Meeting Point 58

A woman always counts and NEVER forgets the meeting point...

Thank you so much for this wonderful platform fine woman, I feel like I forgot something each day I don't visit Stella Dimoko like my hubby calls it.

Sometime in august 2012,i got a friend request on facebook and as someone that was new on fb and wanted to increase the number of friends I have I quickly accepted and the cute guy sent appreciation on my wall. the thing vex me eeee but because it wasn't the usual horrible grammar people used to send, I kept my cool. he was this hello once a while person and I hardly noticed because I had my school boyfriend then.

About a year after, he asked for my bb pin and I gave him because he was chatting responsibly. when we started chatting on bbm,he would always tell me he was going to marry me and I will tell him to stop joking. we exchanged phone numbers and started talking on phone . I thought he was crazy because that was the only way to explain wanting to marry someone you have never met in person.

Fast forward to 2014, I was ready to go for NYSC and I wanted one of the south-south states but the person that was supposed to influence my posting heard a different thing and I knew I was going to the south west even before the call up letter came out. I accepted my fate and gbam i left for oyo state.
my boyfriend had already started acting up , hardly called and expected i send him airtime if i want him to call but this my unknown friend kept calling every time to check up on me and even recharged my phone without me asking for it. 

After camping, i was posted to a rural area(very rural oo) and i kept begging my boyfriend to come visit me like i did when he served but he didn't just want to sit in a bus for 9hrs just because of me. i told my lodge mates then that any body that will come visit me in this village that i wont deny that person anything he or she asks of me. my unknown friend kept pleading with me to let him come and visit me but i refused bcos i was hoping things would work out between my boyfriend and i(we dated for 6 yrs and 6 months).

May 2015,i said oya come lets see. it wasn't love at first sight but i didn't hate him either. he left that day and even came a lot of times before service year was over. i went to his base too. finally broke up with boyfriend because it was obvious he was distracted and i was forcing the whole thing. August i visited my new friend and stayed for 1 week. we had not started gbenshing cos i said no at first attempt and he promised he will wait till am ready. before the end of my stay we did it because i wont want to form mermaid and end up with a man that cant perform because i wasn't a virgin. 

The next month was my birthday, he proposed and i gladly said yes, we travelled home so my parents will get to meet him and they marked him good. that same month, i missed my period. got the pt strip and the 2lines almost blinded me, i cried because i was not ready and didn't want to be a pregnant bride on my wedding day. i wont forget the way he hugged me so tightly when i told him and how he hurriedly asked hope my baby is kicking(which baby kicks at that stage).

wedding plans began immediately , our traditional marriage was the next month(boyfriend came begging a week to the day but it was far too late). church wedding followed later. no WNB because we were too tired to gbensh,he only removed my gown, gave me a warm bath and held me tight all through the night. 

We have the most beautiful daughter ever and i will choose him over again. we quarrel plenty ooo but the only man that has ever loved and cared for me like he does is my father. i don't get to hear i love you every time because he believes he should make me feel loved and not to say it always

 (i have accepted my fate ). 

I know you will read this cos you sef dey visit pass me,thank you for loving me so dearly.
sorry for the errors and hope i didn't bore you with the long epistle.

*Sweet story Ojare,you didnt bore us...LMAO@ dated for 6years and 6months.

Some women dey even add days and hours...LOL