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Tuesday, 24 January 2017

Time To Learn English.

I am posting this because a lot of blog visitors make these mistakes and this might help......If you like dont open this post,na you sabi...





This is from Punch....

My initial plan was to treat may and might today – being two other important modal verbs, But I had to change the plan based on two related questions/requests that I received from some readers.

They want to know which is correct between you and I and you and me. I guess that we can quickly deal with this because many other people are confused over the correct usage of the expressions. Yet, I want to compound the question before we get the solution.

Why do we say you and I and not I and you; and why you and me instead of me and you? In other words, which of the following statements do you consider incorrect?

I and John attended the school.
John and I attended the school.
Me and John attended the school.
John and me attended the school.
I and you will go there tomorrow.
You and I will go there tomorrow.
He wants to see me and you.
He wants to see you and me.
Others first, self last

Unlike a language, such as Yoruba, which has specific grammatical elements to indicate respect for elders, English does not really differentiate between ages. For instance, Yoruba has o as a pronoun for a young person or one’s mate and won for an elder:

O ti lo (He has gone – for one’s mate or younger fellow.)

Won ti lo (He has gone – for an elder.)

But, in English, it is the he you use to refer to a male child that you use to identify his father – just as she and you remain constant. The English people, however, accommodates politeness and they demonstrate this with some grammatical choices or rules.

One of such is that in phrases where the speaker and other people are doing something or receiving the action, others should come first, followed by the speaker or writer:

I and Wizkid entered the hall at the same time (Wrong)

Wizkid and I entered the hall at the same time (Correct)

They clapped for me and Wizkid (Wrong)

They clapped for Wizkid and me. (Correct)

The governor abused me and you. (Wrong)

The governor abused you and me. (Correct)

In all the correct sentences, we accord the other people the first mention to show politeness. If you thus go back to the opening eight clauses that I asked you to study, you should be able to explain why numbers 1, 3, 5 and 7 are not right. Instead, it is numbers 2, 4, 6 and 8 that are correct.

I and John attended the school. (Wrong)
John and I attended the school. (Correct)
Me and John attended the school. (Wrong)
John and me attended the school. (Correct)
I and you will go there tomorrow. (Wrong)
You and I will go there tomorrow. (Correct)
He wants to see me and you. (Wrong)
He wants to see you and me. (Correct)

You and …

A lot of people do mix up you and I and you and me. Let me first note that both are correct and they are allowed in standard English – unlike between you and me and between you and I where the latter is wrong.

Remember, we dedicated a lesson to between you and me versus between you and I last year and I noted that the correct expression is between you and me because, in English, it is the objective pronoun that normally follows between.

Back to you and I and you and me, both are acceptable, but they are used in different contexts. If you use one where you are supposed to use the other, you would be wrong. The basic point is that while you and I is used as the subject of a clause, you and me is chosen for the objective position. I hope you remember that the subject of a clause is the doer of the action, while the object is the receiver:

John killed a snake. (‘John’ is the subject while ‘snake’ is the object.)

You saw me. (‘You’ is the subject, ‘me’ the object.)

You and I must go there. (Correct)

You and me must go there. (Wrong)

You and I watched the match. (Correct)

You and me watched the match. (Wrong)

They abused you and me. (Correct)

They abused you and I. (Wrong)

The success of the programme depends on you and me. (Correct)

The success of the programme depends on you and I. (Wrong)

Whenever you get confused as to whether you should use you and I or you and me, break the compound subject or object down and see whether I or me will work:

They congratulated you.

They congratulated me.

They congratulated I. (Wrong)

They congratulated you and me. (Correct)

They congratulated you and I. (Wrong)

You washed the car.

I washed the car.

Me washed the car. (Wrong)

You and I washed the car. (Correct)

You and me washed the car. (Wrong)
 


85 comments:

Kay Bee said...

Ok

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much Stella. You have added value to my life today. Ilook forward to the 'May' and 'mIGHT', 'Will and Would' etc. *jojo

Becky Divine said...

I'm not perfect
But i already know all these. Thanks for the effort tho

Anonymous said...

EngRish tinZ

De Unbreakable said...

Educating...they should also treat more common mistake that people most likely mix up when writing e.g

I'm and Am.
Cause and Course. Etc

Chilaka Christian said...

Nwa Teacher

SANDY NEKY said...

Noted! We learn everyday😁10x!

white Berry said...

Noted

Rhoda Rex said...

Nice

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Who English epp? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

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Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

I learnt something, thank you!

amanda favour said...

Oyibo wu agbara
Stella thanks for posting

viva ciara said...

The one that irritates me most is 'Thank God is Friday'. I fucking hate it.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

hahahahaha let me look for trouble today. Portable this is for you hahahahaha.

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

And one fellow with cotton wool filled brain will come and shout "Na who English epp" seem like sometin my ex will say iiiiiisssshhhhh I hate to hear him say that with his..........

The last born. said...

Very important in English language. Stella and me are getting married soon. ( correct) Stella and I are getting married soon (wrong).

Chidinma Grace said...

Let me add to the lecture. Your sentences are correct but in reporting a crime, you mention yourself first before your partner in crime. But in other usage, you mention d second person b4 your name. Example: Myself and john killed the woman(correct) John and I came to your house(correct). John and I killed the woman(wrong).

Anonymous said...

Lmao! Aunty Stella, please correct the "am" vs I'm first, and the will and would that even our Aunty London Chikito can't seem to use correctly

STARRY LARRY said...

Thanks so much for this




*Larry was here*

Intelligentsia princess said...

Good..but who plenty grammar without shi shi for pocket help?

SuperMom said...

Thank you.

OLORI said...

Oyinbo oo

Why can't I open ihn?

Smallz said...

Nice!
Efe BBNaija, I like you but you need to stop speaking like what I don't know. If you wanna use English, complete the sentence in English and stop mixing pidgin.

Anonymous said...

Copy and paste made easy! Stella your own daily gbagaun no get part two too.

Anonymous said...

Who English EPP

OmoBee said...

Who English epp?

Anonymous said...

Una don hear. Dem plenty for this blog. All those visitors wey think sey na them own the blog.
No 1: I...e
And others. Lol

Hadey Halaba said...

As long as we understand each oda. No problem

Lilly simple said...

Give her, her book

Justyswt said...

Good to know.

Anonymous said...

Oyinbo bu...

peculiar said...

thanks for the lecture

Egwuonwu Bertha said...

Sdk really educating

MADAM GAGOOL said...

Fantastic!
Stella please also address the use of
Am and I'm
Whose and who's
Been and being
This and These

Amongst others.
It really irks me when I see the interchange of these words used wrongly.

LAS GidDY said...

Elementary tutorial

I always say it to anyone who cares to listen, if you aren't acquainted with the English language from the cradle and teens phase of life...forget it because it will definitely be an uphill task in your adulthood with unnecessary "gbagauns" here and there.

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...good to know. no more blunder!

Wendixx said...

Phew!!

A little confusing, but enlightening. Learnt 1 or 2 things.

I really think we should also correct this "am" issue. It's getting out of hand. The correct one is "I'm" or "I am".

People take note.

Thanks..

ololade Salaudeen said...

hmm nice. Thanks

LEE70 said...

Refreshment course for us bvsπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

Anonymous said...

This was helpful I just have to remember to save the page

mercy otalike said...

Wow, thank you this Stella..

Lady C said...

No knowledge is lost.thanks stella.

SANDY NEKY said...

Yeah and also still on bed (wrong)and still in bed(right)

Anonymous said...

girls make una correct una selves now because na una dey vomit nonsense grammar for mouth

Mosi Jubelo said...

No knowledge is wasted.....
I learnt

Rhoda Rex said...

E concern u?

MrsB said...

Or 'high hills'

And 'I'm on a white gown'

Anonymous said...

Stella this segment should treated regularly. Most of your bvs are air-heads especially the graduates and masters degree holders. They should be taught the use of 'being and been' 'his and is' 'brothers and brother's' 'there and their' 'shot and shut' e.t.c. It's a very disturbing issue. Little wonder so many of them are jobless!

charitybino said...

OK o. I have learnt today without being in school.

Anonymous said...

This post will help the following people to improve their English.

Whiteberry (bomb master)
Rolex chick(Assistant bomb master)
Peacemaker
Mac Pinky(Adebisi)
Queen and boss
Kidjo
Portable Viv
Lovemejeje
Ibukunoluwa
Sandy Neky
Isaacson
SDK herself

I'm coming back

Anonymous said...

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SWAG LAFRESH said...

Abi ooo. Noted. I pray make some of us remember

SWAG LAFRESH said...

CheckπŸ‘†

Anonymous said...

Another one is Mrs R, that woman needs to go back to school.

SDKBluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

Lol

The Observer said...

Been and being! Gosh smh

The Observer said...

High Hills????!!! I don die oooo Hahahahhahahaha I haven't seen that one so far. Gosh high Hills

Anonymous said...

love mejeje u need dis post wella oo.

Vivilicious said...

Myself and John killed the woman (wrong)
I and John killed the woman ( correct)

Anonymous said...

Porta and The General wife join together. Smart crooks abbreviating 'been' and 'being' since 19korodogo
Jobless illiterates

Villager said...

Lolzzz. E epp mee o

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Me 😁

Makason said...

Lolz

Makason said...

@ Sandy,Tnx for pointing it out, especially on SP,some blog visitors always use still on Bed.
Noted.

Anonymous said...

Olodo ratarata

Makason said...

Tnx,Stella for the post..
Noted.

RichyGame said...

There you have it. My friend nearly fought me on "You and I" saying it don't matter.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Thanks for bringing it here Stells.

olammi pheiffer said...

rhoda STFU

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Prophetess you are.... move up!! πŸ˜‚

ukwu dimond said...

English no be papa language

ukwu dimond said...

*my

Miss inquisitive said...

I love this segment. I hope to see more as time passes

Anonymous said...

Smh this is not true. You would not say 'they congratulated you and me'..you would say 'they congratulated US'.

Anonymous said...

Try and also note to stop stealing.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

How about "loose" instead of "lose". Aaarrrggghhh!! that gets my goat all the time!! Stella you use it too,take note.

Sherry's Daughter

SANDY NEKY said...

Uwc Makason! Yes oo, I see that a lot in SP post. We all aint perfect jare, english is hardπŸ˜πŸ˜€. Dont mind all those itks suffering from OCD syndromeπŸ™„πŸ˜

Cynthia said...

This is really good and educative Stella. These are common mistakes we make daily whether consciously or unconsciously. Another very common one is Been and Being.

Cynthia said...

We should always be open to learning, nobody has monopoly of knowledge.

Beautiful Eagle said...

This is a nice initiative. Too many illiterate BVs, and na them dey run mouth pass.
Please do another one for "Am" and "I'm". and "They're" and "Their"

Wendixx said...

@Sandy, you're so correct. So many so called graduates use wrong tenses and excuse them as typographical errors **rolls eyes**

mma cee said...

John and me attended the school. (Correct).
This is wrong !
John and Me are subjective pronounpronouns.
It should read "John and I " instead .
Thanks.
I learnt a lot

Anonymous said...

John and I killed d woman. You people will never learn

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