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Sunday, 18 June 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

MARRIAGE WITHOUT LOVE AND PDA

Hello Stella,
Great job you're doing here,more grease to your elbow. Please post my chronicle. I have been married for 3 years now and blessed with two kids.

 My hubby takes care of me and the kids very well and makes sure we do not lack anything whatsoever. But there is one problem;this man doesn't show affection like hugging,kissing,pda or even foreplay before sex.


 He just goes straight to the point,whether you're not wet or not in the mood is none of his business,he just penetrates forcefully or applies lubricant or water. Even if you are sick and dying he will never say sorry or try to touch you to feel your temperature or anything. 

The only thing he'll do is take you to the hospital or buy you drugs. Even when i was in labour for our 2nd baby and all the nurses were petting and trying to make me comfortable my husband didn't utter a word..his only problem there and then was my nakedness,that why should i be naked in front of everybody and he kept shouting that i should put my dress back on that the male doctor was staring at my body. 


Even when we go out together and i try to hold his hand or lean on him he will just shift or ask me if all is well that we should act matured that we're not teenagers. 


All these really breaks my heart Stella..

The few people i've spoken to said its probably cos of the age gap (he's 13 years older) but i don't think so cos all the people i dated before marriage were always older than me with at least 10 years and it was never like this,in fact i have always liked older men cos i feel they know how to pamper and be patient with a woman and i achieved that in my previous relationships. All he does is shout at the top of his voice at the slightest provocation even in front of the maid and kids and keeps reminding me that he's not my mate,suspects every move i make,so jealous and possessive yet you can't show love the way i want.

 I can't even remember the last time he told me he loves me except i say it first and i haven't said it in almost 2 years now cos i got tired of always being the first,i could just keep going on and on but i don't want to bore you all. My people keep saying as long as i and the kids don't lack anything then i don't have a case but i think every woman has a picture in her mind of exactly how she wants to be loved or at least close to it. 


Please my darling Stella and my lovely bvs i need your advice cos to be honest i'm not happy at all,it feels like i'm living with my elder brother or dad...



*LMAO@feels like you are living with your elder brother or dad.
I dont know what to say on this but it might help if you have a heart to heart talk with him,there must have been something that attracted you to marry him..Or was he like this in the beginning?if not,find out why he changed...

which one is age?If he can part your thighs you should be able to sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you feel.
This has nothing to do with age,my friend married her ancestor and they are a HOT couple.

*For those who might not know,PDA means public display of affection


99 comments:

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

See this poster oh!...
So na love,holding hands and PDA you go chop?...
You don't have problem at all!!...
That's how he is...you just can't change him...
Stop bothering your self about this and ignore him!...
If you want pampering,look for a sugar bobo that would be doing that to you!...
There is more to marriage than holding hands and doing lovey dovey!!...

STARRY LARRY said...

Was there no courtship before marriage? See, you can't have everything, after dating an old man who's fully made, this is the sacrifice you have to pay for the rest of your togetherness




*Larry was here*

sylvia said...

For those of you who followed the money trail of ur ancestors and dumped metrosexual guys 2 -7yrs your age.....come and read

Brandedme said...

Is either that is the way he is which shdnt b new to u or something is bothering him

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

If he was always like this before marriage then I don't know why you're complaining. You need to understand that humans don't just change simply because we want them to. 3 kids in 3 years? Na wa o no break at all and forgive me but I believe that marriage is about the couples involved and children are a added blessing. He is 13 years older and you can argue that you've dated older men before you settled with him but also know that he has more experience in women affairs too. It's obvious that women he had been with didn't have a problem with bang bang bang only and so it will be strange to him that you expect more, he isn't used to and you don't expect a mature more set in his ways to just start acting very sexual with you. You need to talk to him about how you want to be pleasured or lock shop for sometime and I know people will say you shouldn't but sex should be enjoyed not endured. It is not just for procreation but a way that God made for married couples to enjoy, relax and communicate. It strengthens the union so why have bare sex that doesn't do anything for you.
Focus on other things and stop initiating sex with him since you have always done that. Dress sexier, hair always made and smell nice. Cook his meals and serve him like you've always done but don't go to him until he comes. Let him chase and want you again.
If he comes to you, guide him to pleasure you right. He is mean to say those things to you during labour, you're not a baby making machine.

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Anonymous said...

Did anyone force you to marry this man?
Did you not date him like the others you mentioned and you ended up choosing to marry him?
You married him just the way he is?
What were you doing during dating if not "copulation" -Bam, Bam, Wam! kind of it?
Instead of engaging a man in discussions, all girls do is to part their thighs and jump into marriage.
All you were mindful were the sex and his money and you saw those; so why are you complaining now?
Just be careful before a sweet, smooth operator will come and sweep you out of your marriage and you will be down and dry!

Anonymous said...

You no get problem. Why you no marry one of those men that pamper you, how did you end up with him? I guess he's rich but you dump others that show you PDA. Abeg na your cross. Nobody choose for you.

Anonymous said...

Once girls see money, they will deceive themselves that "I will change him".
Look, a person in his forties does not just "change". It takes seeking God to achieve that in the life of a man.
You married for money and are you happy?

Duchess said...

The many complexities of marriage.
It is well with you dear,you'll be fine.
Yours sdkly dazzling lizzy

Tiger H said...

A quick question;
Did you guys date before wedding?

Atheist ™ said...

You didnt mention if you both xperienced those butterfly in belly days then he changed, abi na arrangee sharp sharp marriage? Such men dont change & become Leonardo dicarprio on set, theyve nevr had that romantic bone, even if he sets a reminder alarming him to peck u or a hug b4 leaving the door, he'd still 4get, lol... id advice u dont make Zeeworld ur favorite channel. As that BV once said "Marriage is a bag of okrika, anythg u find insidebis your own"

Monkeynofine said...

Oturugbeke πŸ˜‚ I think he was born that way, get yourself a side boo .

Sharon Aminu said...

Hmmm.
Pls u are living with ur elder brother abegπŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜‚
Ignore him or act as if his irrelevant..
Stop giving him attention
Too talking to him,make imagery friends that u talk to anytime his around
Stop bothering him,only ask for money since that is all he know how to give
If he want to sleep with u,tell him to make love to u not fuck u.if he cant ,he should leave u alone
Get a sex toy to dormant him..

Anonymous said...

@ poster you better stop looking for problem where there's none..You even have a maid being paid for by your husband... Get used to it, since you refused to marry your age mate because of money...

ola wealth said...

Very true...
Likewise the poster of Friday's or Thursday's chronicles... I hope you will take a clue from this..

Anonymous said...

"I am the queer and bus of this blog"
You want this woman to get a "sugar bobo"?
That is find and younger man and commit adultery with?
Is that what you do to your husband or is that a deceptive tactics to propagate the doctrine of your mistress in the sea; the queen of the coast?
Is that the teaching of "your daddy in the lord?"
Repent of this wickedness or the Lord whom you blaspheme will judge you!

If the righteous are rewarded here on earth, what will happen to wicked sinners? Proverbs 11:31

Blackberry said...

How old are you?
You don't even have a problem.
If you are tired cos of PDA, abeg pack ur load n gerrout, see he kinda petty thing u r complaining about.
Mtchew

redbotafly said...

It isn't about the age difference it's just who he is.
Most older men are more loving and romantic.
Did you guys not date before marriage?
Or you knew and still went ahead because he is rich and you thought he would change?
Madam manage it like that. No one's marriage is the best. Some people are running from what you are craving for.

ola wealth said...

The plain truth..

I don't think you can change him.
Just endure..

Greatlady. said...

Poster, there is a condition where a person doesn't feel emotions. I can't remember the name exactly but I will verify from Google or you check too.
That is what your hubby is suffering from. No amount of talking, petting will make him feel emotion except he is relived from it.
I don't know if the condition has a remedy. I hope it does. Pls check google.
I actually read about it but never believed people can't feel emotion. You are the first person am hearing it from.
Either he is suffering from it or something closer to it.

Martins Aboy said...

From what i know,Most men dont do the PDA and other things you stated above cos they think doing it will diminish the respect the woman has for them as the man of the house..

Most on the other hand are wired that way..cos not every man is the lovey-dovey kinda person...

You on the other hand @poster should have known what you wanted before getting into the marriage..
I believe he was like this when you met him;so were you thinking marriage would change him??

My dear,if your man is good;then live with that and accept your fate..
Him not doing all what you stated above doesnt mean he love you less,and dont think you can change him at this point either!! Cos people dont actually change;they can only pretend and adapt till they get bored and return back to default...

Dont loose something good in the process of pursuing shadows @poster..
If his actions speaks positive of him,and he provides for you and the family and perhaps treat you well;what more???

Marriage doesnt change a man!!
And saying "I LOVE YOU" or "P.D.A" doesnt justify if the love is real or not!!

Goodluck...

@MARTINS ABOY

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Chai Queen

Mrs anonymous said...

Didn't you date him before marriage?

Dope BaBe said...

Chai one man's meat is another man's poison.

Madam forget loveydovey and face your kids and your life.

Martins Aboy said...

From what i know,Most men dont do the PDA and other things you stated above cos they think doing it will diminish the respect the woman has for them as the man of the house..

Most on the other hand are wired that way..cos not every man is the lovey-dovey kinda person...

You on the other hand @poster should have known what you wanted before getting into the marriage..
I believe he was like this when you met him;so were you thinking marriage would change him??

My dear,if your man is good;then live with that and accept your fate..
Him not doing all what you stated above doesnt mean he love you less,and dont think you can change him at this point either!! Cos people dont actually change;they can only pretend and adapt till they get bored and return back to default...

Dont loose something good in the process of pursuing shadows @poster..
If his actions speaks positive of him,and he provides for you and the family and perhaps treat you well;what more???

Marriage doesnt change a man!!
And saying "I LOVE YOU" or "P.D.A" doesnt justify if the love is real or not!!

Goodluck...

@MARTINS ABOY

SANDY YO said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ
This life eh!
The chronicle poster of yesterday was confused on whether to go for love or money. Today, this one is complaining of seeing money but not love. Wahala everywhere. Its well o!

Anonymous said...

Welcome fab mum,so dis is Hw unhappy u are in ur marriage, no wonder u are always here vomiting bile and replying ur imaginary haters,lol, u go dey alright last last,association of unhappy married women

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Queen oooh

Anonymous said...

The guy I dated before my husband was 12+ older than me. The most romantic guy I ever had. Reason beyond our control kept us apart. My husband who is 5 years older than me is not. I'm just living with it. So no, it has nothing to do with age. Your husband is not just the mushy type

Madam Small Chops said...

Haha haha your chronicle made me laugh out loud.

Your husband doesn't have a romantic bone in him, should I say some people are built that way or probably built themselves that way.(Growing up with parents who do not show PDA ,having friends who are bottled up or not interested in romance)

The good thing is that it can be learnt, the problem is that you left him that way for too long BUT it's not too late to teach him.

You will be the one to start making little moves till he gets very comfortable.I once dated a spiricoco brother.Dude can start speaking in tongues as we are gisting hian! I taught him every time is not for Spiricoco biko .I thought him how to be more playful.

Well you mustn't kiss him on the road he will be frightened start planting kisses at home till he becomes very comfortable( kiss him while he is sleeping, while he is awake, while he is eating, when he leaves or comes back from work don't even go for the lips(forhead, cheeks, neck etc) , send him naughty sms while he is out, do romantic stuff with him and for him .

My dear if your body language is right, he will always look forward to having you and will sure loosen up a bit.All the Best

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Me i don't think there's hope oh. That's how the man is. It's typical African man mentality that men are 'lords' nau. Abi? He's been brought up to act that way. Its his own life view and there are women who are okay with it. I think you need to find other ways to make yourself happy and cautioon him against shouting at you infront of others. As for that PDA.... I don't think a man can learn it. It's either he is or he isnt. #IMO

Anonymous said...

Characteristics of an igbo man

Anonymous said...

Story Story Strong...
Nothing can change an unromantic grown man, who teaches an old dog new tricks?

Anonymous said...

She feels like one if the furnitures, even the furniture gets cleaned atimes n caeessed.

Atheist ™ said...

Can sextoy kiss or romance?
Ignoring such a man will even make his day.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

That's the package you got so carry the cross. You can still talk to him though or give him the silent treatment till he shows a sign of change. Although I prefer him to a lazy and arrogant childish man.

Anonymous said...

My husband too does not show PDA,who PDA epp? I was like you when I newly married my hubby too two years now,I complain like more of talking you don't tell me you love me ,bla bla and he still didn't change and I stopped saying it too but I realised it's nothing compared to the love this man shows me in action..Action truly speaks louder than voice,please poster accept your husband the way he is but always let him know in a loving way you need more romance before lovemaking.Please leave PDA for oyinbos..Learn to understand your man..Btw my hubby too is 12yrs older than me,so show him love and gratitude for taking good care of you

Anonymous said...

My husband too does not show PDA,who PDA epp? I was like you when I newly married my hubby too two years now,I complain like more of talking you don't tell me you love me ,bla bla and he still didn't change and I stopped saying it too but I realised it's nothing compared to the love this man shows me in action..Action truly speaks louder than voice,please poster accept your husband the way he is but always let him know in a loving way you need more romance before lovemaking.Please leave PDA for oyinbos..Learn to understand your man..Btw my hubby too is 12yrs older than me,so show him love and gratitude for taking good care of you

Atheist ™ said...

Petty to you, problem to her...
We all dont xperience itch on the same spot.

XES IS FOOD said...

He is behhavin like this because you have never given him anal sex. Just take your bath this night and give him some mind blowing anal sex.He Will start speaking in tongues and d anything you want.

prisca ojemede said...

Anyways no need to ask if there was courtship b4 d marriage,u guys did court and u saw all these, but u stil went ahead,,,probably he is comfortable and financially bouyant
My dear the truth is dat, dats his kind of person,,,is hard to change completely,it can only reduce a little bit
My advice,now it has come to dis,,communication is stil d key,,talk to him ow u feel, ,u no wen he ur hubby is in a gud mood, express everytin u feels,,,after al these,,it doesnt change,,,keep been d gud wife,dress pretty, keep d house clean and take care of ur hubby,,,put it in prayers,,,
Dont allow it disturb u cos no marriage is perfect,,,dis is ur ow cross to bear

Fiona said...

Please try and have a heart to heart talk with him first. If he doesn't change, start acting like you don't
give a damn about him.

DopeMoM said...

I was expecting this from you.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Was he like this when you were dating him? If yes, then that's how he is and you may not be able to change him.

If those other guys were good at what you're lacking now, why did you leave them to marry your hubby? Talk to him about how you feel and forget about the age difference, pray before you start your discussion with him. I wish you well.

Anonymous said...

Shame on the queer & danfo bus and all who glorify adultery.
Shame on whom uploads this kind of comments

wideawake naija said...

Take this advice poster.

I'm not married yet. But this person makes sense

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha...

DopeMoM said...

I don't think its about the age coz some younger men are like that,sexually regid.
U can only communicate how u feel about it when u too are in a very good mood,if he doesn't change,u have to live with it.

Mao Akuh said...

Why did you marry him?

Anonymous said...

Poster my husband was like that until I snooped. No foreplay no kissing no PDA. I got the shocker he's gay.

Anonymous said...

Diminish respect kwa? My friend shut up there. What do you know about marriage? This is not boyfriend and girl friend talk ok.

RIPUDEX Quality Slippers shoes.Wholesale & retail said...

Well said my sister.

Anonymous said...

Anon 15:47 you hit the nail right on the head. Igbo men are the most unromantic men in Nigeria. I am igbo so I know exactly how the poster feels, igbo men feel that being romantic is a sign of weakness. For the life of me I don't understand why a man will approach a woman, date her, marry her and then when you both have issues, you start telling her you're not her mate. How do you think Yoruba guys get to date so many girls and are called demons? It's because they're more romantic. They won't give you money but they will use romance to scatter your brain and make you feel like queen of the universe. Poster you just have to manage him like that, at least he's taking care of you.

Anonymous said...

Starry Larry is it this poster that is responsible for your bad luck when it comes to meeting good men? What had her chronicle got to do with the husband's financial status? Marrrying a poor man or a rich man is not a guarantee that the marriage will be a happy one. Who told you the man was fully made when she met him? Please free your mind from bitterness. I'll be praying for you.

Oma maranma said...

Martins... do you have a blog boo?

Anonymous said...

You this stupid woman... I told you before that, your children will suffer for these advice you give women here. Unless God is not on his throne again.

Anonymous said...

You this stupid woman... I told you before that, your children will suffer for these advice you give women here. Unless God is not on his throne again.

Oma maranma said...

"Marriage is a bag of Okirika" cracked me up.... seriously I can't stay with an unromantic guy one bit... i will feel like a furniture. poster did you guys date before marriage?... didn't you notice all these your plights?... why didn't you do something until now... after two children? . hian! From what I get here.... marriage adiro change any man ooo... if you see things you can't endure before marriage, better walk out. to your problem... God fix it... i can't dee nada

Anonymous said...

Poster one question for you....did you guys even date at all?

#galore'scrush

Miss Candy said...

Poster ur hubby is wired like that. As long as he's taking good care of u and d kids,leave PDA for LAWMA!

Anonymous said...

I've once dated a Nigerian(igbo guy) who was just like that,no affection nothing.Whenever I complain about the missionary boring sex,even when I triedto teach him,nothing changed.He is doing very well for himself financially but I just couldn't stay with him.

Anonymous said...

Somebody that can't do any foreplay before penetration?... na just to enter, Fuck and come out. Using water to lubricate a woman 's pussy.. she's just enduring sex mbok. Can you endure that and not complain. Na cause no be you dey wear this irritating shoe. See I might be a Virgin now ooo but I'm arming myself with enough info on sex... my husband must fulfil every fantasy... all of it. I can't endure it. Biko poster, go to God... your case can lead weaker women Into adultery. God will fix this.

Anonymous said...

Sterra sterra !I gbadun you todayπŸ˜‰

Princess Charming... The no1 Princess on SDK blog. said...

Poster, you guys didn't court? Cos it seems you got pregnant and immediately he paid your doury, reason for this chronicle.

Secondly, as a wife can teach him all of these you cherished in your home. Your husband is not used to PDA so teach him.

While at home when he is watching Tv,lean on his lap, even when the kids are home, sit on same couch, watch movie together etc.
He gets home from work greet him with a hug, you guys should learn to share things together like having dinner on same plate etc, cos it seems this is what is lacking in your home.
Your husband is not used to such so it is your responsibility as a wife to initiate PDA in your home.
Subsequently he will get used to it then, with time, you can transcend to others outside as you so desire.

All the best.

Oma maranma said...

Try this poster

Oma maranma said...

Try this too

Hilary Clinton said...

Lol. Stella said her friend married her ancestor. Kikikii. Na wa o.

Poster, I don't know what to say o. But try discussing it with him, especially the foreplay part. If he still doesn't see it your way, pray about it and leave him alone. He might change... or not. In the meantime, condition your mind to stop seeking for pda. Life is a mind game. You can change the way you see things and soonest, they will no longer bother you. πŸ˜— I guess I had a few things to say. Toodles.

MamaD said...

πŸ˜…...Any type of Craze you dey find..you go see am for this blog

Anonymous said...

One if the setbacks of marrying a much older man

Jasmine said...

He's quick to remind u how u guys ain't age mates but he can part your legs abi?


He's a selfish man.

Jasmine said...

Whats this dumb person saying?

Tianah said...

Larry chop kiss... 😘😘😘😘😘😘

Tianah said...

Gbam

Tianah said...

Hahahahahaha.. @bag of okrika. Wat u see is Wat u get

Anonymous said...

Lol, @guild him to pleasure you right as in playing with your clitoris

Anonymous said...

Freaky Dopp

kuluwa ibrahim said...

He has another kind of love language. Which isn't physical touch. There are 5 kinds. Google types of love language, it would help you.

Anonymous said...

Yoruba men take romance scatter head? No, they use lies and pretenses, not love.

Uzu Anwuli said...

Hi,u just disappeared,hope you are gud?@duchess

Brandedme said...

*Jaw drop*
Faints*

amanda favour said...

Anon stop, pls stop, how did you know It's her ?
I hope you don't praise her with your I.d and yabb her under anon?
God is watching us oh!

Anonymous said...

Hey! I'm a Dog lover here.
yes you can teach an old dog new tricks as long as he is in good health. He will learn! It just takes lots of practice, consistency and patience and there you'll have your well behaved dog. Even stray dogs, sheltered dogs can be tamed.

Hope that answers your question.


That been said,

dear poster, he might not change to suit your demands (I'm guessing his Igbo. I know this because I'm Igbo and I know) but I can guarantee you he can improve you just need to talk to him, and let him know when you expected X and he did Y etc.

But PDA, forget about that one. He is grown and most guys except they are synced otherwise do not like PDA. To them it's like iberibe, what is this one doing. So leave that one for others focus on the way he treats you and talks to you.

It's well. You will be fine in the end.

Anonymous said...

Haaa!
There are possessed people on this blog for real!

Anonymous said...

Not all igbo guys are like that dated couple of them and the last was crazily romantic,me I Sabi flow with the rhythm even in the road we play like kids but when it was time for me to get married I went for more important things, I am married to an Edo guy tho not romantic I don't have a problem with it cause in other aspect he is a sweetheart,Even with 3 kids I still feed him in public n do crazy things on my own but not too much so he doesn't embarrass me as most times he is shy lol .Plz don't stop showing and telling him you love him always make him feel special, some have husbands that kiss their feet n all other PDA yet the men won't drop shishi @home some even turn the women punching bag .take care of what u have trust me he notices everything you are doing,even if he doesn't express in words he will in action.

Anonymous said...

She's happy! Why you shouting in Galores's voice

Anonymous said...

Madam poster,its not age.my hubby is not that old yet he used to be that way until recently I shocked him. I told him:u treat me as if I'm an abandoned property, u don't sleep with me unless I ask and when u do u just go straight to the point.if u are tired of me Pls let me tell someone else to do it. And he thought it was a joke. I went out for a guy who did it well for me. In fact my under is still sore. He did it well, so I went back home and told my hubby. He took a cutlass ran after me slashed me four times on my back and I passed out when I woke up I was in the hospital with my leg hanging up..... That was how I woke up from the nightmare. Please just manage the marriage like that like someone said up there no be oda u go chop. Marriage is not romance but reality Biko.

SANDY YO said...

Whats da meaning of IMO sef?

SANDY YO said...

Blab!πŸ˜‰πŸ˜³

Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere said...

Poster i get you. My hubby is way older than me too and they have a tendency to treat you like a child but my hubby is very romantic with me. You just have to sit him down and talk. Just pour out your heart and let him know you want a change. All the best.

Anonymous said...

The truth is that no matter how hard we try to hide it... Every Nigeria man esp religious have that thing in him/her..... You can teach him that's if he is ready to learn.... As in make frequent outing to where those things are required like church programs that preach love btw partners n so on.... I used to be on ya husbands shoe but now I have to force to do does things....

Anonymous said...

Could the yeye husband be gay? He married her in order to "pass" in a society in which it's illegal to be gay, yet, despises every intimate moment with a woman. His disgust for his wife is evident in his insensitivities and harshness, especially, in the bedroom. Let's say all this was true, what would the wife do upon uncovering such facts? Well, your guess is as good as mine. No be all of us dey dis Naija? NMTA

Justyswt said...

The Queen has spoken! Poster no be love u go chop.

Real Leo Queen said...

@Sandy it means "In my opinion"

cat eyes said...

Poster,please buy this book The five love languages by Gary Chapman,u read it first and when u are done,give it to ur hubby to read.

gwax godfrey said...

When next he is sliding his cucumber into ur kingdom, pull it out and hold it tight. Tell d idiot say u want to have a talk session. I'm sure he will grant u audience and perhaps adjust.

Anonymous said...

Dis one is back. Mtcheew

Anonymous said...

He could be gay.....

Anonymous said...

This is my first ever comment, I felt compelled to respond as this may help. I have been married for 9 years with 2 kids. My hubby is 11years older. I experienced the less love in the early years of our marriage, no touching or PDA. I started seducing my hubby cos I got a body to die for. Sometimes when he comes even if am honey I turn him down till he begs. Then I know his weakness is when I don't speak to him. I put on my malice mood. one day, after looking for my talk I was answering in yes and no only. Then he finally asked what's wrong and I poured out my heart to him, in his defense he said it's men that cheat that show PDA and that he's not good at showing expression. He got better over the years, i could be cooking now in the kitchen and he comes to hold me from the back and peck my back and it has really gotten better after my first child I felt like leaving. So it can only get better. So long as he's not abusive and he respects you and provides for the home.Keep tslking to him dont be afrasid. Hope this helps

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