in control of the dynamics of this conflict. But he was wrong. The tide turned last week after DPA entered into the picture. (By the way, I use this opportunity to assuage some DPA members who felt that the role of DPA in this case has not been adequately acknowledged. We need not ask for any acknowledgment. Our work speaks for itself). But make no mistake: DPA pushed for the upgrading of the charge from assault to attempted murder. That was the sole reason I went to court last week. (I didn't go to court just to show solidarity) Also, DPA has clarified the narrative and focused attention on the unfortunate and highly questionable position of Zenith Bank.

    Keeping our eyes on the ball requires us to stay focused on the issues that matter, regardless of attempt to alter the narrative through manipulated and selective evidence peddled on the personal walls of the accused man. One thing is this: John is defending a case that could send him to jail for the rest of his life. The incentive is too high that he would do anything to escape. Lying is the least thing he would worry about. Once John lost his job and now faces homicide-related criminal charges, you must prepare to expect the worst he is capable of.

    Since last week, Ivie has feared many dangers from John. John who had been threatening her since the past 5 months, suddenly began to plead for reconciliation. Ivie was so worried that John was getting to the verge of mental crack up and his stability was much in doubt. She feared for her safety and safety of her children. John was clearly becoming suicidal. I advised her on how to stay calm and on how to be cautions. I must say that if all that John ended up doing was to lie against Ivie with doctored chats logs, then we are relieved that he did much less than we had feared.

    Keeping our eyes on the ball demands that we remember the following:

    (1) Ivie and John were separated since the past two years without any intention to continue the marriage.

    (2) Prior to the separation, John committed domestic violence on Ivie multiple times.

    (3) During the time of separation, John has been with multiple women in sexual relationships, as shown by the picture attached in which John and a woman (not Ivie) were in bed.

    (4) On that faithful night in June, John came to Ivie's house at night and attacked Ivie with weapons and clearly with intent to kill her.

    The above facts are indisputable.

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    2. Fact 4 is still disputable.
      John has denied attacking her with a weapon, in fact, he has denied owning or bringing any weapon, pointin fingers at the construction worker lover as the owner of the weapon used to cause bodily harm on Ivie.
      So where are the credible witnesses to dispute John's claim????

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    3. Lovely read. Very Intelligent.

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  53. Now let's us consider the fabled evidence that John has conjured up in his defense. John says:

    1) That he and his wife agreed to separate in order to evade creditors. (You know that is a lie. John is a banker. He knows that such is not a way to evade creditors when your children remain in the same school for a whole year after separation. Indeed, the reason the children remained in Ajah school, while Ivie was shuttling them from Badagry (where her father lived) to Ajah each day for school was because Ivie did not have money to register them in another school near her father's house).

    2) John claims that Ivie got pregnant and aborted it. (Again, you know that is likely a blackmail. John who could not feed three children he already had would not spend nights and days crying that his estranged wife aborted pregnancy with twins. Besides, if that was the case and John felt so bad about that, why would he go to fight Ivie in her house? He should have been eager to divorce her).

    3) John claimed that Ivie had relationship with another man during the time they were separated. He uses manipulated social media chat logs to buttress such contrivance. (But, really, even if were true, which I have refused to enter into, it is most unreasonable to expect that after 2 years of separation, your spouse would remain sexually loyal to you, especially when you had started living with another woman).

    Now, go over all the excuses and reasons that John has given. The only reason missing is the reason why he attacked Ivie Edobor so viciously? John will never find one reason to justify the attack on Ivie. That is the ball that we must keep our eyes on. What is the justification for his action?

    You must know that John was arrested at the scene. He alone was arrested. So, nobody else committed a crime that night. Nobody else attacked anybody other than John. Also, note that after arrest, John made statements and other witnesses made statements. At the end of it, the police decided to arraign him for assault. Note also that even after the case had commenced in court, the government felt that assault was not strong enough. They found that John had an intention to kill Ivie. That was why they changed the charge to attempted murder. It all means that nobody who has examined the evidence from a professional standpoint so far could buy the nonsensical stories John is now peddling. And I urge DPA members to disregards such nonsense. We shall keep our eyes on the ball and we are interested only in one thing - John's excuse for attempting to kill Ivie.

    NOTE: You will see among what John attached a letter that Ivie purportedly wrote to Zenith apologizing for allegedly dragging Zenith's name to the mud. You are smart. You would wonder what kind of Bank would go to the extent of forcing a victim who was still in the hospital to write such a letter. That letter is actually a smoking gun against Zenith. In fact, with that letter, we can upgrade out accusations of Zenith Bank from breach of its social responsibility to active persecution and harassment and obstruction of justice. They forced Ivie to call the incident a family dispute that should be resolved within the family, even while the state is prosecuting it as a crime against the Nigerian public. The reason they forced her to describe the incident as such was actually to influence John's indictment and make it appear that it was indeed a family matter. That is called obstruction of justice.

    This case is just setting. I think that John has grossly miscalculated what is at stake here. The stories he peddles on his Facebook wall do not cut it at all, and DPA members and the general public will keep their eyes on the ball.

    Written By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire'

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  54. Mr John..pls go and cook up another story inugo!!
    Izz laike nobody noticed Tolu on d debtors list.Tolu pls borrow me 200tousan pere seeing as u have nuff money to borrow ppl..hehehe tolu's hubby,mother,father..e remain nephew niece cousin.Mr John pls you shd b a script writer and not a banker.

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  55. I don't even know what to say again, I am speechless.

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  56. Chineke mee. Look at how devil destroyed this family. Who do we believe now? Let the one saying the truth win jare.

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  57. this is crazy how can u be sleeping with your husband and another man during pregnancy? and not just any man but a married man with kids.. if this is proven to be truth then Ivie is a home wrecker till then let's keep pay our fingers crossed....

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  58. john edobor the liar18 November 2016 at 10:42

    so the man tried to hit his legs and he moved it and it fell on ives legs and kept falling on her legs until all her bones were scatted?ON BOTH LEGS?

    COME ON..you people should wake up...ivie may have had a boyfriend but these lies are all cooked to favour him...big lies.he went on a rage and scattered her two legs and not the other man as this writeup insinuates.

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  59. Just like my useless ex who twisted stories in the end to justify his actions. U will rot in this life wicked man .

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  60. They're all lies and twisted truths.

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  61. This is getting messier, I pity both families. This is too dirty to wash outside like this. OMG.

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  62. Anon 10:12 stop chatting absolute crap. It is people like you that twists stories to suit yourselves instead of looking at the matter objectively. The husband went to the wife's place, what was he looking for there. The wife said it was the husband that broke her legs and no one else, she knows who broke her legs and before the husband got there, there was no problem between her and Matthew so why would Matthew break her legs. Some idiots here have even said she broke her own legs herself, shows how stupid those ones are.

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  63. Sorry i didn't read to the end cos i'm not jobless.The way people take law into their hands eh, if God should start punishing or hitting us for every disobedient act,mmadu g'agwu n'uwa o.

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  64. This is crazy. This woman too is no saint afterall.

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  65. Wait
    My concern here is Ivie killed 2 babies at once ? omg
    Pregnancy that some people are looking for with everything they own.
    Jeez, you had misunderstanding with your husband and killed two innocent children?
    Let me walk away

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  66. This is really sad, please if marriage is not working out, take a walk and avoid all these stories that touch. Poor kids

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  67. She lied. He's taking advantage of that now to spin his own lie. Wow! One thing is clear, John will successfully cast doubt on Ivie's integrity with this write-up and in law once you can do this, you can have a case of DV thrown out.

    The onus is on Ivie's lover now to tell his side and for him to do that he must admit he was having an affair with Ivie.

    But I love how women band together to protect their cheating sisters ohhh!

    Even with all the proof he provided, typical female response is to close eyes to all of that and shout "That's not the issue"

    Matters of the heart!!!

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  68. Oh God... People are damaged. Asking if adultery is a crime is a weak justification for the act. Jesus christ! My comment isn't about the domestic violence post cos I still don't know the real story. But should we simply be blinded to some societal ills women perpetrate because we're women? If a man lays his hands on me, I swear on my life that I'll damage his mere existence but at the same tym, I would never ever give his a reason to lose his cool. We all forget that men are humans and there's a limit to what even the strongest men can take. Emotional pain weakens our resolves but once again, domestic violence is animalistic and I would never support it. But saying adultery isn't a crime? It's a retarded statement. Maybe we need to start treating it as a crime so we can avoid so many of its results... Which I believe domestic violence is one of

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  69. It is only a dumb person, who has been dumb and stupid from childhood that would read these stories and not see the inconsistencies there.

    All what he did is to tarnish her image.

    First inconsistency...she exhibited traits of fraud in Stanbic IBTC yet she willingly resigned and was not sacked...hmmm. What bank has time to accuse someone and not sack at the same time?

    She was dismissed by Econet for lack of integrity and borrowing money from colleagues...I don't want to believe that 60percent of blog visitors are dumb to believe such lies. Can Econet dismiss a staff for borrowing money? It could be when Airtel took over Econet and they downsized staff, I am sure that is when she was affected.

    I like that cheap attempt to include her tax exemption so the Federal Government would call you a good citizen. Mr. attempted Murderer, how many Nigerians with small businesses actually pay their taxes? If she did not pay tax, it is the duty of FIRS to probe her and not for you to use iron and break her legs.

    Because you alleged she borrowed money, you told her to leave the house, in the same breath, you also said that you asked her to come home. Do you think we are in kindergarten to believe such rubbish .

    Let me understand something, Mr. Mathew blackmailed her, broke her legs and somehow she accused you instead of him. I understand you have read the low IQ of most Nigerians and you know once you add adultery on the list of a woman's atrocities, most self righteous baboons would ignore the matter at hand.

    This is exactly why women who are victims of domestic violence never talk because 90 percent of the condemnation comes from their fellow women.

    Isn't it very clear that all these things you listed is an attempt to rigmarole gullible Nigerians in a nowhere story so when they finally get to the matter at hand, their 'judgy' mind is already impaired to think clearly?

    Fuck you for using iron bars to hit the mother of your children. Fuck your parents for not giving you sound home training.

    Of course, you knew she was previously married. How did you obtain the certificate? She must have confided in you. You knew all along and who knows how many times you must have used that to blackmail her. If we count how many Nigerian men who are unto their second/third marriages without properly dissolving the first one, then we would count millions.

    Adultery is not an excuse to almost kill the mother of your kids. I see so many cheating men around, how many women have murdered or attempted to kill them. Walk away simple.


    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  70. A pregnant woman sleeping with two different men (the world is truly coming to an end), she went ahead with her lover to abort seven months old twins (she surely deserve the pains she's passing through right now, for killing two innocent babies).

    She had sex severaly with her kids present (child abuse)
    Ivie is not innocent, she cried out first because she knew people will believe her and run to support her.
    John didn't speak out becaus oe Ivie's dirty secrets(also a shame on his part, and also to protect the children). The cops should also go after the third party (Mathew) that was mentioned, if he was at the scene of the incident, then what John said is not far from the truth.

    Some Married women has turned themselves to cheap prostitute, not putting into consideration their family, most especially their children.

    I know women lies a lot, I have deal with so many of them in the past.

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  71. Mr Edobor went too far. He parked his car and waited for her, that means it was premeditated and what ever he did was not done in the heat of the moment if actually he did what he is being accussed of. If marriage nor work again there is room for divorce. I guess oga sent madam out of the house due to constant embarrassment from people she is owing (if actually it is true). Someone said here abortion is not a crime. Biko make unah dey try read small law books nah nor be only makeup and KIm K series unah go watch. Abortion is a crime please. He is charged for attempted murder and that is a serious offence. Police should to do their investigations and invite people involved as the penalty for the offence is weighty. Domestic violence is not the answer,has never been and will never be.

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  72. Some Nigerians are just too gullible, sentimental and foolishly religious, backward in mentality and a society that automatically blames the woman for everything including the faults and actions of men.

    Corret talk from john edobor the liar 10:42
    "so the man tried to hit his legs and he moved it and it fell on ives legs and kept falling on her legs until all her bones were scatted?ON BOTH LEGS?"

    COME ON..you people should wake up...ivie may have had a boyfriend but these lies are all cooked to favour him...big lies.he went on a rage and scattered her two legs and not the other man as this writeup insinuates.

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  73. I love stories with proofs as this story told by this man sounds more reliable. Ivie the Ashawo imagine her saying dirty stuffs to her husband to justify her mess. I hate her right now zero sympathy for you and your dead boyfriend.

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