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Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Domestic Violence Happened This Morning...

He beat her......AGAIN!!!
She has been told to endure but she says she is suicidal.




''hello Stella l'm writing you this with tears my husband beat me up this morning please i want to leave this marriage I'm tired of pretending all is well seriously I've been contemplating suicide lately cos l'm tired i don't even know where to start from explaining i called my sister she said I should endure cos of my kids l'm frustrated i need help''



Her email is chinyereofordi@gmail.com.please reach her if you can help somehow...

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    1. I remember your birthday pic in 2016. You are such a beautiful and hot momma. Why will your husband do such to you? If you have made up your mind to leave,I hope you have plans for the kids?

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    2. That's it. Families will tell you to endure till they see you 6ft below. Endure indeed.

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    3. Eran Iya is what Yoruba people call your type, stay there and endure your beating.
      On a serious note, men start to beat their wives when there is a side chick involved. Go and knack pigeon on his head or padlock him. Get naked and curse his business, destiny and the side-chick. If you cannot do these things, pack your bags and your children, leave right now!!!!

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    4. Women experiencing DV. Pls stop borning up and down.
      If the relationship is shaky,stop giving birth to additional kids 1 or 2 you can easily manage with and cater for. Even ppl that may want to house you. If they see you with 4/5 kids it is more difficult.
      Having babies for him can't heal the marriage. So many want to leave abusive marriages but by the time they think of feeding and educating 4/5 kids. They seat back and take the abuse through their lives.

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    5. Amanda isnt that the reason for this Cry for Help? She has reached out to find help so if you can help, help! Which one be jamb kweshon wey u dey ask? You think If she had plans for the kids she’d ask BVs for help?

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    6. Maybe she ran her mouth too much. Shame on that man if the woman did not provoke him.

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    1. I pray God heal your heart. I will not advice to divorce him now. Call your parent and your sister that you need to be alive to take care of your children, separate from him for awhile even if it's years for him to reevaluate his relationship with you and if he

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    2. He should reevaluate his relationship with you and if he is truly sorry both of you should agree on new terms before going back and above all seek God for wisdom and joy.
      SDK BVN are not calling out any demon now . Eku ise.

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  3. This is so sad.. Please leave now that you can. What kind of horseband is this? God will direct your steps. Please leave.
    Suicide isn't an option.

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  4. Chinyere sorry o. Abeg ensure small, for your kids and for your marriage. Don't leave your house for another woman please.
    You hear? ...πŸ˜‚

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    1. And u think it's funny? mtcheeeeeeeeeew

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    2. Why's this idiot laughing?

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    3. What is funny you useless Don that developed muscles for brain? U forget u have sisters nd female friends right? You are a total waste of sperm and space, foool

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    4. Your father is an idiot.

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    5. You all should go and help her to beat the man or get him arrested.
      Eleriibu

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    6. See this stupid houseboy don that his babe dumped after getting her one ugly birthday cake.

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    7. Don you can be so annoying ehhhh... I wonder if u have a brain sometimes. Seriously.

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    8. Can you guys leave Don and help a woman in need?

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    9. Don what the fuck is making you laugh? Someone is saying she is attempting suicide and it is a fun post for you, I wonder how some of you sleep at night.

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    10. What's funny? If you do not have a sister, chances are you will have a daughter someday. It's not funny.

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  5. Are you sure you are ready to leave the marriage? What are your future plans of taking care of your self and children alone? Do you have exit plan because this is not the first time he is hitting you? I am asking all these questions because some women cry for help and still go back to their abusers. I wish you good luck.

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  6. Oh dear... Pls leave while u still can. Coward of a horseband

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  7. When a man has no money or no work, he will take all his frustrations on the wife.

    Madam, i would have advise you use in the midnight, tie him up and give him better bulala that is when you have added sleeping tablets in his food and beat the hell out of him very well before you run out of the house or use belt on that his coconut head, that would be killing him because he is foolish.

    Sorry. It is very well. Dont mind your sister, must you die before you can take care of your kids.

    Your horseband is an nmeh

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  8. She doesn't have brothers? We so close that u don't hit any female in our family both extended n go free, you must answer questions first, warning second, retaliation 3rd.

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  9. Oh dear.
    Since the last incidence on this blog where victim came back to refute the domestic violence claim I don't like putting mouth inside.
    If indeed you're fed up you'd leave without seeking permission from anyone whether family or foe.
    You're the one at risk not your family or the world.
    Unless you need help, I don't see why you're still typing when you should be packing and leaving with your kids.
    All the best sha.

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    1. She already said she needs help. The question should be 'what kinda help'?financial? I sight an opportunity to get some sympathy/owo/ego

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    2. Proudly Anonymous30 January 2018 at 12:47

      Finance is a factor here my dear.
      She's prolly not working and lack the necessary support system from her folks.

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  10. STELLA IS ON FIRE TODAY


    TNX STELLA FOR THAT JUJU POST. AV BEEN ITCHING FOR YOU TO DO THAT YEARS BACK. I EVEN POSTED IT AS A COMMENT. THANK YOU SO MUCH. THAT POST IS AN EYE OPENER

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  11. Hmmmm. Suicide is not an option dear. Leave. You can start a new life with your children. The best revenge is massive success.

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  12. I'm so scared of this thing called marriage. The lord is your strength

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  13. This is horrible.

    Men that beats women, especially your wives, please what do you gain.

    Woman I pray you get the help you need.

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    1. Proudly Anonymous30 January 2018 at 16:18

      Very horrible.

      Women that nag men,especially your husbands,please what do you gain?

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  14. Happily married women come and console your colleague o, tell her to remain there and die there cause it is the most honourable thing to do. Who knows if she doesn't bash singles self..
    If u really want to leave, you will..

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  15. Keep enduring...even to the grave dear...

    On the contrary, it should be in the interest of children that spouses should leave their dysfunctional and violent partners!

    What's stopping you from leaving...walking out with breath still in your nostrils?

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  16. My husband did same to me. I just arranged boys in my area to waylay us one evening on our back from a function. It was staged like a robbery and their leader was female. She did all the slapping, hitting, kicking and beating. The guys were like see small girl wey dey beat you, mumu man you no fit talk. I formed like I wanted to fight the lady they just said Madam we don’t hurt women o so respect yourself.

    When he got home he said see the way a small girl humbled him that he will never lay hands on me again. I helped nurture his wounds for month and since that time no more beating from him

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  17. My husband did same to me. I just arranged boys in my area to waylay us one evening on our back from a function. It was staged like a robbery and their leader was female. She did all the slapping, hitting, kicking and beating. The guys were like see small girl wey dey beat you, mumu man you no fit talk. I formed like I wanted to fight the lady they just said Madam we don’t hurt women o so respect yourself.

    When he got home he said see the way a small girl humbled him that he will never lay hands on me again. I helped nurture his wounds for month and since that time no more beating from him

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    1. Kwakwakwakwakwa! This is funny.

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    2. LMAO 😁
      Chi chi plz come and take this advice oh.
      My advice is if you want to leave,relax and plan your exit carefully so you won't leave empty-handed. Plz be wise oh,don't make hasty decision

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    3. chai... if only he knows the devil is closer than he thinks, you be Good Devil jo

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    4. hahahahahahahahahahahaha!
      Badass!
      Serves him right.


      So back to the poster, I personally don't advice married women on which road to 'take' you wear the shoe and knows how it is, but my own concern is the poor kids.
      Sorry for the beating.

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    5. Hmm! Strong woman πŸ™ŒπŸ™†πŸ™‹

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  18. In the end, they will still settle with their abusive husbands. Madam good luck.

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    1. Exactly my dear, and they might even have 'make up child/children' join sef πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  19. Hmm... Ma'am you're the person wearing the shoe and know where it pinches... Do the needful. That's how one lady in our whatsapp group screamed domestic violence, after the horseband don beat her blue black finish. Everybody in the group proffered solutions for her to save her life first and then her children. She finally came out to say she does not want out, that she only needs a job that she cannot leave her marriage because her horseband sponsored her in school. Na so everybody vex keep quiet.

    It's more of a psychological issue. Please seek for help first.

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  20. Never you think of ending your life over a man pls. I know you are depressed now but no humanbeing should hold such power over another,husband or not.
    I also remember you from your bday post. Your husband has your type of beauty at home and still beats you. I can't stand men that hit their wives.
    We're these men like this while dating? I just tire.
    Madam do you work? The type of fraustration some men have taken on their wives by simply asking for money for the home in this era ehn. Have a church friend the husband talks to just anyhow,telling her how she can't manage money etc,even in church. Because that will determine if you can even stand on your feet if and when you leave.
    Women pls always get smthn doing. There is even always some form of respect when you can hold your own and the man knows you can do without him if needs be.
    I know career women still encounter DV. But atleast you have the means to leave and raise your kids in peace.

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  21. My dear Stella, you still dey put mouth for domestic violence matter? Eeeeh! Eeeeeeh!
    Ever since the days of bv Flora Okwosa, na side eyes I take dey look all these women. See the other one wey come back come talk say her husband no beat am.

    Bvs will come out and help her both financially and otherwise, bvs who are lawyers will even offer to help with the divorce stuff, next thing, she will say they have settled their fight and she is back with her horseband.

    Make I continue my journey jare.
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    1. Thank you. imagine these fools up there carrying the matter for head like expired gala.

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  22. Please your life is more important, don't die in the name of marriage. If u die, he will bring another woman to the house who will torment and torture your children. Live for the sake of your children, flee from a domestic partner! If u don't have where to go, go squat with a friend for some days while you sought yourself out. Leave the children with him,that way he will miss ur input beg for a reconciliation. Then u can give him ur terms and start planning and saving towards ur final exit if he doesn't stop beating you.

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  23. hahahahahah Minosola you just made me laugh out in the office. Kai i like this your story. Thank God the beating stopped. Foolish man, let him try it again.

    Anon 12:47 that is sarcasm. Are you laughing at them or what?

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  24. I remembered ur birthday post. ..you are so beautiful,don't allow Any man to turn yiu to an handicap .
    May help locate u.

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  25. Madam you are the only one that can help yourself. Stop listening to your sister. If the beatings finally kills you even she won't have access to your kids. Please leave because you need to be alive for your kids. Relocate to a far place if possible the north, find a church explain your plight they will help you. Start with the important step leave. You will survive it just believe. Don't tell anybody your plans. Change your sim. You will be shocked of how help will come to you quickly. It is well with you.

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  26. Some friends come and go.
    Some husbands come and go.

    Those kids will NEVER have another biological mother. Don’t go and kill yourself for nothing, Ma’am

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  27. Does anybody remember when Charlie boy now Area father used to advertise on his show that any woman that her husband beats should report to him and they will beat the guy on her behalf. I uses to love the advert

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  28. The reason I can never date a temperamental man,never .

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  29. I saw your birthday picture and you were very beautiful. Please dont allow your horseband to turn you to frog. Enough is enough.

    God will send helpers to you so that you can move on and think of what you need to do.

    To me you might want to return back if he says he has changed. Dont allow him to change your mind because he will still continue with the beatings.

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  30. Nne go for a head scan first please, it seems he hit your head with a heavy object or a wall. I can see a bump there.
    secondly, you need to plot your exit, it can be now, it can be next year, but you need to start planning
    Do you have savings? if yes, how long can it take you
    If you dont have, can you rally for finance from your family? you can lie that you want to start a biz, cos they may not support you leaving your husband.
    Please avoid any confrontation with your husband for now.
    bite your tongue, seal your lips, wear a cloak of meekness, submission and adoration while you plan and plot on how to leave him
    Does he want sex? give him!
    Does he want to sleep around? let him!
    Because the next fight might be your last! He will kill you and nothing will happen!!
    Its heartbreaking but its the reality in Nigeria
    They will blame you for being too arrogant, too beautiful, too smart-mouthed.
    The will say you deserved to die!
    Please Nne, make your plans in silence. Pretend that everything is fine
    Then escape with your kids. The Lord will help you.

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  31. Na wa oo
    Madam leave this man na, is it until he kills you?

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  32. How can a man have this sort of fine young wife at home with set body after 3kids from your birthday post and make such a punching bag. What an animal,someone that should be worshipping you and showing you off. You are still young for that matter.
    That means truly all that glitters is not gold. I saw your birthday pictures and thought wow see me mate looking beautiful with 3kids already and see me that have a relationship that I don't even know where it is going to. Atleast I have a good job,have peace,and my relationship though stagnant, he treats me so well. He can't even dare tell me to shut up.
    Never envy or tap into every marriage you see online. Just like Tonto own also.

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  33. if u are reading ds,,,,pls pack ya bag & go...u may not b able to send mails next time he beats u.i.e.u may not live to see d nxt day after d maximum beating.

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  34. Hehehehehehe....tuale monisola

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  35. Please move out before he kills you. Think of your children becoming motherless. I'm sorry to say but really you are the only one who can choose to walk away by youself, best we can do is support you by donating so you can stand on your feet. Do you have any skill or job to fall back on? Women lets try to empower ourselves, the main reason women stick to abusive marriages is helplessness. I can't deal!

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