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Wednesday, November 22, 2017

MARYAM SANDA DA NASSIN DA NA KOYA

Assalamu alaikum Jama'ar arewa. 

Na sake juyowa domin mu dan tattauna akan wannan mummunar abin da ita mallama Maryam Sanda ta aikata.






 Wallahi, wannan abin takaici ta dame ni sosai. Ina mamakin yadda ya mace zata aikata wannan abin . Mu mata fa an san mu da tausayi da gafartawa, na zauna ina la'akari akan wannan abin, na yi wa kai na tambayoyi dayawa amma na kasa samun wasu amsoshi.

Wata sa'in maza ke tura mata yin wasu abubuwa. Mu dubi wasu irin al'amuran da ke faruwa a gidajen aure a yau, sai ka ga mutum ya auri mata, ya ajiye ta a gida, yana biyan mata kowace bukatan da kudi ke iya yi, sai ya gan ya gama mata komai kenan, amma fa bashi da lokaci domin ta. Ni na san wacce mijin ya saya mota, ya saya gida ya bata , amma bisa da wata takwas baya taba ta, (ba maganan jima'i) gani yake ya gama mata komai amma wannan matar duk wannan abubuwar da ya tanada ba su take so ba, mijin ta take so.


 Toh, ana cikin irin wannan halin, sai ya taso wai zai yi aure, walahi, kadan ya rage ta haukace don tana ganin yanzu ta zama kaman kayan daki ne gare shi. Toh, kana ganin in yayi auren bazai yi jima'i da amaryar ba? Ai shi annabi yace in har zaka kara aure, ka tabbata fa zaka yi adalci tsakanin su. Wannan rashin adalcin shi ke jawo mummunar kishi da kiyayya har ka ga ana kashe juna.
Maza, a rika adalci.


Yanuwa na mata, ba wadda ya baki aikin kashe wani don yayi adalci ko bai yi ba. Ki bar sa da Allah, in kika ga bata miki ba, ki nemi saki, ya fi miki mutunci. Mata, a kara hakuri, kar mu bar zuciyar mu ta fi karfin mu, gobe mu zo muna da na sani. Yanzu dai ba ribar da ta yi a wannan al'amarin, gashi dai zata mayar da yar ta marainiya domin ita din ma kule ta za'a yi. Ga kuma baccin suna ga yar ta da iyalinta gaba daya. Allah ya taimake mu. Nagode. 

Nice taku Hajiya Halima



*Thank you Hajia Halima...

31 comments:

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    1. Matter for Martha22 November 2017 at 12:06

      TRANSLATION.

      Hello my northern people.
      I have come around again for us to analyze this horrible incident that was carried out by Maryam Sanda.
      Truly this incident bothers me a lot.
      I am shocked that a woman will carry out such an act. We women are known as sympathetic and forgiving. I sat down analyzing this thing, I have asked myself all manner of questions. Yet, I am unable to get an answer to it.
      Sometimes men are the ones who push the women to do certain things. Let us look at somethings that are happening in marriages these days.
      You will see a man marry a woman, he will keep her at home, providing all her material needs. Anything that can be solved with money and he will automatically feel he has done everything required for her, yet he doesn’t have time for her.
      I personally know someone whom the husband has bought cars and a house for but for more than 8months he has not touched her (talk more of making love).
      As far as he is concerned, he has done everything that should be done for her, but this that is not what the woman wants. She wants the love and affection of her husband.
      While in this, the man got up and decided he wants to take another wife. She was near running mad. Because to her, she has become like furniture in the room to him.
      After not touching his wife all these while, if he marries the new wife will he not be intimate with her?
      The prophet said, if you choose to marry another wife, you must be fair between them. This lack of fairness is what causes very bad jealousy and breeds enmity to the extent that a person is pushed to committing murder.
      My fellow women, no body gave you the power to kill a man so he becomes fair to you or because he has been unfair to you.
      Leave him with God. If you are unhappy in your home, seek divorce. It is better for your dignity.
      Women, let us be more patient and tolerant. We should not allow our minds and temper overcome us so we will not live to regret our past actions.
      Now, Maryam Sanda has not gained anything in all of this. She is going to turn her innocent daughter to an orphan because she will locked up. She has also brought disgrace and ridicule to her daughters name and family in general.
      May God continue to help us.
      Thank you.

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    2. Infact real life husband slayer

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    3. Be deceiving yourselves with prophet telling u to be fair with more than one wife, it is never possible to do so. That is why there is menace of killing husband and stepchildren up north. One man, one wife, God is not mocked!

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    4. The woman will be of regret by now . She is not too sure of the future for her and her daughter. Taking a walk is still the best or frustration turns the either of them to a murderer . Obviously not all northern Muslims believe in polygamy if not she won't have killed him.

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  2. Sandy Yo Yo come and interprete for us oo

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    1. Lool! Hajiya said shes back again and will want us to look into and discuss d matter of this Maryam that killed her hubby in a rage. She said d thing is really surprising and disturbing her as to how a woman could do this no matter. That she has thoroughly thought of it and asked questions but couldnt find answers. Even though she knows some men pushes women far.
      That lets look at what happens in marriage of today whereby a man marries a woman, he will abandon her in d house and chases all d 'chaseables' outside without thinking and knowing d woman needs more of him and his time.
      That she specifically knows of someone d hubby provides every every for; house, cars,visas and what have you but what d wife craves for is his presence.
      On top of it all, d hubby told her he will want to remarry again. She felt like going gaga and all she could think of is, so she just looks like house material to him or what.
      That was d wife thinking he wont bring in another? That however, men should learn how to keep to d promises they made before God. Not keeping to d promises is what always brings about extreme anger and all.
      Last paragraph says, nobody gave us d right to take anothers life, whether d man keeps to d promise or not, just let him be and leave him to God but in a case where you cant just take it, kindly seek for divorce as that will be a better off for your sanity and peace of mind. Women should try and always endure and not let our minds take hold of us inorder not to regret tomorrow.
      That this Maryam will end up being locked and has spoilt d name of her family join.
      May God help us.

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    2. Sanu Hajia Halima,you said it the way it is. If you can't take the heat please get out of the kitchen rather than committing murder.
      Gimbiyana inagesheki.

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    3. Ga hannu na a sama princess.🙌 Sannu nki dearie.💋

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  3. Amin! Ba ribar kam. Kin yi magana da kyau hajiya. Nagode.

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  4. Its talking bout men knowing that most women don't really want only cars and houses but his presence and even wen marrying another wife,they should share equal love for them both...
    Also ladies shouldn't be quick to anger to the extent of taking ones life...

    That's what Google interpreted for me o😂😂😂😂😂

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  5. This is full of typo! The house version was easier to read...😀

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  6. Google translate.there is no gist there joor

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  8. From Google translate

    Oh, this sad thing really bothered me. I wonder how a woman can do this. Let's know that we are known for compassion and forgiveness, I sit down and think about this, asking myself many questions but failing to find some answers.

    Another type of men let her do some things. Let's look at some of the things that are happening in weddings today, when you see a man marry a woman, put her home, pay her every loan, and sees that she has done everything for her, but he did not have time for her. I know who the husband bought for a car and bought a home that was lost, but for about eight months ago, (not sexually) he had done anything to her but this woman did not want all of this material she had provided. no, her husband wants.


     Toh, in such a situation, he argued that he would be married, but only a little left her mad because she felt that she had become something to her own. Well, do you think my marriage would not have sex with the bride? If the prophet said that if you were to increase your marriage, be sure to do justice between them. This injustice results in intense jealousy and hatred until you see one another being killed.
    Men, be fair.


    Women's rights, which involve the killing of someone to do justice or not. Leave it alone with God, if you find it to be unfair to you, seek independence, it is more rewarding. Women, be patient, do not let our heart be harder than we, tomorrow come to us I know. Now she does not have a good deal in this case, but she will give her a girlfriend because she is the only one to do. It is also unclear to disrupt the entire family. May God help us. Switch.

    Nice Hajiya Halima

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    1. Ooh😎 Take note @Bee 10 and Yori incase Sdk didnt post mine abi e don enter spam.

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  9. Matter for Martha22 November 2017 at 12:07

    TRANSLATION

    Hello my northern people.
    I have come around again for us to analyze this horrible incident that was carried out by Maryam Sanda.
    Truly this incident bothers me a lot.
    I am shocked that a woman will carry out such an act. We women are known as sympathetic and forgiving. I sat down analyzing this thing, I have asked myself all manner of questions. Yet, I am unable to get an answer to it.
    Sometimes men are the ones who push the women to do certain things. Let us look at somethings that are happening in marriages these days.
    You will see a man marry a woman, he will keep her at home, providing all her material needs. Anything that can be solved with money and he will automatically feel he has done everything required for her, yet he doesn’t have time for her.
    I personally know someone whom the husband has bought cars and a house for but for more than 8months he has not touched her (talk more of making love).
    As far as he is concerned, he has done everything that should be done for her, but this that is not what the woman wants. She wants the love and affection of her husband.
    While in this, the man got up and decided he wants to take another wife. She was near running mad. Because to her, she has become like furniture in the room to him.
    After not touching his wife all these while, if he marries the new wife will he not be intimate with her?
    The prophet said, if you choose to marry another wife, you must be fair between them. This lack of fairness is what causes very bad jealousy and breeds enmity to the extent that a person is pushed to committing murder.
    My fellow women, no body gave you the power to kill a man so he becomes fair to you or because he has been unfair to you.
    Leave him with God. If you are unhappy in your home, seek divorce. It is better for your dignity.
    Women, let us be more patient and tolerant. We should not allow our minds and temper overcome us so we will not live to regret our past actions.
    Now, Maryam Sanda has not gained anything in all of this. She is going to turn her innocent daughter to an orphan because she will locked up. She has also brought disgrace and ridicule to her daughters name and family in general.
    May God continue to help us.
    Thank you.

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  10. Whoever wrote this did not make serious sense. Just advising women to be patient.
    when a man gets married he should not just keep her at home and neglect her feelings. He needs to give all the necessary attention i.e. "do the do". if he must have multiple wives, he needs to share the feelings equally between the women as lack of it can cause intense jealousy that can breed violence.
    If the woman feels she is not being treated fairly in the relationship, she should seek independence as in leaving the marriage. The heart should not be harder than the individual.
    That's the little I can make of it. My Hausa is very rusty now. Sandy Yo to the rescue.

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  11. According to google translation

    Welcome to the North.

    I'm going back to discuss some of the terrible things Maryam Shew has done.







    Oh, this sad thing really bothered me. I wonder how a woman can do this. Let's know that we are known for compassion and forgiveness, I sit down and think about this, asking myself many questions but failing to find some answers.

    Another type of men let her do some things. Let's look at some of the things that are happening in weddings today, when you see a man marry a woman, put her home, pay her every loan, and sees that she has done everything for her, but he did not have time for her. I know who the husband bought for a car and bought a home that was lost, but for about eight months ago, (not sexually) he had done anything to her but this woman did not want all of this material she had provided. no, her husband wants.


    Toh, in such a situation, he argued that he would be married, but only a little left her mad because she felt that she had become something to her own. Well, do you think my marriage would not have sex with the bride? If the prophet said that if you were to increase your marriage, be sure to be fair among them. This injustice results in intense jealousy and hatred until you see one another being killed.
    Men, be fair.


    Women's rights, which involve the killing of someone to do justice or not. Leave it alone with God, if you find it to be unfair to you, seek independence, it is more rewarding. Women, be patient, do not let our heart be harder than we, tomorrow come to us I know. Now she does not have a good deal in this matter, but she will give her a girlfriend because she's the only one to do. It is also unclear to disrupt the entire family. May God help us. Switch.

    Nice Hajiya Halima

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    1. I can assure you that delayed or deprived sex is not a reason that can push any woman to kill her husband or even to stab even the penis she so misses.every human being wants trustworthiness, honesty and faithfulness to marriage vows regardless wht any book says. We humans, God has put these desires in us just as he is also a jealous God tht doesn't like us worshiping other gods aside him becos we are created in his likeness. Betrayal is painful,hurting,feeling of loses and hopelessness and comes with it. It takes a well grounded mindset to manage it. Regardless. It's not an xcuse for murder.its a big sin for life nobody has right to take life even suicide is equally sinful. Best bet is to separate if u can stand it

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  12. toh ne dai bazan iya sama kaman hoto a gidam maigidana ba. e dan bazaka bane lokochi ba mai ya sa ka aure ne? ai ne ba itache bane da zaka agiyeni a gida ka fita har ka manta wai ka agiye mata a kida. allah da ikon sa ma ya san zan nema saki.




    choi my hausa sucks







    *hangs leg on the wall*

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    1. Hai shi ne maganan cawa. Lokacin maza a aure abun dole ne ba material things kawai muke so, sai ka je waje kana yin forku forku upandan.😃 Rayuwa kenan!

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  13. Hajia halima says even though she is not in support of what sanda did men should take precaution. A woman needs companionship not material comfort alone. Men seem to think when they make you comfortable you should be content. She says even the holy book that endorsed polygamy is of the opinion that you should satisfy them equally be it emotionally, materially etc. A friend of hers whose husband bought a car, house though he has acquired her and wanted to take another wife, the friend almost ran mad cos the attention she was not even getting was about to be shared. She says men should make sure they satisfy a woman all round not just materially.

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  14. All of you translating are ending it with ...Nice Hajiya Halima...the Nice translated means It'me....It's me Hajiya Halima

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    1. Yeah! Hajia ought to have seperated dem words hence d confusion. Ni ce- Its me!

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