Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Labour Room Drama -100

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Friday, 11 November 2016

Labour Room Drama -100

Na wah ooooh...




Please oo, how can this file be empty. Stella please don't joke like this, you don't know how much help and succour it offers to some.
Lemme share mine. I had my baby last Saturday, I wanted to wait a while before sending it in. My "sumtin" never done oo. A bit lengthy.


39 weeks gone, I was tired of being tired all the time, I already had it in mind I was gonna get to 40weeks. Went for the antenatal that week, on my way back I had craving for egusi soup,( it purges me if done with ugu,i usually cook for uziza) but long throat no let me think. I bought ugu, plenty meat et al, cooked and ate, went to stay with my neighbour in her store. After a while I started having stomach upsets, I went home to relieve myself, yeah, you guessed right, I was purging. Unknown to me, I was in labour, wetin I sabi, primip like me.


i practically slept in the toilet that night, DH travelled so I was alone. 

I managed through the night with the mind that I was purging, taking ORT, nothing helped, my waist was already paining me, I thought due to stress from plenty pooping. ‎Next morning I managed to bear it till noon, until I couldn't any longer, went to my neighbour's store (she just had a baby but 3months old) to tell her I was going to the hospital to complain about the pain, immediately I saw her, I burst cry. She already knew, she asked me to carry bag, I said it was just purge, not labour. She got her MIL to follow me to the clinic since there was no one with me at home

I got to the bus stop, momsy called and asked where I was, Ahn Ahn, what do you mean by where am I? She asked again, told her I was going to complain at the hospital about the purge, she said ok. She again knew it was time, I didn't. I got there, they asked if I had seen any sign, I said nothing, but had been pooping all through the night, my due date was close anyway, I was taken inside and checked, 2cm. Was told I had been in labour since last night. 

See cold, I wasn't prepared o, mentally. Had to call my bro to go get my bag at my place, was there all through Friday, still 2cm, my mom came over, on Saturday morning the pain was starting to get out of hand, begged the nurse to come check how far along I'd gotten (learnt from LRD), 4cm. Choi, I begged to be induced, otherwise it was going to be a lonnnnnggggg one. 


I was injected, na there drama start, who send me, it was a general hospital (them try) so we were many there, presently I was the only one in labour, others had delivered the previous night, no one spending more than 10mins in the delivery room. One lady asked me to scream if the pain got too much, told her I didn't see the sense in screaming and exerting myself, if my cervix is not ripe enough, I'd just be wasting my strength, when contractions hit,ill hold on to some iron bars around and breathe in and out for a few mins till it passes, ‎till mid afternoon and I couldn't stand it again , was taken to the delivery room, all of a sudden the contractions stopped, was asked to push, nothing, just poop, the head nurse was angry with me, but all the while saying this baby must breathe.

 I just couldn't push, in my head, I started to recite psalm 23, I even forgot the words, they had to start pushing on my stomach, till I felt one pain that was out of this world, they had to tear me, and bring the baby out, I think I passed out for a minute because when I opened my eyes I saw a full head of hair being pulled out of me and my boy was born. 

My mom was out kabashing all through till she heard our voices. She started calling everyone. I was sutured (LRD again) and cleaned up and we were discharged the next day. In the healing process now, my boy can suck for Africa ehn. That's my story, not with the intent to scare oooooo.


*They tore you and pulled out the baby?Wow,sorry dear.Reading your story gave me gansehaut.....That egusi and runny stomach eh,I have it too oooo.


40 comments:

shes fab said...

Wonderful

Loveme Jeje said...

Chai

Anonymous said...

Mrs Korks,i dey hail oh.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Congrats madam. They tore you how? I actually imagined them tearing you. Women do go through a lot

Anonymous said...

can't wait to send in mine

Blossom said...

We thankGod for safe delivery. Congratulations to you and family.

Emilia Peter said...

Wow congrats dear.

Anonymous said...

Thank God for safe delivery, God bless u and ur baby

Kachi said...

Thank God for safe delivery

blessing favor said...

Thank God for safe delivery...congrats...

Flawless BossQueen said...

Govt and private hospital which one is better? My mum gave birth to all of us in a good private hospital, now some pple said that Govt is better cos of the experienced doctors bt I am thinking of registering in both of them when am reading o
For now lemme keep reading lrd and also learning. I learnt a lot here cos some of my frnds lyk say them swear for them not to explain or narrate only one took her time to explain every every

blessing favor said...

Stella dimokokorkus and aunty landa of sharing life issues have been of great help to me, thank you and continue the good work. I hope to be able to impact lives also. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

My baby came on Tuesday. Still too weak to type.My LRD is gonna be a story and a testimony cos God saved me when things got complicated. Peeps send ur LRD so that d stories won't be cancelled before I'm ready to send mine.

Suoebi(Niger delta finest) said...

Thank God oo,God bless you and your baby

Zinny Chocolate said...

I purge too each time I eat egusi and ugu. Congratulations dear, super women full this world.

Candy YumYum (MIND SO MILITARY) said...

i don't know what people enjoy reading narration of painful experience.
does it not affect you?

Anonymous said...

Bvs who have been married for few years without kids (those nt ready for kids yet) how do u guys feel when ur friends kip on singing do ND give birth or go nd born nd stop doing shakara without thinking if this couple r truly ttc or not.
Funny enuf, I just ignore,infact I don't allow her visit me lyk b4 again. 24/7 she kips on hammering me to do and born, and that I too carry work for head always travelling making money etc. BTW she had her baby outta wedlock nd d guy didn't to marry her. If I have Lil headache,she will scream you r preg, don't take medication. I want to take in when dh and I are ready mbok

Anonymous said...

Bvs who have been married for few years without kids (those nt ready for kids yet) how do u guys feel when ur friends kip on singing do ND give birth or go nd born nd stop doing shakara without thinking if this couple r truly ttc or not.
Funny enuf, I just ignore,infact I don't allow her visit me lyk b4 again. 24/7 she kips on hammering me to do and born, and that I too carry work for head always travelling making money etc. BTW she had her baby outta wedlock nd d guy didn't to marry her. If I have Lil headache,she will scream you r preg, don't take medication. I want to take in when dh and I are ready mbok

Anonymous said...

Congrats dear on your new born, we thank God for his mercies. Mom & baby boy are doing fine. It's a boy, so let him latch on the 'bwest'....they can eat??.Very soon 'bwest' milk will not satisfy him, you'll need to add formula (bottle milk) to fill him up so you'll be able to hear word from his crying.

Anonymous said...

Congrats madam, it could only be God, Lord listen to my plead for children and bless me this month, that is all i can say.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

Congrats, no one should be alone when their due date is close.

THE KING"S QUEEN said...

Awwwwwwwww,CONGRATS and may your newly born bring blessings, happiness and joy to your family. God please let me deliver like the Hebrew women o. Handling pain is one thing i'm not good@.Even my siblings used to tease me that when the time comes for me to push,everybody in our house must be in the FAVOUR room with me.lol

baby blu said...

I love LRD. Women are really trying

Snow Whytt said...

This tearing is rlly scaring me.. i have less than 2 months to go. Lord Jesus , let my own be like those of the hebrew women. AMEN.

kay elsie said...

Wow primip doh

PLATINUM said...

Congrats on the arrival of ur patter dear.

marriedchick said...

has anyone been to the general hospital at gbagada? please share ur experience oo am thinking of going there for delivery...

Anonymous said...

Stella no stop LRD yet o... mine will be ready in Jan. Although I'm currently on bedrest so e fit happen anytime.. aa I'm already dilated to 2cm :D

crystal said...

My dear everybody Na Hebrew woman o. You come out, your pikin come out wetin remain again?

Chidinma Gift said...

Is it your reading or painment

Chidinma Gift said...

Congrats

Mosi Jubelo said...

I don't even know to be honest.
I had my baby in a government hospital, and everything was OK.

Mosi Jubelo said...

Tell her you'll take in when you guys are ready....
What's her own na, isit her marriage?

myraclebee said...

Welcome baby boy.
Gods grace and favour.

Scarlett said...

If you know Ugu purges you, why allow long throat take you that far? congrats on a successful delivery. me i can never go through vaginal birth. i love my pussy intact.

Roundabout said...

Women dey try sha..... Congrats dear

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Anonymous said...

Had mine in lagos Island maternity,their private ward is 70k for 5day, c-section is abt 50k,very lovely place, enjoyed my stay there, u get to ve 3sq meal,ac, dstv....trust me u will like it, there is a big hospital opposite LIMH that source for doc for LIMH and they take 450k for c-section. Wisdom is profitable to direct...

Anonymous said...

Had cs too, maternal request.... I requested for it myself nio.I can not come and die of pain and It was done in LIMH.....doc Afolabi, I dey hail ooh.

Anonymous said...

Me too, mom taught us to blanch the ugwu and no purging.

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