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Saturday, 10 June 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

Na wah oh...Some people just dont hear word!




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WICKED AND IRRESPONSIBLE HUSBAND


Dear Stella,
Thank you for this platform. I've been a silent BV for over 3years now though I hardly comment. Below is my chronicle + BVs pls accommodate my gbagauns.


I got married 2years ago to my horseband. My marriage produced a Son (My only gain). Other than this, It’s has been so far full of violence, lies, infidelity in the highest order and deceit. Before we got married, he lied about his previous relationship, financial status, his family background, his educational background etc. which I found out after our wedding. 


He brought different women (intimate girlfriends) to our matrimonial home (I’ve caught him twice) and when I complained about his serial cheating, he beats me up. He extorted money from me fraudulently; He sold one of the buses I bought for business purpose; He doesn’t provide money for the welfare of our Son and I when I complained, he lied that he had not been paid for months (He works with state govt); He sex starved me for over a year – part of this period his mother came visiting and he made her sleep on the same bed with me for 5 month (3months Omugwo + 2months extra stay);


 He tried to lure my cousin to be intimate with him (He confessed to me himself when he thought my cousin will disclose it to me but she never did); He made me to be suicidal during my pregnancy days (He abused me emotionally by accusing me that I trapped him with pregnancy when he wasn’t ready and that he would run away if I give birth to a baby girl).



I endured all the issues stated above hoping that he’ll change one day and things would get better but unfortunately, things got worse. Towards the end of October, We sat down to discuss the way forward and after thinking critically of what he has put me through in the marriage and I realised how my life has been on a halt for the period we’ve been together and how my finances has reduced to almost nothing (I had no money to run my personal business as my expenses was far more than my income and the Company where I work is affected by recession so there was work days reduction as well as salary)

 I decided that we end the marriage since I’m no longer attracted to him and he wasn’t showing any signs of supporting me financially. Upon telling him this, he beat me up again and took a knife to kill me. I managed to run out of the house that day with my son trapped on my back.

In November (Some days after he tried to kill me), He asked his elder sister to come live with us and when she came, she slept on the same bed with me till late January this year when she left my house to overseas

When I had my son, he lied to me that his salary was withheld by his boss for more than 6 months (I later found out it was a lie when I saw him Skye Bank statement of account showing consecutive monthly deposit of his salaries) which made me to pay all the bills charged in the hospital (He even made profit out of the money I gave him it as he was able to produce receipt of only delivery fees and medical items bought).


 I was solely responsible in my child’s up keep from him birth till June 2016 after a serious disagreement we had due to his irresponsibility to his son. He managed to start buying only diapers which he did up till January 2017 (He skipped buying sometimes and I helped him out). The only time he has bought food for his son was just once in January 2017.


He moved out of the house temporarily in December, 2016 and permanently in January this year to his girlfriend who happened to be his elder sister’s friend (I found out about the girlfriend recently) because he believed I used diabolic means to charm him to marry me. He lavished the lady’s money until money was no longer forthcoming. He then left the lady and made away with the lady’s car (He deceitfully registered the said car in his name), The lady managed to collect his car after she went to report him at his place of work, upon returning the car key to her, he beats her up and even attempted to kill her with a sharp object.

 This led to his arrest by the Nigerian Police. He was later bailed the next day by his friend while the girlfriend had sent him packing out of her house.

Am I wrong to seek for divorce, restraining order and child support from the court?

I need to move on before he gives me AIDS.


Stels pls use your red pen I need it badly.


After all what you just narrated you are still asking if you are wrong?please pack yourself out of that Situationship,thats not marriage at all ooooo.Save yourself now because you might not be lucky the next time....I am even surprised you went back after he chased you with a knife.




95 comments:

GALORE said...

Abeg borrow yourself brain

Leave that Yeye thing



@Galore

Anonymous said...

The main problem here is that there was not courtship per se.
You married this man's "educational background" and "financial status" which he presented to suit your expectations.
If there was courtship with engaging discussions, you ought to have known more about these facts.
You probably were concerned and immersed yourself in sex, day dreaming and inordinate ambition of yours inside this marriage.
He told you what you wanted to hear and you began to fly with it in your daydreaming.
You have told us a one sided story to elicit sympathy and you did it so well
But madam, if you are that son of yours, will you want a broken home?
Did your parent raise you in a broken home?

GIFT E THE JAMB GIRL said...

No madam.you are not wrong.marriage is to be enjoyed and not to endure.divorce him and get custody of your son.if this is what women go through in the name of marriage,then I don't ever want to get married.

The Lifted said...

This is not marriage na! Pls divorce him & move on with your life,it is well with you

Anonymous said...

You did not tell us what comes out of your mouth due to your dashed expectations especially financially.
You wanted money out of this marriage and did not get it; guy man "chop' guy man kind of it.
Now you want to jump ship.
Madam, tell us about the other man; big fish you are eyeing.
It is not always like it seems

Blackberry said...

Which kind sufferhead be this?
Your horseband is so so irresponsible, he won't change unless his penis is dead.
Did you eat his placenta? Or na because of u him dem born you?
Na wa o!
Women and love!
Kai.

World People said...

SILLY question! NEXT???

Atheist ™ said...

See question!!!!
Even if this man is responsible for ur oxygen supply, you shldnt hv stayed that long.

SANDY YO said...

No ooo, dont move on pls. Still tanda with your animal liability horseband there dey ask us mumu queshion. Mscheeeeew

RadioHead Steelheart said...

Same Chronicles Everyday..Domestic Violence has been OVERLY EMPHASISED here..You are an active BV And you are still asking these questions, hasnt he given you enough reason be gone..Enough is enough..Get a restraining order before you figure out what next..Jesus that husband is very evil..Christ Of Nazareth

GALORE said...

Don't worry @Gift.. .

Be positive.. You shall have the best of marriage


How far, you don pass jamb? ...it is well



@Galore

Anonymous said...

Once money is no longer "flowing as expected" every married woman begins to see him chasing her with knives!
I have a case at hand presently.
When you corner them privately, they will admit to the truth
A full-fledged man chased you with knife and you were able to outrun him with "a baby strapped to your back'. And then you went back to the house and he hasn't killed you till date
Chai women make una fear God o!
Even the devil will tremble at this sort of lie

Cecilia Solomon said...

Drama . Hien is this one marriage?
Chai, give me space so I can faint

Anonymous said...

Another Yariba violent man story; sprays semen and runs away

danny fisiye said...

can't believe you asked if you should leave hmmmmm






#GOAT™

Anonymous said...

15.17 hahahahhahahah dnt kill me abeg

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster one thing with most of you ladies is that you will see the sign of domestic violence and still enter hoping he will change. I don't even know if most of you think with their emotion and pussy...

Adi amu aka ekpe na nka. So how do you want a grown man to change?

Your type, if he beg you now you will still go back.

Was it not on this blog that we advised a lady not to declare her account balance to her husband. She went and told him, only to come and tell us that their pastor said that 1+1=1.

From your narrative you said your husband said you trapped him with pregnancy. That was a big mistake.

Do whatever makes you happy...

Anonymous said...

How do you people do this? You were still able to sleep in the same house with someone that was going to kill you and possibly still got down with you? Why na? Looks like he was right saying you married him with diabolical means. I would have said some mean words to reset your brain but maybe some ugly situations encouraged you to marry him.
Please you don't need any dialogue with such a man, just disappear from him. Look back or reconsider to your own ruin.
You will be great without him. Make your decision, get out, heal and move on.
Sending lots of hug your way.

MrsBee

Adele love said...

Stella say na situationship. Madam it is only you that can save yourself. No one can cajole you. The ball is in your court.

Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere said...

I have come to the realisation that it is you nice,kind, virgin mary women that get the horrible men as husbands.

Amplo Stitches (IG@amplo_stitches1) said...

You already know what to do,but still want Bv's opinion
"PLEASE WALK AWAY,U MADE THE RIGHT DECISION" Life is beautiful

Anonymous said...

Anon 15:06,did u read through the trash you wrote b4 rushing to post.Ode! So you want her to die there so that he can marry someone who will eventually Maltreat the boy.

Bootylycious diva said...

the pressure from the Nigerian society and the fear of being called aunty gwe have pushed people into the devils den
from my study 90% of NIgerian women in marriage at home are all living scam fake marriages .My dear poster i do not know what you are waiting for divorce him already .

Madam Small Chops said...

You are not wrong dear, you've suffered enough.You need a breath of fresh air.

Kachi said...

I don't think you are wrong in seeking for a divorce

Chike TEFLON said...

Someone wanted to kill you with knife and you are still asking if divorce is the right thing to do... Wait when he kill you, you will know that to bury you and marry another woman is the next thing he will do right.


Same Chronicle
Same content
Different posters.

People thinking with their pussy.
Your life is at risk and you are here talking about him giving you AIDS... So you still want to open pussy for him? SMH

Cecilia Solomon said...

Don't mind them . They won't take thier time n fall in love first , b4 planning marriage . They will marry a man who says his rich . N come here to cry wooof ones they realise the man was only dreaming to be rich. Nonsense ladies . They expect men to tell them the truth about their financies when just thier eye ball tell the guys that they want money not marriage . U nova see anything . Now that you kn he was lying n you can't cope . Why don't you divorce him n let us have peace . You now want to paint him black . Make we hear word .

BLUNT said...

Fake News!

Chike TEFLON said...

LET ME GIST YOU GUYS SMALL.

There is this womanizer that his dick penetrates anything hole. His wife got tired of him, marriage and life. She decided to end it all. She went to her husband where he was sleeping, pull down his boxer and fiam cut his dick. She drank sniper. The man was shouting and the neighbors came and rushed them to hospital. The wife died but her husband survived but the doctor told him that he will only use his dick to urinate only. That he can no longer have sex because the dick will damage completely if he do so. The man vex, he para and asked the doctor why did he save his life since he know fully well that his dick will not penetrate IKPU again. That he should have allow him to die than to live a life without sex.

#TrueLifeStory#ButNaHearSay#Original.

Justyswt said...

The question tire person. Pls leave the house with ur son before something else happen.

Chike TEFLON said...

ATTENTION! ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!!

Poster please I'm not telling you to cut your husband's dick or drink sniper...

All the BVs know say I no advise you ooo... Okwa adi ama ama Onitsha gwara Obosi...

MrsB said...

Are you wrong??
Of course not! Please Please do the needful because this man will kill you if given the opportunity. Better a divorcΓ© than a corpse

Atheist ™ said...

Lol

Fab Mum said...

What I don't get is how you stayed back even after he brought his girl friend over to your house?? How did you stay please? How did you stay through out his unfaithfulness. How did you stay after he tried killing you??

Madam please leave with the speed of lightening. Please leave. I beg you In God's name. There is no need for this union. On no account should you take his cheating , lying, gigolo ass back

Seek for divorce and full custody.
Go to ministry of justice and ask for thr domestic violence and rape cases office. Report to thr ladies there and they will help you get full custody and child support even before your divorce case scales thru.

Lady Ijaaay said...

Did you just ask a question? When you have evidences to the answers? Hmm! Don't gamble with his "kill" threat.

Anonymous said...

My marriage is a living hell right now. My husband will talk from morning till night, just because i don't have something doing. I am tired

Miss Ess said...

Thank God for your life that you are still breathing and have hands to type this.

Bhaykins said...

Madam, it is very obvious you never really made any research about your husband and his family before you agreed to marry him. If only you had taken time to study his person before tying the band.

With the above writeup, I could tell that your estranged husband never loved you. He was only dating you because of what he stood to gain. And also, he never planned marrying you, hence, the reason for threatening to leave you if you birth a girl child.

I'm sorry for all the pains and traumas you've being enduring and going through. You should count yourself lucky for being alive to share this chronicle.

Now, as I close my eyes, before I open am, carry your pikin and few clothes, HALELE TO YOUR PAPA HOUSE.

Send your brothers to that excuse of a man never to dare come look for you. If he needs to know what's happening, your lawyer is there for him to talk to.

If I hear say you still love am??

SANDY YO said...

Nawa ooooo! Wetin Ikpu and amu don cause for this world of ours no be here.

Anonymous said...

Madam pls run for your dear life before the man send you to your early grave. It is well o o. Domestic violence is rampant this days. May God help our generation.

Anonymous said...

You are very mad and evil for this advice. So she should die there so her son wouldn't be from a broken home?

cinderellla said...

Where did you hear that the man is yoruba? You lots are too tribalistic

LUCILE COCONUT OIL, CARROT OIL AND BLACK SOAP ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Na wa oooo

Anonymous said...

Your comment got me laughing.

Anonymous said...

Hahaha abeg is not easy when a man doesn't have money especially in marriage, you will just be angry all the time. Even if you have your own money there's nothing as sweet as when you husband is doing is responsibility no matter how little

Anonymous said...

Not true, my dear.

Blackberry said...

Then get up and do something, even if it's selling fish.

sholetoga said...

Poster......This is not marriage, this is the definition of hell on earth. Didn't he woo you before you agree to sleep with him and then getting pregnant. I can't even believe any woman can endure all you recounted here. Sister, borrow Usain Bolt boots and run for your life and that of your son.......don't you have parents or what?

Anonymous said...

Anon 15:06 is like one of your village members just exchanged your brain for hot boiled corn without even adding ube.

Anonymous said...

This story is somehow. Are you asking us if you should divorce? No stay there, just write your will.
Did you want to use style to beg but changed your mind when you remember the foul mouthed bvs? He works with the government in one paragraph and in another, his boss ceased his salary. I am confused.

Anonymous said...

for your original bean flour for your akara and moimoi call 08168451994 wholesale and retail

Anonymous said...

Eyaaa ndo ooo, may you be helped with a good job. Pray for your hubby to stop nagging, you hear? Ndooo

Anonymous said...

Dis d type of ppl chikito dropped comment about on d day stella did lies post last week.

Anonymous said...

rubbish being spilled from the mouth of an inexperienced mother who wants her daughter to marry at 20.two-faced lot.its ppl like you dt push girls into bondage.deranged fool

Mary Fiyin said...

That is not a marriage. Pls run for ur life my dear.

Lord am so greatful.

Anonymous said...

Thank u world! Abi she doesn't know the answer?? Madam pls stay with him. For asking this question u deserve him. I am even ashamed of u that u remained with all that trash and u r still asking. Stay enh

Amunidara said...

Wait o....so assuming he didn't sex starve u,u for still dey allow am sleep with u despite all his excesses..hian!!!

Amacastel said...

Wicked anons Pls go & marry the man for her I think you both suit each other. Madam poster Pls πŸƒ πŸƒ πŸƒ πŸƒ πŸƒ Pls don't get him involve in the training of your child b4 he mess up his mind cos this ur 🐴 band looks like a manipulative man.

Amacastel said...

Ewu anons so you mean she is not supposed to be taken care of by her husband. You are officially evil

Lily Rose said...

You can say that again. All these people that choose to be doormats in the name of being nice. They allow nonsense in the name of being nice. They give chances to ass holes in the name of being nice. They give, give and give even though they never receive in the name of being nice. They allow other people trample on them because the want to be nice. Unfortunately, you are only being stupid and your self esteem is on the low. Psychopaths can smell stupid desperate people from a mile away that's why the 'nicest' people end up with them.
My theory based on personal experience and observations.

Anonymous said...

The lady no get brain she dey think with her pussy
How sure are we that she did not actually use extraordinary means to trap that man
Cause the way she dey ask if its right to leave her horseband or not. me no understand ooo

Housed-On-Water said...

Bhay, I like your person

Dre said...

I'm so sorry for what you're going through but my goodness! Lies, cheating, verbal and physical abuse, broke, irresponsible, anger, etc... only one man. This man needs deliverance. This is not the will of God for his children. Some marriages are not ordained by God. Only you can reach the decision to divorce but I know you'd be better off apart from this man for the sake of your peace, health and safety. Stay strong poster. The Lord is your strength. You will overcome this.

Chummy cho cho said...

Asin. The worst part now is that after all said and done, these women still find reason to keep hanging around such irresponsible men...

Even if you don't like yourself poster, leave for the sake of your child. He deserves better!

shayeeeee said...

Poster. Receive sense right now

Bootylycious diva said...

keep shouting deranged fool,i will not push my daughter ,i will make sure she marry a good man before deranged people like you corrupt her soul and men will mess up her mind .

Bootylycious diva said...

And why are you still shouting is it your daughter ,oya come and beat me am in my house ,experience mother like you ,your life is so messed up that am sure ,if not you wont be venting here.

Tessbaby said...

Pls enough of the I dont comment syndrome. Nobody cares.



If with all u wrote u still think ure married, madam u need deliverance.

Squatfitnessfanatic said...

Then I thought he exist alone but his blood relates you met... Do as I did please just leave

Squatfitnessfanatic said...

Then I thought he exist alone but his blood relative you met... Do as I did please just leave

Tessbaby said...

Anon 15:06 which "home"? Do u think a home is made up of painted walls with doors n windows?


Question did her parent bring her up insuch toxic environment?

Gold Taken said...

True.

Tessbaby said...

Hahahahaha b4 nkor.

Tessbaby said...

Then do something. Fry kpuff kpuff, buns , akara zobo, anything just anything. No hob lady so stop waiting.

Tessbaby said...

Saw that too but Ive never worked 4 d govt so dont how they channel their pay.

Anonymous said...

Anon 15.06, you are very childish and immature and do not qualify even 1% to advise someone.
People like you know nothing but think you know it all hence all the rubbish you just spewed.
Ignorant Judgina of life, pray not to meet people who can lie, pretend and deceive for Africa

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Don't ask God to guide your footsteps if you're not willing to move your feet*

Thatkogigirl. said...

This lady just want to die before her time all because you want to be married by force..

Cutestniki said...

Nawa ooo.all dis and you are still asking? Babe help urself before its too late.May God be with tru dis turbulent period

WALDEMAR POUNDER (18+) said...

There is absolutely no reason why you should seek a divorce. But before then seek separation sharpily.

I wish you well.

Push up said...

This isn't a marriage, this isn't even a prison cus they don't beat people in prison, this is definitely hell. Hiv isn't the only reason you should leave, let me give you a list. 1. The beatings 2.finances 3. Emotional abuse 4, infidelity 5, his family doesn't respect you 6. He is broke 7. He is useles... I can go on and on... Pls throw him away

Stella Igbokei said...

Madam forget what people are gonna say just think of your happiness and the safety of you and your son.

Anonymous said...

You know I really think some people are just misusing the opportunity Chronicles has provided. Some people are so stupid!!!!! When you type your chronicles don't you feel stupid. All what you have said your spouse did to you, isn't enough to know what you do. My dear it's obvious you love misery!! Clap for your self and enjoy.

Anonymous said...

I thought as much.. You've been there too

ukwu dimond said...

If is not working is not working, don't kill yourself over a man. Divorce him and start life all over again.

Jasmine said...

God bless u. How do they sleep in the same house with someone that almost killed them. Haba

Jasmine said...

The sister in law is a devil

Anonymous said...

Bhay you new, wehcome ooo!

SUPER HERO said...

okwa ego na akpali mmadu baby,,,,,

Anonymous said...

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cakenchops said...

THIS ONE NA JAMB QUESTION OO, MADAM DONT SEEK FOR DIVORCE OK? STAY THERE TILL GOD FORBID HE KILLS YOU WITH THAT KNIFE.

Zinovhino said...

With all these you are seeing still asking if you should ask for divorce, I pity you my dear sister.... You better get your brain and burst yourself out of the bondage you are...

Anonymous said...

Only God knows if you are telling the truth wen you guys started we dint see any of this post you where flexing and enjoying the whole drama now you came out here and start telling us stories of which we don't know if is true or lies

Anonymous said...

He want to kill you with a knife you ran away and still came back why not tell us the good side of him than you telling us the bad side of him as a good woman you should learn how to manage your home If what you said you are facing now is true I belive you know what to do without asking question or trying to paint him black with your post do what you feel is right and let God intervain and judge you both.

Anonymous said...

When you met we where not dere,
When you got pregnant for him we where not dere,
When he went to pay your bride price and did traditional marriage we where not there,
When you where flexing and enjoying the marriage you wanted to stay in we where not dere,
When all the drama is taking place we where not dere,
Now you just wrote down a story for us to sympathies with you and make the man to look like a bad man like you said my dear do you know how many marriages yours is better than people will only tell you what they know but some of them their homes is like hell yet dey are still trying to put things in order but you are here seeking if to divorce him is right or wrong if you truly have a good heart your heart will tell you the right thing to do a word is enough for the wise.

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