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Wednesday, 17 May 2017

Woman Allegedly Nags Husband To His Death...

A member of a Facebook group called “Females in Nigeria” (FIN) has been accused of killing her husband with nagging.











So today I received double bad news. I am so down. I have been crying and begging God to remove this guilt. I will write about the particular one eating me up.

I met him some years ago. Such a nice man. Friendly. Free spirited. Quiet. And a good father. He came to me for advise about his marriage. He's far older than me and I respected him for meeting a small girl like me to advise him about his marriage.

He has been married for 9 years and in this 9yrs he doesn't know the meaning of peace. He hates polygamy and wants to raise his kids under one roof. His wife wasn't his first love. He visited his father and his family introduced her to him as his wife. He refused telling them he has someone already and he's waiting for her to be done with her masters. Long story short, he visited again, she was in the house, she served him his meal, he was drowsy, he managed to bath and slept off. He woke up the following day and felt uneasy like someone had sex with him.

After some months, he noticed he kept visiting home and started developing love for this girl. He tried resisting the temptation and told his love he wanted to get married, that since she's done with her masters, she should return and let him do something. She refused that she wants to stay back and do her PhD. He kept persisting until the girl broke the news that she's pregnant.

Years later, he helped her get a job, told her not to disturb spending her money in the house since he's wealthy. Unfortunately she became something else. No respect. No love. No care. Always shouting, any little thing is quarrel, today he's a fool next day he's a weakling. He's an educated man at least a PhD holder and he managed his home well, there's nothing like authority or "I'm the head", " be submissive ". He made his home a friendly place.

She became a nag, he kept enduring. Several times he reported her to her family yet she won't change. She started abusing him, became violent, killing his emotions. He has sat her down several times asking what the problem is, sometimes it is her car which he must change and he obeyed yet no peace. Another time, her phone yet no peace. Later, she needs vacation to different countries yet no peace.

Jhoy, I met a young girl at the airport when my flight was delayed. Her battery was down and she used my phone to call her brother who was to pick her up from the airport. We discussed the economy meltdown, boarded, landed and that was it. In the evening, she called to thank me for the benevolence and from then, she sends me happy new month messages and goodwill texts. I finally picked up courage to call her on her birthday that's 9 months after meeting, sadly she was hospitalized due to appendectomy. I was worried and still kept in touch. Madam, finally we started dating. Its been 2years and this girl gives me peace of mind. She respects me. Gives me business ideas which helped boost my career. She's everything I want in a woman but I'm married.

After much advise, I concluded by telling him that I don't support adultery. Try and fix your home. No woman wakes up to be abnormal towards her husband if something didn't trigger it. Please take her on a date and ask her where you've gone wrong. I pray she talks but keep me posted. He agreed. 



A week later he gave a feedback that she finally opened up and said, her mother advised her to be firm so that he will have fear for her and not misbehave. I laughed through out the date and assured her that I am not that kind of man. I told her the best way to win my heart is giving me peace. I want a lovely home. A peaceful home and I promised not to give her any reason to to feel insecure. Now, how do I tell this other girl that my wife is a new person. I told him, just tell her the truth. From all you've said that girl sounds like a good person.


After a long time, he sent a chat telling me how she hasn't changed and they had a minor misunderstanding because he put the nanny's name on their business class trip to Dubai, that he should fix her younger sister not the nanny. He refused that it will be unfair of him and before he will start his car, she used her kitchen pestle to destroy my windscreen. I have been in a hotel for two days just to clear my head. I even miss my kids badly. I begged him to calm down and pray. I went ahead to request for her Facebook handle which he gave.


 I monitored her page and found out she's a FIN member. Well, I told him to use prayers and help his wife. He still complained about her late nights and frivolous lifestyle. In his words, Jhoy I'm sorry I have to call my girlfriend. She gives me peace.

Last month, I met with his wife at an event and she came to congratulate me for being a strong woman. In her words, well its because you're not firm. My husband can't even try such with me. If he says one, I have said ten. I laughed and said, then your home is a battle field because your husband might be lacking peace. She said, who cares? No man can control me oh... If you're hard, they will fear you and do nothing. I smiled, I hugged her and said, whatever rocks your boat I wish you the best.
I finally met her husband and he came with his girlfriend. She's such a beautiful and intelligent woman. I almost gave them my blessings. I still preached against adultery and encouraged him to work on his home but I still supported him and said, no matter what do what makes you happy. Any home that lacks peace isn't a home.

This night his girlfriend called to break the news that he's dead. 

He died of cardiac arrest. How? His wife asked him to allow her organise a children's day picnic where she'll invite her friends and he said no problem remind me on Wednesday. She seized his keys and demanded he writes a check immediately. He insisted giving her on Wednesday and walked out to share with the kids in their car. On their way he complained of not being able to breathe. He was rushed to the hospital where he died and the driver called his girlfriend first where she was able to kiss him final goodbye.

I have been crying. I feel bad. Why didn't I advise him to divorce. Why didn't I tell him to marry his girlfriend. Why do I feel like his ghost is behind me. God please make him wake up. He's too nice to die. Someone please wake me. Wake meeeee. God give him another chance. Allow me advise him to cheat. He only married a bad wife. He doesn't deserve death.

Friends please I need your support and prayers. This news is too much to bear. God please.
Mr. ....... I am sorry ........... I am sorry.....







from facebook.



122 comments:

sandybaby said...

Hmmmm,I heard this is fake na.

Anonymous said...

Na wa sooo.FIN!make I no talk sha.

Anonymous said...

Stella, visit the FIN page on facebook. There is a controversy in this post. I'm a member of FIN and the admin talked about this story. Apparently, some bad belle person has it in for the group. Stella, no join dem oo. You suppose know how it feels when someone tries to slander you.

Kunta Wayne said...

god help us

STARRY LARRY said...

He should have divorced her earlier, marriage is not a do or die affairs
RIP to his humble soul




*Larry was here*

Blackberry said...

FIN. Some will open the page n show u stories some women put up about their families, how can u expose ur family 'ish' to strangers, una go use hand scatter una home in d name of FIN.

Bee10 said...

This story sef!

Fifi said...

Stella I hope you know that you're not supposed to repost anything from fin somewhere else that is why the Group is private. People reveal everything there that why we keep it close tight. I hope they remove you who know what next fin post you'll come and post

CHI EXOTIC said...

Hmmm
Some women go way overboard with this I must be equal with my husband shit
I nag when it necessary, but not nagging someone to death
How would the woman live knowing she killed her husband with her bad attitude?

Men too are suffering in marriages, but not everyone gets to know cause they're perceived as strong
Some women are just F9
RIP to the man.

RIPUDEX Quality Slippers shoes.Wholesale & retail said...

In as much as I don't support her treating her late husband bad, but please they should leave FIN out of THIS. That she is a memeber of FIN does not mean FIN will come to her house and tell her how to treat her husband, is she a small girl? FIN does not teach women to treat their husband bad, rather they will tell you to walk away from a violent marriage, in other not to be killed. I've learnt a lot of good things through FIN, it is not a bad group. God bless the day I joined FIN! I enjoyed reading real comment from FIN as well as SDK comments.

Anonymous said...

Stella, na wa o

Anonymous said...

Who cares? Rubbish!!!!! They would not say what exactly made the wife a monster over night. From my profession, I'm sorry I don't feel for such men. My father once told me when I wanted to marry my wife 25 years ago, if you want to see the best in your wife, do the following;-
Give her money cos they all love money
Always be a listening ear
Never cheat. Yes I said that!!! An angel you meet today, when you marry her and she finds your cheating, she becomes a beast.
Learn to apologize
And lastly women are always right.
Someone reading this might say oh he's a weak man, my dear try it and you come thank me later.
I watched 3 of my dads brothers die in the hands of bad women.
I just have to listen to my fathers advice. If not, when your gone, she's going to enjoy your money with another fool.
I have a 17 year old son, everyday I teach him, because I don't want him to be a victim of such news some day.
Parents teach your children right!!!!!!!!!!

sexy Daddy said...

Nawooo

AMMYBEE said...

How true is this story ?
The woman in the picture has come out to say her picture was wrongly used and she knows nothing about the story.
Madam poster,any woman can be a nag. I wonder why the emphasis on FIN.
Maybe you should have snatched the man from the woman since you know so much about the story.

I'm sure this story originated from a bitter person that was excused from FIN.

LOLO IDEATO said...

He died of DV. Most times women are the architect of their misfortune.

May his soul RIP

Rocky said...

There are lots of women like this.. I have a friend like that, and with what I read on this blog, I can imagine some blog visitors like this

Maybe because I'm a peaceful person normally, but I just can't imagine myself killing someone's emotions in a bid to always have my way.

Truly the Bible wasn't joking where it says "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing"

danny fisiye said...

We no go see una comments o because na woman do man but if na the reverse una go blast the man




#GOAT

Miss Ferragamo said...

Woow...everyday its a new sad story,marriage has become so scary. What is really happening? Jesus come already.

Anonymous said...

I am a proud FINSTER and I totally disagree with this news.
FIN does not stand or encourage women maltreating or nagging their husbands.

Someone somewhere is not happy with the success and impact of FIN.

May the soul of the departed(if truly there is), rest in peace.

Long live FIN!!!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Yinmu...
I'm not on Facebook but someone sends some of the stories to me...
I wonder why someone will post her private life in a group all in the name of FIN?...
You people don't have loyal participants!...

Anonymous said...

Hmm eziokwu,fiction.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Gbam!,,.
If you treat your wife well,she will never nag you!...
Infact,she will worship the ground you walk on!...

Bob_risky said...

Who be this??? Abeg swerve..
You dont even know how the fin thing operates, was this post from fin?? Is this a finster's story? So why cant it be reposted? This is just some random news about a finster.
So @Fifi understand well before you comment.
BTW... What has this story got to do with her being a Fin member? Did Fin kill her husband?
So because now FIN is going places people want to tarnish their image.
I dont even believe the story sef😏😏

Anonymous said...

This woman in question has been missing since last year. How can she then cause her husband death? Even Stella carry this fake news, you fall hand seriously

The General's Wife said...

Wow!
Is this for real?
If it's not,let me assume it is. Wow!
I am in shock!
Poor man!
This one Na real wahala wife.
Chai poor man!

In this world of very few good men,it's sad to see one unappreciated and unloved and unhappy.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

I have FIN people on my facebook, will read about them later.

Stella the way women nags chai it is too much oooo.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Did you even read the post? Obviously you didn't. If you did, you won't type this trash.

Go back and read. Don't thank me.

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You are wise. Men that treat their wives horribly hate themselves because she can make or mar the man. I will save your advise for my sons. Do not mind anyone that comes here to negate your view, such a person is not wise and is short sighted.

If the marriage is threatening one's life, it is better to leave and both parents should have an understanding on how to raise the kids.

I actually prefer divorce to polygamy. The horrors of polygamy is best left imagined.

Tetrina said...

Someone from FIN obviously sent it to Stella! This is not the first time I've read private FIN stories outside the group. Goes to show the Ladies there can't be trusted at all and there's nothing like privacy or loyalty or allegiance to each other in the group. #Shame

Fuck you said...

God punish u for including fin...na fin kill d man...am very sure they blocked u in fin that's y u are bitter..and Stella that picture there is a wrong pic...that's not the woman

Fuck you said...

Me too

Fuck you said...

Blackberry fin is a place people open up without being scared about anything or anyone and ur story can't go out of fin cos u will be banned..the admins have zero tolerance...u really need to be a member

Anonymous said...

Which one is "I wished I advised him to cheat". The man don dey cheat Tey tey, you are here saying rubbish. He probably had a health condition.

RIP, I hope he has a good explanation for God on why he defiled his matrimonial bed.

Bee10 said...

The story is everywhere now

Beth said...

Lol,.How does this concern FIN biko? Does it even make sense? I'm sure FIN was not the only FB group she belonged to, so what's the corelation? With hundred of thousands of married members, how can it possibly be the group's fault that she beaver the way she did ( that is assuming that's what happened)

It's like saying an SDK BV did something bad and people will say it's because its the fault.of that blog that she always reads...

This narrator has a dubious mind! You caatogate what you don't understand

CHI EXOTIC said...

Simmer down jor
I also saw it on instagram.

Anonymous said...

The man sef did not try. He did not put his health first. He had a condition and he still stayed with a troublesome woman? Me o, I cannot kill my self. If I don't feel comfortable in my marriage again, I walk. It is better to be in a peaceful environment with my kids than to always be bitter or be beaten or be a reservoir for stds because of a man whose dick is for the community.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm sadly this happens in a lot of homes. I know a woman that nagged her husband to death. She's a bank manager in one of the branches of UBA in lagos. She frustrated that guy to death. Always nagging and raining abuses on him. The poor guy developed hbp and died. Can you imagine he had a heart attack while she was in another room because she stopped sleeping in the same room as him the poor man couldn't get help on time and died. Grace! Your karma will come when you least expect.

MrsB said...

Wow! This is crazy. If this story is a 100% true, she actually killed this man. I'm sorry but equality in the home has nothing to do with treating your husband with disrespect. There should be mutual respect, both parties can see each other as equals without anyone being unnecessarily harsh with words. She was actually verbally abusive. This is so sad.

Blackberry said...

That story is viral.
Some pple are there for gossip, once they see a juicy story, they broadcast it, nothing on the Internet is a secret.

Anonymous said...

FIN is not a bad group. It's a gathering that dose not discriminate whats so ever, and a group that gives women the boldness to be who they are.
And this post whatsoever has nothing to do with fin. The group is just 20months old. If anyone waste be held responsible for the man's death, it's her mum that have her the wrong orientation.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

This story is not from FIN group. The writer only shared a story of her friend(the deceased) and said the wife is a member of FIN.

Anonymous said...

How do I join FIN?

EBUTE MOE said...

Amen o

Bold Marehi said...

wow! some women and nagging are best of friends, i hope this story serves as a lesson to the nagging women out there.

HOUSE OF ORIGINAL KAYAN MATA AND BURAN TASHI WhatsApp 08032648192 said...

FIN? very crazy and secretive cult... no FB
group lol

Anonymous said...

Please how can I join FIN?

Anonymous said...

How can I join FIN?

Anonymous said...

Stella did not lift any post from fin oh. Someone else made a post about fin on face book. What happened to calling out the girls mum, that told her to be a witch to her husband. Marriage is not by force to both sexes if it's not working, pls leave. That there is another type of domestic violence. It dose not have to be beating to be termed dv oh. That there was emotional abuse by the supposed wife which resulted to the man's death. I hope she is happy now.

Anonymous said...

The story is somehow, just doesn't add up but oh well, God knows the truth.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Anon. He is married, he has a girlfriend and he is confiding in a small girl and he wants to live long.
It is very easy to reciprocate loyalty. Let's be loyal to our partners.

Fuck you said...

Abeg I don't even believe this story...there's nothing I believe on the internet...

Justyswt said...

So na the woman nagging kill the man so? Ok o.

But FIN does not have anything to do with the man's death nau.

Roman God said...

Bunch of retards!

Roman God said...

What the hell is Fin?

D'Ese said...

Make dem drop d man body for her o, make she beta nag am back to life. Lubbish!

Gbogbo bigz girlz said...

How can there be privacy or loyalty among 400k female members?
It's impossible.
Let them continue broadcasting family secrets. Na Dem sabi.

Monkey Face said...

@ F**k You....

You story can't go out you say?
Please please and please stop deceiving yourselves. Can't I take a screenshot of your post and share with as many as I choose to?
Lemme tell you a true life story of an ex fin member... Joy Bekee
She had a post where she confessed to having several vibrators and dildos because her husband was not good enough and left her unsatisfied. A family friend saw the post, showed it to Joy's hubby and to cut the long story short, Lady Joy is now divorced with about 4kids.
Thanks to FIN and her inability to keep her big mouth shut.

Have you forgotten the story of Chacha?
My point is, do not share your problems with the belief that it won't get out because it surly will.
If you want to share because you need to unburden your heart, fine. But please, please I beg you all, stop believing the lies that " what happens in FIN remains in FIN"

Monkey Face said...

You enjoy reading people's story but will not post yours Abi?

Monkey Face said...

* sets an arrow in her bow, ready to shoot*

Now, the "God punish you" in this comment of yours, were you in any way referring to Stella?

Anonymous said...

I bet she was a member of FIN too

Anonymous said...

You want to join that evil group?

Sweet Mother said...

The story isn't from FIN. IT'S from Yabaleft on Facebook.

Anonymous said...

Yet you believe the stories you read on FIN

Anonymous said...

Yet you believe the stories you read on FIN

jelly said...

Some women can nag for life

Anonymous said...

Pls is FIN still on...I cant find the page.....I only viewed it yesterday

PL THE GREAT said...

Anon 10.14 I support all points you have raised. But let me add this:

Be firm. Never be an o'yes member.

When you begin to wobble as a man(being easily swayed or exhibiting some form of indecisiveness), the woman will begin to question your authority. Not necessarily through a physical contest but through her actions. You may no longer have much value before her. It's natural. No one wants a man who lords over her but a man who LEADS her in the right direction.


Good morning people.

Anonymous said...

LOL. one woman was giving you problem and you added another??? lol. na BP from too much cheating kill am. Men now use any excuse to sin

Anonymous said...

Please leave FIN outta this mess, SDK 😒

Anonymous said...

Am I the only one that does not understand the narrative? The tenses are mixed up we can't tell again who is a man who is a woman or who is who for that matter.
It starts with someone narrating someone else's story then some is narrating thier own story it's such a poor composition! !!!!

LOLO IDEATO said...

Women will use their hand to scatter their home. If my brothers wife post anything about their personal family life on FIN.

Forget secrecy, we must hold family meeting on her head. If you must post in FIN, create an anonymous Facebook ID n add yourself with your real one.

SANDY YO said...

Fin means- Female In Nigeria!
Its one interesting fun/fam group on fb where married women most especially get to air their burdens and all.

Sista Jane said...

Anon 11:01. You can ask any of your facebook friends who are fin members to add you to d group on facebook.
Only a member can add you.

Anonymous said...

To join FIN, search for the group's fan page on facebook by typing Female IN, then u proceed from there. You will learn life lessons, solutions to some common problems with ours and children's health, assistance when needed, opportunity to advertise your business etc. It is an overall support group for women.

SANDY YO said...

Ma dear, I dont even know what to think when I read this stuff yesterday. Siddon look kawai!

Sista Jane said...

How is it a cult? This is how people just say what they dont know.
Remember its a facebook group. People send in their stories with thier facebook account. And members read and comment. So how is it a cult?

Phayth said...

This is a lie from the pit of hell.The picture used is entirely different from the name.Someone is just trying to discredit FIN and the woman in the picture.Even if she is the one, what has that got to do with FIN? Definitely, the writer was once in FIN and was banned because of her bad and judgmental attitude.

Tilly said...

FIN and sad stories

Anonymous said...

FIN is not a secret cult neither are the members crazy. So shut ur dirty mouth and go continue ur petty quarrel with the other kayan Mata seller.

Shyla said...

Taaa. This story that hit instablog yesterday sef. Wetin this one de talk. People be joining groups upandan. Cant even remember the year I went on facebook sef.

Anonymous said...

Thank you anon 10.48. With the kain money they said he had why didnt he check himself. Not like he arrested without previous signs. Someone somewhere linked this story to that popular politician's son that just died. Dont know how true it is.

Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate said...

Make up story

Instead of mentioning FIN, you should blame her mother who told her not to allow her husband to lord over her.
I'm a proud finster

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Hmnnnn....
But how do women join a social media group and begin to narrate all their life issues/family happening and all to total strangers all in the name of "sisterhood"?

So per adventure you are a FIN member. Your husband's side chic is a FIN member and you both know yourselves. How does that play out? Or that wicked SIL of yours is in there...
You guys greets yourselves cordially without "gbege"? No snitching? No backbiting? No "isu imi"?
Wonderful.

I am sorry but women group scare the shit outta me.
Even CWO gossip wickedly like mad; how much more a bunch of women from all over coming together...and with their real names/pictures/info as provided by FB platform?

I applaud all you members.
Welldone.

PS: Someone said what is discussed in the group stays in the group. Pls permit me to laugh...😆😆
I can't be caught joining any form of such group but trust me, i hear a whole of stories shared in there.
Women gathering that large and you say there ain't snitches?😃😃😃
Again, welldone

Fuck you said...

@monkey face...people that shares stories on fin do not actually give a dammm...even if their stories are being shared...abeg pls don't spoil what someone has used their hands to create...fin is a platform to let Nigerian women speak up and not for judgmental people..regardless of some stories being shared like u said...that won't stop fin from growing

Fuck you said...

No am referring to the poster...

Fuck you said...

Yes I do...

SWAG LAFRESH said...

You can only join if a member adds you to the group

Anonymous said...

Fun u can't air your mind! You can't tell someone they are wrong! You can't talk and God and give advice with the bitter truth basically all you do is support both good or bad. Am there only for the juicy stories and yes it's a cult

Istanbul said...

I wonder how has been a Fin member affected her misbehaviour towards her home. They should forget all of this slander.the woman in question has her fault to carry alone simple.Stella I see no point sharing this story,because its been confirmed a fake and Fin admins doesn't share what do transpired here

Jeni_zee said...

But na d man do himself na, why do u think women live longer than men? This man has health issues, has a girlfriend and another babe that advices him and he wants to live long? He complicated his life by having girlfriend

Jeni_zee said...

It's not a cult, though I don't like d way they operate by saying don't judge, so I don't comment at all

Anonymous said...

Support for each other you say? That group is nothing but witchcraft! If you mention God you are in soup, they share all sort of horrible stories about themselves! Ha! Someone added me to the group but I quickly unfollowed the group after a few days before I start flying in the night. I can't shout

Anonymous said...

Story that touch... I see u sis,I am a fin member,this is far from what our group represents. A fin member reported this story as fake cos her picture was used.

Roman God said...

👍

Fuck you said...

Anon 13:45 Ure a liar...they blocked you

onomebonny said...

Am a member of FIN, like the rule says if you don't like a particular post waka pass. It's a platform were women unburden their hearts. Me way my entire female family members dey there unko. And it was even my sis in law that added me. The truth is just like in Stella blog you take only the advice you think it's good for you and leave the others. I have really learnt so much from that group.

Anonymous said...

Somtin wey fancy mumu fit do.

Fancy mumu, no try am o, it's bad enuf you took family money to do mmm, no use nah or juju kill your husband because he beats you o.

Anonymous gangster said...

Y'all can scream fake story all you want. FIN sounds like a coven of cultists. Be this story fake or not, it's only a matter of time before we start getting served hot FIN related tea. Women running a support group for women? Lol! Envy will be the beginning, then ego, then chaos. We'll be here to sip calmly, just serve it fresh n juicy!

Anonymous said...

@Monkey face..Really? So That's what happened to Bekee,i used to be her friend on motherhood in style magazine,thought she was married to a white man blessed with lovely girls and I knw white men don't care about their wives using vibrators,So why the divorce? That lady sef,i remembered her post on Fin where she said having sex with her husband was super boring.Anyway,it is well with her

Kels... said...

fIN has been changed to Female IN cos it has become an international group and not just Nigerians

NaMe BeDis said...

You're so on point. A wise man once said to me : "A man that wants to have a peaceful home should understand that his wife is his life's Boss"

Ralu M said...

Anon 13:45 you are nothing but a bunch of lies. FIN is all about witchcraft? You can't mention God? Jesus! How do you sleep at night?
FIN is bae...undiluted advice just like this blog. A lot of characters but where won't you see that? Even on this blog they plenty. Take the ones that suit you and keep it moving but to split those lies you just did? You need help.
That story is not from fin, it simply stated that the woman is a member of fin. You guys want to use it and judge 900k+ women? 😁😁😁😁be my guest.
As for flying at night? Just know that you're on your own league. Only you oh...nobody else.

The General's Wife said...

LMAO🤣🤣🤣
Says who?
FIN that I get it's screenshots sometimes on hot topics.

The General's Wife said...

I used to wonder at that sharing ish o. Not even the sharing per say but with their full names and all.
Ah! I always imagined someone munching away.
I mean anyone that thinks what happens in FIN stays In FIN is a bit cuckoo😂

Anonymous said...

All those that hate FIN are the people that come here to judge and insult people everytime... They are hypocrites... FIN doesn't tolerate hypocrites... FIN has taught me not to be quick to judge and accept people for who they are...FIN has taught me to know my worth...FIN has taught me that no matter what problem you're going through, you're not alone, there are alot of people going through same or worse and overcame their problems Every right thinking and worthy woman should join FIN. Your outlook about life will change... You would learn to live your life for you and not to please people.

Anonymous said...

All those that hate FIN are the people that come here to judge and insult people everytime... They are hypocrites... FIN doesn't tolerate hypocrites... FIN has taught me not to be quick to judge and accept people for who they are...FIN has taught me to know my worth...FIN has taught me that no matter what problem you're going through, you're not alone, there are alot of people going through same or worse and overcame their problems Every right thinking and worthy woman should join FIN. Your outlook about life will change... You would learn to live your life for you and not to please people.

Cherry topaz said...

Bloggie you're right. Both the divorced wife and the new wife of a family friend are in FIN. And they know each other. Such an awkward situation.

Anonymous said...

I love Fin,but I see the babes who write scandalous stories in fin as Fools.

The founder of the page never posts her intimate srories,,infact she has never mentioned her hubby's name.

Abeg, dont be deceived, what happens in Fin doesn't remain in FIN!!

Fin has broken homes,,it has mended homes.




It's not a Godly group like (br)...babes redefined!

Fin is a fun spot for me,,as for the women who talk tough, ,some of them receive better beating from their boo.


If you aren't on FIN (Female In) you are on a long thing.

Anonymous said...

Fin???!!


Fin can influence you badly if you don't have a "strong head"

Anonymous said...

Fin is a scandalous group!
I read some posts and I imagine what will go on after family members have read such.

oreka said...

I have 4 fake accounts on fin.
I post with such accounts.

If I hear say I talk dirty with my original acct...I dey craze???

But some will see such post and copy my style not knowing it's a fake acct.

Anonymous said...

I even once requested for lesbians on FIN with my original account, one girl in boxed me to delete the post.

She asked if I was a learner, that na niaja we dey oh.

I thanked her and deleted the post.

Fifi said...

Are we sharing d same ID??? Abeg find a new one...thank you.

Anonymous said...

FIN is for women who are stupid enough to post their personal lives in public and then take advice from other stupid women.

Anonymous said...

My colleague is having issues with his wife due to her posting their marriage matters on this fin group. Everything she must post. Women will never stop thinking like birds. Be Taking advice from God knows who. It's when her fellow fin will use the info to collect her hubby her eye will clear.

Anonymous said...

Anon 10.24, a wife revealing her marriage secrets in public is not a good thing. Does fin stop them from doing so? Gossip group pure and simple.

Anonymous said...

Dummy

Anonymous said...

How is FIN private bikonu?On a public platform?With over 500k members?That is a joke!Any member can screen shot it.For fear of being ban,many don't say their mind.Some of the women are damn stupid!Why would Joy bekee discuss such on a public platform?

Anonymous said...

13.45,you are not truthful!There is a rule!They ask for practical solution. Which Nigerian don't know about prayers be she Muslim or Christian? I don't comment there but some of the comments are too rhetorical and not helping!For example,someone say she is hungry,and you are preaching rather than helping with food? A hungry man is an angry man!Some one complains of low libido,you will be preaching rather than advising on supplements?I support Lola on that one.

Anonymous said...

@TGW,i read your comments telling girls to be chaste until wedding nights.I wondered,if this is the same person that is addicted to watching porn? When women gets married,they start behaving righteous!

Anonymous said...

But a blogger was sharing the stories from there,claiming it was the posters that sent her emails.Maybe that was why Lola strongly advised against sharing.

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