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Tuesday, 14 March 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives....

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
PARANOID OR NOT


Dear wonderful Stella, good day. This is my own chronicles. Please, I dont know if I am being paranoid.

I was in a relationship for three years before we broke up in 2014. In 2016 may, i started dating this guy. We have been going steady and he really loves me. He can be a bit authoritative according to my standard but I pout and talk to him and we are cool. In our nine months, I know his parents and all his siblings. His mum calls me and I call her too. Most times he even asks if I have called his mum and that I should try to call her once in a month so that she can get used to me.

The only problem is that I have told my boyfriend to at least talk to my younger sister on the phone or my mum so that a member of my family will get to know him and he is hesitating. He keeps saying the time is not right. Even when my sister celebrated her birthday, he didnt call her to wish her a happy birthday. But i call his people.

Stella my ex started chatting with my siblings like a month after we started dating and i dont want to compare my new relationship with the former one. He doesnt want to talk to anyone of my family. I talked to him though and he said he is just taking his time.

I dont want to appear desperate because frankly I am not. But is that not how they use to do relationship. Have i been too long out of the dating game? 



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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
PROPHECY CONCERNING MARRIAGE


Stella dearest God bless you for all your good works.
  I was on my way to work this morning when a young muslim man stopped me and started giving me talks, he told me so many things but the one that got me was that my boyfriend will disappoint me.

   NOTE: before now a man of God told us to go ahead with the
relationship. this man of God didn't ask for money or any thing,  his only instruction was that we should always pray.


   Now this other man demanded for salt,egg,catfish and some other things or give him money to buy the items to clean the evil around me.I gave him #100 collected his number.
  My problem now is that  some of the things he said is true  but a Friend said I should break all ties and never to call the guy ever again. Please my people I don't know what to do I need your advice.

*I hope i havent posted this before.


117 comments:

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Poster 1,
You don't have a problem here!...
Stop forcing him to talk to your sister abeg!..

Poster 2 ,
Hian!...
Don't leave him if he is rich oh!...
But don't marry him either!...all these prophecies work some times...

xxxTrinityxxx said...

poster one youre not paranoid. why are you talking to his family members when he is not talking to yours?? everything should be on equal ground. stop talking to his family till he starts talking to yours but be sure he is serious before he starts talking to your family members.

poster two forget the man and the pastor. pray well and tell God to reveal things to you concerning your relationship and tell God that if the man will disappoint you, let the relationship scatter now

redbotafly said...

Poster 1,your boyfriend is a selfish man. Since he says it's too early l for him to speak to your mum and siblings, stop calling his family members too.
If you want nothing to do with your ex anymore, discourage your siblings from chatting with him.
Poster 2,fast and pray hard. God will give you the answers you need.

Monkeynofine said...

Chronicle 1, I don't understand. Do u mean he want u to always call his mum but refuse to do same to ya family? If yes then this is very simple, stop calling his mum! Always tell him the time is not right too.

Wendixx said...

Poster 2
"salt,egg,catfish and some other things or give him money to buy the items to clean the evil around you..." Una for say una want cook catfish peppersoup. Lolzzz

On a serious note, are you a christian or a muslim? That should determine what you should accept or discard. Don't allow anyone to initiate you to the marine world unknowingly, or put you in bondage in the guise of cleansing.

You have been told to pray, take time to pray to your Heavenly Father (god) who hears EVERY prayer. if you must fast and add vigil, do it. BUT DON'T ENTANGLE YOURSELF IN A STRANGE BONDAGE. It won't be easy.

Cheers..

white Berry said...

Poster one ignore your bf whether he calls ur family or not don't let that bothers you like me I don't really like that calling the whole of my generation cause we are dating so I don't see that as an issue pls ignore that and move on with ur relationship then limit ur calling his siblings and mom you even acting desperate by that even if he were the one that asked you to, pls limit it.

Poster two: Haven't you heard of the saying fake prophet yes that's who you just meant, sometimes they might be saying the truth but don't have solutions to the problems.

zubair zainab said...

Eh poster with the catfish man, pls don't. Are you not capable of praying yourself or at any point did dey tell you GOD is trying to make soup. Cut ties with d strange man. Infact didn't your mom tell you not to talk to strangers

Anonymous said...

Poster One, he wants you to call his mum and does not want to speak with any member of your Family... If you eventually marry this guy he won't have one atom of respect for your family.. He looks like a selfish person that wants everything to revolve around him... This Man fit suffer you when you marry am.
@ poster 2 , you better cut ties with that Man.. What connection does light have with darkness...This Man will ruin your life and destiny if you don't stay clear off him and also exploit you because he is also hungry ...delete his number fast and never call him again..

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Poster one, well a serious relationship should have both parties reciprocating based on mutual understanding.
If he expects you to call his mother and siblings, it's only right he does same by you even though I wouldn't want my boyfriend to just call my family members out of the blue without first meeting them one on one.
Imagine, if the relationship doesn't work out and they keep asking after him. I think it's weird though to keep introducing every boyfriend to your family as a woman because the Nigerians I know will ask after this man even when you both are no longer together and it does get irritating.
If you are sure this relationship will lead to marriage then let him meet your family formally before the calls roll in.
Your ex is an ex for a reason dear, and you're already comparing him to your current boyfriend based on something he did.


Poster 2, the only confirmation you need is from your partner stating his intentions to marry you and yours after you've agreed and gotten the peace required after speaking to God about it.
Stop believing in prophecies and these men who go around scamming people.
These tricks are old and yes they will tell you things that are real because some things about our lives are predictable to anyone. He also probably did background checks on you before approaching you.
Cut all communications please.

Robyna Wenger said...

Posted 1: He is playing you. His excuse wld have flown if he wasn't making you call his folks. Be smart.
Poster 2: No comment.

Wendixx said...

Poster 1

Well, it depends...
Are there other negative signs apart from this? Give him the benefit of the doubt, and allow him to flow. But minimize how you call his Mum as well. Na man dey marry you and not the other way round.

Just keep your eyes open. People with individual differences.
Maybe he wants to meet them when he has gathered enough money to start things properly... Also, the place of prayer cannot be over emphasised. PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY!!!

By the way, you are not paranoid. **hugs**

Cheers..

BECKY DIVINE said...

Poster one..

I don't trust that guy. Try to find our his true intentions towards you first! He wants you to speak with his people but doesn't want to speak to your people? Hmmmmm

My dear shine your eyes oo. And I hope you didn't put all your eyes in that single basket? I wish you well

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster 1:
he want to use his people to wash your head and be ghenshing you free of charge because most ladies believe that once they meet the guys family that marriage is the next thing. Also he don't want to commit himself that's why he don't want to communicate with your people.



Poster 2:
I don't know why some people meet prophets concerning marriage issue. Are you still a kid or you don't know what you want??
Why must you listen to prophecy concerning marriage?
Bible study "enter inside your inner room and pray without season".
Don't let people prophecy confusion enter your head.

Ambience said...

Poster 2 I couldn't help but laugh. Someone is hungry and making an effort to source his next meal you are asking for advise. Just add pepper ingredients and garri to the man's request before he will go and steal and end up where he never dreamt off.

Cat fish to clear evil thoughts from his head. Very funny.

Queen Eldaberry said...

Poster 2, don't let any yahoo pastor or cleric deceive you. Don't you have knees? Go on your knees and pray. Talk to your God directly and you will get answers. No MOG can tell me who to date n not to date because i believe God will show me first before any yahoo pastor.. As for the person u met this morning, na peppersoup dey hungry am that's why he asked for those things. Besides crate of egg is now expensive. Go on your knees and pray. It was created for you to pray with, not only for doggy....

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 yes there is something around you that I can clean one time. Just send me 200 dollars and you can marry 5 husbands at once if you want. Seriously! Are people this stupid, that anybody can claim prophesy and they will believe. My dear the devil and demons around him can see your past, but God almighty sees your future. You should stop listening to people speaking negativity into your life.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

I dont understand why we throw ourselves at people and get angry when they don't do same. Abeg oh...... if you extend an olive branch and it's not received, kindly take position and respect yourself. if he's not calling your family, then don't call his. If he's not remembering your own side's birthdays, then forget theirs too. When it's 'right' for him, he will adjust. And you too can adjust. Why you calling them as if he's doing you a favour? Where I'm from it's a man and his family that chase a woman and lock her down, try to convince her and her people that they are worth the name change. Not the other way round. Na for Lagos I dey see difference oh!! You're doing 'good wife'? Our wife stunts calling and texting.... Maintaining relationships πŸ˜‚

The day I noticed my ex's dad wasn't keen on 'remembering' me (as I always called for Easter, Christmas, birthday, when he's ill, Father's Day etc.) I stopped and stuck with his mum who was always happy to communicate, bombard me with love text and even skype me to pray for me. The day he said his dad asked I told him if his dad sees me like a daughter he should sometimes not 'forget'. Like not even one call or text by mistake. Family relationship isn't one-sided. As you take me I take you. The man no kuku like me because he expected his first son to marry a Yoruba girl and he thought I didn't pick on it because I looks babyish and smiley. Oh well...... their cup of hot tea! πŸ™„

BECKY DIVINE said...

Poster two

I don't understand you. Someone you just met on the road predicted things about your life to you and clearly wants to extort you... And you are actually gullible enough to believe him and even considering buying the things?? Chai

Why are you so desperate? Please calm down and let God's Will be done in your life mbok

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. He's taking his time so over familiarity and disrespect won't enter. Just be observant and don't be tooooooo friendly with his people too. They're smiling with you doesn't mean they like you.

Poster 2. How can you claim you've heard the voice of God but still go to listen to the questions Satan has for you? I don't get. You gave him money???? Okokobioko! That was how a pregnant woman at Wuse market was approached by one of these Muslim "seers". Told her many things about her marriage and struggle to conceive, congratulated her on her newfound joy. As she left the gate of the market she miscarried. Be very careful.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Poster you said it that your boyfriend is too authoritative. Wetin you want to hear again. He is not ready to talk to your family, stop forcing him and when he ask you if you have called his mum, tell him later that you are busy and lests see how it goes. Ekpele.

Poster 2... take am easy oooo. Stop allowing briefcase pastor and imams to woo you on the way to your house or work.

100 is it N100 or one hundred thousand. You are not clear on it. MINE IS BECAREFUL

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster 2:
Before you enter into any relationship you have to bear two things in mind, which are "Break up and Continuity"

Don't zero your mind on marriage which will make you to be carrying ears up and down listening to anything called prophecy.

Etsako Girl said...

P2 why are you trying to seek validation for your life. Why don't you focus on your relationship and pray to God instead of looking for answers that are not there. Why are you even paying someone money to consult the gods cos this one nor be prayer anymore...you will just use your hand to scatter your relationship
P1 if it is bothering you stop communicating with his people and see how the relationship turns out since you say you aren't desperate.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

'Clean evil around you?'
Argh!! Are we still on this matter? Abeg that's how one man met me on the road and told me I will die within 3 weeks because someone's baby mama wants to kill me and there's evil around me. At the time one guy with baby mama was on my neck. I was jejely waiting for my friend to use the ATM and he knocked on my car window to say rubbish. That I should follow him for cleansing. This was in 2013. I'm still alive and causing trouble on SDK πŸ˜‚ And I didn't do nada!!

Swiss babe said...

Narrative 1, Your guy is a selfish Man who believe he is too much for your and his family more important than yours,Men like this are every where, pls read the handwritings on the wall before its too late

Narrative 2, cut all ties with the muslim Man before its too late, or continue contacting him to your own peril

Anonymous said...

Poster 1.Your boyfriend is indeed controlling. He insists that you should be calling his people from time to time, but he doesn't want to do the same for you. He doesn't have a good reason for dithering. He is the type of guy that believes a lady should always be at the beck and call of her man. You guys are at the stage where he should be going out of his way to please you. If be can't do anything to please you now that you are dating, it will get worse when you both finally get married. Cast your net very wide and find yourself a good man.

Poster 2: Some people have the gift of prophecy, but If I were you, I won't gave a dime to someone who asks me to bring salt, crayfish, catfish and other things before be tells me what the futute holds for me. You just gave the man the necessary ingredients for a tastefully nutritious meal. You don't need a soothsayer to tell you that a man won't make a good husband. If he is irresponsible, he is irresponsible, no two ways about it.

Swiss babe said...

Narrative 1, Your guy is a selfish Man who believe he is too much for your and his family more important than yours,Men like this are every where, pls read the handwritings on the wall before its too late

Narrative 2, cut all ties with the muslim Man before its too late, or continue contacting him to your own peril

Minnie Rexpect said...

@poster one.. My dear its not by seeing his family, if you like see his ancestors if he still wants to leave you for another girl tomorrow he'll do that. If he is not speaking to your family it shouldn't be an issue. It is even better for you cos you don't need to start explaining stuff if it doesn't work. But if you still insist, then stop talking to his family and see how it goes, cos I don't see why he would want you to talk to his family but avoid talking to yours.
@poster2 my dear, forget that prophecy all na guess work. Most relationship have almost the same issue but in different forms so most alfa or prophets capitalise on that. All na format.

Blackberry said...

Based on logistics, When you depend on prophets to forge ahead in life, u end up going no where, use ur kidney.

Anonymous said...

Women can be so stupid. That is why fake pastors target them the most. Are you so stupid that you cannot make the choice of husband by yourself? If at your age you are relying on prophecy, you do not deserve to ever get married. Should anyone I know, say that their girlfriend sought prophecy for marriage I will advice the man to flee. You are stupid poster 2 and potentially fetish.

Poster 1, he's simply not ready to meet your family yet. You decided to meet his family and be calling up and down. That was your choice and evidence of your desperation. It may also not be his personality to suck up and pretend to get married. Back off him abeg. Why must he call your whole family and call them to wish them happy birthday? Are you his wife? You better go and find more engaging things to do with your time.

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster 1:
Is he going to talk to your people as boyfriend, fiance, husband or what?
Must every man in your life talk to your family?
Don't you know you are making your family know your body count?
The 1st one has talked to them and move on and your family counted him as 1 body count(that's if he is the first person you introduced to your family)
And you want this one to be talking to your family? your family will count him as your 2nd body count.

Know your position in his life 1st before family introduction.

Blackberry said...

Poster one, me don't see any reason for ur chronicle, him calling ur family members don't signify anything and vice versa, a sidechic can also know n cook for all family members n still remain a sidechic.

Anonymous said...

The guy made a nice meal out of it lmao egg and catfish.

Anonymous said...

poster 1: your boyfriend is playing safe by not meeting your family..note that meeting his mum is no guaranty he will marry you so shine your eyes.
poster 2: the muslim guy is a 419...you don't only have fake pastors, some of these mallams are fake and can spiritually manipulate you when they have u under their influence...what does God want to do with catfish? who will eat it? your story shows you dont even have a relationship with God. while he will sometimes give some instructions to pray for you using the anointing oil, water to pray he will never ask anyone to collect money before they pray for you..

Anonymous said...

poster 1: your boyfriend is playing safe by not meeting your family..note that meeting his mum is no guaranty he will marry you so shine your eyes.
poster 2: the muslim guy is a 419...you don't only have fake pastors, some of these mallams are fake and can spiritually manipulate you when they have u under their influence...what does God want to do with catfish? who will eat it? your story shows you dont even have a relationship with God. while he will sometimes give some instructions to pray for you using the anointing oil, water to pray he will never ask anyone to collect money before they pray for you..

Mao Akuh said...

2. My dear, don't tell me that you're this gullible. Cut every communication with that guy. The guy wants to enter you, don't fall for that if not, you will lose your jewelries (if any), money and others. People need money and can do anything to get attention. Be wise and believe in God alone.

1. I don't really know what you want. If the guy is not into you don't waste your time because love is an open door, others are waiting and pray as well.

BLOGLORD said...

Poster 1 - yes you are too paranoid.
Take things slow and easy. He is just a boyfriend not husband.
Let him cruise on whatever kilometre per hour he chooses (for no)
Just keep calm and observe

Poster 2- salt, egg, crayfish?
Dude is hungry.
E de go cook concotion rice..
If I hear say e see vision for your head? Taaaa!

Miss Ess said...

N1, he might have his reasons though or he might just be playing smart. N2, abeg forget that thing and pray to God to direct you.

Anonymous said...

When a lady says she is not desperate; then she is.

Your ex talked to your family members and still dumped you; thought about that?

Bheem said...

This Zobo sweet mehn

Rosemary Ezeji said...

Chronicle 1 if he doesn't want to familiarise himself with ur family. U too don't be too familiar with his family.
Chronicle 2 run for your dear life don't contact the Muslim prophet again.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Poster 1- don't compare you ex with your boyfriend. The expectation is high that's why you finding fault. Take it a step at a time and everything will fall in place
Poster 2- take it to God in prayer and let him lead you. Don't indulge in fetish things

Anonymous said...

THE SECOND POSTER IS STUPID O. IN THIS RECESSION, THE GUY GAVE HER LIST OF THINGS WEY DEY HUNGRY AM AND SHE TOOK HIS NUMBER? ARE WOMEN THIS GULLIBLE? YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN AND A MUSLIM BOY STOPPED YOU TO ASK QUESTION AND YOU ARE SENDING US CHRONICLES




BEFORE I OPEN MY EYES, VAMOOSE!!!!


MTCHEWWWW

BLOGLORD said...

*for now

Anonymous said...

What kind of fool is poster two.
A medium lured you on the way and you patronized him?
Ok, "some of the things he said is true", how about the ones that are not true?
Are you this gullible?
He will keep frightening the daylight out of you so as to get so much money from you.
Hope the "man of god" who told you to "go ahead with the relationship" also told you not to commit fornication/abortions?

Anonymous said...

@ second poster! Run, I said run for your dear life. That man is fake, run before he jazz you. THe is not a muslim oh, people like him are every where now, they use jazz and before u know you would be asked to bring everything dear to you all in the name of cleancing. I was ones a victim. Run oh, I don talk my own

Anonymous said...

Poster please do not call the Alfa, pray to GOD yourself. Why do I have a feeling that your friend is not real. You may delete the Alfa's number so you do not call him out of boredom. I am a Muslim by the way and I have never heard where an Alfa will ask you to buy egg or catfish......really? Please go to God in prayers yourself.
#Tee

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: please do not call the Alfa, pray to GOD yourself. Why do I have a feeling that your friend is not real. You may delete the Alfa's number so you do not call him out of boredom. I am a Muslim by the way and I have never heard where an Alfa will ask you to buy egg or catfish......really? Please go to God in prayers yourself.

No advise for poster 1
#Tee

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: I beg u in God's name, please delete that Muslim guy's number. It's all fake,besides they use juju. Please don't have anything to do with him. He'll sleep with u before u realise anything.

Vivilicious said...

No mind her, the guy wan cook catfish stew on top her head.

Akwanwa said...

Poster 1,I understand where your bf is coming from. I guess he doesn't want to get familiar with your people to avoid expectations or undue pressure to marry you incase it doesn't work out.If he has something to hide,he won't introduce you to his family. Let him be so you don't sound desperate. However,be wise though...

Anonymous said...

Poster one: I saw my mother inlaw for the very first time when I was preparing to get married to her son. So stop disgracing your family by introducing any man f**king you as your bf. if you don't have respect for yourself. And why are you calling f**kboy's family?? Are you that desperate?? Calling his family does not mean he loves you enough to put a ring on it.


Poster two: you don sell your soul for #100. Smh.

Angellight said...

Poster,2 run away from the Muslim prophet. How can you be a Christian and believe a Muslim prophet. He will enter you real deep and starts demanding for money. Run away from him. Trust God for your relationship and pray. Poster 1 give him some time, maybe he has his reasons. He will definitely talk to them when he is ready.

Anonymous said...

Don't go back to that so called"Muslim"he might not be one.your life as a single Lady is unpredictable talk more of marriage.I have learnt to live life as it comes,u should too.for better for WORST wasn't added to d marriage vow for fancy.

Anonymous said...

All I see is catfish pepper soup.

poster 2 said...

Okay people calm down, I was really scared at first but menu after few hours my eye shine. I was even worried abt the marriage gist sef. My concern was him saying i will fall sick
UPDATE! I saw him after one week and i prentended as if i have never set my eyes on him before. Thanks guys but i don handle the idiot.

becky naka said...

Gbam gbamer gbamest *side eyes @ sandy.

BLOGLORD said...

But the first boyfriend who was calling her family still dumped her na.

Give the dude benefit of doubt poster. Everybody's approach is different.

Justyswt said...

@poster 2, the man wan cook soup ni?

Poster1, I believe that relationship shld be give and take. If u feel the relationship is heading for marriage pls insist he starts relating well with ur family and treat them right.

DON™ said...

Poster two. Dont listen to alfa or any other person that call you anywhere to tell you something about yourself, don't believe them.

If you dare listen, you end up swearing the oath of secrecy before you know it, your money will fly and your pussy will be properly gbenshed.
Stop listening to story ! Be wise.

Sweet Child said...

1 Stop calling
2 pray on your own

SDK Lastborn said...

Poster 2. Go to the market, buy those things he asked for, make sure you buy pounded yam too, cook it very well, don't eat it o, wait till tomorrow, fast and pray 6 to 6(tell God what you want), then break your fast with that meal, watch out for wonders after that

Anonymous said...

Poster 2:

I have met people like that muslim guy that came to you. They are criminals. They are swindlers. If you call him, he will subtly start creating fear in you, he will collect more money from you and finally he will be sleeping with you.

the shocker is he may end up marrying you cheaply because you may be pregnant in the process and he will tell you not to abort it.

Runnnnnn from that fake prophet. They work with informants. They have met my wife on the way on different occasions and my friends.

Pray and move closer to God.

DON™ said...

You don jam them ? Hope you didn't end in bed with the alfa ?
98% of people like you end up in bed with alfa before they finally realized that they have been duped. Money and pussy wise.*

Tilly said...

Poster 1 he should also acknowledge your family as you have done his.
Poster 2, you need to be sure about yourself and what you are doing. If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything. Pray for yourself. As long as you have peace in your heart about him

sexy Daddy said...

Every time I read chronicles here,it must boyfriend and man issh.I'm tired of giving advice. Why can't you guys bring in something inspirational? Nawoo.

Youjy Young said...

The matter tire me

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

Poster one
What is good for a man is equally good for a woman; or, what a man can have or do, so can a woman have or do. This comes from an earlier proverb, “What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.”
Poster two
And you gave him 100naira which he collected. That's enough to justify hunger, the man is hungry and will seek any means to feed himself.
Let me tell you a short story
Some years ago in Ogun state, I was returning from a party with my bf (now hubby) along with some other friends. We were trekking to the bus stop together, we walked past a nice jeep alongside Omida market, the jeep owner parked by the roadside to buy something in the market, we didn't notice him as we were gisting. Next thing he asked the guy selling to him to help him call my boyfriend as we had already walked past him. My bf went to him and all he told him was "that girl (pointed to me) you are walking with is your future wife o, take care of her ooo, take care of her ooo, that's all I have to tell you, bye". My boyfriend rejoined us and we asked to know what the man told him hence the revelation.
Note that the man didn't ask for anything, note also that there were 7 of us walking together, four male and three female. Me and bf didn't wear a placard that shows we are dating.
Point is some of this prophecies are real but don't count on all being real especially when there's a request for money involved.
Can't edit. 4give typos.

BEDS AND ROSES said...

Poster 2 this your chronicles isn't complete o.
pls it includes pepper,rice and bread. To join the egg, fish and salt, then we have complete breakfast and lunch.
Keep listening to prophecy until you hear the prophet abi imam is your chosen husband and you start living in face me I slap you room as his wife. You better delete his no and block his line.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Poster 1, stop calling his people.

Poster 2, cut all ties with that man. He wants to chop your money

poster 2 said...

Tnx nor Na only you understand
I gave him the #100 for kaikai. The weather was cool

poster 2 said...

Stella post my update biko. Bvn want to kill me with insults

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 - you need to be careful. Behaviour is a warning sign. Why ask you to call his mom but timing to call your own folks is not right? What is not right about calling to wish someone happy birthday? After all platonic friendships call to wish happy birthday.
Tee

Shola said...

@ Chronicles poster 1:
If a guy you're dating doesn't want to know or speak to your folks and you know/speak to his folks then that relationship isin't heading anywhere +ve,and on the other hand that doesn't mean its not going to work out,i've dated ladies that i know their family members and @ the end of the day they end up leaving.Just call him and ask him''Bro.where is this relationship heading to or where do you see us in 2-3yrs time''His reaction should/would tell you all.

@ Chronicles poster 2:
My candid advise to you on the muslim guy stranger is this;God works in mysterious ways & you never can tell if the man you met on your way to work is an angel of God,just like sarah entertained strangers not knowing they were angels of God.I recently had such experience in January in Lagos.You can as well visit a pastor you trust and just tell him to pray as regards your relationship about you and your fiance and also fast/pray for yourself too.
NB:i'm a christian

Shola...

Anonymous said...

Taink u dear

Quiksilver said...

Sexy daddy clear for road!
Something inspirational like donating watery sperm abi?
Inspirational sperm donor

Anonymous said...

Words outta my fingers! You are absolutely right.
1. Men like these not only don't have respect for their spouse's family, they make sure you cut ties with them because to them, being married means changing your family for good.

2. For God sake, na today you just come! U never hear people wey go tell you everything about your life and they will be like 90% correct. In the end, na 419. You are an educated woman, never allow yourself to be hustled like that again. Look to God for spirituality. To rely on anyone or anything else, is to cheapen your own being.

Peace!!!

Anonymous said...

Let me perch here!!! Poster 2 draw your ears run very far from that Alfa hmmmm..... all na strategy. I hope u know that dollar in the boot strategy this is one don't say I didn't warn you.

brown suga said...

Poster 2
So you can't pray to God for revelation abii, you didn't even hear from a man of God, you heard from a Muslim and you have him catfish and salt for what na, peppersoup abii.

Poster1 keep calm abeg, he has introduced you to his family,it means he really loves you OK don't worry, everything will fall into place with time.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: ders smthn I know about d Spirit in us.It doznt deceive us,He tells u what to do.what am simply saying is that u know wat to do,stop pushing so u don't west ur time.u knw u can't survive in dat rtship let alone marriage,run. Innugo? I say run.wateva is wrong is wrong no matter how right we want to make it look. And that's wat love does,seeing right in wrongs.No! It is wrong simple.he should either reciprocate or give u a valid reason why he's doing dat or you move on.
Poster 2:you are in charge of ur own life, weda ur a christain or not- God has given each man d mandate to take charge of his life, that is wat most of the wealthiest pple in the world did even tho they're not Christians. Don't let anyone deceive u,a statement or prophecy only works for u wen u agree with it. Shikena!. My one cent.
Stellz baby! I dey hail ooo.pls I nid an ID oooo

Faith said...

Its a man that should be all.over your family, trying to show them that he's good enough for you not the other way round. He should be the one anxious that your people will like him AND then you reciprocate.

He should be the one heads over heels, anxious to commit and prove his readiness to commit.

If he is doing otherwise, play the same. Don't go extra mile for boyfriend that won't go half mile for you. Stop the family familiarity, till he complies or if he doesn't, then treat the relationship as 'not that important'. Don't put your life in a.man's hand to be toyed with. Don't let him be authority over your life, he is NOT your husband!

ADAOBI said...

Inspirational Bawo πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 ur boyfriend is a gay, he is just using u to make his family believe his not

brown suga said...

Exactly
And she'll loose her respect
Poster1, thing are not done that way

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Poster 2; I don't have strength to type much.
While reading your story,I also got a message for you. Hopefully somebody else will get the message and pass it to you.
Be wise.

ukwu dimond said...

Poster one that guy is not into you, just try and have side boo, do not let this one to be your main boo, it seems to me you are dating yourself

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

This one na fish sacrifice

ukwu dimond said...

Poster two can't you pray to God to direct you? I gave stop beliving those prophets long ago, what will be will always be.

ola wealth said...

Doggy ke??? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Fan Emmanuel said...

Lol

Madam B said...

Poster 2 pls run away from the man that asked you to bring those things o. He is dubious, something like this happened to a lady in my area and at the end she went to steal her mums money to give the said man of God not knowing the money was for ajor(savings) that her mum was into, when her eyes cleared, her younger sister heard her discussing the issue with someone that she don't know how to break the news to her mum, the younger sister being over sabi went straight to her mum and told her, the woman just shouted and collapsed and that was it. She died. Pls I beg you run away from that man, delete his number from your phone. Please

Jeni_zee jewellery uk +447459753657.. choker beads!! Pearls !! Coral!! said...

The guy would soon say he has to sleep with her for purification, better delete his number

Anonymous said...

PG18
Poster2 na soup money you give that aboki. How many time do i have to tell you people that there is no such thing as a life of utopia.what ever he told you ask tge next person to you and thry will say the same thing is happening to them.watch out tve next thing he will say is for you to come to river em for spiritual bath before you know it em finger they inside ur TOTEX!
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN

Jeni_zee jewellery uk +447459753657.. choker beads!! Pearls !! Coral!! said...

The Muslim guy would sleep with her join

jelly said...

Poster 1 focus on him alone and stop calling his family too since he doesn't call yours. Poster 2 sfop listening to Alfa or imam if you are not a Muslim bf you become wife number 3 to them

Loud it said...

@ poster one, he should reciprocate before his family will start thinking you are desperate to become part of them.besides even if you guys are just friends it shouldn't be a big deal to know your siblings.

Anonymous said...

Word. Don't ever bug him to call your people, ahh!

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

So are you guys still dating? Are you planning to get married? Full gist please *popcorn*

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

He told me he saw a sickness in my breast, that's its like cancer but spiritual cancer that can't be seen or felt by any doctor. It will swell and burst. They planted it bla bla... oh puhlease! ✋

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 i'm a muslim and ill tell u dat d guy will dupe u.can't tell u hw he was able to make those prediction cos its a long story fr me to type.if u contact him he'll hypnotize u n ask fr cash.things lyk dis s rampant in da north.


BV 'yar kano

Spidex said...

Really Muslim and prophesy haha end time prophesy

Amacastel said...

Poster 1 Wetin be ur problem must the guy call ur mum, ur case is simple stop calling his pple
Poster 2 if don't delete that's man's num from ur fone he will dupe , gbensh If u are not lucky kidnap you join. So @ ur age u don't knw what you want in a man u are actually sounding like a 13yr old girl or rather broken record. Pls receive sense & stop visiting anybody for ur relationship cos they are fake prophesy. I experienced such from my ex most pple said we are going to be couple in this world & in our next world but as am talking to you now we are worst enemies.

Krix said...

Please biko I have a question, all these bvn where una dey get this inspiration from?
Not only for doggy got me rolling on the floor!

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Krix said...

Chikito so u know say u be trouble causer!
#beyoncehandforyou.

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Anonymous said...

Poster 2 Na peppersoup dey hungry ur Muslim guy. Cheap hungry man!!!

Great lady. said...

Poster 1: Yes, you are being paranoid. Relationship is not even up to a year and you are already comparing and contrasting.
Calling family members is not a parameter for showing commitment to a relationship. Moreover he is still a bf, not fiancee or husband. Allow him his time, your ex that called all your family nko? It's a matter of individual difference.

Kike Kike said...

Poster one my boo started calling my family long before I stsrted cal ling his family, he should be more than eager yo know your family if he loves you, shouldn't ever have to cajole him to, dude is not serious, be careful not to marry husband that will turn your back to your family, be wise

#Miss Kay# said...

Poster 2, the babalawo wan use you cook indomie and egg with dried fish...nonsense

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

@Krix #pepperdemgang 😜

General Zod said...

Poster 2, delete that number immediately and block it as well. Do not buy anything he says and never contact him again. Never!

Anonymous said...

What is wrong with you people that any random person can stop you on the road and give you prophecy and you'll start shaking???
What kind of behavior is that? In this nigeria where plenty people are hungry. You need a brain reset. Catfish ko, panla ni

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Chikito, read again. You skipped the "my boyfriend(now hubby)" part.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Nice

Anonymous said...

People of d world...especially this part of a world don't think anymore!Every story nw na about relationship and prophecies on them.No intellectuals. ..an average girl wants 2 die on top one man issue.Think!Think!Think!Two chronicles same Theme (relationship palava)Na wa o

Imported Suzzy Lalaagbon said...

Poster 2, when nxt they stop u on d way preach d word to them and invite them to church wt a smile. The alfa guys dat is.
I yellow well well n they stop me al d time for my bstop as they plenty dre make God provide my own car make I c who go come c vision abt my life inside my ac car.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

@Lafresh juat saw. Lol.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2, Please ignore the man that asked you for salt, catfish and so on, He just want to collect you money, trust me, I know them, they go about saying this to any one that want to listen to them, you end up given them money, if you are Christian, (Hug GOD) he is you maker.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1. He believes that once your family know him, they will begin to pressurize him to hasten the marriage/wedding process, and obviously he's not ready for that,just be patient, I would say you should be worried if it were the other way round.I.e he knows your family, you don't know his.
Poster 2. Na 419 oh, don't reach out to him again

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