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Saturday, May 20, 2017

Chronicle Of Bog Visitor Narrative...

This is serious oh!



STAND ALONE LONG NARRATIVE
BETWEEN THE EX AND THE EX....


Goodday stella and ma fellow bvs. Pls stella I need you to forward this asap in the name of God, pls post it like yesterday .this is a very long chronicle, pls bvs take your time and read, am begging you all.

This is my 2nd chronicle, the 1st was last yr when I sent in a chronicle about the dreams I had concerning the guy that wanted to marry me, in d dreams I was never happy with the guy or in the guy's house, it happened that he is a drug dealer, after much prayers from me and the confession from him.


This 2nd one is about my ex who happens to come from same village with the drug dealer and I didnt know they knew themselves. (Didn't do anything with the drug dealer cos I have been celibate for 1yr n 11months and still counting).


 I dated my ex for 1yr n 9months, he broke up with me in 2014 saying he wants to put his ass together (found out he cheated on me). But before he broke up with me, I saw it in d dream where he gave me a broken diamond ring n promised to get a better one for me, though I wasn't happen, the ring spoke 2 me and told me this is a friendship ring.


 In the 2nd dream, I was in a train station about to travel, have bought my ticket, at a point I and my girlfriend wanted to ease ourselves, but she entered the restroom before me, I had to come out, then I saw my ex, his best friend and his cousin in the train station looking for me seriously and their intention was to carry me whether I want it or not. I saw them, but they didnt see me, then I woke up.


 I had this dreams before he broke up with me. In 2016, he sent a message to me on Facebook, which I replied, he said he wanted to see me, I said no, but after much persuasion, I went to see him with my girlfriend , after that, he was calling once in a while without saying anything meaningful, he invited me over to his house twice and I went, asked him what he wanted, he didn't say anything, but he wanted us 2 continue from where we stopped and I didnt want that bcos I wanted a defined r/ship this time around. 


Then d drug dealer came along, my ex got to know about it and was furious, he told ma cousin that I messed up, that it's me he wants 2 settle down with when he is ready and no one else though he hasnt told me, my cousin told him it's not still late, my ex said he can't get back with me cos he is from same town wit d guy (thought I had s3x with the guy, I didnt have s3x wit him, infact he didn't see me naked neither did I).


 My ex went back to that same girl he cheated on me with cos they broke up after few months of dating. After a while, my ex proposed to the girl and she accepted (d proposal happened late last yr but i got to know about it last week). Early this yr, I started having dreams about them. the 1st dream, my ex was engaged to her, the 2nd dream she was engaged to someone else, in the 3rd dream, she and my ex got married, when it was time for pictures, a short dark woman in a black dress stood in between them, in the 4th dream she married someone else n immediately my ex sent a loooonnngggg love letter to me, telling me he loves me so much and wants us to get back together then I woke up.


 Early this month, I was going through Facebook when I saw pre wedding pix of my supposed ex's fiancé with another guy which our mutual friend shared(I know the girl cos I saw her pix once in ma ex's phone when we were still together via her whatsapp profile picture). I immediately called my girlfriend and told her, she said she isn't aware but she will asked my cousin. The following day she asked my cousin and he told her he wasnt aware but will ask my ex, at a point I was no longer interested with the information cos its none of my business.


 Last week Saturday I came home for our family's thanksgiving/my mom's book launch which was the following day and same day with ma ex's supposed fiancé's wedding in same town. On sunday, the thanksgiving day, I was surprised to see my ex and his best friend with my cousin in my church, they actually came for our thanksgiving/my mom's book launch. 


After the whole stuff, they left before my girlfriend came. As I was about leaving with my girlfriend, she called my cousin and asked where he was and my cousin asked if I was with her and she said yes, he told her where he was and that she should come with me. On getting there, I saw my ex with his bestfriend and other of his friends, I greeted them all and my ex's best friend asked me to come sit in between him n my ex which I refused and he asked me to sit in between him n my family which I did, my ex's best friend was so happy to see me (he loves me die, in fact all my ex's friends dont joke with me). 


He said I have forgotten about him that I dont call him on phone again, I told him same and also told him that I know he doesn't have my number again, he said my number is in his diary with what he saved it with since 2013. (Lets say my name is linda and my ex's name is dave) he saved it with Linda dave. 


I laughed, he told me not to laugh that they r coming back with full force this time around for me, I didnt say anything. I later learnt same day that the reason it didnt work out between my ex and his fiancé is that they are both AS which they both found out after d proposal late last yr and that my ex tried all he could, visited so many hospitals to know if anything could be done. I also learnt that my ex cried cos of this.


 Wonderful, I cried for him, he cried for another girl. I got a call from my ex on monday night and he was trying to take me down memory lane, talking about our good old days, I didnt let him drag me down there with him. Later my cousin called me n told me my ex is coming back for real this time.

Now I feel very terrible cos I feel am being used, I think he is only coming back becos it didn't work out between him and his ex and cos am AA ( my cousin told him), I feel that he never loved me enough and just wants to end up with me cos he doesn't have any other alternative making me his 2nd best, I feel that his heart will always be where his ex is and that will make him not to love me enough. 


My cousin said I shouldn't reason that way cos same thing happened to him which am aware of, and he has gotten over the girl 4 real. I just feel terrible n heartbroken all over again and i dont know what to do + i don't know if i still love him or will ever do cos of this . Don't know if i should accept him when the time comes.

Pls I need your candid advice + I will also take it to God in prayers. Thanks for taking out your time to read this.


*Why are you confused?dont you know what you want?seems you dream a lot and the answer you seek is already in one of your dreams.


147 comments:

  1. Poster,men are scarce oh!...
    Marry this one pricing you!...
    Don't end up a frustrated aunty gwe gwe gwe!...

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    1. Queen and boss, very wicked geh.

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    2. Confused chronicle

      Confused poster

      I have one question for u; ur write is just filled wt-- Ex this Ex that, is He d only man in d world?

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    3. Stellar nwunye Korkus pls serve pop corn n ice cream anytime its ds Kain of chronicles u wanna share, if not na only u go read am..,. Kikiki

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    4. I hate this phrase "Men are scarce". Well,we are all entitled to our opinion.But poster,why not wait for the guy's prosposal first?Why are you planning ahead of him?Calm down and pray as you said.

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    5. Wait so you want to marry this ex u are always dreaming about. The story is so confusing which one is the first chronicle which one is the second. Who is the drug dealer who is the ex. I have no advice as I don't understand. But all I grasp is you like your ex more than he likes you. That is recipe for disaster. Why are u always dreaming??? Joseph the dreamer.

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    6. What is a female Joseph called? answer Josephine.
      Poster u can dream! Chai. Well prepare ur answer while u await his proposal.

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    7. Joseph d dreamer.... Confused you...please don't marry any of the exes,cos you will soon write the third and fourth chronicle

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    8. You are hung up on your ex, and yes you are second choice.

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  2. Poster, you remind me of Josephine the dreamer...

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    1. A guy would likely not take you back if this happened to him.

      It's like he sees you as his only option and wants to give it a try...... But if he cheated on you once, there's a probability that he might do it again.

      You should weigh your options, and hopefully you'll have the dream that'll confirm everything for you since you're gifted.

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    2. Pls and pls , I'm not the anonymous insulting people that commented on my chronicle. I sent in my story cos I want to hear the bitter truth from you guys with the insults I knew will follow suit. I know that most of the bvs have been in my shoe or even worse, we didn't know about it cos they didnt send in their chronicles. Pls be so sure the anonymous insulting people is actaully the poster before you all heap more insults on my head. The only person I v reliped is "anonymous 06:08.

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  3. All the dream thing confused me. Main thing u are AA. He is AS. He now wants u cos his last girl was AA. Anyways yea you might have been second choice but it might still work and he realised he loved u all along or it might not work. Who knows? Decide what u want to do. Then for ur dreams, i like the fact God speaks to you through your dreams a lot. You're like me and i don't joke with my dreams. You should maybe always write them down somewhere so you can always go back to read them and understand them better

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    1. Dear poster do not see it like that, cus his ex dint see it this way when he left you and went back to her. God must have used your dream to get you ready all along, that's why you kept having dreams of them not being together. Instead of looking at it as being used, why don't you see it as the will of God, afterall you once dated, I even like the fact the he is a friend of your cousin so chances of him hurting you are slim, give him a chance afterall what would be would be

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    2. Was he not friends with her cousin when he dumped her the first time??

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    3. People actually read this chronicles. I must try to well

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  4. Firstly, I love you for your dreams, you're our Josephine, I can dream as well but not like yours.

    Now let's see maybe you will still dream about your future together, above all, put everything in prayer




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Me I have dreams of when my boyfriends start having an affair or when there's a girl trying to win their affection. It's so accurate and it makes it easy to leave the relationship. Had to warn my hubby about it cus il always know

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  5. My sister just open a ministry, you'll make a good prophetess. My dreams dey learn for where your dreams dey..lol.

    As for the main matter, give him a chance, I know it's painful, also pray about it.

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    1. The only thing I can understand in your chronicle is that your dream comes true.

      Keep dreaming

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  6. Pray to God to reveal to you who you will marry OK God answers prayers OK will be fine OK

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  7. gan learn how to communicate effectively and stop ranting like a child

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  8. Its about YOU, YOURSELF& YOU .do you want him or not?? I am not in his mind to know wether his intentions are genuine.You will have to find out for yourself that's if he is true to himself.

    Meanwhile which EX came back? the drug dealer ? I sha know an ex came back with full force.Let me go and read again.


    Incase you say YES, I pray it works out.I don't want you crying again.

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  9. Madam Joseph the dreamer, couldn't read your story till the end. You are too confused, better dream and see yourself doing great things. All this your dreams about men doesn't make sense Abeg!!

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  10. Madam Josephine the dreamer.

    So what exactly.... Like seriously what really is your problem. Better sleep and dream where you chase your ex with broom because seriously he wont stop banging sister AS.

    Who you be?.... Keep on moving down memory lane. But wait o. Only two guy within the space of 2 years... No other proposals or what?

    BreakUp and MakeUp is so stressing. Once you are an Ex, Tafia! Vamoose!.#Whispers... It's either you still love him or you are Konjified that's why you are dreaming all this keke maruwa dream.

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  11. Josephine the dreamer..all I read was dream 1, dream 2 and dream 3..pheeewwww..most boring chronicle ever..u could have just said"my ex broke up with his fiancé and now wants me back cos der genotype don't match" BV'S should I go back or not cos I feel like 2nd best..
    The plenty dream just messed it all up..
    Plus,if u keep thinking about a particular thing,u will surely see it in ur dream..dreams are just after thought of d dis activities

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    1. You can't understand move on then n stop ranting like u r the smartest

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    2. Poster u are very stupid, who asked u to bring dis ur nonsensical chronicle here,now u are going under anonymous to insult people abi, u must be out of ur senses, obviously u are a very dull girl wit a very bad character dats why u are a second choice,idiot, efulefu, stop going around to insult people nobody begged u to bring ur confused chronicle wit bad grammar here, anumpama

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    3. Anonymous 17:Jezzzzz, the way you guys insult people easily without getting your facts right is awful. What makes you think I the poster is the same as the anonymous that is going around insulting people. Pls try and use your brain some times. I sent in my story cos am prepared for the insults n bitter truth that will come. And for your to call me names doesnt make you a better person than I am. I accept the fact that someone is trying to make me his 2nd choice n I thank God am aware of that. What about you? How are you sure you are not the 6th, 7th, or 8th choice of the person you are with, just that you dont know it. Pls always try to your facts right before you cuss out.

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  12. All this xfactor don tire me abeg. If you don't want him leave him alone; don't enter where your heart doesn't want to

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    1. Hahahah @xfactor, this one pass xfactor.
      Long-winded, confused write up. If you don't mind being 'make I manage option' go for it.
      But trust me, if he sees someone better than you, he will dump you like bad breath.
      Because the reason(whatever that may be) he made you his ex before is still there.

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    2. Abi o u dey mind d confused geh, insted of her to follow her feelings. Her heart hv said it all

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  13. this is crazy , you want honest answer , ask yourself what do you want, which one you come dey give us hard maths to solve , solve the equation and find x

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    1. Kikiki she Don find EX (X) already ooo, na for her to differentiate wrt to X n Y.

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  14. Am scared of ur dreams o...
    Ha u to dey dream
    Are not someone ex?
    Or is it's not someone that will marry ur ex..
    I wonder how u will b in real life😕😕😕
    Dreamer😀😁😂

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  15. Blood of NEBUCHADNEZZAR!!!! Can't believe I read all that.... Look like seriously, poster the answers you seek are in your dreams o

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  16. Stupid write up. Almost gave me a headache.

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    1. Who asked you to read it

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    2. See her here again insulting people, poster u dey craze

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  17. Chronicles of dreams..hmmmm...

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  18. Very exhausting.. I stupidly read to the end. Are we suppose to choose husband for you?

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    1. If you don't have anything meaningful to save kindly move on

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  19. Chronicle of a dreamer,when your dream can tell you what tomorrow will be like for you why disturbing us.

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    1. Who begged you to comment

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    2. Mumu poster aka anonymous 16:37 I think the reason why u are dis unfortunate is because u have a very bad character, work on ur attitude bitch, second choice oshi

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    3. Anonymous 17:29, Jezzzzz, the way you guys insult people easily without getting your facts right is awful. What makes you think I the poster is the same as the anonymous that is going around insulting people. Pls try and use your brain some times. I sent in my story cos am prepared for the insults n bitter truth that will come. And for your to call me a "bitch" doesnt make you a better person than I am. I accept the fact that someone is trying to make me his 2nd choice n I thank God am aware of that. What about you? How are you sure you are not the 6th, 7th, or 8th choice of the person you are with, just that you dont know it. Pls always try to your facts right before you cuss out.

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  20. This is a complex web of dreams mixed with reality. Wehdone Josephina. You may give it a trial, it is easy to know if you are being used if you are observant and prayerful.

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  21. Bet why? Poster, your chronicle is disjointed. My ex bestfriend fiance, cousin uncles ex?? What is this sef? Ok, i think you're confused and so am i after reading this write up. You know what, JUST DREAM ABOUT IT

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  22. I don't even understand sef, biko keep dreaming, u ll get there.
    My cousin friend best friend biko I can't crack my brain in something I don't know 😐😐

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  23. Nothing hurts than being an option!! I dont know about others but i cant condone being an option;which is the reason i always pray for God to send me my own lady at the right time..cos i know how deep i can take someone to heart when i say i love/cherish that person..cos truthfully the stigma of not being valued the same way i value the person can just so make me insecured/scared..

    Poster,you cant be a fool to someone twice! Its a choice this time around..
    This Ex is actually coming for you cos you are his option now,and even if he has a million and one reason to come back;just know that the first is simply because "YOU ARE HIS OPTION"..

    How can you claim to love someone and still make them an option??

    How can you love someone and refuse to place them first as your priority??

    How can you claim to love someone when you dont even know what hurts them,how it hurts them,when it hurts and lastly how to help them heal??

    Do you think you would be giving this chronicle if the last girl was "AA" and not "AS" ??
    Wont they be happily married by now??

    This is what i term conditional love? And heaven knows i wont pray to have a love life that comes with conditions..

    If you cant love someone selflessly and wholeheartedly;then you dont deserve them in your life..

    Someone out there is praying to have you in his life as his wife,and you are busy thinking of going back to your vomit who doesnt even know what the word "LOVE" means...or rather the world "prioritize"..

    If you marry that guy,he would feel free to misbehave to your face,cos he knows only a lady with esteem issues will consider what you are just doing,or probably would do!!

    If this is what you call love;i dont want a part of it!! Cos i know what true/real love is all about..

    God bless you!!

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. thank you martins, you penned it down the way I couldn't. Poster beware!!

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    2. the lady green20 May 2017 at 15:46

      Wow! God bless you for this, you spoke to me too. Poster, you already have wisdom, ask God for how to use it.

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    3. Am so in love with your comment ,I have a thing 4 focused guys!

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    4. Martins your are very correct. I can't be any ones alternative, never.

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    5. Chai @ Martins how do I ferry hugs n pecks ur way?

      Ur write up always speaks volumes of u; a good man wt a good heart.👍

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    6. Martins Aboy pls Hw do I get a blog I D?

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    7. Martins you sure sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. I've learned from this comment. Keep being the wise and mature guy that you are.

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    8. @Dainty,Good to know the little piece helped..
      @The Lady Green,God bless you too..
      @Anon 15:59,cheers!! #hugsToYou
      @Lucile;Thanks for the compliment ma! God bless you and yours..
      @EhiGrace,that is just it..#smiles
      @Monkeynofine,how is youuuuu dearie? #wink
      @Ms SSS,use God is Good transport so the hugs wont get cold before it reaches me..i love warm hugs! #LOL


      @Anon 18:37,CLICK HERE

      OR

      CLICK HERE AND FOLLOW THE STEPS GRADUALLY

      Regards!!

      @MARTINS ABOY

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    9. Martins Aboy I love you gosh please let be friends. Wink

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    10. Martins hi,pls whats ur official contact(mail or phone number)?

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    11. Martins hi,pls whats ur official contact(mail or phone number)?

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    12. Martins hi,pls whats ur official contact(mail or phone number)?

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  24. This your story dikwa long sha. All I got from this is that you're 2nd fiddle, hr loved his ex and maybe still loves her.he is ready to settle down now but doesn't want to go through that stress of dating someone afresh, so he is just gonna make do with you as per " the devil you know is better than the angel you don't". Solution? I don't know for you o. You get to make that decision yourself. IMO, stay away from him but who knows? I'm not the one wearing the shoe.

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  25. Poster this your chronicles is somehow disjointed sha, next time calm down & go straight to the point please cos no one is rushing you. To me an ex should remain an ex, he came back the first time and still broke up with you stating that he cannot continue because your drug dealer ex is from same town with him. My question now is, has he suddenly forgot about that your ex? what made him change his mind? AA genotype I guess, but do you think that's a fair reason why you should go back to him. Frankly speaking there're lots of girls out there with AA genotype that he can marry, so if he's not going to give you reasons other than that, then I think you should take a long walk & never look back. Besides, I see you're Joseph the dreamer so you should be able to interpret some of your dreams as regarding him. All the best.

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    1. X X X upandan, choi! Phew! 😧😥

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  26. Babe it's like u sleep too much, are u jobless? Just kidding tho😂😂😂😂 leave the both ex and move on with your life! Search for someone who will love and marry u for no reasons! Cause this very one here ave a reason he want to settle down with u badly!

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    1. Be specific, which one?

      Act one, scene one abi Scene 2 Act 4

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  28. Mehnnnn...u could have made this story concise,how old are you?.

    Stella you are sarcastic.

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  29. Josephine d dreamer...pls leave all these "X" and find someone neutral...not easy but like u said u seem like a second option...when someone loves u he won't make u an option..pls look for somebody neutral and takes u as number 1..

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  30. And those his friends? Fogerrit, they are just helping their friend (your ex) move his ministry to its permanent site. Iro ni every every.

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  31. Yawnssss*boring, what a chronicle and plenty grammar

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  32. Oh Martins Aboy..A young Man full of wisdom..Please take his advice..Poster you are involving yourself in a web of emotions..Stop allowing people to treat you as a second fiddle..Please leave all the ex's and find a fresh loving and matured man..Know what you want and define it please..Stop being available to him all time..Greet when you see and waka pass, there was no need for you to have sat down with him..Give yourself some respect..

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  34. Why can't you cut all these people off and mive on madam? Are they the only men in Nigeria??? All i see is drug dealer and ex everywhere. Madam expand your horizon biko. Travel, get on social media, relocate and socialize jare. Why are you limiting yourself like this?

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  35. Man man man issue all the time. Aunty Abeg free us. We are tired. Tomorrow you will come with another one. Abeg focus on other things.

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  36. Maybe God plan that both of will marry, stil hold on more dreams will come to show u the way

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  37. Stay far away from this your Ex...if he felt you weren't good enough the first time then he's only cowing back because he is out of options.

    Don't be an option to anyone..you dear take a long walk and never look back.

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  38. If he really loved u, he would have wifed u, u are an option and I doubt if he really wants u

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  39. Man matter will kill women. Jesus it is always the women coming here to give chronicles and all is centred around men. You hardly ever hear all these kind of chronicles from men. Mtchewwww

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  40. Stay far away from this your Ex...if he felt you weren't good enough the first time then he's only cowing back because he is out of options.

    Don't be an option to anyone..you dear take a long walk and never look back.

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  41. Poster,i think you should pray seriously about this. Since you're gifted in seeing things about you in dreams, i think you should pray to God to reveal to you if that guy is your man. It doesn't matter if you are an option or not, otherwise how then do we say 'that what is yours is truly yours '. No matter what happens, when God destines something for you, wherever or whatever that thing does, it will still come back to you as the real owner. Just pray about it for directions.

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    1. @sleek, 100likes, @ poster what is yours will always be yours, just be patient about it and be prayerful, nobody will take what belong to you, your destiny can only be delay but it can never be change, just pray against every spirit of delay in your marriage. Goodluck.

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  42. His friends love abi like you?
    It's planned.
    Just to make you succumb to the ex's pleas.
    Wake up!
    Move on!
    That your cousin sef.....La WA!

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    1. As if "His friends" liking her will build a happy home for her if she eventual marries d He-diot

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  43. Haaa mehn u dream too much biko.. I even got scared reading..
    You shouldn't reason like dat cos he still left u before cos he felt cheated on thereby going to d girl as his option den so dnt reason like dat.. If u love him go ahead if u dnt love him enough nd feel used den he should go

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  44. Guys help me thank God, finally after almost five years of Ttc,i'm pregnant .God is awesome.

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    1. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
      Congratulations

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    2. Wow grabs d 🎤🎤🎤🎤.


      Where u @ bv Chikito come n give us ur sopranic voice.

      *singing* To God be the glory great things He has done.........


      🙌🙌

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    3. 😂😂 @Ms SSS it alto actually.

      Congrats shandy sleeks! 👏🏽

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  45. Hmmm Martins haf vexed oo, but finally this is the truth. To me, if u ever hestitate between choosing me nd someone else, please don't choose me! I can never be an option so babe don't let this guy make u an option cos u are not, know ur worth!!! Dis guy will never love u as he loves d AS lady, he will always remind u in d slightest provocation how he wouldn't have ended up with you if not for the genotype issue. And also pray for clearer vision about this, and for the last time don't go back to the scumbag, I don't believe he is ur man, Gods gift addeth no sorrow be WISE

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    1. Martins is a quality husband "man" material. Such wisdom from a young dude is applaudable

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  46. Don't rush into a relationship with him. Just be friends for now and see how it goes. You have a gift already and if you abstain from sex God will reveal it to you soon in your dreams. I have that gift too. I like you already.

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  47. Why do you keep saying "coming for you" like you are some sort of a caged bird or in some entrapment? If you feel you can live with his reasons for coming back, why not if not? Remember sometimes what is yours would always find its way back to you. Think it deeply and make a good decision or better still dream another dream😎

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  48. Babe, I tried getting my head around your story but it's all over the place, just go to bed and sleep. To be honest, you will find the answer in your dream.

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    1. Aswear, I got confused from the 3rd paragraph.

      Don't worry you will still dream and get answer.

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  49. Before I get interested in your "spectacular dreams", I am more interested in the "spectacular things" that happens between your thighs.
    Are penis or penises entering there? If so, forget about these dreams (and prayers); chastity is all that matters to God?
    However, if you are chaste because you fear God, then it is well with you and you should take these dreams as God's leading.. . for he said in his word that in all things he works for the good of they that love him . . .
    But know that God revealed something does not mean that you will not "work out your salvation with fear and trembling"

    Feel free to google the scripture sentences in quote.

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    1. If you had read very well, u will see where I talked about being celibate for almost 2yrs now.

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    2. Poster maybe you need to stop being celibate and start fucking. Maybe this ex keeps doing forward and backward because he still wants to taste the fruit. Let him taste then you will know whether he really likes u or not.

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  50. Cut them off, your ex and his friends. If your cousin wants to pressurise you, avoid him too. The story is tiring for me as it is. Break up with this one, back with this one, engaged to that one, blablabla I tire on your behalf. You need a fresh start my dear. In the end, do what makes you happy and live with whatever decision you take. I pray this is your last chronicle sha.

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  51. Madam, i will advise you not to accept his proposal, you might suffer after marriage. Wait, your own Adam is coming in a little while.

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  52. Good dreams. But how about your vagina; is it good?
    The last person we read in the scriptures that dreamt dreams resisted the pressures from Potipher's wife daily, landed in jail was forgotten and ended up being the defacto king of Egypt. You know the story; don't you?
    so as long as you keep yourself pure, all things including this marriage will be pure.

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  53. Sit this ex down and ask him the question;
    "supposing this ex-girlfriend comes back and offers her vagina free to him even while married to you. . .?"
    Will he dive in and in and in and hide it from you?

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  54. Poster........you're really not in any dilemma because from all your writeup what I can discover is your mind was still with your first ex.
    I am trying to guess that he's your cousin's friend. Whatever the case, for him to come back for you meant he has feelings for you in the first place. I would suggest you give chance to prove his love for you, but please don't rush things. Let your love for him grow again and be sure he cares for you......
    Also see if you you will dream about you two soonest. God will guide you if you take it to him in prayer

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  55. Hi everyone,I'll be right back

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  56. Poster........let him come to you to tell you what he wants in plain language. Let the relationship be we defined and you can take things from there.
    I can assure you that for him to come back to you he still love you....just take things easy with him, no rushing until you are sure you have feelings for him too....

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  57. Kai this chronicle na WA na real WA!! Abet move on jor

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  58. Sorry o...I will ve to sleep, then dream my own dream in order to be able to give you an advice.
    I too am a Josephine, just wait until u hear

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  59. Only a lady with very poor self esteem will go back to a guy as 'standby'.
    Don't allow your cousin and your ex to mold your brain like eba,because from what you have written up there it appears your brain is very very light.

    See how you quickly called your cousin when you saw your ex'fiance's pre wedding pictures on Facebook.
    How e take concern you? Were you planning to serve small chops at their wedding?
    He is already snapping his fingers and you are wagging your tail. What are you visiting his house for with your girlfriend as bodyguard?

    Someone who is genuinely planning to move on, will avoid situations that will place you around the ex. You are still greeting up and down, shining teeth, forming friendship with his friends who probably knew he was planning to dump you months before you found out. Guys that can lie like Satan for each other? And you are there debating where to sit? Are you a kid?

    In short, no dey disturb pesin with this kind juvenile story. Last last you go dey alright.

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  60. That's why they say there is no recession in Nigeria. See the kind ntie ntie poyoyo stories una dey bring. Wehdone.

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  61. Very annoying story. Is he the only man in the world. See as them they use u play ard. Including his friends. Are u this desperate to marry. Receive sense poster.

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  62. hi everyone 1st time commenting I love everyone shout out to miss. Priya chikito and other bv I can't mention hrt u all

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  63. Babe you are blessed to be a good dreamer but you don't even follow your dreams na internet you go con follow? Exes are no good move forward please,his friends like you in your presence when you are not there do you know what they say about you.
    Don't be confused rather be focused and learn to listen to God! God bless you

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  64. why all your dreams don't show positive side all na negative. check ur brain girl.

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  65. No be small thing poster you dream past Joseph I swear.

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  66. Ok I haff woken up. Poster do not go back to your vomit.it's only dogs that do that.

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  67. My dear, u r asking men and most of us will give u the wisdom of men which is foolishness b4 God. First of all God is interested in ur relationship with ur ex (and/or it is a major part of ur destiny) this is why u repeatedly dream of him, dreams are given to us by God for direction and revelation ( see bible) although there are also demonic dreams to manipulate us. But from previous dreams u can see the pattern that the dreams abt ur ex appear to unravel as u dream them. So go to the giver of ur dreams (God) and ask him for further clarification if u need it. Take out time to fast and pray to God. Secondly I understand ur pain with being second choice , but that is just one perspective. Stimes in life we desire things that are not Gods will for us ( either thru the desires of the flesh or under manipulation of the devil to make us miss our destiny), so have u considered whether God put the AS as a stumbling block to help ur ex Nt make a mistake. With time (if u think he hasn't realized it now.. bcos he must also be reasoning to himself why he always comes back to u) he will realize and thank God for whatever led him back to u. Thirdly, ur hurt abt being second opinion is from a place of pride and it is not the right attitude or spirit. Do U know how many times we treat God as second option ( try things our way first or pursue other things or gods above him) yet he still loves us and takes us back. B4 u ask God to speak first repent of this pride and tell God genuinely and openly how u feel bcos he knows.. but tell him that u r submitted to his sovereign will and u will Nt let pride or ur negative emotions get in the way and he shld help u with these negative feelings and help you see things from His perspective... Lastly, listen to ur inner gut, that quiet (still) small voice... don't let the voice of men's opinions and ur pride/hurt be louder than that voice.. kisses dear.. don't worry so much... u will be fine. I pray for u that u will not make a mistake and that Gods counsel and purpose alone will stand concerning u and ur ex. IJN I cancel every agenda of hell to deceive and derail u from ur God given destiny.

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  68. Josephu ala la! Joseph the dreamer!

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  69. My darling, NEVER get married for the wrong reason(s). If there isn't flaming passion between both of you and if the idea of being his wife and he, your husband doesn't give you the butterflies in the belly effect, perhaps you should reconsider. If you do marry the wrong person, at best your marriage will be mediocre. At worst, a miserable union which mimics a death sentence looming over you like the proverbial sword of Damocles.‎

    Sweetheart, marriage is a physical as well as spiritual commitment which shouldn't be entered into lightly. Marriage is way more serious than most people realise. It determines the course of your entire future. A lot of unfortunate individuals actually truncated what would have been a very successful and amazing future. Some ended up with premature deaths, some with mental, psychological and physical issues, some lost themselves and ended up bitter and cynical women who blame men for everything, including when it doesn't rain or when the weather is humid.

    Allow me massage your mind with the simple truth. Don't get carried away if either of your exes propose. A man can marry a lady he is "comfortable" but not in love with, while maintaining a relationship with the love of his life, if she's game. Darling, you think you feel heartbroken and terrible now? Wait till you marry the wrong guy. Only then would you know the true definition of MISERY!

    He cheated on you with her, broke up with you for her, dated her well enough to be engaged to her without even looking back. The only reason they couldn't get married is because of genotype incompatibility and he wept like a new born baby when they broke up... need I state more? You are a QUEEN, Kings go to battle and subject themselves to all sorts of torturous competitions just to win the heart of a queen. You're not a courtesan who can be picked for pleasure and dropped at easy or used as a buffer or a consolation prize because the "original choice" is no longer available. Naahhh baby girl, you're royalty. It's an affront to be treated like an afterthought, a sloppy second, a mere option, a plan "B", the desirable due to availability because "when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable". Shut it down right now, you truly deserve better, my love. Hang in there, a man worthy of you will locate you sooner than you expect.
    #e-bearhugs.‎

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  70. Go back to God in prayers and he will revail if he is ur husband or not. But based on your dream, I don't think his your future husband. Broken ring etc is not a good sign. I think I can relate to ur dream a lil sha. Pls just d same way and manner God reveal stuffs to u in dream, he will surely give u a sign if he is yours and besides,try to clear your mind off this ur ex so u can hear clearly when God speaks. Talking about u thinking if u will bcome a scond option, pls clear that off ur mind jor, there's nothing like 123 options, all that matters is d will of God for u ad who your future hubby is, no matter how, when and place u find him, carry on and let Gods will b done.

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  71. Miss confused dreamer don't follow him o he will still leave u when he gets a better choice , u are not his choice u are the backup plan

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  72. Wow! Babe you can dream sha...Anyway the issue here is whether you still love him, and how you feel about his reason for coming back to you is understandable but might not be totally correct, but sometimes with guys scenarios like the above is what gives us clarity, generally the good guys are mostly confused about who they really love. you are a lady with your own healthy pride hence your concern about your position, but you must understand that being a "2nd best" of a guy is not really a bad thing, as a matter of fact you can be his 2nd best but his best fit and he loves you even more than he knows he does, sometimes our best pair of shoes are not our best fit. If he cares about you to come back even after all the chaos then it's a proof he truly cares and sees you as a safe place...many successful marriages today are not the one whose partners were their preferred choice..If there is an atom of love between you it can be nourished and it would in time grow into a monument. Eventually you both would realise you were meant for each other.

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  73. Also the bible makes it clear that dreams come from a multitude of thoughts or activities, it's a smarter move to rule your life by the word and opinions of seasoned elders than by dreams alone, I am not trying to imply that dreams are irrelevant, all I ask is that you should not make life decisions that you would live with awake based on dreams alone ...

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  74. Why can't we be civil and humane while making comments, a wise adult should not be judgemental and so easily use insultive phrases, you can't run a home, business or your life like that, if you do it's sure disaster..make your points without insults because it's very unnecessary...it's so easy to judge people when you don't have your own emotions in play..

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  75. Madam Josephine,prayer is your strength...

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