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Tuesday, 21 March 2017

You Need To Read This..

This is a must read.....This article says you should stop treating your kids as if they are entitled to anything!...WOW!





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    1. I never born so I'm not understanding

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    2. My comment disappeared, sad. I will post again.

      Someone posted on SP this morning asking which is better, caprisone or ribena for her one year old kid?

      The answer is NONE! Let's stop loading these kids' system with junks, its not healthy for their organs, cancer is real.

      NATURAL FRUIT JUICE or WATER is the best for the child you truly love. It may be more expensive(not all the time) or time taking, but still the best. I know a big school that placed a ban on all forms of drinks except natural fruit juice and water. So who are you forming for?

      You can juice pineapple, water melon, zobo(make it very light for kids), orange etc and their organs will thank you for it, plus they will rarely fall sick.

      Since the day the owner of my kids' creche showed me what she saw in a kid's drink(i don't want to mention name), I stopped all forms of drinks for them, (at least for now). Being a GOOD mom is not easy but it is worth it.

      #healthiswealth





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    3. I watched married to medicine in Sunday, one of d medical Dr was celebrating her20th anniversary while her other colleague was having serious issh with her marriage of 14yrs,the celebrate asked her friend "do u c urself with him till ur 20th anniversary "she cldnt Ans cos d marriage was so rocky, she said if she mks it past this yr, then is a miracle, the woman then told her subtly, u r d problem in d marriage, u give ur job 90% and give ur hubby 10%,am equally a Dr and I know how tasking our job is, Ofcos she has been told many times she works too hard and shd slow down, then she explained, she uses work to escape d emptiness at home, she had breast cancer and was told she can't have children ever, she also refused adopting.... She confessed that at work she fills up d emptiness that's y she doesn't want to b home and work extra HR. D Dr den told her(i learnt too) THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MARRIAGE IS UR HUSBAND, NOT UR JOB NOT MY KIDS, NOT MY WEALTH BUT MY HUSBAND! She then said, we balance our home even with 2boys I try but my husband takes d crown 1st ,we have been tru alot but I keep in mind, without my husband I won't have kids to cater for to b called mum to have a job I look forward to, so he is my 1st....na so the Dr begin cry o! Anyways eventually she took d advice and started making few adjustments. The show is wonderful except for Dr Heavenly, she is trouble

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    4. I watched married to medicine on Sunday, one of d medical Dr was celebrating her20th anniversary while her other colleague was having serious issh with her marriage of 14yrs,the celebrate asked her friend "do u c urself with him till ur 20th anniversary "she cldnt Ans cos d marriage was so rocky, she said if she mks it past this yr, then is a miracle, the woman then told her subtly, u r d problem in d marriage, u give ur job 90% and give ur hubby 10%,am equally a Dr and I know how tasking our job is, Ofcos she has been told many times she works too hard and shd slow down, then she explained, she uses work to escape d emptiness at home, she had breast cancer and was told she can't have children ever, she also refused adopting.... She confessed that at work she fills up d emptiness that's y she doesn't want to b home and work extra HR. D Dr den told her(i learnt too) THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MARRIAGE IS UR HUSBAND vis vise , NOT UR JOB NOT MY KIDS, NOT MY WEALTH BUT MY HUSBAND(or wife) ! She then said, we balance our home even with 2boys I try but my husband takes d crown 1st ,we have been tru alot but I keep in mind, without my husband I won't have kids to cater for to b called mum to have a job I look forward to, so he is my 1st....na so the Dr begin cry o! Anyways eventually she took d advice and started making few adjustments. The show is wonderful except for Dr Heavenly, she is trouble

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    5. This your story no be am. Dr.Jackie wanted to adopt buy her husband refused and moreover her husband has a child. You think it is easy to be a two times cancer survivor that will never have children of her own. Everyone's life is different you can't use yourself as an example for someone in that situation when you were able to have children. No their marriage didn't get better, did you not watch the reunion. Maybe next season things might change for them.

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    6. Really @15.52. Like I said I watched in Sunday never followed it b4.oh nigga has a kid already na WA o, I saw her pulling all d strings to Mk it work o. Anyways thanks will watch out for d nxt season, it was interesting.

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    7. Really @15.52. Like I said I watched in Sunday never followed it b4.oh nigga has a kid already na WA o, I saw her pulling all d strings to Mk it work o. Anyways thanks will watch out for d nxt season, it was interesting.

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    8. Dr jackies husband should let her adopt a baby already! I feel he is being selfish .,. #marriedtomedicine

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    9. Yes, Dr jackie's hubby is being selfish. He has a child already and since he's not agreeing to an adoption, Dr Jackie has dedicated her life to caring for mothers and newborns in the hospital, she said she doesn't find fulfillment going into an empty house, she's getting her fulfillment from work - saving babies.

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  2. I really didn't see any point in this at all

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    1. What has white berry done to warrant cursing her out oga abi madam holier than thou?

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  3. Agreed. Raise a kid well so that he will not become like wife beaters them them

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    1. My kids are my greatest achievment in life. I don't know what this old man is saying. God is indeed great, I was used to create life, I don't think anything is more important, just looking at them doing silly things and thinking they are wise makes my day. My daughter who is one plus loves going to the bedside fridge and opening the door but anytime I catch her there she will start pretending she's only closing the fridge like a good girl, that act alone leaves me in stitches, like I don't know she's the one that opened it. Kids bring joy mehn

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    2. My dear yori yori.. With respect and calmness,

      You dont raise a child.. U nurture a chile or train up a child. Kidz r not animals.

      Thanks for ur understanding.


      My point... Sometimes, its very important we stop some tinz. Its nt necessary u give kids all they want n aside, we need not allow the so call world of globalization kill us all.


      Though, am not married yet but with the little experience I had growing up from a polygamus home.



      Mc pinky

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  4. The kids are important in a home,a home where there is no kids its never a complete home.And the kids in the home are entitled to nearly everything because they are the reasons for the day to day struggles.

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    1. Low punch. God hear my supplication.

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    2. Go nd read again nd stop spewing trash

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    3. U must be a house wife

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    4. what kids need are love, care, security, sense of belonging, & protection. They are important in a home, true but they are not the most important. The moment they feel they are the most important, they get manipulative. Marriage was first of all for companionship before children so @ Istanbul please stop making families without children feel imcomplete cos kids are just the icing on the cake. If you keep up with this line of thought, your kids will keep arm twisting you to get what they want.

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    5. Tayan Taylor... Do you have to be so bitter? Life is easy abeg.

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  5. His write up is very true. The rate at which children these days feel entitled is alarming.

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    1. Im telling you, some are are ready to throw the biggest tantrum if u don't give them what dey want.

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  6. He is correct
    Children feel entitled to lots of things, that is why see siblings fighting over their parents properties. And most kids will say I am here because my parents did not give me things that is mine

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  7. Train up a child in the way he should go & when he is old he will not depart from it

    Thank you

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  8. Discipline your kids when they need to be disciplined.

    Reward them when they deserve to be rewarded

    Most especially raise them to be good children who are God fearing, compassionate towards others as well as hardworking.

    It all starts with your attitude. How you behave. Because they learn from you! They always want to emulate what you do.
    Charity begins at home.

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  9. Daddy gets back from a long trip

    Kids are happy and all over him. Mummy is too and gives him a hug and kisses.she she helps unpack his bags.


    Hubby is cutting eye and whispering into her ears "babe how far,i miss u o"

    Mummy keeps her calm despite being turned on(bcx of kids)

    Kids continue jumping up and down on daddy.

    Nightfall and kids dont want to get into their room.

    Mummy and daddy are on heat but no chance

    Kids wants everubo to spend the night together

    Mummy subtly asks them to get into their room. They refused.


    Now mummy gets mad but still tries to play and convince them to go to their room but they remain adamant.



    Mummy gets really mad(as konji is killing her) and orders them to their room and kids are angry at her.

    was mummy selfish????

    Because this happened in my home last week.

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    1. Ahahaha...

      My dear, my story all the time. Very true. Rotfl...

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    2. Lol....mummy is not selfish. The kids are d selfish ones. Hehehehehe

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    3. Awwwwwwwnnnnnnn😍😍😍😍

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    4. no dear mum is not selfish. The children dont just realize that mum has need for alone time with daddy. as long as you make it a habit of them leaving daddy alone for mum after playing a while with him, they will get used to it. good luck!

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    5. When your kids don't know when you are serious over an issue; you are in trouble.

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    6. Lol, thanks dear I can't stop laughing

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  10. I agree with him people always see kids as the main reason for marriage which is wrong.


    Long live SDK

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  11. #As you breathe right now, another person takes his last. We suggest you to stop complaining, and learn to live your life with what you have*

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  12. My eyes ooo

    Amawbia ugbo ogiriga

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  13. That's why we have alot of irresponsible adult out dia cos they are taught self entitlement from home .

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  14. That's why we have alot of irresponsible adult out dia cos they are taught self entitlement from home .

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  15. I wish my dad will read this and stop telling my siblings and I that it's because of us he has not sent mum packing. I wish my brother will read this and realise that he needs to stop fighting over wealth. I WILL GO AND TELL THEM.

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    1. God will surely restore His Glory in your home IJN, Amen.

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    2. God will surely restore His Glory in your home IJN, Amen.

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  16. I think there should be a balance. They are entitled to basic things like clothing,shelter,food and education. You can be rationing their luxury as you deem fit. Giving them luxury but you give it if you have it and make them understand it requires extra hard work.

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  17. I love this writeup. The reason why many marriages fail today is that men and especially women focus more on their children rather than their spouse, they hold the family together, the children exist because of them and should be there for each other so that they children can have a good home. The truth is that if you marry because of children or make children the most important thing in your family, you get it wrong and that is why many children have failed in the society. Marry because of companionship from which children will learn to be happy in their own home.

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  18. Yep! This has always been my viewpoint. I remembered how I used to get angry when watching hollywood movies then and seeing the death of a child or something else tear up a couple, what the heck!
    The fact that you choose someone to spend your life with is worth a whole lot. Now in the course of your companionship, you might be blessed to have children and or wealth OR not but this should only be secondary to your mate. It is because the concept of marriage has changed -as people marry for children, wealth, status, etc - that's why other things become more important than they should be.
    Children are wonderful but they are the fruits of the marriage and not the tree and while they deserve the best, our spouses deserve the very best.
    I, Pure Nigerian, agree with this post as this is how I intend to carry on once married.

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