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Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Cheater Award - Naija Men Versus Women

From what you have seen,heard and read.....I will be asking you a very important question that comes with winning an award category....


Between Nigerian men and women,who cheats the most?Who should get the Cheater award?
Choices should be backed up with Valid arguments/examles.

87 comments:

  1. Naija single girls

    Naija married men

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    1. I believe both sexes cheat but the circumstances surrounding the "cheating" has to be taken into cognisance! Women cheat most times for emotional reasons, for men, it's physical.
      That said,i believe men cheat more than women...it's almost as though they're expected to... hmmm...this is tricky though

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    2. Women are the best detectives and will find signs of a cheating husband so easily. If he wants to kill you, he will load guns etc.
      But if a woman cheats on you, you will never find out, her tracks will be well covered. If she wants to kill you, you will eat your best soup. If she gets pregnant in the process of cheating on you, two options: 1. She "miscarries" or 2. You will father a bastard and be calling him/her my son/daughter.

      If you take women for granted, you are a fool. But if God gives you a good woman, you are made.

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    3. Hmmmm

      Gradually women are winning this o

      Men caused this madness (bragging about cheating like it's their birthright)

      The funniest part is that you just will never catch a cheating woman else she's careless or someone decided to set her up

      I just pity the men of this generation cos their mumu is on another level 😁. Their fathers were the ones that got away with cheating (when wonen were scared). But now? Do me i do you...

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    4. Hmmmmmmm interesting question takes me down memory lane.

      I met this lady, tall, chic, independent and highly intelligent. I am sapiosexual, so I have a thing for intelligent women. We hit it off brilliantly. Long phone conversations, midnight calls, endless chats. There was always something to discuss or laugh about. One crazy Friday night, emotions were high just chatting via social media and she entered her car and drove all the way from Lekki (where she resides) to my crib at Ikeja. We went the whole nine yards that night, the day and night after, and the day after. Simply mind-blowing. As we got comfortable with each other, we tried all the tricks in the black book; bondage, dominance, mock-rape, hand-cuffs, blindfold etc.

      She marched my reasoning power, never allowed me to miss church service, great cook and badass fxxcker. She made a decent man out of me (I was a Solomon). 7 months down the line I proposed. Made it a private candle light dinner for two, she cried and cried and said NO. Why? She had a fiance in US, they are far gone and would be getting in 5months time. I have only read about depression in foreign magazines or watched it as a documentary in CI series on dstv. But after that night nothing else made sense, life became a boring movie, X-rayed in black & white. I locked myself in for 48hours before the numbness went away. Well, I still didn't let go.

      Somehow she convinced that we had a beautiful thing going and she is not off the market yet and alot can happen in five months. She gave me hope and I needed it badly. The sex became more intense, and creative. Every where was a venue, car, company lobby, stairways of a friend's house, guest houses and of course my cribs. She comes over most of the time.

      One bright clear day in autumn, she sent me an invite to her company's gala night. Awards will also be presented that night and she was one of the recipients. She is a media guru in one of the Telecoms company. I was elated to share her memorable moment with her but I was writing my EMBA exams and wasn't sure I come make it. I told her I won't be able to make it but I will make it up to her the next day in a grand style when I get back to Lagos. She understood. My exams were out of Lagos. D-Day came, I ruminated all the ways to just surprise her, lo, I finished my exam in time to catch the last flight back to Lagos got my dinner suit and headed to the venue. I was in the audience just in time. An hour later they started the award presentations. She can on stage, looking regal, exotic and exquisite. Voice was calm yet instructive and full of self-realization. She gave her acceptance speech and then came the bomb; she is dedicating the award to her daughter and husband who have been a pillar of support. What?

      Long story short, I couldn't die again. I had already died when she first told me she had a fiance. Turns out her fiance in reality is her husband. They have been married for 8 years but live apart. Hubby comes home every December and stays for 6weeks every year then heads back to his US base. Her daughter lives with her and a maid. Turns out the few times she invited me over were usually during midterm and she had sent the maid and daughter to granny (her mum).

      Then it occurred to me why she never allowed me make love to her house. Only allowed me to stay in the parlour and no where else. It's her matrimonial home.

      I had to put an end to it all after the gala night. We remain friends and I down graded the relationship to platonic and went back to my Solomon life. The 5 months down the line she was supposed to get married the husband came back to Nigeria. She invited me to meet him. She introduced me has a media consultant (I have nothing to do with media). Very pleasant and likeable guy and equally cerebral. We became instant friends. He was full of praises of his wife (who won't be ?).

      I and the lady still communicate once in a while.

      Would you say she cheated?

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    5. @Pharaoh is this your fantasy or reality?

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    6. Oga which Novel b dis nah? Side eyes

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  2. I give the award to men. They will tell you it is in their blood. Na dem sabi

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    1. Biko,Ph pple where can I find a tailoring school around eliozu axia abeg

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  3. People cheat, it is not gender based. Sadly, men cheating is seen as a norm while women who are caught cheating especially if they are married are scorned.

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    1. Congrats on eloquently stating the obvious!

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    2. who cheat pass??? ure talking rubbish!!

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    3. Yes, cheating isn't gender based, neither is it genetic. The same thing lurking in your DNA that makes you think you are wired to cheat is also present in the female gene. stop deceiving yourselves. Everybody is wired to cheat, self-control keeps most from doing that.

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    4. Hey Pipi, how are you doing? You were missing for a while. Trust you're good dear?

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    5. Hey Doppie, I'm good sweety. Thank you😘

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  4. Guys cheats more. I've once written my story here sometimes ago. They would lie n swore to make u believe u. My x is a valid one. Jeez! I can't deal.

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  5. With stories I read here daily,i give the award to women.....

    They said it's bad to put all eggs in one basket

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    1. anonymous gangster26 July 2017 at 13:14

      Apparently women are also more diabolical.

      Again I use Linda Eze as reference, along with her coven of pigeon wielding followers.

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    2. The award goes to men. From my experience with my father, brothers, cousins and neighbours, you can't beat them in the game of cheating. Then again, they said it's in their nature to cheat and they are polygamous in nature.

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  6. You see if it was like in the year 2002 upward or some years backward this very question was asked my answer would have been the men cheats more but this days even the devil himself is more scared of the women when it comes to cheating,you hear stories of my first child is not for my husband, the three kids am having is for my ex but men wouldnt do such and wouldn't go that far or being so secretive with such. so in conclusion I will say the women cheats more this days.

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    1. anonymous gangster26 July 2017 at 13:12

      Commented before seeing your comment, your head is correct.

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  7. y'all should know cheating isnt classified when dick meets pussy, & ure officially dating/married to another... theres emotional cheating which is also as hurtful & brain wrecking as the physical intimacy. Ofcourse the women rank up there, when it comes to emotional affair, in the name of not putting all ur rotten eggs in one basket... which is a slippery slope to physical intimacy.

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    1. Lmao,if you like speak all the grammar.I am now a firm believer and even an advocate of not putting all your eggs in one basket.My dear,I was faithful and I just realised y'all men are insiatiable.Nothing is ever enough.I regret my faithfulness really,cuz at the end of the day,I was still labelled a cheat.So now,I can't coman go and put all my eggs in one basket.So at least when I'm called a cheat,e no go pain me.

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    2. anonymous gangster26 July 2017 at 13:10

      Story. Even lesbian homos cheat more than gay homos.

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    3. @ sassy merruche. U probably cheated. Nobody labels anybody a cheat without good reason.

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  8. If Nigerian men cheat, they cheat with women! I don't really know who should take the crown, I know women cheats as much as men.

    We read how married women sleeps with different men either for money, fun or revenge.
    Some men cheat because they are cursed, if not, why would a man with a beautiful damsel with a good character and with great knowledge of home management still go out with other women.

    I don't really know who should wear the crown.

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    1. anonymous gangster26 July 2017 at 13:08

      I admit it's not a good reason, but many of those beautiful good character babes have nearly zero libido. Personal experience plus guys talk.

      God bless me with a freak in bed and a proper lady off duty!

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  9. Do the men or women cheat with bingos ? The answer is No.
    There is no winner here just bunch of crazy fuck freaks who cant be faithful to a partner.
    If you ask the slutty part of me she will say men are the winner but bcoz i aint her this morning i will give it to both.


    I no men will always cheat what i cant comprehend is how good women pretend not to cheat.
    The way married women cheat this days is mind blowing. But will you even blame them ? We all have our threshold for bullshit. Wen a woman has exceeded hers, then brace up brother.












    Let me go and cheat Ooooooops sorry i mean read jare

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  10. i sincerely think women, Naija women are better cheats than the men. Men are generally non-challant about covering their tracts, but women are bosses in that. Cheated on bae before but he can never find out cause i went out of town even, that's how much i didn't want him to smell it. But i caught him because the babe he cheated with contacted me even to snitch on him. We are now born again and married though and would never go down that lane ever again. My point is bae would swear i have never cheated but i did it.

    Surprisingly, foreign women don't now how to cheat and get away with it, can you imagine accepting or even confessing on your own. lol anyhoo naija women are bad!!

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  11. There is no argument, the men are champion. After all they use their mouth to always say men are polygamous by nature, what else do we have to argue?

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  12. Men cheat and it's glaring.women do coded cheating sometimes under the man's nose without him suspecting. So if the award is for who cheats the most it should go to the men but if the award is for who cheats with sense and intelligence please give it to the women.

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  13. The men.


    A man will be wearing his wedding band and wooing another woman.

    Mtchewwww

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    1. And you that is sleeping around for change nko?

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  14. Men cheat the most.Our former neighbor who married a lady 20 years younger than him used no hit and my friends.I was 14 then,this man wud promise me heaven on earth,I got angry and reported him to my guidance. This is someone that worships and adore his pretty wife,unfortunately, some of my friends agreed to date him.He wud carry one out in the morning, drop that one and carry another one,he be changing ladies as though they were undies.tueh!there was a day he carried one in his car,on reaching the gate,he saw the wife coming in.Madam stopped him and beat nonsense out of the small girl.So this award goes to men.

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  15. Award goes to men, diamond award goes to women! Lol! Masters of deceit!

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  16. The rate at which women cheat these days is something else.

    If there's an award, it should be given to women.

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  17. It's naija men joor...
    But we women will soon take over since we noticed that fucking one dick shrink the pussy and make us age quickly!!...

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    1. That is why you are using your shrunken pussy to collect every agbero rod wey dey for ojuelegba.

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    2. Lmao. This is hilarious. Where did u carry out this research to come up with such ridiculous assumption?? 😂😂

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  18. Stella to be very sincere with you Nigerian men can cheat for Africa!

    Especially married Nigerian men.Statistics shows that 90% of men cheat on daily basics. Men are moved on what they see.Go to banks,road,cooperate organisations and lots more you must see or meet randy men cheating.
    Stella with this points,I think I have convince you that Naija cheat more than women. Kikikiki.

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  19. As a woman,fucking different dick will make you to glow,happy and shine!!...
    Since my widowed mom got her self a boyfriend,she don dey shine pass me!!...
    She and her new American bobo took me to a beach the other day and she knacked bikini pant and bra!...
    I fainted!...

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    1. Agwo aghaghi imu ihe toro ogologo: The snake will always give birth to a long thing.

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    2. I know there must have been a mother connection to this greedy and promiscuous persona you paint here. Hope you will not kill your husband to get an "American bobo". Because apart from "knacking pigeon", you have preached "wash put, making mad etc." May God help all the men that have your kind.

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    3. Linda you will never seized to amaze me!chai

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    4. 😁😁😁😁😁
      I wonder how you come up with the things you type sometimes.. lol.. I'm trying to imagine an Igbo woman of my mum's time wearing a bikini and bra... Nah😞😞😞

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    5. 😳😳
      Nwanyi a ehh......! Chai!😅 You're a real character!

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    6. So she is a whore like u?

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    7. This woman oooo. You be case study.

      Believe Linda and u can believe rubbish.

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    8. This woman oooo. You be case study.

      Believe Linda and u can believe rubbish.

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    9. I was laughing controllably till I got to ur mom wearing bikini pant and the image just made me nearly choke on my laughter🤣🤣🤣🤣

      Linda oooo🤣🤣🤣🤣
      This my sister eh,ur craze no just get level🤣🤣

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    10. Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha, Oh chim ooooo, Linda who did this to you?

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    11. The queen ooooo

      Hahahaha

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  20. anonymous gangster26 July 2017 at 13:02

    Women cheat more, hands down, at least in this new millennium.

    Be they single or married, you only need to read Linda Eze's depraved comments! Rarely have I read a male making noise about shagging around, but often do girls and women out themselves on body count figures.

    However, I am quick to add, despite we living in the last days, I also feel strongly that men led women to this point.

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  21. Women cheat best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Men think they are better cheaters,hehehe! Married women or single,they abound.

    My neighbor trust his wife like mad,if only he knew what the wife does.lol .she swings both ways

    Dude keeps bragging how his wife is a virtuous woman,doesnt joke with her midnight prayer blah blah blah...lol..Oga calm down.

    Women are coded cheaters while most men cheat with pride flaunting and rubbing it to our faces,hence we thought they are the real MVPs.lol...lemme keep laughing tho. Buhahahahahaha!

    Lemme come and be going before I expose the more.

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  22. Anon 12:37 I do. I miss you and welcome back

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  23. The award goes to " The Ladies" , they can cheat for africa if i dey lie ask linda 'ezi' eze and her fellow gangs of bv's. Kikikikikiki

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  24. Men cheat the most because as they say, it's a man's world. Society is more liberal and permissive towards male promiscuity.
    But, from the stories I read here, women are beginning to catch up!😑

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  25. When a woman hides what happened in her vagina, it can never be detected even by FBI. A girl who was bleeding to death in Emergency room told me she was on her "menses". We went to ready blood, only for a mangled fetus to be dragged out of her vagina after death. Incidentally, it was the same story she told her relatives.

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  26. You are a fool if you do not fear ladies ability to hide under the sun. A mother of five was to go for "vacation" with her family. When the embassy requested for a dna, not even one of the kids belonged to her "stinking rich husband'. Woman refused to confess, insisted she was being falsely accused. End of vacation, end of marriage. Man was empty handed!

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    2. ☹️☹️☹️
      Na wah o! Some human beings could give the devil a run for his money!

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    3. @Swag; with all this your "swag" you couldn't read simple story. The kids did not belong to her husband. SOMEONE else was scoring the goals while her husband was doing celebration somersault like Aghahowa.

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  27. It's women o...as a woman,i know what we are capable of,both married with kids and single.Women are just more skilled in hiding it and there are ways to keep it tight so no one guesses your mileage.Even collecting gifts from a man you know wants to sleep with you when you have a hubby/bae is cheating...

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  28. It's women o...as a woman,i know what we are capable of,both married with kids and single.Women are just more skilled in hiding it and there are ways to keep it tight so no one guesses your mileage.Even collecting gifts from a man you know wants to sleep with you when you have a hubby/bae is cheating...

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  29. Would give it to women. Why? The men cheat with who? WOMEN!! A chronic cheating man with multiple partners or different partners are who? WOMEN! A guy will always have main chic,side chic,emergency chic and they are all WoMEN! prostitutes in brothel are WOMEN! Yes there are male prostitutes too but get to any major city and Na female prostitutes everywhere at night. And before you say but they are prostitutes a lot of them long for steady relationship and are in it for survival and due to poverty in the land. And yes they have feelings even for their customers so they cheat and snatch their customers too.By population statistics there are more women than men so the have the numbers on their side. So without any doubt I will say it's the women. But they have the men as accomplice. But the women cheat more.

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  30. It is so easy to catch men when they cheat. The lies are awful, the stammering in some is hilarious. But women, if a woman decides to cheat on you, woe betide you. Just like if she decides to kill you, so easy. If she decides to cheat with a fellow woman, only God can detect that one. One who accommodated her "friend" while the husband traveled continued her stealth technology until the husband returned. Her partner got jealous and decided to pay her back by serving it to the husband hot. She made sure they were caught by the wife. the can of worms began to spill. the husband was simply a spectator.

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    1. A woman can hide a cucumber in her vagina and wear pant. Even X-ray machine go dey confuse. But when a man wan f*ck, the thing go get long and hard. If im like make im wear baggy whosai. You go catch am de laugh.

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  31. Women don dey take over o. Especially some married ones.

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  32. Nigerians men, they are never contented with what they have at home, cheating is in their nature, they believe is not good to always eat okro soup. A little of okro, a little of egusi, a little of uha soup.

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  33. hahahahaha the Queen, chai. Anyone that takes you serious and have problems with your comments is in for a long thing. Dont mind them jare. Nothing do you. Carry go

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    1. Etowe ogiri osiwe isi.

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    2. Madu huru nsi si na obu ogiri. Mgwanu were nsi sie ihe osi mba. Someone saw fecal matter and called is spices but will not want to cook with it.

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    3. Yet at the same time many even among the leaders believed in him. But because of the Pharisees they would not openly acknowledge their faith for fear they would be put out of the synagogue; 43FOR THEY LOVED HUMAN PRAISE MORE THAT THE PRAISE FROM GOD. John 12

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  34. Men should win this award , they cheat more. A male neighbor once told me that they cheat for absolutely no reason that it is men's nature to cheat.

    Then the question of who they cheat with, yes they cheat with ladies both few ladies can satisfy them all because ladies who cheat don't stick to just one of them , she goes round multiple men... making the number of men who cheat higher..

    Ladies don't just cheat because it is not their nature ..(Tongue out ).

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  35. Both parties cheat. You see married women cheating on their spouses, viz vasa. When you say a man cheats ,who does he cheat with? The answer is obvious,he either cheats with a girl that has a boy friend or a married woman. Therefore, I give award to both parties .

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  36. It's 50-50. Look at it this way, who do men cheat with? Women. Who do women cheat with? Men. So balance the equation. It's equal. Infact women cheat pass because when you add d dildos too, that's when the equation won't balance.

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  37. when i came back to Nigeria last year ,the things my eyes saw my mouth cannot say ,Most Nigerian men will die a second time.when.they go to heaven and Angel Gabriel opens their wife file .Nigeria women can cheat for africa , especially the ones you think are innocent .so award goes to Nigeria women.

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  38. The men carry the day. Nigeria men can cheat for Africa.......and the thing is some of them don't even hide it from their wives......

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  39. My line of profession made me understand that WOMEN cheat more. But then cheating isn't based on Gender. But then the beauty of cheating is to not get caught but over time men have been branded the Scarlet letter.

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  40. From what I have read from women on social media, men should carry the cup..lol

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  41. Women cheat more esp the married one's

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