The Meeting Point 49

This meeting point had a green light situation..lol

Hey Stella,
Good job with your blog; may God continue to bless the works of your hands. Here goes my meeting point story:


I met hubs at a work meeting; we both worked in the same company but in different countries.


The first time I saw him I was like who is this mysterious looking guy with small cute eyes. We spoke briefly and I kept eyeing him throughout the whole conference. The morning I was leaving I made sure I stood very close to him so as to catch some small feelings from a goodbye hug.


I forgot about him for months till I was told a group of us would be travelling to his country for a training program. O la la I could not wait to see him; my plan was to entertain myself with him via some flirting.


During the program I would chat with him a few times during the breaks, but he always seemed to try to be an all rounder, gisting with the whole world; dammit I wanted all the attention. Haha I just laughed to myself; I knew the guy was feeling me just like I was feeling him. 

One day we were having lunch and I told him that does he know there is some chemistry going on between us; chai this guy wanted to kill my mojo now forming confused. In fact by the end of the day I was feeling foolish so decided to call his room and apologise for my unprofessional behaviour. I now decided that going forward I will bone this guy.


Hahahaha the next day I no send him at all; and I could tell he was confused and pained. Later that evening I was lying in bed when my phone rang. Chai, the sexy bobo with his fine husky voice had called me; we chatted for about five hours that night and each night after that; it was sweet because during the day we would form all official only to be naughty on the phone at night.


The day the conference ended we took a long walk in the area the hotel was located at; at that point I just knew that this was not a guy I just wanted to play with; I wanted to get to know him more, and be that ride or die chic for him. He gave me a kiss on my cheek that night and his lips were so soft; hahahaha I wanted to chew those lips damn.


The next day was a wrap up day with a party held that evening; after the party he escorted me to my hotel room and i pulled him in, as he turned to go to his room. Mehn it was like we were both on heat; I wanted s3x so bad but I made do with just rubbing my veevee on his dingiling; we then slept off; around 4am I woke up, and was scared shitless and quickly woke him up to go to his room before people woke up and saw him leaving mine.


I was leaving back to my country that morning and before I left we had the shortest but most committed conversation; "if you have anyone lurking in the shadows get rid of them cos we are in this for the long haul”. We spoke about three times on the phone each day and texted continuously since then (that has not changed even now); a month later he came to visit me and we gbenshed well well; I tasted the goods and they were more than excellent so we were good to go, but I insisted on no more gbenshing (abeg let me not spoil anyone here; stick to what the bible says); he returned a month later to visit, and two months after that i went to see him; another two months after that i was in his hood again and we discussed marriage; he came to see my folks about two months after to discuss his intentions. In six months time we had had our traditional wedding followed by the white wedding three months later.


Long distance is hard but its good when both parties are committed to making it work and can afford to make those calls and take those trips; we talked so much during our courtship and I just had this peace hence knew that he was the one. Till now we always joke about how we met and anytime we talk about it it makes me so wet; of course gbenshing follows.


I relocated to join him after we married and it has been a five year journey so far full of love, fun, fights, changes, adaptation, growth, but most importantly God’s grace.

*WOW...You did what most women shy away from doing,you did what i would do....you set the ball rolling....which is good cos at the right time and under the right atmosphere,its okay to subtly put on the green light...Doesnt work for everyone though!

Congratulations Dearie!