Singer Wizkid's first baby mama Oluwanishola Ogudu, took to her Instagram page yesterday to reveal how she copes seeing her baby daddy, impregnating and falling in love with different women.
She disclosed this when asked by a follower's cry for help....who found herself in the same situation.
She wrote, "First off, I'd like to say l'm sorry you have to deal with whatever you're dealing with.. I pray God takes control of your situation.
Secondly, I Love myself too much to let anything or anyone get to me lol. Overtime, I have come to a realization that no matter how much good you do in life, there are some people that'll still treat you badly or have something negative to say bout you (And that's Lite lol) But that don't mean you got a problem or you're not good enough.. As a matter of fact, it has nothing to do with you or your good deeds but everything to do with them and their insecurities. evil would not do evil to evil (Like poles repels and unlike poles attracts)
So my darling; inhale the Positives and Exhale the Negatives, Appreciate those who appreciate you, Turn deaf ears to those who constantly look for people to blame for their misfortunes. Love yourself more everyday. So your happiness can be full and you can have inner peace, which is all you need. You have a child. You need to be and stay happy for him.. You’re raising a king sweetheart. That should be your Focus and top priority.
Yes, I have really really bad times, I'm human. But I never let it get the best of me, Instead I get on my knees and talk to God with so much faith and watch him come through for me as always.
And Never Forget, SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE. I wish you all the best darling and my love to your lil man''.
*Awwwwwwwww no matter this strong faced advice,I am very sure it must really hurt cos the latest baby mama and son are the cutest ever!#condomalways
Beautiful mama, can't love wizkid less though, am an huge fan of his. God bless you mama boluwatife.
ReplyDeleteWhen they say close legs and behaves like mermaid mbanu you all will say old school is talking. Better enjoy the open legs that brought joy to you.
ReplyDeletePregnancy does not hold a man, you girls will not hear. This is 21st century not 1960 where you can use pregnancy for a man.
anyway nothing to advice una. men does not validate women.
Thankio
DeleteWell said YoriYori, i I don't get what she talking about. Was she ever married to Wizkid? Is she not a babymama?
DeleteMake she go siddon somewhere jare, when they ask them to close leg: they won't 😏.
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U guys r being too harsh!she made a big mistake fine not kul she shudda been smarter ba don't hang her lik dis na.!Stella u keep advising people pregnant outta wedlock to keep d baby n advocating against abortion .with d way u r bashing dis gurl don't u think young ladies currently pregnant wud be pushed to terminate considering hw y'all are bashing d baby mama! #Fendi#Team mermaid also dae everydae#
DeleteChai Stella see the shade you threw at her in the last paragraph 🙄
ReplyDeleteShe's cute too and her son will always be Wizzy's first legitimate son
Legitimate you say?
DeleteRemember he didn't pay a dime on her head. And know that should he marry any woman legally and she bear him a child, that child becomes his legitimate child so all these ones are... Meaning they are *******(it pains me to state this) according to the Bible.
Bastard you mean? It is well
DeleteThis one wan trend? Lol. You thought you could be more??? Pele. Use condom and never give it to man who does not respect you. It’s obvious Wizkid never respected this girl.
ReplyDeleteI have even forgotten abt this first baby mamã.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with them.
ReplyDeleteYou are not a wife, you can't complain.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteOnly a wife has the right to complain in such situation.
Even wives sef no fit complain too. Much these days. Lol
DeleteLol at the latest baby mama and son are the cutest. Moving on is the best thing, after all her son is all grown
ReplyDeleteHian!...
ReplyDeleteAll these Kenyan girls sef?,,.
Why worry about someone that has not paid your bride price?...
Shola is getting child support money from wizkid so why would she be bothered about his philandering life?...
Meanwhile,she do her own coded RUNZ so what's the big deal here?
I pity wizkid in future cos with the way he is going with cocaine,Majek would be better than him!...
Stella too like trouble sha,dis ya comment na wa
ReplyDeleteWho cuteness help..they are still babymamas second hand product...later they will be looking for an innocent man to accept them for who they are
ReplyDeletePele ma. God is your strength.
ReplyDeleteGood for them
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Stella you are a case. But wait what's she feeling like; a wife?😜
ReplyDeleteTo all the babymamas in the house, I pray you find peace, happiness and the man of your dreams. Don't let people's negativities to get to you. You're strong and the best mamas your babies could have. Have a lovely week.
ReplyDeleteThe Shola doesn't have any reason to complain cos she is not a wife, just baby mama. The only time she can talk is if wizkid is not giving her child support.
ReplyDeleteStella mhh...cute, cuter, cutest okwaya. No advice from me, all of una throwing yourself to all these artist get muscle sha. Mention a famous Nigeria artist without history of baby mama. Most of them don graduate with 4 baby mamas. Funny enough, another girl will still be willing to open leg for the same artist. Lets see who he will wife lastly.
ReplyDeleteThat's if wifeing dey his dictionary so...😂
DeleteGod knows I can't date any celeb oh.
DeleteA public figure, the eyes of every girl...oh no.
I can't even date a guy that every lady is dying for or dying to date.
*I don't go to where everybody goes* I'm always different* when everybody are going north I'm going south*
Success is the best revenge. That's the only thing I see
ReplyDeleteYou can't tell a man what to do with his penis. If he hasn't wife you baby girl you have no monopoly over his cock. He left another lady for you. Don't start this sob story like you din't know this was gonna happen. Get over it sweety.
ReplyDeleteSo what if she has a baby out of wedlock, so what if she open her legs and get pregnant without condom, it's her mistakes,it her life. You fall and rise, that is one of the attributes of great men and women. She made a choice that turns out like this 6yrs ago, life is turn by turn, dust yourself young lady, let them talk, you learn from your mistakes,dont let people like Stella who should know the right words to use bring you down..
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your strength.
ReplyDeleteSex B4 marriage is bad. Old time religion is best. May God help us all. Amen
ReplyDeleteGod bless u for that. When that simple message sinks into people's heads, they'll come to enjoy the beauty of life without needless complications.
DeleteI love this babe! "Success is the best revenge" #word.
ReplyDeleteSeconded.
DeleteShe's dating one yahoo boy that got deported from The UAE -rather yahoo man.
ReplyDeleteShe's sharing child support on her son and her bf.