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Monday, 17 July 2017

Labour Room Drama 187

Oh No!!!






Hi Stella
This is not actually a sweet tale labour room drama but I thought I share so some expectant mothers can learn from it.
My pregnancy was really smooth asides for the first trimester occasional throwing up. I was fine all through. 


No fat, no swollen face even my bump remained cute and I was glowing. 

I took my antenatal visit seriously and I took my vitamins. At about 34weeks I noticed my baby's head diameter wasnt increasing neither was the weight. I would ask my doctor questions and most times he would dismiss it and say I read a lot of internet gibberish that I was just having a small baby. I was always dehydrated at some point and brought it to his notice too and he just said I drink more water. Being a well experienced doctor, I naively believed him and kept on counting down to meet my baby .


On a Monday at exactly 39weeks, I saw the show and I gladly carried my bag and went to clinic as I'd rather be there and be properly monitored than home. My labour didn't progress all through Monday and my husband kept on asking the doc, he said I wasnt in active labour yet. 


Tuesday morning, contractions started and the painful checking beginning.. 10hours still 2cm. My husband kept pestering the doc he said all is fine as longer as my water as broken, baby is safe. 12am on wed, he did a membrane sweep,still no water but the contractions became intense and regular,still 2cm.


At 4am, my husband told the doc he wanted a CS done and after all said i was booked for CS.

 AT 8am, Wednesday morning i was sectioned and my son was brought out, so tiny and he couldn't breathe. The paediatrician was called, she came and all restitutive method was done but he wasnt stable. Her diagnosis, Sever oligohyrdominos (low amniotic fluid ) due maternal dehydration which started in third trimester.


 The baby had stopped growing and some point and there was no support for him in uterus. Baby died after five hours. 

 Prior to my experience, I have never heard anything about amniotic fluid. I just hope this help someone to really place a close watch on everything in pregnancy and don't listen to all doctors. 

Always seek second opinion.
Thank you.
Safe delivery to all expecting mothers.


*So sorry babe!


42 comments:

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    1. Sorry about your loss ma.
      My advice to expectant mums; please download
      "Baby centre" app or "whattoexpect" app on your mobile device.
      It will guide you during pregnancy and afterwards.

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    2. Madam u r strong oooo!!!! May d Almighty who gave u this replace it In Jesus Name. I got back from embassy having a mixed feeling, I was denied but something kept telling me chose bw ur babe and a visa which wld u pick. My mind say my babe of cos. Now this pregnancy has been problematic from day one after a miscarriage.... To sit down for 1hr is very difficult, I have always been lying on my back,I just asked myself an honest question b4 I napped now, NNE pls cld u have been able to seat 12/14 hrs inside small aircraft seat with ur condition? My ans was a No.. I have taken solace. I will accept my condition and have my babe here biko. May God save all expectant mums, this thing u said about amionic fluid just shocked me

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    3. @ 15.12, no be only you shock. I have been soaking my little
      one in the blood of Jesus.One is virtually in God's hand during pregnancy and we can only try our best.
      @ poster, it is well with you and all expectant mothers in Jesus name, amen.

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    4. Madam, sue that stupid doctor. It's okay in Nigeria that professionals get away with misconduct or negligence!!! If you were abroad, they would have taken proper care of you.

      Women, more than half of the time, our instincts are right. Don't take it for granted!

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  2. So sorry Madam. God will reward you with s healthy living baby. Be strong.

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    1. The almighty will give you double what you lost. Thanks for sharing.God bless ΓΉ.

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  3. So sorry ma.God will give you double for your trouble.

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  4. So sorry dear
    God will give u the one that will be with u all the days of ur life ijn amen

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  5. Aaaaaaw this is so sad ?
    Btw what happens when a child is still born. Do the parent take their baby home for burial or what. Forgive my ignorance biko i just never seen or heard of such stuffs.

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  6. So sorry ma.God,God will give you double blesings for your trouble.

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  7. Sorry for your loss ma'am. It is well.

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  8. So sorry Madam and a big Amen to your prayer.

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  9. God bless you dearie for sharing

    God of Double Restoration is stepping into your call speedly

    Your will share a testimony soonest

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  10. Why do always dismiss concerns raised?
    I am sorry for your loss.

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  11. Owwwwwwww, don't worry God will do double favour soon...

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  12. May God bless you with another which will be yours forever




    *Larry was here*

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  13. Kai, so sorry dear. God will give you another one that will stay

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  14. Oh sorry madam, God will bless you with double

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  15. May God console you.

    In pregnancy its just God, sometimes too much fluid, sometimes less fluid

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  16. Sorry abt d lose God will give u d one dat will glad ur heart in Jesus name Amen

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  17. It is well.God is already on your case.

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  18. So sorry, God will bless you with another cutie.

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  19. Eyaa. So sorry for your loss. You will be compensated.

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  20. Ohhhhh so sad. Poster God will console u with one that will stay.

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  21. It's well wit you ma

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  22. So sorry for your loss,double restoration for you in Jesus name.

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  23. Poster sorry for your loss, May God Almighty strengthen you and your husband.(Amen)!

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  24. God will give you double for your loss.In pregnancy if you ever feel all is not well don't take it lightly.Women have intuition and most times are not wrong. People won't understand how complicating pregnancies are becoming to see nine months and birth your child is the greatest miracle.God grant her another healthy baby in Jesus name.

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  25. GOD WILL GIVE YOU DOUBLE FOR YOUR TROUBLE. HOW PESIN GO CARRY BELLE FOR 9 MONTHS AND BABY GO COME DIE? WIPE YOUR TEARS FOR THE LORD IS RESTORING ALL YOU HAVE LOST (AMEN!)

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  26. so sorry about your loss dear,I am a doctor but i had oligohydramnous too, I had to do series of scans during the pregnancy. And on exactly my due date, I requested to be induced (couldn't take the risk of waiting for labour to start, plus his gestational age kept reducing with each scan, meaning he was getting growth restricted), when my baby was born he was so small, his skin was dry and peeling off.... but I thank God for everything,my boy is 6 months now.... it is well poster, God will give you beauty for ashes in Jesus name.

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  27. Poster, you are not forgotten. God knows your name. You will laugh and we will rejoice with you in due time.

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  28. I suffered a loss too early this year. All was going on well until my 7th month when i saw a rush of water which eventually stopped so i thought it was urine not knowing my water broke. A few days later I suffered abdominal pains which forced me to head to the hospital but on getting there I wasn't attended to on time for hours, I eventually gave birth to a premature baby and a few days later i lost my handsome child. I have learnt a lot, one of which is to never watch demons disguised as medical practitioners to toil with my life and that of my family. The don't care about you, therefore, don't be lenient with them, apply wisdom though but shout on them when you ought to. Also, like the lady said in her story make sure you don't trust them totally, seek for other counsel from other doctors, it may cost you cash but my people in the end it is worth it. It took me courage/trusting in the Lord and my husband's effort to overcome that challenging time. Thank God my sanity was restored.

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  29. Sorry for your loss. God will give you a baby that will stay with you in Jesus name, Amen

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  30. Come here
    Come take a hug darling.
    I am soo sorry!

    How are u now?
    I bet you are good now and no longer sad.
    Don't worry,God wil beautify ur life once more ok?
    May God keep blessing u.
    Sending u loads of warm hugs.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  31. You are one strong woman. Hugs to you. God has not left you nor forsaken you infact he said he will give you double for you trouble.

    So sorry this happened. Be strong sis.

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  32. Doctors do not know all,I repeat Doctors do not know all,never leave your pregnancy totally with one Doctor, no matter how experienced, baby center, what to expect and ovia are great pregnancy resource apps.trust your instincts, research every question before calling/ seeing Doctor. That is how one Doctor in the US here almost killed me. do your best and just know, sometimes bad shit just happens. Sorry for your loss dear.

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  33. The most important thing is what is the name of the doctor? Did you report his hospital? Please save other pregnant women from this lazy and incompetent serial killer...abeg, supply the name.

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  34. This is too painful to read. Do take heart my dear,God will beautify your home with cute and healthy kids at once in Jesus name'Amen!

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