YES OR NO?
I am 24 and in a relationship with this loving and caring guy, we have been dating for 4 and a half years . There has been so much fun in the relationship, even friends and family use our relationship as an example. At the beginning of the relationship, I told him, s3x won't be involved until marriage and he agreed(tho we kiss).
Few months ago, he started asking for s3x, he said he can't wait again, I pleaded with him to just hold on since he has waited this long, the remaining time is so short compared to how long he has waited. I told him to propose and let us get married, he said next year by God's grace, I was really happy that OK, I won't have to wait long again.
Last week, he raised the issue of s3x again and he said he is not proposing until 2018 n getting married 2019 n am not ready at all for sex. Since then, he has been acting somehow
I don't want to lose my virginity and I don't want to lose the guy. Some of you might want 2 crucify me and say who virginity help, but then it is a thing of the mind.
*My dear i dont think you have your cake and still eat it or vice versa...you might have to be forced to choose one..Choose the one that matters the most to you.
If you cave in and give him what he wants,it is no guarantee that he will marry you when he is ready...
My advice?NO...Dont give him the cookie....let him go if he makes it a condition for being with you.