Labour Room Drama 57

*Tear drops*

Hello dear Stella,
God bless you for this platform you are using to touch lives,Amen.
I finally had the courage to send in my Labour room drama,I know I would receive lots of bashing from bvs because I'm a single mum,I had him when I was 18,but no wahala as it is a normal thing in 'our' blog.


From the first month I told my son's father I was pregnant and he denied it,I carried the pregnancy all alone till I put to bed.
I knew my vagi** was going to be tight because I didn't have s*x for the whole 9 months.

I registered in a small clinic in masaka,a town In Nasarawa state,when the pregnancy was 4 months,whenever I go for antenatal all I spend is 200# for drugs and nurses check me thereafter,I went for antenatal one day and a nurse dipped her hand in my vagina and shouted that it is closed and I should go for scan,I went and the doctor told me everything was fine and my EDD was march 29th 2012.

On 24th march was my cousin's traditional marriage at the village but my mum begged my aunt that she won't be able to make it because of me and that with the way I was looking, labour could start at anytime.

My mum was right after all because that same 24th,labour started around 11pm at night,when I started feeling mild pains,I was scared to tell my mum because I didn't know if it was labour pains or normal pregnancy cramps.

I was just holding myself whenever the pains came,when the pains became more severe,I went to wake my mum and told her that I was having serious waist pain,then she told me the time has come.

She woke my elder brother up and took my bag,a neighbour helped and took us to the clinic that night,when we got there I realized I didn't come with my card,my brother and neighbor rushed back home,and brought the card.I called my son's father and he told me,"I'm at a friend's party,please you are disturbing me" even without hearing what I wanted to say.

The doctor checked me and said I was 2cm and that I should exercise and he and the nurse went back to sleep and that was when the labour proper started.

My mum asked me to be walking around to ease the labor,from that night till morning, I didn't sleep,I was in pains but didn't shout or cry,whenever I turned and looked at my mum sitting on the bench and praying, I will just pray to God for strength,when it was around 4 am I started vomiting, I vomited everything in my tummy,when it was getting too much,my mum went to wake the doctor to come and check me,that she doesn't understand me again,when he came,he checked and said I couldn't give birth that I looked pale and too small,and they'll have to refer me to mararaba medical center, they gave referral letter,we got to mararaba by 5:30am,did all the necessary things,the nurse checked me and told me to exercise, I told my mum I couldn't that I was tired,my mum started shouting that is this how I want to give birth? 

When her talking got too much,I managed to come down from the bed and go out at least.

Immediately I stepped out,I felt a strong urge to poo,I told my mum and she said we should go to the bush at the back of the hospital, when I bent down, I started pushing and baby's head was coming out,my mum shouted, that the baby's head is coming out o,from no where strength entered me I flunged my wrapper and ran to the labor room with my mum behind me shouting, Nurse the baby is coming out o, in less than 2 minutes,my son came out looking exactly like his father on 25th march by 7:30am.

I pushed the placenta out and I was stitched.my son was cleaned up,dressed and given to my mum,immediately she carried him she burst into tears,I started crying too,and saying "mummy thank you" all through.

when she called my dad,he too started crying,and till today the bond between the three of them is like that of Siamese twins, Lol.
He'll be 5 in march and I'm also in the university now.
I hope I didn't bore you with my story.

No,you didnt bore me darling,you made me cry....your story is known on this blog cos you have sent in a plea for help before.I am sure a lot of people will remember pretty asha who was rejected by her baby daddy story.