Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point 13

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Saturday, 26 November 2016

The Meeting Point 13

Every story has a meeting point!




Good day Stella.

I am a BV from Ghana and I came across your blog when you posted the TTC Prayer Points. Anyway, let me tell you about how I met my DH (Dear Husband). It's a bit long, pardon me.

I work at a bank in Accra and the company my husband works for has their account domiciled at my branch. In October 2011, I assumed duties as the Administrative Secretary of the branch so my office was just before the branch Manager's office. 


My DH is the Senior Accountant for the company so he was visiting the branch frequently with his boss (Chief accountant).
I liked him the first time I set my eyes on him. He is tall and tough, fair skin, shaves bald and leaves moustache (more like Banky W). OMG, I just wanted this guy to greet me so that I will respond and find a way of turning the greeting into a conversation but lai lai, all he would say before he passed to my boss' office was "hi". 

How can a person turn "hi" into a conversation? I said to myself, this dude is too-known, and rude.

Fast forward to February 2012, DH visited the branch and as usual said "hi" and went to my boss' office. After he left, my boss called me into her office and was beaming with joy, she asked me if DH was not hot and handsome and every woman's dream man? I answered in the affirmative and left her office with a broken heart. My boss was 32 years ,single and searching so I thought DH had proposed to her. I was only 21 years so I said, okay my boss needs a husband more than I do now so let her have him, my own will come.


I stopped paying attention to him and smiling whenever he visited. However, I noticed that anytime he visited, my boss would follow him out and get him to stand at my office and chat with him, then she would ask for my contribution, I cannot find the words to describe how much that upset me.


2 months later, sometime in April 2012, DH came to the branch but there were visitors in my boss' office so he had to wait in my office. After about 5 minutes, he mentioned my name and said, "I want to marry you". I was upset, I insulted him, how dare he say that to me when it was clear that he was dating my boss.


 My boss came out to ask what the noise was about and after I told her, she laughed at me. DH was asking about me from my boss and that was why she asked me if I found him hot. He was 27 years and not dating my boss. My birthday was the following month, he bought me a beautiful cake and we became friends. We got married in March 2014, I was 23.

I thank God for a beautiful and amazing life with him, we are still praying for the fruit of the womb and I'm still doing the TTC prayer points.


Side Note: My boss got married a year after I did and she has given birth to a beautiful baby girl.

*There was no conversation and he just called your name and said he wants to Marry you?what a bold man!..Stay happy....You sabi make Kenke?



71 comments:

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

I don't know why Ghananian likes fair girls and guys...
Any nigga that is fair irritate the shit out of me!...
Lovely story!...

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Congratulations dear.

TUSH BABY said...

That feeling you get when you marry your crush

Anonymous said...

Awww, that's nice
Your crush became your hubby..

Fabmum

Anonymous said...

Ghana and you use lai lai?

Anonymous said...

You just married in 2014 and already that desparate for kids? I don't understand. Or there is something I don't know.

peace maker said...

Good to know

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Wooow
Nice one

Iphie dearie said...

I just used my past Mills and Boon reading mind to picture the whole scenario..

This handsome tall man with head shinning like Banky's walks in,with his eyes locked to hers and says: "Susan,I want to marry you"

Susan flares up! "How dare you"
"I am not one of those ladies that swoon around you" She says.
Who do you think you are?

"I am decent!! I know you are dating my boss"

"You swagger in here like you are God's gift to women with your nicely carved beard and utter this"

Then the boss walks in,clears the air and Susie blushes... whispers in a husky voice: Yes! Yes! I will marry youπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
They lived happily ever after....




Don't mind me jare,I'm in a naughty mood..

You are in my prayers.. expecting your labour room drama soon😘😘😘
Amen..


Chidinma Gift said...

Wow sweet story, don't worry your expectations shall not be cut off

Anonymous said...

I met my husband 6yrs ago at the park when i was hawking bannana for my mum. I was a virgin when i met him. Then,wen he came for my hand, my mum refused. Said there was something off about him. That she can't place her fingers on it. I begged my mum to give us her blessings. She refused. My hubby cried his eyes out. He was crying because he taught my mum rejected him cos he was poor. He vowed to make it at all cost. After much pleading, my mum gave us her blessings. Looking back,i sincerely regret not listening to my mum. Its being six years of pain an agony. He made it quite alright. We go on vacations, get everything i want but I'm unhappy. I have just a son, an imbecile. I've been ttc for more than 4yrs now. What pains me most is that my hubby isn't bothered at all. He doesn't go to church, doesn't allow me either. Hospital nkor? He doesn't. People have started saying he is a cultist. That he used our child for sacrifice. I'm beginning to suspect him since he doesn't want us to seek solution for our son. and isn't bothered. IM TIRED!

Monkeynofine said...

Beautiful. I smile all through reading this. May God bless u with ur heart desire Amen

Nne nwa said...

so beautiful
your boss is such an angel.
by this time next year, you would carry your own baby

temmy yemmy said...

Nice story, God will answer u speedily with triplet IJN


@Tee_y

Blackberry said...

You shall receive double.

Tayan Taylor said...

Hmmmmmm love is beautiful, I know that any good man will always be good, you don't need to date for years or be his Lord of the ring. What I understand is most relationship stay long because of financial issues
A bad man is a bad man

shaybee said...

na real bold man ooo
















coming.....

Anonymous said...

Me love your story

Pipi Lee said...

Nice story!

Pipi Lee said...

God's speed as u TryTC.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Oh wow nice story.I'm happy for you poster. It was normal to think he liked your boss lol

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

I noticed that anytime he visited, my boss would follow him out and get him to stand at my office and chat with him, then she would ask for my contribution, I cannot find the words to describe how much that upset me...
Hahahahahahahahahaha I don't know why I find that funny

Anonymous said...

Whats wrong with that???? Get off your narrow mind

St.FranKooL.... said...

#You acted like it didn't bother you. But inside it's killing you*

Adeniji Bisi said...

Abeg...I no fit laf...ur lie lie too much.

Come,tell me,r u a magnet,someone just came and said marry me,
*u abused him
*ur bufda
*he bought u cake

No more no less..

Abeg get indoor and wipe ur mouth and wash ur hands with hypo



Mc pinky

Anonymous said...

You're dumb. Where did you see desperation in what she said?

Rose said...

Anon 13:12,that is extremely heartless of you. If you haven't TTCed, you'll never understand what it feels like, so, shut up!

Anonymous said...

Why don't you help yourself woman? You want to have another imbecile before you do something?

You said you're suspecting, you just don't want to believe the reality.

Rhoda Rex said...

Han?? 😏😏😏😏😏😏

Anonymous said...

Biko a little bit of that combination will do just fine, pirry them o jare!

xxxTrinityxxx said...

First never call your own child an imbecile.very derogatory word.he is mentally disabled not an imbecile.
Secondly yes your husband might have a hand in your son's situation.why not ignore him and still take that boy to church???or you can take your son and husbands pic to MFM headquarters or prayer city and pray on the pics and tell God to reveal things to you

Pink shell said...

How can u call ur son an imbecile?
U go on vac but u cant steal some money frm ur hubby n carry ur pickin go hospital.
Madam e dey your body oo.
Infact e full your body.
And y must it be him, are u crippled?

Monkeynofine said...

I love dem dark ..... I can't imagine myself dating a light skin guy not to talk of marrying to one.

Monkeynofine said...

NA from clap dem dey enter dance. It's better she start ttc now

Monkeynofine said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ sorry I have to laugh cos this shit is funny.

temmy yemmy said...

I think he's a ritualist sef coz u said "he vowed to make it @all cost" and he eventually did, who knows wat he use to av d money.
Pple do unspeakable things jst to av money these days.

Fuck you said...

Wow

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Arrrhhhh

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

What a concise narrative...
I like!!!!

peace maker said...

Anon 13:12 can u pls shut ur filthy mouth if u don't hv anything reasonable to say.

stephan said...

Sincereky i'v always liked them huge and dark. Abd God answered my prayers.inukwa fair?even oyinos like them dark rod,they say it's magical.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh

Anonymous said...

Linda Eze every man cannot be dirty and uneducated oshodi market trader like your husband

Shy Artsy gal... said...

Ewoo! See One chance... I'm so sorry for you. Just pray.... It changes things

Vickie berries said...

Hmmmm

Anonymous said...

LMAO..

You did read alot of mills and booms like me

Fabmum

stunning slim shady said...

Wow.... I was just smiling all thru n dint want d story to come to an end.

Anonymous said...

I luv ur story

Anonymous said...

Madam, i was once in your shoes. I confronted him o. He said the day i go to church, that's the day i will leave his house. I disobeyed him o. Took my son for deliverance. It was while i was in church that pastor now made revelations. It was my hubby all along.he used my son for rituals. I just jejerly packed my things and left his house. Filled for divorce. He threatened to deal with me bla bla bla. I just ignored his treats. Stupid occult man.πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Ehi Human hairs and handmade wigs London said...

I'm sure that's exactly how it played out😊😊😊

Becky Divine said...

Like seriously! Happy for you dearie

Anonymous said...

I like darkskinned men but lightskinned men turns my head and my vagina, they get me horny and shivering. If he is lightskinned and fine...oh boy. That is it.

Darksinned men are definitely always packing more but lightskinned men are the ish men.

KING XOXO MYSTERY



Keesha said...

Hehe...

Na Godwin said...

Anon 13:12, I pity you. Pray you don't find your self in such situation.

Na Godwin said...

Anon 13:12, I pity you. Pray you don't find your self in such situation.

Stella Asemota said...

Ayam not understanding!

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Chai,Linda I ji ya.Nothing like a dark strong dick biko.

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Anon 13:55,you are stupid.When do you want her to start praying for the child,5 or 10 years into Marriage?

Starjoy said...

@queen and the boss one man's meet is another man's poison

Anonymous said...

She could be a Nigerian living in Ghana.

SANDY NEKY said...

Woow nice story! Congrats! God will visit you soon. Enjoy your marriage

Empress Windy. said...

Oga ooo

Empress Windy. said...

I love your story

ukwu dimond said...

Nice one, may God grant you all our heart desiressssssss.

ukwu dimond said...

Madam you better borrow legs and run for your dear life, why ttc with such a man? You want to have another ..........

Jasmine said...

Some men r like that. They go straight to the point. Get off your stupidity

Blossom said...

Some people can be so heartless? So you want her to wait 10yrs before she starts trying?

Never belittle anyone's waiting period. We all handle things differently. The woman who has waited 5yrs and another who waited 1month both have a desire in their heart,and until it is fufilled,they won't rest so don't talk thrash.

May God visit you soon poster. Nice story.

Lemonade said...

A lot of Ghanaians visit this blog oo, Stella's blog is too litπŸ”₯πŸ”₯.
I am always talking about the blog to anyone who cares to listen πŸ˜‚ .
Ghanafo W) korom ampa

Anonymous said...

You are yet to meet my bf... He's light skinned and he's the biggest I've seen /had.

Anonymous said...

Omo senseless. Shut up ur dirty mouth!!!

The Ghanaian Chick said...

Thank you Aunty Stella for posting my meeting point. Yes I can make kenkey very well (Fante kenkey, Ga kenkey, Osino kenkey).

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