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Tuesday, 17 January 2017

The Role Of Friends In A Union....

''I am bothered by the increasing sad tales of cheating husbands. I am bothered because I have sisters, nieces, friends and colleagues and would hate to see them go through troubles in their marriages.




One important area I believe every single woman should research into, with much gusto, is knowing the friends of the man she wants to marry. An old wise proverb says ‘show me your friends and I can tell who you are’. The kind of friends men keep, to a large degree, reflects/depicts their personalities. 


When a woman meets a man and falls in love with him, she should, before walking down the aisle, find out the kind of friends he keeps – especially his male friends. Who are his friends? What activities do they enjoy together? What kind of affinity do they share and embrace?


 What are their values and principles about life? Are they God-fearing? Are they honest people? Are their jobs and businesses legitimate? For his friends who are already married, how do they treat their wives?

Many marriages have crashed because of the roles played by friends of the man. When he stays out late, does his friends advise him to go home to his family? When he beats his wife, do they rebuke him and tell him it is wrong for a husband to beat his wife or they hail him and tell him he is ‘the man!’? When he starves his wife and the children and refuse to pay school fees, does his friends clap for him or they reprimand him and tell him a husband and a father MUST cater for his wife and children? 


When he goes around sleeping with other women, do they encourage him by hooking him up with their female colleagues or they chastise him and teach him the virtue of chastity in marriage?

When my older sister got married some years ago, her husband would always come back home very late because after work, he would go ‘hang out with the boys’. My sister became worried and it affected their marriage. But thank goodness, his friends, who were all single at the time, cautioned him. They rightly told him he is now a married man and should spend more time with his wife instead of them. When he would not listen, they stopped calling him for hangouts and also changed where they usually meet and did not inform him. 


Good friends! This made him realize his folly and he began spending more time with his wife. Right now, their marriage is the envy of most couples in their neighborhood. Sadly, not all friends would do this. They encourage the man to ‘hang out with the boys’ and by so doing, they contribute, albeit indirectly, to the possible failure of his marriage.


So ladies, when you meet a man, do not focus only on his personality, his family, his village or his pocket. Beam your searchlight on his friends, too. Get to meet them. Know their priorities, values and philosophy of life because your man’s friends play a role in the way he treats you.


Maybe, just maybe, if women take their time in finding out about the friends of the men that wants to marry them, the many sad tales of domestic violence, emotional abuse, deprivation, cheating, etc. would be reduced by half''.


By BV Chad Otsapa



*I dont know if I agree with you Chad.Some men do not need to hang out with anyone to cheat,they can even do it right inside their homes ...hmmmmmm


81 comments:

God's Favourite said...

Been waiting for this.
I totally agree with Chad.The friends we keep have a great inflence in our lives.

The General's Wife said...

Even the Bible says "Mind the Company you keep"

That Bn said,it all boils down to what you believe in. To Discipline. Do you respect God's word as regards the sancticty of Marriage?
At the end of the day,it's You. Your decision. Not your friends.

gorgeous baby said...

What will you say about a married minister of God who flirt with a single lady,he preaches about holiness but does otherwise,my question is this,his he not surrounded with Godly people.

Blackberry said...

It's only an immature and an ogbongidi man that would wait till friends caution him to change before he would. Common sense ain't cheap.

Anonymous said...

Marry a responsible man. A man who knows keeping his marriage is his duty, and not the duty of his "friends" to remind him. People change all the time. Your man will, and so will his friends.

Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Mostly through friends.

Show me your friends i will tell you who you are.

I agree with what you have written

amanda favour said...

Your write up is true to some extent.
May God continue to preserve our marriages

Oluchi Lambert said...

On point tho I dont agree with everything cos it takes God fearing and discipline to be faithful

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Nice write ups,more power to your elbow,though cheating is a personal thing sometimes

charitybino said...

Well, some are influenced by their friends or even their family background (in cases of polygamy or a cultural thing from the community where they grew up) or a self cultivated habit. But albeit, a man or a woman should check the personality and background of their spouse before serious relationship before thinking of marriage.

Anonymous said...

It takes the grace of God! Some men are so principled while some are hawks! A man who has tendency to cheat will still cheat even when placed in the company of disciplined mates! It's either you trust in God to change his ways or you cook vegetable soup for him😊

healthy ikpu said...

this topic is over flogged already. people cheat for personal reasons not because of friends they keep , unless if the person is an airhead that can be easily influenced!!!

Anonymous said...

I don't know what you mean by "great influence" but if your friend is a ritualist, does it mean you'll become one too?

Anonymous said...

The same bible says to pluck an eye if it'll lead you to sin? How many blind people are among us? Or are we all saints?

Anonymous said...

I know a married man who doesn't have friends except colleagues at work or church members.. In fact he is like a pastor in his church but this man cheats like tomorrow no dey. He even had an affair with a married woman. He keeps using and dumping girls.

The widow said...

People,male or female should marry when they are ready to, work on yourself so you don't hope your friends will call you to order or you don't pray your spouse's friends will. Anybody who wants to cheat will find a way to it takes discipline not to and sadly this kind of discipline isn't common

Monkeynofine said...

Stop all this preaching my dear men are too deaf wat dey need is underground battle , married women please shine your eyez the devil is attacking happy home ,stop nagging. tie him down fight your battle coddedly , go to the mountain visit a strong prophetic ⛪ make sure he doesn't find other women attractive...... Do dis immediately after marriage ... It's not easy to keep a happy home forever.

Bee10 said...

That word "ogbongidi" it haff tey I heard it chai!

Monkeynofine said...

My dear married women do cheat too infact they're professionals ......

Atheist ™ said...

Its not the kind of company of friends he keeps, keepin in mind that there are all kinds of reasons to keep up the friendship with a person, it could be for material gain, subtle way to climb the cooperate ladder or a stepping ground, "friends with benefit", free beer, access to a restricted area.... Etc. You get my drift? Point is to a certain degree ur "friends" reflect ur inner perception, but its not always the case.... Its your mindset, not easily influenced.
That being said, i love being in the company of dangote & Otedolas sons, if they like, make them drink, smoke weed join sef, id laugh at their jokes.

Anonymous said...

This infidelity thing just soared! It wasn't this high in previous years but since porno became a norm and WiFi easily accessible for most, sex urges increased! We now have sex toys, sex medications,anything to enhance and promote sexual desires or fantasies!

Monkeynofine said...

I am just laughing at the article here...... I have been happily married for almost two decade and still counting..... Marriage no be beans ooooo but if u know ur way e soft pass today 🍞

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooo! All them Ashawo Nwoke

Isaacson said...

Friends pay a huge influence in most men lives and this can also affect the mans marriage positively or negatively,but at the same time it all goes down to the man himself,his personal beliefs and discipline will make him heed to good advise from friends regarding his marriage

Also you as a woman trying to use your husband's friends to determine most of the things the poster mentioned above to know the outcome of your marriage life is not totally accurate,because most friends will also decieve and hide thier true nature when you are around and say things you want to hear just so you do not leave their friend and call you sweet names like our wife even before he married you and do so to other ladies when you are not around

SANDY NEKY said...

Is any same man or woman suppose to be influenced by anybody in the first place? After knowing all these, then? Ma dear, I dont agree with this writeup. Thank you

Blackberry said...

Thank you black ikpu, hahahahaaa

Juliet Jonathan said...

A man who wants to cheat would do so regardless of the calibre of his friends.

Monkeynofine said...

If only u guys know how some ladies rub jaz on their body/forehead before going out just to catch a rich aristo......their target is to get a rich married men not single young guys oooo! life after marriage is deep u just have to be smart ! Sometimes the men don't even know what they are doing.

MISS TRUTH said...

What of the one that was cheating on his wife with his own sister living with them? My dear you never meet mad men o. Worst part is that she is not remorseful till today!

MISS TRUTH said...

Yes if your husband has bad friends they can destroy your marriage .

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

I agree with him...... He made a valid point

Manna Bee said...

Hmmmm.πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—#deep

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Amen ooh
What I know is that in the mist of all this cheating or violent horseband,there are still the good ones.

All men don't cheat#

Monkeynofine said...

Thank u oooo

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Wtf is that on ur dp?
Y not be godly for once...... U don't have to use all this pictures.
Don't let the devil use u.

God's Favourite said...

Anon 12:23
Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are.
Evil communication corrupt good manners.
Be not unequally yoked together with unbelivers.
Should i go on? Now you get. Besides we are all entitled to our opinions.

MrsB said...

Marry a man who fears the Lord

Anonymous said...

Monkeynofine your comment is the only sensible comment here, so many dull married women in this world. Check his friends ko, check his boxers no.

iyke david said...

Agreed!
'Bad association, spoils useful habits'

Anonymous said...

Stella i swear I was just thinking about this last night. God really uses your blog.
And i must say, i agree totally with everything Chad has said.
Yeah you are right. Some men would cheat even if they are on an island without any friend. But there are also those who have a bit of decency in them that would ordinarily not go out of their way looking for women. But there are those friends that always have different women to offer. The man might resist for some time, but at the end of the day, we are all human. One day he might just decide to play along.
So my husband was very open with me, till some months ago when I started sensing he was hiding something. He started hanging out like never .one night, I prayed to God, and the next day I discovered/stumbled upon about a certain lady. This caused so much tension in our marriage. At the end of the day, turns out madam lady was introduced by this close friend of his. Mr friend told hubby this lady likes him so much. Kept inviting madam lady to their hangouts. And she got closer and closer to hubby. On one occasion, they were somewhere and madam lady was telling hubby they should go out to a private place. Hubby didn't agree. And friends were teasing, that he had a lady willing to go to a 'private place' and he is dulling. They made fun of him that he had to leave them and go home.
Long story short, hubby has sworn with everything he holds dear, including his life, that yeah, he was getting close with madam lady, but not sexual had happened.
I asked for his phone and went through his chats. I saw chats with Mr Friend and almost all the chats were dirty pics and ' p***y jokes from mr friend to hubby. All the time .
At the end of the day, I thank God for calling my attention to whatever was about to happen. And I made my stance clear to hubby. Anybody that doesn't respect me or our marriage should not be a part of our lives. Cos if mr friend respected me ( he comes to our house often) and our marriage, he would be the one to stop hubby if he sees him doing something wrong. But to encourage it???? Nah He should stay away.
Not saying hubby doesn't have his blame too, just saying " most times we are not hungry, but the availability of food makes us want to eat"

Rahel said...

Stella, please Chad is so on point. Do you know how many friends have broken homes in Naija? Countless yes anony 12:23 if one day you find yourself having issues you just might be convinced by your friend to be ritualistic.

Mariah said...

I totally agree with this write-up. A man who will cheat, abuse his wife etc will do so without an excuse or reason but this would also help one have an idea of what he/she is getting into. Lovely write-up.

Kay Bee said...

@ Anonymous 12.23. No, you won't become one, rather you'll be the 'ritualed' in sacrifice to appease the gods. Be there o!.

Kay Bee said...

@ Anonymous 12.23. No, you won't become one, rather you'll be the 'ritualed' ie sacrifice to appease the gods. Be there o!.

grace said...

Truetalk

Anonymous said...

I don't know why I cheat! I got a beautiful, pretty and hardworking wife. I have an adorable baby girl, infact, I adore my dota.
I am not rich, handsome or with well built body, but ladies find me irresistible. Possibly cos I am generous.
I only fall for beautiful and sexy ladies and each time I got laid, I would be broken internally for cheating on her again and will always vow that the act will be the last until I meet another hottie.
I don't want to hurt my woman!
I need help!
Sorry I have to go anon on this.

BLOGLORD said...

Good talk @ the poster but who wan spoil go spoil. Whether with their friends urging them or not.

A good man is a good man because he knows what's right and what's wrong

A bad man, even though the world cautions him, he will still go underG and appear on the surface like nothing happened until yawa gas

Anonymous said...

This is very true. Men tak about their relationships and marriages to useless friends more than women. I have had male interferences in the past. The thing is the men all live to regret their behavior. One of my ex'es had this friend who was married and will claim he was not and be having full fledged relationships with other women. While his wife was slaving abroad to feed him. I had witnessed him bring other women to functions with him. Or noticed he brought women to my boyfriends house then. We fought and fought over this guy. But I don't know why my ex insisted on this friendship until this boy destroyed his life. My ex recently got married and this man was in his wedding train. I wish his new wife well because she will see hell in that marriage as long as he refuses to get rid of that useless friend. When dating he gave my ex horrible advises on how to deal with his relationship. And my ex takes his advice and trusts him like kilode. I don't even know if they are gay lovers.lol. Thank God I refused to marry him when he asked. We will agree on a decision and suddenly my ex will come back and start giving crazy orders and acting strange. May we not have enemies who refuse to leave our business alone and attach themselves to us like a virus.

SANDY NEKY said...

Sane*

Mao Akuh said...

A man that's emotionally matured should know when to say NO and when to say YES.

Gi Coco said...

Not exactly true. I had a friend that was dating one dude that associates with unserious fellas. At least, that was the way my sis and I saw them. Cos they hang around our former street, in front of football viewing center and could gossip for ages, once a girl passes, they will deliberate on her history. Was disappointed when my sis friend said one of the dudes was her bf. But we didn't discourage her, the guy turned out to be good, he had a good heart. Got a job, and married his gal. Due to change in status, he had less time to hang around streets though he still says hello to his former friends.
The point I'm making is sometimes not everyone is bad in a particular friend setting. Who knows, a good one may just be there for one or two benefits like Atheist pointed out. Cheating is a choice.

Gi Coco said...

I also know of one man that works offshore. His numerous colleagues had mistresses and flirt a lot cos they money and work shift permits that. But he didn't want to leave his life like that. Anytime his colleagues would have mistresses, he shows up with his wife. You won't believe that even with his habit, his wife is troublesome. And he usually says, I know it's because of my money you regard me. So, some men may not have the interest of mistresses or side chicks unless their wife pushes them.

Anonymous said...

If women would marry men who do not play with their church activities, such would not happen. It is easier to change a man who loves God than to change someone who has no fear of God.

The grace of God makes you mind the company you keep. You become uncomfortable with such company. It is only the grace of God.

There are men who come home early, they have no friends yet they are cheating with housegirl, co-worker, neighbors.

When it comes to sexual temptation, the best thing is to flee. Joseph flee from Portiphar's wife. He didn't sit down there to form 'I am a strong man and I can resist her'. 'Flee'is the word.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

Ronalda. said...

A randy man with high libido and low family values doesn't need friends to carry out his shenanigans. At best, his friends with similar values will only act as enablers. What about pastors who cheat on their wives? You rarely see them associate with "worldly" friends, yet they carry out their atrocities like a smooth operator. I agree to an extent that a man can be influenced by his friends, but when it comes to infidelity, a man who can't fight the urge to have sex outside his home, will always find a way to do it with or without the help of friends. It's like having a palette for beer, having a cold glass of beer is ideal but you can always settle for room temperature as well.‎

Do you realise there are some men who act pious around their friends and even condemn the ones who keep side chics but parado‎xically they do worse when no friend is around. I agree that "hanging with the boys" can create the right atmosphere to cheat because there are usually very willing participants hanging around joints were guys hang out, a man who get lured in the process, is only doing what he has always wanted to do but lacked the opportunity. Not all men who hang out late cheat on their wives. Some don't go out late or hang with the boys but they have mistresses tuck in somewhere. Some men have friends who worship and adore their wives but they have some who abuse their wives in spite of all the admonition friends the circle of friends.

Unfortunately, infidelity can't be eradicated. It existed before Christ was born, perhaps before the days of Abraham and it ain't going nowhere. It is good to know the friends a man or woman keeps but more importantly, look out for a person with the fear of God in his/her heart. A person who has both an emotional and a physical connection with you, a person who truly loves and respects you. With these qualities, infidelity will never be a lifestyle. If it occurs, it's more like a moment of weakness that he/she will be so remorseful for and will be eager to make peace with God first before you.‎

Anonymous said...

Nne at 12.31, sex has always been like this, d population increased and instagram get show more pic, but as for sex! E don Tay wen pipo dey do coded gbenshing

Anonymous said...

Prayer nullifies all that crap. And trust me d jazz no dey last

Anonymous said...

U blame d sis in this case!

Chinny Baby said...

A man who wants to cheat will cheat.

Ronalda. said...

No, my darling. Infidelity has always been at its peak, the Internet only brings about the awareness and easy accessibility. Take king Solomon for example, I'm not sure we've ever had any man in recent times who had 500 women at his disposal let alone 1000. In the days of yore, polygamy was "on fleek". Some people's great grandfathers married over 5 women and still had concubines. "Civilisation" curbed polygamy to an extent though polygamy is still a legal type of marriage in Nigeria. ‎

Ironically, some of these sex toys you've mentioned are the reason some women don't cheat on their husbands. I agree that the Internet has helped to make it easier, though, especially for women. Since society applauds infidelity amongst men but shames the same practice amongst women. A lot of women carry out coded relationships with other men via social media.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 13:53 you are disgusting and you lack discipline. The money you spend on those women could be spent on the "dota" you claim to love so much. I hope your wife finds out and leaves you so you can spread your sperm around town in peace and eventually end up wit AIDS from "another hottie". Mumu man.

Anonymous said...

You're lucky you're not married to me. I would've shown you pepper 🌢 with a very enchanting smile. You men think you're the only ones who can be promiscuous. Just imagine your wife doing all the things you do with those girls with other men.

You're not even rich! Instead of you to save your money for your family. Oniranu!

Ijora 1 said...

Marry men that love church activities? Don't even go there, rather marry a man that loves God and respects God.

My friend married a Christ Embassy worker, the guy sleeps and wakes up in church; 3 months after he got married to my friend another girl put to bed for him.

Ijora 1 said...

Marry men that love church activities? Don't even go there, rather marry a man that loves God and respects God.

My friend married a Christ Embassy worker, the guy sleeps and wakes up in church; 3 months after he got married to my friend another girl put to bed for him.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

You people dont know that it's poor men who cheat most? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ They can't afford anything but the little they have they want to go and spend on one razz babe. If my husband is filthy Rixh and is cheating at least I will say he has enough to go round. See this poor ugly pot-bellied man that can't even spell 'daughter' being unfaithful!!

Mscheew!! Orisirisi

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

The reason why women find you irresistible is because your village doctor has washed your head with yamayama. You keep amassing different spiritual curses from different vaginas. And the poor woman would be there fasting and praying for the yeye husband..... tufia !

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

But many men don't have sense and seek validation from friends. Just that unlike us women they won't go 'my friend this' 'my friend that'

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

It's always been there. We are just older and more aware about marriage and issues concerning married couples now - esp those of us who are yet to get married. Ahn Ahn.... e don tay na... but when you're a kid who's aim in life is to pass exam and get Christmas cloth you won't be bothered if papa bisi is sitting in his car with the neighbors daughter. You will even greet them and pass. Sex toys too have always been. Porn back then wasn't it hints and hearts and playboy magazines? πŸ˜‚ Didn't Shan George pose almost nude one time in the news papers? Most old Hollywood celebs used to release sex tape back then that ruined a lot of homes because husbands would buy the tapes of their Hollywood fantasies and won't touch their wives again.

Even importantation of babes.... It's an old habit that some of these boys learnt from their fathers.

Small gist...... (una know say I dey get gist abi? πŸ˜‚) my dad had this younger business partner. Baddooo πŸ™ŒπŸ½. Very young handsome and rich. The guy dey import babes as far back as 1990s. He got divorced sef cos his wife was cheating too after he bought her a two-door one-in-town ride. They came for counseling in my house. As he was complaining the woman too opened his own. We pin ear for door πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ See linen washing!! Anyhoo, they sha parted ways and so they both could live freely. But we heard that they were still gbenshing until recently πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Then when we go for sleepover at his place in ikoyi back then (his first kids were around my age and I'm one of the youngest in my house) we dey see different things. Tall, short, black, fair, American accent, Romanian accent. Orisirisi!! Nice 'aunties' who the kids called daddy's guests. When I think about it now ehn I dey cut cap for am. In the mid 1990s I'm telling you EXOTIC babes. With his military friends. Do buffet, pop champagne, file out by 10pm to continue the party where kids won't see. monday morning e go carry face like say him dey too strict and disciplined! Of course the day we gisted my mum of what we used to see: sleepover finished and the friendship with my dad died a natural death πŸ˜‚

Yet all these new money boys would be shouting as if they are the first to import cheap foreign babes! Abeg. The book of eccl. Summarized that 'there is nothing new under the sun. It's all vanity. You do and die another person take over'. No be ex-president chop apple 🍎 die? Who give am? No be imported hoe? My dear, this business it haff tay. But gist circulates faster now cos of technology. #dazall


Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Besides @Ronalda my grandfather married 8 wives and had more than 32 children. Had like 4 steady concubines who have birth for him and pinned the kids on their husbands. Strong man ba? πŸ˜‚ And some of his wives took in for other men and pinned the kids on him. We didn't know until it was time to share property after he died and all the wives started leaking each others secrets. Some of these kids he had trained abroad oh were not even his πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ infidelity tales....

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

God forbid. End time ex

Newbie Alert! SDK- MyNewFound Obsession said...

I enjoy your tales Chikito! Had a good laugh, but true story though! The oldest habit, trade and activity in human history is infidelity! It "haff" indeed "tee"

Fab Mum said...

Anon hope you know the Bible didn't literally mean eye. Just means cutting of what will make you sin. If your friend will make you son, pluck him off

Anonymous said...

In as much as i'd like to agree with this. I believe we're mostly one sided when talking about abuse in marriage. Husbands also face abuse in marriage! Though it may be common with women but men also go through this. My brother is married to a psychopath with terrible mood swings who can do and undo when she's in that her mood but the annoying thing is that my brother has refused to get a divorce because he is a pastor with RCCG(i told him when he leaves RCCG wouldn't even remember his name let alone give him a post humuous award). So let's try create balance when talking about abuse in marriage and not be biased.

Anonymous said...

This Is a good post.my husband to ne has This idiot he calls his friend.the walks into how and make sure he tells my man how things should ne done.you don't buy this.you don't buy that he even goes as far as telling what to eat.time to eat and time to drink.he says my guy why are you wearing a black shirt .and I am seating there just watching the idiot .he does everything for my man to leave the house when we are enjoying a quiet time.i am 24 hours irritated when this man shows up.pls my ladies and women how do I handle such a person.I need advice.

Mhiz Vee said...

I'm surprised you all became saints and went judgemental on anon 13:53.

The first step to repentance is acknowledging your sins. You all threw stones at him without giving him a solution to his problem. Where's d love?

He loves his family but has a dirty habit that he can't seem to let go of.

If I come to u and tell u I'm a drug addict and I need help, will u throw stones and kick me out or would u rather help me?

If anyone has any reasonable advice for him, then go ahead and offer it and stop acting like saints that u're not.

@anon 13:53 I think u might have to tell ur wife dat u've been cheating and beg her like ur life depends on it cos it actually does.

I think telling her might help u discipline urself and she'll also be there to monitor and bring u back to ur senses.

#MyOpinion

Anonymous said...

Ahn ,ahn , u people can write stories o! Tufia!!!

Anonymous said...

Minister with deaconess nko? In this perilous times, the wheat will be clearly seperated from the chaff.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

@Newbie me I'm still wondering what the 'apple' was that Eve gave to Adam that made them 'know thier nakedness' and made us have to start bearing children through labour pains. 'Oldest habit in human history'. Are you thinking what I'm thinking? Me I must sha make it to heaven. God and I will have very long chats because the bible has parables. That 'apple' ayam not understanding.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Madam you should have seen it while you were courting. No?

Brian david said...

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Felicia Javae said...

This world is a cruel place for real. I have been suffering from Marriage problems for 9 months now not knowing my best friend has been the main cause of my problem. My story may be useful to you, please take your time and read.

I am Mrs Felicia, I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a son of 4 years old. My marriage was very beautiful with my husband because we where so much in love with each other until my husband automatically changed towards me and my son. He started keeping late nights and stopped caring for me and our son
Several times i asked him what the matter was but he never had any reason for his wrong behavior towards me and our son. He keeps telling me that his head is heavy and he his tired with our marriage. He said he wants a divorce. I begged several times and reminded him of our lovely past life but he never listened to me nor the cry of our son. One day a friend of mine came into town then i told him about my situation. He connected me with a great powerful man called Dr Okosu. He told me that this man has helped him get his ex back and get a good job too. He advised me to give him a trial. I contacted this man via his email: drokosu01@gmail.com
He told me that my best friend was the cause of my problem. That my best friend is using a love charm on my husband so as to destroy my marriage. Ohh this got me really deverstated but thank God that Dr Okosu was able to break the charm and within 2 days my husband came back home and regained himself he showed me how much he loved me just as he use to. Everything worked perfectly and we are all living now as one happy family. Some days later my friend also came to me to confex her evil deeds and begged for my forgiveness. Dr Okosu asked me to forgive her and so i did.

I will continue to speak of your good works great Man Dr Okosu. And may the Almighty God continue to use you to help other people in this world.

Please my people don't suffer in silence, you too can also try this man i believe it would work for you just as it worked for me. This is his email: drokosu01@gmail.com

Dr Okosu is also good for solutions on many other problems

(1) Do want your ex back .
(2) Do you wish to be rich
(3) You want to find true love
(4) Want a child.
(5) You want to be lucky in everything you do
(6) Do you wish to get your lost money back or get your due payment.
(7) need financial assistance.
(8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
(9) Cure for any disease.

Contact DR Okosu today and i am sure you won't regret it. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com

Felicia Javae said...

This world is a cruel place for real. I have been suffering from Marriage problems for 9 months now not knowing my best friend has been the main cause of my problem. My story may be useful to you, please take your time and read.

I am Mrs Felicia, I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a son of 4 years old. My marriage was very beautiful with my husband because we where so much in love with each other until my husband automatically changed towards me and my son. He started keeping late nights and stopped caring for me and our son
Several times i asked him what the matter was but he never had any reason for his wrong behavior towards me and our son. He keeps telling me that his head is heavy and he his tired with our marriage. He said he wants a divorce. I begged several times and reminded him of our lovely past life but he never listened to me nor the cry of our son. One day a friend of mine came into town then i told him about my situation. He connected me with a great powerful man called Dr Okosu. He told me that this man has helped him get his ex back and get a good job too. He advised me to give him a trial. I contacted this man via his email: drokosu01@gmail.com
He told me that my best friend was the cause of my problem. That my best friend is using a love charm on my husband so as to destroy my marriage. Ohh this got me really deverstated but thank God that Dr Okosu was able to break the charm and within 2 days my husband came back home and regained himself he showed me how much he loved me just as he use to. Everything worked perfectly and we are all living now as one happy family. Some days later my friend also came to me to confex her evil deeds and begged for my forgiveness. Dr Okosu asked me to forgive her and so i did.

I will continue to speak of your good works great Man Dr Okosu. And may the Almighty God continue to use you to help other people in this world.

Please my people don't suffer in silence, you too can also try this man i believe it would work for you just as it worked for me. This is his email: drokosu01@gmail.com

Dr Okosu is also good for solutions on many other problems

(1) Do want your ex back .
(2) Do you wish to be rich
(3) You want to find true love
(4) Want a child.
(5) You want to be lucky in everything you do
(6) Do you wish to get your lost money back or get your due payment.
(7) need financial assistance.
(8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
(9) Cure for any disease.

Contact DR Okosu today and i am sure you won't regret it. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com

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