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Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Gossip.

This topic should touch some nerves....








Please take a seat on any of the Couches you like....

Now the topic for discussion is Gossip..

Why do Men gossip?I mean like why/how do they find time to gossip?
Is it inherent for them like it is for women?
Do you have any 'Gossipy' man around you now?

Are you in love with a 'gossipy' man? What are the positives and negative side of associating with one?

Are you married to a man who doesnt have full stop in his mouth or know when to say the right thing? How is it?


This post can Officially go South!


84 comments:

  1. Why must you put the second couch again?




    *Larry was here*

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚don't mind Stella

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    2. Second couch is for those that will come late to the gistπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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    3. Stella some men can gossip for Africa, infact its more painful when you find out your secret its no longer secret that you have shared with a trusted male friend.I don't really have any around but used to.And men gossip in a coded way,you wouldn't even know.I will categorically say that men that gossip are been childish,imatured guys...I don't really know what else adjective to use for such men,pls feel free and include yours

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    4. I dislike gossips. I'm trying so hard to daw the line between gossip and backbiting. Now i understand they say couples "gossip" and i know human nature, we are tempted to say something bout another from time to time but when you backbite orbring a "friend" down,you loose my trust and Friendship And i usualy cant hide my disgust when it comes from a man, i mean men are too busy even when doinh nothing to lisen to side talks especially when its bout a friend. I had a friend whose husbnds only form of romance was to talk bout everyone and even lie to make it sweet. The day i was his victim and i got to findout......But for God, i almost embarrased him but i proved my point.

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    5. Men and women have some level of similarity in their traits. The differentiating factor would be the degree of involvement.

      Ofcourse some men gossip but when you related the proportion to the women folks, it is still safe to say gossip is more feminine. A critical difference though could be viewed in terms of the intent of the gossip. While women may gossip out of jealousy, envy, comparison, "feel good" mentality. Men are more likely to gossip as sometime to laugh about.

      But then there are always two sides to a coin

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    6. Yes o! My ex is PRO!!!!!! Ewu chim. He doesn't know boundaries of both friendship and wen not to talk! Obara onyenwanyi! Chai this guy will listen attentively to ur gist and start searching internet to dig out info about the pple u gisted with him( very immature) and wen he starts talking abt the Same gist u gave him, he will speaking as thou he knows the person in question ( imbecile behavior) he takes it so far to make ' friends with ur friends' behind ur back! Omo very disgusting attribute . he did it once in 2008 I learnt not to give him 100% gist EVER! Now pregnant, will never reveal my fathers child cos he will RUN to town with it! He is a GOSSIP who thinks he knows it all. Smh. My advice. Feed them what they want to hear. 10% of d truth keep d rest save guarded, u will never ever regreat. He is a necessary evil so I just keep him ard ,but am lip sealed on my private life ,he keeps thinking digging will mk him know. Story for d gods

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    7. Yes o! My ex is PRO!!!!!! Ewu chim. He doesn't know boundaries of both friendship and wen not to talk! Obara onyenwanyi! Chai this guy will listen attentively to ur gist and start searching internet to dig out info about the pple u gisted with him( very immature) and wen he starts talking abt the Same gist u gave him, he will speaking as thou he knows the person in question ( imbecile behavior) he takes it so far to make ' friends with ur friends' behind ur back! Omo very disgusting attribute . he did it once in 2008 I learnt not to give him 100% gist EVER! Now pregnant, will never reveal my fathers child cos he will RUN to town with it! He is a GOSSIP who thinks he knows it all. Smh. My advice. Feed them what they want to hear. 10% of d truth keep d rest save guarded, u will never ever regreat. He is a necessary evil so I just keep him ard ,but am lip sealed on my private life ,he keeps thinking digging will mk him know. Story for d gods

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    8. The rate at which Gigolos are rising in abuja is something of concern

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    9. Ah, Stella, men CAN GOSSIP. I hate it eh. first of all, all MALE COMEDIANS are gossips.
      I have this partial family friend, he can gossip for Africa. He's at least 37. Not a baby anymore. No marriage. He's been trying to add me on ig, since my page is private. I just sofri decline. Nonsense.

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    10. Hilary Clinton28 June 2017 at 18:17

      Stella, give us batter rumour has it naπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    11. Ha. My neighbor is a gossip o. Dude can gossip for Africa. I pity the wife.

      But the wife, a calm and quiet woman.

      Stella, lazy men are the ones that gossip.

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  2. Lemme sit back,relax and read comments biko.

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    1. I have met a man that used his wife as an object of discussion in a bar.I looked at my hubby he gave me side eyes and we left

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    2. @ Lucile...for you and your alleged hubby to go to bars where gossips are included in the menu/drink list speaks volumes

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  3. Brb to read comments biko. Kikikiki

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    1. Ask sexy daddy's wife how she copes

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    2. Anon 15:39 chai πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  4. I had a neighbour that gossips more than a woman. He would call you on your ftom work and tell you to come home quick say gist deh. Jobless man lol

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    1. Ahhh, that one na afishe o

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    2. My former boss is just like this. Lol... Very shameless person. He would call us from another branch to prepare for his arrival and 'hot gist'. Always gossiping about who slept with who, who got a query, etc.. But the worst part is he gossips about his own wife and her family (who we all know because they are customers).

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  5. Turn off
    I will read comment

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    1. I have a neighbor in my lodge that can gossip for Africa,a guy for that matter,and immediately you mistakenly heard what he gossip about,when you go to meet him,his face will look like an Innoncent baby that didn't do anything.guys that gossip I call them #woman wrapper

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    2. @ aunthenticbaby...instead of you to focus on school, you're busy on SDK talking about who gossips what with your bad grammar

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  6. Oka wealth, choke, sexy daddy, issacson you are the gossipers on this blog and I wonder how people cope with you guys in the real world.

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    1. Abeg leave them. Their women like them like that.

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    2. Thank you Anno 13:01, you know them

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    3. Stella remove that second couch we don't want. Men like to gossip when they are gathered together in joints or bars

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  7. Men that run mouth like fountains are a big turn off. I don't mingle with such. Those kinds are babies that refused to grow. I know two like that,both lawyers. Shaming our profession.

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  8. I hate gossips both male and female but when males gossip? Hian!!
    I've been around one in my former workplace, dude would just come and be yarning dust early in the morning and I'd be slapping him in my head while playing candy crush in reality. When he discovered I wasn't replying or contributing, he gave himself brain and stopped disturbing me.

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    1. Baby, you made this come t on a gossip blog πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

      Men are Human beings... If women can gossip, men too can.

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    2. So why visit a gossip blog?

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    3. Any man that gossips this much will also tell lies and be a woman wrapper.

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  9. Stella, I'm one of those women who have more male friends than female. It has always been so I'm used to it and so is my family. They've ALWAYS gossiped. All of them, family members included. Gossiping isn't a female thing anymore, if ever it was. You won't see the men spite their gossiped(is this a word) individual unlike women. If you're someone they feel they can share the gossip with without you flaring up, they'll tell you with love cos they don't want you being a topic for gossip. What else haven't I covered? If I think of more, I'll add

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  10. I don't like men that gossip, that means such men aren't real men cos they tend to overtalk and say Wat they aren't supposed to say and most of them are malice keepers

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    1. Malice keeper u say... I disagree...
      The one I have around me doesn't keep malice, he cant even go a day because he still has so many things to talk about aside gossiping...yh they talk too much but won't keep malice with u

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  11. That's why I don't have boyfriend in the same borough that I live, because of men that gossip. But of recent the guy I had sex with few years back now live around me. Anyways we are both married and lied to each other then... He still wanna do me but hes something is just too small, my taste is different now due to my bigger bumπŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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  12. Is there any word like gossiper in English? (Meedah)

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  13. I met dis old papa in church, seems nice, but I notice d dude was bin nosy, wants to know why am in church, and my prayer points, asking deep questions, he even felt ofended wen I said no dats it's my personal life, dude talks like a parrtot, in under 1hour, I know is entire family and marriage, I just got pissed and irritated, too me it's trashy for men abegg, na jobbless lazy men wey dey gosip.

    One fool in my house dat just got married, all he knows is to poke nose into people's home, and use their predicament to mock dem, silly goat.

    Men who gossip is a big NO!

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  14. Firstlyz I prefer the first couch...
    Back to the matter, I I have one male friend that gossip more than I do he is actually effeminate, he sabi work pass me sef, my amebo partner ..as in he says anything , he doesn't have full stop in dictionary, he doesn't know when to stop...
    There is no Saturday (school tins) I without having anybody to talk about....
    Eye signal, lip sign, leg, infact body signal he no understand until he finish what he wants to say..
    I actually like him because there was a day we nearly landed into trouble and he uses his mouth to save all of us.. We female turn to dundee instantly while he do the talking...

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    1. Hilary Clinton28 June 2017 at 18:09

      Who be this covfefe Now? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  15. My man only gossips with me, and I with him.

    Some men are sissys

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  16. I gossip with my siblings and closest friends. I don't gossip with everybody that I know, I have a reputation to protect. Lol. The thing is this, if it's something I can't say in your presence then there's no need saying it behind your back. Gossip can destroy families and relationships,bht I just can't stop gossiping

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  17. Point of correction, Men do not gossip, they gist or "Kalapuate"!!!

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  18. Kikiki


    Men can Gossip for Africa.... And they Gossip IN a good way

    I don't mean jobless men that Gossip oo.. .their own Gossip no pass the woman wen Dem fuck yesterday or the one wen Dem go fuck tomorrow. ..those are smellos

    Men I know, gossip IN a good way... Their Gossip na Leggit.. ..lol




    @Galore

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  19. Imagine I beg dis dude for a loan, and he started asking for my personal info, want to know everytin about my fam, I just cut him off abeg, was asking me why my parents are separated, I told him long story, and he was insisting I cut it short, I just told him to forget! Silly gossip, want too know wusup wit people"s lives and not ready to help. Fool

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  20. Thank God I came here on time, lemme sit on the first couch before those two in one yarshes will occupy all the space😬😬.

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  21. My neibor cn gossip for africa, jobless old man no wife no family only one dirty girl that is his sex object that lives with him in his dirty sef rm apartment, the second man gossip have is the worst, he is a confirmed gay who's ass Abuja men have scattered with nothing to show for it all he does this days is to sleep from morng to night wearing a smelly pyjamas, too many fake men in Abuja living useless life

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  22. Scarlet Gruber28 June 2017 at 13:27

    dem plenty for where I dey. They can gossip for Africa, both truth and lies. long hissssssss

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  23. Men that spread lies that they slept with a lady . Men that lie so a suitor will dump a lady. Men that post outrageous sexual content as anon on SDK claiming to be female Dem plenty na hahahahah

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  24. I'll read comments.




    God Bless Everyone.

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  25. Smiles, sweet topic , na hear I go stay put today.

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  26. Am a woman and dont share the sentiments of women being gossips..nature has wired women to talk more but that doesnt automatically translate to being a gossip..some people, men and women are natural gossips and always love to talk about others. So dnt see the big deal about saying a man gossips as if women where created to gossip. It is a bad habit that can be found in both male and female

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  27. Stella drama queen wedoneooo

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  28. I dont like gossip cos when you are not there, you will turn to the topic of discussion

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  29. Gossip people don't make it to the zenith because they have time for others (This and that )and forget about their selves.

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  30. Men gossip more than women, that i know. Them sabi talk talk.

    When you see them together, know say na woman be the problem. Ashewo men

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  31. Stella though I'm a man I hate men that kiss and tell! But the only weak point men have in gossip is gossiping about their sexcapes.

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  32. Men gossip! I've always had the mindset that men don't gossip, but all that changed in my secondary school when I saw three male teachers seated on a bench under a tree, gossiping away. I fear my head that day.
    So now I don't get surprised when I see men gossiping. But I hate it when I see a man gossip with a woman. Like what the heck!

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    1. What else will men gossip about if not women?

      Is it types of hair styles they will gossip about?

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  33. Men gossip because ladies have added it to the qualities they want their ideal man to possess.

    They will say "i want a man I can gossip with, share feelings with, partner in crime, etc..."

    Lol
    Let me come and be going πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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    1. Lmaooooooooooo
      Iji okwu nwanna, you no dey fal hand at all!

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    2. True talk. Abeg I want a man I can gossip with so that I can be rushing home to offload the daily gist.

      The only condition being that that gist does not leave our bedroom and no gossiping about each other. That's a deal breakerπŸ˜’

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  34. Every one gossips at a point in life!
    Me dey gossip sometimes u know, amebo can sweet for ear!
    Holy mucheches gossip too...
    MOGS gossip:
    Bloggers...lol...
    I hail o!

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  35. No body likes a gossip, but everyone loves gossiping, whether blog/online gossiping or mouth to ear,it's sheer hypocrisy blasting a gossip because of his gender okwa we are fighting for gender equality, besides rumour has it post usually have nothing less than 200comments while educating posts no dey ever pass 40.

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    1. Stop shouting

      Is not by force to comment @Mr Anonymous "Orubebe "





      @Galore

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  36. Ha make una come my area them many,

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  37. Men don't gossip Stella if you see any man gossiping,
    1 it's because he doesn't have job .like the way I'm gossiping through the topic. I no get job
    2 na man wey chop belle full ni dey gossip. The kind hunger wey hold me now Eh,
    3.na man wey marry woman wey dey gossip. Na Toronto and sokoto Dem dey. Stella you get mouth.

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  38. There is this guy in my office that gossip for Africa, as in when I say gossip, he can gossip about is fellow colleagues both male and female, gush, I can't stand him at all.

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  39. Chai some of dis blog visitors are hypocrites,ideato them don finish u ooo,go to their WhatsApp page na ur name be their topic of discussion, so many of them with their blog ID's will never say what they are saying against u in the WhatsApp group on dis blog,they will come here and kiss ur ass and then go to the WhatsApp group to insult the living day light out of u,the insult was too much I had to leave,some of them are angry cos u criticized their dressing, zionbaby and co una weldone o,fools

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  40. Sitting on the first couch to read comments.

    Men that gossip? Won't even go near u.

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  42. I'll read comments on this one.

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  43. Came to read comments πŸšπŸ—πŸΈπŸ˜

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  44. Let me sit on the first couch and read comments

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  45. I consider men who gossip as bunch of lunatics.

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  46. Men now gossip better than women this days.

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