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Monday, January 16, 2017

Social Media Shaming As Concerns Men

This is  basically something I want the men on this blog or any passer by that is Male to read,process the info and take part in this ensuing discussion.


If you were Married and your wife calls out someone she suspects is your side chic on the social media,what would be your reaction?


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    1. I expect any woman i would end up with to have two basic "C" qualities..

      1) Common sense
      2) class

      Will calling the girl out on social media change the philandering husband?

      Now instead of the two of us rolling in the mud or disgracing ourselves publicly all in the name of you calling out a side chic on social media,why not act classy by sitting me down as your husband and have a reasonable heart to heart discussion?

      Two Adults married as one cant be foolish at the same time,and if my woman does that;i 'd be really gobsmacked on what to term/tag her..

      please i aint justifying cheating in any way,but the calling-out is actually meant for the weak at heart..
      No real or strong-willed woman with standards will do the calling out on S.M thing!!!

      class has its own fragrance!!

      @MARTINS ABOY

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    2. I really don't believe in calling out another person because of your husband's inability to control himself. After calling out the other lady, you'd have only succeeded in making a public Spectacle of yourself as those who'd cheer you on are also laughing at you behind your back (sometimes in your face sef).
      That's just my own opinion.

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    3. Stella wetin u get with this tear tear couch eeehn???

      For Tory on ground, all men are fuck boiz and wud sleep with anything in skirt

      Broad says so...

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    4. We are waiting for your comments oo..

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    5. Will read comments.......
      Who has time to even call out

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    6. Broad you shouldn't broaden the circle. Just say all your guys are whatever u say they are. Dont generalize. You probably attract those kind of guys. Martins, while expecting your woman to have those qualities, you should also possess self control and respect for yourself. I definitely dont agree with calling out. But what will the heart to heart do if you have a wandering penis?

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    7. @Tilly,ma love has shifted to you. Kisses😘😘😘

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    8. Aboy you too tok..talk talk and not making sense..abeg change pattern

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    9. Tilly, I attract those kinds of guys, lolx am I a magnet biko??? Wait ooo all these men married to faithful and decent ladies and still cheat, d ladies attracted them abi?? Biko we all know men too like sweet tinx and wud jump in to eat any free cookie.. My two cent

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    10. All i am saying is do not generalize except you taken the statistics of all the men in the world and come to your conclusion.

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    11. Why I go intafear? Na her right as wife!

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  2. Oya our Cocks and Horseband make una answer. I will read comments

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜† kai too early to laff biko. Brb too to read comments

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    2. Communication is the key word future wifey...dont just call out any woman because you feel hurt or betrayed( would never do that to you or our lovely kids) I promise...so if you suspect am having extra marital affairs with someone else call a family meeting and accuse me there so I can defend myself bcos its only our family that has our best interest at heart and can truly give us support or advise regarding ur suspicion be it true or not....not SM

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    1. I am a woman and if I were a man I won't take such.if you have issues it should be dealt with privately. I don't agree with fighting side chics and all that. I believe it will draw my husband more away from me even.if I feel the threat is so much from the woman,I'll confront my husband and use prayers follow them. Cos when I deal with that woman,another might still spring up. Will I keep calling all of them out and fighting them and loose my sanity?

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    2. And what if she has been dealing with the horseband but bitch won't let go?
      Na to just give the girl permanent body odour or toto odour n spare urself the stress of calling out.

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    3. Potable Viv, how many sidechicks will u call out before u get tired or worst still kicked out of ur home because of agbero behavior (bcos like it or not, most women that fight sidechicks aren't ready to leave their homes)

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  4. Stella abeg comot this bed-bug-infested sofa for here joor. Abi na this chair the males go sit-down talk the matter? SMH

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    1. I'm not married yet,so I can't say much. But for me,i will be angry with her only if she did not ask me first about her person before calling her out, but I think my girlfriend or wife should know all my female friends to avoid story like dis.

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  6. I will jus chill and sip coffee till everything plays out, so far no violence occurs! When all is well I will beg my wife for forgiveness and spoil her silly! Piece o' cake

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. I no know say you also get small sense Kev😘😘😘

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    2. Hahahahahaha!! Ah iyawo ti suffer sha

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  7. Divorce !!!! nothing more ..shows she isnt responsible herself.

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    1. Lol! Divorce! U sure say u don marry?

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    2. Divorce?? All this know-it-all pikin wey dey here

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    3. If her suspicion is wrong, I'm going to deal with her seriously and humbled her.
      Even if I'm caught in the act, you dare not go online and call anybody out.
      Be ready to sign an undertaken in the presence of your family members once such action is taken. I no dey divorce, e never reach that.. Lol

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    4. Hehehehe. So her own irresponsible pass your own be that, abi. Sit, child!

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  8. What if her suspicion is wrong? She would have disgraced the poor lady which will not be nice.
    Most women just run to social media to do a call out without first getting their facts right.
    She will have to go on that same media she used to call her out to apologise to her n myself.
    If she refuses to do that, she should get ready to move out of my house.

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    1. 😫😫😫😫😫

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    2. Ure so daft!

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    3. Bros you are harsh ooo. What if she was right all along,wo5 you be moving out?

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    4. It can't be wrong red,she must have got her proofs before crying wolves.

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    5. Well what if her suspicion is right?

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    6. Characteristics of an abusive man πŸ‘†πŸ»πŸ‘†πŸ»πŸ‘†πŸ»There.

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    7. I agree with you.....not the moving out part tho.

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  9. They said men but trust oversabi female bvs, they will answer, it like an obsession to be in every post and comment yet they claim working.

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    1. Lol, Asin ee, them over sabi no be hear

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  10. I just called my husband and he says that if the allegation is true,he would do nothing and deny ever knowing or having anything to do with the girl...

    And that will be end of the relationship with the side chick cos most men don't like being busted!...

    But if the allegation is false,he will still do nothing cos he knows i can't call anyone out without doing my investigations properly..
    Moreover,he said he don't want my wahala!!...
    That I should stop asking him before I bring out words from his mouth!...
    Imagine this man?...
    Hmmm...I will still bring up this topic this night!...
    He must explain the words I'm rying to bring out from his mouth!...
    Na wah oh!..

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜† Chief, rapu kwa okwu oooπŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚

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    2. Hahaha@ will ask him tonight .
      But let it end there. Don't bring it up again.

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    3. Hahahaha Lin Lin I n'achokwa okwu o. Abeg leave the man biko

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    4. Buahahahahahahahahahahahahhha
      Baba knows he married mama g......

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    5. Hahahahahaha! Madam you funny gan. Abeg ask so we can get chronicles

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    6. Lol, bunny you sharp die, CHIEF abeg bring that thing outta his mouth,

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    7. Queen u must be idia Amin in woman's form. Leave matter for Mathias oo

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  11. Am going to get angry with her..and caution her not to next time....

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    1. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 14:02

      Anon 12.17 you will get angry and caution your wife. Awon okurin aiye ta wa yi ma ti ya werey ooo.

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  12. I go just lock up they smile..she can never knw..i clean my shift welllll

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  13. I will have to make a choice between two of them, because I must have a reason for keeping a side chic.

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  14. Maximum shi-shi for her.

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  15. Would like to know too, Lemme read comments.

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  16. I expect any woman i would end up with to have two basic "C" qualities..

    1) Common sense
    2) class

    Will calling the girl out on social media change the philandering husband?

    Now instead of the two of us rolling in the mud or disgracing ourselves publicly all in the name of you calling out a side chic on social media,why not act classy by sitting me down as your husband and have a reasonable heart to heart discussion?

    Two Adults married as one cant be foolish at the same time,and if my woman does that;i 'd be really gobsmacked on what to term/tag her..

    please i aint justifying cheating in any way,but the calling-out is actually meant for the weak at heart..
    No real or strong-willed woman with standards will do the calling out on S.M thing!!!

    class has its own fragrance!!

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  17. Kelvin edo boi yuh head is overcorrect!!..infact yuh a man,av got boobs like cossy..you interested??

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    1. Yes I waaaaaant! 😰😘

      Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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  18. Stella abeg I use God name wen dey heaven take beg you,bring back our couchπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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  19. @Redbotafly, do u have sense at all..did u even read the post? which one is apologise again? Before a woman would go on social media to shame a side chick she must have facts.. The post is talking about men's reaction when their wives shame their side chicks on social media and not when their facts aren't correct.. you musnt comment when u av nothing sensible to contribute..

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  20. I will play dumb, deny the side chic to the hilt. Will find time, take wifey on a vacation spoil her silly and bond well with her, but I'll never own up to having a side chic, even if I'm caught hands down, I'll still insist on 'it's not what it seems'

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    1. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 14:05

      Anon 12.34 you are wise BUT you still need to be dealt with. Go and sin no more lol

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  21. That's the equivalent of strapping a bomb to your chest & detonating it at your enemies house to kill her. The side chic has gotten nothing to loose, your have your marriage to be mocked. Face your husband & tear him apart as you wish but you never want to wash your dirty linens outside & it has nothing to do with respecting or protecting the man. It's for your dignity and that of your children

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  22. My wife can't do such. No matter what. She has other matured avenues.

    While I was dating, a priority during my search was her family and background.

    A woman from a family with a sense of pride and respect won't put issues on the internet for these reasons;
    1. Stuff put on the net stays there forever
    2. She has a family reputation to protect
    3. She has a personal/professional reputation to protect.
    4. She has common sense enough to realise the impact of the bullying to which the kids will be exposed.
    5. She works hard and is an entrepreneur/salary earner/adult/independent woman/graduate. Therefore, she can move out and rent her own place or even buy her own place if she feels cheated in the union. Most females that bring things to the web can't imagine their lives without the freebies being married to the man brings. Most of these females are not adults. They can't stand on their own.


    So, guys, if you wanna get married, make sure you begin by dating a female that has shame. Look at her background. Look at her family prestige. I am not saying marry a Dantata. One doesn't have to be filthy rich to have a sense on pride. Marry a female whose family members are enlightened and carry themselves well.

    Also, get a prenup. Why? Because society doesn't defend the man. Society can't even wait to attack/shame/ridicule the male. YOU ARE YOUR OWN DEFENCE. Be smart and stay sharp.

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    1. Gold digger!...
      Tueh!!..
      Man for mouth!..I'm sure your wife is the breadwinner!...
      I pity her already!...

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    2. Queen, how is he a gold digger? You sound immature and dumb.

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    3. Queen Chief you are a fool oh. I bet you are the gold digger. Your are the type that depends on a man for your sustenance. Mumu leave the poster and go get a job. You are 37 years old. I know you.

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    4. So it does not matter that The cheating man has no shame abi? Ladies, if you wanna get married, make sure you begin by dating a male that has shame. Otan.

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    5. I swear queen you don't have sense. What is wrong with what he said now.

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    6. Exactly what the anonymous brother just said- make sure you date and marry a woman with shame. The ones that replied him up here obviously don't fit into that category. Whoever is unfortunate to end up with most crickets that call themselves women on this blog is in trouble. Very brash, razz , ghetto-inspired scoundrels.

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    7. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 19:02

      Anon 12.41 all this epistle just to cover up your cheating ass. E ku ishe o. Anon 17.17 ALL that abuse just for the single girls on this blog razz, brash, ghetto na wah o. Did they beg u to marry them?

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    8. So because she's from a reputable family thats why you should go around fucking. My elder sister once told me that if one doesnt act mad sometimes, people will definitely take u for granted

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  23. I will sex her good.

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    1. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 14:07

      Anon 12.43 clap for yourself

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  24. Any woman I call my wife can't do such. She knows better than involve in this lowly practice. Only women who don't know their left from right engages in such. It's your husband you should call out if there is ever a need to, not any alleged mistress.

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    1. Cheat on her first countless times with the same woman, both of u shld rub it in her face, let the side chic be an insulting strong headed Barbie then u will know that every woman has "that" side

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  25. I will do noting joor if it's true. I means I should be more "coded" next time.

    But if I'm innocent .,......... If I'm innocent, ........ I repeat, if I'm innocent, .......... I will still do notin.

    Every relationship that suffers abuse of trust can never stand.

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  26. I misss someone so much . It's mutual. But it's not meant to be 😒😒😒
    I have prayed ... I guess certain connections can't be undone... you just have to be disciplined.

    Men we are listening πŸ‘‚ answer Stella's question.

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  27. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 12:51

    Any woman that wants to drag my hubby with me will be turned to my housegirl. She will not even know what she is doing again. I will send her on errands till she dies. In her next life she will not attempt such again. Lol

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  28. Well, I'm still a Virgin man. I don't know anything about chicken and side but I try and contribute something while standing because I'm not gonna sit on that bedbug chair.

    I will tell her "Baby come down. It's not what you think"
    Then I will buy her expensive gifts to cheer her up. Tell her all the sweet romantic words she need to her, promise her my endless love for her and sex her to cloud 9.

    As for the side chicken, I will forget every damn thing about her.

    A Virgin man like me, what do I even know sef

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    1. Pray you don't meet someone like my gf....

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  29. That will be a dumb move from her.
    Definately I will be dissapointed and will reprimand her. The negative effects of the public shaming far outweighs the positives.
    She is barred from social media until she takes a course on how to use social media.
    She should no better to keep my shits private.

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  30. Where is B.V Youngman biko?
    I command you to come out and write your epistle on this now! LMAO 😁

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  31. My wife can never do wrong in my site. If she called my side chick out, I will have to caution her and apologize to the side chick. Of course the side chick should know this will happen someday and prepare for it. But if she (the side chick) should write my wife back abusively, then the affair will end. Another side chick will be welcome.

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  32. My wife can never do wrong in my site. If she called my side chick out, I will have to caution her and apologize to the side chick. Of course the side chick should know this will happen someday and prepare for it. But if she (the side chick) should write my wife back abusively, then the affair will end. Another side chick will be welcome.

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    1. Why not stay with your beautiful wife alone? Stop going for maggots filled food outside, when you have fresh organic food at home.

      If you love and care for her so much, you will not want to hurt her; since you'll not like to hurt yourself knowingly.

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    2. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 13:55

      Anon 13.05 the nerve. You are even welcoming another one. Hmmm. Your wife is a mumu. You are an unrepentant cheat. Your wife should have straightened you out long ago. Wa ti joko jeje

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  33. If my wife calls out my side chic on a social media even with all her evidence I will surely rebuke her. Such wife should be themed. It is only an out of order woman that will do such. Always learn to discuss issues you find out about your man with him, social media is not the answer. It is even better you ask him to warn the girl to stay off in your presence than going to social media to trash your family issue afterwards you will come back to apologise. Such apology will not be accepted by me. Don't disgrace me outside to come back with apologies. Medicine after death.

    She need to speak to me about it first, it's left for me to caution myself and make amend. Any guy who the wife is able to see his dealings outside is either careless or carefree. Carefree in the sense that he doesn't care if he is being caught by wife. Such attitude is bad as a married man, don't openly or carelessly hurt your woman. You should never let your wife know about ur activities with any girl outside. Learn to protect your nonsense.
    Let us be realistic, It is very easy for the most wonderful man to cheat on his wife in Nigeria, pussies are cheap and all over everywhere. Even as a man, if you do not want, you will be forced to bang.

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    1. @Anonymous 13.06 "themed" or tamed.

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    2. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 13:29

      Anon 13.06 it is because most wives are mumu-ish in nature and powerless. If not, you men would have been straightened out long ago. Why must she speak to you? Are u a baby that does not know right from wrong? Ejo yin ko? It is because your dick can stand when you are with these flies(strange women), there are ways to deal with cheating men you know? By the time you carry 5 different flies and your 'thing' goes limp each time but with your wife it comes ALIVE, ara gbogbo y'in a bale. Awon eleregbe. God gave you a wife but you will not sit down in one place, it is because your wives don't know what to do. Shioor

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    3. Why not learn to respect your wife by keeping to the vow you both shared!

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    4. And most men have conveniently forgotten the main issue, CHEATING, and are focusing on "dealing" with the wife.
      Men: have the right to cheat! Oma se ooo.

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  34. I will make her understand that she is disgracing us both be it true or false because it will reveal her inability to keep her man and her man's inability to control his urge.
    Tips for married women, before your man leaves the house for work that's if he is the type that comes back daily from work and not the twice a month returnee husbands, empty his scrotum literally speaking, as a married man have come to realise that the days my mind wonders most or list after skirts are days I didn't do the do before leaving the house as a young vibrant man but anyday madam exhaust me before I leave for work, every other woman I relate to freely without side attractions...hope am anonymous😎

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  35. I pray such thing never happened in my marriage! I don't have time calling people out, but I don't blame married women who does it too.

    Some single girls are so desperate in destroying other women's homes. I believe some of those single ladies grew hope in a sad environment, or maybe, their parents never had a beautiful marriage.

    As for the men, i'll prefer to deal with my husband indoors than going online. He's not even a social media person (someone that warns me never to put his pictures online.)
    I respect our privacy alot.

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    1. It'd please you to know that married men have become a thorn in the flesh of single ladies. They won't respect themselves and let single ladies be. The single ladies who have no self respect in turn oblige them.

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  36. Ok so I'm obsessed with men wristwatches,I just av a thing for it, so I use my hubby's watch most times, especially d leather straps. So last week as usual I used his Samsung wristwatch, it's usually connected to his Samsung galaxy fone..well unfortunately for him, he still has his msgs and call logs intact, we ve bin married for 3yrs n I av never gone tru his fone. I went tru his msgs an wat I saw scared d shit out of me.. Hes still seeing 3 of his ex gfs and even begging one for a threesome.to say I was mad is an understatement. I got their number and added them on watsap..got their pictures and pics mixed it, all 3 of them and used it as my dp on BBM. He called me almost immediately.. Of cos I answered him like Notting happened. He was soo tensed, asking if am OK and all, seeing he's bin busted.. Of cos I didn't say anything, it's bin days now, n I still haven't said anything to him..saw an alert of 1m on my fone dis morning, bin begging him for 500k to add to d cash I av to restock my shop for d past 3weeks, only for him to send 1m dis morning. Hes soo scared right now, acting all nice like a lost puppy..

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    1. You are the true silent killer (I like that in a way) but don't hold on to it for too long,, call him soon and tell him what you saw. Tell him how disappointed you feel.

      Some men are public dustbin.

      I like your maturity.

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    2. I hope he repents. Pele

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    3. Easier said o. I envy your level of maturity and self control. Only the thought of a possible cheating drives me nut! I once dreamt about a side chic somewhere and I gave my dh attitude for 2days. At first he was begging to know why the attitude but how do I explain he's suffering because I dreamt?lol
      Anon we need to compare notes biko, how do you people keep calm? No pun intended, did you date someone's hubby when you were single? I think people who did finds it easy to handle a cheating situation.

      MrsBee

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    4. Lwkmdieeee....Omo see sense!!! I raise yansh for uπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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    5. Mrs Bee I wish I cld be like her too.if na me I don dey sick,infact I sure say I go dey admission on top heart break

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  37. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 14:14

    Don't be fooled by the money my dear. It's good though BUT chase the flies out of your home so you have his undivided attention.

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  38. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere16 January 2017 at 14:19

    Stella this post has shown that men see nothing wrong in cheating. It is normal to most of them and their wives are supposed to look the other way. What the... i will repeat it: ejo yin ko! It is because your dicks can stand when you frolick with these flies.

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  39. Anonymous 14:06, you are the bomb.....you get brain die. You did the right thing,shouting and fighting all over the place will only make you the fool though i know it took alot of self control on your path but the way you handled it will always give you that pass to ask for whatever you want. I love you already.

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  40. To those saying 'my wife dare not go to SM and spill my shit', 'she can't try it', 'would chase her out', 'would make her write an understatement in the presence of her family' blah blah blah...you lots are jokers of the century. What makes you think the way you go about digging holes and constituting rubbish around communities like stray dogs isn't the same way your wives are getting some nice, young and energetic pouncing. Sit there and spew shit. So men are to get married yet cheat but women are to be faithful while taking in diseases from you bah? Better know some of your wives are playing that game more than you, so hol' up and stick to your vows. Only a woman who doesn't know her worth will scream, cry etc. The OTHER will deal and DEAL with her wandering dawg of spouse real hard and I mean REAL HARD when caught. Some wives ain't laffing or smiling no more, just patiently waiting to strike back.

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  41. Is not the best way of solving marital issues.
    U have succeeded in discovering what ur husband is doing behind u,good,while don't u go down with ur kneel and pray to God.

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  42. Gosh! Wat is it wit men and cheating?

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  43. Gosh! Wat is it wit men and cheating?

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