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Sunday, May 21, 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSION GALORE


Stella,  I AM SO CONFUSED RIGHT NOW, here goes my story .

I am a lady of 32 years dating a 36 year old man though we live in different states and I’ve visited him twice, we have been dating for the past 6 months and it has just been from one financial challenge to the other on his own part.


 He broke up with his ex girl that he dated for almost 1 year when he realized that the girl was a lesbian and she did not cook for him all through out the time they dated which he never bothered about but was worried when he saw the girl smoking in a club bla bla... 


We have been best of friends because my ex was not my friend as he was secretive but this guy tells me everything even his challenges and was open to tell me some personal things. Our main intention of this relationship is marriage but I have never been a desperate person. He was supposed to come and introduce himself to my folks that I stay with this May and my next visit is for him to introduce me to his aunties and siblings as they have heard so much about me, he shows off my pictures on social media and his always fast to tell his friends about me and his intentions (I saw where he wrote down, how lucky he is to have found me a wife and co in his house).


 Back to his challenges, the period he met me, he invested his whole money in a business that was supposed to yield enough money for him to use and start marriage preparations and buy a plot of land as that is his goal for 2017) but unfortunately, the business failed and his money disappeared. He entered into depression but he wasn’t brutal or aggressive nor even said any bad words to me. 


 Stella it got to a point that he didn’t have money to feed but he also borrowed money from the bank to do another business which we are yet to get a feedback on it but he had to sell his only car to pay off the loan. Part of what his left with after paying the loan, he has been using it to hustle to do business because his into building but most times, they end up not paying him completely or even delaying his payment for a long period of time. Sometimes, he enters into depression and might decide to stay mute for some days which he will call, apologize and still tell me the nature of things. 


He said he has done everything he can as a man, he has prayed (his good Christian) and no answer unlike before that when he prays, 2 days, is answered. He has fasted, prayed, and even seen his pastor to pray for him which his situation is getting worst. That he has never stayed for 2 weeks without getting any contract but now for the past 6 months, doors have shut for him which he has never experienced before.


Stella, pls I’m wondering, could it be that my star doesn’t compliment with his own? My ex-boyfriend met me and after some months, things started going so bad for him even though he was broke before he met me oooo .


 I’m a Christian (catholic), I pray, I fast and pay my tithe. I’m so confused now because I don’t know if I could be the reason for this. He called me now to tell me that he doesn’t want to tie me down but things are so bad for him and he doesn’t want to be complaining to me always as he has to be a man but he doesn’t know why God is punishing him for no reason, imagine at 36 years, his not yet married, now that he has seen someone he wants to marry and doors have closed. 

Stella, this guy loves me and his always honest to me to an extent because I have tried him in several ways. My mind is telling me to pray seriously(to do divine mercy prayer by 3pm for Catholics who will understand this ) Stella, pls I need your RED pen, I love this guy and I don’t want to lose him as I am not seeing anyone else neither do I have intentions of seeing another person but pls I AM NOT DESPERATE .

He said his aunt said is because he wants to get married that’s why things are happening as devil is looking for a way to shift his mind from not being serious as he doesn’t encourage marriage .

Kindly ignore my typo errors as I’m just confused , I don’t know who to talk to that will not laugh at me or make jest of me, I see this platform as a family, pls mature minds, advise me on what to do.



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    1. To be candid you might be the cause so u need to pray fervently. Try going for deliverance dear. It's well and I pray that God fix it

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    2. U love him and want to marry him and u feel like praying but u dunno?


      Madam, go down on your knees on his behalf. Tell God your problems and Watch him fight for u

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    3. Madam writer.. Go and watch that @Emmanuella video when she told his uncle's girlfriend that she might be a "bad luck "

      Na joke I dey oo.. .just remembered the video


      On a more serious note, I think you should leave this guy. .....


      But if you feel you love him enough to help him with this big heavy weight wahala that is attached to him, then just pray to GOD... HE is always ready to answer us.... .

      I hope he has not started sleeping with you... Because a poor man with no money, na only fuck Dem dey call back on






      @Galore

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    4. All I typed, gone with the wind. You don't need to ask if you should pray for your man. Girl, you should have been firing from the get go

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    5. Galore ur head dey shake,nonsense

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    6. My dear sister, you know the solution to this problem yet you doubt if he can assist you. Pray the Divine Mercy prayer every day and let it become a part of your daily routine.Trust me if you are consistent for 3days, the Holy Spirit will remind you every day at 3 O'clock clock. You can say the Mother of Pepectual help Novena and St. Jude's Novena. I promise you if you say it with faith you will surely testify. Shalom!

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    7. Summary... You are bad luck to him... Move forward

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  2. Please change your mindset, that's a negative thought from you and it ia not good at all. Pray with him if you really want him. By the grace of God things will change for the better for him.

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  3. Is he d only man asking u out?

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  4. This one na spiritual problem ohhhh.
    Devine mercy and novenas work wonders babe.

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    1. If she has seen a pattern of bad luck following people she dates, it's good to address it. People should not discourage her.
      Poster go into serious prayers, do deliverance too. This is another way spirit husbands operate.

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  5. My dear nothing is wrong with u... just keep on praying for him n see how things will change for u guys... but na mmm he invest him money?

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  6. Your luck is bad for men . Stay on your own Biko stop destroying ppl destiny.ahhhnn

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    1. Check your immediate family are they OK financially.

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    2. Anonymous 15:06, something is actually wrong wit u, u must be very stupid for dis rubbish comment, as u can see she said "matured minds", you are not suitable to be reading dis post cos u sound very immature. Ekwensu

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  7. My dear, you need to pray fervently, even before I got to where you said could it be you been the cause, I'm guessing it might be you. Guess you need serious deliverance and pray




    *Larry was here*

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  8. My sister you need to be more prayerful and i knw God will answer ur prayers.

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  9. Enter your comment...all is well

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  10. Before you even got to that part of you being the problem, I already concluded.


    Poster , I'm a very observant person, I'm glad you are too. There's no coincidence in what you wrote up there.


    The only way to be certain about this is to free this guy, let him shine Biko.


    In your heart, you know you are his problem, free him, it happened with your ex, now this.


    I'm not one to say this but go settle your spiritual horseband..... In the process, leave this guy, pending when you sort yourself.

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    1. The truth is bitter . U just said d truth.
      D poster has serious spiritual problem that affects any man that comes close to her.
      She needs deliverance .
      D poor guy is suffering from what he does not know...
      I hope he doesnt go ahead to marry dis poster, if not na ghana must ho e go carry return village

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    2. How is this possible. Is she a witch? So she should be alone? Only 2 people and we have already concluded? Abi have you forgot ten the state if the economy right now?

      Be prayerful and both if you don't panic. Since you are not desperate just keep pushing long. Things will turn around for the better. After all 6 months is still a short time to know someone well enough to marry them no.matter your age.

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  11. Just lukatwu, taking responsibility for another man's misfortune, generally there's hardship in Nigeria ok, so stop being stupid and move on if u feel u are the cause of his bad lucky.

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    1. Thankiu. She met him in his thirties, not like he was some dangote at that time. He was yet to buy land before u met him, he was. Yet to have sserious investments before u met him, he was yet to have a house beforew u met him. Then all of a sudden, u meet him and his aunt and ur mentality are telling u that u are d cause of his woes.? I laugh in Otedola

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    2. Thank u oooo...The most Nigerians are backwards beats me...My sister..u are not his problem..mcheew

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    3. Exactly, how are you the cause of his problem.. Abeg stop blaming yourself..

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  12. Let me go spiritual on this one.

    Rev 3:8 paraphrased(pls make out time to read it) it says: I know your works, SEE i have set before you an OPEN DOOR and no man can SHUT it.........

    Firstly there is nothing wrong with you, we have different destinies(times &seasons). I feel he is going through a rough time and it will pass.what you do when going through a rough time is what matters.Tell him not to give up but look out for several opportunities of making money.

    Me I have one biz now but can't wait to fully set up and start another.see Dangote he doesn't have one stream of income.

    One thing I know is that when God shuts a door he opens another one but most times we keep on looking at the closed door.I also know that when God opens a door, no man can shut it.

    Keep encouraging him,God will make a way!!

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    1. Well said, don't make me like u too much...

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  13. Lemme just read comments.... Cus to an Atheist, prayer has no efficacy, its like a stationary bicycle in a gym, it gets you nowhere but leaves u sweating & busy.
    Its so sad to find that one person that springs a garden in ur heart & butterflies in ur tummy, but one hiccup gets inb/w you both & keep u up at night, when its not even tooth ache. Don't start blaming urself or assuming ure jinxed, you've jst been dating for 6months, he was 35plus at the time u came into his life, so quit feeling like you've been ruining his life for the past adulthood, he might hv even contemplated downloading sniper if it weren't for u, did u think of that? You're not with a magic wand to swing & turn his account balance to endless zeros and commas.

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    1. 'Worry' is the stationary bicycle not prayers, especially if your prayers are backed up with faith in the name of Jesus.

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    2. You write really well Atheist.i enjoy your point of view always

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    3. He just said some piece of shit... He only allowed his emotion to be ran by spirituality because as atheist he is allergic to it. If u critical and thorough, she said he was doing well before they meet and also experienced same thing with previous relationship. And you think it's coincidence? Because u didn't believe in sth doesn't mean it's not existing

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  14. It's seems your star dies not match with his or you need deliverance from marine powers and setback.
    Maybe just break up with him for now and watch how things will turn out and it will determine if you are the cause or not.

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  15. Leave him for a couple of months and see if things changes for the better but then its very true about stars complimenting each other.
    Are u both having sex?

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    1. Wat if they are?
      Why dint u ask if they watch movies together?

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    2. It's always funny when master fornicators like ibukun get reformed, we won't hear word again. Asking if they're having sex. Did you kill the destiny of all the men and women you had sex with? You speaking from experience?

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    3. Good question. People fornication then fast and pray. GOD IS NOT A FOOL

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    4. This is not about if Ibk is reformed. How can you be fornicating her thinking God will answer your prayers?

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  16. leave the guy alone and go for deep deliverance please.

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  17. There is nothing like stars don't March poster..just be sure he is not trying to discharge u then stick ur ass together and pray for him and encourage him to try other businesses..it will be well my dear

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    1. Babe some guys will tell u they are having financially challenge so they can ask you to borrow him money for new venture or to execute a business deal. It's their way so don't pity or give

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  18. Poster ur on d right track!
    There's nothing God cannot do.

    Divine mercy is REAL.
    Thnk God ur a catholic.pls give it a try. I'm a testimony.

    Ur boos aunt said d truth. Weneva one wants to marry, u see d devil trying to make places tight so u can't further ur plans.

    Prayer is d key. May is d month of our lady, y not follow d devotions in ur parish n watch her tell her son abt u.

    Good luck dear

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  19. I dont think its any star even tho i know Queen will soon say its your spirit husband lOl. But either ways, i think you need to pray. Certain tings are beyond the physical (not ruling out the fact it may be mere coincidence) but there is no harm in taking out time to talk to God.

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    1. The should repent and give their life to Christ. If they are having sex, God won't answer them.

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  20. Some babes have bad luck, u need to pray well if that's Exactly what happened in your precious relationship

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  21. Eyaaahh.... I feel so bad reading this. Its actually very serious oh. And you need to pray. I'm not Catholic, so i don't know what that prayer means. But.... you need to really really pray

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  22. There is nothing wrong with your star or you... Keep praying for him and loving him unconditionally and soon things will change for good, everyone at one point in life face such challenges so he just has to be strong

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  23. Enter your comment...him mm mm

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  24. Okay, typo ignored.
    Babe so you see yourself as the one with bad luck?
    You only need prayers and that's all. May God answer your prayers

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  25. Lady in all this narration of "Christian, pray, fast, etc." do you have sex/fornication?
    I ask because the chronicles I read here, there is no demarcation between praying and sexing; it is appalling.
    If you are having sex with this man, then the prayers are bringing curses. If not; be patient and have faith in God and seek to find out what he want for you both; business/calling/marriage or not

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    1. Mtcheeeeew! Hogwash!
      Codswallop!
      Even if they're having sex, are they the first? Stop spewing ludicrous and preposterous statements all in the of advice.
      How I wish I share same mawkish and kitschy idea of spiritualism with my fellow countrymen.
      Irregular menstrual circle will also be be categorized as a spiritual thing.
      Poster, if your lover will be your husband, there's no form of adversity that will stop it from happening.
      Stop inculpating yourself with someone else's misfortune.
      Whatever will be, will be.

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    2. Even pastors have side chicks and pray

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    3. You are right @ anonymous!
      People purposely go againt Gods word yet seek for solution when there's a problem. How about you read the bible steadfastly, make all efforts to do as it says and wait on your testimony.
      Yes, it may take a while but God Isn't asleep. " I will not leave you desolate, I will come to you John 14:18
      If you love me, you will keep my commandments

      Poster: ask God in prayers if he is the one for you. You are a catholic it's the month of may . Say your rosary, do the divine mercy ask our mother to intercede on your behalf.

      He may or may not be the one for you there is absolutely nothing Wong with you. most times we humans try to indirectly dictate to God wha we want as opposed to paying that our intentions align to his will.

      Dear poster let go of your worries and surrender to God and hope on him. What will be will be .

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    4. @ Ebikzy, which one is all these grammar na.

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  26. Sis pray the divine mercy consistently and also visit the blessed sacrament at leat this period of May Devotion. Put him in your prayers, ask the Mother to intercede for him. U will see the miracles that will follow. If u can, say your rosary daily; this is Marian year( 100 years commemoration of Mary's appearance at Fatima), do all these diligently and wait for God's on u guys' life.
    Wishing u well dear.

    Sandy yo...happy Sunday dearie

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  27. This what was preached in church today.
    Break every curse and yolk posing as an obstacle to your glory.
    From all you've said, he is a good guy. Pray, pray hard and fast too for a turn around.

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  28. Let me read comment. How do you know are not desperate ?

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  29. You say you are a Catholic?
    Hmmm..if you are truly one then you should know what to do than chronicles.
    Many prayers abound for you and no advice here plus the bashing can help you.
    Become an adorer and visit with intention but ensure you live a holy life and you will get what you are looking for.
    Always amazed when I see our Catholic brethren act this way.

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  30. #Remember that life's greatest lessons are usually learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes*

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  31. These are difficult times for a lot of people. Stand by your man. Make it work. if your love falls apart because of money then your love is weak.

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  32. Eyaaahh.... I feel so bad reading this. Its actually very serious oh. And you need to pray. I'm not Catholic, so i don't know what that prayer means. But.... you need to really really pray. Please give him space, pray alone, watch what happens and take a decision thereafter. Now at that point, you should consider going for deliverance without involving anyone. Please don't tell him anything about past experiences yet so you don't scare him.

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    1. @bloggie got back to SP late. Im fine. How are you?

      @the anon who said i should have kept the cheque i only followed my mum's instructions oh. This was before a bill was passed for dud cheques issuance having an arrest penalty.

      @cynthia & na me talk am. Okay no problem. Will be on alert.

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    2. @beloved me gain weight? Hehehehe. I'm praying for that oh. I claim it IJNA.

      @iphie dearie make she carry go. Drove beside her in traffic one day she was hiding her face. Imagine!! Person wey dem dey call big woman. #isokay

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    3. How do I get an ID/ plzzz what's the meaning of URL when u try geting an I'd and plz how do I get an openID credentials. Thanks

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  33. Dear poster first of all you have to cancel that notion that ur star is not good. Infact rebuke urself for saying that. Secondly you don't blame yourself for another person's misfortune and pray to God. Thirdly the economy isn't favorable especially to those who have borrowed from d bank to do business. Fourthly your aunty is right the devil is fighting marriages so bad right now especially if he knows two great destinies are abt to happen. Lastly I didn't see anywhere you say you encourage him. Please try to encourage, pray together fast together. If both of u are fornicating stop it. Devil might be holding it against both of u. MY ADVICE

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  34. Dear Poster,
    If you love him and also feel loved by him, stand by him. Gold goes through fire to become brighter. All the best.

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  35. Pls pray to God, the is nothing he can not do.

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  36. He said his aunt said is because he wants to get married that’s why things are happening as devil is looking for a way to shift his mind from not being serious as he doesn’t encourage marriage" what are his own views? Sounds like he believes what his aunt said. Seems like u believe. It too "talking about star what not.". Please, either u stick it out with hhim, though he doesn't sound like he wants u to, or u. Take a long walk. Ur choice.

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  37. Both of you go for proper deliverance..all that catholic praying to saints na wash.its all about jesus christ being the only way to christ...if you dont want to go for deliverance in a Pentecostal church just declare some days of fasting for both of you. Read the bible and make declarations according to God's promises. If you are both fornicating stopeet...

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  38. Both of you go for proper deliverance..all that catholic praying to saints na wash.its all about jesus christ being the only way to christ...if you dont want to go for deliverance in a Pentecostal church just declare some days of fasting for both of you. Read the bible and make declarations according to God's promises. If you are both fornicating stopeet...

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  39. Leave him for some time so he will concentrate and focus on getting back on his feet. He may not tell you but he feels pressurized to make it so he can marry you. You are 32 for Pete sakes. He feels he owes you marriage and the pressure is telling on him. Give him space for some time. I bet you things will improve. Good luck.

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  40. Reading comments 😑😑😑😑😑

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  41. Poster I don't know who u are but ur story touched me. I'm sending u lots of hugs and love.
    God answers prayers, please do the divine mercy prayer and ask God to reveal things to u. Since uve noticed a pattern with ur ex and now this current guy u love, then maybe the problem does lie with you. Then, Tell ur boyfriend to join u in prayers. 1 will chase a thousand, 2 will chase out ten thousand, so the Bible says. If u guys can go for deliverance ,that works sometimes as well. But I believe more in the power of lone prayers. Pour ur hearts out to God. He answers prayers.
    Pray before u decide to leave him. Cus if u give him space and break up with him and things get better then he'd definitely know ure his problem.

    Also and MORE IMPORTANTLY, If ure having sex with him please stop. It's the fastest way to transfer bad energy to someone else. You really need to stay off sex. If ure engaged in it,mehn..... darling,fornication does more harm than good, and trust me I know! Especially when u have spiritual battles, fornication just multiplies ur problems in leaps and bounds.

    I pray God hears u and sends help to u. I love u with the love of the Lord. May God still every raging storm in ur life. Bless.

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  42. Ur spiritual husband is blocking the progess of every man that came close to you. U need deliverance.

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  43. This one is really serious but I would advice you do the Divine Mercy prayer. It has worked for many and it will work for you too.
    Stay with him, I believe the devil may just be testing your faith in each other.......continue praying dear

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  44. Queen and boss am waiting for your comments on this.....

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  45. I hope you get to read this,remove the negative mindset, sometimes when we are reaching our breakthrough, the devil comes in different forms to distract us, this is a distraction,hold on, be fervent and steadfast , the only way through us is through our mind, once we can be broken,then the devil wins. Henceforth work in a positive light, despite what you see..dont be moved by what you see, your season of dancing is coming,hold on to God you both and see him manifest.Don't let go...

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  46. Work on your mind.when you prayed did you receive? Read the book "how to make your faith work" by Rev Chris Oyakhilome.

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  47. No poster you are not caused, none of God children is caused, just keep on praying o know things will surely turn around for good. with faith keep praying that prayer of Divine Mercy and see the wonders of God. Peace and LOVE.

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  48. Dear Poster,

    There is nothing wrong with you. The devil wants you to believe that. Encourage your friend, support him if or when you can.

    You are a catholic!! Why do you forget the power of the blessed sacrament? Why haven't you started the novena already. All you have to do is to ask God. Encourage him to join you.

    He seems like a nice man, I will pray for you both. All the best

    Anty Caro.

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  49. @atheist you write so well.i always look out to read your comments anytime anyday but your belief orientation scares me a great deal��

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  50. Poster your chronicle is weak.you are seeking the face of God and still you want things to happen for your guy in your own time.why don't you wait for your blessings to come and stop forcing the issue.if you can't wait for the guy to blow then move on with your other options.

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  51. Nothing is wrong with you. Check that man he is no longer interested in you. This is the only way for him to dump you. Watch him closely beyond his lack. Nowadays men use so many format to pull out.

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  52. The country is just coming out of a recession it doesn't occur to you that he may just be going through a rough patch like everyone else? You're 32 but you reason like a teenager. Besides, how long was it that he broke up with his ex? What else is the reason for his depression and how often does he experience such? How much do you know about this guy that you're planning on marrying him after 6 months of dating? I strongly suspect that his not having money right now is the least of your problems with this guy. Pray hard o for God's will to be done.

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