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Thursday, February 23, 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

This is a replay of a Nollywood movie ooooo.ah ah!!!




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FAMILY BROUHAHA

Good day Stella and my lovely bv's. I love this blog and am so addicted to it. Am bringing my story here because there'll be unbiased truth.(please hide my mail address). My story goes forth:

We are 6 siblings,which is 2 ladies and 4guys. My father retired early and couldn't send our 3 younger siblings through the university despite having enough money while working which we never knew about because he was always giving to his family members who later left him without any help for his children after his retirement. 


Thank God for my mum who tried her best,she made sure she saw my 3siblings through the university without my father contributing one naira or even applauding my mom but always castigating her that are we not her children? Even for my dad to call to say hi,my father never did such, in fact he cared less.
Now the issue here right now is that the last son wanted to get married, she brought the lady home and we were all nice to her(note that he married before any of us). 


Let's call the lady Eva. Eva declared that we are all nice including my mum.Na so they started rushing wedding within 5months of meeting each other(age was so much on their side) . We asked maybe Eva was pregnant, he said no. Well, wedding day came and all of us participated seriously in one thing or the other but prior to the wedding, my younger brother had a dream that the lady might not be a good girl because Eva had already been living with my brother before marriage .


 Some months into the marriage, Eva started showing her real colour. She became very disrespectful to everyone and even to my mum.My dad was surprised at her behavior and called her to order.My mum decided to visit them after the birth of their son, though they still didn't want her to visit. While my mum was there , Eva's mother and sister came out to the living room,na their wahala start. Eva started shouting that why would her mum in law visit, at last, my brother including Eva, Eva's mum and sister sent my mum away.


 My mum wept like never before and she was like so this is her effort for sending my brother to school. Not quite long after,my dad visited them, he just changed. We were all surprised.He started supporting anything Eva and my brother does,infact,he became mother in law, visiting them severally while my mum became the father in law. To say we were all shocked is a ruse. My brother has forgotten about the 5of us(though 4 of us are married now to the glory of God) and he's not in good terms with anyone except my father.


Eva became so rude and she doesn't send anyone till now,maybe because we are so gentle. I told my dad that even though you have hatred for your wife, it shouldn't be up to the extent of siding Eva against your wife. It got to the extent that if anyone of us calls our last sibling and advise him against what he's doing that a river that forgets it's source shall dry, the next thing he does is to call my father and report the person to him even if it's my mum!!! and the next thing is my dad calling the person to order. 


This my brother became very rude, arrogant, disrespectful to my mum and even all of us. Eva doesn't even bother to call my mum and if my mum calls, she won't pick, my mum complained about this to my brother that Eva doesn't even call despite reaching out to her but my brother will say she's not working but they can flaunt their wealth in everyone's face. 


I tried talking to my brother but he kept ignoring me. This guy doesn't even deem it fit to give something to his mum monthly, even when he comes home, he comes to flaunt his money to everyone's face. Up till now, my dad hasn't said a word about Eva's unruly behavior to all of us especially that of my mum. Even if Eva curses my mum, my dad will still take sides. 

Am beginning to think this isn't ordinary again. My mum is regretting ever sending that boy through school because without God and mum, he wouldn't be where he is today. Please, my bv's, what do you see to this or what can bring back love to the family cos sincerely ever since Eva married our brother, my father and brother just changed and this was a guy who never loves his dad but his mum and vowed to take care of her for what she did but now, the reverse is the case.


We never did anything wrong to Eva and my brother, God is my witness, she just changed few months after her wedding. Sorry for my long epistle, Na Nigeria movie I dey see this, never ever believed it can happen to us. Thanks all, will be reading your comments and pray.....


*Just like that?why exactly was your mum sent away?is this how Jazz works?Is your mum troublesome?
Hmm na wah,I dont know what to say,maybe you all should watch that movie prayer room?
I hope you get good advice here.




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    1. Thank you everyone for your comments. I didn't really write all what happened cos I will become Ruben Abati. We observed that Eva hid her real behavior b4 marrying my brother. It pains me and I weep that people don't know the agonies some people go through in life which is what happened to my mum. I don't call them and have totally ignored them but for people to say maybe because he's rich that's y we are all over him, well thank God we are all educated but if I lie against Eva, God shld judge me. I have told my mum to LEAVE THE BOY ALONE, but she can't. Well, thank you all but please start remembering your children in prayer now cos I have learned a great lesson from all this. During their introduction, none of the siblings came to celebrate with Eva except her mum. Once again, thank you, God bless you all

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    2. Thank you everyone for your comments. I didn't really write all what happened cos I will become Ruben Abati. We observed that Eva hid her real behavior b4 marrying my brother. It pains me and I weep that people don't know the agonies some people go through in life which is what happened to my mum. I don't call them and have totally ignored them but for people to say maybe because he's rich that's y we are all over him, well thank God we are all educated but if I lie against Eva, God shld judge me. I have told my mum to LEAVE THE BOY ALONE, but she can't. Well, thank you all but please start remembering your children in prayer now cos I have learned a great lesson from all this. During their introduction, none of the siblings came to celebrate with Eva except her mum. Once again, thank you, God bless you all

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    3. Give him space, you guys are always calling and trying to advice him. Most last borns do not like to be cautioned because it seems that they have been corrected all their lives and now that they are adults they feel they are grown enough to make thier own decisions. Pls take good care of your mum, always try to make her happy so she doesn't always reneber the pain caused by your brother. If you give him space he will know he isn't that important and his will turn to the only nag in his life hereby making him run back to you guys or if it's jazz giving him space and time will eventually reveal everything. My dear just bone the nigga.

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    4. Knack naked prayer on eva , your dad and brother and I bet you their brain will reset automatically.

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    5. Poster please let your useless brother be! Who the hell does he think he is? How much does he have that is making him misbehave? Aren't you and your other siblings doing well enough? And even if you guys arent, that's not enough reason for your brother to misbehave. Pls you people shld let him be, let him rot in hell. I hate when a sibling decides he's better than his other siblings. Ignore him, let him eat his money with his nonsense wife.

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    6. This is exactly what is happening in our family to, things happen in families that look alike! Let e read comments

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    7. This is exactly what is happening in our family to, things happen in families that look alike! Let e read comments

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    8. Give him space. Leave him alone. It hurts and yes this isn't ordinary but pray for bitterness and anger not to set in. Steer clear of their house and all that concerns them. It is very annoying but that's what to do. Ignore them. In time your brother will come to see the folly of his ways.
      Perhaps also you and your mom and whoever else should stop brandishing the fact that he was sent to school by your mom. That's her responsibility really. Stop saying you did anything because it was done out of love and nothing else. I know it hurts and it is everyone's prayer that their families stay together but sometimes it is best for things not understood such as this to be left alone and in the hands of God. Good luck.

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    9. This is like nollywood movie, ur father is chinwetalu and ur mum chinwe owoh.... It's diabolical and it's either Eva or ur dad that did the jazz. This one that automatically he started liking ur bro and wife which is as a result of d money ur bro has. He must have done jazz to turn them away from ur mum n siblings so he can enjoy everything despite being a lazy man. U people should just give them space, if it's jazz it will expire someday.

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    10. When I see things like this. I'm grateful for my four girls. I really wanted a boy but now I think God really loves me cos I can't bear any stupid girl turning my child against me. I treat my dad and mom like precious stones. I am not expecting less from my girls.

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    11. U people should just ignore them. And watch out, pls u people should pray for ur brother incase it is jazz. This just sound like my elder brother wife. Everyone just left them alone the worst part is she doesn't have a child yet after 6 years of marriage. But very wicked wife.

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    12. Poster am sure ur mum went thr and was constantly reminding everyone that she is the messiah, if not for her Eva won't be enjoying all this comfort. Am sure ur brother is sick of hearing that hence d reason he barred her from coming to his house.

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    13. I will advice you from my own real life and similar experience. Lets just say I am Eva's mum. I think you should allow the new couple to be. Most mothers who single handedly train their children hold the child to bondage for life. I warned"Eva" before she married that boy but she wouldn't listen. I told her his mother would not let go because she feels that he owes her. After she married him, she saw exactly what I had warned her about. Her husbands mother wanted to keep dictating to them - its what she had been used to throughout their lives. Its not that Eva hid her true character. She had to develop her own means of having sanity in her home. And her husband too found that the only way he could keep his mother from her overbearing control was to invoke the powers of his dad. I as Evas mother have done nothing but pray. A woman who regrets sending her son to school at this stage truly must have wanted to keep the child under her " control". I will like to see how it plays out when you, poster, gets married. I can forsee even your own spouse having head on collisions with your mum. For now - she may seem to do no wrong to you. But later, you will see. Why cant she let go of her son? Let him be? Let him live his life with his wife? Its not jazz. These young children are just fighting for breathing space. Please be patient with them and with time everything your mum wants from him she will get and even more. Allow them live their lives please.

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    14. Anonymous 19.49:This sounds very familiar but unfortunately she does not have a child after 6yrs becos your brother has NO SPERM CELL.yet your whole family want to control his life especially your elder sister .Not allowing h at almost 40yrs to take responsibility as a man

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    15. They don catch person. Choii sdk sweet 🍬

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    16. Anon 20.46 if you are sincere you as a mother could have advised them to send money to his mum monthly. I married a man whose extended family expected help from. I didn't stop him from providing that help. I took it upon myself to ensure his dad got money till he passed on, atimes the money came from my pocket because I work. I have children and I pray against any WITCH that will turn them against me. Yeah EVA is nothing but that. There are better ways of keeping mama in check rather than blocking her off totally. If this guy was a pauper would she be this way? Someone's sweat made him who he is. And I dare say she deserves to be taken care of in return. I have parents but my dad took care of his future such that even in his old age he is still a rich man but even at that we send him and mum money and buy them stuff. Why? It is our duty as their children. May God touch your hearts to reconcile this family and not be the ones sowing seed of discord

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  2. My dear this is jazz, mountain of fire pastors needed urgently

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    1. Just like in my own case too,but mine is our first born,his wife successfully turned his back against all of us......but I know if it is jazz,one day his eyes will clear cos God pass her. Continue to pray dear,He will change their hearts

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    2. Yes, his wife turned us back on you? You evil people and your witch of a mother. Always trying to compete with her son's wife. Did she ask the boy not to care for you all ? That's what happens when parents don't discipline their sons, instead blame every other available person that is not their child for their childrenz actions.
      Idiots!

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    1. Two sides to a story.
      I'm sure you guys aren't as innocent as you potray

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  4. Well he is her son and whatever she did for him and the rest of you is because she is a good mother married to a bad man.
    I think the best thing is to ignore your brother and carry on with your lives. You said it yourself that every other person is married, so it means you all together can afford to feed yourselves and your mother.
    Yes I understand how your mother feels and no more he prays for their child to grow up and neglect them but some children just always forget.
    The best thing is to keep praying for him and hope that some day the the thing covering his eyes will fall off and he'd see his wrong.
    It's only a matter of time before it does open if truly Eva his wife has done something to turn him against his family.
    As for your father, you people should ignore him and keep praying for your mother to live long and enjoy the fruits of her labour.
    Show your brother that without him you people will make it through.

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  5. Let them be. If they dont want you guys in their lives, leave them. You can't force it. Ignore them. Live your lives and let them live theirs.They will come back themselves. When the wool clears from your brother's eyes. Just put him in prayers

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  6. You guys should leave your brother alone, he's not a child anymore, since forgot the stress ur mother went through to send him to school, karma will surely catch up with him and his evil wife, your brother has been jazzed,all of u should mind your business until the day he realizes his mistake.

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  7. God in heaven is my witness, my mom isn't a troublesome mother. She's crying every day and night. It's not only my mum that Eva has hatred for including my siblings. My mum still prays for them. Maybe bcos she doesn't say her mind that y they take her like Mumu

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    1. You guys should leave them alone, you all should act as if they are not in existence. That's all.

      Try and make your mom happy in your own little way. That's it.

      Na wetin your Papa dey chop block him brain.

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    2. Prey intacidin preyers fur yhua famili...
      Fur the fakt dat yhua dadi naw dansis toe dia tune is sumtin wan shool fol the arms at...

      Yhu can stan in plase fur yhua broda and fada in a delifranse sesshion.....The devul can nefa efa rip wer eat deed north so.

      God blase yhua famili.

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    3. Look it was your mum's responsibility to send him to school so it's not like she did anything out of the ordinary. I hate it when parents perform their responsibility and expect the whole world in return. Tell your mother to live her life. Life's too short to be regretting that she sent her son to school. The way you painted your story, You didn't tell us the negative behaviour of your mum.if she can be regretting that she sent her son to school, then she too is definitely troublesome. Or had she also been gentle without saying anything?

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    4. I believe you poster. explain no further. Let anyone speak their mind as they feel. We have a case almost like that on our hands too.

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    5. Poster eh Knack naked prayer on eva , your dad and brother and I bet you their brain will reset automatically.

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    6. Anons 16:26 Pls is not their mothers responbility to pay school fees of her kids & you think is no big deal training a child tru university. May ur children desert you after training them tru sch In old age with the wealth you make when you are young .in Jesus name Amen. Wicked pple everywhere. How can you forget a woman that train you when ur father desert you yet hrtless being like you is supporting the fool & the Jezebel of a wife. Obviously she use juju on the boy. The daughter INLAW will live long to be mother inlaw God will give her a daughter INLAW that will be beating her up & her son will join. That's my prayers for the wicked couple. No matter what ur mum did to you Pls don't chase her away from ur house esp the ones that train you single handly

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    7. Anon 16:26 its his responsibility to take care of his mother. God says it so just like its her responsibility to educate him. It's his turn to do his duty. She should let him be though it will be painful

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    8. Poster, the reason they are behaving like this is una get their time. Ignore them like they don't exist and your mom should keep praying for them but she shouldn't call again. He will find her when he comes to his senses. Y'all act like they don't exist.

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  8. God in heaven is my witness, my mom isn't a troublesome mother. She's crying every day and night. It's not only my mum that Eva has hatred for including my siblings. My mum still prays for them. Maybe bcos she doesn't say her mind that y they take her like Mumu

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    1. She feels maybe you people want to come and control their affairs so she used jazz on her husband. You people should pray your brother out of that situation cos she's holding him tight.take his picture to MFM prayer city. Next power must change hands come up March 4th and its for prayers against witchcraft. Go and pray your brother out of the hands of that lady

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    2. Infact your mom should go there cos she gave birth to your brother

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    3. Help her out of her depression. Help her to be strong.

      Also pray against any power that doesn't want her to eat the fruits of her labour. The thing is, it may not even be Eva that is doing all these. Some forces might just be behind this.

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    4. Tell your mother to think like your brother is an investment gone wrong. Let her just imagine that it is 5 children God gave to her. Phone call is not food. You should all stop calling him. Don't expect anything from him and if he gives you any gifts you should reject it. This entitlement mentality is killing people silently. If you bone him for like 1 year, you will see changes. He wants space from you guys. Eva did not ask for your phone calls, stop calling her.

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    5. Lmao.epic advice!

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  9. moneysprout.biz is bae. Check it owt

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  10. My dear, things happen

    Your mom should stop regretting sending her son to school, that is her job as a mother and I commend her for it!

    I think you, your mom and your other siblings should from this moment onwards...start ignoring Eva and her hubby(your little brother). Unless he is the rich one amongst y'all, if he isn't..then I don't see any reason why y'all are all over him?

    Your mom should face her other children for now, it won't be easy I know. But the only thing you guys should be doing is praying for him! So that if he is under a spell... Pray that God Almighty set him free for good. And if he is not under a spell, hopefully one day he'll come back to his senses.

    As for your dad, I have no words for him! Only that...what you sow, you shall reap!
    It's well with you

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  11. Dear poster I would advice you guys give them some space. Tell ur mom never to pay them a visit or give them a call. And whenever ur brother tries to visit,tell him nobody will be at home.maybe that will change things when you all ignore them and mind ur businesses. Though I know how painful it is for mummsy training a child and turning against her cause of main stranger.like as I said earlier on,pls give them some space.

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  12. Lol @ Stella it is war room not prayer room....... you need to go on your knees and pray.


    Long live SDK

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  13. I think it's bothering you and your mum because your brother and Eva "flaunts their wealth" your goal now with your other siblings is to make your momma proud, so much she forgets about the husband, Eva and your brother. Work hard!!

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  14. Seriously confused with the whole chronicle,but if your brother was not this way before marriage then from what I have heard or watched or seen it has to be diabolical power stuff...the puppet type,so go to God with serious prayers..you all and your mum you all should meet your pastor because this doesn't seem natural again..or let ur pastor call him and the entire family to meeting where grievances can be aired and sorted out with prayer...hope everything turns out good for your family and i just feel for your mum poster...it is well

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    1. Poster pls don't listen to issacson. Don't waste your time going to see a pastor cos of that silly brother of yours, instead channel your energy to working hard and making more money. Cankaworms and catapillars would soon visit him and he'll remember his roots.

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  15. Your mum should stay away from his son and the wife. Your mum loves wahala too much. She has done her part training your brother, all she needs to do is to pray for him.

    Abi you want to knack pigeon for your brother head. Oya go and knack pigeon so that his head go correct.

    For Eva, you no fit beat her, abi she big pass you. None of my brothers' wives had ever disrespected my mum and they can never try that shit.

    Better get better cane for both of them

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    1. Posters mum likes wahala too much cos she wants her son to show her love and respect, really loveyoujeje? So it's now a crime for a mother to want a son she did everything for to take care of her? Pls make use of the brain God gave you, it's not for fancy.

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  16. We need to hear Eva's own side of the story...
    BVS remember to care for your ikpu

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    1. You are very useless .stella don't past anytin from Ikpu Lady

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  17. Prayer that's the only solution. You guys as a family should bring out a day to fast and pray to God. He alone can

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  18. In Queens voice.... EVA NEEDS TO BE CAGED!

    But seriously... Let her be. When you ignore people, they crave for your attention. Leave her alone since she wants to be alone. You Dont expect everyone to be family Oriented.

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  19. Since you are all confused about what all this is about you only need to result to serious prayer. No child will just forget the labour of his mother just like that. Ko possible.

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  20. Your mum have 6kids and only 1 of you is misbehaving, please let her forget both eva and your brother for now. Is he the most successful among you that you people can't do without him? Let them realise their mistake and come back begging, I don't have strength to be begging any sibling that don't want to see me, I will forget such person as if he doesn't exist, I really feel your pain, but there's nothing you can do than to leave the couple for now. My siblings are the best people I love most in this life and I pray their wives won't scatter us




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Amen to your prayers cos my BIL scattered my family. The best you guys can do is to ignore them but that's so difficult for a mother.

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    2. Chop kiss abeg. 😘😘😘

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    3. Exactly. No time to beg.

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    4. 1000 likes for this statement of yours. Imagine me begging a child i have birth to, or one of my siblings, yea right. You don't wanna relate, fine! I'll snub you to the high heavens and back.

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    5. Don mayor, u are a faggot. Imagine grown ass man saying chop kiss. U even put three kissing smileys. Batty boy.

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  21. Babe from your narrative i think that eva jazzed ur brother and when your mum visited them they noticed she would be an obstacle to the plans. Talk to your mum u guys should organise a prayer session u will be amazed at what u will Discover, Am telling u this from experience, pray hard especially ur mum, watch war room and pray fervently

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  22. Family wahala can be so stressful eh.
    Maybe you guys should arrange a family meeting making sure everyone will be in attendance, then trash this whole mess out once and for all.
    Goodluck

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  23. If truly your siblings and mom did nothing to her then jazz is at work. How can your mom not reap the fruits of her labor? And you guys are still folding hands and acting gentle? Your mom should enter mid night prayers and destroy anything inciting hatred in her son's heart against her. Now that she should be enjoying a strange woman will come out of nowhere and blind her son with jazz? God forbid! Your dad sef is not helping issues. May God take control

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    1. My sister inlaw did exactly the same thing to my only brother but my mom fight her so tey she run comot for the house. She even jazzed my bros oooo but my mum use spiritual work & prayer to scatter it my bros came home begging that he didn't know what came over him & my bros is the 1st child u can imagine.

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  24. If what you typed here is true and your mom and other siblings did NO wrong, then just leave your brother and his wife. Sometimes in the bid to fix problems we get it even messier.

    Leave them alone, as in IGNORE them physically, and pray for them. If it is jazz, it must expire one day. Karma has everone's address. Try to stand by your mom and comfort her, it's not easy. Then you all should also work hard to make it even more than your brother.(cos all I see is "flaunting their wealth").

    Cheers

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  25. Eva don knack pigeon for your brother head. Queen will advise you better on how to do the reverse knacking.

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  26. Does stella ever publish anybody's email, it annoys me when I see that 'hide my email' Hian!. Poster since all of u are married, face ur homes and leave Eva and her hubby, you people should take care of your mum na, must it be Eva and Hubby? Seems like he is the richest this one you all are interested in his life.

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    1. I know! Annoys me too. Has jst become a trend, people don't know when and why they type it

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  27. Our elders will say "he who goes to market for four market days and fight, it is not the people that come to market are looking for his trouble but he is the one looking for there trouble"

    How can everyone be against her?
    What exactly the she do that made them push her away?

    Well I will advise you people should forget about your brother, when he gets back to his senses (that is if what you told us is true) he will come back begging you guys to take him back.

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    1. @chike what on earth will your mum do that will make u send her away? As for me nothing will make me do that.

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  28. Awww.... six of you.

    1. Let your mother not regret sending him to school. I keep saying that in a family everyone must do their part because we all have roles to play for a family to make incremental progress. If everyone in a family does their part, there would be peace. She played her part- good wife and mother. Now it's time for him to play his - good son, husband and brother; and your dad - good father and husband. Since they are defaulting, then leave them to God. Don't even try to talk or negotiate.

    Now you play your part- good daughter, sister and inlaw. Don't escalate any issue. Stay calm. Your siblings too.

    2. Pray pray pray!!! Fast and pray. When things seem to go wrong in a family - pray. family prayer and fasting should be organized (don't know how religious you are anyway, because we are in my home). Don't negotiate with the devil. Just pray and kick him out. It doesn't matter who is wrong - your mum or the new wife. The truth is there's something fishy going on. While the children of God sleep, the enemy sows tares. Just arrest it spiritually. If you argue you may end up saying hurtful things you will regret later. So stay silent.

    Some daughter inlaws though.... 🙄

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  29. Posted this is jazz at work. His wife has turned his face away from you guys. Your father is okay cos he hates your mom too and I'm sure your brother and the wife are giving him money that's why he turns a blind eye and is happy as long as your mum is made to look like an enemy. Your bros behaviour is jazz though. His wife is behind it. Pray your brother out of the situation cos that last will leave him when she finally sucks him dry with her people

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    1. Trinity are you the person on your dp? If yes,you're damn too beautiful....

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  30. Remove eye from ur brothers's marriage. It is his home, he alone can dictate what happens there, he can decide who visits n who doesn't visit, I can relate with this story somehow, my elder sis husband doesn't allow his family close to his home, but we frequent his house as we like, no holds barred, I asked him why don't u allow even your mom visit, he said his family will cause problems in his house,he knows what they are capable off so it's best everyone stays away. they only talk on phone. So it's not jazz my brother, he's protecting his territory. Abi?

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    1. Correct babe let them lev the guy alone, just look at the story she's married and she's still putting her eyes on her brother

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    2. Yes oooo 👍👍 maybe the family are troublesome that's why the gal is running away i wonder why woman is still trying to control a married man na wao madam face your family na abi you no like your husband be wey you the chock eye for your brother marriage

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    3. I'm surprised some people are calling the wife a strange woman! Some men know the havoc their family can cause and try to protect their wife and children. The wife may be faultless - though she and her mum and all present were guilty of sending the guy's mum away. This mystery called marriage - what if the husband who won't let the wife's family have access and will still maltreat the wife? I will advise the poster to forget the wrong they have done, you guys should call a meeting and start afresh. Why should ur mum regret sending him to school, that is her divine commission, she should praise God for helping her do so and be proud.

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    4. I agree with you completely. You guys should leave him alone

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    5. Blackberry I laugh at that brother in-law of yours,when the roaring storm comes that is when he will understand that there is nothing like blood.the same home he grew up,the same family that is his root.isokay

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    6. Lol!
      I reject that ur storm on their behalf.
      Back to sender......
      Who no like peace?

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    7. You brother in law doesn't allow his people visit his house but allows his wifes people visit, and you think that's a good thing right? You're feeling cool that your in law prefers you people to his own people Yea, I feel sorry for your sisters future. You and her don't know what is staring her in the face. You better pray that your brother in law lives forever.

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    8. Can you imagine?see mumu talk.soldier go but when wahala comes,he will come back knocking and also comes back to his senses,then realises he has a family before his wife,thats when he will know howfar

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    9. Blackberry ur sister is a Jezebel daughter inlaw & ur brother in-law is jazzed by ur sister Jezebel. That's the only reason a man will leave his family he grow up b4 he got married & labeled them trouble maker.

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  31. Eva has cooked your brother and father.

    There's power in the name of Jesus
    Visit a bible believing church to deliver your family from chain.

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    1. I think Eva is giving the father money so he will easily away to her side since he hates the mom then she's using jazz in her husband

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    2. The brother may just have the bad genes/attitude of his father. Remember he refused to care for his children?

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    3. The time Eva go disrespect your dad him eyes go clear.

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    4. My blood boils whenever I come across ingrates. No matter who you are, provided someone once put food on your miserable table when no one was there, makes you automatically indebted to the person. Karma will surely visit you one day, don't forget that money has no permanent abode. Poster just tell your mom and family members to forget about him, his won't be the ist case like this.

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  32. I think why you're bothering yourself is because that your bros is rich, if not, no one will notice his wife's rudeness. I will advice you guys to pray for God to reveal and break anything causing this problem.

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  33. Its war room Stella

    Let them be. Instead of your mum giving herself headache ,she should switch focus on her other children. Thank God he is not sick or in lack so let them be.

    You his siblings should strive and be succesful too and make mama happy.
    If its jazz,it's only but for a while.
    All the best.

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  34. 😊😊😊😊😊😊 your mum no wise at all .... Ur mum shouldv do d usual "waka" before the wedding and if maybe she got any negative reply the marriage wouldn't hold .... Chai never too late though ..... But if u guys are financially OK and not depending on the dude PLEASE let them be.

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  35. Awww.... six of you.

    1. Let your mother not regret sending him to school. I keep saying that in a family everyone must do their part because we all have roles to play for a family to make incremental progress. If everyone in a family does their part, there would be peace. She played her part- good wife and mother. Now it's time for him to play his - good son, husband and brother; and your dad - good father and husband. Since they are defaulting, then leave them to God. Don't even try to talk or negotiate.

    Now you play your part- good daughter, sister and inlaw. Don't escalate any issue. Stay calm. Your siblings too.

    2. Pray pray pray!!! Fast and pray. When things seem to go wrong in a family - pray. family prayer and fasting should be organized (don't know how religious you are anyway, because we are in my home). Don't negotiate with the devil. Just pray and kick him out. It doesn't matter who is wrong - your mum or the new wife. The truth is there's something fishy going on. While the children of God sleep, the enemy sows tares. Just arrest it spiritually. If you argue you may end up saying hurtful things you will regret later. So stay silent.

    Some daughter inlaws though.... 🙄

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    1. Look it was your mum's responsibility to send him to school so it's not like she did anything out of the ordinary. I hate it when parents perform their responsibility and expect the whole world in return. Tell your mother to live her life. Life's too short to be regretting that she sent her son to school. The way you painted your story, You didn't tell us the negative behaviour of your mum.if she can be regretting that she sent her son to school, then she too is definitely troublesome. Or had she also been gentle without saying anything? There's definitely more to the story abeg


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    2. Look it was your mum's responsibility to send him to school so it's not like she did anything out of the ordinary. I hate it when parents perform their responsibility and expect the whole world in return. Tell your mother to live her life. Life's too short to be regretting that she sent her son to school. The way you painted your story, You didn't tell us the negative behaviour of your mum.if she can be regretting that she sent her son to school, then she too is definitely troublesome. Or had she also been gentle. Abeg there's more to the story

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    3. Anons 16.32 are you the Eva Jezebel. Karma is real ur own daughter inlaw will beat you up.

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  36. Hian. I don't even understand this chronicle sef. Was they any altercation between Eva and your mum before she was sent home? Ask your mum questions...maybe there's more to it than meet the eyes.

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  37. Guess tour brother is the breadwinner of the family if not I see no reason why you guys should bother about him and the girl. Please let him be as he will reap what he sows.

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    1. If he was struggling I doubt if they will still feel the same way.

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  38. Let your brother go and you guys should move on. 4/5 is pass mark

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  39. If u all r good as u have said(typed) then i think, this case don pass "be careful" oh! If u haven't been praying, persevering in prayers, pls its tym u all do so.
    On a lighter note, @Queen and boss, ur attention is highly needed here oh

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  40. Take it from me, spiritually ur dad push that girl to your brother so he can have the power to manipulate him...... Now mission accomplished😊😊😊 tell ur mum to go to the mountain for 20 days fasting or a strong prophetic church with good review... that's if she's a Christian, if not tell her to go to esan land EDO STATE with 50k her problem is solve😷😷😷😷😷..... Some people prefer missing the two together for fast active😂😂😂😂 OK busy day for me.see u guys later

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    1. Na wa. They need to take drastic action.

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    2. Esan people are coming for you. Which part of Esan land?

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    3. @SWAG UROMI OR EVBOKHIMWIN I don't know if I got the spellings correct.... Dem dey finish work... If u want to destroy go to uromi but in dis case EVBOKHIMWIN is bae😷😷😷😷 Stella post my comments!

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  41. We ladies Sha.this one na dil from pit of hell.ur bro needs serious prayers to cast n break the grip.ur mother most importantly shouldn't ignore it.That's how my dad trained all his brothers and sisters kids when we were young till his money finished on them,no one of them calls him to find out if he is fine or not till now,he realised his mistake tho.one thing I learnt from them is blood doesn't always mean family.

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  42. Poster, please you people should just leave your brother and his family alone. Your Mum should just keep praying for them and when they are ready they will come look for you guys. It is well!

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  43. If your mama WAKA WELL the babe go hear word #inmrjolofvioce her family will go on a low key.... This matter vex me Gan😢😢😢😢

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  44. I don't understand this chronicle o. I guess all of you are broke and want to finish your brother's money the way your Father's siblings did and Eva said no. How can she become rude all of a sudden to the people that were supposedly nice to her? Is there something you didn't include?

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    1. Thank you for this. They must have done something to make their brother act like this. When my hubby and I were about to get married, we sent money from abroad to his siblings - who are all accomplished to help arrange the wedding. They never contributed financially to the wedding, gave us a poor planned wedding and still expect stuff from their brother and son till date. No body has ever sown 'tie and die' or given my kids anythibg. When they come abroad, they still task their brother and common gala they won't bring for us. Now he is so embarrassed and tries to stay away from them. You don't know the pressure the guy is facing.

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    2. No matter the pressure, he needs to respect his mother.she can curse him and his life will be in ruins

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    3. No matter what they did he shud respect his mother even if she is useless. She still sent him to sch. If she curses him his life will take a downward turn.

      Children be gud to your parents now that you have them cos a time will come that they will be no more

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    4. Lije did you just write this?Many ladies before getting married pretends alot,showing that they are nice,respectfull and so on just for the guys people to like her and agree to the marriage but immediately they are married,you'll then see the lady's true colour

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  45. Well..poster if ur seeing it from d spiritual side, then I have to tell u guys to always gather as a family ( d ones dat are available to gather) and pray.
    Cos wot ever is hidden cnt be hidden for to long wen prayer is incorporated!
    Good luck!

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  46. Why don't you, siblings and Mum just ignore them for now? Na dem dey feed una? If has has chosen to treat his Mum this way, allow him. When he gets back to his senses, he will remember home.

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  47. This is beyond me mbok.... Bvees come in here

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  48. Stella that's how jazz work if the opponent is weak in spirit! I am married I have full control over my man but not to the extent of pulling him out of his family responsibilities NO way....... During the preparation of my intro MIL be wan do chi but she later hear word now we like mother and daughter..... OK bye but I feel for ya mum.

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  49. Sorry poster,
    You are not speaking the entire truth. Your story no add up.

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  50. Dis sounds so much like my brother and his wife, but our mum is dead now, guess d writer rewrote dis story, a lot is missing, pls writer leave ur Bro and his wife alone face urlife, u all should take. Care of ur mum, one day Chicken wey run from Borno go Ibadan go still end up inside pot of soup.
    it's well

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  51. Why can't you focus on your own life and that of your family that has your time? Why must you carry Eva and her husband matter for your head like gala seller? Don't you have a husband, job, school, handwork or kids to worry about? Your mum is a bad person if she's actually regretting sending her child through school. Enlighten her that Miyake said education is a right and not a privilege for children. Let's hear from Eva and your brother now and we will all see that it's another music they are dancing to. Because he's going well for himself and your dad is reaping the goodness of his loins, you are here to seek evil plot on how to stop their shine! Shioor to you and your type abeg.

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    1. I wonder what you understood by this Chronicles that made you reply with that comment... This is the poster's brother for goodness sake and for that she is fully involved in the movie the brother and wife is acting. The mum is a human being so feeling bad about sending the son to school and being treated in a bad way is normal and the dad contributed no kobo to the son's training but because the son is now successful he remembered that he has to reap the goodness of his loins even when he didn't try to even encourage the son while he was schooling.

      Poster its only God that can reverse that... I think you guys should let go of anger and keep praying for him. He will surely come around

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    2. Eva welcome oya clap for yourself. May your son do same to you amen.evil woman

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    3. You're a very foolish idiot for this statement. I feel sorry for your husband/wife. Anyone who marries/married you is a dead meat.

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    4. Is it not weird that this poster started by condemning her father's closeness with his sibblings and how he did not put his immediate family first. Then her brother decided to put his immediate family before his sibblings and now its jazz. Poster I'm guessing you're jobless. Leave your brother alone. Your mum didn't do your brother a favour by sending him to school. It's his right. You don't just bring children into this world as child's play. Same way her parents sent her to school and same way he'll send his kids to school. The fact that that's her biggest regret already tells a lot about your mum. However they chose to run their family is their business. Face yours.

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  52. This is pure jazz! Poster you seriously need to draw closer to God. with him nothing is impossible.

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  53. This is pure jazz! Poster you seriously need to draw closer to God. with him nothing is impossible.

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  54. Yes Prayer changes things.I also think your dad is to be blamed here.He spoilt everything.who knows what he said to your inlaws and brother that hardened their hearts against you all.

    The only people that can fix this in my opinion is :,God,your dad and your brother.

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  55. This story has too many loopholes that makes it so hard to be digested.

    First, when exactly did Eva change? What events took place that followed this change? What part did you and your mom take especially when your brother wanted to marry her and he started having some weird dreams about her?

    Here is my take, it's either you people tried to convince your brother not to marry her and she got to know of this. Some women never forgives this and you will become life enemies. Or maybe she is just one of those women who don't like to see in laws which is unlikely since she accommodates your dad. Or is she the one feeding your brother that she can control him and accept anyone who sucks up to her?

    My advice is this. It is very unfair how your mother is being treated after all her labour but peace must reign. If there are some elderly people in your family that can convince your father to reason well. Please get them up or if you or your siblings can talk to him. It's the job of one parent to see there is peace between the other parent and his or her own children. There should be a family meeting where everyone can speak up their mind and try to broker peace. And if any of you a have the habit of interfering in other people's marriage, please stop it. You keep saying the wife is rude and disrespectful. Just what do you expect of a wife? If her husband has no problems with her, why do you? Please mind your business from now on and try to relate with mutual respect. Because she is your brother's wife doesn't mean she owes you anything you do not owe her. Let everyone face their lives and be civil towards each other, from there, love and respect may follow.

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  56. Sis you guys are the one causing the trouble for yourselves. What you guys have is what is called low self-esteem. As you said, you have other 4 siblings. I think he has more money more than all of you put together and you guys are giving him much respect eventhough he might be the younger one.

    I would want to ask you, Can't other five of your siblings no matter how poor you guys are take care of your mum?

    The solution is quite simple, team up with the other of your siblings, and take good care of your mum. Let your mum and you guys learn to ignore him. If your mum feels bored she can visit any of your house.

    You guys should just pretend you don't even know he exists. Convince your mum to do so and see the magic. Make that idiot feel less important even with his money.

    I don't get us, then what is the need of having other siblings and more than one child. I just wish it were to be my Dad or mum.

    You won't hear anything from them, they will ignore you such that even if it is Jazz it will clear from your eyes immediately.

    In summary: Discuss with your siblings and TOTALLY IGNORE HIM. Wait for like 1 year and see the magic.

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  57. I have never commented here before, but I just couldn't pass on. In as much, as I do not support living together before marriage, I think that using that as a judge of your Eva's character is very wrong. Was your brother too not staying with a lady he was not married to? You just think you're better than Eva and who know's what in reality happened? You are telling this story and of course, you have to make yourself look good. You also hate your father, which is why you don't try to be reasonable and just think he's supporting Eva. Poster, get off your high horse and try to find out the root cause of the matter. Something happened the day your mum went there.
    And since Nigerians blame everything on the devil, pray about it and as Stella said - watch War Room.

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    1. Them son talk the one wey pepper u for body now u Don Don rush to comment,my friend atop cohabitating you hear,go and get some self respect.defender of the universe

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  58. Nawa.. What could 've caused the sudden change? Why not ignore your brother? You all should ignore him and the rest of you should take care of your mum. I think the attention he's getting from you people is further getting into his head. Y'all should face your lives, take good care of your mum and leave him be. Shikena.

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    1. Nothing this eva of a girl is like my sister inlaw in her case she came from the same place with my mum both state, town & village as my mum come from different state, my younger sister notice her wicked character but my mum,me & my other siblings are too carried away to notice she changed immediately she got pregnant of her 1st child, even when she deliver non of her relatives really came to visit or rejoice with her that's when we knew that we went & married the Jezebel of the house . The day she fought my mum we beat her sotey If she sees me her mind will skip. I remind her that I had a very troublesome & mean mother inlaw but never insult her for 1 day till I broke up with the son due to the issue btw me & my ex which his mum is not involved.
      My sister inlaw went & do juju to my bros me & my mom scatter the thing well, in fact she has to change by force to good woman anytime she see me or my mom. My dad supported her cos he hate my mum me & my siblings block my dad & reset his brain back, u dare not try any nonsense with me & my mum we go show you fire immediately. Na egbughi oge. But if you show me love you go enjoy me tire.

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    2. Even my ex don marry 3differnt women non is staying with him so he want me back by all means but me I don't want to be married to a broke man I feed, already engaged to a very cute & rich man, nnem no time, my sister inlaw don't intrude in anymatter btw me & my siblings again. Agbaro uzo owere ngba odighi echi.

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    3. My ex mother inlaw is my friend up till date she frustrate any girl that came to marry my ex he is on 3 & counting,she loves my kids like kilode, make sure her the other rich son pays my kids sch fees,while I takes care of their sundries, drugs, feeding & others cos my ex is broke. She did that cos I respect her too much when am married to her son. So am not married to the son but she Gat my back.

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  59. you guys should be prayerful. commit your brother's heart to God. e fit no be ordinary o, there are some wives from the pit of hell. if your brother is rich, then I am afraid for his life. you people should keep a distance but always pray for them. if it's juju, one day it shall lose its potency.

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  60. IGNORE THAT FOOL. DON'T CALL ANY FAMILY MEETING. JUST AGREE WITH YOUR OTHER SIBLINGS AND MUM, JUST IGNORE HIM AND SEE THE MAGIC. HE IS FEELING TOO IMPORTANT MAYBE HE HAS MORE MONEY. I AM TELLING YOU FROM EXPRIENCE IGNORE THE FOOL.

    IGNORE THE IDIOT
    TOTALLY IGNORE THE FOOL
    ABSOLUTELY IGNORE THE MORON
    PRETEND AS IF HE DOESN'T EXIST
    MIND YOUR BUSINESS
    TELL YOUR MUM TO DO SO.
    TEAM WIT THE OTHER OF YOUR SIBLINGS AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR MUM AND MAKE HER AS MUCH HAPPY AS YOU GUYS CAN.
    IGNORE
    IGNORE

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  61. Hmmmm....this one get as e be o...

    If ur mom is innocent 😇 I really pity her...i love mothers...

    You people should start fasting nd praying 🙏..there's nothing impossible God cannot do...

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  62. All this story na lie i have your type as Inlaw very wicked ppl maybe they're even the one who twisted this story and changed some things so i won't know. You're married take care of your own family stop interfering in other people's life is it only your family that suffered before making it. Flaunting whealth see your life that's why you gals hate each in your family and can never be in peace because of jealousy you're even jealous of your own brother you're even jealous of one of your own sister that is more successful than you so am not surprised why are you turning the story in your favor when did your mother call. Has she ever called is only a fool that who will believe this your story Big for nothing with no sense take a look at your own family you will see lots of job to be done stop looking for who to control he is married and he's a man let him be. And please don't use the Lord's name to lie. Your mother suffered for him and sent him abroad so his wife should be a slave because of that abi please take your advice to your husband i think he really needs it more than your brother. You're married so what's your problem. Only a fool will believe this story so the wife is now a witch to just change because she's married you never liked the wife you and your mother almost stop the weeding from taking place for no reason just because i didn't allow your mother to use me. She wanted me to tell her your brothers salary and how he spend it which wife will agree to such nonsense Big fool face your own husband stop interfering in other people's marriage because my God will surely fight for me for the tears you guys made me shade. For all the lies you and your family lied on me and made me cry each time i remember it I forgive you all bf i lev everything in God's hands. Just remember what the Bible say "the wicked shall never go unpunished"

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    1. This you comment shows that you are nothing but evil. I pity the that your so called in law. Btw am not the poster but I can't help it but respond to you under anon.

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    2. I feel you jor! Some families are just so diabolical. Because they did not succeed in wrecking this home, they have become the victim. But na beg I beg you, let your husband dey give him mama money, make he dey talk to am small small, let her visit small small. Ehn! God dey your side.

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    3. Indeed u are a wicked wife, even if your mother ask for he her sons salary does it amount to u turning that man against his family, Pls change cos u are going to be a mother inlaw tomorrow.
      Sending a son abroad is not a child's play, if u are a wise woman u should be calling ur mother inlaw not the other way round but u are a peacock & ur foolish husband give u the hand to insult his mum cos he showed you that the family depends on him. Stop ur bad attitude towards ur inlaws cos of ur mother inlaw curse u & ur husband Na u go suffer pass.
      Pls use diplomacy to avoid inlaws. U are lucky u have a good & soft mother inlaw else u for don hear nwiii.

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    4. Amacastel allow people air their opinion, everybody cannot be like u,u can move into your son's house if u like no one is stopping you,but I believe one thing, if you have a happy life,a happy home,you won't even remember another person s own let alone going to visit or stay there,my mother in-law has never left her husband's side for any omugwo because baba cannot do without his wife n vise versa, they are celebrating 58years wedding anniversary. U see we all have different perspective to life.live n let's live pls.stop cursing its not good

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  63. Why not ignore the guy since he has not been taking care of anyone and you have been surving, I suggest you guys should just leave him to be and pretend he doesn't even exist. What a nonsense, no matter what!!! Evenif your mum slapped the wife. The solution is quite simple as ABC. Ignore him and see peace on its own come back.

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  64. Just leave ur brother and his wife alone, it's like you're suffocating them! The remaining 5 of you should take care of your mum or are you guys broke? Whatever your father,brother and his wife sow, they will reap! Just ignore them

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  65. @Annoy 15:51 i stand with you on this one.

    pls note, my family is almost at this same position. ladies of nowadays are wicked. that is how my brodas wife wants him to forget all of us and cut us off, and when they were in need and struggling we all supported them. the girl now calls us names, giving direct insult. i just told my mother to stop visiting them chikena. keep them at arms length and enjoy the rest of her children. dear poster just pray if its jazz it will clear if not she will suffer, just leave her. YOU PEOPLE SHUD CUT OFF YOUR BRODA, AND FACE UR LIVES. he will regret also. no man stands alone without family.

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    1. You sound like a wicked sister in law. The type that never remember their evil actions. Wicked family members everywhere.
      See the kind advice you are giving your mother? You think we BV are stupid abi. You want us to believe your sil woke up one day and decided to be evil to you people especially after you offered them help?
      Maybe because you helped them in times of need, you want to Lord over their affairs? Or was your helping laced with slow poison or delayed insults? Am sure your sil has a many different tale to tell. No man stands alone without a GOOD family you mean. Not ones that want to use their hand to scatter his family all because they don't want his wife to feel relaxed. May you marry into a family with 100x the characters and treatments you have given your sil. Say amen if you have liver.
      I sure say you never marry. You sound like an unmarried and frustrated lady that act like their sil and them are co wives of their brother. Enter your own husband house or face your work! Marriage is hard enough in law stress shouldn't be part of it!

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  66. OK

    I get it, He's the richest/wealthiest in the family
    Trust me no be jazz
    Its the power of money

    You people should IGNORE HIM
    If he's not taking care of your mum, how about you and the other siblings, Are you taking care of your mum?
    Your father has gone there to lick ass and bad mouth your mum trust me
    Again IGNORE HIM, he's not GOD abeg

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  67. madam poster totally ignore your broda like he does not exist. thats how one man i know, the moment he married one she devil, he totally forget about his aged parents and siblings.its bad, parents that trained you, try to take care of them if they dont have enuf, visit them, cos KARMA is real and it does not forget.
    the guy worked for an oil company, the wife made sure one naira he didnt give to his family and he was the first born. now he is dead, the wife refused to release his body, holding onto it like he belongs to her. all his entilements she collected alone, nobody argued with her, the man's mother has finally died becos of the trauma.

    NB: guys be careful when choosing a wife, some are from the pit of hell, avoid sex if you can so that you can see clearly who she rily is.

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  68. I have seen this kind of thing happening twice before. Don't hate your brother, he is not doing this with clear eyes. It is jazz at work.


    If your dad isn't in good terms with your mum and your youngest brother has money, it is possible that your dad is the source of the jazz.


    If it was Eva that did the jazz, why didn't she put it on your dad? Something is definitely not right. Take your matter to a real man of God so that he will pray for your family. When I say real, I mean like Adeboye not T.B. Joshua biko


    The bible says that on the last day, there will be many false prophets so choose your prophet wisely. Your brother is not at fault but someone controlling him spiritually....

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    1. You are right the dad might be source of the jazz.eg of my dad he taught my bros was the most successful among my siblings after his charm my bros begin to ask him money he now want to come close to me I ran with my heels touching my Head. A man that didn't train me at all, pple wanting to ripe where they did not sow since 18bc

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  69. your family need to pray fervently. he'll only come back when he has nothing again and that might be too late. something is at one work here, the bond between mother and lastborn is what the Eva has broken.

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  70. Had similar experience with my friend and her MIL. She was so manipulative that the MIL stopped coming to the house. My friend prefers to go and visit the FIL(they are separated). But thank God my friend's husband stood by his mother and even warned the wife to stop visiting his dad without his consent.

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  71. MY ADVICE, LET ALL OF YOU IGNORE YOUR BROTHER BUT PLAN AMONG YOURSELVES AND DO 21 DAYS FASTING AND PRAYERS. BECAUSE, UNA FIT GO PROPHET WEY GO MISLEAD UNA. FAST AND PRAY AND GOD WILL COME DOWN AND HELP YOU PEOPLE TO BREAK EVERY CHAIN


    FASTING WITH PRAYERS WORKS BETTER THAN GOING TO MEET ANYONE FOR PRAYERS. DURING THE FAST, LIVE A HOLY LIFE AND AVOID SIN
    FATHER, IN THE NAME OF JESUS, BREAK EVERY CHAIN THAT IS BEING USED TO HOLD ANY MEMBER OF THE POSTER'S FAMILY. LOSE HIM FROM BONDAGE NOW. WHEREVER, THE ALTER IS THAT IS CONTROLING HIM, I COMMAND IT TO CATCH FIRE! OPEN HIS EYES SO THAT HE WILL SEE HIS WRONG DOING AND CORRECT IT. THE PERSON WHO IS HOLDING HIM WILL CONFESS BY FIRE IN THE NAME OF JESUS!

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    1. Like seriously? 21 days fasting? On top what now? Is he feeding me or what? The poster has strength for wahala,I swear. Ignore the fool,you have four other siblings to do family with if the smallie doesn't want to do family with them anymore. Pls take care of our mom and try to fill the void. His eyes will soon clear.

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  72. This is a bit like my family except in our own case it's my eldest bro, his wife that was pretending and kissing aSs turned us all into her no one enemy after marriage, fortunately nobody send them, my mum supports her son even though they don't take care of her. We shame them by ignoring them 100% let him and his wife eat that money till it tires them. For years now non of us have been to his house, we don't know where he lives, wr don't ask him for money or anything. Even last Christmas his conscience started disturbing him and he started offering xmas gift money and everyone rejected it politely. I promised my self it is up to God to make me and not any man. I buy my mum the things she likes to make her happy and my other siblings tries their best too. Even the car she drives now is not even from the so called rich man of the house. My mum self that supports him I decided not to count it against her.
    Jazz will expire one day. Let my wicked sister in law enjoy herself since she wants to be island...now she comes to occasion and seats like visitor, someone we used to all respect and revere as big sister.
    Poster your brother is not God, ignore him and you all should take care of your mum and rock life wella....nobody is an island, one day they will tire and if it's jazz one day it will expire

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    1. @Annoy 16:22 God bless you real good for this. That is what I plan on doing to my broda too. I wont go near them . make everybody stay their own . I take care of my mum in my own little way.

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    2. I like what you and your siblings did to that your brother. Where I'm from they call those ones 'lost children'. How can you not add value to your siblings when you're doing very well? Too sad!

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    3. That's the best thing to do to all these devilsh women of 21century that refuse to respect any1 cos they are married into the family. Total ignore is the solution.

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      If only walls could talk. They will tell us the truth about how you treat your mum. Stop coming here to form.

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  73. Seems this guy is the richest guy in your house. You have to learn how to lie your life and forget about that guy.

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  74. Look it was your mum's responsibility to send him to school so it's not like she did anything out of the ordinary. I hate it when parents perform their responsibility and expect the whole world in return. Tell your mother to live her life. Life's too short to be regretting that she sent her son to school. The way you painted your story, You didn't tell us the negative behaviour of your mum.if she can be regretting that she sent her son to school, then she too is definitely troublesome. Or has she also been gentle without saying anything?
    Education is a right and not a privilege. I think there's more to the story.

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    1. Thanks...African parents always expect something in return just for catering for their own kids..Like that's a responsibility

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  75. Drama every day lol.

    MIL vs DIL
    DIL vs MIL
    SIL + MIL vs REAL MOTHER
    FIL vs FAMILY MEMBERS
    BROTHER vs MOTHER vs SIBLINGS.

    Chai! Father take control.

    Please poster y'all should mind your business biko. Leave your brother alone for God sake. Let him be. I wonder why siblings and parents won't let their own rest all in the name of marriage. Leave the Eva alone and mind your own family haba!! is it compulsory that someone you trained must look after you? We get hurt because we expect much from people.

    Please tell your mum you guys should just move on already. Your mum should also know it was her duty to bring up the child she brought into the world. I'm not supporting your brother or his wife but I'm simply saying y'all should move on and stop hurting yourself. or do you want mummy to suffer HPB bec of your bro and his wife? They are ways to go about stuff like this and it is prayers + sitdon look.

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  76. Your brother is not the only child now?can't you guys take care of your mum?and pls tell her it is her duty n responsibility to send her child to school, she shouldn't start regretting or cursing your brother, besides why does she have to go to their house every now and then?you all should leave them alone,one day they will both realise what wrong they have done,till then,you face your home,do the best you can do for your mum&stop hating on your dad, there are some mysteries in life that children can never comprehend.I wish you&your family the best.

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  77. Miyake! Y will u say her mum is wicked? I pray 4 u 2 experience wht she is going through now! do u think it's easy 2 train a child 👶 and 1 foolish lady will cm in d name of wife 2 turn her against her own son? May u expirence dat.

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  79. There is a lesson I learnt from my in-laws and that is giving couples their privacy,until families realise this ,they will continue to have problems with d new wife or husband, the bible say a man shall leave his mother n father n cleave unto his wife!so what is d business of sisters n brothers in-laws? When the bible clearly stated that even d parents should stay clear? My in-laws came to visit us after 3years of marriage, that was when I won't let them rest,my mil is closer to me than my mum, they are 8in number, the siblings clearly told me to ask my husband that in their family they don't poke nose in couples affairs, and that makes me respect them so much,some siblings won't let newly weds enter they will move there and be staying, hanhan,my sis in-law respects us all,nobody has time for visitation cos we are all busy with our own lives,stop expecting something in return,anything u do for your bro or sis,its for urself, stop laying claim, haaaa!let them be,they will respect u ,besides where I come from ,it is d ladies that takes care of the mum n dad more than d men cos when d men get married, its left for their wives and since we are capable of taking care of our parents,whatever our brother's wife brings is like jara,so we don't even put our mind.

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    1. And to the daughter in-law, just know that you are wowing a seed, whatsoever you do to your mother in-law is what your son's wife will do to you,treat your mil like you would treat your own mother. Shikena.

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    2. And to the daughter in-law, just know that you are wowing a seed, whatsoever you do to your mother in-law is what your son's wife will do to you,treat your mil like you would treat your own mother. Shikena.

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    3. Thank you! Tell them o. They will not hear. They think wives and brother's wives are stones that cannot be moved or have feelings! Bark too much and anybody and they will bark back and bite!

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  80. Even if her mother is a wicked woman she should not be kicked out of her son's house.No!! So the wife's own mother is not a witch na.Even her own mother join hand to chase your own mother out.it is painful but Forget it and you all should do all you can to take care of your mum

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  81. THE PARTY WILL BE OVER:

    Just begin to pray and fast together!
    Your "brother" is a captive in the "dark realms".
    I know because I know the scriptures and I have passed through it.
    He was just a "junk mind" going into that marriage.
    Eva thinks she is in charge but she is not. Eva's mom thinks she is in charge but of a truth, she is not. They are all captives.
    The devil thinks he is in charge but of a truth; bitter truth, he is -for now; that is until you all fight through this in prayer and fasting and night watch; praying around midnight.
    When the party is over; the scale will fall from your brother's eyes.
    Start prayer and fasting right now!

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  82. You people should just forget about your brother and his wife,concentrate on your mum take care of her.it might be very hard for her but she just have to forget about him.she should also pray like never before cos there is nothing God cannot do,one day naa one day,he will surely come back to his senses and as for your father let God deal with him

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  83. People complain of wicked motherinlaw but some daughterinlaws are nothing to write home about.

    How will you love a man and hate his mother? Are you insane? Don't you know it is the mother that groomed him to become such a handsome rich provider that you are in love with. How can you stop a woman from reaching out to the son? How can you stop a son from sending money to his mom?

    Okay, so they opposed your marriage, it is still not sufficient for that act. Are you not supposed to marry and show them they are wrong by loving that woman like your mom?Would you like someone to do the same to you or your mom?

    Anyway, most of the blame goes to the son, if he does not value his mother enough, how do you think the wife will value her?

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

    Poster, you and your mom also have to change. I hope she is not the type that was telling the son to leave the wife. If her hand is innocent, then let her keep quiet and give them space. One day, the daughter-in-law will be the one reaching out to her.

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    1. And I ask, how will you love your son and hate his wife? Look, we have this mentality in Africa that a wife is a slave! Until we all see ourselves as one and not separate husband family from wife's family, the problem will persist. Poster, what if Eva is your sister? See Jesus in her and love her. I can tell you that some mothers and sisters love controlling their brothers homes. Stop it please. Let us all love one another. A WIFE IS NOT A SLAVE AND LETS CELEBRATE WOMEN. Eva is the mother of your niece and nephew and your mum's grandchildren. You were against your father helping his siblings but you want to repeat that history by having a hold on your brother! Hian!

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  84. Give your brother some space for now and keep on praying for him

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  85. Theres only one thing that gave away the fact that you are the ones who are wrong. When your mother visited them, they didn't want her to come. But she "forced" her way to their home in spite of the fact that Evas mum and sister were already there! Ah ah! The home belongs to man and wife and they both have every right to decide who they want and who they do not want to stay. But your mother couldn't respect that??? So she got what she deserved. See poster, stop crying crocodile tears, painting your mother as the victim. Why was it that after your dad stayed with them, he changed? You said initially he called her to order when she was disrespectful to your mum. But afterwards, he changed. He must have seen the unhappiness and de-stabilisation your mum was causing his son and his wife. So he made up his mind to make up for all the lost years when he wasn't active in his childrens lives. An opportunity to make it right. If I were your mother, I will stay away and accept that they have every right to their home. Stop making demands or complaining. Just let them be. Let them feel they have the right to their lives-and they do!! Ah ah. Your mother isnt as innocent as you would want us to believe. She is a troublemaker-going to her sons house- by force! Ah ah!!

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  86. U people should leave them alone! Since he feels he has landed or she has caught him with jazz, let them be doing there own Dre. Forget abt the matter but pray on it first then let it be. No go die put for matter o

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  87. My dear prayer is the key, your family should pray their way out

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  88. Poster, have you tried to see things from Eva's perspective? Your mum was asked not to come after Eva gave birth but she insisted and went. Please did she go for omugwo? Is it not the bride's mum that is supposed to go unless the couple decides otherwise? While she was there, what did she do/say or did they turn her back immediately she stepped into the house?

    Your brother was living with her before they got married so why term only her bad? What of your brother? After your brother had the 'dream', did you guys tell your bro not to marry Eva? If you did, then you need to give her time to forgive and forget. She may be apprehensive that you guys still want her out and letting you come close to her will give you the avenue to achieve that.

    Your mother trained 3 boys, are you saying the other two have the best wives ever? If yes, why is she then bent on daily Lamentations over the last? It's very odd that she regrets sending him to school. That is not what a good mother will say. What of the other 2 she also trained? Why are they not wiping her tears? If 5 out of 6 cannot take care of her, then there is a problem. According to you, they keep showing off THEIR wealth. It is theirs to do as they wish naw. Why the bad belle? Would you be happier if they were poor with nothing to show? I suspect that you all started making demands of your brother and Eva became the evil one when your brother started focusing on his family more.

    Nigerians will suck you dry and as long as you are falling mugu and they can use you, then you are a good person. See Stella for instance, they praise her when they are getting freebies from/through her and abuse/accuse her of all sorts when they don't get their way.

    Let your brother and SIL be. It's strange that your father who according to you never contributed a dime towards his sons education is now the one reaping the fruits of your mothers labour. What did he do to win their approval? Did he treat her better than your mum did?
    5 of you should be able to cater for your mum unless you guys are not united in which case, your blaming Eva/younger brother is just ridiculous. It's always better for the mother to visit her daughters instead of DILs so as a woman, you and your sister should invite her to your homes alternatively and give her the best vacation ever.


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  89. Dear Poster,

    Here is the truth, you are either avoiding or you don't know. Like what some people said here about your mum....she is over bearing, i will also add that she is manipulative.
    Judging from your write up, on how your Dad helped his other siblings and how he didn't take care of all of you and how your mother suffered to train the rest to how you guys are not in good terms with your Dad. Here is the truth, your mum was never in support of the fact your dad didn't fulfill his responsibility to the last, that also shows her mentality about training children, and for her not to have done anything to bring you guys or reconcile you guys with your Father, that also shows that she is in support of how things are. ( You never mentioned , if she did). The very one that proves to me that, she is what she is .....is the fact she opened her mouth to say the son she trained. Abeg, make i ask , (WHO SHOULD TRAIN A CHILD , IF THE MAN IS NOT CAPABLE).
    Dear Poster,your Daughter-in-law is not the problem. she came to a family and saw the crack in the wall and decided to adjust. She acting good was for her to be loved but when she noticed the kind of family she is coming into she decided to adjust quickly before its too late.
    Whether, you like it or not. Even the five of you remaining siblings are not close as siblings. So don't pretend here, because if you people are looking for what your brother will bring won't be the problem.MIND YOUR BUSINESS AND TELL YOUR MUM THE TRUTH.
    If she ever want to reap from your brother she needs to change or else its during her burial that they will spend the money.
    SHE WAS NEVER THE GOOD MOTHER , YOU CLAIMED SHE IS. OPEN YOUR INNER EYES TO SEE. YOUR DAUGHTER-IN-LAW CANNOT BRING HATRED IF THERE IS NO EXISTING ONE.
    PRAY WITH AN OPEN MIND NOT WITH INTENTION OF KILLING YOUR ENEMY (EVA).

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    1. Nice one dear
      They're not even in good terms and she's claiming saint here they also gossip about themselves, jealous of each oda progress and she's here claiming saint. The brother send money evry now n den to d mother but she still complain us not enough n will tell her oda kids dat he didn't send at all focus on making your own family better bf helping your brother ok Big mumu

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