IHN- MONDAY

Hmmm....It is well.

Have a beautiful holiday today as you Observe Democrazy day...Kisses!

UGOCHI COVERS IHN

Hi Stells! Ndewo! My name is Ugochi.
My day is incomplete without SDK blog. I've been a BV for about 3years now.. But i don't comment cos I don't have a blog ID. I've tried to create one, but along the line, i get confused and stop. . I will surely get one wen i am done with school. Final year/semester is so stressful, jeez! And its worse in my dept.
Anyways, hope i qualify for face of IHN.
Keep doing your good work and more grease to ur elbows. I love u very much.
Three gboza with Beyonce hand for U!!!

Hey you okay 'gochi?or is it Ugo or chi?lol

Kisses to you babe...na me love you pass

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TOMISIN AND BRO COVER IHN
Madam stellz to badt...blogger toh gbayii all the way. The blog is now my second book. Attached is a pic of my cute brother n I. He's a photographer (left) and me (right, a beevee) a wardrobe consultant (fashion designer) lol. And greetings to all beevee dovie,lolo ideato, queen and boss TGW, galore d galore I duff my hat.


So pls patronise us so as to make ur events memorable
Ig: ayaworanmedia contact ‎08066062915
Ig: Heritage couture contact 08080617502


LOL....Wardrobe consultant for real?wow kool..

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABIMBOLA

Kindly help me celebrate my wonderful friend.

It was very hard, to pen down my thoughts ;
I don't know how to say that I love you lots.

But, finally, I got myself to express how much I love you. 
Yes, we argue and quarrel ( that's how it should be,I suppose)...
In case you don't know,  I draw inspiration from your strength. 

 Abimbola, this is just a prelude of an eternal saga of me, 
Showing how over you, I've gone gaga.

I love you completely my shugalala. 
Happy birthday my human diary. Have a wonderful new age.


With love,

Fe Mi

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BV ROHDA REX SHARES HER BABY MAMA STORY BECAUSE SOMEONE IS TRYING TO CYBER BULLY HER
INTO SILENCE.

 I met this guy when I was in SS2. He approached me and told me he wants to marry me. 

 That he's been watching me for a long time. Well,  I told him to go see my grand parents. I was living with them that time.  I thought he wouldn't, but he did. My grannies just laughed it off. But we started dating anyway. 

Then, he took me to his place. God, I was dumbfounded. The guy's parents lived in a mansion. I didn't know o. And he was the only son.  We went in, he introduced me to his mom. The mom smiled at me, and told me she likes me,  and that was it. I took it as a confirmation and bared it all.

  I got pregnant the first time we had sex. Then I told him. He was so happy. Told the mom to start preparing for intro. That I was pregnant for him. The mom practically refused. That I came for the money. Don't  know how she convinced his son, the guy later came to me to abort the child. That he wasn't ready yet.  I refused. He pleaded with me to do it, that he doesn't want me to get pregnant before marriage, I refused. He gave me 30k for the abortion. I've already decided not to do it. But I collected the money from him and went to the market to got some baby things for myself.

 I got home and told my grannies everything. They decided to go and see the guy's parents. They went but came back dejected. There was nothing the woman didn't tell my grannies. She even accused me of coming to their son because of his money. I took everything with faith.  And I suffered because of my stupidity. When I was six months gone, I heard he has travelled out of the country. I cried eh, That was it, I didn't hear from him again until I gave birth.

 The day I gave birth, I was alone in the house. If not for God, and one other woman that was passing by and heard me screaming, I don't Where I would have been now. 


She came in, went to get help and they delivered me a beautiful baby boy.. A boy that the woman has been looking for. And u know what, this woman came back o. She came with few of her kinsmen and started crying and begging,  that she was sorry. And we all knew she came back because i gave birth to a "boy" . But my people refused. 

Till today, I haven't heard from my baby's father. I don't even know if he's alive, and u know what, I don't even care. my boy's 5years now and he's staying with my aunt...



*I have encouraged her to share this story so that she can be free,I know this is a blog but it begins from somewhere,the minute you show your haters that the weapon they think they have on your cannot hurt you,then you free yourself...they have been dropping these comments trying to firce her into silence and not be herself....


She is just a small girl who made a mistake but life goes on..We have other baby mamas here who have found their self worth and cannot be silenced with their beautiful mistakes..BV Trinity,please reach out to her and encourage her..please!


I also need us to show her love and ask on bended knees that whoever is trying to torment her to stop...
From now Rhoda,be free and mingle here as a baby mama..

We love you just the way you are!



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FROM SINGLES MINGLES TO INTRODUCTION

Good day Stellz,
With so much joy I write to tell you about our just concluded Introduction. You would recall I sent you a message when I proposed.
Will keep you posted about the wedding proper.
All thanks to God who gave you the insight to come up with this blog.
NB You know not where you'll find that special one so I encourage all not to give up.
Anonymous mode pls and attached are pictures for your viewing pleasure .
God bless You Stellz


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BUSINESS MEME

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MESSAGE TO LADY GBENSHING IN THE DREAM


Hello Stella,my heart goes out to the Lady gbensing in her dream,you posted on Friday IHN, had a friend who went through same bad dream like hers,but has her baby few months ago,

hers was even worse,as she also dreams of masquerades and always eating in the dream, sometimes it is not about praying,but finding the root,and knowing where to target her prayers to....please Stella post, she can send me a mail, gratefulheart507@gmail.com....



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RE-FAILED JAMB
So, I have not been online much for close to two weeks now.(went for my dad's burial). So, I was reading past IHN today and saw a post about someone that failed jamb seven times.
http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017.

I wish to reach out to that person. Education is good, but in today's Nigeria, it is not 'wow'. If he or she is interested, I will train him or her free of charge to become a shoe maker. While waiting for admission into higher institution, no crime in being self employed.

If he or she is not interested, if you have any other person that needs the knowledge, I will be happy to train. I reside on the mainland.
send mail to mustardsshoes@gmail.com


if the person doesnt contact you then,choose from anyone of the people that would contact you



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PLEASE TREAT AS URGENT

I am a fresh graduate and just finished serving in one of the western states.the issue is towards the end of my service I started experiencing some discomfort in my eye and blurry vision I've been seeing a Doctor and taking medication but there is no improvement, I went for check up yesterday and he said he would refer me to see a specialist.


 I don't have any money for all that as I have spent all my savings on drugs et all, I struggled my way through school and hoping for a brighter future before this eye issue came up. Please I'm not begging for money all I need is the help of any BV that's an Ophthalmologist  who can check my eyes for free and prescribe drugs, I will buy the drugs .


 Also any BV that knows where they conduct free eye test in Lagos should also contact me. the doctor says it an infection I contacted probably from the water I used in the state I served. My number is 09031276171

Any Optometrist in the house that can help?

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TESTIMONY AND VACANCY

Stella oooooo, God don do am.
After God na you oooo.


Do u remember how I do plead with you to post advert for me when you still do free Advert?


I only count on sales I make each time you do the Advert.


Yes! I picked up pieces of my life after I lost my job in Mtn in 2015.

God has milliontiplied my hard work + your assistance.

To Mrs Orusa, she connected me with lots of her friends, all the way from Awka - Ibom, Fabmum, Princess and so many Sdk Bv's that encourage with Patronage, words of Advice, Thank You!

To any Sdk Naturalista gets 10% off their order this Month of May with gifts attached.


Abeg I need a Naturalista's bv as Sales Rep, qualification OND
Microsoft word, excel, PowerPoint will be an advantage.
Graphic design will be an advantage.
Must reside around Ikeja, Egbeda.
Send me a cover letter to bimfemnaturalhair@gmail.com and she should confirm Done via whatsapp 07032378915

Stella, Only God can bless you, but Trust me, he will Bless your Children more than your imagination, your cup will never run dry. My Hubby and I says WE LOVE YOU!

find attached my New Store in Ikeja

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Iman Give-Away For the Month of Ramadan(2017)

Hello Big Sister We like to assist four Muslim family for this Month of Ramadan..
We gonna pick 2 families within now to15th of Ramadan by giving out 5k to each of them..
and pickup the remaining 2 families within 16th to 30th of Ramadan..

Am Sure this will go long way for the Sahur and Iftar..
So any Muslim family here that Really Need it should Send mail to Engr.ayyub@gmail.com With Proved!!


Ramadan Kareem!!!

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SATURDAY IN HOUSE GISTS WINNER

Blog Visitor Miss Ess,your entry in the post touched Angle Beautiful,the sponsor of the post...she says that your story touched her.Please correspond with me via email.
Thanks...
As for the other comments post winner inside IHN.....I have received no word back yet.




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THE NON JUDGEMENTAL MUM
I went to see a friend that just returned from the abroad,  got to her house and the daughter opened the door.  We were both seeing each other for the first time though I have see her pictures on facebook.

ME: whoa you have grown o, you are such a big girl now 
(She didn't respond just kept staring at me. As I was about saying something else) 
GIRL: Men you are fat 
ME: (In my mind)  ehn?  This girl talk wetin I think say she talk or he fall from her mouth 
Then I started petting myself: na small pickin dey worry her,  me fat? Me wey Keto don help I'm even planning on sending my before and after pictures to my Keto facebook group . But the girl no rest o
GIRL: (In her yeye American accent) you are really fat. 
ME: (In my mind)  OK na slap you dey fine if I sound you ehn....
Just then her mum (a lepa ) came out laughing, started gisting and gist enter gist.

On my way home I was just thinking how I have changed,  the old me would have been critical of my friend on how she didn't reprimand her daughter / told her to apologize /how she didn't bring her up properly even quote "train up your child in the way..... " But being a mum now I have become less critical of other mums .

I Have had situations where l taught my kids certain things and right before my very eyes they do the exact opposite and then you will have those senior special adviser mothers dishing out advise on how to discipline them.

I'm not saying my friend did right , my question to mummies in the house is, has having children changed the way you judge other people's parenting skills? 
Has it made you more or less critical of other parents.


The Iya Beji 1



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