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Sunday, 30 July 2017

Sunday In House Gists -MEMORIES....

There are memories that teach you life's lessons. 



It could be happy, sad or bitter/sweet but the emphasis is that it taught you a lesson. 
There are some memories you will remember the rest of your life and there are some you want to forget and there are some that are Unforgettable..
Do you have such memories?



74 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good Afternoon.


SUGAR

Anonymous said...

Yes oh, i recently learnt the hard way, spending and sacrificing for a girl im not married to, we werent even engaged... although we talked about marriage plans & worked towards it with love binding us together, only for it all to turn sour and south after she started earning more than me, the insults started coming & unxplained whrabouts with friends... it all happened right before my eyes. Till she finally fucked another man and i found out, no remorse watever, just one feeble apology saying " it wasnt planned, am sorry" then i knew iv been building castles on a sand... the wound is still very fresh and i hear their weddin IV is even out, fear no let me confirm the truth in that, so i regret doing so so mch for that bitch in goats clothing, i actually thought i was doin it for my life parrner.

Miss Ess said...

It is well

Atheist ™ said...
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Esther Mgbolu said...

Eyaaa... sorry anon,it's well

Jasmine said...

Never ever go out without going out with a little money on you.

When I started dating, nobody taught me about dating and going out. So that faithful day, I went to see a supposed toaster.

Cute guy, stays in a good place. I sat down, ate small food because I was forming, drank coke and we talked and talked. Dude noticed I was naive and was taking his time (according to him, he told me later when I was matured, lol).

After all the talks, he saw me off to the bus stop so I can take a bus home. I was hoping he would give me my transport fare back home but na lie o.

I entered the bus, he waved and turned back. Jesus!!! Sweat catch me. How do I pay?

Do I just come down now and start walking or beg someone to pay for me? Who will even pay for me when already in their minds they have started judging me.

Small me standing next to a tall man at the bus stop.

Luckily for me, I hid 5h in my purse that my mum gave to me to buy plantain and fry for her.

Dunno what made me to start searching my purse although I do hide money in it sometimes. When I saw the money, OMG, I was so happy.

The Lord removed shame from my way even before it came closer. I paid for the fare. Got home, lied that I misplaced the money and got the yabbing of my life from my mum.


But hey, it's better than being disgraced by a conductor.

Since that day, I never go out when I don't have money for transport and money to pay for whatever I'll eat. I can't come and disgrace myself again o.

Anonymous said...

Murdered three innocent babies for the 8 years (abortion) . I don't even know how to face God to ask for forgiveness. Will He ever forgive me? In my foolishness, I took a wrong decision, in my stupidity I repeatedly destroyed lives. Will I ever be the same again? I think about those babies a lot, it's driving me crazy.

Anonymous said...

My first love Ikuwe. I nvr got the chance to tell him, I love him.(becos he was a play boy) Eighteen yrs has gone by since I last saw him, but I nvr stopped loving him and will always love him.i rem dat nite we saw last,we planned on having 5 kids(wonder why he has just 2 boys now) but he nvr came back. Waited for 4 yrs(to prove if he was really serious)before moving on. Thought it was infatuation,but eighteen yrs and still in love.

STARRY LARRY said...

OK let me share this recent story that happened to me on Friday

Scam Alert Gist!!!

Last month a friend called me to see her off to buy printer for her office. Off we went to a shop in Ikeja, as we're negotiating with the guys, one of them was very jovial and friendly, as soon as we're done and about to leave, he asked for my digits, and I reluctantly gave him.

Later he hi me on whatsapp but I never responded, he called and introduced himself and begged me to save his number, he said he will invite me to Ikeja one of these days. I still did not saved his number. He never called since then and on Thursday, he called with another number, he said I should save the number that he will call me the following day, yet I did not save the number.

On Friday, he called with the number and he started saying the customer people stopped the car he's driving and they said the people isn't complete. He said he has been begging them but they're not ready to free him, he said their boss is coming that he will want to negotiate with him and he will call me later.

After like 2hours, he called that they rejected his cash but gave him account number to go and pay into, he also said they rejected online transfer as they need the Bank Tell. I told him to look for bank around the area and pay the cash into it. He said I'm not being understanding enough, he asked if I can help him with some money since they're not collecting cash from him. Since I sensed scam alert, I teased him like how much should I borrow him, he said #15,000, I replied, I don't have up to that. He now said how much can I borrow him?
I just told him to send the money into my account through online transfer and I will go and help him pay the said amount into their bank account. He just said he will call me back and hung the call, since then, I'm still expecting his call.

Chuks, if you're on this blog, make unna dey look face, I'm too sharp to be dupe easily like that. Come back with a strong formatπŸ˜œπŸ˜πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜πŸ˜‹πŸ˜πŸ˜œπŸ˜›πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‹πŸ˜œπŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜—, moreover, na person wey get money den dey dupe, no be person like me.




*Larry was here*

Bubul said...

I learnt never to let my so call friends close to the man I am dating . I also learn that there is no practical fumular to keep a man . I laso learnt that God can give you what ever you want . No need sleeping with any man for job or anything physical thing .

Chummy cho cho said...

When I was in Jss2, a classmate of mine came to me and we talked about another classmate who was also my friend.. The first classmate went and downloaded all we talked about to my friend and even added salt andd pepper. They both confronted me and I couldnt deny it. Even the ones she said, she said I was the one that said them😏😏😏😏

It thought me never to discuss anyone negatively. It thought me to only nod when someone is talking about someone else.

God is awesome... Thank you Lord

Atheist ™ said...

Guy, do u know how many billions of ppl are on this earth? 7.442 billion (2016 record oh), dont let one confused being cripple ur joy, i know heartbreak is a bitch, but let time do the healing, its not tribal mark, it'd heal trust me... theres always sum1 better, every1 is replacable, its just a matter of time to seek them out.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

It was may 2012, few days after my birthday was usually my godmother birthday. But, on that day, I didn't call to wished her happy birthday, only to be called on the 18th of the same month that she has been murdered.
I almost died of bad thoughts that were running through my head. I felt guilty for not calling her that day, she has always been the one calling me, advising me about life.

They said, she received a call after she returned from her work, she didn't drove her car that evening, only for them to see her corpse wrapped in a nylon bag outside her gate in the morning. They didn't take anything from her but her life.
She was one of the best people I ever knew/know, she sacrificed a lot for others, she always bring herself last. All the riches and wealth she worked hard to acquire, she didn't live to enjoy till old age. She was only 45yrs old. She was more than just the lady that stood behind me in baptism, she was more than just a godmother. She was the only person my birth mother will call and complained to about me and I will obey whatever she tells me to do.

I have missed her so much.
I learnt something from all these bad scenario; whenever i'm thinking about anyone, I must call the person. The guilt I felt for not calling my godmother on her birthday still hurt me somehow whenever I think about her.

Fidel Castro said...

I have 2 homely girls in my life both are virgin,from very rich home, one dr the other an economics working for Kpmg but i always find it hard to appreciate or show them love back, i lost both of them begining of this,it was just like a dream. I didnt blink not until i started my excapades again that i realize most slayqueen and mama ain't nothing compare to these girls. I'm trying to reconcile with one of them.
She always complain that i have never used her as dp before but i always use several girls as dp.
Lord knows ,i'm a changed person now ,i will never cheat on her again. Make i no lie , her new pictures na like Kelly rowland she be now , damn tall,shinning chocolate body,pretty face ,u can,mistake her for Kelly Rowland sef , na so i take run go back ,no i'm begging her,
God pls touch the heart of Dr T so she can forgive me and accept me back, in jesus name - AMEN
Abeg make una follow me pray, no bad belle pls.

STARRY LARRY said...

Sorry dear, that means you're not meant to be together. God will bless you with your own woman soon





*Larry was here*

Most precious stone said...

God will forgive you, jusw ask then stop, no matter your sin he forgive. He is a merciful lord

baby creamy said...

Arik has been bringing couples together since time immemorial. I have a friend that met her husband in arik. Looll

Jasmine said...

Since jss 2 and u remember? U be google o

Micah said...

Whenever I think about the foolish relationship I went into with a co-student in lawsc, I just smh. I had more sense than that na? it wasn't worth it at all. RΓ daradΓ‘

bamidele mutiu said...

Where is the Sunday lol

Anonymous said...

The day my mother died,I will never forget that day,it will always remain fresh in my memory

Anonymous said...

The day I had to sleep with my so called uncle just so that he can give my fiance who is now my ex a job in his firm,that's a memory that has remained fresh

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

God is love. He did not come for the righteous but for sinners. He knows how you are,repentance is all He needs from you not regret. Regret kills but repentance makes you better.
Ask God for forgiveness today and He will forgive you. Then call upon God to help your weakness and you will see His strength made manifest. Go and read the story of the prodigal son,Our God is love.
And as much as you can,always ask for His unlimited grace to overcome the desires of the flesh.

Regret is a tool the devil uses to keep people away from God.
Repentance draws you back to God.

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

HahahahahahahahahπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

I am happy you know that God is the ultimate.

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

From your write up,she will be making the mistake of her life coming back to you. Don't misunderstand me, learn more about life and grow more before thinking of another. If you can't find yourself now,you might never find it.
Don't complicate your life and hers.

Iphie dearie said...

I promised myself that I will be better this year,same thing I said last year but didn't really work towards it.
I am so bad when it comes to keeping in touch and even being friendly.

I am much better,compared to how I was in thhe past.

This shook me. May she keep resting.

Oma maranma said...

Iphie dearie! it's official, I LOVE YOU!!!.. i love you Pipi Lee. I love you chikito (its been long with you shaa). Iphie I have friends that need that single advice you guys left on single post by chidimma ekile, i do but I can't advice them without the ones married thinking I'm shading them. I'm 22 but these advice comes to me natural and if you voice out, they think you're bitter. My friends really need to read this from another persons cause they are desperate! And it's irritating.

On a lighter tone... i love books and I can't keep quiet again. Thanks for the sites you guys left. Thanks Martins too. Pipi Lee and Iphie dearie issa baby girls for life. When you read books, you won't age one bit. Great lady, shout out too. I picked your recommendations too.

Stella my life changed at a very young age when I started reading... my IQ is better than average. My friends always beam when I start advising like chikito... 'Madam I know it all' is my name and I accept * grinning *. Then I will write long lists of books and give my mum to buy with a sweet lie of our teacher list of books to buy before the week runs out. But I wonder why she never bothered to ask why our teacher doesn't flog me like I said she would, when she didn't find any of those books in market and I dismissed it with ' don't worry, this one will do'.
*Phew*.

Jasmine said...

That was a big mistake o. Choi

Iphie dearie said...

Hahaahaah
Vex money is very necessary!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#It is what it is...
Accept it, Learn from it, and Grow from it.
It doesn't matter what you have done;
What truly matters is what you do from here*

doctor samba said...

Those days of hardship as a student.I persevered and now things are quite better,just to encourage someone going through one difficulty or the other....

Iphie dearie said...

LOL@ Wonder why he has two kids ke? 🀣🀣🀣🀣
Wonder not my sister.
He obviously changed his mind.

Anonymous said...

I never believed in the saying never say never until it happened to me.My greatest regret in this life is dating a married man.Prior to dating the married guy,I always boasted that I can never have anything to do with a taken man of which I stood my grounds and always insulted any married man that came my way.I even used to insult and judge any girl I see having something to do a married guy.But my experience has taught me that no human is infallible.Met this young guy during a very dark period of my life,initially I didn't know he is married until 2months of our meeting.That period I was down,he was there for me,my friend and my confidant when so-called friends deserted me.Before I knew it i was hopelessly in love with him due to how good he was to me.It was not even about money cos he wasn't that wealthy.We dated for like two years even though i felt guilt ridden all through the duration of the time we dated.Most times after sex,I avoid praying to God sometimes for 2weeks cos of guilt.We have both parted ways now but I still feel bad when I look back.I always ask God for forgiveness and wish I could turn back the hands of time

BigB!te said...

Loss my dad few days after I resumed my 100 level. I was devastated, confused, disorganized, and didn't get to concentrate. I didn't get to come out with the best result but I'll forever be grateful to my mum for being there for me. Relatives and Friends that promised never stood by their promises, we never got to see any after the burial. I'm not yet there yet but I'm working to be a better person and have a better job so my mum can reap the fruit of her labour. Anyone with a job I can do within Jos and Abuja should please contact me. Thanks

Greatlady. said...

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Blossom said...

Hehehehe. You are wicked ooo.

Lizzy berry aka Mrs Atheist said...

@Jasmine hahahaaaaa... She's got long term memory

Greatlady. said...

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Greatlady. said...

Ah! Wickedness. What did she do to deserve such!

Greatlady. said...

Grow up bro. Leave her so you dont hurt her further

Peachy said...

Iphie dearie, are you my sister?....πŸ˜›. I'm just like you when it comes to keeping in touch. I just keep procrastinating until the person reaches out first, then the cycle continues.

Phewww....I'm working on it however and just like you, I've improved over the years but still have a long way to go.

Greatlady. said...

Great to know that you love book too. Where have you been sef?

BLESSED ONE said...

Since Friday,my mind kept telling me to call my dad, I didn't have credit in my line and I kept postponing until Tuesday. I recharged my line on Tuesday morning when I went out and decided to call my dad once I got home. On getting home, I saw our reverend and friends in my house,they came to tell us my dad died that morning. I wish I had called him earlier, at least I would hear his voice one last time. I miss him everyday. No one to call me 'my baby'. It taught me to never procrastinate contacting a loved one. Family is everything.

Chummy cho cho said...

Lol@ Jasmine.Its because of the lesson it taught me. I always remember whenever I want to gossip

Weed Chic said...

I hope she finds a better guy fast πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Anonymous said...

You lost on both grounds, learn never to sacrifice anything for a man.

Iphie dearie said...

Oma maranma😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
You are 22??? Good to see young ladies that enjoy reading,So refreshing.
Yes,they might call you 'Madam know it all' But who cares anyways?πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

I still have a 'stash' in my parent's home and I feel so happy when My cousins go over there and get inspired to read.
😘😘😘😘

Anonymous said...

"My baby" sorry 4 ur loss

Iphie dearie said...

Honestly,Peachy I was terrible with keeping in touch.
I think mingling here helped me too,that is apart from my resolution already.

Fab Mum said...

Vex money is very important. Very very.

Fab Mum said...

That's so me.. I'm not good at keeping in touch. I think the people in my life have come to understand that and know thsy I do not do that on purpose. So they tend to call me up or chat me up and we talk... But now , I make conscious effort to reach out to people. I try now. I like to think I'm better this year.

Anonymous said...

Growing up was fun for me we weren't rich but it didn't matter, the love I had for kids was so bad that you will always see me in the house of any neighbor that just put to bed or has little kids. I had so much hopes and plan for my life little did I know life had an entirely different plan for me.
I never imagined I would be married and not have a child at 28 but it is my current situation.
I have never needed something so bad in my life like I need a baby right now.
With no job and a practically dead business on my end, dh's salary is barely enough for us, we cannot afford a baby.
This is not the plan I had for my life, how did things go so wrong?
This life is not fair! I need to have my own baby!!
When do I graduate from everybody's favourite baby sitter
To a mum?
Am I asking for too much?Ok

Anonymous said...

Life can be cruel attimes...I did a favour for people I regard as family. I lost my mum in the most unexpected way and manner and this prompted me to support my hubby to do something for his mum, something which she has always yearned for desperately.

It was meant to bring joy to her heart and ours too plus the the entire family. We kick-started this project but things took a nose dive. We couldn't sustain it as planned. We were going to pull out but we got help (I must admit I was skeptical accepting this "Greek gift"), but hubby was sure it was borne out of good intentions. Alas, he was proved wrong....cos it backfired and big time too. The helper wanted more than she should have. She wanted a stake...she wanted an entitlement. What started off as a sisterly love help turned sour. A lot of things were said and written all because of me. I was going to fight them if they didn't secure themselves. Hubby was almost coerced into signing a doc but he stood his ground.

It's all messy Stells...a lot was said.  Threats, gang up and all. I blame hubby though for some of his actions. But who am i to judge him? I may never understand what it feels like to be betrayed by your own people.

Long story it is...but I've become a "bad" person. Something that had the purest of intentions have been turned against me. Oh, how my heart broke when I heard it all...I cried for days but then turned to God and asked him to take over. Even when everyone thinks evil of me, he alone knows my heart.

Time has gone by and hubby and I have managed to pick ourselves up and rise above this. We are stronger and better than we were before. On the flip side, this issue has strengthened our bond and I can only say thank you, Jesus.

I'm positive that God will restore that which we've lost. I'm looking up to him for a job/push in my catering business. I'm hopeful still....I stand tall, still.

sisi eko said...

ErmmmmmπŸ€”πŸ€”

Ok bye

edie said...

dear anon u are not asking for 2much joor.....
just DAT u'v put all ur whole mind on it and its now affecting u emotionally.
u still young nah just 28. many more yes ahead.
how many years is ur marriage now?

Esther Mgbolu said...

Big b it's well

Esther Mgbolu said...

So sorry for your loss

Esther Mgbolu said...

You will carry your own baby anon18:03,your husband will get a job,and your business will rise again.Don't give up hope no matter,have faith and keep praying,God will suprise you,AMEN

Esther Mgbolu said...

It is well

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Take heart dear, may God console you.

Anonymous said...

My mum and dad got separated while we were young. Dad was never there for us while we were growing up,and my mum always spoke about him being in a cult which I didnt really believe until I saw things for myself and I wished I had listened to her. To cut the long story short my elder sister was to get married a long while back,7 and because we wanted to do the right thing he was informed...what an error. He insisted the wedding must hold in the town he lives after we agreed on the traditional holding there. When my sis refused as he was never really in our lives, he insisted on not attending to give her way and so began the trend for all that got married after her. I got so mad at the whole thing and sent several text messages to him in which I expressed my anger to him and also for his new family as he ones told us we should leave him when we needed him most financially. He ones said we will be the ones to take care of the children of his old age, school fees and all which also infuriated me more. I am still regretting the text messages as I have been married for 10yrs without kids and everywhere people went on my behalf they are told my father is behind it coupled with my own nightnares where he comes to pick something from my womb area especially when I did IVF. The interesting part of this long story is that my sister I thought I was defending/ fighting for got married in Lagos as she wanted and has 4 kids living happily with her family outside Nigeria, and she is also the good child of my father. Till today I wonder how they made up. This has taught me to always mind my business. Still trusting that my God will do the miraculous in my life and put my enemies to shame.

Anonymous said...

Hian,i know this Ikwue guy o. His surname starts with A. He was a player until OK married him. 2 lovely light skin boys. We were childhood friends.

Pipi Lee said...

Oma maranmaπŸ˜™πŸ˜™πŸ˜™πŸ˜™
I love you too.

Iphie boo, I've still not learnt how to keep books, all the books(classic bestsellers) I inherited from my aunty and my dad are nowhere to be found cos of 'borrow borrow'. I keep wondering how these guys were able to keep these books for a a very long time and I can't even hold on to one for a year. Obviously, you don't lend out books, right?
(ebooks was 'made' for me, I'm sure)

Pipi Lee said...

so sad. take heart dear.

Justyswt said...

Oh so sad. May the Lord console u.

Mama said...

Your father will surely be put to shame one day. Keep praying and speaking God's word...that you are late is nothing, u will have your own children.

darlingexcel said...

One regret I have is investing my life saving in a micro finance bank. Had I know I would have follow my instincts. Now my money is haging there while am struggling to make ends means

bolaji bernard said...

Mine is actually a sad memory...I had a short break in school around March 2011...my mum was sick but I Felt she would get better,she called several times that she'll like to see me and I told her to chill till when i'll finish my second semester exam in June,so I didn't go home for the break...fast-forward to may 12th 2011,the day I started my second semester exams,my mum passed away...I missed the opportunity of seeing her probably for the last time,i took for granted the opportunity I has as I though I had it all figured out...the last time I saw her was January 2nd 2011...moral of the story,never hesitate to show love to those your loved ones as tomorrow is not promised...I miss you my darling momma,rest well

Anonymous said...

The big mistake I made was loving a man for 3 years, was faithful, was patiently waiting for him to have a job breakthrough . I got a scholarship abroad but he assured me I'd relocate and join him in the country he lives.
Last Valentine I traveled to visit him, he called the relationship off. This is a man that lied to me to pick a ring bla blah.
Bottom line, I hate men now. Im just focused on my job and being a better person.
Never sacrifice for a man.

Anonymous said...

Look unto God my dear. Pray and tell Him the desires of your heart and He will grant it. There's a prayer group on Facebook called sisterhood Africa. Join and partake in all the prayers and fasting. God will do a new thing in your life in Jesus name.

Atheist 2 said...

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Atheist 2 said...

Your uncle??!!

Anonymous said...

Feeling guilt is sign of someone with conscience. I pray God forgives us all in Jesus name
Amen

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