Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Former Ghanaian Footballer Lamptey Talks About Finding Out He Didnt Father 3 Of His 'Kids'

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Tuesday, 4 July 2017

Former Ghanaian Footballer Lamptey Talks About Finding Out He Didnt Father 3 Of His 'Kids'

Former Ghanaian professional footballer, Nii Odartey Lamptey, has in a new interview with Nana Aba Amoah of GHOne‘s “Cheers”, revealed how he was betrayed by his ex wife of 21 years.





The current assistant manager at Ghanaian football club Sekondi Wise Fighters, had been with her for 21 years with 3 kids – ages 20, 19 and 8 – before he found out that they were not his.

The wife had filed for divorce over his inability to send the oldest child to the UK for university education.

He however arranged for a DNA test for his children following advice from a friend.

Breaking down in tears, the ex-Aston Villa and PSV midfielder revealed how shocked he was to discover that the children were not his and how his wife blamed him claiming he was impotent.

He disclosed that the three children were from two different men.

He said the divorce has been finalized and he has moved on with his life – focusing on his new family and football academy.

He is married with two kids and another one is on the way.


*JESUSCHRISTOFNAZARETH!!!!


49 comments:

sandybaby said...

I felt really bad when I first heard about this.Thank God he has moved on.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Women. Up women. They can do wonders. They can raise the dead without laying a finger.


Na wa for women oooo. 21 years you lied to your man

Chummy cho cho said...

OMG... The poor kids!! The trauma of discovering that a man you called dad all your life, is not actually ur father.

Miss Ess said...

This is heartbreaking! My God.

Anonymous said...

I advice men to always go for DNA test on their kids, so that they don't end up to Labour in vain for another man's blood. Cos no matter how u suffer for that child, if the child finds out ur not their dad, they Wil end up looking for their bio dad

Pretty Pam said...

😭😭😭😭

Anonymous said...

But I remember the wife saying that it was agreed between them (him and her) at the time of their marriage that she should get pregnant outside since he was dx with a fertility problem and didn't know if he ll be a Le to biologically father kids. That he begged her to keep his diagnosis a secret between them and that he was very aware the kids were not his.
She said this at the beginning of this saga when the news of their separation broke

Bootylycious diva said...

women women

jelly said...

3 of them not his, this is heartbreaking! That woman is wicked

Anonymous said...

Silly man.. If he could move on so easily from the kids, then he never really loved or bonded with them... These are not babies so he ought to have had a deep father child relationship with each of them ... Yes he could have split with their mum but he should still have contact with the kids.

ukwu dimond said...

End time woman

Proudly Anonymous said...

Where are the all men are scum choristers?

Maame Esi said...

Hmmmm, the hearts of some women are desperately wicked, can't even imagine the psychological trauma/ effect it will have on the kids.

keke driver said...

After they will say men are heartless o....hmmmm

Monkeynofine said...

Most expecially the first childπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Unknown said...

Hi Stella,

First time posting on your blog. (I love your blunt honesty, btw) I just want to say, please, people, be careful who you let in your lives. There are sick creatures out there. I, as a young growing person, was very open and trusting, which led to twisted idiots, I unfortunately happened to be related to, ruining my confidence.

Seeing this man cry just shows how STILL traumatised he is. Imagine, he said he thought of suicide, when it clearly wasn't him who was at fault. Do you see the way the mind of a human being with conscience works? While the perpetrator/ the one with the predator mentality would most likely never think of taking his/her own life. They are too busy looking for the next human to ruin, instead of them to work on themselves. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I call B.S! What doesn't kill you traumatises the heck out of you.

If there's anyone going through things that are slowly lowering his/her self-esteem, I'd like to recommend some books that have helped me (they're by Dr. Wayne Dyer): 'Your Erroneous Zones', and 'Pulling Your Own Strings'. You can start from there, but there are lots of books out there, and I had to do tons of reading and meditation (I practice Vipassana, and also Zen; true healing comes from within, not what another tells you), before I slowly stopped giving a sh*t and completely cutting off these toxic creatures. Just know that your life is in your hands, and it's never too late to start working on yourself.

Blossom said...

The ex-wife is evil. Haba, 21yrs and 3kids? Make we fear God o. Many men now are having DNA test on their children just to avoid stories like this.

sholetoga said...

The woman get mind mehn......WTH

Kachi said...

The woman is heartless

Cynthia Iyede said...

This is so bad. Some women's heart is as dark as a grave yard. Her claim is that he's impotent but he's able to father kids with another woman. Hnmmm

He should carry another DNA test on his new kids before soap will enter his eyes a second time.

Happyheart said...

And God blessed him with beauty queen ruweida as wife as against that evil ex wife Gloria..
And guess what his two kids were within 2 years.3rd year and 3rd baby on the way.
Even before the DNA secret broke, she was still bringing her sugar boy Elikem of BBA fame to fuck on her matrimonial bed and was caught!
Shameless woman fought pokello to a standstill before pokello disgraced her and Elikem married pokello. All of this was going on when the press was having a field day on the DNA issue. The woman is shameless

Chidinma Grace said...

Oh God! Wonders they say will never cease.

Anonymous said...

You no get brain at all. Kai

C'est La Vie said...

And the woman had the audacity to file for divorce over a little thing as location of University of her child. Oh my goodness!! What evil!!!

Anonymous said...

The women will disagree with you because most of them fuck around.

SANDY YO said...

God!!! I almost shed tears watching this.*shivers* This man is da definition of STRONG. Waaaaaat!!!πŸ˜²πŸ˜²πŸ˜²πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜© Thank God for the strength to have moved on.

Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady said...

Lord of host!!!


But d man get mind ooo, he went ahead to re marry probably to prove he isn't impotent

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Will those children ever forgive their mum?
What an irresponsible woman.
Na wa.

Janelle said...

She was also a sugarmama to Elikem of big brother 2013,that was when her nyash started opening.Na wah oh!!.I just pity Pokello,got married to a gigolo.Please Men and women,it's pays to marry a disciplined and God-fearing spouse.

code009 said...

Oh why! So he will start all over again changing diapers and all. Its well

redbotafly said...

You have said it all.
The things some women do, devil himself will ashamed.
May God not let my brother have anything to do with such women.

redbotafly said...

Some women are impossible.
You know those kids are not your husband's yet you live with it like it's normal.
Thank God he has kids of his own now.
I believe men are wiser now.
They will start doing DNA tests without their wives knowledge.

Anonymous said...

Some people are different.

Got another case like this; 3 kids, not the husband's, the kids are all in college (university ), the 1st just had her masters. After the brouhaha btwn Mom & Dad that led to the big expose, Mom & Dad parted ways. These kids are well aware of what went down, how Daddy is not their biological Daddy. They called the Mom & 'Dad', gave them an ultimatum. That they are not going to be embroiled in their wahala, that the only Dad they know, have & love is this Dad they've known all their lives now into young adulthood. They do not want to know where the sperms that partly formed them came from. This present Dad is their Dad & so be it.


Long story short, these kids are so attached to this man, more than their mom. The man though rocked to kolo level by the wife's betrayal , accepted the kids as his, and moved on.


His take too was, he has loved them as his own, taken care of them, been there through their births, changing diapers, saw them through their 1st tooth, 1st walk, been there when they fall and get bruised, nutured them through sickness, been there through their 1st day at kindergarten, elementary school, college, etc. What will make him change now. Even if they go after their biological Dad, he still has a place for them in his heart, that of a Dad.


Their African community has gossiped and gossiped till saliva don dry for their mouths. They have ridiculed him till they've given up. He said what ridicule is greater? What the ex wife did or that he accepted the children? You'all need to see this man and these kids, you'll be awed. The bond amongst them is so strong that our Africo mentality, culture, gossips cannot break .

Icing to the cake, these 3 kids are so well behaved, excelling in all what they have endeavoured and more. In their house it's one graduation ceremony to another. Oh my the girls are so humble, we'll behaved , God fearing, intelligent & classy.

So, different strokes for different folks. This life get as ee be.

Aidearest said...

I can't just imagine what those children would have gone through to think that the man they've been calling dad isn't even uncle. Women why?

Anonymous said...

That Journalist or Presenter Azuka or whatever your name is,that interviewed Tiwa Savage when her marital news broke and also interviewed Tonto Dikeh.Please watch this over and over again,can you see the professionalism of this host and interviewer?Do u see how she made this show smooth and easy for the Man,and also for the viewers?Her gestures and facial expressions?She didn't just bombard and make him uncomfortable.Thank you.Azuka it will be appreciated.Just come to Stella's blog,copy and save this link to your favorites or tab,and play everyday.Since it will be to difficult and a punishment to give you a Hollywood or Foreign Presenter to copy.I don't want to be hearing fake accents,we already have a lot of them.You are welcome Azukah

Anonymous said...

Oga Ubi welcome oo

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Oturugbeke😱😱😱😨😨

redbotafly said...

Anon 18:25 you are an ode.

SANDY YO said...

Irresponsible is an understatement na. I didnt even want to talk about that devils incarnate.

Anonymous said...

True, happy you could put your life back together

Justyswt said...

Stella I follow u shout Jesus christ of nazareth. Which kind wickedness be this? After 21years? May God forgive that woman.

chim_oma chim_oma said...

Meen,I watched this from the start to finish. He's a very strong guy.
So women are so evil. Imagine for good 21 years,not even one is his blood... gosh

Anonymous said...

See females on the blog here criticizing her and they are the same ones who have been advising some ladies here not to let their husbands know that the kids are not his. The come with the message "let that secret go to your grave with you." This blog is full of double-faced humans.

Push up said...

The woman is funny o, with the wahala she even wanted to use his money to send the child to the UK... Hahaha, she bad gan

POSH MIDWIFE said...

Hmmmmmmmmm!

Jasmine said...

She's a witch

Jasmine said...

Wetin u expect am to do nau

Anonymous said...

Lie from the put of hell.

Oluwabobby said...

I'm telling Bro Anon, the fake evil, bitter, Bipolar people I have seen in this blog about 4years now have no part 2,not even in the lake of fire πŸ”₯

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