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Tuesday, 29 August 2017

Shady Situation




66 comments:

Miss Ess said...

I will collect everything I put towards it and everything I contributed in that house too, nonsense

ola wealth said...

ThATS cruel...

She should breakup with that guy ASAP.
WHAT kind of nonsensical insensitive statement is that..
So she was just playing side chic

danny fisiye said...

cancel everything





#GOAT™

Lipstickalley said...

She doesn't need to cancel the order, it's not the child's fault that his Dad is a nuisance and his mum, a no good.

This is just a sign for her to leave that relationship. Mschewww!

Anonymous said...

she should cancel. opening his mouth to tell her she isn't welcome..that's brutal. its not even about the son's mum not contributing anything to the actualisation of the party, its not about the lady paying for the cake and shit, no. its about him telling her not to come...I will not take it. apparently, the guy still wants a shot with his baby mama

Anonymous said...

Mtshewwwwwwwwweeeewwwww!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

What are you waiting for to cancel? Abi u need amendment by the national assembly before you cancel? Dey there make pant dey wear you. Philanthropist.

MissAmusa said...

How do you help your boyfriend plan his child's birthday when the child's mom is alive? Does that even make sense?
The lady needs to watch Desperate Housewives, the final season I think when Lynette threw her daughter a birthday party and Tom showed up with his girlfriend, it was a crazy day. She needs to watch that Episode.

Anonymous said...

There is nothing shady about this situation, I am done with the he goat of a boyfriend.

BLESSED ONE said...

If she is not wanted at the party, that means the guy still has a thing with the baby mama. She should not cancel the order, that is not a matured way to do things. She is doing it for the child, not the father. But she need to walk away from that relationship. The guy values the baby mama more and they are not yet over.

xoxoxo said...

It is well

Nkem said...

She needs to ask herself if she wants to continue with the boyfriend. A man that would throw her under the bus at a time like this. If she attends the birthday, who decides that she is not welcome- the man or the ex-wife? It is clear that he is not going to stand up for her when it matters.

Anonymous said...

If I were her, I will definitely feel bad. She shouldn't cancel the cake, because, the Birthday party will be incomplete without a Cake. This is my own humble suggestion, I may be wrong though. what if the guy is trying to test her?

Cute hajia Omo Mummy said...

What! End time boyfriend... Cancel the order and dump him like trash... Radarada# pissed#

D UCH said...

Ordered!!!

It has not been delivered right?

What are we talking about again?

Cancel it sharperly.

Who does dat!!!

Olivia Silk Loves Tokio Myers (OLSTM) said...

I am cancelling everything.
Enjoy your party!

beebumble said...

her boyfriend and baby mama are very stupid and shameless. how can you attend your son's birthday which you did not contribute a dime and how can the boyfriend be so selfish and senseless to tell his girlfriend who has been acting like the real mother that she is not welcome to the party. if i were the girl i would cancel everything i ordered and quit the relationship too. what the heck but then am not the girl she should get the message the guy is trying to pass on to her.

Be Humble. Sit Down. said...

I think you're expecting way too much. Of course the children would have their significant others at the party! It's the child's birthday for goodness sake, not the baby mama. You should allow your partner a bit of space and wait for nature to take its course. One way or the other, it always does.

You must know that there will be more of these sorts of gatherings and that not all of them will be pleasant. If you are hurt by not being invited, I must suggest the rather unique approach of stating that fact to your significant other and asking to discuss it. You cannot predict the challenges you will face together, but you can decide, in advance, how you will face them together.

If you cannot sit down and rationally discuss your feelings, then moving in together is not the right step.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

The girlfriend should let the guy and his baby mama be! They probably still have some kind of feelings for each other.

As for the cake and the other things she ordered for the little child, she shouldn't take them back. It should be her birthday present to the child. The child is innocent, the parents are the immature ones who do not know what they want.

Shirley said...

Cancel it,then use the money to buy the kid his dream toy...please walk out of that relationship

Shirley said...

Cancel it,then use the money to buy the kid his dream toy...please walk out of that relationship

SANDY YO said...

What kinda Insolence should that be called?🙄 Thats what happens to desperate gehs. Well, If I were d gf, will just swallow and forgo instead of cancelling for d sake of d boy but d man go hear am afterwards.
By d way, It will even be somehow for d boys child and gf to be present there together though.
All still boils down to d yeye gigolo that dosent know what he wants for himself.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

She is free to cancel it. Foolish man

Ijebu and Auchi garri plus fresh palm oil for sale in abuja. 08135487277 said...

I will collect everything and dump his sorry ads. na side chic ur friend be o.

Beautiful-Beauty said...

do not cancel the cake, i understand you are hurt. just allow him go to the party with his baby mama. before he could come back, pack all your belongings and leave the house.

if he calls you when he's back, tell him you have gone to where u are welcomed. then hang the call and block him in all the communication channels.

it might be difficult but trust me u will pull over.
he still have a thing for his baby mama and just using you.

my two cent.

Sassy Meruche said...

I couldn't agree more with your comment.Very wicked and foolish man.He knew his babymama would be there and he allowed the gf do all that and had the guts to say that to her?He is mad.This is one of the many reasons I avoid single Fathers.Can't be dealing with all these baby mama bullshit abeg.

Anonymous said...

She shouldn't cancel the others.
Everything she has done, let it remain so just for the kid's happiness. He is innocent of his father's behaviour. These are the things you do and get rewarded in so many ways that you find difficult to explain much later in future.
Since she has been ordered not to be at th party, sad as it is, order yourself out of the man' s life as it is obvious you are a second fiddle that can be easily discarded. Give yourself that respect and leave that relationship. Let his conscience judge him.

Chike TEFLON said...

If she truly love the child let her not cancel anything because it's not the fault of the child. But if she did it because of her boyfriend let her cancel everything.

Tell her to dump the guy NOW. The so called boyfriend is still into his ex.

Anonymous said...

He is still fucking his baby mama and she has told him she doesn't want you there, for him to open his mouth and tell you that means he has no love or respect for you.

Anonymous said...

If I were you I will cancel everything and dump his ass.

Pipi Lee said...

lmaooooooo...Girlfriend went too far, she brought her own photographer to take pictures, Lynette photobombed all through.😆😆😆😆

Pipi Lee said...

as for this story, withdraw everything, every service you paid for!

Anonymous said...

If she gave birth to that child, will she like another woman to be "chief celebrant?"

Anonymous said...

All these girls shouting break up, cruel, withdraw cake etc. Let me ask a simple question;
If she is the mother of that child, will she like another lady to be celebrating her son instead of her?

Isolde Fontaine said...

No need to cancel... just to leave the guy...selfish man.

Elastic said...

Cancel both her contributions and the guy..


DontQuoteMe™

Anonymous said...

If he has moved on the baby mama cannot dictate shit he is probably still sleeping with the baby mama. How can? So if he marries the gf will that child not still be a part of his own family? That's bull.

Anonymous said...

In that case Lynette did the organizing not Tom's gf. This case is different. The gf contributed na. Haba

Anonymous said...

She didn't plan it on her own she assisted the father plan the party. That's acceptable because its on the right path towards being a step mom. The man is the one that is crazy

Amacastel said...

Pls cancel everything, cos the man is using her as a Sidechic, let them use their money for their child birthday but Pls don't forget to dump that selfish man cos he is still fucking the baby mama, if he is ur house poster Pls throw his things out, if you are in his house Pls pack out that man is so wicked & mean.

Anonymous said...

Best solution to this whole bullshit is to cancel the relationship period. Nonesense.


Dude is playing this girlfriend and she is a sucker to spend all that money. I bet you, her putting in all that money for the little man's birthday party was to please the dude, not out of affection that has grown towards the kid. She was trying 'over love' the guy. See where he's landed her fat or skinny ass, in a dirty stinking ditch!!!


Girlfriend should just slide outta that triangle abegi.

vivadrew said...

Sorry darling. It really hurts reading this but girlfriend cancel the cake and every ordered you made. You are no Santa Claus to give all of you to a man so undeserving. Forget a child is in the mix but if you do truly love the little boy like your's, I'd say let it go but take a long walk out of the relationship and never look back. Baby daddies come with the most baggage in relationship and believe me Okafor law will sure take place with his baby Mama.

Eka Joy said...

This una goody two shoes behavior won't take u anywhere. What kind of insult is that??? Personally, I will not cancel the things I've ordered but I'm so done with that relationship. There's nothing to discuss.

Even if the mother tells the guy she doesn't want his girlfriend there, it's his place to tell the mother that she needs to be there.

The man is clearly showing the gf they have no future together.

Eka Joy said...

Oshe

Eka Joy said...

I don't know why u people do selective reading?? Where in the write up did u see that the mother isn't invited or that she'd take d center stage. She's talking about not being able to attend.

Now I don't blame people that advice ladies not to date men with baggage. I'm sure this is part of the reason

SWAG LAFRESH said...

She's living with the man and has accepted the child as hers so nothing bad in helping him to plan.

The man is evil. Why will he tell her such? She should cancel everything.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Nothing like desperation here. She didn't do anything bad by supporting for the party.

Anonymous said...

Anon 12:34 so she wants to collect glory but she can't spend and be there for her son,she only wants to be a ceremonial mother abi,or what are you saying,this ain't even about who is celebrated that day or not,itz Bout the fact that the fool she calls her bf can tell her not to come

If you are reading this,because the child is innocent don't cancel anything, but carry yourself and leave that relationship,nigga is just using you,he doesn't love you at all!!! Have been in your shoes before,dating someone who has a child,and it was clear he ain't letting go of his babymana,i bid him farewell and stay on my own lane,don't let them use the quote ehn she is my babymama she will always be in my life to deceive you,accepted she will always be but she shouldn't be giving command in your own relationship

Eka Joy said...

How's she desperate?

Anonymous said...

she needs to modify the cake and all other contribution with a message to read aunty *inserts her name* loves you and wishes u a happy birthday.... then proceed to end things with the guy

Candy said...

Test her ke! Of all ways to "test" her. Abeg, she should just walk away 4rm him ASAP!

Aidearest said...

The man needed a party planner and found one. Party planners sef are welcomed at the party they plan. The guy has given u d sign so make u gather sense o and do the needful.

Booboo kitty said...

Loool yess! I am totally in support of this.

Sassy Meruche said...

Which kain dirty testing?Is it microphone?Abeg he should gerrout.Foolish man.

Jeni_zee said...

Eka the truth of the matter is that, if I were the babe I won't involve myself in s preparation of the birthday cos the mother is alive, u can't be preparing a child's birthday when the mother is alive, I won't even like to attend when I know the mother is going to be there, I will only ask my man how far with the preparation, most especially because I am not even married to the guy, there are limits to certain things, u can order for cake and that's it, u don't need to attend

Anonymous said...

Cancel every order she made and leave that relationship . They are still banging.

AmeboNaMyWork said...

Cancel the man first.
Cancel what offers refunds and move on.
Many men with children these days use them to dig for gold. Dangle marriage with other women just so she opens her pockets and spends on him & his children. I'm sure it's her buying the groceries & paying the "small small" bills in the house that keep his home comfortable. These men these days, dangerous.

onomebonny said...

Exactly the guy is yet to move on from his baby mama. She should cancel all her previous contribution and add up to the money and get herself a house. The guy is a big joke.

Rhoda Rex said...

😂😂

Anonymous said...

Don't cancel the order. Instead let them make the cake and deliver at the event. You then take the cake and sit inside or go somewhere with your friends to do your celebration. If they need cake for that day, they should go to an eatery

Anonymous said...

Your friend didn't say if the child lives with them or his mother.
You are dating a Baby daddy, you should know that the other woman will not just disappear. She will always be the mother at functions like this, while you take the back seat. So it's important to always ask your guy before and during preparation where the woman comes in and give her the space she deserves.

Were you thinking of replacing the mother when you were renting bounty castle?

Are you sure your boyfriend does not want you to attend, or you won't want to be laid back at the party while the child's mother takes the front seat?

It's your decision if you want to cancel some of the things you ordered, but don't cancel the cake. Let your man know that you were presumptuous in making those preparation without asking for the mothers position in the whole thing. Don't leave him based on this incident. He also might not have factored the woman in initially, but his attention might have been drawn to it and he may just feel the right thing to do is have the woman there. And we don't know your relationship with the Baby mama, he may feel it won't be good to have you both together if you've not been particularly cordial.

We don't have all the picture, but you do, so make your decision based on everything, not just this single story.

Anonymous said...

I with elastic. Cancel everything and dump his sorry ass.

Ronalda. said...

The pertinent question is, did she pay for all that to impress her boyfriend or was it done out of love/fondness for the little boy? If it's the latter, she should consider it a labour of love and allow the arrangements stand. However if she did it to impress her boyfriend...  If she were my friend, I'll tell her not to cancel anything but she should consider it a "bowing out" gift to her boyfriend. Some sort of farewell or send off, if you will. That would be an apt punctuation to a defective relationship.

She has no business being in a relationship where a baby mama still holds that much sway over the baby daddy. If indeed the baby mama has moved on, why would she care if her baby daddy's girl, a live-in lover, would be present at the party? ‎If your man can't control his baby mama and seems to put her feelings above yours, WTH are you doing dating and playing house with him for? Before long, baby #2 would be on the way, courtesy of your man. It's never advisable to play house with a man who hasn't put a ring on it.

In my opinion, a REAL man should be able to thug it out and pay for his son's birthday party expenses and completely leave his girl out of it. At most, she can get his son a gift if she's so inclined. If he's low on cash and feels compelled to "collabo" as per funds, the cash collaboration should be with the baby mama.‎

I'm afraid your friend seems to be majoring in the minor. The least of her problems should be the cancellation of cakes, clowns and party treats. The only cancellation she should concern herself with is that of the defective relationship she's in. Who runs to retrieve a pot of soup when a house is on fire? Misplaced priorities. ‎

Ronalda. said...

@anonymous 11:15, no, my love. That's where most ladies get it wrong. During courtship, the lady calls the shots but the roles reverse after marriage, the hubby then calls the shots. If you aren't married to a man, never put yourself in a position where he will feel the need to "test" you. Has he finished jumping through the hoops you set for him? It's your duty to put him through the test to know if he is worthy to be married to you.

My darling, it's the wrong orientation on dating and marriage that make most ladies feel they have to fight to become "the wife".‎ They use up all their energy to fight for the men to wife them but when they are now married, they become spent. No stamina left to make their marriages exciting. They become complacent and let themselves go. No more dressing sexy to impress their men, no more seduction, no more taking extra care to ensure their hygiene is on point, no more time to device new ways/methods to blow their men's minds, literally and figuratively. Yet people wonder why a lot of marriages become dull, boring and plagued with tedious routines even before the 1st anniversary.

Honey, I don't know your marital status but if you aren't married, please, NEVER allow yourself to be placed in a position where you feel the need to convince a man that you are wife material. He should be the one fighting to have you as his wife. You don't prove yourself to a man who isn't your hubby. If he feels you aren't worth jumping through hoops for or if he isn't interested in pursuing you, that means he isn't yours. Mourn and cry for him for a month, 2 at most, then allow the man who knows your worth come to prove his worth to you.
#e-bearhugs.‎

Beautiful Eagle said...

I would so dump the guy. That's why I don't like to get involved with baby papas.

Anonymous said...

Which one are you saying here again? So you haven't realized yet that a grown mother and father of someone just joined hands in using a kindhearted woman to fund their child's birthday celebration. And you're still here saying it's not matured. Who gives a hoot about "matured"?! Abeg, she should cancel every single thing she contributed and allow the child's "parents" to throw their child's party themselves....... Just Saying.....

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