Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point 7

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Sunday, 20 November 2016

The Meeting Point 7

Two Hearts that meet/beat as one?Tell us the Meeting point and how it spiralled into love....

 
Met him in a plane on my way back from my wedding introduction. Yes, you read right, my wedding introduction in the village. I was a spinster for a long time, graduated to a gwegz,then a a super gwegz, From the age of 28, there was pressure for me to get married from my patents and family but no husband. 


The toasters I had were not my kind, the ones that I liked, I later discovered had serious relationships or were married. Some will come, profess love,we start dating, after a year, they will just start acting up and leave. My age kept ticking. I had a fantastic job so I buried myself in my career, at 35,i already bought a cute bungalow in an estate in ajah, had 2 sport utility vehicles ,landed properties here and there yet no man.


 My mum began to torment me as 3 my younger ones were happily married with kids. I became a general project at work, in church, amongst friends and extended family members. Then I met this guy, he came strong, was persistent, wanted marriage, never dressed on sex and was willing to wait till wedding night but the guy was not as educated as I was, not as comfortable as I was, I did not like the fact that he and ALL his friends had igbo accent though I'm an igbo girl too. Because of my age at the time, I decided to give him a chance. We dated on and off for 2 years. 


Sex was bad, kissing bad, romance lousy but I wanted to just marry though I did not feel an iota of love for him. My mum always told me the love will grow with time. We fixed our wedding dates. I was 38 going to 39. Off to the village we went for the first leg, his family meeting my family officially. It was meant to be small but Stella, it was a carnival of sorts. I stayed behind in the village for 2 days before heading back. I was wearing his engagement ring but was sad, I even cried a bit in the cab that took me from my village to the airport. Airport protocols observed, I found seated by me on the plane, a very handsome hunk but paid no more than a passing glance.


 Suddenly he began chatting me up. His voice and diction were what I always dreamt of, he had a great sense of humour and I laughed all through the short flight to Lagos. I felt he was married because he was too much of a package to be single. When we landed, we walked through the checks together to the car park where both our drivers were waiting already. We exchanged cards and parted. He called immediately, we talked till I got home. Evening, he came to pick me up for dinner then we ended up at his place,Wow, the guy is way more successful than I am, one of the strong points I wanted in a husband, also discovered he's never been married.I opened up to him on the story of my life. 


Then he said I should return the ring and he will marry me because I am everything he wants in a wife, he was everything I wanted in a husband too. I needed to think about it, it was a difficult decision to make. The following weekend, I was at his place, we talked, we kissed, it was heavenly then we had sex, Eewoooo, cloud 9, I made up my mind there and then, I was going to be with this guy forever, my happiness first. I sent a message home to my parents, returned the ring to my "almost" husband,the wahala from him no be here o but thank God, it's been 8 years with 4 kids(2 sets of twins, boys and girls)7 and 5 years old respectively. God has been faithful.

Sorry BVs for this very looooong MP!


WOOOOW!!!!.....this story is sexy!


129 comments:

em jay said...

Gbamgannn!

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

Aww..
This got me all warmed up inside..

Amysweet said...

Wow.. thank God for you

white Berry said...

Waooo love ur story, it was a very difficult decision indeed, thank God for seeing you through.

em jay said...

Wowwwwwwww!
This as I just smile all through, where are d fools calling gwegz upandan?

redbotafly said...

Very interesting. Want twins too thats my prayer everyday and i believe it will happen.
Will be here to share the testimony.

Brown Sucre said...

When God was ready for you it was like film trick.
Beautiful write up
God be praised,God doesn't understand the word gwegs,
When it's time,its time.

Villager said...

I jos saw God's hand in diss..

Uchechi Jane said...

I'm so happy for this poster, miracle can happen at any point.

Damn it!!! said...

Lovely read...most times a li2 patience is all we really need.

Damn it!!! said...

Lovely read...most times a li2 patience is all we really need.

Pink shell said...

This one is risky oo.
But I love d story sha.
God bless ur marriage.
I want twins IJN.

Jan said...

WAO poster, I love you I swear down

Imelda said...

Wow!
Never settle. I'm happy for you poster. This your story is many things in one. Feel like reading it again.

Stella Asemota said...

Choi!

You make me wanna buy an airline ticket right now!

I kinda feel sorry for the other guy though but a gal got to follow her V, i mean her heart!

Nice story!

Teemahs_hub said...

God is Great,Awesome and merciful.HE is full of wisdom.

Adeniji Bisi said...

Hmmm...I almost release ooo wit dis ur story*wink*

An interesting meeting point full of challenges and sincerity


Mc pinky

Lady C said...

Awwwww,I so much love ur story wanted to start crying even at dat age u saw ur better half and lesson learnt do not ever be pressured by society choose d guy dat u knw u will be happy with him forever not sumone u dnt feel anytin for no matter ur age.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Egbe! What a wawu. Thank God you didn't settle.

Becky Divine said...

Ewooooo!! Wow Wow Wow Wow Wow
Beautiful story! I love love oooh

Poster thank God for you!! This story bu ihe anyi na acho

Anonymous said...

Very nice story!! How I wish I returned my own ring when I had the opportunity as I was not under any pressure then just 28. Now in less than 3yrs I ve not had 2 straight weeks of happiness. Too angry to even pray..just sad but I can't keep crying..

Cisca Chesca said...

2 sets of twins? Wow. I want oo

Sweet story. God bless you and your family dear.

I'm a Mother, Not a babymama said...

Awwww,sweet story

Anonymous said...

And i have a date later today, m nervous sha

nice story

Anonymous said...

Na wa what a sweet story
Sorry for bfriend #1
Madame U have made the right decision
Congratulation

LOLLAH said...

Waow!!!! This only happens in movies. I am so happy for you.you had to go to the village for intro to meet your future hubby. you see that God had a plan for you all along. Even though you were sad all through the ride to the airport God was smiling. I thank God for your life

Monkeynofine said...

Beautiful story.....

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Omg! Am mesmerized....
This is it...
The kinda meeting point we want to read and more exciting ones....

Not that borrriiiiinnnnnggggg thing we read yesterday...
Awwww!!! I love... Nothing feels good than being with the right one...

Tade Adeola said...

Dats y Yoruba pple do say "asiko ni gbogbo nkan" ( errthing na time) twas ur TIME and again water wey person go drink no go pas am!

stunning slim shady said...

Wow

Wow

Wow

He has made all things beauriful in its own time. Awesome

starshine said...

Wow God picked your call at the right time

beeolah said...

Wow wow wow am happy for u poster,God is really faithful.

Anonymous said...

God's time is never too late

Ammie said...

Wow!!!

Anonymous said...

God's time is never too late

Tonyralph (kiss freak) said...

This is the meeting we are talking about. Lovely!

Audrey said...

Now this is what I'm talking about, I enjoyed reading this. Nothing like knowing what you want and going for it.

TUSH BABY said...

This is nice, i love the story

BeeVee Boo's Barny said...

Now this is what i call the meeting point

Simply Divine said...

My dear, your story is beautiful and I am happy for you. You are blessed, you married the right man.

Iphie dearie said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Adeniji Bisi said...

Just kip praying

Mc pinky

Iphie dearie said...

Beautiful story!
And I love twinssss😍😍😍
Two sets? πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️

Amaka Hundeyin said...

Wow wow wow (siren style)

Anonymous said...

Lovely.
*kisses*


Xhlrted P

Love Struck said...

As in Ehn, the warming up frm inside no be small.....am wowing here lyk an ambulance. Poster, I praise the Lord of the eleventh hour for you.

Bunny PJ said...

Wow!! Sweet story.

Anonymous said...

Nice story but if the table were turned,I can imagine what the feminist community here would have said.

bae said...

I cried while reading it. One of the best meeting place ever read.

Victoria said...

Congrats poster. You should have seen me
smiling while reading through.
I pray for twins and a good man for myself continuously.

ADONIA said...

Wow... God made everything beautiful in his time. Thank God you didn't miss it, congratulations.

Chike TEFLON said...

Lol.
So poster your ex let boo carried to the door of your now husband. Hahahaha
I pity the man ooo
But wait ooo, BVs shouting wow if it was a man that dumped a lady like that all of you will curse him.
I always say the truth.
Poster go settle your ex with 1 SUV for the heartbreak.
Lol

Miss Glo (OAP) said...

Wow, God bless you poster. God showed up for you at the perfect time. I was blessed by your story, just learnt that its never too late, God can make everything beautiful for you.
Wow!
Wow!
Wow!

Chike TEFLON said...

*le boo

SDK Babe @amaq_collections..fashion designer at your service..bbm 58DB44B1 said...

This made me smile. Congrats poster. God worked everything out for you.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh,really touching

ADONIA said...

Wow am fascinated. This is 'double for your delay'. For each and everyone of us look up to God for one thing or the other I pray double for every of our delay IJN.

amanda favour said...

This is it.....!

Cakes by LuliGrace (London) said...

Awww, I really enjoyed your narrative. I guess God surprised you when you least expected. Wishing you more blissful years of matrimony.

OliviaSilk said...

This is beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Wow , very interesting and motivating
God's timing is always right
There is hope for is all

Anonymous said...

Right!..but not when you're in your 50's!!!!

Classic Chic! said...

Chai! This story is just to sweet!infact delicious !

Lucky poster:-)

Esther Okoro said...

Wow! what a lovely story. I thank God for you poster.




God Bless Everyone.

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

I love your Cinderella story. It will end in "happily ever after".
And two set of twins, 4 kids with 2 pregnancy!!! Who says you are not blessed. Come here joor....come and chop kiss πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Aww,this gave me the chills. Thank God you didn't settle for less.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Aww I love your story. This what we call the meeting point.

St.FranKooL.... said...

Nollywood would script this now and title it "Aeroplane Love"...

Anonymous said...

Nollywood script.

Anonymous said...

Nollywood Script

Anonymous said...

You dey mind them. Double standards.

Anonymous said...

Thanks bVs for not diluting this beautiful story with your boring ones.

Anonymous said...

God is still faithful. I pray to share my story soon

THE KING"S QUEEN said...

We exchanged cards not "numbers"....classy.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Awwwwwwwwwww
That is to say that there is still hope for the gwemz them... Never give up.
I love

Vivilicious said...

Wow πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘. Thank God for you dear. This is the kind of stories we need here biko, not 10yrs relationship.

Booboo kitty said...

Looool Stella! This story is so sweeeet! God saved you just in time, sigh. God even added two sets of twins untop!

@michelleogo said...

God is still the perfect planner. I trust in U LOrd

Anonymous said...

I tap into the connection of this poster for my career and marriage.

Dika said...

Beautiful...

Anonymous said...

Amen!

Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate said...

Beautiful story
God sure love you

PLATINUM said...

Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow!!!!!!!!
Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow!! Wow!!!

Im blown away!!!!!

This story is awesome!!! Wow!!! Just wooooww!!

PLATINUM said...

Woahhhhhhhhhhhh woaww wow!!! I canr believe this, this story is just wow!!

Ebikzy1 said...

Why don't I have this notion of discombulation over the verbalization being exhibited by the ladies?
Imagine if the reverse was the case...
Poster, I appreciate the fact that you worked and earned your status as a bourgeoisie and never wanted to settle for proletarian but in your bid to accede to societal demands you involved a man that may have never wanted to colligate himself with your class and I believe you must have shattered his macrocosm with your cognitive process.
At the end it was a case of "que sera,sera.
Suerte buena suerte.
I can't help but say felicidad conyugal.

ZIONA said...

Very nice meeting point, I only see the hands of God

ololade Salaudeen said...

lol I started reading with side eyes when I got to the returning ring. if not that you guys are married i was getting ready to cast and bind. such an unbelievable story

Anonymous said...

I met mine at 50 and we are head over heels in love...

barbie micheal said...

Niceeeee, really niceeeeeeeeee... my story loading

Starjoy said...

Nice meeting point

Debbie me said...

Wowwwww! I can imagine. Such a happy ending at last. See me still smiling as if na me dey tell the story. Chai, love nwantinti.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Wowwww!I was going to pass by this post but happy I didn't.I'm so happy for you poster.beautiful story😊

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Really God's hand. Never settle for less

xxxTrinityxxx said...

It's well.if you don't have kids yet you can move on oh if all has been tried.life is too short to spend it with the wrong man & be miserable

Anonymous said...

So sexy a story.I want my prince charming😍

Nne nwa said...

wow wow wow, so beautiful.

Odili Benny said...

Beautiful story.

Morgana said...

When the lord turn away the captivity of Zion, we were like them that dream.

Anonymous said...

This story has just encouraged me to hope more.

Suwa Aneetah said...

Very sexy story

Anonymous said...

Jesu!!! Patrick obahiagbon!!!!

Fiona said...

The best meeting place story ever.

Swerve said...

I can't deal with y'all double standards. If it's a man who did this, all hell would be let loose.

Henny said...

A grammar

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwww

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Ambulance oshey

Nice Story

Anonymous said...

Your story just dey sweet my body like say na me. I love eet

DonMayor said...

Imagine, wicked people on this blog. If na man do this now, them go say make God punish am.

DonMayor said...

Sexy ? Wicked people everywhere.

Anonymous said...

Amen

Joy Okanje said...

I happily tap into this with everyone who deserve happiness

my opinion said...

Lovely story!

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

This is the only reason I fly whenever I am traveling. I TAP IN JESUS NAME. I'll either be flying next with my husband, or will meet my husband Amen.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Who exchange numbers nowadays?

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This na real film trick o.what a story

Nnechi Spicy. said...

I'm telling you. Very annoying something. Now cos its a woman, God is faithful, they're having chills, but let it be a man now (especially after intro.as if intro is marriage) I cant imagine what they would have written. Nasty victim/entitlement mentality. God help me not to raise my daughter that way!

Anonymous said...

The comment section only confirms that the women of this generation are nothing but hypocrites.imagine it was a man that did that 2 a woman.stella sef go follow bash am....awon useless mofos

Anonymous said...

it is not their fault. what do u expect from people mentored by their mother eve

Pipi Lee said...

I could read this a million times and awwww to infinity...THIS IS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS IT!!!!!!!!!

Pipi Lee said...

Lmaooooo...pls comment often plssssssssssss

Pipi Lee said...

Swerve!!!!!!!!!!

dame sexy said...

BEAUTIFUL!!! if only some can have such courage to not have knowingly settled down with and for "less".I thank God for the way HE worked out your situations for the very best.

Olori_1812 said...

wow!God makes all things beautiful in HIS own time..i celebrate you my sister..two set of twins!boys and girls...i want one too o

Kayceylove said...

Lol

Kayceylove said...

Lol

Kayceylove said...

Lol

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Wow,this is beautiful, man proposes,God disposes,its a case of God saying ,the thoughts that I have towards you is thought of good and not of evil,to give you an expected end.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Wow,this is beautiful, man proposes,God disposes,its a case of God saying ,the thoughts that I have towards you is thought of good and not of evil,to give you an expected end.

Amaka Abara said...

Sounds like fiction to me. But reality they say is stranger than fiction so...

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