Dear Stella, I have a question for BVs...
For the ladies:
Your boyfriend moved out of the old flat you
used to share and only told you he was getting a new place.
You tried to get involved as per normal but he refused to share
any concrete details with you.
The communication between the both of you had been limited for a period of time and he seemed distant. Several weeks later with no signs of improvement, you decide to pay him a visit but he constantly postpones your visit without tangible reasons. You
get frustrated and call things off with him.
After several weeks he tries to patch things up with you, until you find out that the new house had been paid for by another woman top to bottom.
You guys have been dating for more than 6 years and you don't see yourself marrying any other person but him. What do you do?
Ask him to refund the lady?
Find a new place?
What are the possible explanations that can excuse this mister from this behaviour?
PS: Boyfriend has cheated a number of times.