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Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Cheating...Here We Go Again!

Time for our favourite Couch session....#Couchietime





I have some questions to ask you...Well actually someone sent them in to be asked and I thought it made sense...

-Are you Cheating on your spouse right now?
-Why are you cheating
-Have you ever cheated in the past?Why?

-Did you get caught or you gave it up?
-Was there a price you  paid if you were caught?

-Did being caught end your Marriage or relationship?

-Do you/did you regret ever cheating?

-Would you do it again?
You are not under any Obligation to answer these questions,especially if you have to answer yes to all or one but guilty conscience cannot let you proceed...LOL


227 comments:

  1. I can't even cheat in a relationship not to talk of marriage.

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    1. I have never cheated in my 8years of marriage and will never cheat by God's special grace.

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    2. Cheating is a sweet thing if you know your game.the bad thing is that once you start as a married woman stopping becomes difficult, while sampling of dicks become the order of the day.try cheating today and you will see you will stop bothering what your husband does outside

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    3. I'm not married but I'm a one man woman kinda girl (or used to be)till my mind got messed up buy yoruba and edo demons...I can't even stay with a guy for long ,I just get tired and move on.i hope I change someday

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    4. -Emotional cheating presently,yes
      -Emotional /sexual abandonment. He's there physically but someone else got his heart. Only comes home to sleep.
      -yes I have, because his cheating made me feel less than a woman, I felt ugly, self esteem plumetted,reconnected with this old friend on fb,he made me realise I was still a desirable woman,just not to my hubby,the rest is history.
      -yes I got caught,hubby retrieved a message I thought I deleted, all he'll broke loose(imagine o from chairman CEO of cheating), sent me out of our room to the guest room, threatened it was over(I was, still is,financially dependent on him). I had to start begging. He later calmed after I had promised it won't happen again.*yimu* I lost a very loving guy then, still miss him but hubby was monitoring so I couldn't continue with him. But he continues with his own still.
      - no, marriage continued, though not my idea of what I want my marriage should be,but then, he pays the bills and is not the violent type. He's nice actualy,just a bloody cheat!
      -no I never regretted cheating cos it made me feel exhilarated to pay him back in his own coin.there was this peace within, I wasn't heartbroken from monitoring his trysts,didn't even bother monitoring again.
      - I'd do it again if I came across a soulmate that would fit into my plans.would just be more careful. And I'm building myself now financially I case I get caught. The kids are getting older, they'd cope if we were to split.
      Hope I was able to answer your questions correctly. Oya include me for give away lol.

      SD





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    5. Cheat? Hehehehehehe. My love over to u. Are we cheating? We are married to separate ppl who have hurt us before and somehow we found each other and today we can't stop kissing each other. Is that cheating? ***in falz voice***

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    6. I have never and will never cheat on my hubby. It is against the will of God, my place forbids it and me as a person I can't do it. I am loyal to a fault.

      Let me read comments of those that did though.

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    7. @SD.... Your head is there





      @Galore

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    8. But u are a cheap ashana naa, dirty pig

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    9. Are you Cheating on your spouse right now? Yes, emotionally cheating on him with my ex bf whom I dated for 6 years.
      -Why are you cheating? Bcos my hubby is not affectionate. I think we both got married for the wrong reasons- he did probably bcos his friends were married and granted a US visa. I did bcos I was happy at the time and also bcos I wanted to be supportive when I discovered he had HepB virus
      -Have you ever cheated in the past?Why? Never ever. Besides my marriage is barely 2 years and TTCing.

      -Did you get caught or you gave it up? Not yet. I feel like blurring it out to him bcos I feel unloved in this marriage. I do my best but not reciprocated
      -Was there a price you paid if you were caught? Not yet. My marriage is on the line bcos the ex wants me back and to relocate to the U.K. Where he is based.

      -Did being caught end your Marriage or relationship? N/A

      -Do you/did you regret ever cheating? I'm enjoying the trill. I love my husband and want this marriage to work but he's lukewarm about it. I also really truly love my ex.

      -Would you do it again? Let's see how it goes.

      I need constructive advice on what to do.

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    10. Someone else cheating made you feel ugly and less of yourself??? Chai.

      Fireandice

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  2. I will just read comments on this

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    1. Marriage is very different from dating
      I'm a woman and I do cheat on my spouse, my husband cheats on me too we have been together for 15 years we met in secondary school and married.

      I love my husband but we do constantly get bored with each other.

      Monogamy isn't realistic for everybody but respect and thoughtfulness is essential in marriage.

      It isn't an open marriage per we but we do understand we r human and speaking for myself I do spoil my body once in a while and my body thanks me for it.

      I would never leave my husband he's the perfect man for me and he can never leave me.

      So ye to us cheating is very subjective and monogamy isn't realistic

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    2. Wow @kerebaby I wish my husband was like your my he cheats and cheats he's a nice man ooo bt he bellitles and calls me names.me if I find another I would definitely leave him because I can't cheat sha

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    3. @kperesbaby, lemme spoil ur body with in unmeasurable pleasure!!!

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  3. Good afternoon house , cheating for is no but will be reading comments

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    1. I can't even cheat in a relationship.

      There is always an exit door.

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    2. I am married cheated In the past with the guy who is also married and fell so deeply in love with him. Me and hubby have not had sex for a year and the guy I cheated with is in a different town he is the only one I want we talk on a daily basis. His marriage is over and mine is at the veg of been over too. My hubby is a bad cheat we just live under the same roof but got nothing in common anymore. I don't like cheating that is why I have stayed for a year without sex until I see the guy I really like. Marriage is so complicated. Been married for 10years am just so confused. I really don't think the guy I cheated with is worth it too even thou I love him a lot, I know he is f**king cheat himself. I think I will just look for a very pretty woman and just do women.

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  4. hmmmmmmmm let me wait for una comments.

    Drinking another cup of tea no buscuit this time

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  5. I'm not cheating on him.
    But I'm definitely not putting all my eggs in one basket.
    Because Oge adiro.

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  6. I'm very committed when it comes to dating issues. If I catch you cheating,Then I'm gone because I don't believe in second chance.

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    1. How will u believe when u dey fly for night.

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  7. Okay I think Queen and Boss will do justice to this topic

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    1. I don't cheat when I'm in a relationship.Never have.I believe in faithfulness.If I catch you cheating, I'm gone.Can't stand cheats.

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  8. Stil wonder what would make me cheat on my husband.Every partner cheats in a relationship(singles) cos they are free to do so.Why should a woman who aint sure about a man put all her eggs in one basket?Never did that jare.

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  9. The thing is, I dont put my eggs in one basket

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  10. 1. No
    2. Check 1πŸ‘†
    3. If flirting is cheating then I cheated. Just wanted to know what it feels like.
    4. Catch me ke. E mi ajigijaga.. Life wire.. Impossicant
    5. Check number 4πŸ‘†
    6. Check number 4πŸ‘†
    7. Regret bawo? Shebi it was for fun ni? Kosi regret ni dictionary mi
    8. No

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  11. Have not seen the right girl yet.. Most easy girls i come across are not up to my wife's standard. cant settle for less. secondly cant pay a dime for what i get free of charge at home

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    1. Nice.
      But Errmm....they say variety is the....OK keep it up.
      Bye.

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    2. I love your stingy arse alreadyπŸ‘ŒπŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Why pay for what u have FOC at home clean and healthy on top and opt for a public toilet you don't even know the last person that used.

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    3. Rose flower oshi, r u trying to encourage him to cheat on his wife? Variety my ass..ndi otu ndi side chickens..pls Mr kip it up..no need to lose something valuable over disease infested trash

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    4. Maybe u should consider a married woman then.

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    5. At oge, its like when u were single u were an embodiment of diseases n also a trashy hoe..

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  12. The only advantage in cheating.....you don't totally breakdown when one of your partner starts misbehaving, asides that who e epp?.

    If you are sexually committed to diff partners.....You have to deliver when duty calls, doesn't make sense ...so who is deceiving who?

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  13. Lol @ guilty conscience cannot let you proceed.

    Cheating connotes diff things to diff people.
    * If I'm not married to him I don't think it can be termed cheating acc to Reno.
    *i don't like to put all my eggs in one basket to avoid crack or breakage. Putting all your eggs in one basket who did it help abeg? So it is not cheating.
    Unless of course you are talking to the married peeps. As for me I have never cheated, putting into consideration what the word means in my dictionary. Lmao.

    *Keeping a straight face while walkingπŸ‘£πŸ‘£ out of post. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

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    1. Smart girl! U cant be cheating on a boyfren na.
      U are 100% single until u married

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  14. Yeah, I've cheated in my relationships, cos I don't put all my eggs in one basket and as a lady I'm actually scared of commitment, so I try to be as independent as possible... I've never been caught before, and until I get married....that's the way its gonna be.

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  15. Yea i cheated a couple of times, the last time i cheated it felt really amazing coz nigga knew how to knack "akpako" wella lol, I dint even feel the guilt that comes with cheating, it felt so real and normal.
    i cheated bcoz i got cheated on once. i felt i needed to feel the satisfaction that comes with cheating and i did and i enjoyed it and it ended up intoxicating me. but trust me when i say its nothing compared to the feeling you feel when you are faithful to one man and he also is faithful to you. I have never been caught i only confess whenever i start to feel guilt but thats always months or weeks after the "action"
    Cheating has never cost me my relationship bcoz i always end up with good guys who even tho they know am crazy still fall madly in love with me. I however admit to taking advantage of their love for me, which is why i keep messing up sometimes. But now am a work in progress and i will get there, thats why i always say i aint mature enough for marraige. Yhoo!!! I dint forget to go anonymous so before you all judginas come for my neck by calling me an ashawo i am steffy and i like keeping it real.
    #momentsoftruth

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    1. I almost tied that's why you are single, but thank goodness you admitted to being a work in progress

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    2. Hahahahahahah ideato trust me when i say am single bcoz i choose to to be. The thing is i always end up with good guys and that makes it alot more difficult to walk away with no guilt.





      *hangs leg on the wall*

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  16. Lol.guilty conscience. Waiting for comments.

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    1. If a man cheat with another man, is that cheating?

      And also if a married woman cheats with another woman, is that cheating?


      I think cheating is, when a married man, cheats with another woman aside his wife and also when a married woman cheats with another man aside her husband





      @Galore

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  17. I'm currently not cheating, I've never cheated and my Ex who happens to be a BV cheated so we broke up instantly

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    1. Your Ex is a Bv no wonder you are tamed Hhehehehehehe

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    2. My EX doesn't even know I comment, @tayan Taylor. I always form busy.

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    3. Your Ex is a BV??
      Hope you didn't meet him here

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  18. I cheated on my ex because d guy i was cheating on him wit has a big rod and was good in bed...one day my ex snooped on my phone and find out i saved his number "world best"

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    1. I can understand that world best
      Dick digging nd 😁😁😁😁😁😁

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    2. Are you married now? Who cheating help?

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Baddo!

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    4. Hahahahahah his dick game was tight. Damn how can a grown up ass man not know how to fuck sef? Mtcheeew.






      *hangs leg on the wall*

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  19. I think hummmmmm!

    Let me read comments.

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  20. For all have cheated, cheating and will cheat as life itself is a cheater.
    Who knows where money dey live?

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  21. I've never cheated... too stressful

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    1. To stressful my dear. You'll start soon brain calculation all the time for nothing

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    2. Brain calculation for real. ..I no fit abeg. Too stressful jare

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  22. Plenty questions...Make I read comments abeg.

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  23. Yes stells, i've cheated b4 n am still cheating now...
    Why? Kos am not married
    Am in a relationship.
    My bf called my parents that he'll be coming for the real deal but at d end he didnt come and came up with an excuse that he's been busy with work blah blah blah....
    He's stood us up for 3 or more times.
    Sometimes wen we argue and i tell him my mind, he'll tell me "i donrlt think u ready to get married"πŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    Infact i dont think am in a rel. Am still single until i pack go my husband (not horseband) house😌😌

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  24. I have cheated on my bf b4. Caused by long distance I broke up with him later and continued with d person I cheated with.

    I do not regret my actions but I won't do that next time. I'll rather go ahead and break up first before starting something with someone else.

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    1. In a long distance relationship with no serious commitment, my dear feel free to cheat.

      That isn't called cheating, it is your right not to stay in bondage

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  25. I cheated twice I still regret it till date, If I could keep a relationship for 5yrs, i wonder why I cheated, I regretted the first so much, I gave in to the second cos I was really broke, and dude sensed I was just there for the money, and insist on eating the cookie, so...

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  26. Abeg I dey wait for comment.

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  27. Hummmmm comments section gonna be lit Asf

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  28. coolio mama patience sister23 May 2017 at 13:39

    Na wah o. If cheating means only to have sex outside your relationship, then I have never cheated, I pray I will never cheat, and I don't have any intention of cheating. But if the cheating means having a confidante who is of the opposite sex asides my spouse, then I declare again that I haven't cheated, I pray I will not cheat and right now, I am craving the indulgence of that, in order to discuss aBout and gain advice about the short comings of my relationship

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  29. I go sleep here today...Grabs plenty roasted corn and pear with a giant bottle of veeeeeeeeeery chilled coke...

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    1. Nwanyi oma biko shift for me abeg Lolzz

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  30. I have cheated. And I regret it. That was before we got married. I was pregnant for him and he abandoned me and was busy shagging another gurl. I just fell into temptation wit a guy. I regret it. After we reconciled and got married, I've been hundred percent faithful to him and i've vowed never to do it again. Dear BVS, I need your honest opinions, do you think I may do it again?

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    1. No dear u won't do it again as long as u r determined not to do it.

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    2. I noticed Koko ideato is commenting on every single comment. Cheater spotted or they are tempted to cheat and building the boldness to cheat it seems.

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    3. Yes!...
      When you are tired of fucking only one prick!...
      Issa allowed sha!...

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  31. I have been a good gurl from time immemorial, to even hang out na war, no power to shout, bcos na from clap e dey enter song.

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ we are birds of same feathers

      I hv bn a good girl even before marriage

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  32. 7 questions....
    1. No,have not been in a relationship for awhile now but having an affair with a married man (friend of my baby daddy)
    2. Am I cheating?
    3.No, I have never cheated
    4.I got caught by his wife
    5.The risk of my baby daddy & his family and my family knowing about us would be BAD
    6.I am not in any relationship
    7.YES, I regret having and affair (maybe i won't have feel bad if he was not my baby daddy's friend). B. No, I will NEVER DO SUCH AGAIN!
    Do I even fit into this category?

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  33. I'll read comments.





    God Bless Everyone.

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    1. I cheated in my 8years relationship cos I didn't want to put my head in one basket and I was tired of him but the idiot won't let go so I caught him cheating and I broke up with him.I am married now and no I be never cheated on hubby though the thoughts creep in sometimes cos hubby is a sm freak very unromantic and not a gbenching freak like me...

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  34. I have cheated because, my bf cheated on me and he was not remorseful, I was also caught he beat the hell out of me that night
    I broke up with him the next morning, he won't stop telling people how I fucked a nigga

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    1. Why didn't you break up at night, I'm sure he broke up with your silly ass bae

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    2. Are u not the girl with the Rastafarian hair boyfriend. The faces of IHN last year or so

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    3. So you mean that efulefu of a man beat you up? Dial my Number ASAP

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    4. So your boyfriend do hit you,no wonder you re always sounding bitter here

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    5. Beat the hell out of ya?hmmmmm.Good you brokeup with him,onye ala

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    6. He beat the hell out of you? Like seriously? Them never born the man wey go try that shit with me..

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    7. You all sanctimonious, should leave @Tayan alone. ....at least she said the truth with her name


      @Tayan, good you broke up with that stupid nigga


      Men go cheat, Dem go take am as normal, if woman cheat, Dem go come dey Vex... Nonsense


      This life na so me, I do you... No time for
      radarada





      @Galore

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    8. Blog visitors and their mouth..
      Lol.

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  35. I am married and I have cheated on hubby,stopped and I have continue now. Am cheating on him with a senior colleague who has been on my case for years, I agree dating him in May 2015 and I won't STOP unless hubby comes back to his senses. He cheated on me with a girl he introduced as a daughter of his late moms sister whom we are not close with, and he is cheating on me with a neighbors daughter.i pretended as if I don't know and u know what I don't CARE cos 2 can now play d game

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    1. You go girl...don't get caught sha

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    2. Why your husband come like Dem young like that... ..na WA o


      Please with this behavior of his, you have to shine your eyes very well on your daughter if she is a teenager





      @Galore

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    3. Na wah for your hubby..
      He likes them young..

      Easy oooo.

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    4. Why do i feel lik dis is my neighbour,are u a lawyer?sorrry

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  36. My understanding of "cheating" is different from the responses I read here:
    You should be talking about cheating in marriage; sex outside of marriage
    Any sex outside of marriage is cheating
    If you are having sex with a boyfriend; it is cheating and the question is "who are you cheating?"
    good; you are cheating;
    Yourselves; you pay for the drained trust and self esteem later
    Your family whom you obviously made to understand that you are chaste
    Your church; on whose isle you will walk down wearing white and PRETEND to be chaste
    kids; probably aborted due to such illicit liaison; It is usually when you get pregnant that you realize the anomaly of the whole sexual fantasy. And who suffers; an innocent blood or innocent kids in your womb.
    God; who most of you claim to worship but do not obey his simple instructions.

    So you see that cheating is misconstrued and misconceived and in fact cheated upon!

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  37. My understanding of "cheating" is different from the responses I read here:
    You should be talking about cheating in marriage; sex outside of marriage
    Any sex outside of marriage is cheating
    If you are having sex with a boyfriend; it is cheating and the question is "who are you cheating?"
    good; you are cheating;
    Yourselves; you pay for the drained trust and self esteem later
    Your family whom you obviously made to understand that you are chaste
    Your church; on whose isle you will walk down wearing white and PRETEND to be chaste
    kids; probably aborted due to such illicit liaison; It is usually when you get pregnant that you realize the anomaly of the whole sexual fantasy. And who suffers; an innocent blood or innocent kids in your womb.
    The unfortunate man of woman who will come to marry you whom you will lie to that you are "Mary and Joseph"
    God; who most of you claim to worship but do not obey his simple instructions.

    So you see that cheating is misconstrued and misconceived and in fact cheated upon!

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  38. I cheated on a cheating boyfriend and it felt great. I had zero regrets, in fact it was exhilarating. Each time he gave excuses to go be with her back then in uni, I will travel to the next town to be pampered by my military boo.

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    1. πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘πŸ‘

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  39. Stella,you won't get what you seek here cos every one will pretend to be a scent

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  40. I have cheated.I was so in love with the other guy,even though the sex was mediocre.do I regret it hell yeah,will never cheat again I would rather be single and shag all shagable that break someone's heart again that was so bad,but I actually confessed because I wanted my then bf to leave me alone.

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  41. I cheated wen we were still courting...
    Reason?
    Cuz his pple were fighting him to give up d relationship due to tribal stuff,i felt threatened,weak n scared...didn't want to brake my young fragile Heart....To God Be d Glory we still holding strong.

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    1. Are you married now?

      Or still holding strong like @Eva and @Ceazer






      @Galore

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    2. Galore read again. First line and the last 2 lines

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  42. I hate being cheated on and I can't cheat. So it means I won't forgive you if I catch you cheating on me. It's as easy as that. I love my life too much to be worrying of STD

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  43. Somehow somehow I'm beginning to like your person @MonkeyNoFine. No bad feelings​!


    #DontQuoteMe

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  44. I cant cheat o.... dont have that mind and cant really give myself high BP trying to cover things up and that is why i wont appreciate a cheating partner

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  45. Are you Cheating on your spouse right now? YES
    -Why are you cheating I DONT LOVE HIM ANYMORE, HES A GOOD MAN AND I DONT WANT A DIVORCE. WE STAY IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND HAVE LIVED APART FOR 15 YEARS APART FROM LIKE 4 TIMES A YEAR VISIT
    -Have you ever cheated in the past?Why? ON MY THIRD BOYFRIEND NOW

    -Did you get caught or you gave it up? I AM TOO SMART TO BE CAUGHT
    -Was there a price you paid if you were caught? N/A

    -Did being caught end your Marriage or relationship? N/A

    -Do you/did you regret ever cheating? NO

    -Would you do it again? YES

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    1. Wow...am liking u already.
      We shld get to talk. Buzz me on ogededidun at gmail dot com

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  46. I cheated on my ex boyfriend then cos he was broke, he didn't have money, had to hook up with other guys that were capable of taking care of my financial needs, my ex got to find out later but still forgave me, and that was the beginning of his insecurities that later turned out to be bad cos anytime he suspected me of cheating he beats me up. Broke up with him cos of that. NK2 says so via Samsung blue light.

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  47. If a gf sex anoda guy I don't see it as cheating it's ur pussy after all.....but if a wife cheats it's just pure disgusting and disrespectful a deserves being stoned to death.

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    1. Deserves to be stoned to death abi???

      And if a man cheat, what should be his punishment, en @seyi afolabi?????!??

      *smh

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    2. But if a husband cheats, it isn't disgusting abi? He doesn't deserved to be stoned to death as well abi? πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

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    3. Who is this one again????

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  48. i am presently not cheating on my spouse, i have cheated in the past once was for money and the second time was because i fell in love with someone i was dating while still married, i cheated because my horseband is a serial cheat, from househelps to female pastors to facebook lovers just name them and you have it. useless when it comes to women no control whatso ever sometimes i wonder if its a curse. i decided to quit the marriage instead of getting infected, he caught me cheating red handed and all hell broke loose, i stayed and after that he got worse. i hate him like life it self but still here and facing my kids and business. men are not worth the trouble. shior

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    1. The rule is don't get caught!...
      You are not sharp!...

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    2. Beht why d thing dey pain dem when they get served sef.

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    3. I haven't cheated but I'm considering it. My inlaws have not let me enjoy my marriage.
      I just need a break from my life

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  49. Yes I have am still cheating. My reason for cheating is I can't put all my eggs in one basket, and my boyfriend also cheat.no have never been caught. I don't regret cheating cuz am not married yet. It will continue that way until am married.

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  50. I have cheated before and karma Is handling me now.
    I had my first borfriend when I was 16years. We dated for 7years. I was faithful only in the first two years. I later went to the university. Things were so tough for me. That was when I started sleeping with men. I had to do this to survive. I later on dumped this extremely nice guy because of the few coins I had from my numerous boyfriends. Then I made my ex husband. He claimed everything he was not. I felt so deeply in love with him. We got married in less than two months of dating. Guess what? In between the three years we were married, he got five girls pregnant. I also have his three children. I finally left the marriage with two kids and four months old pregnancy. I can't remember the number of times I was beaten up. I guess its karma. My first love now is happily married and very rich now. Karma is a bitch. I regret so badly. Please learn from my story. What goes around comes around. No sin can go unpunished
    Ignore my English. Its not my official language

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    1. Hmmm

      It is well with you dear


      Be strong in the Lord




      @Galore

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    2. U married a bad man....this is not karma.

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    3. Wow!! Lesson learnt the hard way

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  51. four years in november and i have been cheating on my husband with both sex , and i dont regret cause he cant take care of me and my kids.

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    1. πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    2. With both sex

      You mean both men and women


      Wow.... You have a good life mbok





      @Galore

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    3. @galore yes! both man and woman.

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  52. Cheating is a taboo in my place

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    1. We don hear


      Siddon dere





      @Galore

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    2. Na lie. Its one of those myths to ensure women stay glued to their husbands.

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    3. @dainty t I am telling u real myths...but me I won't cheat if I catch my husband cheating I will leave as in cheating continuously..

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  53. Cheating on my husband with my friend. Her body is so soft... she says mine is too....

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    1. Hmmm


      You are both "Lesbianing " together


      There is God!!!





      @Galore

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    2. I have never cheated on my boyfriend with a man but I been cheating wit my friend, she's so sweet,we dnt finger each other we just hump n rob our clits togeda, kiss and suck each other's nipple's till we climax.its the best sex ever bcus intercourse wit men hardly makes me cum.clean lesbian sex Is the best.

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    3. A lady's soft body is the truth mehn!....
      I likieeeπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  54. I have never cheated in my life. And I will keep it that way till the death of me.

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  55. Let me go anonymous lol

    I cheated not so long ago because my bf and I had a HUGE fight, we ended up not talking for weeks so I told myself that its Over and I was done but I couldnt bring myself to officially end it. I ended up meeting someone who gave me all the attention and affection I wasnt getting frm my man.. one thing led to another and we.. well.. the rest is obvious.

    My bf and I settled our differences shortly after but I still have not confessed because I believe its not worth ruining what we have because I know I dont want the other guy, plus I have caught my bf texting a girl who I know he probably slept with despite his denial,I still forgave him. We are in a long distance relationship so god knows who he may be cheating on me with but one thing I know for sure is, we love each other and I dont see myself with anyone else. I have asked God for forgiveness and have promised myself not to do it again.

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    1. You don't love each other

      If you both love each other, then you won't cheat nor hurt one another


      I am not judging you

      Just my point



      @Galore

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    2. We do love each other - life isn't black and white. People fall in and out of love and hurt each other but it's forgiving and learning from our mistakes that make the difference. I have learned and know now that he is the only one for me.

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  56. Cheating in a lesbian rel can be soooo sweet!omg!!!never dated one girl at a time. I enjoy making my partner jealous, the feeling is always outta the world for me.but if I catch my partner cheating, I'll just look for the girl shez cheating with and have sex with her too. But then I got my fingers burnt when I brought two girlfriends under the same roof telling each that the other was just a friend. The night of the next day was the worst day of my life cos they found out and decided to pay me in my own coin.

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    1. Cheating in a lesbian relationship is quite deadly. .....Lesbians don't like their girl cheating with another girl


      The karma is always deadly, they can go to any length to destroy someone


      I know what I am typing



      Better you stick to one, or you announce yourself like @SHANE "The L WORD"

      Put a cavet emptor




      @Galore

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  57. Is cheating news or a new thing? Lol. Been married for 15 years, been cheating since i got to know he is unlovable. I mean, how can you love a stingy man? One must be a fool to go that.
    Initially, i was lookin for love but it eluded me. Ryt now am all about the fun. Am fucking a priest ATM. That one is too razz and broke for my liking sef so ama toss him soon. One thing I must guard against is being caught. No, I can't let that happen cos inspite of his stinginess, I still want to remain under his roof and catch my fun. He gets suspicious and insecure every now and then but I don't want to rub my shenanigans in his face so ama keep it on the low.
    Take it or leave it, when you get into a tough and unfulfilled marriage, cheating is one thing that can keep you sane. Oya, judginas,knock ya selves off.

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    1. Lol... Omo, you get mind oo... @Priest keh? .....That is a NoNo for me... The Bible says, Woe unto that person that makes his servant "fall"


      I remembererd when I was very broke in school, and I was told that a young woman needed a girl to keep for companion, so I went, but the moment I discovered that she was a choir leader and also the youth pastor's wife.... I totally DECLINED. ..i did not decline initially since I never knew her identity, but after everything, and I kept seeing her and making her happy, she as well, making me happy... One thing led to another, I was invited to a church, then I saw her singing... I stared and starred at her... She was staring at me as well, then I was so broken, I was broken because, this is a youth pastor's wife.. So I ended it.





      @Galore

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    2. Correct anon...
      But how can you be fucking a priest wey no dey drop?...
      Look for people like apostle SuleWomen and enjoy!...

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  58. I AM ABOUT TO GO INTO MARRIED LIFE, AND BELIEVE ME, WHAT I JUST READ ESPECIALLY FROM THE LADIES IS DISHEARTENING, NO RESPECT FOR THE INSTITUTION AGAIN, MOST PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND THEIR MARRIAGE RITES, CHEATING IS WRONG FROM BOTH SIDES! THANKS FOR THE HEADS UP THOUGH, I WILL HAVE TO HAVE AN AGREEMENT WITH SPOUSE, ANY CHEATING......... DIVORCE STRAIGHT.......NO TIME

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    1. You are shouting. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  59. Why Cheat, when you can be single and do whatever you want ; Cheating has never solved any problem, after cheating, you still come back to that same problem.to some people it's a lifestyle, in some cultures it's perfectly okay to cheat, well stolen meats taste better, but thieves are never proud to called one

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  60. Playing Secret lovers by Atlantic Starr and reading these comments is awesome !

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  61. Cheated just once after marriage, now i can't tell the true paternity of my child. Taught me a major lesson. The thought of sleeping or being to comfortable with another man nauseates me. God please forgive me.

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    1. God has forgiven you

      Loosen up





      @Galore

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    2. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷

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    3. Free your mind from all these guilt!...
      Your husband is the father of your child!..
      Gbam!...

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  62. Started cheating on my boyfriend when I saw a girls panties in his house and confronted him about it he got upset instead and said I didn't trust him. That it was a guest own cos it was in d guest room and not in his room. We had iss for a while and then I found solace in d arms of someone else. Was still a virgin then tho. I've never slept with anyone except him since I lost my virginity to him this year. Now we have a serious problem oo. We tried to have sex some weeks back which was d third time and it was still really painful for me so I kept telling him to stop and cum. After I left his house, he started giving me attitude o. All of a sudden he's forming busy. Hardly picks my call been trying to communicate with him for weeks and no response. He keeps saying there's no problem he's just busy with work. I'm really broken and crushed cos I really love him and I miss him. What should I do with his current behavior? Move on or hold on, cos he hasn't told me it's over.

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  63. I cheated on my babe in UI .....
    caught a terrible STD
    Still haven't fully recovered
    Mobolaji

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    1. Ntoor"πŸ˜›, next time keep your brother bolaji to yourself 😬😬😬😬

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    2. And your moniker is BJ? 😯😯😯

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  64. I did once, i felt and still feel so horrible because it is still fresh. It happened about 3 days ago,i have never done that before, it was'nt planned,wasnt intentional at all. i had not even seen or spoke to the person i cheated with for long so it was never a case of developing any feelings. It just happened and i regret it so much. I asked a friend and the advice was i shouldnt let my babe know cause she might not take it well. After about two days i couldnt sleep well, i prayed,i fasted but the guilt was too much so yesterday i told her and she was extremely sad and disappointed. She cried as well cause we have actually been through alot together and i always gave her my word that i could never do that. I am not that type of person but it just happened and it would never happen again,i put myself in a closed environment with someone else thinking i was superman. I have been pleading since then,my babe means alot to me. And it was just a kiss and touch with the other lady,we didnt go far but i felt like i betrayed someones trust thats why i told her. I REGRET IT and pleading to mend my ways and prove myself again but shes not having all that for now. AOO

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    1. Shut up jare nonsense.

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    2. Eya... Keep begging her. She might forgive u.

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    3. Okay thanks,are you happy now?

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  65. I am cheating on my wife atm, we dated for 12years, she cheated on me back when baba no get money, now am a made man, I fuck young girls everywhere and the they are so okay with the fact that I am married. I just closed from work,going to fuck one smallie, " smallie too sweet"

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    1. Fabu.... But don't infect her with HIV. Because if u do, the thunder.... The thunder.... 😈😈

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    2. Hahahahahaha....
      And you think you are killing your wife?..
      Yinmu...
      Your prick!..
      Your strength...
      Your waist...
      Your money...
      Your time!!...
      Enjoy!!..

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  66. Where are the benin girls?
    I have a friend from there. The boo engaged here and shes still sitting on every prick that comes her way.
    Sometimes i wonder how people do shit like that.
    Like, u still f##kng for money aftr ur intro? U d bang!

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  67. Am single and won't really say have cheated in the past but I did all the don'ts in a relationship tru phone(nothing sweet pass chatting with with new cute guys)....

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  68. I cheated on my hubby once,he was my ex before I got married. We used to have hot sex,my hubby has low libidos. He can go for weeks without asking for sex.so I missed sex like yesterday... I have another friend disturbing me for sex but am still deliberating on it. I am sex starved, sex with hubby is so boring no fire on it,no foreplay

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  69. Cheating is something that I don't think of, but later on it came not bcos u want it but bcos u don't have choice.

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  70. If u are an Edo woman married to an Edo man and u love ur life n that of ur kids,u better not allow any other man enter in between ur legs else,u will learn ur lesson d hard way....

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    1. Anonymous gangster23 May 2017 at 23:48

      Between the legs. So doggy is safe? Thats technically between the ass! And blow job etc? Please clarify.

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  71. Cheating is your best response to a cheating partnerif you wanna escape emotional wreck and hypertension.

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  72. @victorious ehis that is the real truth. In my village in edo state we forbid it infact if you are a married woman and you cheat on your husband with another man the man we fall sick if not trace on time he might die but now they have reverse the tradition if a woman cheat on his husband she we now be the one that we die but if she confess on time the chiefs in the village we perform some rituals to cleanse her from dying.

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    1. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

      Ur head is really there

      Not all women notices on time that it's the cheating that's killing them

      Most times,its at d point of death when she or her child is almost giving up d ghost and in most cases, those rituals aren't performed on time

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  73. I've been married for ten years. I was 100% faithful to my wife (Never cheated whatsoever, not even when we were dating). Until I found out that she was fucking a family friend two years into marriage.

    I was extremely hurt. I wanted to be the man that would never cheat like all the other guys were doing. But wifey forced my hands.

    But after she cheated with him 5 times ( she confessed herself), I felt violated with so much anger.

    I got close to the guys wife, made her like me enough, and I fucked her multiple times in an hotel on the island.

    She was loving up, so I broke the relationship. It was a revenge fuck. I waited and wish for the guy to find out that his wife cheated on him with me and come to confront me.

    I didn't end it there. I am currently fucking four other women. They know I am married. And are also in it for the fun with no strings attached.

    My wife started it, and she will suffer for it. I won't stop till that body count rise to 50.

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