THE BOREHOLE
Stella married woman are going through a lot in this Nigeria oo (you will be amazed what many have to contribute) this our Nigerian men, nawa!!
My husband was on top of me yesterday pounding totoh,no Romance,no foreplay just climbs on me and asked me to remove my wrapper,Stella you know what happened afterwards? When the pounding was intense, the totoh become too watery and ENLARGED THE MORE. (I tried to solve this large tohtoh and I am still trying, someone advised me to go stitch it up)
This man just got up; he did not release or cum ,he just got up and told me "Borehole .Took his bath and went to the other room. (I felt like a trash) He has been keeping malice with me since.
If you make this post, it will serve as entertainment and lessons to many.
Is there anyone gong through this large/wide tohtoh problem?have you been shaled because of it*
WHAT!!!!!.....your man called a Borehole?OMG!!
Well done mama
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Madam pls start doing kegel exercise and sit ups..It will tighten ur tohto..i don't know why most of u married women are lazy..
DeleteI have three kids through vaginal birth and episiotomy yet my pussy is still tight..
Let me scream it loud. KEGEL EXERCISE! KEGEL EXERCISE! KEGEL EXERCISE!!
It works like magic! Una no go hear..Add setups every morning or three times a week in ur house.. I don't need to go to d gym to do that..
Though ur husband is very stupid and insensitive. What was he expecting after giving birth to his kids? He has tasted side pussies outside daz why he made dat statement. Pls don't mind him and work on ur pussy..
Kegel to d rescue..Sometimes my healthy ikpu will be so tight that we will resort to lubricants..A trial will convince u..
***Chy Ozo***
Have u been cut and stitched by quacks? If not, stop judging and have a Stella blokosful seat. Poster, please find a GYNAECOLOGIST (not just any doctor), let him take a look and tell you if it's restitching you need or kegels. Meanwhile, start kegels. Google it. I can't advice you on your husband, I don't know how you guys got things this bad. But all in all, whatever decision you take, please, make yourself happy.find what makes you happy and do it. Find good friends and have fun. Keep your family isSues to yourself, GODLy pastor or priest and your wedding sponsors. Finally, don't neglect your kids in d pursuit of happiness, shield them as much as possible.
DeleteBut, poster, when you said he removed your wrapper, does that mean you were tying wrapper to bed?
DeletePlease, go to okirika and buy hot gowns if money is your problem. Not necessarily for him, you have to look good for your self and kids too. It's all in d psyche
You just open your mouth and call someone lazy, what if she wasn't stitched at all, ? Did you ask about that? No.
DeletePls when he comes back today, tell him what he meant by borehole and tell him you have been managing and boosting his ego before with his Biro cover dick or pencil dick. You will see how he will be shocked. Just be careful if he is am aggressive man and when he accuses you of cheating, tell him he is cheating too. Don't let him bring down your self esteem, mind you I am married too but when I gave birth, my Vaginal is always slippery not wide and hubby called me to tell me about kegel exercise and got me some cream to use, at first he didn't complain but I noticed myself and brought it up. That's how it suppose to be afterall you gave birth to his children, I don't if he genuinely loves you before because I don't understand the no romance part
DeletePls when he comes back today,ask him what he meant by borehole and tell him you have been managing and boosting his ego before with his Biro cover dick or pencil dick. You will see how he will be shocked. Just be careful if he is an aggressive man and when he accuses you of cheating, tell him he is cheating too. Don't let him bring down your self esteem, mind you I am married too but when I gave birth, my Vaginal is always slippery not wide and hubby called me to tell me about kegel exercise and got me some cream to use, at first he didn't complain but I noticed myself and brought it up. That's how it suppose to be afterall you gave birth to his children, I don't know if he genuinely loves you before because I don't understand the no romance part
DeleteAnd stop tying that dirty wrapper!
DeleteYour husband has every right to talk about how he feels about your borehole, especially as he has done it privately, it's now your responsibility to work on your shortcomings or sulk or get worse.
DeleteYour toto is wide and you know this already for a fact.
You want people to help you insult your own husband, the father of your kids! Foolish woman, the joke is on you.
Foreplay my foot, when even with dry toto the prick go just slide through fiam without friction.
Secondly, we know your type; madam tie wrapper stay house 24/7.
After a hard days work with all the stress of being a Nigerian man join, one can't even get a decent sex appeal from his wife and they expect us to remain faithful slaves.
I love being a man and I won't change for nothing, even in my next life. We don't wait, mumble or manipulate; we just get on with life.
chy ozo you must be utterly stupid.. so you think everybodys body is the same? judgemental goat...you dont know each persons story so stop the lazt bullshit...ewu
DeleteI am a man but leave am, women de try. How can a man say such to his wife? I cant even tell my gf her make up is not well made, fear de catch me.. not to talk of this.
DeleteSo you still dey tie wrapper? Na that part I stop.
Delete@miyake are you sure you are okay cause I doubt that. The husband has no right to call her pussy a borehole what happened to telling her in a better way that's not less demeaning and together look for a better solution,that's what a good man does..bet you ain't one that's why you can comfortably spill out trash and FOREPLAY is necessary!!!!it's you type that just jump into it without even considering if your partner is enjoying it or not
Deletemiyake your brain needs readjustment. Haba! So when a husband insults his wife privately that makes it alright. And with something that vulnerable. Which isn't her fault. Even strong shit dey pain talk not of ejecting a whole child. I sympathize with the women in your life. Wife and side chicks alike. Go and wash your head in shokori river in Abeokuta with native sponge.
DeleteMiyake you a fool. I pity any woman in your life. Poster tell your hubby he needs to go for enlargement aging has shrunked his d**k and it's wrinkled
DeleteI have 3 kids and none weighed less than 3.7kg and I birthed them vaginally yet my tohtoh is still tight. Hubby keeps complimenting me and can't get enough.To tighten your tohtoh ladies pls after childbirth do kegel exercises or if you can't try contracting your vaginal muscles and releasing it when peeing. This is what helped me greatly.
DeleteYou were probably not stitched up properly. You may have to resort to a vaginal rejuvenation.
DeleteAll these girls shouting kegel, if you've done D&C (dilation and curettage)
DeleteKegel may not help so much o.
Please don’t contract your vaginal muscle when peeing. It will give you a bladder infection. Just do it once so you know the muscle to contract when you have an empty bladder.
DeleteMiyake, may God punish u and keep punishing u. Idiot! Ewu! Anu ohia!
DeleteTry jaruuma
DeleteWith your wide totoh you can still turn your husband on and make him want you. Stop tying wrapper, get yourself bum short, g strings and sine sex short night gown. Brings the sexy back and stop acting like a granny around the house. Make yourself beautiful, turn your man's head.
DeleteMy God! That's so awkward and embarrassing. I am sorry ma'am
ReplyDeletePoster, he obviously did that to piss you off, & it worked. I can bet you were having a serious issue that wasnt resolved completely b4 he got horny & wanted s3x. You might not be as wide as he implied though, but just not as tight b4 his kids passed through, either way, thats a very bad insult cus even wen u both settle things the stigma will remain, you'd always feel inadequate to satisfy him, remind him that his kids passed through that channel to life, so how dare him use it to taunt you? How'd he feel if you assume or tell his dick is shrinking & ure not satisfied??!! So insensitive.
DeleteGo online & read up remedies, but knw that they dont all work, accept n love yourself, lots of women n their husbands ttc wouldnt mind a borehole, as long as kids rrun around their house. Settle your outstanding issues 1st, then gently talk sense into him.
Erased Ink.
Imagine how bad you must have felt.
ReplyDeleteChaI! !! This man go soon they cheat oootry get pussy thighting creams. But your man no love u sha.that word is too harsh
ReplyDeleteHe has started cheating already daz why he made that statement..He still love her,hw only said that to make her do something about it..
DeleteInfact he cheated with a married woman or single mother with tight pussy dats why he is dissapointed at his wife's own.
***Chy Ozo***
Is he not the one that drilled the borehole to the depth it is? What is his problem?
ReplyDeleteHonestly ,I don't know what to say to this childish behavior of your horseband with a watery mouth
What.. ........, what type of man says that to his wife. God help us. Some men are so wicked
DeleteHi.. Are you the same Ishola Ayomide from Ibadan??
DeleteYour horseband is an IDIOT. For him to call you that he is STUPID.
ReplyDeleteYou dont have to make it disturb you much.
I wonder how man go just climb woman, no romance, nothing. just pound dey go. He be yam wey dem use mortal to pound.
Let me join you and read from people with wide tohtoh.
@Yori I just tire for the man and shame dey catch me for him behalf. Such a man will be a chronic cheat and can even transfer STD to the wife if time is not taking. That man need mental evaluation.
Deleteyours is also wide na, advice her.
DeleteSeriously, wickedness runs deep in men!!! Poster maKe yourself happy.. No one can make you but you
DeleteKikikikiki,can't stop laughing, u don discourage the man with ur wrapper at first na,i heard if they do d normal stitching after childbirth, it won't be wide or maybe i no hear well
ReplyDeleteI hope this your comment is a joke sha. There's nothing funny about what she just narrated. Peoples bodies differ and react to childbirth differently.
DeletePoster,so sorry for the embarrassment. Please seek medical help not because of that man but if it will make you feel any better. I'm sure there's something that can be done. Try kegel too,heard it helps
It's not true. When I had my first daughter I was not stitched at all.Nurse said d tear is very small dat it will heal on its own.My second daughter came out tearing my toto into pieces.The nurse stitched it but it tore when I got home and used hot sit bath.I wanted to go back to be restitched but the pain couldn't allow me.so I left it like dat.Though my third I wasn't given tear cos my son came out very tiny.
DeleteD outter part of my Vagina is abit wide bcos of d tear dat was not stitched but d inside is very tight..na dat wall of jericho dey hard my hubby to enter...
Kegel tightens there for me and d longer d sex(friction) the tighter my pussy. E dey even pain me sometimes especially when am not wet.
***Chy Ozo***
Dada what exactly is funny about this post? If they come for you now and be insensitive to whatever you are going through please don't cry wolf.
DeleteIf someone calls you insensitive now, you'll start abusing them like oshodi touts .
Delete@Omeh,chilax abeg,matter wey pass cry,na to laugh go end am,i get my own too for body,so I'm not mocking her
DeleteDada you talk too much .
DeleteYour husband is nasty and it’s funny that you think it’s your Pussy that you need to do something about than his verbal abuse and disdain. What kind of marriage is this one? Is this how issues are resolved if there is even any? Stitch up because of what? Hian
ReplyDeleteIf you think you have an issue down there to be resolved then go see a gynaecologist because that’s what YOU want and not because of a man you want to please. Do kegel exercises, your pelvic floor is probably weak.
Madam, you don tell us one side of the story
ReplyDeleteWetin you do before you marry with that tohtoh?
How many yams pound am, how many cucumbers you
nak, how many dc you go?
shut up!
Deletesome women are like that, even if they marry as virgins, after birth the elastic around the pussy dsnt return to original state.
Idiot. Who told u dat body count and abortions widens pussy? Mumu.i know u are a man with dead brain daz why u are talking trash.
Delete***Chy Ozo***
ah! ah! what a stupid question
DeleteYour question is so unfair. This poster already going through mental turmoil.
Delete@Anonymous 15:59 et al
DeleteA whole child comes out of that thing called vagina and it retains its elasticity; why?
Answer: oxytocin secreted during child birth or used to augment labor contracts the uterus and
widens the passage.
But during D&C (DILATION and curettage), the vagina is dilated using tools like cuscus speculum etc.
and this hormone does not come into play.
You see why d and c will cause widening of your vj?
Lesson; don't jump into conclusion to abuse people when you do not know
the topic. Feel free to google anything I've discussed here.
Stupid people everywhere.
DeleteMoron Abortions minister @17:21. I did two abortions(D&C), slept with more than 50 men yet my pussy was still very tight as at when I met my hubby, I told him my body count was 3 and I didn't do any abortions, he believed. I had my two kids through CS. That place is still very tight that it wraps around my finger. So your analysis no work. It is the woman's body that determines the wideness of the vagina. Stupid man.
DeleteMadam poster, if you are done with childbirth, go and stitch it up at a good hospital
"Nigerian men, Nigerian men"
ReplyDeleteand you people won't leave Nigerian men alone.
How did it get this bad; was that the first time you had sex with him?
Are you not quarreling before?
What have you told him with that mouth of yours?
I don't do one sided story at all.
why dont some people just have sense! is that the answer to fix a wide pussy?
DeleteU have a point there.She is not telling us d whole truth.Daz one thing about women on dis blog.They send chronicles full of lies to make their husbands look guilty..
DeleteShe must have said something bad to d man for him to say that. After all daz not his first time of sleeping with her.
***Chy Ozo***
Narrow minded Nigerian men.
DeleteYour husband is very stupid ,if he feels you aren't tight down there, let him give you money for vaginal reconstruction now, he should have paid for CS delivery so your pussy wouldn't slack. Please find a way to "arrange" yourself for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS. You can start kegels and other things to help you. It is well with you
ReplyDeleteStella your bvs can make one laugh, as i open this post and read it i just started laughing nawa for men in naija
ReplyDeleteYour husband is mean. Use alum to wash it or visit mama dolphin, sukurat and other sellers of sex organics on Instagram they may be of help.
ReplyDeletePoster DONT use alum please, see a gynaecologist
DeleteDon't put allum in ur pussy oh.
DeleteMind what you put in there poster. Sob that you won't end up with cervical cancer
DeleteThis is so sad abeg. Shame on him.
ReplyDeleteWhat must have caused it? Childbearing abi na so e follow come?
No idea on what to do.maybe surgery? How about those kayan mata people.
Maybe ur husband tin is too small. Na him be the problem
I used to be miserable that at my age i am still unmarried but i thank God cos i know God is preparing a good man for me cos all these nonsense wey una married women dey go thru na wa. Well, i don pray say God na your choice i go take.
ReplyDeleteyimu...
DeleteIf you like marry at age 50, if your man will change, he will change wella... you'd be shocked, you think this posters husband wasnt once sweet to the core, they were all sweet b4 marriage.
oh wow! sorry poster. I'm in deed getting to know the truth about Naija men. so unromantic and are often liars. women are really suffering o now I know
ReplyDeleteMost African men are un-romantic,and a man does not need to be romantic.All he need to be is a CARING man and that encompasses all.
DeleteMany are backward. Better marry those exposed ones. This is an igboman I am sure.hahahahahahah
DeleteThat was harsh, mbok try and do something about it. Don't even know what to type sef
ReplyDeleteSorry to say this but your man is immature.
ReplyDeleteand wicked.
DeleteYour horsband call your tohtoh borehole after child bearing?
ReplyDeleteIs his dick big and does he last long??? Coz I just weak
Just be doing kegel exercise.
Nothing wey woman no dey see for marriage
🤐errrm, gather money, go grandville or kleinburg...for a vaginoplasty, dunno if they do it, one way solution...you will come back new...ur husband nob try..lol...let him help u with surgery money instead of calling u borehole, pray he shouldnt be hooked to one tight pussy out there..clock is ticking...
ReplyDelete@blackberry honestly I no know the kind men wey some people dey marry oh. Nobody should EVER body shame their wife!! For God's sake! And instead of telling him it's getting to her, she's running around looking for solution. The things women go through. Aaah! Madam, may God allow you experience a very sweet marriage in Jesus name. That comment just says alot.
DeleteWhy must she be the one to do surgery? He should go enlarge his D**k
Deleteits very likely that his dick is too small/thin. However there are some tightener you can use (mojo Sensation sells some really good herbs)You can also do some pelvic exercise. Our bodies differs.
ReplyDeleteMy ex's dick was tiny, he was my first, so I didn't know what was up. I always felt like I was loose, and he never corrected me. We broke up cos of something else and I met my husband, mehnnn....
DeleteMehnnn Ayam happy for you, lol
DeleteSo sorry ma. Things people go through because of marriage.
ReplyDeleteMaybe his thing is small so it's entirely not your fault.
My mouth opened wide while i read this. Wow, been called borehole isn't fair, pls u need to talk to him about this.
ReplyDeleteCan u try level exercise while he pound u. Tighten up and relax ur vaginal muscles during love making, try playing with his tool before the main thing so that he doesn't take long to cum pending when permanent solution to the looseness is gotten. Sorry ehen. What we women go thru.
Can you just imagine, women have suffered o. So he just climbed untop of you like a farm animal, started having sex, no kissing, no touch, no foreplay. Then called you borehole.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you are a mother and the children you bore for him may be the reason, maybe you had a tear during labour and you were not stitched up well.
My problem isn't even about you having a borehole. But the way your husband talks to you is despicable. The way he just climbed on you like you are his property to do as he pleases.
I have no advice, I'm just shocked abeg.
Emotional abuse
DeleteThank you! I wonder the kind of marriage this is!!! I wouldn’t consider this a marriage at all. Your spouse is supposed to be your friend. You’re supposed to treat them better than you would treat a sister, a classmate, a colleague, a stranger...
DeleteMarried 12 years this year and God, is this man wasn’t born and bred in nigeria I would’ve believed the lie that all Niegerian men are meanies but ehnnnn, forget it!!!
Madam, pick your self esteem from the floor and don’t let that man run you down!!! Be bold, be beautiful, ditch the wrapper, learn to say no to sex. You’re made for pleasure not a vessel to be used and discarded
There is nothing that pains when this kind of words come from someone who is suppose to protect you.
ReplyDeleteMine called me one faithful day, I picked and answered, honey as usual, the next thing is don't honey me. You this he goat.(meaning am a man). Mind you, we were TTC then. The phone sincerely dropped from my hands. The words just pierced my soul. He is in another state. I cried like never before. Packed some of my cloths the next day and left to my sister’s place. He called two days later to say he is sending someone to get something for him. I told him am with my sister for now. He cut the call. That was how the marriage ended. Neither he nor any member of his family called me again till date. Heard a lady was pregnant for him then that was what gave him the gut to call me he goat. They later married sha. Each time I remember that particular call. I die inside. Am still here praying and hoping God will remember me some day with another man and make me a mother.
@Poster, You will be fine
Poster you will be fine too. Dont worry, God will provide you with a king that will worship the ground you walk on
DeleteI am so sorry dear that you had to go through that pain. The worst is over, God will weep ur tears and cause u to smile soon. Remain blessed. So hurtful. i might not be reasoning now, but he probably wouldnt have been a good father, better to deal with a lesser pain.
DeleteOnce again, sorry for the pain.
you will be alright. God has a way of showing up on our behalf cos of these things. God's got you
DeleteGod will wipe away your tears.
DeleteKings don't worship grounds that women walk on.
DeleteMadam serves you right. Why pack your things and leave your maltrimonial home because of ordinary insult? Abi did the insult break your head? Abi haven't you insulted him before? Did they commit suicide?
I like men with stern families like that. Instead make you resolve issue or go to any member of his family to grieve, you rather went and burdened your sister more.
Continue dey expect reconciliation call you hear?
Always quick to type rubbish gender.
Now you are a divorcee with baggage. I hope your family has returned his bride price though?
Sorry if am too harsh but there's a lot of truth in what I said, especially since there is no other side of your story!
Miyake you're a very special he goat you know that type that stinks from a mile off !! Smh
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Delete@all, Thank you so much for all the prayers and concern. God bless you all. Its only a phase, It will pass soon by Gods grace.
@Miyake... Thank you. I don't have baggage. Am not a he goat. God made me a woman. Yes his bride price is returned. calm down dear. I will be aright last last,
@anonymous1837, God will not give you another man because you spat on the union when you left to your sister's house without his consent.
DeleteUntil you learn to briddle ceecee tendencies, “he-goat" shall remain your title.
Sis... just be calm and continue in prayers... you'll have the last laugh... the lines will fall to you in pleasant places, it won't take long
DeleteMiyake, its not only the mad people roaming the streets that have serious brain issues. There are some who aren't on the streets yet but their psychiatric issues are very deep. You fall in the latter category. In other words, YOU ARE MAD!
DeleteYour dad must have treated ur mum so bad while u were growing up thus you now see it as a norm for women to be treated badly.
Miyake don't be silly, have pity on the poor woman.
DeleteIs this Miyake okay at all????!!!
DeleteMiyake is trending
DeleteNa una dey give am nonsense attention. Ignore the joker and in time he'll disappear. You people should know that not everybody who comes to this blog is a serious human being.
DeleteMistake, u bastardized. Thunder fire you
DeleteI just hope his dick is not too small. How long have you people been together? you didn't state if you have child/children for him and if this is as a result or the way he met you. Women keep blaming themselves for every damn thing.
ReplyDeleteThat was so harsh from a man who called himself your husband. the truth is he has no love and no respect for you.
poster please no vex.
ReplyDeleteis your tohtoh wideness natural or is it because of your previous life style before marriage?
Did your husband taste the ponyor before marriage?
is it child birth that widen it?
you forgot to tell us why it is wide and watery. Give us details so that we can balance the equation and advise you.
PS: your husband is a horrible husband for saying that to you.
How old are you
Deletehe cant be 18, cus 18yr olds now think more mature.
DeleteChike! I know it's your opinion but biko that's not cool. This issue is a sensitive one.
DeleteI didn't expect this reply from you chike abi someone hack your account
Delete@CHOICE
Deletei asked those questions to know why the man suddenly noticed the "wide and watery Tohtoh"
If it is childbirth , her husband is supposed to understand that a female body changes after childbirth.
If he "Sampled" tohtoh before marriage and noticed the wideness before marriage, he is not qualified to insult her because he knew the tohtoh wide before marriage.
But,
If poster know that her tohtoh is wide and has been sampled by her ex before she met her husband and insisted on no sex before marriage, then it's her fault because she deceived him.
You can't tell me that they have been living peacefully and her husband just told her that stuff. Something happened that triggered those hurtful words from her husband. That's why I asked her what really happened.
A frog does not run in day time in vain.
Remember I condemned her husband's action.
Lo and behold chike made a logical argument! Might sound harsh but truth is truth.
DeleteMadam, we await your robust rejoinder...pertinent questions have been asked needing honest answers
Yes she should tell us what triggered that word. It may be that the hubby has caught her cheating before
Deletethat was how I meet I fine dude in my former area b4 I move, clean and very handsome mature guy but this guy is so small like that of a baby, had to run b4 he say am so wide can't deal abeg.
ReplyDeleteEven those that their vagina has more users than Facebook, will still come & condemn you. This life! It is Well with you. Or E fit be say, your husband blokos be like pimple...
ReplyDeleteMadam, since you are married to this Child-Man, and I can't advise you do harm to your marriage due to his stupendous insensitivity, I counsel you to explore other ways of "pleasurable intimacy". He doesn't need to have the conventional intercourse to be sexually fulfilled, since that is the "only issue" at hand.
ReplyDeletePS: I did not in any way promote "anal". Anything apart from the aforesaid is permitted by moral sanity.
#LOVE#PEACE
pleasurable to who? how much more worthless should a woman be this type of husband?
Delete@girlio, you see; when one is in a marriage, you need to understand that these persons are under a moral obligation to stand by the vows they made on that sacred altar- for better or worse, hence my previous comment. Nonetheless, I am very strongly against the grievous insensitivity of the male in question.
DeleteThis institution of marriage is being fought fiercely by the 'enemy', because whatever a society will devolve into is dependent on the homes from whence the catalysts of change might emanate; for better or worse. So, the issue of prevalent marital conflict is only but a small cog in the grand scheme of things.
Time and space will not allow me, if not, I would gladly explain all what is underneath so many ills of the society today. It all falls according to the cliché: 'the more you look, the less you see'.
In summary, the woman hasn't said any other thing to be the problem of her marital dissatisfaction but the evident- sexual frustration on the husband's part. So, my opinion is still valid till proven otherwise.
#Love#Peace
Men!! what a world. I feel so sorry for you ma'am. but has it always been like that or was it after childbirth? una get quarrel before?? men shaa😑
ReplyDeleteif you have money for surgery, consider it. but if you don't have, see a specialist., there should be something that can be done about it.
kpele
You should have told him its not your fault he has a dinky winky and then you too start to form vex
ReplyDeleteYou want her to recieve correct beatings abi? He may have been beating her before. That type of man can beat his wife.
DeleteTHIS IS SO DISGUSTING!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤
ReplyDeleteWhat??? wide pussy?
DeleteHmmmm... Poster ur husband is mean sha. Were u like this before child birth? Maybe the doctor or nurse that help deliver ur children did not stitch the place well..
ReplyDeleteSorry poster, but I have to ask, where you enjoying it and getting aroused? Because I don't understand why your tohtoh was getting watery and enlarged.
ReplyDeleteI think you should save money and go for surgery, kayan mata will fail you o!
What don't you understand? Do you not have any idea how the female body works when preparing for penetration? It is natural that when a woman is sexually stimulated she will produce lubrication, some women produce more lubrication than others. So her description is apt, the watery sensation is the lubrication produced and the enlarged vagina is just the normal reaction to stimulation and preparation for vaginal penetration.
Delete17:56 na you sabi well well. Poster nothing is wrong with you. Many don't even understand the stages of sex for men and women. Poster your husband is probably small, but by and large he is deriving pleasure abusing you emotionally. You need to boost your self esteem and make yourself happy and lovely. Go see a gynae to be on the safe side. As others have advised do your kegels. Don't go putting strange objects in your vagina.
DeleteHe may be the one that disvirgined her and with a small dick. The poster may not have tasted other bigger dicks and may not know that his own is small. Hence is wicked for bringing her down
DeleteOmg! Your husband called u that? He is a very wicked and senseless man. Mchhewwwsss. The rubbish we take all because of marriage ehn. Na wa.
ReplyDeleteWhat a horseband....... He's such a pathetic fellow for using such words on you.
ReplyDeletethat was really rude, childish and immature of him.
ReplyDeleteIm only concerned about the way your husband spoke to you. Wow! Some women dey endure shaa.
ReplyDeleteIf he's been pounding your body like a machine why won't it change dramatically. Let's just say you truly are larger than normal and you went and got the issue fixed, would this man be worthy of having the new you? You have bigger problems than tightening your private, you are in an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage. Your husband does not respect you, you are just there to satisfy his base needs. The only advice I have for you is to love yourself and to know you deserve better than you are getting. You are going to seek remedy to make him happy, well my dear, he will find some other thing to demean you about, it will be an endless cycle of you trying to please him and not being able to catch up because the rules will keep changing. Forget about tightening options and start worrying about why you have chosen to accept the relationship you are in as normal or healthy. Your body allows you to live in this world, it is a gift and it is the only thing that has been with you since you were conceived, never ever give anyone the power to put your body down! Never ever allow anyone to make you feel bad about the body you are in! Know your worth!!!
ReplyDelete👍
DeleteIt is well with you Sis. Google and see if there is solution, and pray along too. Sometimes, some of these problems can be handled spiritually.
ReplyDeleteIs it only me that thinks this man is not normal. Chai! See insult. Please madam next time never let your hubby see you wearing wrapper. I’ve been married for 7 years hubby has never seen me wearing wrapper.
ReplyDeleteI give him sexy lingeri that side chicks cannot afford. Even if the pussy is wide the look of you alone in you lingerie and the positions I will give that will make you close your legs he will be begging for more. Touch his balls slightly while you ride him and see if he remembers wideness. Why am I even giving you ideas he doesn’t deserve it.
Kegels help, but it will take time to notice the improvement. Please in the meantime, start doing shakara for him. He’s too rude!!!!
whats wrong with wrapper???
DeleteIm a man & as long as my wife dont wear wrapper outside, unless to dry clothes i dont mind, shes my wife & always sexy in my eyes, wrapper or sexy outfit, abi i de fuck the outfit? wrapper is even access for me to be rubbing her ass in the kitchen, i let her wear watever makes her comfy, its wat lies inside that makes me gaga
ana akuwa aka eba. Lecturer...Sex 101
DeleteYou sound extremely immature. So lingerie is your advice for a woman who is being emotionally and verbally abused at home? May your daughter never face such and need to seek you out for any pearls of wisdom to guide her through life's stormy waters.
Deletetouch his balls why you ride him, madam you don gbo. so as you dey ride u dey touch balls? never heard this before o
DeleteYimuuu.... for your mind...
DeleteUna thank you jare. To tie wrapper and sleep is the surest, it is what is inside the wrapper that matters most. . He will just pull the wrapper and everything will be smiling at him. Bathe at night and spray perfume or use roll on. Shave all the hairs in armpit and Totoh. suck him and then ride him while using you toto mingles to clip his dick.
Delete#Toto muscles#
DeleteDear Poster, firstly,you need to attend to your self confidence that has been battered by an abusive mean partner. Take out time to show your self love,by dressing as you would like to be addressed( NOT in wrapper). Secondly, you can distance your self from having sex with him for the time been,insist on talking about both of you's communication pattern. That you are married doesnt imply youve lost your mind-learn to say NO to such kind of pounding/sex,that doesnt fulfill either of you.That mindset that if you deny him sex,he will go outside,you know its fabu! because hes already going outside to know which cunt is tight and which is borehole. Point is the leverage you give your husband is the way he would keep treating you. so please LOVE yourself.
ReplyDeleteyou ppl should leave wrapper alone jo, our mothers wore wrapper up and down yet their marriage lasted... this gen has shunned wrapper, see marriages falling like rain, theres nothing wrong with wrapper in my eyes, its the content.
DeleteOh lawd...wide, wet and slippery is the ish Cos man is not small.
ReplyDeleteThis is heartbreaking! Your husband not boyfriend o.. Cheer up,dear
ReplyDeleteDamnnn....oMG
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, some men are from hell, why say that to a woman you call your wife?
ReplyDeletePls is there any remedy for my case, I've being very horny for 2 straight weeks now? I've been inactive sexually for 3yrs now. With the way I'm feeling now, I can rape somebody o
When you feel horny think of your old grandparents having sex at their age maybe with or without dentures, that will fill you with enough ewwww to dampen any desire you have.
DeleteCome and rape me!
DeleteMy dear is not only you oh, don't know what wrong with me or can it be the drugs I'm taking? I'm speechless
DeleteHaaaaaaaaa, I can't fit to laugh
DeleteYour husband is crazy, after punding the Tonto slack finish he has to open his gutter mouth 👄 to call you borehole chai! God have mercy on women
ReplyDeleteLet him go for enlargement of his organ. I am sure aging has shrunked it. Tell him to do something for himself too.
ReplyDeleteThat husband of yours has no right to call you borehole like that, couples discuss issues pertaining to their sex life. Aside the exercise buy fenugreek seed, boil water and sock overnight and drink atleast 3 times a week Don't over do it cos it drops blood pressure. You will be fine ,don't let it border you that much
ReplyDeleteNo comment,but I go talk make una dey hear now some girls wen like big ****k and man wen dey wan build castle for there,you are on your own.
ReplyDeleteWomen pls do not rush into marriage, take your time, go for a good man, with a good heart. Don't follow bling bling. All of you who spill rubbish behind your devices, just know that God is watching you and karma is by the corner. Continue.Woman take the good advices offered by people who fear God here. And have a talk with your husband, tell him how you felt about that statement. Address it it. Those words were horrible, no one deserves to be spoken to that way.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm so men na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteBut poster it seems you are birds of the same feather with using vulgar language. You sound bush and uncouth. Try n brush up small. Like sb wrote you have bigger problems than a wide vagina which you obviously don't care to recognise such as your willingness to tolerate a man who abuses you. I really have no advice for you other than to develop some self esteem.
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