I hate Domestic Violence with a passion..Look at what the Locust has stolen from this erstwhile Beautiful family..
Wednesday, March 15, 2017
Foston Utomi Called Out By His Wife For Battering Her...
The lady in the picture, Ajoke was brutalized by her husband Foston Utomi.He is the CEO of Foston Musik. The couple got married in 2016 and have a son together ......
I hate Domestic Violence with a passion..Look at what the Locust has stolen from this erstwhile Beautiful family..
I hate Domestic Violence with a passion..Look at what the Locust has stolen from this erstwhile Beautiful family..
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Miyake or whatever you call your self. No body has any right to lay a finger on any adult no matter the offence talk more of a partner. There are better ways to deal with an insulting wife and not beating her to stupor. FYI don't train that your girl child to feel and see men as a super creature, this is not stone age.
ReplyDeleteAll this comments I'm seeing up here is disgusting.
ReplyDeleteQueen,Don, Miyake you people have left the issue at hand and gone on to make this post about tribalism.
Stella when will this end on this blog. Cant we all just behave like adults. Stella cant you not enable this disgusting comments. And I know some will use indirect names to call out a tribe. Like 'people from that side of the country'' etc.
Instead of us to learn from a post it will become a blood bath of words.
My sister Stella abeg do something.
This is the problem with Nigeria someone will do something wrong instead of his people to call him to order they will be supporting him because they are same tribe. My brother this, my brother that.
This is the reason we are breeding irresponsible men nowadays. In the name of first son their parents will see them disrespecting girls right from nursery school and they will keep petting him in the name of only son and First son. They now grow up and have self entitlement, go into marriage and start behaving like animals.
Miyake if responsible ladies are out there praying to be wifed why didn't these men marry them in the first place? Doesnt it show that the men are IRRESPONSIBLE for overlooking responsible women ?
ReplyDeleteJungle justice? That's far from it, honey. You have to be guilty of a crime or alleged to be guilt of a crime to suffer jungle justice. Apart from that, only one person can not carry out jungle justice. Jungle justice is carried out by an angry mob plagued with mob mentality. Jungle justice simply means punishing an offender with complete disregard to legal authority or due process. The "punishers" take matters into their hands and execute whatever punishment, usually physical abuse, they deem fit. They assume the role of the judge, the jury and the executioner. In essence, jungle justice gives fair hearing the middle finger and tosses it into the sea of nonexistence.
ReplyDeleteIn most cases the punishment is an overkill, it rarely fits the offence. More like killing an ant with a sledge hammer. This is assault and battery occasioning grievous bodily harm.
I'll hazard a guess that you felt "jungle justice" is a more befitting term because he acted like an animal? As gruesome, barbaric and subhuman as this is, it isn't jungle justice.
Miyake or whatever u call itself,better mind ur bizz.You must be a woman beater dats why uve been tearing ur pant over this issue. Better stop beating ur gf/wife/mother. You'll just come under ppl's comment saying trash. Ewu Mpama.
ReplyDeleteGod save u say my ID no gree work
*Anonymous Bv who loves d queen and boss of SDK blog. #pepperthemwiththetruth
Miyake or whatever u call urself,better mind ur biz.You must be a woman beater dats why uve been tearing ur pant over this issue. Better stop beating ur gf/wife/mother. You'll just come under ppl's comment saying trash. Ewu Mpama.
ReplyDeleteGod save u say my ID no gree work
*Anonymous Bv who loves d queen and boss of SDK blog. #pepperthemwiththetruth
Oh my God.
ReplyDeleteAnon:12:50...U sound stupid..u had to look at their pictures closely to know which of dem is sad and which is fulfilled abi? So u can now detect how people got married by mere looking at their pivtures?
ReplyDeleteOde..So when a man who was not trained and raised well by his mother and starts hitting his wife,u will blame it on being forced into marriage...like it's supposed to be a good reason to hit a woman..
Ur type is will blame a rape victim for being raped..U have mental issues..Get help fast..
So u haven't seen a violent man who keeps beating up his wives and re marrying several times? U mean all those women he married with clear eyes got pregnant for him and tied him down? An abusive man cannot fall in love again?
Tueh!!
Caution ko, caution ni! Yimu @Ambience! Don't yarabas cuss out eebohs too daily on this blog ne? Why people like you, don mayor, bed and roses and co take it to heart is what I don't understand till date bikonu. Abeg go sleep!
ReplyDelete@makason...U always reason through ur anus..An abusive man cannot fall in genuine love again? So when a abusive man hits his wife,he never loved her? All those boyfriend that beats their girlfriends and follow them around they don't love them? U all stupid girls on dis blog don't know d meaning of love..U all need brain reset.
ReplyDeleteDaz how most of u rush in to marry divorcees thinking he loves u more than his ex wife who he was beating..and believing he will never hit u...but at d end of d day ur stories will end like dat of Tonto dike.
An abusive man is an abusive man..not loving ur wife enough is not a reason to hit her..
Violence everywhere!!!
ReplyDeleteSmh
Please mothers raise your son's right! The past generation no try for boys head @ all! Ogini?
Also curb violence in your own way people! Some of you flog your kids red and blue; they (boys and girls) end up seeing it as the only corrective measure when you mess up!
Go to secondary schools too; talk to senior the next thing you know is slap (am I your mate?)!
All these violence is what is materialising in homes!
I have also said a correctional home should be set up for these animals! Once u try it; they bundle you there (torture for you from hefty men)
Women parking out isn't sorting anything o! Na that her observer friend go still pack in last last as the endurer and understander in chief of the universe that she is! Women are that foolish!
Don't even know what to say again! Aunty sorry u hear? Epele.
May God punish that bastard!
Lol.. I got your greasy ass @ Linda
ReplyDeleteOoh.. Im the boss, I set pace.
Anon 12;55..an abusive man can still hit his wife even if he loves her more than his life..Being violent is in them like peak milk...any woman dat ends up his wife will still get it hot even if u are Agbani darego.
ReplyDeleteSo spare me dat shitty talk dat he never loved her.
I was match made with my husband by my aunt..it wasn't love at d initial stage..he told me his feelings and I told him mine..we got married anyway..we have four kids and it's been 13 amazing years...We don't have dat spark I see in marriages..but we are doing fine we are determined to stay together forever..He has never for one day hit me or insulted me..he was raised well by his mama..
So why is my hubby not beating me too? It doesn't take love to keep a marriage..a bad man is a bad man while a good man is a good man.
Miyake u dey mind d blockhead blogger n her foolish bvs.Why d woman no take close up pix of her injuries or are injuries not clearer close-up?
ReplyDeleteSdk blog-a blog for fools by a fool
Miyake, you're an evil soul.and it.shows..and yes, you're a man. And she's right, mean spirited men like these are weaklings, they prey on the naive and the weak. Their inferiority complex won't let them be happy. They want to.control another human being in all totality but you see, a woman has to learn not to take it.
ReplyDeleteThat is why this idiot has been everywhere begging but thank God she is wise yo stay away from him
P.s - na those 'angels' dem de beat pass, cos they are the ones who take it, and cove it with prayers and fasting for him to change
Don iwo lo raye awon olofo ifo ti aiye won tin run bi motor ti container ja bo le lati ori bridge.Nothing in that picture proves any thing,y she no look camera to show her 'pummeled' face or is d idea not to prove d hubby na beast?
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't have to get to that cos someone will die. Either he will kill you or you will him. In fact out of ego, he will make sure he disfigures you...so best thing is to run into a room you can lock and stay there, then when everything is calm, you move out. No waiting, no reconciliation, no more marriage.
ReplyDeleteThat is why a woman should have her own money, no matter how little it is compared to the man's ( so she can leave a bad situation first before talk too plenty)
Oh by the way, I would totally arrange for some good beating for him, after I have left. But in that heat of the moment, nope, BaD idea to stand and fight!
See your mouth as Lord and Master. If Abraham behaved like a fool, would Sarah have called him Lord and Master? Anyway, stupid is as stupid does
ReplyDeleteYou nasty troll!!
..as useless as all they females in your family..
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you were born through inbreeding
@ don mayor you are a big fool and to even think you are a man talking like a foolish woman.
ReplyDeleteFunny enough and contrary to your stupidity up there, she had left quietly. Moved on, quietly. It was the idiot man that sent her a message that began this her rant.
ReplyDeleteSo she's a survivor, no more a victim!!
smfh head...African women Don suffer...You go to work..and then raise the kids all by yourself. ..What is the man's job?
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:06 - gbam!!!
ReplyDeleteUtomi Yoruba lol, please send your female children to school so they don't end up depending on men and making a fool out of themselves on blogs biko you hear.
ReplyDeleteMost Nigerian men have always been like this..Our parents were afraid to speak then..but thanks to social media..not anymore...
ReplyDeleteJust cos our parents were quiet back in the day's doesn't mean they were not beaten...Young women ain't afraid anymore..They are beginning to careless about what society will say...InfacT women tHose day's were beaten more
ReplyDeleteLook at the nonsense small boy she went to go marry sef.imagine marriage of just last year and we are still in early 2017 and he is already beating her. What will now be her fate 3 years from now. I hope she leaves that marriage now before it is too late. That picture is just so bad! See blood! Gosh!
ReplyDeleteSo chikito u truly believe yourself to be one of the smart tough women?😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteOverfunny dey worry u
I'm 26, just got out of my first marriage because of constant arguing, fights and violence, yes my ex husband hit me. I was ready to forgive him and resolve things but instead he planned with his family and proceeded to play victim. There was no remorse. I was vulnerable to being abused again. Hurts but I know that moving on is the best thing to do now. 70% of our 2 year marriage was all fights. I'm not worried about moving on because I'm still young beautiful and without a child(thank God) ... For my other sisters who ur men have not come, take ur time. The goal is not just to marry but marry well.
ReplyDeleteMay we never encounter men like this.
ReplyDeleteNot everyone is a weakling. Most Nigerian women are because the society pushes them back into the arms of the same man that hurt that, most women are not able to stand by themselves and have no choice than to manage the abuse. In the western world, this wouldn't be the case because as soon as this issue is happening, the man is going to jail straight
ReplyDeleteThere has always been DV in Nigerian marriages. Only reason why we are reading a lot of it now is because of social media
ReplyDeleteSo are the modern men, complete barbaric woman beating fools who think a woman should spit their breadwinner role with them. Any man who cannot deal with a modern sophisticated exposed woman should go to the village and marry or better still don't marry at all
ReplyDeleteDo u know how many weddings that were posted on BellaNaija that have scattered ? So many! Marriages don't last these days again. Not because there is no Godliness in the marriage but the fundamentals of core human values are not imbibed. I pity for the pple who still think that it takes a woman to keep a home! Hell no! It takes two married mature pple to keep a marriage and a home
ReplyDeleteSometimes it's hard for victims to leave abuse. Prior to marrying my husband, we fought so many times and he threw me on the floor and I bled. But he never hit me. Yes just throwing me and dragging me on the floor was enough violence. I should have walked away. But I didn't! I married him. Less than 3 years into the marriage, he hit me. We have separated and are getting a divorce. My msg to ladies, it's hard to leave abuse but pls do before it is too late. If this girl had left earlier she wouldn't have had a child for him and she would have been able to easily move on and not have even married him.
ReplyDeleteMiyake you even get papa?
ReplyDeleteAre you not a bastard. Oops I meant fatherless. Go look for your papa
How does that relate to this topic? He got what was coming to him for stealing
ReplyDeleteDividend of one year marriage? She's not eligible for alimony or anything. All he owes her is child support
ReplyDeleteAsk those who know me, I haven't had any reason to beat any woman in my life and I will never be caught doing that.
ReplyDeleteIm a complete gentleman, I respect all women in my life and I wouldn't stand seeing them treated unfairly but I expect them to be humble and know how to listen and respond to issues of life.
Fuck all of you dsughter of anger, im not here to please anyone of you, most of uou got nothing to offer other than your pussy, no single grain of sense.
I wonder how people get married to someone they don't love
ReplyDeleteHi Stella. U normally do your research but in this case you didn't. The man started talking online first, shading his ex wife. Someone commented on his page about domestic violence...he felt guilty, so he screenshoted the post, sent it to his ex wife via DM and asked if she wrote the domestic violence comment with anon id, he went on to say the post he put up wasn't about her. So she replied him and spoke up. Go to bellanaija and you will find the pics from his post, that of his DM and her entire response to him.
ReplyDeleteIf I haven't read bellanaija's version I will still be very confused because you didn't show the part that she continued and stated that his friends tried to stop him from beating her up but he was throwing blows at them. And plus that he started the social media sympathy first to make her look bad. She was upset and had to defend herself. There are so much missing links in your post. Please redo your post, a new post should help correct this because some of your readers already read the old one and have taken a wrong impression of the situation.
Pls do this so that some of your readers stop shaming women and telling them to stop talking. They need to talk and they need to defend themselves. She left his house quietly four months ago according to BN post. It is because she refused to go back to him....he started painting her bad on social media. You need to let all your readers know this.
Women when they are in love don't reason, they r sentimental...and a lot are still in this kind of situation...they need understanding and support to get out before they are killed. Even some women here that are judging will have been in love and done stupid and naive things yet they are here talking like they are untouchable and not above falling or mistakes.
Thanks Stella for using your platform to bring to light such matter. I have never been in such situation. And I just read and pray for myself and the victims and I also become more vigilant because everything I read. It happens to the best of us. Most never expect it...some have even bragged such can never happen to them, they have bragged about what they will do or not do to stop their abuser yet they end up in such situation. May God continue to give us the instincts to reorder our steps. I pray the abusers get help and grow positively as a person and also may the victims get help, heal and grow as a person.
First time commenting here. Have a nice day.
@nina Beyoncé hand for you 😂, such savagery
ReplyDeleteWhere's Kidjo? My blog enemy and friend..... nor insult my parents again ooo. Bitch!
ReplyDeleteI'm here,Where I take insult your parents o. Abeg tell me because I know I press phone in my dream😲😲😲
DeleteTo me any man that beat a woman is a nonentity......
ReplyDeleteAlthough I know some women can abuse and make their husband loose his mind. But self control should be the watchword........
Is that why you are shouting???
ReplyDeleteEven d pussy dey have to offer na infected pussy olosho sdk bastard bvs
ReplyDeleteAnd you decided to write without punctuations, and shouting as well.
ReplyDeleteAnd you decided to write without punctuations, and shouting as well done.
ReplyDeleteNina, please add Miyake to the mix. They both need Jesus Christ like crazy. Receive Him now. Amen!
ReplyDeleteYes oooo!...the psychiatric evaluation is very important.
ReplyDeleteI won't be surprised if this self acclaimed boss of the blog is always beaten by her hubby ..but she will come here and be painting a perfect picture and her gullible followers will keep licking her ass ..#smellos #growup #retardedfool
ReplyDeleteYou think you're fighting with a man at that point. No you're fighting with a beast. How do you fight back a beast May you never experience it.
ReplyDeleteChoi. JZ took kicks, blows and slaps from Solange. That is also domestic violence and she got away with it.
ReplyDeleteYes the woman or any woman made to feel uncomfortable in a house or any address should pack up & go!!!
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS THE 1ST PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE that an enemy entity or malicious forces will use against u. Domestic violence is a CONTACT CRIME !!!
Contact crime is a crime of opportunity whereby a victim or the intended victim will be near or physical close to somone or something who will harm them. Nigerians have this way of life of mocking people because of their living situation. You just can not live alone or be independent as a girl or woman. To most people that's unacceptable or unimaginable.
Lesson: you don't go near or to bring near a person or people or something that will harm you in living space, or physical proximity. People learn to value the peace of mind, security & safety in the home or dwelling place. Move out, PACK & GO!!! If your physical contact with anything or anyone or any place is threatening or harmful.
This miyake is just a very big fool. A woman gave birth to this one so o, choi.
ReplyDeleteDey spread like bread for water o till you jam who go beat crase comot for your eye, arindin
If u hit a woman and parts of her body got swollen or something, I will still call it mild but how can u pounce on a fellow human like a lion so much that all one can is blood blood blood everywhere?!
ReplyDeleteA woman for that matter!!!
Who bore your child after caRrying him for nine months?!
No u are not human! You are an animal and shuld be treated as one!
Im so pained!
No u bleedy poverty stricken wimp. U r not a gentleman...cuz a real man chooses his words carefully and he laces them with politeness,dignity and class...U on the other hand,r uncouth, crass n foul mouthed. U know nothing about being a gentleman...u r just a sperm leak...product late night robbery and prostitution,so we understand why it Is difficult for u to understand civility btw humans. Empathy Is not among the qualities of a psycho...u r therefore forgiven dear
ReplyDeleteMiyake...did ur mother tell u how u were conceived? pls allow me...U r a product of vicious,brutal, agonising rape. I'm sorry u had to find out like this. Pls anyone that finds him,should give him a hug...life is difficult for the rejected retards
ReplyDeleteAnd me I can't leave my husband because he beats and fucks me while at it . Smh for me.
ReplyDeleteQueen, you are a complete fool..na yoruba go kill you and your unborn generation.Silly illiterate, always attacking yorubas, go to hell and rot there.
ReplyDeleteSeriously your d right about the pepper spray
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 15:30 DM has said d truth. It was minimal den. Now its very common. Pple marry for money, fame etc D result of these reasons are what u see in dis write up. Singles shine ur eyes and draw close to God. Dnt force urself on a man, never do that. Dnt use pregnancy to trap him, dnt stay idle, dnt seduce him or snatch him away from another. If u do u ar digging ur own grave.
ReplyDeleteSo becos dey ar calculating ur age u will open ur eyes and enter fire. Uts a waaa for u pple ooo. I jst cant believe ur comments. Okay now why havent u 2 gotten married despite d age calculation. Pls lets face reality jor
ReplyDeleteBut who took the pictures while she was in pains (just asking). DV happens becos most women are not empowered. Patents train your girl child and empower them to be independent so when they come in contact with a monster during courtship, they can take a walk without compromising.
ReplyDelete