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Thursday, 30 November 2017

Jay-Z Finally Speaks On Why He Cheated On His Wife, Beyonce And The Therapy That Saved Their Marriage

Jay-Z has opened up about therapy and the problems that led to him being unfaithful to wife Beyonce wife in a new interview.



Speaking to Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Dean Baquet for The New York Times T Magazine, the rapper confirmed for the first time that he cheated on the former Destiny child singer, saying that his tendency to “shut down emotionally” led to the infidelity.


Describing how he had been raised to “put on this shell of this tough person”, Jay went on to say: “You shut down all emotions. So even with women, you gonna shut down emotionally, so you can’t connect… In my case, like it’s, it’s deep. And then all the things happen from there: infidelity.”


Jay said that he “grew so much” from his therapy sessions, explaining: “I think the most important thing I got is that everything is connected. Every emotion is connected and it comes from somewhere. And just being aware of it. Being aware of it in everyday life puts you at such an advantage.”


“You realise that if someone’s racist toward you, it ain’t about you. It’s about their upbringing and what happened to them, and how that led them to this point. You know, most bullies bully. It just happens. Oh, you got bullied as a kid so you trying to bully me. I understand.”

Of his and Beyoncé’s decision to work through their problems instead of splitting, Jay said: “You know, most people walk away, and like divorce rate is like 50 percent or something ’cause most people can’t see themselves. The hardest thing is seeing pain on someone’s face that you caused, and then have to deal with yourself. So, you know, most people don’t want to do that. You don’t want to look inside yourself. And so you walk away.”

Revealing that the couple had initially planned to release a joint album together, Jay described making their respective albums ‘4:44’ and ‘Lemonade’ as “almost like a therapy session”.

“We were sitting in the eye of that hurricane,” he said, “but the best place is right in the middle of the pain. And that’s where we were sitting. And it was uncomfortable. And we had a lot of conversations. [I was] really proud of the music she made, and she was really proud of the art I released. And, you know, at the end of the day we really have a healthy respect for one another’s craft. I think she’s amazing.”

From nme

20 comments:

Miss Ess said...

Oh well! Beyonce is the bae here. She forgave and stood by him.

Sexylove❤��❤ said...

Good for them

Anonymous said...

Nigerian "celebs" will copy her nakedness and every other thing. They won't copy this one; staying married. It is real work.
If they see as little as a chat on their spouses' phones, they make videos of him titled "beast in the house" and no not therapy. They go for CT scan and vaginal swabs and publish the results . . . "he even infected me with diseases, he does drug, I saw him in the kitchen with white powder, I married a beast etc"

But when he was pounding you before marriage, he was "the best thing before the best".

Enigma G said...

Bey the hypocrite. U sing about leaving cheating spouse but u stayed by yours. All the stupid fans that believe celebrities need a factory reset slap

SteffySoFynSoFlySoJuicySoNaughty said...

boy let me just pass this post coz i am angry.






*hangs leg on the wall*

Chyluv! said...

Hmmm. Hope you won't cheat again.

Sally jayd said...

I Would have preferred him not saying anything. He apologised, Bey accepted by staying with him and making more babies. So need for this.

Blackberry said...

As hot as bey is, jigga still cheated...
Lemme drop it here.

Anonymous said...

Vote for femisi , pretty Nd love her quote

Iphie dearie said...

Their albums were so revealing that you would think its made up.
Well, for some.. Cheating,discovery and the path to forgiveness help them grow stronger and better while others can’t just cope.
Anyone that a woman or man decides is still very okay. If you can’t stay.... walk before you seeth and kill someone.

Adanne said...

So it's not by hot bod alone....

charity said...

To me ,everything he's said sounds like what I'd say of my very good business partner that I'm making a lot of money with. No emotions whatsoever. What's my own.

Dre said...

It has less to do with her and more to do with him. So it's not about whether she's hot or not. Ugly women get cheated on too.

Anonymous said...

Iphie, l love you so much. Your level of intelligence is HIGH. I wish l could see you now and give you a CUDDLE.

Anonymous said...

Exactly what BB means. I jikwa ahu?

jumiakindipe said...

Lol. Money makes people happy babe. If they making money. Is all good. When am broke ehn, i feel like walking out on my marriagr but when i work harder and get a bigger income. I take everyone out and all smiles. So my dear, love comes with money

Anonymous said...

That's probably why Solangè lunged at him in the elevator. I hope the woman didn't get pregnant because Solangè was so mad in that elevator and Beyoncè totally unlooked.

Anonymous said...

He will still cheat over and over again. Bey just needs to make up her mind to keep forgiving until she can take it anymore.

Anonymous said...

Very true my dear,love truly comes with 💰,truth is bitter,nice one, Mimi was here

Ricco said...

Hahhahaha! This your comment is tooo personal. Pele. Just know that women respond to love. If you dont make them feel unloved, they wont act out.

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