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Wednesday, 12 July 2017

Actress, Damilola Adegbite Wants To Know If It Is Wrong For Your Friend To Date Your EX...

This question will get most people who have been victims worked up........
Dating an ex?You said ex right?So is there any big deal if your friend dates your ex whom she/he knows is your ex?Is it a betrayal?










58 comments:

ola wealth said...

There's nothing there ooo...

Ex to the girl is an Ex

The girl to the Ex is a new found love..

Anonymous said...

Interesting...let the comments roll

miss kenefo said...

From a female's perspective I'll say yes and no.

I've dated a friend's ex before and she was the one who even hooked us up. She is currently married. When they dated was five years before we mey. To me that is acceptable.

I've had a friend who dated her boyfriend's twin sister's exboyfriend. They both were in the same nysc camp and fell in love. They knew each other way before then and he broke up with the girl just a few days before going for camp. It was a huge scandal within our circle and we all felt that was unacceptable. She even broke up with her boyfriend so she could date him. To me that's a huge NO.

I don't think it will be right if it's a recent breakup and you know your friend is hurting from it or he totally disrespected her. And if you want to please let her know before you guys make it public.

Anonymous said...

So it must be my Ex u must date?ders no other guys to date bah?abeg mk una swerve jor! No be only EX!na W! Nonsense!

ukwu dimond said...

I don't think I have a problem with my friend dating my ex, my ex is my pass.

jose said...

Looking gorgeous

Joey said...

The answer is right there in plain sight,"MY ex". "My before ex". In otherwords, she is still mine though in the past. So, if you are my friend and don't wish to be my "ex friend", you had better stay away from my "ex babe" simple!Though she is my ex, there are things I wouldn't want my frend knowing just by being with her. Its deep. Well, I've made my point. My ex is no go area for my friends shikina

redbotafly said...

Depends on the friendship anyway.
For me I don't think it's cool to date ur friend's ex cos no matter what, you will never be happy on the inside.
It's not jealousy it's just the way it is.

cat eyes said...

Very wrong!that ex is a thief!meaning while they were dating all along,she was eyeing the guy. Personally,i see my friends boyfriend whether current or ex as my brother.

aunthenticbaby said...

To me I see it as a stab in the back,can't both of them look for someone else,that is to say they luv each other before but was hiding it,I can't do that to a friend ,so I don't expect one to do that to me either.

SANDY YO said...

To me, Its a betrayal o! Why should someone you call your friend go for your ex when there are several other fishes in d river? Its wrong and unacceptable abeg.

Phenomenal woman said...

You people are too serious with life jare. Any friend that wants to date my ex is as free as air. It may work for her after all, the guy you are dating is it not somebody's ex. Or I tire o

I am king EZE said...

If you are my friend and you are ready to live with the fact I did 'extreme sports' once upon a time with your girlfriend then it's fine.I for one won't do it ,you go into the sister zone once you have something to do with my friend.

Chiamaka Ezeani said...

Depends on how and y you guys broke up

Anonymous said...

An ex, is an ex period. I will not date my friend's ex. There is a a good reason why the person became an ex. I will rather date someone else. Besides, some old firewood not de quench. Some still have something for each other and l refuse to get in the middle.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

All na new found love if it didn't work for you both it can work for us. The one I can't take is my sister dating my ex.

Anonymous said...

Except both friends will stop being friends oooo.

Remember Okafor's law....

The jealousy on both sides will be a big challenge​.

But if both friends can deal with it, den it is aiite

Yoo Hwa said...

Is her eyes still on the ex? No, it is not wrong but I can't do it

Jasmine said...

Its not a big deal.

Maybe my friend and ex are meant to be

wideawake naija said...

That is why u should never reveal secrets to anyone. So you don't get scared what's going to leak tomorrow. I tell people what they want to hear and smile when I hear the rubbish I told that person from someone else.


If you did not tell any of them your secrets, you don't need to bother yourself about it.
Good riddance to bad rubbish it is

Janelle said...

Depends on our level of "friendship".If we were the best of friends,like very close,I wouldn't date her ex,if she was/is still heartbroken from the break of the relationship.But if we were just friends and not deep friends,and the guy is not a fuckboy or full of sh**t.Why not?? Especially if it's my friend that broke it up and didn't want the relationship anymore.(If the reason for their break up was cheating,domestic violence,brokeness(no money).I won't enter that kind of leftover relationship)She has no reason to be mad or hurt.

Lululiscious said...

It's against the girls' code. Real women don't do it, especially knowing that you guys had a thing together, nah mehn. Somebody did it to me but I just felt, everybody cannot abide by the rules. But I'll never be caught doing it. It's plain wrong.
My friends ex is "our" ex

Anonymous said...

She must b a complete LOSSER! Of all the men in d World,my ex, the one she knew me with. Na so she don dey eye my thing since? Tell u what ex to friends r/s lasts longerrrr but ends badly. I did it once out of d gossip she spread about me, went in to spite d living day light out of her,it worked but got really burnt in d end NOTE, she pass me well well till tomorrow... So anyone doing that is a loser( I was) and I admit it

Anonymous said...

She must b a complete LOSSER! Of all the men in d World,my ex, the one she knew me with. Na so she don dey eye my thing since? Tell u what ex to friends r/s lasts longerrrr but ends badly. I did it once out of d gossip she spread about me, went in to spite d living day light out of her,it worked but got really burnt in d end NOTE, she pass me well well till tomorrow... So anyone doing that is a loser( I was) and I admit it

Kendrick's mum said...

Don't see anything wrong cos an ex is an ex n should remain so,but personally I won't do it.

Ossai John said...

It's practically wrong.. Because before your ex broke up with you, he has been eyeing your friend long before the break up.. I'm a guy and i know what I'm saying

Baby_kingsway said...

let me just read comments...

Olivia Silk said...

I will not date my friend's ex. Never.
But she can date mine. Not bothered much. He is an EX for a reason so she can continue from where I stopped.

Blackberry said...

Some pple see no big deal there, they are ready to jump and date ur ex like they were waiting for him or her.

Anyway an Ex is an EX, anyone can date them for all I care.
I'm not friendly with my girls boyfriends, so even if dey split today, d boys won't even have d liver to approach me cos we ain't familiar with each other to start with.

Anonymous said...

If u say no it means u truly haven't gotten over the ex of yours,remember the guy/lady most of us are dating or married to is someones ex. Its no big deal who knows what if they are meant for each other.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Same with me Lulu, provided you have asked my friend out, I will never feel comfortable going out with you.

Candy lady said...

I depends on reason for the break up. If the ex in question is a good guy and you left him for reasons best known to you then what is wrong when someone close to you appreciates him, I don't see anything wrong with that.

Anonymous said...

She must b a complete LOSSER! Of all the men in d World,my ex, the one she knew me with. Na so she don dey eye my thing since? Tell u what ex to friends r/s lasts longerrrr but ends badly. I did it once out of d gossip she spread about me, went in to spite d living day light out of her,it worked but got really burnt in d end NOTE, she pass me well well till tomorrow... So anyone doing that is a loser( I was) and I admit it

LUCILE COCONUT OIL, CARROT OIL AND BLACK SOAP ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

So yours is acceptable with time?

Anonymous said...

How can my close friend date my ex?it doesn't make sense to me at all,the friendship will have to break then cause I'm so used to my close friends and we see all the time,does it mean I will have to be bumping into my ex sometimes when I decided to say hi to her or on some of our outings?none of my friends can date my ex though,we will all so shame the ex that try to run my friend cause to us its useless guys that do that.you fucked one and you want to move to another.I trust my crew maynee.we'll set him up.trust me,such guys are players.

Sabongida Ora cutest said...

It's okay for my friend to date my Ex... as long as both parties have long moved on with their lives.

I have personally hooked two of my friends with my EX. ...
I even sat behind the car , whilst my friend and EX were going out to see a movie.. lol.

Life is funny, years later they broke up and I got engaged to my Ex lol.
Don't ask me what happened.

miss kenefo said...

Yes Lucille. Time and circumstances surrounding the relationship.

Oby O said...

It is a big NO! NO!! And truly against the friendship code..sometimes the silly guys even want to fuck your friends so this is a good opportunity.... It reeks of betrayal to me...my best friend remains my best friend till tomorrow not just for all we've been through together, she turned down my ex and gave him a thorough disgrace.. Infact we laughed at him together and I am talking about a very wealthy ex!

Sabali said...

You people are talking of friend what of my cousin whose stock in trade is dating people ex people very close to us.She even did it to me and I warned her but she won't listen. Right now she has gone to my brother in-law and in my area is a taboo. How can your own blood be the one to constantly back stab you.

Anonymous said...

She obviously saw two scumbags that deserved each other!

Oby O said...

You are brave for admitting this!

Anonymous said...

it will pain me oo esp if i havent moved on but really what if they are meant to be? what if you were just a means for them to have a future together. abeg allow them have a life together.

single "ma'' said...

not right at all,,,except d frd was already crushing on d guy when d r/ship was still on...

2muchjuice|2muchsauce said...

I dont see anything there sha, Cause you are an ex for a reason but if you are a wise person, I dont think you will consent to it

Anonymous said...

Normally it is a big no. Because if feelings you may still have fie the person, that connection you still both have, OK a for a law and all that. But ultimately, it depends b how long you dated for and the circumstances surrounding tour break up. There are exes that you feel even after moving on a part of you is still with them they are play play ex that you dated for fun u both new it was going nowhere and nothing much was invested. That kind is allowed because u won't even care.

Sista Jane said...

An ex is an ex.
There are no rules to life. What if i break up with someone and move on.
So the ex cannot fall in love with who he pleases again? And if the one he is interested in is my friend, why not?
Sometimes we find love in strange places. My ex can meet my friend in future, they get to talk, from there one thing lead to another and they fall inlove. So wat will be my problem with that?
If they are really meant for each other i dont see why i should spoil something good. It didnt work out with me, it might work out for them. Life is not black and white! Honestly i wont feel betrayed. Thats just me.
Some married babes even introduce friends to their ex na.
Even sumtimes we get to meet our ex in future. And sumtimes u just click with ur ex's babe nd become friends. So?
Well its just my opinion.
Lets hear from guys too

Anonymous said...

Yes I know is my ex, but that only meant one thing is either my friend has been eyeing my ex while we were dating, so I don't think the friendship with her will continue

Anonymous said...

@ Oby O...you're just a materialistic moron, what has wealth got to do with a simple question? Get mad at your friend for dating your ex is just plain WITCHCRAFT! You don't want him/her, you don't want someone else to have him/her. If you were truly over the person, it wouldn't mean anything to you who he/she's dating.

Anonymous said...

You're just an Edo witch...dog no dey chop your shit? Shebi you say you no want am? Allow am make im find love nah

Anonymous said...

Take your 13 year old sef & go sit down

Anonymous said...

How come you are all keeping track of your ex's girlfriends and your friends boyfriends. You make yourself feel so important that you think you have the right to call the shots in other people's lives. You people must be crazy on this site. Friendship or not, if I believe my life partner is my friends ex, I will go for him. If a friend goes for my ex, I don't give a damn either. Once I am done with them, then they are free to be with anyone they like!

akudo ukazu said...

For me it's no big deal. I had a boyfriend back then in my university days, I just didn't love him enough so I decided to end the relationship we became good friends, later he saw my friend and liked her so I connected them together and they dated for so long but it didn't end up in marriage. So to me it's no big deal

SWAG LAFRESH said...

No big deal for me. I can't date my friend's ex but they're free to date mine.

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Anonymous said...

did you not steal Chris from Emmanuella and you were close?

ORIFLAME PRODUCTS 08139525646 said...

Abeggi....all this story. The guy or girl you are dating is somebody's ex and u might know the person. I have been dating my current boyfriend for over a year now and he doesn't like talking about his ex. We went for dinner one day and he was like that's my ex sitting on the table behind you and i turned and saw my friend from church. She even came over and hugged me and they said hi and left. Didn't stop us from greeting in church tho.

Phenomenal woman said...

Your head dey dia. 1mil likes

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