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Wednesday, 15 March 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HONEST TO A FAULT


Dear Stella
Thank u for saving lives. God bless you richly 
I dey follow ur blog like say tomorrow no dey, tho I gat no blog id yet
I need someone that would shift my brain to auto,i really dunno what my emotions are right now.. 
I met this great dude, he engaged me with a space of three months.  He's still schooling while am a serving corper


How I met him? 


D mum's from my state, so as a jjc she told me to come stay at her house and work with her. He got talking to his mum one day at home on a video call, I was preparing to go to d market . He heard me talking to his mum for cash to shop. 

That evening I saw a friend request from him.


Na so he con dey say all the thank u for this world for keeping his mum company cos she has been alone in d house,that mum never told him someone was living with her.. He stylish asked for my name and surname from her.. Na him con find me.for facebook.

I said no p
Two weeks later he asked if I will marry him on phone
I laughed cos it sounded childish and hilarious 
We still got talking and he frustrates me with calls sometimes I switch off my phone.
December he came home, in d presence of his cousins and mum he proposed,I was confused and blank for like 20 mins
In d end I said yes 

I saw some good stuffs in him. 

He is honest to a fault, sometimes I tell him not to be too honest,because me I believe say humans ought not to be so honest

He is a giver.

He is supportive.. He would register some professional courses relating to my course,when he sees an interested in em.. And call me that he has paid for them
He called me that mum hasn't sent his fee and d school doesn't allow work study.

We prayed about it.. It became our major prayer request.. Cos he's in his final year.

He called me two days ago.,that mum said she got no cash to send to him that she's broke and he should man up and hustle anyhow .


He called his relatives still no show and he's in his final yr 
He told me that that d only thing that peeps do is sell weeds and he sees it as d quickest way to save and pay his tution
Which he did.

Have been myself  cos i have never seen myself marrying a man that will be selling weed.. I understand his opinions.. Seeing that he got no options. 

Pls am I being selfish?
D mum is broke and feeling depressed cos she lost a very huge amount of cash

D mum is all he's got
Stella Biko borrow me sense but No finish ur red biro
Please I will like to go anonymous 
Thank u


*I only have one question to ask you concerning his selling of weed...What if he didnt tell you?Would you still have sent in this Chronicle?


105 comments:

Quiksilver said...

I don't understand πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Monkeynofine said...

I just dey vex

Monkeynofine said...

See better WhatsApp chat wey I discharge by lying that I want to take a shower all in the name of chronicle.........

Gold Taken said...

Me too, I don't understand.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Poster,this nigga is a hustler!,
His type will never allow you to go hungry if you get married to him...
I like men that hustle!...
There is noting wrong with what he did!...it's better to sell weed than to do yahoo yahoo like broke ass mayor of this blog that go around defrauding BVs...
Meanwhile,he only sold weed to help him self!...
Appreciate this man and marry him mehn!...

Monkeynofine said...

Return back the gift to him naw ,wat are u still waiting for?

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Wow, i know someone doing uber and legit odd jobs to pay his fees. Selling weed is a big red flag hmmmmm πŸ‘Ž

BECKY DIVINE said...

Awww he sounds like a really sweet guy who truly loves you and cares for you!

But poster exactly what is your problem with this dude? Would you prefer if he isn't the honest type? Would you prefer that he hides things from you? What do we women truly want?

I don't think you should use this singular act to cancel him off cos clearly he had no other choice! But make it clear to him that once he is done with his Finals, that should be the end of that shady business!

Please my dear, I hope you truly love this guy? Search your heart well.. I hope you ain't with him to please anybody or out of pity? I hope there isn't another dude by the side waiting for this chapter to be closed? Please be honest to yourself.
I know why I'm asking these questions... I wish you well!!

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

I hope the mum no put money for mmm. Don't know what to tell you self. Good luck

Justyswt said...

This chronicle is not explanatory enough.

Baba God pls provide for the mum to be able to pay the sch fees of the son.

Anonymous said...

pretend it didn't happen. I guess he is in the abroad. Once he graduates, he will come back and hopefully get a better source of income. If he had been doing the weed business since, he wouldn't have told you

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahahaha...
I don't joke with chronicle!...I do that often...
I'm even parked at a roadside just to comment now...
Lmao

Sharon Aminu said...

Stella,ur response is funny.lols

Monkeynofine said...

Can't u help him with the money? Na from clap dem dey enter dance , from weed to white powder better run for ya life😯😯😯😯😯


That's wat u want to hear ,that's y u brought your sweet relationship matter for us to help u reset itπŸ˜†

SuperMom said...

All I see is a man that talks too much. If he hasn't said anything to u fa?
Please if u like him stay.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

What do you want us to say to you exactly? That he should sell d weed so he can forge ahead? Whatever happens to doing menial jobs?he is a man let him try the hustling way.

Monkeynofine said...

Ring*

MichoHay said...

He is Honest to a fault, and you told him not to be honest cos u believe humans don't have to be that honest, honestly if he was not honest with you you wouldn't have send this Chronicles...He sells weed to pay for stuff for you isn't it? Oya receive E-Slap!!

Highness Gwen said...

If u have cash,help him sort out his school ish pls.That he is broke today doesn't mean he will remain like that forever.Don't u go to church,have u no faith?even if u don't have cash now go and borrow from ur friends.

Minnie Rexpect said...

Sweetheart you've got no issue here. Not supporting his actions and not trying to make excuses for him,but there are desperate times that calls for desperate actions. If he had asked you to send him the money would you have done that?
At least you testified he exhausted his options before he went ahead to sell the weed. Just tell him not to do it again no matter the situation.
Be happy you bagged yourself an honest dude. Look around you, how many guys are that honest? My dear they are close to none. Forget the issue unless it happens again.

Squatfitnessfanatic said...

His contact pls..... I wan buy weed

Ibukunoluwa said...

But boss why are u like thisπŸ˜‚

Sweet Child said...

I see no problem, he is a hustler

Mike said...

Confusion....he is a good man, very supportive isn't it, at least he is not smoking weed, just selling to survive.....what ve u helped him with so far

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

*chronicles..
*by a road side...

ZIONA said...

emm poster if u dont want him send his number on s and m.

Anonymous said...

Hopefully weed doesn't graduate to cracks and cocaine. Be careful around people who look the law up in the face! It's your choice, lady. Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. Enjoy together and when the time comes, be prepared to cry together. God forbid.

There are other ways to pay for tuition without resorting to crime. Is weed illegal where he is? If not, still OK but if it is, hmmmm.
He seems like a sweet guy and I hope the feelings are mutual but my advise is you talk to him, whether he listens or not. At least, he would know you tried to talk him out.

ebere eze said...

My question is..does he smoke the weed? If no, he only sells it to make money.. well and good.. but poster still keep your eyes open.. and be observant.

Yvonne said...

Girls LOVE guys who lie to them & I wonder why....

What if he didn't tell you madam, na wa for you o. You're creating a problem where there is none.

If you've a problem with the weed ish, pls leave the poor guy alone, don't block road for a girl that appreciates his honesty.

Chinny Baby said...

Poster marry him if you love him, he is a hustler.

sexy Daddy said...

Yori yori princess how far!

Highness Gwen said...

Its better to sell weed?
I for say make u park well but u no get car!

Anonymous said...

Hear your self Uber!!! . Will he be conveying the Uber passengers on his back? or did u see it anywhere in the post that he owns a car. Pls what kinda odd jobs will he do to get his schl fees soon enough. If odd jobs pay That much people like me wouldn't hesitate.

Anonymous said...

Stella I drew ur attention on IHN to post the unedited clip of the conversation tboss had about her admirers and the 25million, and you swallowed the comment. Not cool Stella, not coolπŸ˜”πŸ˜”

Martins Aboy said...

Maybe im just lost @poster,cos some things arent still clear..

If he proposed;with what are you both planning to survive with?? Cos apart from the weed selling;i dont see you mentioning he has any other job/work he does..

Secondly;if he is A student and still trying to be on his feet;why did you accept the proposal??

From what im deducing;you seem to want to be with him just cos you think its your own little way of saying "thank you" with his mum for accomodating you(forget the honest part)..but dear,you dont fall or stay in love out of pity!!!

Maybe im wrong;but i know deep down you are already considering an option with him..

Just do what you have to do;and for the records,you need to know that BROKE GUYS CAN LOVE FOR AFRICA!! (At least that is what i learnt on this blog from queen and boss)..

My advice for him;HE SHOULD QUIT LOVE,Engagement or any plan of marriage for now,then hustle harder to make it,cos every woman loves A successful man..

#cheers and do use your head in this aspect..Love isnt always enough;bills must be paid..He should remember this!!

@MARTINS ABOY

Martins Aboy said...

Maybe im just lost @poster,cos some things arent still clear..

If he proposed;with what are you both planning to survive with?? Cos apart from the weed selling;i dont see you mentioning he has any other job/work he does..

Secondly;if he is A student and still trying to be on his feet;why did you accept the proposal??

From what im deducing;you seem to want to be with him just cos you think its your own little way of saying "thank you" with his mum for accomodating you(forget the honest part)..but dear,you dont fall or stay in love out of pity!!!

Maybe im wrong;but i know deep down you are already considering an option with him..

Just do what you have to do;and for the records,you need to know that BROKE GUYS CAN LOVE FOR AFRICA!! (At least that is what i learnt on this blog from queen and boss)..

My advice for him;HE SHOULD QUIT LOVE,Engagement or any plan of marriage for now,then hustle harder to make it,cos every woman loves A successful man..

#cheers and do use your head in this aspect..Love isnt always enough;bills must be paid..He should remember this!!

@MARTINS ABOY

DON™ said...

The guy is funny sha, telling you how he got money to pad his tuition.
He need to wise up Just leave alone, you dont have anything for him.

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

Stella biko post a chronicle that will task our brain.
Poster abeg allow the guy hustle whichever way he wants to. Hustle na hustle abeg. The point is about getting the final result which is "making money". Ask yourself, who honesty help for Nigeria?
Abeg who has the blueprint of any bank jare? I need to tie 49million naira in a bagco super sack before the end of this year.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Your problem/question/ point/ emphasis is? Im not gonna get emotional on this post. All I'm gonna say to you is don't make a man feel bad for being completed honest with you. However you handle it, don't let him cave in and stop being honest or equivocal about the truth. It's better the cards are always on the table and you know what you're dealing with than you living on assumptions.

Baby_kingsway said...

I really don't understand... If he didn't tell you nko?
I understand your fears tho.. Talk to him and see if he can work out something else *Sigh.
Lemme just read comments...

Amacastel said...

Hahahahah Hahahahah queen queen u be original character.

vicky U said...

Only weed

DON™ said...

Return wetin ?.. 😁😁😁😁

Amacastel said...

It's obvious you don't like dis guy cos u are allergic to nice men that are truthful u prefer liers & pretenders.
Beb Pls send me his contact cos is obvious u don't want him.
I don't really know what we women want.

Anonymous said...

Poster u dont av a problem except there is something else u are not telling us. In other news i am so sad and depΕ•essed, i am almost 8month pregnant and i and bae we are so broke that Γ¬t breaks my heart, we are suppossed to go to the marriage registry ds weekend but it seems we will cancel cos no money and we have registered. To top it all my iinfinix note 2 phone was stolen last friday night in church while i was sleeping, imagine in church o. I now have to be borrowing my mum phone to read sdk because dts what i have going for me dt helps me tΓ ke my mind off things. Now ds person don wicked me no be small. M so bΓ²red, heavily pregnant, broke, sad. I thank God for the gift of life though. Pls help me pray for the thief


Leo Queen said...

As in ehh! Aunty, what are you on about? πŸ€”πŸ€”

Miss Ess said...

I am not understanding

SDK blog drama queen said...

Queen take a thousand kisses from me darln. I love you

Cici said...

Dear narrator in evrytyn u've written I feel u are more concerned abt urself. How abt d brother man who needs money to pay his fees? No b u suppose advice am or give am solution. Jst pray he doesn't get caught. Stellz pls wen are u doing spontaneous night post? I want to confess cos I have sinned��

Vivilicious said...

This isn't even about selling weed. I believe if you love him, you wouldn't be sending this chronicle cos there is nothing that can't be forgiven, provided he didn't do it because he enjoyed it, but because of the circumstances he found himself. You just have to get him to stop, and since he is d honest type, I believe he wouldn't lie to y

Vivilicious said...

You and you will definitely know if he goes back to it.
I will advice you to search your heart properly and be sure you truly love that guy to avoid disappointing him.
From what you wrote, he sounds like a good guy and someone who would do everything to provide for you and take care of you.

Anonymous said...

I thought this guy got engaged to you within a space of three months but he rather "engaged you with a space of three months"???

I was a serving corp member and did not know that some of my mates were "serving corpers" ??

ADVICE: He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much (google this quote from the good books since you are a praying woman). The questions are:
1. When you get married and you folks meet financial challenges; like losing a huge amount of money, will he sell some other things like "cocaine, heroin, amphetamine or even weed etc."?
2. So where is the "honesty" you hyped about?
3. Have you really known this man; seeing that he is in another country?
4. Don't you think you need to put a hold and observe and pray concerning this?

Madam B said...

Pls since he did it to pay his fees, let it go.

Anonymous said...

He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much (google this quote from the good books since you are a praying woman). The questions are:
1. When you get married and you folks meet financial challenges; like losing a huge amount of money, will he sell some other things like "cocaine, heroin, amphetamine or even weed etc."?
2. So where is the "honesty" you hyped about?
3. Have you really known this man; seeing that he is in another country?
4. Don't you think you need to put a hold and observe and pray concerning this?

SUGAR. said...

I can't understand....

Sister please what is his Facebook name?πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘. I just want to ask him personally and understand better.

optimisticlady said...

Selling weed is a bad option.
He had many options...
He chose the easy way.
He will soon step up to higher street tradings.... if he hasn't already.
Too honest you say?
Look again.

zizi said...

Eyaaaah, I feel for him. Pls don't leave him since you said he is a nice guy. Just tell him to stop selling the weed as soon as he get the complete money for his school fees and he should continue searching for a legit job. God will do it for him. Also Keep praying for him.

Lee Josh said...

Geez!!! Did Queen and Boss just wrote that first comment of hers? Wow am impressed. Poster Just go with her advise and look for none no further. She just nailed it mehn

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Lmao @ poster, better respect yourself there. Dude is a very nice man, is not as if he's been into this but just did it out of frustration. Your type will still call him a school drop out assuming he was sent back home. I like hustlers, no time for lazy men .
Just pray for God to open doors for your Boo so that he won't do something like this again and stop panicking like a wet fowl as if you never sin before. My type of man and thank God I got one

Aire said...

There are several angles to this. You need to ascertain if this is actually the first time he is selling weed. It could be the first time and can possibly also be a regular thing. Selling weed is illegal and is usually done through a cartel/clique of sort....it is definitely not a business you just jump in and out of at will. This suggest he is familiar with people that does this which can mean several other things. If he does make quick cash this time to pay his fees, what is the assurance that he won't continue? Telling you could be a way of trying to get your validation of the business subtly. If you support this, be prepared to support more and even worse. Asides all I have mentioned, the question is; To what illegal/dangerous extent will he go to achieve anything in life? There are several other legit options to explore if it is school fees especially abroad which I believe is where he is schooling from your write up.

Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink) said...

If you love him, his lil sin should not affect you. We all sin differently.

But, hope he will not be addicted to selling weed??? He should try and look for another hustle.

Beloved said...

Hahahaha

Unknown said...

Sometimes i dnt understand women .
Someone is Honest to u na problem, his Not honest na still problem

Dee Untouchable said...

I dnt know what Women want sef. Someone is Honest to u na problem.his Not honest na still problem.

Rowland Dominic said...

okay

Mao Akuh said...

Thinking

Flakkie Chris said...

Hope it's a one time thing sha. If he continues with it, you better find your way before you turn to convict wife.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Hahahah@sugar,very funny

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Being completely

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Please be honest about the following:
1. You're about to become a baby mama by having a child for a man that hasn't married you
2. You don't have a job/business source of income and you want to birth a child for a man that hasn't married you
3. You are living with your mum and went and got pregnant for a man that hasn't married you.

When katakata burst tommorow now you people will say we shouldnt judge baby mamas because we don't understand their story. In this case, Understand what?!! Why go and get pregnant for a man who hasn't married you when both of you didn't set aside finances for this life long project? To think you're still in your mother's house?? You're broke but instead if hustling you're gbenshing without condom. Ur own hustle na for mattress.

If you like come under anon and cuss me for the next few weeks cos that's you people's style when you hate to hear the truth. Some of you just kick start your life on poor choices. No priorities!! You love compounding your issues. ANNOUNCEMENT: Angels help her please.... *hiss*

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Crying Anon i gave an example... Besides its my opinion, why not give yours πŸ˜’

Cherry Wine said...

You'll nor leave somebody to sell his weed in peace πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.
I didn't read anything about you loving him in this your chronicles o, I am not even understanding. Make I go chop soakis

Cherry Wine said...

Errrhh, Dee Untouchable and the unknown up there, what just happened? Abi garri do dey affect my eyes? 😁

Justyswt said...

@monkeynofine, the chronicle dey give person headache.

The Queen and boss alias chief, I trust u will give ur correct advice. But this chronicle get as e be. I always look forward to ur advice on chronicle. U are just too real jare.

Ehn, I am licking ur ass.

Cherry Wine said...

Share weed not hate ✌ πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

tobi ola said...

Pls tell him not to sell weed

anonymous gangster said...

Martins, proposal and an attendant acceptance do not translate to immediate marriage, it just kinda ties them together, engaged more like, marriage can come after a few years, even where both are financially and psychologically ready, no law says you must marry immediately after proposal is accepted.

anonymous gangster said...

The boy has changed name o, Hin dey answer only Don now, call Hin name in full make we know who you dey word.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm.yoriyori, Dem wan donate akamu giv u o, dem dey hail u! Lol!

Anonymous said...

Typical woman wahala, if we lie they cry, we are honest nko dey say we should learn to lie once Ina while. Women are confused!

Anonymous said...

LolπŸ˜ƒ @SUGAR

jelly said...

Dwelling in weed is bad but Since he opened up to you , i think you should over look it for now

sholetoga said...

Poster I commend your stand. But also know that he could have lied if he wanted. Tell him your stand on this and make him promise you not to be involved in anything illegal or something that could bring you to disrepute.
God will help you

mumu wife said...

When will I send my own chronicles?It's getting me depressed by the day.

Miss Kay said...

Lol ayam not understanding, poster, you don't even have a problem.....
Smh

Adorable Debrah said...

Kpele! The Lord will visit you financially and turn your loss to gain. I sympathize with you.

Cici said...

I can't believe y'all on your comments... What if he gets caught in the abroad? Na real wa for una. Y are we all neglecting that part?

ukwu dimond said...

My SDK boo has said it all. I raise Beyonce hand for you @ martins aboy.

ukwu dimond said...

Dope

Kwikwi said...

So because he told you that he sold weed to pay his tuition you have judged him so harshly. You mentioned all the Good things about him ,yet judged him for being too honest. As a half breed saint that you are with immaturity of equal measure, I doubt any man can meet your specifications. Abeg leave the guy for someone who will appreciate him.

ukwu dimond said...

Weed business is hard to stop, to me that your bf has been doing the business long ago, he just told you so that you will be aware. The money involve will not allow him to stop it, just pray for him.

Kwikwi said...

Lol. This monkeynofine is a serious case.

Nobi's Mum said...

What if he didn't tell you?????? It's because of situations like this that people choose to be dishonest.Allow a good man slip away from you and come back for another chronicle.

grace said...

Poster your chronicle never start I think hand dey scratch you to write.

Anonymous said...

Gbam

Anonymous said...

Poster i is nt understandin

BV 'yar kano

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Tessbaby said...

Poter how old re u? U sound so childish n quiet frankly, life never hit u.

HER majesty said...

Chikito i love u. U get sense. Keep telling dem d truth

sdk's first lady said...

Ure engaged to a man who still depends on mum..aunty life requires being practical of. .receive sense no say I no tell u

Anonymous said...

So if he said he wants to do armed robbery to feed himself would you all tell him to go ahead. Stella I'm disappointed you can say this

dame sexy said...

my honest opinion is that your boyfriend/ fiance has been in the weed or any other illegal biz for quite some time,he s only playing to the gallery by all the make up story of just informing you of his intent to trade in weed. He is not that honest ,to put it mildly.He knows what he wants to do,but tactfully playing mind games of mr honesty with you.the question you must ask yourself is,are there no other non criminal jobs he could result to in his situation?
IF and when you marry him,be prepare that whenever financial trials comes(and surely such must come in real life),your "honest man" will resort to weed,powder or other criminal biz to survive those harsh period,infact,since he's so honest with you,you will eventually become 'the weed/drug keeper ,i.e.if you are not in 'honesty' brainwash,or greedily persuaded to team up with him and sell too.NO matter how times are harsh,there are still few 'principle people out there that will never go your 'honest'boyfriend way.

dame sexy said...

my honest opinion is that your boyfriend/ fiance has been in the weed or any other illegal biz for quite some time,he s only playing to the gallery by all the make up story of just informing you of his intent to trade in weed. He is not that honest ,to put it mildly.He knows what he wants to do,but tactfully playing mind games of mr honesty with you.the question you must ask yourself is,are there no other non criminal jobs he could result to in his situation?
IF and when you marry him,be prepare that whenever financial trials comes(and surely such must come in real life),your "honest man" will resort to weed,powder or other criminal biz to survive those harsh period,infact,since he's so honest with you,you will eventually become 'the weed/drug keeper ,i.e.if you are not in 'honesty' brainwash,or greedily persuaded to team up with him and sell too.NO matter how times are harsh,there are still few 'principle people out there that will never go your 'honest'boyfriend way.

Anonymous said...

i de suspect this stella. you be lik who don take gbanna before lol

Anonymous said...

This one no get problem weed is actually legal in
Some states in the US

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