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Wednesday, 7 June 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Hmmmm.....hope i havent posted this before?



STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TWICE BITTEN...

Hello madam stella, kudos for the good job you are doing on this blog. God bless your soul.
I am an ardent reader of your blog though i hardly comment.
**KINDLY HIDE MY EMAIL ADDRESS**

Now to my story, this might be a long read but i need your advice and that of other blog users. 

I am a 31 year old lady, got married at the registry sometimes with plan to have traditional and church wedding 5-6months after, this is because my parents don't live in the country. But things turned soar before the marriage even started. I realised the guy is a fraud, gold digger, into drugs and highly irresponsible even though he is civil servant.


 On realising some of these things i decided to stall the wedding plans and dig further, meanwhile my parents were making plans for the marriage being their first child. 

In d course of my digging i discovered other stuffs and I had to open up to my dad cuz I'm closer to him. He was sad, disappointed and asked what my decision was. Told him i can't continue with the marriage and he and my mum supported me. 


I told him my decision as well and I informed his siblings and parents and they all pleaded with me but I had made up my mind. I spoke with a lawyer and he said since i already have a marriage certificate from the registry i have to file for a divorce.


 Imagine filing for a divorce for a marriage i hadnt even started as we haven't started living together yet. He frustrated me by not agreeing to divorce me and claimed I am his wife whether i like it or not. 

After about 13 months after the saga I was able to commence the divorce proceedings and we are still in court almost 2yrs. In btw all of these, guys ask me out but I felt I couldn't date any one else till my divorce pulls through but there's this street friend of mine whom we just talk once in a while, and exchange greetings on phone too. I know his gf, but we dont talk, he knows my soon to be ex too and they don't talk. 


We were talking on day and he asked about him and i told him we are no longer together. Few weeks later he started getting close and i suspected something was up. We spoke about it like matured adults and i asked him about his gf. He told me they were having issues and they can't marry each other.. His excuse was same AS -AS genotype and ask i give him time to end the relationship he has with her. 

I agreed and we started dating but after about a month the girl started coming over to his house every weekend Fri-Mon morning. I complained and he kept saying its not what it seem that i should give him time that he doesn't want them to have a bitter breakup.

 I tried to break up with him 2ce that when he is through with her we can continue or we just go our separate ways. He convinced me and i kept holding on for him. Few days ago..I went to see a friend of mine a guy who he knows and but he got angry that i didn't tell him before going. It got heated up and I had to tell him to stop being jealous that the guy was just a friend and he knows this. 


I told him what about me that i know he's always with another lady every weekend but i still try to keep my calm even though it hurts and my friend felt i was being stupid to have agreed to such. Second day after our quarell, i had to go see my friend again cuz we have a pending issue at hand but this time i told him before going and he asked me not to be long. I realised it will take me a while before coming back so I calked him to avoid another quarrel and he said okay but to my surprise when i got back I went to his house and he didn't open the door nor pick my calls.


 I felt he was angry and we would iron it out the next day. But next morning he broke up with me saying i didn't set my priorities right that i left him to go see a friend bla bla... I tried to explain but he wouldn't have any of it. I felt he was angry and when he calms down we would talk.. But its been 4 days and we still aren't talking. Then i realised his gf came to his house last night...


I am not willing to beg him again. I will just let things be but I'm scared of something. I borrowed him 600k two days before the first quarrel and he even wanted to give me his car document as collateral and wanted us to do a transfer ownership of his car to me in case he defaults to pay back.

 As he is suppose to pay back next month end but i felt he was trust worthy and we didn't do the documentation before i released the money. 

Dear Stella, is this guy trying to play smart by breaking up with me and doesn't want to give me back my money or he's just angry? I need to know what to do as to get back my money as at when we agreed. This is a guy i tried to break up with earlier and he convinced me, how come he is now able to break up with me after he has my money with him.


*How can you fall mugu twice with your eyes open?
This man does not want to pay you and prbably planned something with that his girlfriend....they are also probably enjoying your money together..My dear please dont visit him alone again before he kills you cos of the money...Get a Lawyer ready to write him once he defaults...So sorry


114 comments:

Daenerys_targaryen(For your organic soap and cream���� what's app 08112237061) said...

Hmmm...things dey happen sha

Anonymous said...

Girls you are married when you dad or his representative receive the BRIDE PRICE. After that, every other formalities can be observed.
Do not begin marriage in the courts
do not begin sex before the bride price is paid
it only ends in tears.

Miss Ess said...

Oh dear! You have fallen prey to a smart fraudster. O think making trouble with him would be the best. Look for all means available and necessary to caollect your 600k

Anonymous said...

Do not go to the church, court or have sex before your dad receives the bride price.
If you read this blog and still succumb to these pranks, then you are a fool; a mugu!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Happiness will come to you when it comes from you. Success will be yours when you choose to take responsibility for making it so*

Anonymous said...

Why are girls so foolish?
Who is writing chronicles now?
A man takes you to court/registry to wed when your dad hasn't been paid the dowry and you oblige?

STARRY LARRY said...

Now I need to ask how old are you? The guy will use your money to finance his wedding with the other lady. How on earth will you agree for him to still be with his gf but gets angry anytime you go out with another guy? The guy really played you and I pity you



*Larry was here*

Anonymous said...

Nne sorry
dem don chop you be that.
Dust urself,move on.
life is too short

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

You see why I call most women fish brain...
So poster,a guy told you he is breaking up with his girlfriend that didn't do him anything and you believed him?...
When will some women wise up?...
Move on biko!...
He has dumped you!...that's why he used that flimsy excuse to perfect his plans!...

Leave relationship alone for now and fall in love next time with your brain!...

As for your money,just pray hard cos e be like say the money don go!...
Next time,don't give a man money either by borrowing or whatever!...

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

He knew you would fall prey to his antics because you were vulnerable and ordinarily ladies lean to the next guy who offers some or any kind of warmth and affection when they are down.
He played on that and he might win. If you transferred the money into his account then there is an evidence of it in the banks database. Go and print your account statement and have it handy for when he defaults because he would.
He already had his game planned ahead and please next time don't go around singing like a bird about your predicament to the next guy because most really don't care, they just want to have something to either use against you or have a hold over you.
He never broke up with his babe and from your write up, you referred to her as his "girlfriend". You are the outsider and I'm sure the babe is enjoying part of your money.
600k though? The length women go to to make a man happy. Nothing signed, 600k just gone like that based on trust that kind of risk isn't even worth taking with some family members.
Anytime I'm lending anyone money I always use the narration to tie them down and before I release it I ask them to send an email with their official email asking for that money to borrowed. Then I use narration "60k loan to Name of borrower" for example. That way if the person defaults I have the transfer narration and email to back up my claim.
Don't be a mug next time, shine your eyes babe and settle your divorce matter before you jump from frying pan to fire.

Janelle said...

If he had slept with you,sorry he just wanted to get between your legs.You knew he had a serious girlfriend,yet you went into a relationship with yourself.Sorry,try and go to his house and talk to him about the money and if he tries to play smart,get a lawyer.I thought girls have become smarter,don't play love with your money or savings.It doesn't always end well.

Amaka Hundeyin said...

I don’t know when women would be wise. Small breeze una don fall in love! Whether someone is in an abusive or about to break up relationship, it's a no-no but no, you must date even though you don't know why you want to date.
Your money don enter voicemail oh, just take it as another investment gone wrong.

HER EXCELLENCY said...

So innocent at 31....sorry love. Try to love with your head next time #ehugs to u #

Monkeynofine said...

M.U.M.U

RadioHead Steelheart said...

Geez Madam I smell Desperation!! Desperation!!! Dont you know men are sharks that can smell desperation a million miles away..You fell for tricks twice at almost the same time shame on you..How could you do a court wedding before your traditional or introduction i mean who does that?? you are too desperate for my liking..And you didnt even give yourself some chills, recover and learn your lesson..You went ahead to date a guy who you dont know well and A guy on your street for that matter..You dont have any respect for yourself ..he is enjoying your money with his girlfriend now, maybe even planning their wedding..Haaa Oh Girl u no smart at all and am highly disappointed in you, all cause you wanna answer Mrs..Haba now..Abeg madam go..Just meet your lawyer and press charges...mtsheeeww!!

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Go to any Navy or Army guy to pick him up. Show them his house so that your money go come out. Sorry ooo. It happens everywhere. Women dey fall mugu when it comes to love and money.

Istanbul said...

When will ladies learn? But if we your fellow female asked for such an assistant, it will be turned down.I don't even see how you allowed urself dating a guy in ur street.And visiting another one as well in same area.pls dont turn urself into a street girl,pls give urself some respect in that area by staying clear from area friends. pls talk to a lawyer like Stella has said,they should make him sign an agreement if he will agree you even borrowed him such an amount. Pls update us so you can always know what steps to take on this. All will be fine

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Queen the money never go, he should use Army or Navy and not Police. Police na wayo people

Blondie Thorne said...

Sister receive sense in Jesus name....am sure u av too much money,, dats Y u can borrow a guy dat Obviously used U as side Chick 600k..... Na wa

RadioHead Steelheart said...

@Amaka Hundeyin Seriously am vexing here..I know age cannot be tied to maturity..But at 31, she ought to know better..women pray for wisdom oh..This lady's case is paining me i dunno why..

goldenpearl said...

na wa ooo, na for only oyinbo film I dey see girl the married without the parents knowing. and na she go use her mouth de introduce her husband to the parent. mum, dad, meet my husband we got married two months ago, we so much in love(in oyinbo voice).For the one with your money get a police or two to his house don't wait still one month again collect the car and change the document. BUT GIRL IN ALL THESE I SEE DESPARETION. BECAREFUL IT CAN LEAD TO FRUSTRATION

Jennifer Lawrence said...

Thank you

beautiful godly said...

My dear forget the money
Life is more precious than πŸ’°
That man capitalize on your venlnurbilty . When it's time for the period you agreed to pay and he didn't pay, call him to hear what he has to say, if he is not forthcoming ,arrest him and let him write undertaking with the police when to pay. Mind you the police will take 10% of the money but it's safer that way but you must get mind to face the consequences
If you are chicken hearted, forget the money bcoz he might go spiritual or physical by beating you up
Adviod him, there are plenty good men out there

Tiwa

Anonymous said...

Thank you on the guys behalf for the money...mumu! Six hundred thousand naira! Egbami! I will advise you communicate about the money with him though documentable means like email and phone chats. if you guys happen to talk one on one abeg record am. Do not fight him ooo and try to settle out of court.......they will only tell him to pay what he can afford in bits like 3000 every month. I have been there. Most importantly, pray!

Anonymous said...

My dear your money has gone. You know that he is still seeing the other girl and you dashed them momey for their wedding. Congrats

pearlgolden said...

na wa ooo, na for only oyinbo film I dey see girl the married without the parents knowing. and na she go use her mouth de introduce her husband to the parent. mum, dad, meet my husband we got married two months ago, we so much in love(in oyinbo voice).For the one with your money get a police or two to his house don't wait still one month again collect the car and change the document. BUT GIRL IN ALL THESE I SEE DESPARETION. BECAREFUL IT CAN LEAD TO FRUSTRATION

Babyface Assassin said...

Nne, the money should not go like that o.
Poster ask him for your money and if he tries to play smart, just keep your cool.
When he thinks he's off the hook, arrange boiz from faraway to 'play' with the car.
Shatter the windshield front and back, break all the glasses, bust the tires. Tear up the seats, wreck the gear.
Douse the inside of the car with about 1000litres of DPK.
Nothing should be traced back to you.
Then you both should count your losses.
Don't be shamed with your tail in between your legs.
I know this advice is terrible, but... *shrugs*

Jeni_zee said...

Can u imagine? Are u that desperate? Dating a guy whose girlfriend spealnds weekend with him from fri to Monday morning? He used u nd u might not get ur money back

Jeni_zee said...

This is d only way u would get your money back, hopefully if u have text messages that shows he owes u money, that would be fine but don't involve police cos he would say he wants to be paying 5k every month and there is nothing u can do, ur best bet is army

Queen of the coastπŸ˜—πŸ‘Έ said...

On top of the matter that u were a side chick u still got scammed outta ur money. Odiegwu. Some women tho...

Gold Taken said...

Don't be gullible, I repeat, Don't be gullible. Refuse to be gullible. It's not every man that wakes you up with I love you, really loves you. If there is no purpose, ministry and destiny, don't even think of going there.

cakenchops said...

you allowed him to play you, what the hell were you thinking, i keep saying most men are evil, imagine him coming into your life after all you've been through with the other guy and still doesn't have good intentions for you, men sha... babe you also need to check yourself, and you have to threaten him to get your money back, tell people close to you that can help you recover the money from him, if not you are on your own o, best wishes dear.

Chidinma Grace said...

Oh babe you have been played. That your husband is even better than this one

BEDS AND ROSES said...

600k to a man that isnt yours.
You are actually his side-chick and that girl is probably even his fiance.
Another woman comes to spend the whole weekend with your supposed man and you have no problem with that. what do you think they are doing all weekend. singing praise and worship ????
When do you even spend quality time with this man, when weekends you shld be together he is with his rightful babe.
This guy is just doing area oshofree with you.
my pain is that money.

Anonymous said...

I concur. Be it man or friend, do not borrow anyone what you can't give away. I doubt if this guy will pay you back but let him be. I have no idea if there is a legit way you can get your money back, hopefully those who do will chime in. Regardless you get paid or not, let him wonder if the money or the heartbreak meant nothing to you. Raise your head high and be happy to his face. His loss! Pele

MrsBee

Cynthia Iyede said...

Better carry an army guy to help you squeeze the money out of him.
Pelee, prayerfully enter your next relationship and be smart too.

World People said...

Wow! MUGU x 100

I'm amazed at your level of stupidity

You are not SMART. Why didn't you collect the car documents when he offered?
Why wasn't there any documentation of the loan ?
In short, why did you loan someone you just met and still in a relationship your money?
Why didn't you SNOOP first? To be sure he is being truthful? You are not SMART!

Why did you do court wedding before trad? And more importantly why ddnt you SNOOP and make your findings before the wedding?

Let me tell you the truth. You have been used. Both for financial & sexual gain. It is only Gods favor that will cause your money to be repaid.

You too reason am. Look at the flimsy excuse he broke up with you over.

Chai women! I'm so sorry for you oh. You don enter one chance

Brain and Beauty. said...

So you mean you gave a guy your hard earned 600k just like that?Who does that?I don't know

Anonymous said...

Oko ebule na im this poster be. Na so you dey dash men money upandan in the name of love. Abeg tight mind go report the matter for Army barracks to ensure immediate refund of your money. Guy man wey de run around for money to marry his babe in style na u go fall mugu. AS ko SS ni. U come here dey cry waa waa oya come suck bress naa. 31 years old but your sense na 13 yrs.neexxxxxttttttt!!!!!

BeQuiet Instead said...

Hi poster,

You have really fallen 'mugu' for this guy. How can you lend such amount to somebody without any collateral? He purposely come to you b/c you are financially buoyant and he was not ready to have any serious relationship with you. It's obvious you are naive, otherwise, I don't see why you agreed to such situation-ship ....how can his so called ex be visiting him, yet he monitors your moves and claim to have a relationship with you. Prove me wrong but your cash is gone. He played you and a smart one at that. Even with your lawyer, he can even claim that you gave him d 600K for free, as per for 'love' but now wants it back b/c he jilted you - some men are fraud...scam....evil.

Women should learn....DON'T LEND OUT CASH TO ANY MAN UNLESS YOU CAN FORFEIT IT.
I'm so pissed

Mz Poundz said...

chai!! babe you mumu no be small. dude collected your 600k to marry his babe. I doubt you'll ever get that mony back.
Pele sho'gbo.
at 31..shioor ..

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

So N600,000 is what you all are shouting. Now i know the poverty that is killing you all. No wonder bitterness full everywhere.

Make una dey shout oooo. N600,000 is still too small

Blackberry said...

Ode in love, maga fall , guy man chop.

CEO Empress said...

Hmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!
The deed has already being done. The guy really did his homework to have CON you of 600,000 Naira within a short period of time. He is still with his GF and he deliberately asked you to go and see that guy to have LEVERAGE when breaking up with you.

1.Please don't go to the guys house alone

2. Don't play the HOSTILITY CARD, call him on his phone and record it, make sure you ask him about your money, like has he invested the 600,000 Naira. Send him a message on his Whatsapp/BBM, asking him how the project is going with the 600 000 Naira you BORROWED him.

3. At the end of the stipulated time, ask him about the money, depending on the outcome, you can report the issue to the Navy or Army.

BABE, please next time use your brain not your heart. It's better to rebound slowly (falling in love again). Be strong

Bootylycious diva said...

you be correct maga ,better carry sars tell dem say you go give dem half of the money let them arrest him at least if you see half you will be happy .

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Please, I need my color back.
Thanks and love you all.

DON™ said...

Borrow what?! This is a brainless woman. Are you this stupid at your age and I was thinking you were smart at the beginning of your story.
Abeg I wan sleep.

BeQuiet Instead said...

Sorry, poster, I was so pissed that I forgot this tangible advice.
If you really want to collect your 600K. meet d guy and ask for it and hear what he will say - use your phone to record all conversation. DON'T WAIT FOR MONTH END. if he proves stubborn, take 2/3 Army guys and use the recording on your phone as evidence to collect your cash back...no need of collecting car unless it's still worth 1M naira.

You may be desperate to marry b/c you feel 31yrs is a lot, pls, stop it. You made a mistake earlier marrying a man you didn't know very well, DON'T LET IT REPEAT ITSELF.

You are currently vulnerable, AFTER YOUR DIVORCE, pray for healing and wait for your man to come for you .

Take care.

Anonymous said...

i just learnt something important from doppelganger.. use the transfer narration to describe the transaction taking place and use it as an evidence.. This world pipu sef

MamaD said...

Mehn....Adonbilivit...Aunty you gave a man 600k in this recession,no collateral,nothing..his girlfriend comes to spend the weekend with him and he told you that he wants to break up with her amicably and you agreed?so you people were doing shifts? your own Is Mon-fri,her own is weekends..?Madam where are you from?,the 600k you gave him did you steal it?.My dear,you will have to use army,navy and airforce to get your money bk and with prayers too..and please whenever you pray say this 5 times morning and evening.'My Father,My Father give me Sense Amen'

Anonymous said...

Your village people are using your brain to play canter ball

Jeni_zee said...

Spends

Anonymous said...

Babe, men are not to be trusted with money at all. I met this guy at a wedding, he wanted us t date and he was ready to marry me et al, He was not my type so I even returned his ring (He stylishly gave me a ring). Now he wanted to marry another woman and I was cool with it, he asked me for some cash to assist him with some business deal. I had the money and just so he would understand that I was in full support of his impending marriage, I lent him the money. This was September 2015, till date, I am yet to see my money. I have tried everything, this guy blatantly refused to give me my money. I later saved up to buy a car, a friend came and cried all the woes in this world and I lent him the money for business (I was not even dating him, as a rule, I don't give bfs money). That was last year, till today, I am yet to see my money, and I lent him this money on trust. Please lawyers in the house can I use the law to get my monies? I don't have a written proof but I am tired of begging for my money. Men are not to be trusted with money. BTW, I have been lending women money and they pay me as at when due.

sholetoga said...

Poster......I think you're just a very indecisive person. See the way you're floating from one man to another......

Rose said...

So you played the fool? Well, we all do that once in a while so you're not alone on that.
But try and get your money back. If you don't have documentation for the loan, get a phone that records and have all your conversations with him using it. Ensure you mention the amount and let him agree to owing you that sum. That way if he defaults, you can sue him and use your recorded conversations as evidence.
Good luck.

Lady Ijaaay said...

Hmmm! You borrowed him money? Ladies stop this borrowing of money on an undefined relationship ,even defined once sef think thrice. Make una wise up na. But wait o..Guys why are most of you always fond of borrowing money at the beginning of a relationship? That was how one told me to borrow him 500k barely two weeks i met him. No o i cant be a mugu just like that. Mbano! * i ran*

I don't think he loves you, my dear find a way and collect your money. leave him as you have confirmed the presence of his girlfriend

plenty money said...

Look for any army or go to army barrack and meet any officer you see around. explain your predicament to him. Tell him if he can collect the 600k back you will give him 100k commission and watch the magic unfold.

Anonymous said...

This isn't innocence it's sheer dumbness. Poster you are dumb. Here take this trophy for Dumbaby of the year.

CEO Empress said...

Hmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!
The deed has already being done. The guy really did his homework to have CON you of 600,000 Naira within a short period of time.

1.Please don't go to the guys house alone

2. Don't play the HOSTILITY CARD, call him on his phone and record it, make sure you ask him about your money, like has he invested the 600,000 Naira. Send him a message on his Whatsapp/BBM, asking him how the project is going with the 600 000 Naira you BORROWED him.

3. At the end of the stipulated time, ask him about the money, depending on the outcome, you can report the issue to the Navy or Army.

BABE, please next time use your brain not your heart. It's better to rebound slowly (falling in love again). Be strong

Gifted C said...

Pls When Using Army Make Sure The Case Is Registered At Their Office Not Any How Army O,,,so That D Case Will Not Turn Against U,,talking From Experience.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, army makes sense.

MrsBee

Anonymous said...

Chai mumu like you still dey for this recession????
You allow your boyfriend to stay with his ex over the weekend?? Why??. Na him bury her umbilical cord?
Buahahahaha hahahaha hahahaha

Your mumu never done reach sef, dey there dey behave like dodoyo,didinrin oludota, remain small dey go use you do rituals.

Anonymous said...

E ya kpele.

Please refer to Madam Yori Yori love me jeje for the name of that her 25k cream. Kpele.

Anonymous said...

Gbam!!

Onyinyechukwu said...

Guuuurrrl,..you've been played!..like a piΓ±ata..
I sincerely don't understand why a babe will lend money to a guy Wey no be her husband,really,I don't get it..a whooping 600k,..
Nne,your gullibility no get part 2..you have paid for their wedding,just incase you dont now..
How una dey take meet all these fuckbois..
I pray you get your money back mehn..against all odds..#good luck.

Anonymous said...

No mind dem Royal Princess Love me jeje. See them shouting like touts.

Ordinary 600k? What is that?









*na im dem never see 200 naira recharge card for your hand abi? Anuofia.

Affordable Latex Waist Trainers #6500.. 07037110564 said...

I feel for you babe.That guy must be a theif

Push up said...

Aunty why are you a mumu? Only you first marriage to a useless fraudulent man, now you again with a broke ass gold digger, do you choose them or they chose you? There's nothing like borrowing money to a man, if your man asks you for money, dash them the amount you can let go, never borrow man money. He and his gf played you, they used your money to arrange themselves. You can ask him politely or tell him you have a terminal illness and you need the money for transplant so he will know how much you need it, or else he will never pay back ... Hahahaha

cat eyes said...

That guy is getting married to his gf soon and trust me,he is relocating somewhere else soon too. I would advice u go pick up that car pending when he will pay u ur money,if not, u are going to loose ur money and u are going to spend more money before u get back ur money.

RadioHead Steelheart said...

@Anonymous 17:04 you cant press chargers cause there is no written proof but how did you transfer the money to him if na with hand to hand, just forget it..but if na bank transfer, did you put any narration as to that you are lending him??

Anonymous said...

Wait a minute, you went digging after court marriage, abeg why didn't you dig before the marriage or where you in a hurry to grab this man from another girl? You seem to be someone who is comfortable with another person's man otherwise why would you agree to date a man who is still with his girlfriend. Nne forget about that 600k cos he has used it to pay his girlfriend's bride price. You won't die after all MMM went with my 600k and I didn't die. By the way, you seem to be a desperate chic who buys men with money

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Anons 17:04 go and look for navy or army person to help you. Get the address of these people and go early in the morning to hold them. chai na wa.


Anons 17:35 dont mind them. See all of them shouting common N600,000

Priceless Jewel said...

Pls mail me


... Jesus is my worth!

Anonymous said...

Press what charges, did they have any agreement? The guy could say he sold something to her and that was the payment. She may not be able to get back this money unless the guy chooses to return to her. She opened her eyes to go and snatch someone's boyfriend and she is here telling us genotype stories. What if the guy just confided in her that that is their challenge and she went all out to snatch the guy. I don't even believe the guy is jealous when she is with other guys (she just added that line to make it look like the guy cares). I won't be surprised if the girlfriend asked the guy to borrow from his 'friend and neighbour' to facilitate their wedding. #desperados

Anonymous said...

The money go come out but she go run leave that area cos they guy go set her up big time and could even kill her. She just added the line of guys coming for her to show she is not desperate, nne you want to marry Mrs by force by fire. Consequences of being a desperate girl

jelly said...

Babe are you so desperate to involved your money in a relationship that is not even certain, with a guy that is lying about breaking up with his girlfriend? Babe wake up now, you need to involve a lawyer and army to get your money back quickly before he and girl waka with your money

Anonymous said...

Big one mtcheeeeeew.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

I dont know either 😲. Poster please recieve wisdom.

Anonymous said...

No mind am. Na after court marriage E begin snoop. Who does that in 2017?na una type dey marry ghost dey give birth to pygmy.
Fish brained lot. E see wedding, beast begin shake. Desperado oshi.
Abeg, make o see betta story jor.

Anonymous said...

She needs better brain... I feel so sorry for her.

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:21 don't mail anyone here.
Ordinary question on cream, dem say make you mail dem. Na secret to salvation.

Don't mail anybody here. You don't know who is who. Na from clap clap e go enter shoki. If anyone has anything sensible to say dey should say it here. No hide hide.

Anonymous said...

Dear poster,
Next time u call him, make sure u record the conversation and pls mention the amount specifically cos I suspect he would deny if u involve ur lawyer first.
Please, give urself time to heal properly this time before entering another relationship.

Anonymous said...

D guy wan play smart on u. Na money for their wedding u don give d guy so.
I will advise u to hv a recorded phone conversation with him just in case he wan deny u.

Yeye smelly guys everywhere.

Jeni_zee said...

Hahahahahaha ona wicked o

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Tamara Clark said...

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Tamara Clark said...

Real one ..I tell you

Tamara Clark said...

Nah real wa

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Lol. Queen i dont even have any story that relates to this. My own is if you decided to borrow the guy money because he needed help, why didn't you take collateral he offered? Just be disgracing your parents upandan. After a bad divorce, i expect full lock up for like one year. Call the nigga up and ask for your money. Hope you didn't give him cash without a witness? If so, just go and cry cos he won't pay back. I also hope you know what to do in subsequent relationships.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

I agree. That wisdom prayer is my daily oh. Cos we need a daily renewal of wisdom in a world full of shady guys and a tough country like naija where 80% of them are walking penises. Let's not even start with the egositic ones at work. Na it person go dey take life dey play

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Another good advice

Anonymous said...

Sister, abeg your mumu don do. Even if you are 50 yrs, stop giving men your money. Your husband will come.

Bambi said...

Only you. You too you no try. Asking him to break up with his girlfriend so that both of you can date. Lol. you played yourself. You think he will leave her for you, relationship that you don't know how it started and how long they've come.
You have to be smart in collecting your money oo. Start small small once it reaches next month, involve police oo. Onyioshi man.

Anonymous said...

Nor mind them my house help gets more than that every month that is even before his commission for work he does in hubby's office

Dainty T said...

I'm just here singing Kelly handsome's song....maga don pay shout hallelujah,oooooooo
Mugu don pay shout hallelujah, ahhhhhhhh
Poster ndo. You have been played baje.

Anonymous said...

Im surprised my queen didn't say anything spiritual. My dear if u want your money back,you'll get it.I lent a fucker 300k n he wanted to play himself....when i finished na him call me for phone return money. Money go turn pepper for him life. God punish foolish men.

Anonymous said...

He must be a gemini dey are snakes , nd will break up wit u after using u , dont worry its not u its him dey are two faced psycho dont stress,nd oh ave dated 4 gemini ave more as frnds dey used to borrowing nd not returning or promising wat dey cant do. Trust me on this one lol i know i might sound out of line buh he sounds lik most of d geminis i know

Anonymous said...

Lmao @my father my father give me sense.

This story week me no be small. As you add army, Navy, and airforce no forget to add spirit forces.

Your gullibility is mega frightening.

Anonymous said...

That one still good.

E just be like person wey dem remote wey dey use finger size tiger battery for head.

Hold you ear. repeat after me 500 times.
NEVER. LEND. A. MAN/WOMAN. MONEY. THAT. YOU. ARE. NOT READY. TO. LET. GO. OF. IF. NEED. BE.

Anonymous said...


You well or nah?
Person dey look for solution to problem.
You dey give astrologer analysis.
Abeg gerrout.
If na only one side of your brain dey work, hold am for there. Ediot.

Gold Taken said...

It's not in zodiac sign. We are in the age, not everyone walks around with a clear conscience/fears God.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Eleyi gidi gaaan.... hehehe.

#Miss Kay# said...

Wait o! Is it that girls don't read chronicles again? Because someone like this girl is just too dumb for my liking. Chronicles are to teach one lessons of life. Poster I am disappointed in you, why are you this dumb?????????

ukwu dimond said...

Babes are still falling mugu in this Buhari time, is well. Stella has said it all.

Anonymous said...

Lmao! Geminis are two faced idiots. Very cunning people! I know them

Amacastel said...

U just fall mugu for the guy.

Amacastel said...

Pls borrow me 500k I will give you in 3months.

Anonymous said...

Wow. I don't know where to start from. But you are slow men, very slow.

uj said...

Please go to his house with your phone.put the phone on record mode and then ask him why he didn't want to pay you your money,just record everything and keep as evidence that will determine that you even gave him money at all.After that get him arrested in case the police didn't work.Those evidence will be for court case.

Kiks said...

If a girl(friend) had told you to lend her 50k to start a business I am almost sure your answer would have been I don't have. Jumping from one DOA relationship to the other. Is it a sin to be alone for a while? Most first children sef smh.

Kiks said...

It's not your fault you have a kind heart. If you can forget about it and allow God fight for you I'll advice you do that. My only problem is you people don't lend your female friends money.

Okwesilieze said...

Any cream from Ano chemical will do just fine
E.g: skin magnet but only use at night and get dettol eventone soap.
I'm chocolate and I use dettol eventone soap+ Johnson baby soap
Good luck

Anonymous said...

So you didn't know?una dey mumu eehn.tufia!

Thatkogigirl. said...

This is too funny Abeg.. Serious mugu. Well I don't blame you. I too fell mugu for a guy when I was in school. Borrowed him money for my school fees and feeding that was almost 250k. Con dey hungry for school,i lean pass anything. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ if I see garri drink in a day nah blessing be that. Just for me to see on ig that he did a very lavish wedding to a sirealonia babe.. Since then I no fit ever fall mugu

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