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Wednesday, 18 October 2017

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

QUESTIONING GOD


Good Day Stella and fellow bvs.


Please your advice is highly needed. i got married last year, got pregnant after some months and it was ectopic and one of my tubes removed. since then, we been happy. so a few days ago i was going through a monastery's website for information because i would love to go there on a retreat to rededicate my life to God and pray. so i told him to come and see the place and my plans. what does he think? if he would love to go with me? 


He said i should do whatever i want to do if that would help. that all these hings are not supposed to be happening to us. then i asked why he was talking like that and he said why do i think he doesn't pray or go to church again that he is angry with God. that thieves and armed robbers get what they want and have kids but himself and myself that don't hurt people, we are still ttc. he was just saying hurtful things. i tried to calm him down and say every fruit has it's season but he bluffed me, went into the room and he has been crying since.


My husband is a very nice person. doesn't hurt people, he is a computer guru but he has never ever used it for fraudulent activities even when our neighbours that are yahoo boys come to him for help and even offers him money. We try to always reach out to people in need with the very little we have.

 he s homely and doesn't womanize or drink. so i can understand him to some extent.


He has been crying and refused to open the door. fellow bvs how do i comfort him (us) and explain things to him especially to change his mind set because this mind set is not healthy at all. thanks and God bless


*OMG...this is sad and this is when he needs God the most....Maybe you should forward this post to him to read cos I am sure blog visitors will drop comforting words here.
The love of God is the only thing that never fails!


92 comments:

STARRY LARRY said...

God will do it at the right time, I think it's even too early for him to lose hope.



*Larry was here*

lopezbarbie said...

Hey, hang on there, your testimony is very close to you. You can't get angry with God, it's the devil that he needs to be angry with. Our God is not a wicked God.Get angry with the devil and pursue him out of your family and it will flee. You are about to testify soon. Keep speaking fruitfulness into your life. You are fruitful vine and soon you will be a mother of children.

Spanish Lantern said...

I feel so sorry for you guys but the negative attitude won't help either. Maybe you should start crying and feeling sad for a few days. That might snap him out of it. It is well.

Anwuli Uzu said...

God is in control

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

OMG he should not question God. How is his service to God. Most people work for God and not with God. When you work for God and don't get paid you start questioning God.

Tell your husband to work with God and he will see changes. I hope the church you people are going is a clean Altar. When you enter wrong altar, it will be by the grace of God.

Jesus Christ was killed. He was the most righteous yet he was killed for us to be free. That should be the consolation to your husband.

He should not give up because God is not through with him. All is well according to 2nd Samuel.

Stay blessed.

Anonymous said...

The Lord is a faithful God, and He is never too late, tell him what you need now is to trust God with your whole heart, give your heart peace and free it from anxiety, RELAX and let God work.

Chike TEFLON said...

Ehya may God comfort him. God will bless you guys with good kids.
Chineke na emere anyi ihe mgbe ike gwuru obi anyi na uwa. Tell him it is well.

LUCIFER said...

Prov 10:22
King James Version
The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.

Darby Bible Translation
The blessing of Jehovah, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow to it.

World English Bible
Yahweh's blessing brings wealth, and he adds no trouble to it.

Young's Literal Translation
The blessing of Jehovah -- it maketh rich, And He addeth no grief with it.

stick to the word of God woman and watch his word come true for you and your husband.

please dont come under my comment and ask me why am quoting the bible, i am not feeling fine.

Chidinma Grace said...

Let me just read comments on this one because me self I don tire too.

Anonymous said...

I have seen something else under the sun: The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all. Eccl. 9:11

Anonymous said...

May the Lord comfort you.
Did you kill babies in the womb while trying to "settle down?"
See Prov. 6:10-16
See what to do in John 3:17-19
Please read the scriptures before you comment under this post.

sexy Daddy said...

Awwww Poster,I understand how he feels.seeing many we see as worldly people prospering without any hitches leaves man to question some certain things in this life.

Truly, life is a wonder to me!But in all God Almighty has the answer...

Do as Stella said,let him stop worrying and continue to trust on God...The appointed time is near..He will laugh soon .

Anonymous said...

Hey poster the Lord is your strength but you still have one tube na ans you can carry as much baby as you want with it(that is what my doc told. Me)be strong the Lord is your strenght.

Sharon Aminu said...

Hmmm
God that gives people without womb children... How much more we that has...
God that can give u a miracle that looks like a lie...
Even if God does not give u children, he still remains God...so tell him to use the words of God as his tries...use it to cry to him...use it to ask him,if he none shall be barren in his land..were are my children?? As he remembered Hannah he must remember me,u and every woman ttcing here

Anonymous said...

That name you've chosen for yourself, will be your undoing. I pity you.

Gold Taken said...

Tell him to keep calm and still trust God. Comparing himself with evil can never be compared to the blessings of the one who revers and honours God. Like I learnt yesterday, "a young girl might have the flavour for married men and beds all that come to her and she still gets married. She is married Yes not the blessing, but the curse. not everyone blessed is with the blessing.

Atheist ™ said...

Let him have some alone time!!
He needs to meditate profoundly. I wish i could talk2him one on one...
This is the calm before the storm!
Although life circumstances & hairy situations we encounter shldnt make us question our faith, its life... Life is filled with ups and downs! I didnt turn to embrace atheism cus i had a rough patch.

Kele Bobo said...

Eze 34:27...."And the tree of the field shall yield her fruit, and the earth shall yield her increase, and they shall be safe in their land and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I have broken the bands of their yoke, and delivered them out of the hand of those that served themselves of them." .... I pray for you as you go into a new week, fruitfulness on all sides. No more fruitless efforts in all your endeavors. The earth shall yield her increase for you, you shall not struggle anymore. The LORD shall preserve you and your entire household, no evil shall come near thee. Every yoke upon thee shall be lifted off thee, your time of complete liberation is here. And every power holding you in captivity shall lose their grip over your life in Jesus name....SHALOM

doll (aka) nwababy said...

Your testimony is close and d devil wants to bring bitterness. Poster tell as much as u can to comfort him and also indulge in praises and thanksgiving.. GOD will do it again

Anonymous said...

It is well with your husband. I know it is difficult to pray, when things seem horrible but we have no choice. In the end, we would still go to Him, so why not start now? Your hubby shouldn't give room to the devil. God never promised us it would be easy, but He would deliver us from them. Stay strong for both of you, and continue to encourage and pray for him. God is faithful, my life is a testimony of His faithfulness. He will come through for you and your home.

I am king EZE said...

Remind him he is unlikely to feel that way in 5 years time. I always think in any situation, am I going to remember this moment in 5 years time and the usual answer is no. Life moves at such a pace that the feelings of today soon become a distant memory. There is always something to look forward to, you just have to look hard enough, always remember that when God puts a tear in your eye, it's because He wants to put a rainbow in your heart.

Paul Okah said...

Children come from God. I understand how he feels. Let him tarry, joy comes in the morning. Mama and Papa Ejima (that's what you become),God says that afflictions shall not befall you a second time.He will wipe away your tears&give you reasons to laugh.Please,read Job 5:13-22&Psalm 59:8&Psalm 2:1-5...

Jane's Sparkles boutique said...

It get darkest just before the sun rises. Hold on to God, your babies will soon arrive.

Vicky J said...

God will comfort you and answer you in due season. I understand how he feels, even the Psalmist was at a time in this position when he questioned God on why good things happen to bad people and vice versa.
Just keep praying for him to get over this emotion, that the situation you are in now will not overwhelm him.
There are many things that happen to man that we don't have answers to now but let him know that this too shall pass away.

Anonymous said...

Dear poster... please see God in all these why? i have been married for three years now with no child but my husband is the strength i see because he knows God comes when you never expected with all this i am eve HIV positive but i still see God in all.... as a woman i still know that God never sleeps or slumber,when it gets hard in life always see God...If he hears another person story he will thank God for his own state as a person.. cheers

Minnie Rexpect said...

Why do bad things happen to good people? This question is what I ask myself almost everyday.
But then going through the bible, it never promised us that everything will be rosy but that when the storms of life comes, we will experience calm in it. It is to show Gods glory and not man.
Never lose hope, keep having faith. There are testimonies around of aged women or without womb giving birth. Yours is not different.
I know someone who has been married over 20yrs yet no issue. You'd never believe by meeting them for the first time cos they never wear their issues on their sleeves. It has not stopped them from loving God. To the best of my knowledge they are very dedicated and sensitive to spiritual things.
I'm saying this to encourage you and your husband. That you don't have a child yet doesn't make you less christian and by less christian I mean doesn't mean Jesus doesn't love you. it might be a test of faith for you and your husband. Your husband needs God the most now more than ever.
Are we in the Christian race for the benefit or because of our love for Jesus Christ? He and His disciples suffered more emotional, physical, mental torture than us, they never rejected God or stopped being in the gathering of fellow brethen. The glory thereafter is what matters.
Leave it to God, let God's will be done and everything will be fine.

SINGLE DAD said...

Very simple, google up very sad or worse situations or circumstances than what you both are going through and let him read it. Infact you can even cook up one but makes sure it ends in a sweet way. Maybe that can cheer him up and give him hope. As long as there is life.....

ChyAda adajesus said...

Poster May GOd comfort and replace what you guys have lost. It's well with you guys.

Moncoeur's behbeh said...

God will grant your heart desires.My elder sis lost her 1st child after birthing him, her husband went to prison, she lost her job. All this happened when of course age was not on her side. But beginning of last year, her husband was released, she got pregnant at 43 this year, got a job while pregnant and now even though she almost died at child birth, God saw her through. A thousand days is like one day before God, don’t give up on God course he wont give up on you. Do all the necessary test and back them up with prayers and please learn to love children unconditionally.
If you are in abj go to Gwagwalada teaching hospital for check up et al. God bless and comfort you both.

Anonymous said...

which rainbow na?
Ive been battling with my genotype (SS), tears ever since i can remember, til now no sign of rainbow oh.

IJAY said...

Poster, that SAME God that did it for others, His sure working on your case and all those TTC, only him can do what no man can do, your miracle is on the way. May the Lord comfort your hubby

BettyO said...

Poster I understand exactly how your hubby is feeling because I've been there. Just continue praying for him, he will come around. Get Papa Oyedepo's messages play them in the house and car. God is ever present help in time of need. He will come thru for your family.

Yellowsisi said...

Poster,tell your husband God is not asleep,he sees and knows all,crying endureth for a night, but joy cometh in a morning.He needs you more now and please be strong for him,continually tell him God is alife and he will answer you and your husband in due time.Expecting your labour room drama because i know God has already blessed you and your hubby with a set of twins.

Anonymous said...

God is God. Irrespective of what we think or where we are. When we are faced with difficulties, we should ask ourselves this question: "Am I serving God because He gives me things or am I serving Him because He is God?" When we pass through trials, the ability to hold firm on His word is an indication of the fact that we serve and love Him because He is who He is.
In relationships, it won't be right love your partner only when he/she gives you things. It's the same with God. That's why the bible makes us understand that nothing can separate us from God's love. If He can't stop loving us even in our unfaithfulness, let us still strive to love and trust Him, even when we don't understand His plans.
Believe that the plans He has for us are of good and not of evil. He cares for us.
A portion of the Bible says that even if a breastfeeding mother forgets her child, God will never forget us.
Children are gifts from God. He will give to whom He will give. So while you wait for the door to be open, praise and worship Him sincerely in the corridor.
God bless you
©studentbv

Eleganza said...

it is well my dear! God will surely answer you people at the right time. he knows the best for you n ur hubby just hold on to him because the God i know will never put his people to shame. IT IS WELL.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes bad tins happen to good people that doesn't mean God doesn't love us take a look at Job in d bible tribulations came he still stood with God nd by the time God blessed him he got more than what he expected don't give up God will surely bless u.

Anonymous said...

Shut up you self righteous person without wisdom! This is no time for your stinking comment. Poster needs comfort. Foolish Virgin.

fragrance said...

Seek Ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all this shall be added unto you

Anonymous said...

Dear poster your husband is being as human as possible. When certain temptations come your way kai my dear if God was human we could have had a fist fight to death one on one. I've bin that hit I once said kai na me kill your son Jesus even if I killed him self, I shouldn't be going through this now. After sometimes I was sorry and went back to God and asked him for forgiveness and for comfort. Please pray for him and talk to him with love if there is someone whom you think can encourage him please talk to the person to speak to him.

Anonymous said...

Dear Poster,
I am sorry both of you are going through this difficult time. You see, the God that we serve is not human. His 1 day is like a thousand years to us. I can testify to his goodness in my life. I have been in the same situation like your husband is right now. Situations where I think God has finally forsaken me but you know what? He never has, he never will. I will advice that you encourage your husband but don't push it. Go to God in prayer. Pray for strength for your husband and yourself too. Then tell Him that whatever reason He has decided to delay, you know it's for your own good.
Remember that God might not show up when you want him to but HE WILL BE RIGHT ON TIME. As someone said up there, 5 years from now, you would remember this challenge and thank God you overcame.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Amen to ur prayers Sharon... Our God is not aan that He should lie. He said there shall be no barren in the land. His words are ye and Amen.

Just believe!

Anonymous said...

Madam tell oga to calm down, it will be over soon, i understand that feelings of when will my time come, hmmm live is full of ups and down, testimony is sure, after wedding i heard one blighted ovum, got pregnant again and lost it twin for that matter at about six months, i saw so many doctors with so many reports, some said my womb can carry a baby, i laugh because i stood on the word of God that says we are wonderful and fearly made by him, infact i reminded God that i am is handmaid and he created me in his image and likeness, today am pregnant and soon to deliver no complication or any sort and i still believe that the good work he has started he will complete in my life and i will testify, tell your hubby the truth God does not need man to be God, he is God and can never change, all we need is to continue to pray, he should sirach 2: 10 and see God does not change, surely he will do it for you people at the right time, it is well with you and hubby, take heart and comfort him, secret to life, all we need is in the bible just keep reading it, there is solution to that problem you think you are facing all in the bible.

jelly said...

Oh! I feel so sad for you guys. My dear try to tell your husband that when there is life hope is certain. This is the time you need to start singing praises like never because...your testimony is at hand!

LUCIFER said...

who is this riff raff wanking under my comment?

Oge Ibeku said...

This is the best time to pray. Get on your knees for the both of you. Pray to God to change his mindset. I used to go to d monastery alone cos I felt it was best. Go on your own for now, you will come back refreshed.
The God dat gave me the cutest baby with d cutest smile will do same for you.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Most times, after the test/trial comes the miracle/blessing.
Pls encourage him not to give up.
Prayers will be answered and soonest.

FootballMole said...

Never give up, the Lord will definitely see you through. This is nothing but a trial, it will soon pass.

Anonymous said...

Dear poster's hubby,
God never sleeps .. he definitely knows what you're going through.. and I can assure you that He won't let you and your wife go through life empty handed.
My best friend went through similar problem last year .. but today she's in her last trimester. God will do it for your household.
Please don't give up. Our Mother Mary will personally handle your case.
Jesus never sleeps okay.

Much love as I look forward to your testimony on this blog.
Please fear not.

Warmest regards.

Ada said...

It is well.

baby gal said...

Anonymous15:35,the fact that you are alive and typed this is a "rainbow"...many pple with your genotype have passed on without even getting to your age... Keep hoping for the best, God be with you

Anonymous said...

Let him cry pls. You go seek some more medical treatment. Have you tried ivf or considered a surrogate

Anonymous said...

And what if your next period doesn't come? Will he thank God or will he say it's his 'anger' that made it happen???
You still have a tube and a womb. What of 'good women' that have had to remove their womb because of 'terrible' fibroids???

Anonymous said...

Please don't go there. This has nothing to do with his commitments to God or altar anything. We can't understand it all cos God's ways are not our ways. Who told you those that conceive with ease are saints? God will do it at His own time.

Chike TEFLON said...

Amen

Shirley said...

It is well with you annonymous.

I am king EZE said...

Anon 15:35 difficult things take a long time,impossible things a little longer(it always seems impossible until it's done). A warrior does not give up. You are a warrior!

Anonymous said...

My elder sister had ectopic pregnancy and one tube was removed. She got pregnant within 6 months and had another baby after dt one. Your marriage is still very early for him to worry or get angry with God. One cannot force God to do the things desired but God will do it in His own time. I personally have been TTCing since 2009 and I'm still believing God for a miracle. Your husband needs to be the man and encourage you rather than withdraw unless he is feeling he has made a mistake and wants to frustrate you out of his life because their is nothing as hard as living with a depressed person.

My two kobo said...

My darling poster, please read this book '"when God doesn't make sense" by Dr. James Dobson. That book worked wonders on my mind. It's a wonderful book, it's as though the writer was reading my mind and writing out the bitterness I felt towards God. But that book, will encourage you...

This phase is what it is, a phase...it will pass and all this is to make your testimony sweeter. I know how you feel my darling. God is ever faithful...I'll get a soft copy of the book if you need it. but take it from me, you won't regret reading it

TheLagosShopper(Goods and services 4rm the popular Lagos markets to anywhere in naija?07030493148) said...

Hey poster,have faith!!!!tell your hubby to pray with you,pray btw12am-1am midnights,read psm 57(9xs) anytime you can,may your prayers be answered soon and laughter be brought back to your home!!!

Theyvid Adebayo said...

Chai,even Lucifer dey quote Bible.

charitybino said...

May God grant all your heart desires. Amen
When you start Birthing your children next year, you will start with a boy and a girl.

Anonymous said...

The riffraff has a point. There is something in a name, esp one you call yourself. And be aware, Satan knows about you.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for this. Really at a low right now. When you appear to be last in the race and can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is well, but I am tired.

Anonymous said...

Go back and read the scriptures you also. Sometimes things happen to people not because they sinned but for God to be glorified.John 9:1-3.
Also try not to be judgemental. Matthew 7:1-5.

Anonymous said...

Amen. Please poster pray for your husband and try to be strong at this time. All will be well in the name of Jesus.

Anonymous said...

No be only Eze na Emeka

Anonymous said...

IS ONLY A FOOLISH and foolish person want to fellow GOD and
refused to carry his cross..
GOD IS GOD OF PATIENTS ,,read ur bible..
if you want something good from GOD IN HEAVEN, then you must have patients

Push up said...

Eyya.... in life everyone goes through a test, you either take the easy road out (like the thieves that would rather steal than wait on God) this is his test period and he needs to hold on, just keep praying for him, your season would come, it's not easy but that's why it's called a test. May God grant you your heart desires amen

Anonymous said...

Poster, tell him to make Hebrews 10:23 his favourite verse. It says" Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering for He who promised is Faithful". God has assured us that we will be fruitful and multiply. He promised to bless us with the fruit of the womb and that no woman will be barren. He said that Children shall surround our tables and that they are His heritage. These and more are His promises. Continue to profess these, remind God constantly of His words and never lose faith for He never fails and as long as He has promised, it must come to pass.

Not anonymous said...

I have been there. I remember the time I wrote my Waec in school, I had already made some of my papers from a GCE I wrote in SS 2, I prayed and prayed that God would make me have the remaining two papers from the Waec. I was a very very good girl. I was so certain in my prayers and how much I read and wrote those papers, only for results to come out and I had F in both papers and still passed the ones I had before.

I CRIED! Blamed God, told myself I won't pray again, stopped receiving communion but I was still active in church. To make matters worse I was asked to go back to ss3 to resit. I was damned hurt, but somehow I found myself seeking God again but with so much doubt, but to cut long story short, I resat for the exams, make my papers complete, I didn't even have one D, it was straight A, B and C's. The school's principal was soo excited about my result. Wrote jamb the same year and got admission, just like that.

What I'm saying is God that said his plans for us are of good and not of evil isn't a man that he should like, and His words say those that wait upon the Lord shall have their strengths renewed, they climb mountains will never be tired.

I've learnt now to struggle or quesion God for certain things that is why He is God, he does not fail, his time and plans are just the best.

Dear poster the Glory of the latter shall be greater than that of the former that's his word. Hold on to it, he loves us too much to fail us. Peace

Anonymous said...

I generally don't like weak men. Your husband is weak. He doesn't know God nor read his Bible. Is the kingdom about eating and drinking and marriage and children? What about Abraham and Isaac and Jacob and even Paul. What about Job? What about Jesus sef who died a very horrible death? Jeremiah, Jonah, Ezekiel and so many prophets killed and who lived in poverty because of the gospel. And so many other men of faith who walked with God in abundance and in lack? That is the problem with the prosperity gospel and various unbalanced doctrines and uncalled men of God that blind weak souls love to throng. Christianity is about overcoming trials and temptations by faith in God and the finished work of Christ with the hope of eternal life. Shikena. Every other thing na jara, na if God say yes. Jesus asked Peter, " Lovest thou me more than these?"

Not anonymous said...

Smh. You're almost always yarning BS. How's what you've said encouraging?

Anonymous said...

madam crying husband check am well. The man is regretting marrying you. For him to close the door on you. Ectopic usually happens to those with uterine infections from sexually transmitted diseases. You may not have been a virgin. As he is computer savvy, he has checked it up on the internet. Toh. Intensify your prayers o. Because he will now blame everything in you. Shikena. This is why it is good to be a virgin. At least no one can blame a virgin for fertility issues.

Anonymous said...

John 3:17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son. 19 This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.

All of you condemning anonymous 15:14
Did not read the John 3 in that quote;
God did not send his son to condemn the world but to save
The anonymous simply told this poster that God is not condemning her
but freeing her conscience is very important in finding comfort and
approaching God in prayers.
It is shocking that whenever someone points out a scripture to correct or instruct,
the person is tagged "a judge"
Look at the first sentence in that post up there'
"may the Lord comfort you"
Does that sound like "judgment"
It seems those guilty are the ones screaming!

Anonymous said...

He is grieving. Hold him, hug him and tell him you understand and you guys will be ok. When things like these happen the focus is all on the woman but men too need to grieve. There are many examples of women with one tube going on to have not one, but multiple kids. Am one of them. Keep the faith for both of you pray and you'll be fine.

Pumpkin

Anonymous said...

Lol. Nigerians and our over-spiritualization of everything.

You'll be glad to know that yes, God has a sense of humour

Anonymous said...

God is not man. Nd His ways not our ways.

If you're not careful, this your judgemental spirit be your undoing..

FYI, most times, those girls you deride with your abortion stories we the ones who have it easiest when it comes to childbirth. I know, i am one

Anonymous said...

I must say that how your husband is feeling shows he's human and is permitted to feel hurt, what is not healthy is blaming God for what is not, i went through some things at a particular time and i felt why is it that people who dont love God and not morally right get what they want while i still struggle, then i got the answer in psalm 73(please read it up with ur hubby),u guys will have ur children very soon,just trust God and let him take the wheel,pls please God not bcos of what u want to get but becos u love him regardless of the situation, i can categorically tell you thatn JESUS LOVES U DEARLY AND WANTS U TO BE HAPPY, GOD BLESS U plenty, pls be strong.

Anonymous said...

Annon19:53 you're really stupid. My aunt that got married as a virgin was kicked out of her husband's house after ttcing for more than 15years so it's not about her marrying as a virgin.
Poster God makes all things beautiful in His own time, this is the time for you to start interceding for your husband, pray that any voice speaking doubts into his mind should be silenced. It is well.

Anonymous said...

Tell him about Job. Good people always go through temptation, I don't know why.

Anonymous said...

You had F because u failed the paper, God no do anything

iuleha virologist said...

a classmate of mine lost his wife today due to an ectopic pregnancy and is distraught but still thanking God. you are both alive to keep trying for a baby. Please, this time is for you to bond together and gather resources so that the healthy baby you'll give birth to next year won't lack.
Allow that man to cry his heart out, you too. Then invite your pastor to talk to him. then make love. it's well.

Waiting on God said...

All I can say is, it is well.. Cos I won't pretend like I'm a saint. There are times i'v questioned God. In fact, this post brought some tears to my eyes.. In all, all I can say is.. It is well

Red Wine said...

Poster you cannot question God, everyone has different grace. Do not compare your situation with others, God has the final day. You guys are not alone, keep on talking to him, praying for him. It will end in praise.

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Anonymous 830pm...God bless you joor

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

😂😂😂 @anon 18:28
Chill joor. Its Ezekiel 😂😂

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

The death of English language.

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Anonymous said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Madam 21:04 Virgins will not be blamed for fertility issues. Except they have congenital abnormalities. Simple and short. That your aunt was chased out is her husband's business. If she is clean she is clean and not to be blamed. Can you see how to respond to issues? Not by abusing.

Crazyhornywife said...

Hi poster, I hope you see this. I will be blunt and honest with you because am in same situation.
My hubby claims his not a Christian nor atheist, he believes God is not God but a spiritual force. He doesn't believe in Jesus or the bible or anything else,according to him it's just brainwashing the Christians!!! I LL give you few examples -
My hubby LL ask me prove that God,Jesus and the holy Spirit are one. I cant even refer to bible because he doesn't believe in the bible.
He LL ask me, God said he loves you and has good plans for you right? Why do you have to deal with sickle cell pain???
Why does he work so hard and God LL bless people who don't work as half of him and not bless him?? That does he have to do rituals bf God LL be happy to him???
He LL ask me,why has he(hubby) been suffering right from when his when was 6 (he lost his mom around then and dad never got over the shock till he joined her) . He asks me always to tell him the plan God ask for him??
When he sees kids with cancer or birth defects, he LL ask me how did they offend God?
That is just few examples . At first I LL just tell him to hold on to God and keep praying . But since the beginning of this year, I was praying and told God to explain and visit my hubby and since then I have had so much peace in my heart that when hubby is asking questions or being angry at God or not being a Christian . I am d least bother and I tell him, one day God LL visit you , till then if you decide not to pray I won't be bother. I even tell him to channel his questions to God, he won't answer you physically but am sure he LL know when and how to reveal himself to you (hubby).
My hubby was once sucidal (he feels that's what LL make God happy) but he loves his kids and don't want them to leave with the stigma that their dad died via sucide.
So dear poster, don't quote bible or force your hubby to pray. Allow him to express himself completely. His maker (God) sees him and he(God) knows how he LL comfort him. Funny my hubby is less sucidal now am not on his neck to trust God. I told be thankful for family and what you have right now, some people's fairytale is what you have now . I told just him,today is sure so make the best. Tommorow is not promised and remb,what LL be , LL be. I also told him, one day you LL wow at God,you LL see his goodness esp on me. On your own part, pray for him,that is d only thing you can do for him,till his ready to talk about it.
Sorry about the baby,it LL hurt and suck,it's ok to cry. I pray God grants you plenty babies.
I ask God questions but after am grumpy I find my way back and trust me God understands. I hate when people say don't question God n all sort. God is God and NO one knows his way so how on planet Earth does one know we can't ask him questions???
That is my definition of having a relationship with God.

Anonymous said...

You hav nothing to offer. There is no God to U rmbr. He needs those U will show him that God is never late, no matter the circumstances and situation. He comes thru at the right time.

Anonymous said...

Dear poster worry less, my sister had an ectopic pregnancy in January last year, her own even busted, one tube was removed, she cried so much but was strong willed and determined she must give birth same year by Gods power. she did ivf and had her baby dec. today she is a happy mum. Nothing is too hard for God

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