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Friday, 30 December 2016

The Meeting Point 49

This meeting point had a green light situation..lol



Hey Stella,
Good job with your blog; may God continue to bless the works of your hands. Here goes my meeting point story:


I met hubs at a work meeting; we both worked in the same company but in different countries.


The first time I saw him I was like who is this mysterious looking guy with small cute eyes. We spoke briefly and I kept eyeing him throughout the whole conference. The morning I was leaving I made sure I stood very close to him so as to catch some small feelings from a goodbye hug.


I forgot about him for months till I was told a group of us would be travelling to his country for a training program. O la la I could not wait to see him; my plan was to entertain myself with him via some flirting.


During the program I would chat with him a few times during the breaks, but he always seemed to try to be an all rounder, gisting with the whole world; dammit I wanted all the attention. Haha I just laughed to myself; I knew the guy was feeling me just like I was feeling him. 


One day we were having lunch and I told him that does he know there is some chemistry going on between us; chai this guy wanted to kill my mojo now forming confused. In fact by the end of the day I was feeling foolish so decided to call his room and apologise for my unprofessional behaviour. I now decided that going forward I will bone this guy.


Hahahaha the next day I no send him at all; and I could tell he was confused and pained. Later that evening I was lying in bed when my phone rang. Chai, the sexy bobo with his fine husky voice had called me; we chatted for about five hours that night and each night after that; it was sweet because during the day we would form all official only to be naughty on the phone at night.


The day the conference ended we took a long walk in the area the hotel was located at; at that point I just knew that this was not a guy I just wanted to play with; I wanted to get to know him more, and be that ride or die chic for him. He gave me a kiss on my cheek that night and his lips were so soft; hahahaha I wanted to chew those lips damn.


The next day was a wrap up day with a party held that evening; after the party he escorted me to my hotel room and i pulled him in, as he turned to go to his room. Mehn it was like we were both on heat; I wanted s3x so bad but I made do with just rubbing my veevee on his dingiling; we then slept off; around 4am I woke up, and was scared shitless and quickly woke him up to go to his room before people woke up and saw him leaving mine.


I was leaving back to my country that morning and before I left we had the shortest but most committed conversation; "if you have anyone lurking in the shadows get rid of them cos we are in this for the long haul”. We spoke about three times on the phone each day and texted continuously since then (that has not changed even now); a month later he came to visit me and we gbenshed well well; I tasted the goods and they were more than excellent so we were good to go, but I insisted on no more gbenshing (abeg let me not spoil anyone here; stick to what the bible says); he returned a month later to visit, and two months after that i went to see him; another two months after that i was in his hood again and we discussed marriage; he came to see my folks about two months after to discuss his intentions. In six months time we had had our traditional wedding followed by the white wedding three months later.


Long distance is hard but its good when both parties are committed to making it work and can afford to make those calls and take those trips; we talked so much during our courtship and I just had this peace hence knew that he was the one. Till now we always joke about how we met and anytime we talk about it it makes me so wet; of course gbenshing follows.


I relocated to join him after we married and it has been a five year journey so far full of love, fun, fights, changes, adaptation, growth, but most importantly God’s grace.


*WOW...You did what most women shy away from doing,you did what i would do....you set the ball rolling....which is good cos at the right time and under the right atmosphere,its okay to subtly put on the green light...Doesnt work for everyone though!

Congratulations Dearie!


49 comments:

Oloche Fidelis said...

Stop trying to force yourself to see the good things in the wrong people. When someone shows you that they do not care about you, have enough respect for yourself to walk away and wait on someone who does. Understand that your love is a gift. Understand that your love has the power to do great things in someone's life who appreciates it. We have to get back to drawing a line in the sand and sticking to things that we will and will not accept from other people. We have to get back to setting new standards with love, and never allowing ourselves to go below that bar again. Why wait forever for the wrong person to treat you right, when there is someone out there waiting to do that right now. If it doesn't make you happy, it doesn't make sense. Don't over complicate something so simple that should be shown so easily.
- IG@woodtheinspiration

Just Fab said...

I was smiling all they.nice story..may God continue blessing ur home

Isaacson said...

Nice story....it just shows that it is not just the place of the man to always make the first move,if you are feeling a guy and you know he is the one but he is too shy to make the first move or does not show any interest,that should not discourage you at all...always go for what you want and be happy

Becky Divine said...

Awww sweet story!
You are a very brave woman and it worked out for you

May God continue to bless your home with everything GOOD In Jesus Name Amen!

sense world said...

Nice story, I know someone who show a guy rainbow colour d guy no just send come dey form on top, but he no dey let d Babe see am with any girl always forming holy holy. Lmao

I am king EZE said...

Ladies ask that guy out now!!

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Sweet story, abegi u try o, me no fit do wetin she did. Enjoy your marriage dear

Adeniji Bisi said...

Waow... This is good..

You did what?



Mc pinky

NUVI HONEY said...

Gbenshers of life, una welldone.
Let me do and see the one so I can send my own meeting point.

Lin said...

Lol...nice....I enjoyed the gbenshing part more..lol

Olabanji Olajide said...

U get luck ooo.. D man for jus wash mouth, clean mouth

Pipi Lee said...

Nice story.

Swiss babe said...

Na wa!. Lucky you and happy married life

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Your growth scares people who are afraid of change*

Anonymous said...

Congratulations madam, your story is nice and it gives me hope for me and my boyfriend *long distance* too. God bless your home.

missylynn said...

Congrats
Nice story

Cynthia Iyede said...

Nice 1

pinky peters said...

Nice story, Enjoy your marriage.

TemmyD603BOC1 said...

Awww..bold move I must say @poster..I just love LOVE..boo where art thou?

stunning slim shady said...

Wow

Anonymous said...

Nice story.

Now you got me feeling some type of way.
Should I give that green light or nah?



#Flygirl

emmanuella marshall said...

U tried, long distance is a no-no for mi

Anonymous said...

Stella what do you mean by shining green light first it seems as if you beginning to adapt that white way,we are Africa pls, men green lightoooo to avoid story that touch..

Blossom said...

Nice story. I was just smiling as o read. continually enjoy bliss dear.

kay elsie said...

Mehn dat gbenshing part gave me life *shines teeth n runs outta post 2gbensh hubby*

Starjoy said...

Yes ooo long distance working for me too

gorgeous baby said...

I think dere is something about sex on the first day.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful story.may God continually bless your home

Anonymous said...

With your smelly pussy,alot of u married women have smelly cunts, your husbands complain.

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Babesarise said...

@ Anonymous 16;42, the husbands complained to you and you believed all of them? Did you ask them why they still have indulge in the act even though they can't stand the smell? Mtscheeew!!!???? #ignoranceeverywhereyougo

KIDJO said...

Anon, you re mad.You re cussing married women because you will never get married.mad woman

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Wow, nice story, must u s3x a guy b4 marriage

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Nice story, must u s3x a man b4 marriage. This world Don scatter finish. From a jobless graduate

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Nice story, must u s3x a man b4 marriage. This world don scatter finish. From a jobless graduate

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Nice story, must u s3x a man b4 wedding night. This world don scatter finish. From a jobless graduate.

Olaide Ogunmola said...

Nice story, must u s3x a man b4 wedding night. This world don scatter finish. From a jobless graduate.

Jasmine said...

Nice one.

Anonymous said...

I give rainbow coloured lights oh, the guy man no send, told him how I felt even had crazy sex with him, whossai. Love me him no green but he wants benefits, I don lock up. Anonymous got me....lol

Anonymous said...

Is d cunt ya cunt.... Nawa oooh psycopath

crystal said...

Fear no go lemme try this one o, na to just de die in silence.

Anonymous said...

Lovely
💞💓💓💓💓💓

Anonymous said...

I love this lady already. Goal getter

Omolewa said...

What countries. Which company?

Pharaoh D 7th said...

You are one of the legion of myopic men. Women who make the first move are not loose women, infact I consider then bold and definitive. It takes a whole lot for an African woman To take this step and that should be respected not chastised.

Pharaoh D 7th said...

Anon16:42 may you find peace first and eventually love. This is not life you are living yet

Pharaoh D 7th said...

No don't have to, it's a choice predicated on the situation at the time. Unfortunately hypocrite can't tell the difference

Nelly Udoh said...

So I meet this guy called Collins on the last S$M and I think I like his kind of person cos he sounds so much like someone i'd like to go out with but 'we'have been forming what I don't know..maybe I should just take it like he's not the one.. Shut happens though....💘💘💘💘💘

1nigeriangirl said...

Lol. Bc stella said give green light, you now commented this with your id.

Issorai.

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