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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SCHOOL BOYFRIEND/WORKING CLASS GIRLFRIEND
Please don't publish my name,
I Am a final year student of one of a known university in the Eastern part of Nigeria. I have a girl friend, although she is working in another city but not far from where i am schooling.....
I Am a final year student of one of a known university in the Eastern part of Nigeria. I have a girl friend, although she is working in another city but not far from where i am schooling.....
I met her when I was in the poly and since then we have been cool, but recently she started acting funny, first she traveled to Lagos to see her sis and she didn't tell me..
it was her friend that told me and she later apologised, so she promised to make it up-to me when she gets back...
Now she is back,, she got back on 7th and was supposed to come to my house the next day, but didnt show up...
I called her she didn't pick, I thought it was normal her but the next thing I noticed was that she blocked me from calling her...
Stella I swear I have tried everything to reach her but she doesn't pick strange numbers again, I have sent her more than 20 text messages but she didn't reply any.....
I have tried reaching her through her friends,, but she is even avoiding her friends call. stella we don't have any problem at all,, I don't actually know what the problem is... please I need your red pen....
*You probably stressed her out with your monitoring spirit behaviour,phone stalking and trying to get info from her friends on her whereabouts and that is why she may have decided to ignore you and them..
Just stop panicking and face your books..LOL
I think select you in 2017, move on.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, don't you know the road to her house, go there na, at least let her tell you what the problem is, I have a feeling she has heard from one of those pastors or prophets that choose partners for people. You deserve closure but for now my advice is that you know that your relationship is over
DeleteI think she left you in 2017, move on.
ReplyDeleteDude, you need to drink something with ice floating in it and palpate ur heartbeats...
DeleteI dont know how u both started or how long or how you've been sailing smooth with lots of promises i suppose, but one thing is for sure.. when a lady feels her standard has gone higher than urs, theres bound to be strange behaviours shown from her end..
More importantly when she feels more dominant than a man, she cant feel feminine in contrast to his masculinity, which kills alot including her sexual desire for him, & she'd gradually but surely lose respect for him, & just like clockwork her eyes will start to shift to potential husbands & those with deep pockets!
Try & fasten ur seatbelt bro, this is the calm b4 the storm, shes most likely thinking of ways to dump you, im very sure its not an easy thg for her 2 do cus u might hv been of great help to her in the past, but read the writing on the wall & brace urself for impact!
#Sickmind
Poster,the babe has found out she is wasting her time with you!...
ReplyDeleteShe is done with school,working and the next thing she want is someone that would take her home to mama not a broke ass student like you!...
I'm sure you are a leech too!..
See,you better move on with your life!...
Go and Find your class biko!...
You see those first year students?thats where you belong to!...
They are your class!...
I like her already because your type would dump her after making money for a younger girl!...
She should continue running away from you joor!!...
Savage! Hahahahaha, the Queen take it easy on the dude biko. Choi.
DeleteMr poster, u too find ur level.
Hahahahah.you said it all
DeleteQueen and boss just hit the nail on the head
DeleteBabe has stepped into the future. You were the side dude. Take heart Bro.
ReplyDeleteYou better face your studies guy. You're only allowed to start dating when you're done with your studies and get something doing with your life or better still get a school boo that both of you will be doing lovey lovey... Leave that babe alone she's not in your league, I know you're choking her with all this yeye love because of the money she's spending on you. Your babe don wise up. You too wake up and move the heck on.
ReplyDeleteIf you're my kid brother, I for beat you join self.
She is done with You! Try and move on but I guarantee you that she would come back and don't accept her accept you have done something you ommited from your post. People who ghost people like this always come back. Brother concentrate on your studies and move on please. You'll be alright in the end.
ReplyDeleteShut up. Who they come back to broke ass. The babe don step up
DeleteAre you trying to tell me you don't know your girlfriend's house ??
ReplyDeleteAuntie Stella I love you to the moon and back but your advice to this poster is some how kind of insensitive. Dear poster as soon as I read your post the first thing that came to my mind is your woman has slipped through your fingers. She has found someone else it's possible that trip was to see the new man. Her blocking your number is so your calls do not get through to her. Rather than open up that's she has left you but this is how she is going about it. Just brace yourself up plus I can't blame her sometimes its hard to keep waiting for a man that's not ready. She loved you but along the line of waiting she has found someone who is probably a lot ready.
ReplyDeleteYou sent her over 20msgs,? Mbok that's suffocation, the girl has moved on, Oya face your studies.
ReplyDeleteBros, this is 2018, please know when you've been dumped, abandoned or friendzoned.
ReplyDeleteStella have said it all. Face your book biko.
ReplyDeleteIf she comes back, are you willing and ready to pay her bride price, run a home and impregnate her to have a baby? Or have you been fornicating and that's all you want to continue doing? Have you even ever proposed to her? Commitment and responsibility is what she craves and you don't seem to possess either. Since the time you were in the "poly" and that was years ago, and you claim to love this girl, why haven't you even made a marital commitment? You seem to just want sex and "being taken care of".
ReplyDeleteI proposed to my girlfriend while I was in school; first year and she was in second. She graduated before me and was working while I was still in final year. There was no sex in the relationship in commitment to our Christian principles. That engendered trust. We wedded a few months after I left school; before Youth service.
which kind talk be this??
DeleteDid the poster mention sex or material gains? did he tell u hes financially stable for marriage? person we still de school, if it worked for u that way, dont sing same song for someone u dont knw shit about... do u knw hw long theyve dated? and he should jump n propose abi? you better clam up, i can imagine the poorly put together wedding u did... maybe the church sponsored it, see the stupid oversized suit u wore sef, no make me vex oh
@Erased ink
DeleteYour name says it all!
You don't exist; you've been cleaned out and only air is inside that skull of yours. You seem to reason through the rear where fart comes from.
Sorry to disappoint you. I did not even wed in a church. Jesus did not give the church the mandate to wed; that is if you know the scriptures. I paid her bride price in her dad's sitting room and did a small ceremony, signed the registry and we were good to go. The important thing is, we've been happily married for a decade and we've never quarreled. We have kids and we are content. I feel better and more honorable than keeping her waiting and not manning up to even make a proposal.
Deletebro,i feel your pain.lock up..stay focused...these things happen..i am sure your gf went to visit one of her lovers.next time when in a relationship never attach so much emotion..do your thing and when you are ready to settle down..pls be careful and choose wisely..most of these ladies are gold diggers..i pray God bless you..move on bro...most nigerian ladies aint worth the stress.fake ass slay queens up n down...that saturday laugh was really cool..
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha why is it paining you.
DeleteSlay queens don chop your money dump you.
Do you know how much Brazilian wigs,designer bags,iphone and human-hair lash is going for. I got my last wig for 200k. My cream alone cost 30k.
You ppl will see girl with natural hair doing weaving and doesn't wear designers,you won't go for them.
You want flashy girls. How do you think they got those things that make them slay.
My dear that girl has moved on. You better do same.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure it's even her sister she went to Lagos to see or a man?
Maybe she has found someone ready to settle down. I don't say I blame her.
Before you finish school,that's if you don't have extra year,get called for service,do one year service before you now get job. All this can take 4 years.
I also hope you are not the sort that begs her for money and the poor girl is tired. She herself needs financial help as a single girl.
Just move on and go look for a girl still in school that will value you.
Poster,
ReplyDeleteShe is getting married soon.
Move on.
Your were the side kick Oga. Student-relationship no Dey sweet abeg
ReplyDeleteYou should just move on though. All these school relationships don't work out anymore.... It stopped some years ago. Everyone wants to be comfortable in a relationship not thinking of where the next food will come out from.
ReplyDeletefocus pls don't let this distract you
ReplyDeleteMy friend face your studies, think of how to graduate with a good grade and finally make money make more money, also make much more money.. when you make money you can come back for a better chronicle, big boy chronicle with titles like "ungrateful girl friend" "my wife damaged all my cars" "my mother-in-law wants me to buy her a bentley"..
ReplyDeleteMy brother face your book
ReplyDeleteShe has moved on. Just wish her well
ReplyDeleteDud you have been dumped in a ghost mode hahaha
ReplyDeleteMove the he'll on and stop choking the girl
Focus on your studies and graduate in piece that should be your focus school relationship this days na gate the thing they end and to make matter worse she is working and you are still in school tsk tsk tsk
Face your studies biko
ReplyDeleteGood that women now do the jilting. Bros,marry your book na
ReplyDeletedude so sorry but what she has done to you is called "Ghosting" pls google it.She doesn't want to face you or go through the emotionally tedious break up routine hence simply deleting you from her life.
ReplyDeleteThere is always the perfect partner for everyone, a girl friend who dumps her BF without courtesy of a text or phone call or even a face to face meeting does not deserve you.Allow her to go and look for a girl that will appreciate you.
Bros face your book biko. The bitter truth is that she has already since another better boo. A big fish. I did did same exact thing to my bf last week. Omo I pack d fool one side
ReplyDeleteAhahahhahahaha,this is not new,believe me so many people have bin advising her to leave u,they will be like what does he have to offer? If she doesn't really love you leaving you is the simplest thing to do for her.My advice don't let that affect your studies.
ReplyDeletePoster I swear I know you knows the truth and it will set you free, meaning You want to tell her stores when you finish school e.g my mum said you are older than me, rubbish the girl is very smart enough to pick race before you start stories because after waiting for you to finish school she will definitely will never look same she use to be. Bros go get some small girls and start brushing them up because those once will definitely wait for you. I luv your girl already and I pray she is really focusing....
ReplyDelete#Lose your expectations, just deal with what actually happens*
ReplyDeleteShe just let you know that you are not her league. I don't think you are bringing anything to the table.
ReplyDeleteGo find your league
She just let you know that you are not her league. I don't think you are bringing anything to the table.
ReplyDeleteGo find your league
Isn't life amazing? Everyone has been praising the poster's girlfriend forgetting the feelings of the poster himself. This "she's out of your league" chant isn't right. Didn't she know that before she agreed to date him? If roles were reversed, bvs would cuss him sotey he'll feel it at home. Dear poster, take heart! Concentrate on your studies and forget her. Stop calling, messaging or whatever you've been doing. Let's this incident spur you to do great things for yourself and family and wait for it, girls will be all over you in no time.
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