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Monday, 15 May 2017

Man Admits To Being Physically Violent To His Wife And Begs For Forgiveness

It Takes a brave man to do this....
It takes a man who knows that this is wrong and who has convinced himself he would never do it again...but then who knows!





Let me gist you guys what happened...
He beat his wife so badly that she has a permanent mark and bruised ribs. They got married 2 years ago and were living apart but he moved to be with her last November, and in December he beat her to a pulp and broke her head!

It was so bad that none of his siblings speak to him anymore and I guess today he broke down and did what most men wouldn't do......Admitted he was wrong!
I don't know if he will do it again or not but I beg his siblings on war path with him to shield their sword and forgive him..He probably needs counselling and the love of family and friends is also in the healing process.

I don't know the situation with his wife but from the photo i saw,she is lucky she survived.




65 comments:

Joblesshousewife said...

HMMM

Miss Ess said...

This us serious. It is well

White Diamond said...

Mtchewww!!

She shouldn't forgive stupidly, is all. If he tries it again, biko port.


#WhiteDiamondOut

I am king EZE said...

It takes a real man to admit he fucked up and apologize. Work on your anger issues and learn to walk away when things start heating up.

Dawn said...

Stella,it's not your place to ask them to forgive.What if he had killed her?
His siblings that know him best cut him off,have you asked why? He's probably a brute that terrorises people.
When these wife/husband beaters cry and say sorry you sef will shed tears but when they attack their victims they never stop and will even injure you ontop.
This apology may be one in a million he had made after brutalising people he's stronger than.
Anumanu

Ndidiamaka Ndidiamaka said...

Go and sin no more

Pure Nigerian said...

Wow! I think the fact that his siblings showed how they disapproved of what he did pushed him into realizing how terrible he acted. I truly hope he has changed.

jew-di said...

It was soo bad that it had to be termed 'lucky she survived'. In just a month after leaving apart all these while when the love sef is supposed to be still concentrated.Can you imagine?. Puh- lease! It takes more than just apologies.

SANDY YO said...

You mean under just a month of staying together? Nawaaa! This one go fit change so? Toooh!

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Samuel Etim said...

Apology accepted

Jamb 2017 result is out - see how to check it

Anonymous said...

E remain fancy mumu & Linda eze husbands. Na domestic violence make Dem to always talk rubbish.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Its "sheath your sword"

Help has come for him. The fist thing is to accept that you are wrong and need help which he has done.
I pray he finds help. I also pray his wife forgives him as well as his family. May he find the help he needs so that this is not repeated.

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Chidinma Grace said...

Hmmm no amount of apology will make it right. What if the lady had died?

Mhiz A... said...

I hope he has sincerely repented or is he afraid that the wife might decide to sue him?

Women are taking the bull by the horn this time around.

But why a man can comfortably beat up a woman(whom u know can't fight back) to a pulp still amazes me.

Sandy Yo! How re u dearie?

Anonymous said...

Some men need to be castrated

Alloy Chikezie said...

That wife had better not go back to that man. He'll not change.

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BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Another chance with this type will be hard.
You'd practically be walking on egg shells, looking behind you all the time and sleeping with one eye open.

This is to hoping he has changed for good and the demon pushing him to beat his wife even up to the point of deatg has been casted into the abyss.

Chiamaka L said...

HEDIOT, CONFESSING DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT, I DUNNO IF ITS EVEN A STEP IN ANY DIRECTION SEF... YIMU

The General's Wife said...

Broke her head?
Chai!

Well,He has admitted his wrong. And wants to be a changed man.
And Like he said.
We are not perfect. No one is.

I hope you get help and I hope God heals you. And I hope God heals your wife too.May She forgive you TOTALLY.
I hope your re-birth is permanent in Jesus name!

Phrizzles said...

Speechless

Anonymous said...

may God almighty heal both of them.

Anonymous said...

Chai correct man . It takes a real man to do this . I will gladly forgive him.

Anonymous said...

Chai correct man . It takes a real man to do this . I will gladly forgive him.

jew-di said...

I tire o. What if he had killed her, who will he now be apologising to.

Mhzzbee int'l said...

So if she had died nko? Abeg abeg abeg.

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

Rubbish. They will beg you but will do worse. I grew up in a family where the man beat the wife for years so I know what am saying. She should run for dear life.

Anonymous said...

Why is it not in her place to ask them go forgive him? Are you God? That's her opinion, state urs and move along abeg.

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

its not bout coming on SM and sounding emotional hope he has truly changed?









*hangs leg on the wall*

Olivia Silk said...

Under 1 month of being with her you broke her head.
Then within 1 year, you will kill her, cut her body into pieces and put inside freezer.

Who is to say you won't do it again?
Your siblings not speaking with you shows that this wasn't a one off incident, You have been battering women since 19 kiridim. This one was just the one that broke the carmel's back.
Since you are admitting to inflicting body harm and attempted murder, you definitely need some jail time to reset your grey matter.

Booker T.

Anonymous said...

@Chidinma Grace will you just shut up?
The man has humbled himself, dropped pride and is remorseful. Why can't you people just see anything good and encourage it.
Did you kill him since when he didn't come out to apologize?
Nonsense

Makason said...

Go and sin more,Mr Man..

Just Glamour said...

They got married two years ago,and she's already receiving Anthony Joshua kinda punch.

MrsB said...

Wow. Please hang in there, please.

Jules Louis said...
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Istanbul said...

Good step from the man

code009 said...

Well, I don't want to judge you. it all depends on your wife to decide. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Its "first"

Ralu M said...

Stella forget the apology oh. If you see where these abusive men beg ehn! They will invite their friends, your friends, family members, pastors infact anybody who has any influence on you to beg you on their behalf...till his fuse sparks again and another round of begging and gifts buying ensures.
You said she was lucky to survive which means she was beaten to the point of death. Who does that if not a beast? Even if it's an animal you are beating won't your heart be touched not to talk of a human being, your own wife!
All this "I was pushed" talk makes me boil inside. If a soldier or even common police can push & provoke you and your stupid hands won't leave your sides or you voice stays calm and subservient then shove that "I was pushed" excuse up your dirty ass. Him even giving excuses for an action that defines excuses shows that his post is just to fulfill all righteousness.
His siblings should forgive him but if such men should be kept at hands length until he gets himself to seek help and truly changes. As for the wife, I pray she not only heals physically but mentally, emotionally & psychologically. I won't preach to her to return because what's to say he won't be "pushed again?" Na who die lose oh.

Anonymous said...

I forgive my husband for every wrong. He beat me..... Slept with six girls under my nose...... One has a child for him..... Maybe even more than one. But it's alright I love him and I forgive him...... He came back begging on his knees. In tears we hugged and made sweet love...... That's when I realized I must bang wale,i must screw him..... I will let him give me head in the room I share with my husband....... Lol. That's my forgiveness.... But my husband has to believe all is well first..... Just when he think he has me..... I will strike. Oh wale, my ticket to revenge..... I can't wait to kiss u..... And let u lay it head on my breasts..... In the bra hubby bought for me. #capsdontplay

Anonymous said...

I forgive my husband for every wrong. He beat me..... Slept with six girls under my nose...... One has a child for him..... Maybe even more than one. But it's alright I love him and I forgive him...... He came back begging on his knees. In tears we hugged and made sweet love...... That's when I realized I must bang wale,i must screw him..... I will let him give me head in the room I share with my husband....... Lol. That's my forgiveness.... But my husband has to believe all is well first..... Just when he think he has me..... I will strike. Oh wale, my ticket to revenge..... I can't wait to kiss u..... And let u lay ur head on my breasts..... In the bra hubby bought for me. #capsdontplay #dueces

Anonymous said...

I forgive my husband for every wrong. He beat me..... Slept with six girls under my nose...... One has a child for him..... Maybe even more than one. But it's alright I love him and I forgive him...... He came back begging on his knees. In tears we hugged and made sweet love...... That's when I realized I must bang wale,i must screw him..... I will let him give me head in the room I share with my husband....... Lol. That's my forgiveness.... But my husband has to believe all is well first..... Just when he thinks he has me..... I will strike. Oh wale, my ticket to revenge..... I can't wait to kiss u..... And let u lay ur head on my breasts..... In the bra hubby bought for me. #capsdontplay #dueces

La' Sunshine said...

Sorry I don't mean to sound off but I think have read something like this before here.

La' Sunshine said...

Hahaha this right here is funnu

St.FranKooL.... said...

#You only create conflict with others when you are in turmoil with yourself*

Rich Princess(It's me Rx) said...

Ummmm if she ever wants to go back ,she shouldn't Liv with him. Plus I'm only being fair coz I don't support divorce if not. She should just run.

Kate Pybnaija said...

He's apologized, probably because his family made him realize that what he did was wrong, if he killed her its the same apology the lady's family will collect ...Shior

temitope bunmi said...

I do hope he has truly change once a beater is always a beater

SANDY YO said...

Good good dearie! Wad up?

beejay-oro said...

Yeye......

Anonymous said...

Stella the wife is my friend and I will tell you what I know. She is an only child from jos, they dated for a few years and they got married. When he moved from ph, they were doing business together and he decided he was comfortable with it. Shortly after, she started "snooping" and saw messages from girls sending photos of their temple (naked body parts) to him. Apparently they asked him for money and he asked them for a photo of their boobs. She even as far as got calls from a girl in ph claiming she was pregnant for her husband. She was angry and was kind of keeping malice with him. Instead of the idiot to beg, he felt disrespected and beat her blue black! This happened at 5am o! Did I mention that they were living With his parents? Hmm
Anyway she forgave him next day and didn't even tell anyone, but she was still hurt by it. He kept saying he was tired of her cos she is disrespecting him. So she left! He kept blaming her for the reason he left his job even if he decided to leave on his own to be a 'family' with her, and kept accusing her for the amount of money spent at the wedding and he wants the money back. And his sister tried to calm the girl down cos she kept crying.
Anyway my friend has been crying. Stella she was the only child, she got married thinking her in-laws will be the brothers n sisters she never had. Only for this to happen. And I think this is not the first time he has beat someone going by the messages on the comments. If he is really sorry, let him face the truth. Let him call his family and her family. He took everybody to Jos to marry her and all of a sudden, hurt the whole family

Just me said...

i have seriously dated 3 men in my life and all of them have beaten me to pulp.. i wouldn't say is my attitude because am caring, sweet and very confidently beautiful. So the question is why? Well no one is a saint and it takes a real man to realize his mistakes. God help us all.

TheLagosShopper(all things BRIDEand GROOM,shoes,bags,dresses,custom made George and lace,all directly fro d popular Lagos markets,07030493148!!! said...

Only the madam can make the decision to forgive and forget,these things are hard to judge oo,maybe he's really changed and might never do it again,maybe he'll let the devil win him again sometime soon.........God forbid I find myself in such shoes,I reject it IJN!!!

Anonymous said...

the girl Just started vlog business or whatever and after she left, he deleted all her videos and closed her YouTube account

Anonymous said...

Its 'sheath' the sword not 'shield' the sword

Ronalda. said...

If you want a tree to stop bearing poisonous fruits, you don't hack off all its branches because they will grow back, you get to the root then uproot the tree completely. For those with a flair for the dramatic, the uprooted tree can be set ablaze for good measure. I salute his courage for "outing himself" but the only way this "ailment" will be completely eradicated, is to get to the root of  why he gets this violent towards his wife and work on it. He needs serious counselling and prayers.‎

There's ALWAYS a reason people act the way they do. Something or someone from his past broke his psyche and that makes him snap when he is offended by his wife. By snap, I mean mentally degenerating into subhuman mode, like a savage beast. Perhaps he grew up in an abusive home or suffered abuse as a child. There are a lot of women whose utterances and behavioural patterns generally, unleashes a man's inner dragon. However, a mentally balanced man may yell or even say things to hurt his wife in the throes of anger, that's if he is too upset to just walk away without uttering a word.

Granted, not every man is self-controlled enough to walk out in the heat of passion but no normal man keeps hitting his wife till she bleeds or crumbles to the ground unless something else is going on, call it temporary insanity if you will. It's unrealistic to assume a "real man" will NEVER hit his wife without considering the gravity of her actions. It's the gallant thing to say in theory but practically, everyone is capable of anything if tunned to the right frequency. That's why in law there's a defence known as PROVOCATION, because the human mind can be unpredictable in extra situations. However, the act done due to provocation should be proportional to the offence. A man once beat his wife to a pulp because he walked in on her strangling their 4 year old son, a child they waiting over a decade for. It took the intervention of neighbours to pull him off her. The scary part is, this guy is such a gentleman. The type of man who would walk away when his wife provokes him. Before that fateful day, he had never raised a finger at her. I guess everyone has a breaking point, even the gentlest of souls. We pray we never have to bring out the beast in anyone and may no one bring out our beasts too.‎

Heartbreaker loves TGW said...

God help us all abi? Ur self esteem must be below zero, keep attracting nonsense guys and be calling God.



Heaven help those who help themselves.

Seek help!!!!

Mhiz A... said...

Thanks Ralu M. The guy is not sounding remorseful to me at all. For his siblings to cut him off bemoans the kind of person he has always been. He must have battering his sisters while growing up.

Anonymous said...

Ronalda, I don't know why you keep defending men. Your advice on Chronicles often tends to lay the blame on women. There's no excuse nor justification for domestic violence.

Dr David Chux.O. said...

This is the smartest statement I have read today in relation to domestic violence. Bottom line.Stop PROVOKING your spouse. He/she may go to jail for their actions but the victim is dead already. A word is enough for the wise.

Sunkanmi Shogbesan said...

Lols @ 'sheath'nt shield, anyway wher ar the men beaters?

Anonymous said...

You have said it all. It's those with discernment can perceive these things. It's total restoration from the Lord. He needs to meditate on His word fast and pray.
Besides historical abuse there are some their root is different insecurity. Insecurity has made them take poor decision. Getting into diabolic. And excuse for a dysfunctional family unit.
Please seek Jesus Christ bc there are fake counsellor out there be it professionals or so called men of money oh no mamon oh no is it God?

Anonymous said...

Those of saying she should forgive because he begged he's a real man.So a man begging a woman he beT to pulp is now gold about diamond.If women will be strong enough to walk away from violent men without looking back despite how he begs, they will be careful with their next partner. Even if he truly changed I repeat don't go back.I don't know how you guys do it cos For me I can't open my legs for a man who treated me like that.

Anonymous said...

Bottom line is discernment. Before during relationship need to hear from God. To forgive doesn't mean go back to an environment you don't feel safe.

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