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Tuesday, 27 December 2016

The Meeting Point 46

You will not believe what you are about to read!



Stella dear, please DO NOT post my email nor my blog ID. Pleaseeee.


Sometime in 2007, I met a guy on a bus on transit to Enugu (from the East, I was traveling to Lagos). He spoke my dialect with a lady in the bus and so I got interested.

Found out he's from my place and a very close family friend. We got talking and I remember saying "...I am yet to see the man from my place that deserves me...I want to be exported".

In December 2007, I received a phone call from that same guy I met. We got gisting as acquaintances and the next thing he said: " Hold on for my brother". And so I got talking to his brother. His distant relative of course. We realised we bear the same surname. We talked talked talked....the gist flowed. I didn't even ask how they got my contact. The airtime finished. He then called me with his own line. He loaded again. It got exhausted. He loaded another and I just had to yell him to call me Mtn midnight call that I will wake up.



For no reasons, we got talking. We would pray on phone. He would talk me to sleep on phone. Assist me with office work. I will sing to him on phone... Later he told me how they got my number and that he's heard a lot about me. When his relative told him about me, he remembered seeing me those Christmases while I was still growing. So he knew me but I did not. He proposed to me on phone and said we should pray for Peace of mind. If I feel no peace, I can say No!

The relationship blossomed on phone from a far distance. I asked if he was on a bet to get me. I couldn't fathom the whole thing. It was too real. I got my pictures across to him. And he did same. To proof that he is for real, he said we should have my Introduction same December, 2007.

I remember a List I had written down of my Dream man which I kept inside a precious bible given to me by my late mum. I got the List out and my desired requirements ALL clicked. I had other suitors but a voice told me to let go of all the other guys and focus on this young man I was yet to meet. My late mum also visited me in my dreams and gave me instructions and consent.

He got me closer to God. I prayed my way through it all. I never met any man/woman of God...so that in the event of irreconcilable differences, i will bear my cross alone and not blame my pastor. I fasted and prayed. I was so into God that even when I am not fasting, I did not feel hungry. Told my mentors about him but, ONLY one person knew the whole truth.

Everything worked together for our good. I was asked so many questions and given advice. Of course we were dating so its presumed so. I asked questions and so did my family. Customary engagements are done in the village. I prayed before saying or replying any questions about him. I told my dad that the family of boyfriend/suitor wants to have the 3stages of Introduction in December. We fixed a date 31/12/07.

I convinced my dad to let me go ahead of time to prepare for the Introduction. He permitted me. We agreed to meet in the village. Twas festive period. His people were amazed when he told them dates for 3stages of Introduction being 29th, 30th and 31st.

I got to my home town on 27/12/07 and waiting right there for me at the Bus park was my husband. There we saw for the FIRST TIME. We flowed. He was all over me. Wasn't a stranger. He took me to his people. They loved me.

My family and relatives arrived home on 28th and the whole events took place. (I made sure my bride price was not paid, just in case I see something to changed my mind). I was 23yrs young so I wasn't under any pressures. After which on 1st of January, 2008 they traveled back to base. I remained behind with my aunt. We had the traditional visits to my relatives with my aunt. And later for the first time, we both traveled to his base.

We continued dating and exchanging visits. We got customarily and statutorily married on a Friday and Saturday in November, 2009.
Sometimes we laugh at our Meeting Point and say "God's hands are involved". Imagine meeting your spouse for the first time 1day to your Engagement. Lolll.

Its been God all the way. As humans, we have had experienced our share of marital turbulence but our love keeps growing by the day, months, and years; we are happy parents of adorable children; and admiration to many couples both young and old.

To God be the glory!!!

*singing* 9yrs don waka, we still dey carry go, nobody waka nobody go solo, Baba God oo na ur grace oo ....


*WOOOOOW are you for real?Amazing!....Congratulations,may your marriage walk the long haul!..AMEN


58 comments:

Quiksilver said...

Too long! ๐Ÿ˜ 

Blackberry said...

Stella and her headline! Hahahahaah

GALORE said...

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@Galore

Weed Chic said...

I will o ๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿ‘‚

NUVI HONEY said...

๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ. Beautiful story, when God is involved it's always right.
Imagine if it was a worldly relationship, you'd have fears like what if he's not my type, I need to taste what I'm going to get for the rest of my life, but with God just trust him and let go.
It's not like we don't know these things but stubbornness won't let someone be great. God help us.

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Wow!!!!

Anonymous said...

This is beautiful. Congratulations dear. God bless your home

Cynthia Iyede said...

God bless your home.

sugar๐Ÿ’‹ said...

Wow !!!Wow is all I can say to these

Mr Fidelis said...

Nice story and meeting point. But I don't think dead people communicate to us through dreams as the poster just said. Most times, dreams come as the result of the predominant thoughts or imaginations we have before sleeping. No dead man or woman has the ability to communicate to us in dreams.

In my own understanding, as shared in this story, the best soul mate one can get is the man/woman who draws you near to God. If you are lucky to get one, hold him/her tight.

Anonymous said...

Too long because he married her without thinking of sex first

Arianna loves Wide Eyed! said...

This is like a movie, wow.
Babe I must commend you, it takes a courageous person to do this.
Heaven knows what we all can bear and enables us through them all because me I can't.

Anonymous said...

Seriously. Is this for real? Congratulations to the both of you.

Anonymous said...

You should have at least read it.

Florence Dibs said...

Stella the same with me
I used my gmail to comment from there my bae sent me message
In my google+ I hated him during our chat becos he always talk about God and send me Christians video and messages
We did prayers within this year on our marriage without seen ourselves till April this year he told me to come down to east from Abuja that he will join me. I came back he meet my mum and took me to his own mum our marriage is coming up on March. My mum and his mum did not even know we re just seen ourselves for the first tym
My mum saw the heavy connection and asked me me where I met the guy no answer yet
He is such amazing guy my friends loved him without meeting him
Just my comment invasion blog and the love clicked. He is every thing to me he proposed without seen me I thought he is one of those internet useless guys but I was so wrong
He loves me with passion
All his siblings re crazy about me without knowing our secret.
Is only God that connect people
Even during the prayers I was not serious becos I never believed in us but I was so wrong .
Will soon send my wnb and my meeting point stella

Ihate Hos said...

Boring.
All these posters wey dey marry only dark and handsome husbands, who dey marry short and ugly ones?

Ayisire Juliet said...

Wow

Sihmir said...

For real

Anonymous said...

3 years ago, I met my husband through my younger sister. We live in Uk and my husband lives in Nigeria. We got talking on phone and through Skype and on my birthday, roughly after 4 months he proposed to me through Skype. Arranged the ring through my sisters. I accepted his proposal and traveled down to Nigeria for the wedding after 3 months. (Not that I never doubted myself or the whole stuff but I kept faith and believed that I found the right man). Today is our 3 years wedding anniversary. It hasn't been fun ride all the way, but the journey is worth it! We are our biggest cheerleaders and I can't imagine life without him. He completes me. I thank God everyday for the decision to accept his proposal even without setting eyes on him. So many times we have asked ourselves, "why did you take the risk?" But the truth is that life in itself is a risk. You win some, and you lose some. But in this journey, I decided it will be a win all the way. Happy anniversary to me and my sweet chocolate!!! We made the right decision!!!

Iphie dearie said...

Same surname?? So you didn't even have to do change of name!!!
Oh my... absolute bliss.. LOL

lordken said...

Wow!!! Poster are u kidding me?? Wat a lovely story. All the best.

Anonymous said...

Jelousy jeloma!

GOONs Mi said...

Wowww

Jasmine said...

9years? Wow!!! What is urs will always be urs.

ADAOBI said...

In this life there's no perfect way to meet your spouse. Some people meet and do the whole dating and works for years and still the marriage will be a flop. Some dive head in not following any rules and they are happy.
On the other hand you can dive head in and regret it and then start blaming yourself... I have come to realise that marriage is destiny.
Talk to God and follow your heart, don't look at how A or B did it.
Congratulations on your marriage and may the love between you two never die.

preciousp gal said...

All I can say is wow.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Try to read it baby
Its worth ur time trust me

Quality Madam said...

Warning!!!! Do not practice at home

Housed-On-Water said...

Wow. Loveliness!

MissPrettyW said...

Wow

phyco signature said...

woow ur marriage will not fail IJN

Stelz said...

Wow!! Nne you get mind o! Me, 'I fitn't' try that! Really romantic story though. May God continue to bless your home

reemah said...

... Interesting though.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh

nzube izuu said...

That's good. Ehmmmmmm! What happened to the dowry that you made sure it wasn't paid? Has it been paid? Good luck to you both.

keke driver said...

This is prolly 2 in a hundred, I would be scared to death tho.....Congrats Hunnie

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Sometimes the eyes can say more than the mouth*

Anonymous said...

Abeg ask them....fair in complexion nkooo?

crystal said...

Exactly @your first comment.

Robyna Wenger said...

Awwwwwww

missylynn said...

Wow!lovely
God the way maker
Happy for you dear and one can never tell where you'll see your partner

Anonymous said...

ROFLMAO!! Your name is meant to be Correct Madam.
100000 Likes!

Aurora said...

Wow! And it will always be God in your marriage.

ukwu dimond said...

Wow! Mouth wide open, you both are lucky.

ukwu dimond said...

HWA to you and your hubby.

ukwu dimond said...

Thank God you did not do too much Shakara you would have.......

Lilly simple said...

I thought i'm d only one that saw that part

Mosi Jubelo said...

Wow

charitybino said...

I like

Grandeurconcept said...

Awwwww I love ur meeting point..it's God's will seriously..it pays to sever Jesus..God bless ur home.

Brain and Beauty. said...

Mine is loading.No strength to type now.Thank God for you madam.

Sugar Dropx said...

I knw that same surname no go pass asogwa. They are possibly from nsukka

Weed Chic said...

I didn't see my comment . Meaning that I correctly guessed who the poster is. ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›

kay elsie said...

Wow beautiful story, Godbless ur home, but u guys took a huge risk o,it shows God was actually involved.

Anonymous said...

lovely story but poster no be small risk involve oh

Anonymous said...

LMAO!

Justyswt said...

Just wow!

karakitie Doreen said...

God bless your union poster

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