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Sunday, 13 August 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

Hmmmm...Nice one!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TOUGH TIMES DONT LAST......



I've been a bv of your blog for ages and I've read a lot of stories on marriages.


I will appreciate your posting this anonymously to encourage someone out there.Marriage is not easy because of the trials and tribulations and the work and patience involved. I want to tell my story to encourage couples out there passing through trying times that with God Almighty, all will definitely be well.


My 8th anniversary is coming soon and after gisting with a friend who's also a bv some days ago, God's wonders in my home dawned on me again.


I have 3 children and I've passed through difficult times. Periods of homelessness and squatting with others (my husband and I and our 3 children).

Periods of having nothing to eat, my husband's business being at a standstill we had to sell "everything" we owned.
But one thing we always had was love and the ability to laugh and dream despite the lack.


I even do giveaways sometimes because no where to put the things and nobody to buy it so na to give out.
There were times the food we have will not be enough for all of us and after our children eat, my husband will form he's not hungry so I won't feel guilty eating the little left. I'll form I'm not hungry too and we will end up sharing and be half full.

There were times my son won't be able to eat the mixture that I cook because he doesn't understand it. Lol


There were times I go into the toilet and I cry my heart out because this wasn't how we planned our family to be.

There were whole terms my children didn't go to school because we couldn't pay fees, buy snacks, and couldn't afford anything.

I always consoled myself with the song by mary mary :
"i just can't give up now,
I've come too far from where I started from,
nobody told me the road wont be easy but I don't believe He's (God) brought me this far to leave me"


I was recently able to start a small business and for me and my family, its a big deal.It was difficult getting start up capital which was not much after years of looking for loans and where else to get money from but God made it possible. And I know things will only get better henceforth.


Before I leave for my shop in the mornings, my daughter usually prays with me so that I'll make sales and God has been good.
I'm not nearly where I want to be but this is a very small first step for me and my family to encourage everyone passing through trying times in their homes/marriages that God always makes a way.


I couldn't have been able to hold up if not for God and the amazing man my husband is. He's been my greatest support and I could only bear the suffering we went through because of the love we have for each other.

*To even think that moments like this that you described have broken up couples who couldnt  stand it all..So happy for you and I hope any couple going through this will learn that tough times dont last,only tough people do!



73 comments:

Beloved said...

@Poster Your patience is really top notch...plus the love you and your hubby have is really genuine and not based on material things.
SDK that's true some couples would have just gone their separate ways..

Thumbs up poster.. .it will get better πŸ‘πŸ‘

Jasmine said...

Awwwww


So happy for you. May God continue to provide for your family and bless you.

Anonymous said...

Most couple couldn't stand it..cos loads of men will start beating up their wives when they are frustrated...Whatever what the situation is...both must show love..

CARDEALER said...

May God bless you and also bless the works of your hands.
Indeed Tough times don't Last,Only Tough people Do.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#No matter what the situation is, remind yourself that you have a choice*

Anonymous said...

Hmm tear jerking stuff I love love but it eluded me in marriage. I want to sow a seed in your business so that real love will find me . What's your mail dear ?

ESE EsSAy said...

Praise God!

Stella maris Baby said...

Nice one,May God bless and expand your biz real good..

Marriage is Sweet if you marry the right person.

Intelligentsia princess said...

Awwwww!!!!
So touching...
Psalm138v8 says I will perfect all that concerns you. For this your act of gratitude to God,I decree that God shall perfect all that concerns your household today in JESUS,Amen.

Fav said...

Am at that phase right now but I believe this too shall passs. Laid down my burden at the master's feet today.

Isolde Fontaine said...

This is a positive chronicle and it depicts that the love you both share is true. I hope things only get better for your family. Good luck poster.

Arsenal Firstlady said...

Nice one dear. God will continue to give you testimonies and testimonies. Holding unto God is the best thing ever

Anonymous said...

I told myself this word"it is well" this morning. I"m going through mine own tough time as a single lady. I"m not married but of that Very ripe age of marriage. Not dating any man presently. No matter what I believe God is Faithful. My hubby will come. Please anybody going through hard times should know that God cares and in His time he will make things better.

Emmy yayo said...

Wow...so touching and some women won't hear

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

More grace ma'am....

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...isiah 61 vs 7(RSV) The Lord says instead of ur shame u shall hav a double portion, instead of ur dishonor u shall rejoice in ur lot , therefore in ur land u shall possess a double portion; urs shall be everlasting joy.

Seun ogayemi said...

Truly wonderful, dear poster may God bless your marriage and continue to provide for u, there are always ups n downs just like u sing God will not bring u far to leave u alone, he is always there to see us through if we hold on to him!!!!

Lady C said...

Awwwww!!!it will surely get better,nothing stays stagnant in life including poverty keep striving hard.

Gold Taken said...

Peace,Joy and Favour that the world cannot give remain your home. Greatly blessed 8 years wedding anniversary to you and yours'.

Anonymous said...

Awww nice. God is good.....hopefully he is the same man when he starts making millions, ur stori no go change by God's grace.

gagaga said...

Thank you madam. You have just given someone out-there hope with this amazing narrative. God bless you.

Dberrys said...

Its well. Thank God for your life and family ma'am

Akinbobola Korede said...

️GOD bless Ur home...Hmmmnnnnn I am inspired

charitybino said...

Worry no more poster, pleasant surprises beyond your expectations will overwhelm you and your family.

Mz OYIN said...

Awwn so touching... God bless your family ma'am

Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady said...

It will end in praise n Thanksgiving soonπŸ™ŒπŸ˜„

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing.
It amazes me when in this blog the "clique" that brag about wealth that they don't actually have puts that as the only thing that matters in a marriage.
I've read things like "love is not enough . .." and when I probe further, all they talk about is wealth. They forget that wealth springs wings and vanishes.
When this poster married, she might not be wealthy but they were comfortable. Somethings happened that they did not plan for.
That is the when one knows how faithful they are to each other.
I won't be surprised that that same clique will come to brag that "he' the husband will abandon her to seek other "fresher babes" once he has money. . .
Everybody isn't the same. Money cannot suffice for love. Love conquers all and when folks believe, they can achieve anything.

Anonymous said...

A good lesson for "the marry him if he is rich" folks. One that is rich today may not be rich after marriage or through it.
Times of trials may come and that is when a man knows if he is married.

Anonymous said...

Indirect begging things

Anonymous said...

Lesson:
Things are not always the way you plan it to be.
Be careful to marry someone you love and connect with, not someone who loves what they see around you.

OFFICIAL PRESTIGE said...

Nice narrative with great lesson. Kudos

OFFICIAL PRESTIGE said...

Is it your begging. Tap πŸ‘„.

OFFICIAL PRESTIGE said...

Is it your begging. Tap πŸ‘„.

Miss Ess said...

God that has begun this good works in your family will perfect it in Jesus name, amen. It can only get better.

olaedo said...

May God bless your family

Anonymous said...

Why not add your stats and location. Maybe a Bobo will respond. Not only prayer everytime

Anonymous said...

Nice one poster. More blessings.

Okwesilieze said...

Poster the God who created you and blessed you with those children will see you through

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Something to encourage those of us who think hardship is the end of it all...Gods grace to you

Anonymous said...

Hmmmh

Anonymous said...

Marriage is really very hard and full of trials. One day I will tell my story too. Suffice it to say, without God where would I be? #18yearsandcounting; you're still the one babe

Spicy Dobis said...

It's well

sexy Daddy said...

Awwwww poster I'm inspired by your story.Truly marriage is not a bed of roses! But one thing I know is that with focus,God,and love by the two persons involved, there is no way the marriage will not be full of blessings.


Shalom!

Anonymous said...

Cool but hubby needs to sit up. Broke men are very loving, considerate and patient.

IJAY said...

May God bless you for sharing Poster, may God's love, peace and unity continue to be with you, hubby and the kids, and may he bless your home abundantly.

ukwu dimond said...

You are a good woman indeed, may God take you and your family to a higher ground. Congratulations

Erica said...

kudos....God bless ur home....

Nemerem said...

May the Lord continue to sustain your marriage, and bless the work of your hands. Your testimony has only begun, greater things He would do, keep trusting.

Lipstickalley said...

I love your story poster and i wish you well in all your endeavors.

The love you and Hubby share is soo genuine, i could feel it reading your story.

Thanks for sharing

Anonymous said...

Lecon seul l'amour peut vous voir a travers le temps difficiles.

Adeniji Bisi said...

One I picked here is LOVE and FAITH

God bless ur family


MC Pinky

Wild Rose said...

Poster, I can relate with you because I have been there and almost getting out in Jesus name. It is not easy but what can we do but to keep trusting and believing in God.
I usually come here to forget all my worries as I can not kill myself na... Lol.
It is is not easy but God is in control.

Broomstick said...

Thanks for sharing this. I can't feel your pain cos I've not walked in your shoes but I can imagine how agonizing it is when your kids look at you and ask why they're not in school or why they're not eating a certain meal. The God that has brought you thus far shall surely perfect His work in your lives.

SANDY YO said...

Amen!!!πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡
Touchy!

Cynthia Iyede said...

Things are turning around for your good in Jesus name.

jelly said...

This chronicle is gonna heal lots broken home,nice one poster may the lord continue to stand by your home and provide for you.

akudo ukazu said...

Love is very enough in marriage. I just pray the man remains thesame when he starts making money. Men are very humble when they are broke. Happy wedding anniversary wishing you all the good things of love.

Ehlarh said...

Amen, I was in tears reading this. Your morning has come Ma, wait and see where God is taking your family to. You will cone back here with another happy chronicle.

Push up said...

My dear no one has a choice anymore than to stay together. God would show up for you guys, having kids in such situations ain't easy but we still thank God for life

sholetoga said...

Awwww.....This is so touching. God will continue to bless your home

Anonymous said...

Hmm.. This is really touching. Going through same face, but I know God will not bring me this far to abandon me. My husband came home in tears yesterday cuz I am sick and I told him I wanted Akara and Pap for breakfast. He went out and promised to get it on his way, when Okowa police held him and he had to give them, the last 2k on him, he was scared to come back to me. Lol... This is a man that has given me the best treat in my life, the man that makes me travel anywhere by flight, the man that paid my masters fees, so why cry cuz of Akara? I just laughed and I see sincere and true love in his eyes. No matter what I won't trade what we share for anything. I know we will soon be back to normal cuz he is not a lazy man. I just pray God touch the heart of his cousin that duped him of 15million to return the money.
Life is not easy ooo

Anonymous said...

Am at this phase also,but my Hope is in Good to see us and through.it is well

Anonymous said...

*phase

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Hmm! Madam you really tried. Don't worse God will come through for you. Never lose faith and keep praying for your husband.

Anonymous said...

Anon 17:01 Did she mention that her husband is a lazy man? You guys just sit behind your phones and type what you know nothing about.
Madam, may God bless you beyond your imaginations.

Anonymous said...

19:16, God will pave ways for you ma. Things will get better and the cousin will do his restitutions.



*loyal bv*

veechu oshio said...

Madam I admire you and the strength you have. You have inspired us with your story. God bless you ma and your family. The attitude of gratitude you have will place you on top.

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Thank God for the true love you and your husband have for each other, it played a major role in keeping you both. God will make all things beautiful for you n yours in Jesus name.

Iphie dearie said...

God bless your home poster.
Nothing like peace and love in trying times.
The season of harvest shall come.

Anonymous said...

Look at hopes and dreams. Una well don o

Anonymous said...

Did she ask you for money. And I did not see u offering any. So just shut the fuck up

Kiara kiara said...

Dear Poster,

You will definitely laugh last

Ps 126 v 1-3

It seemed like a dream, too good to be true,
when God returned Zion’s exiles.
We laughed, we sang,
we couldn’t believe our good fortune.
We were the talk of the nations—
“God was wonderful to them!”
God was wonderful to us;
we are one happy people.

Zima said...

I am in tears when I imagined the fear of telling you he couldn't get the Amara. Life happens but God can't and won't fail.

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