Normally one should feel good knowing their name was mentioned in this manner but i dont...I dont at all because this book is all shades of wrong......Why mention my full name when you can just make reference to me and people will know?
I hope this STI gist will not trail me as well and please can my phone stop ringing and can people stop forwarding this page to me?
Thank you!
Stella,you don't have to be worried,this shows you actually do your job right by confirming the autheticity of any news before breaking it on your blog which makes you a seasoned journalist.I'm sure toke meant no harm by mentioning your full name,let it slide after all its good publicity for this great blog,now I have to get this book...Toke please bring this book to our stores here ooo.lol
ReplyDeleteSisi eko thank you o. I try to understand SDK on this but I didn't get it. This only shows you do your job well and you practice investigative journalism. One day the comedian and wife too will mention how you help safe their home.
ReplyDeleteBona parte and anonymous 21:35... God bless you both
ReplyDeleteYeaaaaah! Bonaparte oooooh!
ReplyDeleteSee epistle!
Calm yourself right down. Didn't you blog her? She didn't mention your name in a bad context. Stop being a drama queen. You enjoy writing abour people and their issues and just the mention of your name u r acting as if u'v been bitten by a snake. Ko radarada e siwaju jare. Mtchewwwwww
ReplyDeleteThey will just be insulting the poor Toke and they will still send their own chronicles. Even with the advice they know how to give. The woman went through a lot it wasn't only the Anita, I started reading the book and I can't put it down. You say her self esteem is zero but she is one strong lady to grow and move on like she has after all this. I don't see why Stella and all these yeye people are bad mouthing her. It's her story let her tell it. Maybe it will help the women out there still swallowing bullshit in the name of love.
ReplyDeleteStella chilling like \●______/ ..i got mentioned...now she is forming vex...*that dog side eyes you always put up* ��
ReplyDeleteHa but you people have bad mouth sha. We all know life isn't black and white. We are all entitled to our opinions oh but some of you are just plain savage
ReplyDeleteStella makes money writing about other people, there's no big deal in her mentioning your name, unless it never happened. Your calling her was not privileged and she is not wrong in referring to you by your full name.
ReplyDeleteLol stella why the vex?please calm down jareh,good thing she mentioned you in her book
ReplyDelete22.44 ok, expose your gusset in public and quit 'assuming'. What 'grief'? Who died by the way. go back and read my comment and stop making a fuss over nada. Preserve your data well, no one has time for your prognosis. Sorry if your husband did the same to you. Also go and fund a radio station to broadcast your entire problem to the whole world. Remember, dignity surpasses celebrity worshiping, which is what you are doing. Go and eat. Chop kiss.
ReplyDelete22.44 ok, expose your gusset in public and quit 'assuming'. What 'grief'? Who died by the way? Go back and read my comment and stop making a fuss over nada. Preserve your data well, no one has time for your prognosis. Sorry if your husband did the same to you. Also go and find a radio station to broadcast your entire problem to the whole world. Remember, dignity surpasses celebrity worshiping, which is what you are doing. Go and eat. Chop kiss.
ReplyDeleteWhat did she say to defame her character Biko? She only mentioned her name didn't make any false statements with intent to harm Stella's reputation so how did she defame her character. There really is no grounds for complaint.
ReplyDeleteSDK
ReplyDeleteI had a good laugh tonight! Waiting for season 2
@iris this is the best I have heard today... Some women are soft and petty... And if the only way they can get over any pain or psychological trauma is to tell all then let the women be... Keeping pain and hurt and hiding the truth about failed marriage by women is what makes most women look older than their age, sad, and left alone to even catter for the kids while the Man goes about gallivanting and free leaving her hurt... Women should not be scared to act like women we should not try to act from the fear that the society has put in us when it comes to issues like this... Speaking out and telling the secret can heal the hurt most times
ReplyDelete@peacemaker,dem suppose lock you up inside nekede zoo cos that's where you belong as the zunga that you is
ReplyDeleteLol stella why the vex?please calm down jareh,good thing she mentioned you in her book
ReplyDeleteSira am sure you have a very high IQ, wise words... I am on Tokes side too
ReplyDeleteYou are just an idiot.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha better painment oo
ReplyDeleteThank you oh, I swear we are our own worst enemy at times women find it difficult to have our owns back. I'm reading the book and I want to cry for her. For all the good people she let slip for a man like make or how she must have been broken inside to live her life that way. And I come here to see people who send in their own chronicles everyday and should be able to identify with her story bashing her and running their mouths. ''Tis indeed sad to see.
ReplyDeleteThis book na end time book oh!At this point i think my name is next lmao.At least u called her it shows how professional and unique U are.
ReplyDeleteAbeg don't feel bad jare.you have proved that u are not a copy amd paste blogger.
Shebi all those people way dey move about says SDK carry fake rumours would rest coz not it is clearly stated that u confirm your gist bf breaking and seek for approval which i am sure other bloggers didnt do bf breaking it.look beyond the name mentioned.
And bail in your popularity.
The girl is sick I hope she has treated her sti properly? Coz bottom line is that the other woman had a son for hee man.
Where did this one come from?ewu
ReplyDeleteExactly my thoughts tush baby.cox if na me I no go confirm self post am straight up.
ReplyDeleteChai this lady toke just helped her self to finish her self,for herself and by her self.
ReplyDeleteStella bae
ReplyDeleteIt is because it is a tell all book. Toke has taken gossip to a new height. If you hadn't called Stella you wouldn't have been mentioned.
ReplyDeleteNo need fretting. It put you in a good light anyway.
Don't mind Stella. Dramaqueen.
ReplyDelete@Galore ,Quality madam and Peace maker NEEDS help ????? OK. continue
ReplyDelete.no problem.
@Na U talk am ,Can I tell this to her face??? Abegi who is she again???
ReplyDeleteEven if nobody does(which I doubt), I get you.
ReplyDeleteIf Toke truly started "seeing" Maje when she was 18 it means she wasted 20 precious years with him .And it's quite shameful.I hope other young women learn from Toke's mistake. Once you confirm that ur boyfriend is irresponsible ,be courageous and leave him.Don't waste d sweetest part of ur life with him hoping that he will change .
ReplyDeleteJust look at Toke today at almost 40 no husband,no family of her own, no children,no marriage and she now tells d world that she has STDs(perhaps Staphylococcus and AIDS) from Maje ,any man still having a second thought about her will do an Hussein Bolt.
Almost 40? Shut your trap. Nitwit.
DeleteShe's done nothing wrong with mentioning those names linked to her true life story. But one hook on her is the intentional deception of presenting a good frintroduction of herself to the public on her Vlog, while now she's revealed a pungent, rotten and twisted life, fake marriage and bogus relationship she had with Maje.
ReplyDeleteIn all she's a questionable character, highly deceptive and dangerously fraudulent.
A woman that both men and women must be cautious of doing anthing with. She's a conniving bitch, silly liar, delusional and completely fake.
After reading toke write up about her relationship, it got me thinking alot about myself and other women facing the same situation, the issue is not about maje betrayer, or him being a bad person, toke and the like of us, lack love when growing up as a child, that void is a space we are always hungry for to be filled, but unfortunately by the wrong people, who only want to stay with us out of pity, but their true love is somewhere else, you are not what they really want for life, but how can they bring themselves to telling you that knowing how much you have been through all your life, how can they hurt this woman who has done me nothing but good, but the reality is that their heart long for someone else, the only way to escape is to result into dating different women or getting another pregnant, so they can breakaway from you. I have been there, I am still hurting for 2yrs now, I want to write a book about my ordeal, I want to put my pain into a book, but not for sales, I will keep it as my diary.if ever l find love again and God bless me with children, they will read the story of my life, which I am going to topic, I THOUGHT LOVE WAS FOR FREE.
ReplyDeleteStella is ecstatic abeg!
ReplyDeleteAnon 21.22, I spit on u too. If hysterical stella's case is ok becos she invades too,wat of anita, wrting abt sti,sextapes etc.i definitely don't want someone to write abt me in dat context. Infact maje abeg marry anita,dats d best revenge. I used to admire toke strength,her silence,but not anymore. The RICH ALSO CRY
ReplyDeleteSdk why de thn d vex u naa..u mention celebs names everyday on dis blog and one mention of ur full name u begin vex..mk u dey fear God small abeg..lol
ReplyDeleteTwo-faced blog bvs one time they are singing your praises they other time they are cussing you. This is the reason why I hate some of your bvs. They are flakes!
ReplyDeleteLast born, na you get sense pass.
ReplyDeletePurging and healing? Can Toke ever heal? She's got inferiority complex issues which she needs to deal with.
ReplyDeleteThank you...jst what i thot
ReplyDeleteIts all for publicity, money and inferiority complex issues.
ReplyDeleteWorthless idiot, Toke be deceiving poor innocent young girls.
When Tiwa did the interview, was she directly compensated? I nor blame any of them cussing you out... Sense is far from them! Just like Galore, they're thinking with their assholes hence finding no ounce of wrong in Toke writing a book to gain financial and emotional returns. She's just inferior with the lowest self esteem.
ReplyDeleteSDK's GOT A NEW FAN!!!
Y'all are so dense as in over dense !!! This is stellas way of publicizing this book !!! Can't believe over 200+ ppl are stupid . Kai small wonder u have a clueless leader.
ReplyDelete@ Galore is it your jamb question? So somebody cannot seek knowledge again!! That's y y'all young people know nothing cos u just want to come to social media and show yourselves
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 22:42 so the only thing that Toke has about her life is a failed relationship cos dictionary defines autobiography as - a history of a person's life written or told by that person. I suppose that's all life is for her sha!! Make she well done
My question still remains unanswered, is it legal to mention someone's name in a book without telling them /asking permission... #JustCurious
Nicely penned down thoughts @ Bonaparte
ReplyDeleteStella,nothing is wrong in Toke mentioning your name!!! After all, you are a journalist, Blogger, a public figure. That is Toke's way of appreciating your call. No big deal hon. Or didn't you call? Whether the book is all shades of wrong,isn't for you nor anybody to judge. Is it makes her feel better,GOOD!!! If it adds more cash into her pocket, GOOD! If it makes her more popular.....oh! The better. Love me some SDK and keep doing what makes you happy. Drops mic
ReplyDeleteI cant imagine myself in Toke's shoes...I feel for her sha..it is not easy to go through a heart break. Pls u guys, take it easy wt her. Stella, take chill pills too.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...mi I'm just scared for my tokstar wen maje n Anita decide to spill ! Ho!no! It will b tragic for T baby.....Stella its alright its more traffic for u. I'm sure ur not happy with ur name there cos ur not in support of d book! But its ok
ReplyDeleteVery annoying, selfish and immature !! She begged not to be quoted, sent SMS and thanked u, here u are putting it out. Jeez!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteBut to b sincere if it was in 'd abroad', those pple being mentioned would av sued her.
ReplyDeleteBut its Naija.so anything goes!
Did she lie?No....so what's the problem?
ReplyDeleteI figured, she's just forming vex.
ReplyDeleteStella, u shld be happy she made u popular more and I appreciate the face dat u called her before posting the story. U are a good blogger and I love u more for that. It means u are human. More grease to ur elbow stella
ReplyDeleteHian! The book has upto 250 pages? You people should enjoy the long read o.
ReplyDeleteIphie, you are very objective.
ReplyDeleteShe is Toke Makinwa! Who are you?
ReplyDeleteWhat is the difference between give a tell -all interview versus a tell us book hmmmm.
ReplyDeleteAll the women saying don`t say, and people are in worst situation should remain in their situations. Leave Toke alone, she is hurt had to express herself.
Calm down and type correctly before you carry person matter for head.
ReplyDeleteI am in love with this piece nothing more to add.
ReplyDeleteAm not in total support of this toke story, at least there was a time maje was good to her. If I hv by any chance to tell toke abt my mom story, she will hate the word MARRIAGE'
ReplyDeleteBonna parte, I love your comment. You have said it all nothing more to add.
ReplyDeleteI love you @Doctor's wife. Same school of thought. Very intelligent response. Stella didn't post my response cos I rebuked her!!!! What's the big deal in Toke mentioning your name? She simply acknowledged your "nose" for news. Qed
ReplyDeleteThose who are going through worse should feel free to write a tell- all book •
ReplyDeleteDo you! Toke is herself •
At least she will be remembered for standing up for herself •
Much live tokstar•
I tire o! Stella you called. And she quoted you..shikena.
ReplyDeleteBut I always thought if one is about to be mentioned in a book, you have to inform the person in question. Dont really care what she had to say but you dont spring surprises on people hearing they are mentioned in a book. I just feel the characters should have been renamed sha. Her cup of tea. She thrives in publicity, no matter the way it comes up.
ReplyDeleteStella seriously? I am a huge fan of yours but i think you should let it go. Perhaps making it as real as possible is what she "feels" would give her closure. And its nice that you dont put the need to be the first to put out exclusive above peoples feelings, from what she read you checked up on her first. Keep up the good job ,love you loads
ReplyDeleteDont read it then simples. We want to read
ReplyDeleteStella you are bring an idiot. You that is marriead to an OAP that you hide. Infact noone knows if he is still alive or with you. You failed to find fresh young black dick. Dont lets us come for you. You are not half the person Toke is. Your third class degree was deserved. Dont blame that lecturer. You are shallow and have no empathy. When it was gossip you printed it. Now she is telling her own story. Get away with your ugly family
ReplyDeleteOh how I love the way she mentioned it...
ReplyDeleteBtw, Toke please sow seed into this ministry because a lot of BVs will definitely buy and read your book even those in abroad.
Aswear that intruder/home wreck-Anita na core bv...
Stella get ready for more testimonies of how they saw your name in Toke's book, googled it and landed HEREEEEE.
Hmmmm.... All i can say is that i pray that toke heals completely this time... Only she wore the shoe and knew where it hurts most, some of us here are going through worst scenerio and we hid under that fact that ours is still a secret so we judge others who has theirs already in the open... I dont know at what age she went into the relationship and if the other woman was already on the scene... She may have truly be in love with this guy, i have seen love make people do crazy things, and seriously i dont want to judge maje because i maybe biased, but my question to him is did he ever loved Toke or was he just having fun with her emotions... Why was he not man enough to breakup with toke and marry the girl he claims he love...people handle heartbreak differently, some just walk away, some think they are better of dead, some would have the heartbreakers dead and buried and since Toke has choosen to purge herself by writting a book i say let her be people... The fact that you can handle every emotional meltdown you encounter does not mean others can and the fact that they cant does not make them weak, it only means they are not capable of handling such and as such they should not be played on... Stella darling, i'm sure she meant no harm in mentioning your name,ok? So dont be offended...
ReplyDeleteNever Judge,Not even a book ,by its cover....
ReplyDeleteI never liked Toke, had a friend who was all about her and her Vlog, that friend was in a toxic relationship but always white-washed it and I'm like, why-follow-a-vlog-of-a-broken-woman-dishing-out-unfounded-advice ? no matter how ingenious she sounded with her content, i couldn't deal. whatever her reason for writing this book however is not to be judged.
Anon 23:19 tnk u. Legally its all shades of wrong. Was it not d same thing that actress/producer did with her friend?writing n producing a movie of a woman whose husband was sleeping wit her daughter n using their real names without permission? Wat did y'all say?in a civilized country Toke n anita n mant others will b engaged in a legal battle by now.
ReplyDeleteNever Judge,Not even a book ,by its cover....
ReplyDeleteI never liked Toke, had a friend who was all about her and her Vlog, that friend was in a toxic relationship but always white-washed it and I'm like, why-follow-a-vlog-of-a-broken-woman-dishing-out-unfounded-advice ? no matter how ingenious she sounded with her content, i couldn't deal. whatever her reason for writing this book however is not to be judged.
Stella ukwu sugar pls calm down baby 😙. She met no harm. This is she pulling more traffic to your blog.
ReplyDeleteToke Toke.... more grease to your elbow.
Abi ooooo 😁😁😅
ReplyDeleteExactly.... This will also make your audience to know you don't just publish stories, you confirm all your exclusives.
ReplyDeleteBonaparte chop sloppy kiss joor 💋💋👄👄👄😘😙
ReplyDeleteOur blog need a lot of cash this season o
ReplyDelete. Bwahahahahahahahahaah😁😁😅😅😂😂😅😂
Did you or did you not call her? If you did then what's the big deal about her mentioning your name? Don't you think it is ignorant to assume that if she simply said SDK everyone will know who you are? I mean.... Not only Nigerians will buy the book. You should be grateful for the traffic. Don't play victim or make this about you. It's repulsive!
ReplyDeleteI got the book today but page 10 was blank. Don't understand why she excluded that part of the story. Just wondering.
ReplyDelete"Ngy Dear"
Stella no vex ooooo...its shows you r professional
ReplyDeleteStella just let it go.
ReplyDeleteToke has given us traffic,cause she mentioned your full name.
Good or bad publicity is still good for you.
Dear Maje/Anita (and the whole Ayida and Solomon Family)
ReplyDeleteplease don’t say anything to anybody. Leave all to God. Just keep quiet and watch. It might take a month or maybe a year but in die time you will be exonerated.
Do not say anything, let her continue going on world tour bashing you (and indirectly your son and whole Ayida Family and Solomon Family)
Let people assume anything they want to and judge u if they want to based on what Holy Mary Toke is saying. Don’t fight any battle with this mentally unstable girl let God do the fighting for you.
Silence is the best way of revenge. I promise you you will be exonerated in due time. Don’t grant any interviews, ignore everyone. Let her continue her nonsense. Last but not least utilize your block button on social media whoever comes on there to disrespect you when they only heard one side of the story. Protect your precious son from media too.
Stella, let it slide. Toke no be Journalist and no sabi write codedly. Toke u sef for no write anything na. na u them first break her heart? haba na
ReplyDeleteI think everyone is getting it wrong. This book is an autobiography of her life. It contains all her life story. From childhood to adult hood. Her mariage issue was just a few chapters. I don't know why pple that have not read the book are carrying this negative propaganda. Do you know she lost her both parents as a child? She even explained how they died in a fire!!. It's not just about Anita and Maje. Please read the book first before you let others dictate your view.
ReplyDeleteI think everyone is getting it wrong. This book is an autobiography of her life. It contains all her life story. From childhood to adult hood. Her mariage issue was just a few chapters. I don't know why pple that have not read the book are carrying this negative propaganda. Do you know she lost her both parents as a child? She even explained how they died in a fire!!. It's not just about Anita and Maje. Please read the book first before you let others dictate your view.
ReplyDeleteI think everyone is getting it wrong. This book is an autobiography of her life. It contains all her life story. From childhood to adult hood. Her mariage issue was just a few chapters. I don't know why pple that have not read the book are carrying this negative propaganda. Do you know she lost her both parents as a child? She even explained how they died in a fire!!. It's not just about Anita and Maje. Please read the book first before you let others dictate your view.
ReplyDeleteI think everyone is getting it wrong. This book is an autobiography of her life. It contains all her life story. From childhood to adult hood. Her mariage issue was just a few chapters. I don't know why pple that have not read the book are carrying this negative propaganda. Do you know she lost her both parents as a child? She even explained how they died in a fire!!. It's not just about Anita and Maje. Please read the book first before you let others dictate your view.
ReplyDelete"I dont at all because this book is all shades of wrong......" Stella I don't see anything wrong with the book at all. Obviously for her to be celebrating her dog's six months bday then she's damn lonely. She needs shoulders to lean on,people to listen to her.Maybe if she had a child she will have told what she's telling the world to that child but she doesn't. She has found solace in God and she thinks she can find it in the public.
ReplyDeletePlease let's stop calling her out. Even if the contents book is wrong like you say stella. May be she wrote the book to make money but responses from it can make her heal. She needed to speak to someone and be reassured she can still find love. I am not a Toke fan.I don't know about her vblog other commenters have bn mentioning. I know she's a woman who is emotionally weak who seeks attention from us.pls if you can't help her get out of her frustration simply let it go pls let's direct positivity towards her. Yes she's done bad things that shouldn't be celebrated but pls let's help her heal.Women are weaker vessels. I am a woman I have never really been hurt but I know how it feels to be disappointed. Maje is a part of her. And he's left with that part of her.pls let's help her fill the void he' has created rather than expand it.
#Istandwithwomanhood.
Kaycee where you appear from?
ReplyDeleteI have always respected you Stella but to say I am disappointed at the way you have been overreacting to Toke's book will be an understatement. You keep acting like you are all about women empowerment but clearly that is a big lie...it is only women empowerment when it comes to you. Secondly, Toke has every right to bear her heart in whichever format she chooses (including a book). If she has decided to make money out of sharing her story, instead of sharing it free of charge on social media like Tiwa Savage whose business is it please? You would have preferred to dig out the details yourself and post it as exclusive so you can bring traffic to your blog right? You are so selfish and too self-indulgent to look at your own flaws. As for being angry that she wrote down your complete name, I hope you also ask all the celebrities for permission before using their full names. You comfortably write about celebrities' private lies and yet blast them when they get angry and finish you on social media...WOW!!! Just wow!!! You are so annoying
ReplyDeletePS: I am not Toke Makinwa, I'm just a woman tired of Stella's hypocrisy
Shes selfish some people are living worse life like this war countries killing children parents and families leaving them with nothing!! Even bokoharm evilness! They're who date for years and they end up breaking! So, she's not the only one who have been in relationship that long! Let her get over self and move on already!! Besides she can't be a saint throughout the 12 years of relationship!Let her thank her God for coming out strong! I do not pity her at all!! Maybe we should all write our own life problem and see who get pass! So much attention smh
ReplyDeleteChoi! I've missed o. Guess I might read the book after all. A friend sent me the pdf. Toke should have made reference to Sdk though.
ReplyDeleteYou all read the damn book
ReplyDeletePeace Na wah o. I don talk am women are our own worst enemies. If it's kin kardashian that wrote this book u would super praise her. Now a Nigerian woman is writing what many women are going through but are too scared to talk of and u r cursing her. Na wah for u. Me I love toke for this.
ReplyDeleteNo one told u guys not to write. Why beef the girl for doing what u have been too timid to do??
ReplyDeleteMy dear she painted both of them like victims. Maje is narcissistic and she was emotionally weak. Trust me I know what she went through. Been there and done that. Once u r emotion aly invested its hard to give up.
ReplyDeleteSo everyone is saying Toke is this, that, weak and blah bla bla!. We have all done or thoughtnof things that we will be ashamed to admit to ourselves let alone tell the world. She's healing, it takes a lot to bare everything out the way she has done. Whether or not she stretched the truth is another story but I pray she finds peace. Dating him so young gave maje a power over her, she loved him so much he could do no wrong. It happens oh...
ReplyDeleteThis is a perfect example of. "u can dish it out, but not take it". Blogs made money at the expense of her shame and hurt. Stella has published stories that have destroyed reputations and relationships, yet she is angry Abt Toke mentioning her name.
ReplyDeleteThere is God o.
Abeg Toke baby, make money @ their expense