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Sunday, April 15, 2018

Woman Throws Party To Welcome Her Co-Wife And Leaves Hubby In Shock...

A Nigerian woman from the North recently threw a lavish party to welcome her husband’s second wife and left hubby dearest in shock as she fed the new co-wife.



FIRST WIFE IN RED AND SECOND WIFE NEAR HER

hausaroom posted on Instagram..

''The lady in red is an Iron lady kun san me ake nufi idan akace mace iron lady ce? Toh karshe kenan. Mijinta zai sake aure and she threw an entire event for him. Sources have said that he was in shock. Oga never esperret it. She even went ahead and fed the bride at the event. Gaskiya akwai mata yan aljanna. It must be hard knowing your husband the one you shared space with will be sharing your space with someone else but this iron lady put her big girl pants and supported him. I honestly don’t think I am that strong but then again bature yace you don’t know how strong you are until you are faced with a situation that brings out the strength in you.
Allah ya baki abunda kike nema duniya da lahira. Amarya ke kuma ki dukufar da kanki ki mata biyayya kin shigo gidan ta your work is to make sure you respect her ku hada kai kuyi ibada. Allah ya baku zaman lafiya. Ameen
PS: I said I wouldn’t post unti it’s absolutely necessary. This is absolutely necessary.
Question: Can you throw a party for your co wife to welcome her?






FIRST WIFE WITH HUBBY AND THEIR TWO KIDS.

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    1. Enough money to go round, why fight?
      Our So called Christian men, they have one wife, two main chick, three side chicks, & four bench reserved chickens all of dem on top d useless man who is a salary earner. Compare to This, it's better

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    2. I don't know why Muslim women keep giving themselves HBP. Your religion permits your men to marry four wives, why raise dust when he decides to do accordingly? That's how my friend kept running from one boka to the other in her bid to stop her husband from marrying a second wife. I asked if he signed an agreement with her before they got married that he wouldn't, she got angry and kept away from me. After all the bokas and Mallams, co-wife waltzed in like a princess. 2 years down the line, na co-wife they take decisions for house.

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    3. Eyahhh, this woman is not happy.

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    4. Hahahahah@ anon 12:37
      Very funny one! Lolzzzz

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    5. She 1st wife is obviously not happy deep down....

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    6. Marrying two or tgree wont stop him frim keeping sidechics, that is a polygamist for u.

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    7. Hope we won't hear stories when is time for her to born, hahaha. Low self esteem makes girls follow people's husband. They feel they are not good enough and no 'correct' man will wife them

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    8. Islam on Polygamy


      Anon 12:39, Islam doesn't permit 4 wives. Since you are not a Muslim, don't say what you don't know. The Quran stated that a man can marry 4 wives if he can love them equally, treat them equally, love and treat all their children equally. This is impossible. Even if the man is rich enough to buy/provide same things for them, it is hard to love a set of women and lots of kids equally. It is hard to give them all same amount of attention. Only God has the power to meet multiple people's needs at once. We human already struggle with attention we give our career and personal life ! The equality condition was given to stop people from polygamy but selfish men and misogynists use it as a weapon to control women and to satisfy their sexual urge, selfishness, greed and ego. Same as some pervs are using Mohammed's marriage as excuse to marry underage girls. Even in the Bible there were early marriages & polygamy but it evolved as the Bible pages (time) go along, from old testament to new testament. And in our culture too, our greatgrandparents and ancestors (especially greatgrandmas and their mothers) were marrying young but we have evolved beyond that now. The Muslim's polygamy excuse is no difference from a Christian Southerner claiming African culture permit him several wives or that King David and Solomon married several wives. It isn't to do with culture/religion because as people we evolve all the time, and we have been exposed to education, critical thinking and a global atmosphere. It is more to do with greed, indulgence, selfishness, ego, sexual urge and self-pleasure. Yet in both Bible and Quran, sexual urge and all those things mentioned are preached against. You know marrying underage girls is wrong so why would you think it is also OK for a man to be collecting wives like a trophy! Who suffers? It is the kids and the wives. Even generations to come, it affects grandchildren, great-grandchildren...etc. if the polygamists are rich their riches doesn't always transcend generations, because they didn't invest enough time on each of their kids in order to guide, direct and raise them well since they are too many. The ones that manage to push for a better life with/without father's money end up having to help and look after the large family they leave behind. A very daunting experience. It is worse when a lot of them refuse to learn to fish but want you to be giving them fish all the time! When you are not Jesus! Yet the polygamists are long gone, dead/now poor, while the consequences of their life choices is affecting innocent generations. Such a huge burden. So please stop talking about something so complex like it is basic. Nigeria and polygamy shouldn't be synonymous anymore. The country is very unstable financially and psychologically for even monogamous family who are poor/financially okay/rich/wealthy talk less of polygamous families! Or isn't it this same country, someone can be rich today and living in absolute poverty tomorrow. The quality of life has dropped to a depressing low in communities, in monogamous family so just imagine what it will be like in polygamous family. We need to start thinking more logically and critically about these issues and how they affect us, our family, environment and country at large. If you have a family member whose husband marries more than one wife and she is constantly struggling and running to you for financial, mental and emotional support, and that family member is very dear to you, you will understand this better. There shouldnt have to be any signed agreement between husband and wife, it is logical, reasonable and sensible thing to be monogamous. Life is already hard as it is, why use your own hand to drag more problems in.

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    9. No he has no other side chick, he is only getting to know his potential wife to be. Nigerians don't like being told the truth,so the men lie and when its too late,the bring forth their real colour.

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    10. Same way oyinda (kokozarias wife) welcomed Awele Odita now things have fallen apart

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    11. Anony 19:56...you know that.
      It was an initial pretence followed by gra gra.

      The religion permits more than one so accept it in good faith.
      For me o:
      SAY NO TO NWUNYEDI!

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    12. Idiot man after she gave you two boys that are your photocopy.
      He should have atleast allowed her to enjoy the marriage for like 20yrs before bringing someone in.
      Atleast she will just concentrate on kids and grandkids by then.

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  2. does she have a choice? coming for a tribe where their women are seen as just baby making machines, I don't think she can do anything. she doesn't look happy to me. compare the smile she wore at the party with the the smile she had on in the photo with her husband. besides...this is what their religion preaches right? so she saw this coming

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    1. Cultivating a lesbian partner sharp sharp. When they are thru with the man, we will hear the story here.

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    2. Stella are you seeing the heavy gold jewelry she’s wearing? Who wants to fight over a mans private part with this kind of money? Do you know how much the husband must have given her as consolation, my dear how many broke men have kids outside. Congratulations to all of them

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    3. Even their kayamata could not hold him captive and they want us to buy.

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    4. No she doesn’t look happy. Her eyes tell a story

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    5. Push up,hahahahaha afi congratulations to all of them na ni.

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  3. Over to those whose religion supports many wives

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  4. But when you marry a Muslim man you have it at the back of your mind that he can marry other wives along the line. It's not all who do, but what we see is the guys might say they won't. 10 years later, they change their mind and choose another wife. Any woman who marries a Muslim man and gets upset about this is deceiving herself.

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    1. The major point is there's enough money to go round, those 24kt jewelry don't come cheap, it's when d money no reach na hin frustration go dey. Speaking for myself, when there's Money, happiness will naturally accompany it

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    2. Thank you jare,tell them. Islam allows it as long as the man would be just if not he ll be punished.

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    3. You are right dear.

      She can't get upset cos she knows that's how it is done there.

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    4. Exactly Chikito, at your last sentence.



      chim-oma aka Miss Kapusu

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    5. I repeat! Islam doesn't permit 4 wives. How many of you are a Muslims, don't say what you don't know. Can you read/have you read the Quran? The Quran stated that a man can marry 4 wives if he can love them equally, treat them equally, love and treat all their children equally. This is impossible. Even if the man is rich enough to buy/provide same things for them, it is hard to love a set of women and lots of kids equally. It is hard to give them all same amount of attention. Only God has the power to meet multiple people's needs at once. We human already struggle with attention we give our career and personal life ! The equality condition was given to stop people from polygamy but selfish men and misogynists use it as a weapon to control women and to satisfy their sexual urge, selfishness, greed and ego. Same as some pervs are using Mohammed's marriage as excuse to marry underage girls. Even in the Bible there were early marriages & polygamy but it evolved as the Bible pages (time) go along, from old testament to new testament. And in our culture too, our greatgrandparents and ancestors (especially greatgrandmas and their mothers) were marrying young but we have evolved beyond that now. The Muslim's polygamy excuse is no difference from a Christian Southerner claiming African culture permit him several wives or that King David and Solomon married several wives. It isn't to do with culture/religion because as people we evolve all the time, and we have been exposed to education, critical thinking and a global atmosphere. It is more to do with greed, indulgence, selfishness, ego, sexual urge and self-pleasure. Yet in both Bible and Quran, sexual urge and all those things mentioned are preached against. You know marrying underage girls is wrong so why would you think it is also OK for a man to be collecting wives like a trophy! Who suffers? It is the kids and the wives. Even generations to come, it affects grandchildren, great-grandchildren...etc. if the polygamists are rich their riches doesn't always transcend generations, because they didn't invest enough time on each of their kids in order to guide, direct and raise them well since they are too many. The ones that manage to push for a better life with/without father's money end up having to help and look after the large family they leave behind. A very daunting experience. It is worse when a lot of them refuse to learn to fish but want you to be giving them fish all the time! When you are not Jesus! Yet the polygamists are long gone, dead/now poor, while the consequences of their life choices is affecting innocent generations. Such a huge burden. So please stop talking about something so complex like it is basic. Nigeria and polygamy shouldn't be synonymous anymore. The country is very unstable financially and psychologically for even monogamous family who are poor/financially okay/rich/wealthy talk less of polygamous families! Or isn't it this same country, someone can be rich today and living in absolute poverty tomorrow. The quality of life has dropped to a depressing low in communities, in monogamous family so just imagine what it will be like in polygamous family. We need to start thinking more logically and critically about these issues and how they affect us, our family, environment and country at large. If you have a family member whose husband marries more than one wife and she is constantly struggling and running to you for financial, mental and emotional support, and that family member is very dear to you, you will understand this better. There shouldnt have to be any signed agreement between husband and wife, it is logical, reasonable and sensible thing to be monogamous. Life is already hard as it is, why use your own hand to drag more problems in.

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    6. @Anon 14:17 my dear, you have to do a harder job than this to convince us otherwise. Maybe ask your clerics to clarify?? Cos what we (non-muslims) have been told over the years is that: A MAN IS ALLOWED TO MARRY UP TO 4 WIVES. He mustn't but he can as long as he loves them equally. If it's changed, or it was a misconception, there should be some social awareness in that regard.

      @family the member - Sorry if it hits home, but really I've been told if you don't want fire don't light a matchstick. A VERY correct staunch muslim hausa boy (who is my friend till date) asked for my hand in marriage when i was 23+. I literally said no to my dream life (God dey!) I can't take it so I didn't start it. If you choose to, no matter how much the man claims to love you, keep an open mind. No marriage is perfect and he can change his mind anytime even when the kids are already adults. So welcoming the wife is very much in order cos - stay, she must!

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    7. Excuse my typos. Typing in this mobile comment box can make it hard to proofread/see grammatical errors and typos.

      How many of you are* *Muslims

      their riches don't* always transcend generations

      while the consequences of their life choices are* affecting innocent generations.

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    8. Chikito, my comment wasn't an attack on you, it directed at you and others agreeing with you because I want you to stop saying it based on hearsay. And if you read my comment carefully, you will see me saying men in the society quote parts of scriptures both Bible and Quran for their own gain. Therefore even the Clerics you talk about told you lies! It is all part of their oppression on women. The Yoruba clerics for example will wrap both Yoruba culture and Islam teaching to suit their man ego and big man-nism. Some of the things the Quran tells them to do, they don't follow they will use Yoruba culture to preach and vice versa. I wrote what I wrote for you to think critically. You cant based your beliefs on he said she said. It exact same way Pastors/Prophets/etc are quoting selective parts of the Bible to instill fear in women to stay and die in a marriage or in people in general for their financial gain. When it is obviously stated in the Bible you can divorce on conditions and that giving back to God by helping others or doing things for church is in deeds and character.

      For many years the Bible has been translated to English and several languages hence people are able to read & translate for themselves. Quran on the other hand, most clerics and bigwig refused to translate from Arabic to English because they claim it will get lost in translation and context like some of the Bible did hence people misquoting the context. Now anyone can show up call himself a pastor and be misquoting the Bible. Quran is now in English. But for years people had to rely on Clerics or Arabic speakers for teaching of the Quran.

      Only the decent clerics will tell you the truth. The rest are no different to the misogynists who still lie about the population. Telling us women are more than men without giving us data. Saying same for years meanwhile, population dataset changes everytime. So if census is carried out and valid data are shown, we will be able to see how the population evolves. But they continue to lie and say women are more than men, therefore women should accept polygamy. Religion, fear, lies, culture, emotional manipulation are what they use to instill this stupid ideology into gullible women. From observation yourself, you will see how the so called non-authentic clerics and pastors use the religion to intensely oppress and control women; both Christianity and Islam. And that isn't what any of religion preach. Unfortunately we have more of their likes in the society than the genuine ones.


      And no member of my family is facing anything. what I wrote is hypothetical. I am purely saying even if you are not a Muslim, if you happen to have a family member who unluckily end up in a polygamous marriage, you will understand better. And no, it isn't just Muslims who are into polygamy. It is majority of Nigerian men. So that your statement about matches and light is invalid simply because you can marry a Christian Southerner who claim to believe in monogamy and he ends up having several mistresses or baby mamas or secret wives or even bring the new wives home. It happens. Only God can save us. ��

      So the situation isn't isolated to a religion! And this I touched in my earlier comment. It is a very complex situation. Our minds have been brainwashed with all sorts of lies and only few of us see through it. If it isn't religion, they use culture, if that doesn't work they use strength, if that doesn't work, they use our nature (being female with hormones, emotional ups and down and nurturing traits) against us. It is all in their bid to make us look less, manipulate and have power over us while they indulge themselves and live a selfish life.

      Excuse my typos and errors. Having to write via mobile maked it not so easy to proofread an epistle.

      Have a nice day.

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    9. Stella like button please .. I love love love this anonymous comment!!!

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    10. Jeez.... I get your point. But i feel like you're the one attacking me 🤣🤣 Maybe cos you're one of those who read trouble in my comment?? 🤷‍♀️
      I NEVER attacked you in my response (cc:my dear). Your 'if you have a family member' statement made it look like it was a personal issue, especially with the way you already wrote two long comments on the subject matter. My point was and is: if it is a misconception, there should be a more social awareness about it. Cos it's something that we all thought was normal, hence our lack of shock. Just like Freeze has been on Pastors and tithe.

      Bye....👋

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    11. Well spoken and written...phd !!!

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    12. Anon 17:23May God Bless you and your generations,I never knew we had such intelligent woman on this blog.

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  5. Maybe she took classes from that group on fb . Extra ordinary mum's and single ladies . I shake my head at Nigerian women mentality(well some). The things I see(saw) there.

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    1. Wawuuuuu... there’s an FB group teaching women how to do stuff like this?

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  6. The first wife looks...resigned. Not jealous of Muslim women who are expected to be okay with sharing their husbands. It is well.

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  7. So one toto is just not enough for him he needed an extra one. Its not like he doesn't even have side chicks oooh. These Hausa men and Toto ehn. Choi!!! God forbid

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  8. She tried o!! Well they've been trained to expect other women in their homes. Thats how my hausa oga who is still in his early thirties said he'll like to marry another wife that he cant keep eating egusi everyday, he'll also like to eat ogbono too, I just weak lol

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    1. Nne! They try and even take care of their wives. Not like some others that will marry one wife and not even be able to support her with bills.

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    2. You are right. They indeed take care of their wives and kids.

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  9. A case of, Keep your friends close & your enemies closer. Na so rat dey blow breeze, dey chew you & the tin will be sweeting you. The second wife should be afraid, be very afraid...

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    1. Second wife and hubby should be afraid. First wife is a silent fighter

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    2. Seconded. You dey think.

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  10. She got no choice, either she welcomes her and they live in peace or they live and fight like cat and rat

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  11. The husband and second wife should fear this lady! She is very very smart. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Chai!

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    1. My thought exactly. This 2nd wife is automatically wrapped in her hand right now

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    2. This is exactly what i'd do...Stella marriage life and all aint easy. See strategy..Strong Woman..Her husband is fucked and he certainly is at loss as regards what to do next..The young wife will stay LOYAL for life as far as the older lady keeps playing her cards well.I will do you a mail one of these days...OLD BV

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  12. The man is in deep sheeet but he doesn't know it yet...

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  13. I don't see anything strange there.

    She knew it would happen someday and he's entitled to marry more than one wife and there's nothing she can do about it.

    She gat no choice but to accept it.

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    1. You don't see anything new? The new thing is that SHE THREW A PARTY.

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    2. She gat no choice na so she had to do it so as not to show her jealousness.

      If you cannot beat them you join them. Don't you get it?

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    3. Lady stainless, your last line is not applicable here. Are you educated???

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    4. The funny thing is the first wifes mother sef may be a 4th wife herself. They all probably grew up in polygamous homes themselves.
      I think as a Moslem woman you should probably just have it at the back of your mind that this may happen.
      It's not easy though. I can't share my husband o.
      It's just like Rahma Indimi that divorced Mohammed babangida bcos of the 2nd wife. Atleast that made the marriage have hiccups. But she herself her mum is the first wife and their dad has other wives. So really not all Moslems especially younger generations aren't happy with polygamy. Some grew up with it and don't want it for themselves bcos of the bad experiences they or their mothers experienced.

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    5. Anonymous, what's not applicable here?

      Since she cannot stop the man from marrying a second wife, she has to accept it. Or is there anything she could have done about it?

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    6. Yes oh beds and roses.

      Can't share husband either, common boyfriend sef no easy, let alone husband.

      I know for sure they wouldn't want to have rivals and aren't happy about it, but they have to accept their fate.

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  14. She was prepared for the worse.

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  15. She was prepared for the worse.

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  16. Quaran insist on treating them equally and because that is impossible for any human being, to please God in your ways, stick to one woman. Hausa, yoruba and other muslims around the world doing otherwise are doing it to satisfy their sexual appetite and the religion that makes woman deaf, blind and dumb won't welcome women opinion on this. If I talk like come and defend yourself. Except the man na demigod, why should I allow a stinking thing that just screw another enter me in the name of religion. What if the other woman sleep around, how do I protect myself from STI and HIV. And the rivalry with my pikin must succeed pass your own na anotherlevel of juju. Thanks for the observation, the smile for the pictures says it all. She go fight back spiritually you just watch.

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    1. Pssst! ☝️
      I've seen an igbo Muslim before 😁in abuja hustling contracts 🤣🤣

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    2. @ Chiki
      I am sure that Ibo guy joined Islam cos of the Contracts

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    3. Lilly before nko. I had an igbo guy who was a batch before me during nysc; he converted to Islam and nearly got drowned with gifts, money and goodwill. Immediately he finished service, he traveled out (courtesy of the same good will) & returned back to his former faith. The guy is an ogbologbo thief!
      Any igbo guy that says he's a Muslim is nothing but a thief 😂

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    4. @Lilly and Ralu Hmmm! You've seen it naau. I no talk anything ooooohhh 🤣🤣 *yimu* Later Kanu supporters will say we should join the land of the rising sun. As if we don't know they always have a plan B-Z 🤣🤣🤣

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    5. You talk too much, why bring in kanu's talk,you are so used to Nigeria's suffering that you don't want to try something new,what if Nigeria finally split,will you kill yourself.I pity the guy that will marry you,Yinmu isn't for women of class.

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  17. Do they have threesomes together?

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  18. Arrrr...just thinking...

    What if they are lesbian partners?

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  19. She is a good woman.

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  20. God hearted woman.

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  21. She is indeed a good woman

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    1. Good Woman you say..............STRONG woman ..Master Strategist...More to unfold

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  22. If not that they indicated in the picture who the 1st wife is, I would have said it was the new wifey who smiling widely drapes her arm over her senior shoulder and that one is standing like a meek lamb looking like a new wife.
    Megida and the new amaria will not know what will hit them when it happens.

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    1. Kikikikikikiki my observation too

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    2. What are men looking for sef? From toto to toto

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    3. 17:17 that is all they are looking for. Just any hole they can excrete inside.

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    4. If women hold themselves in high esteem,men will not try this rubbish, can you try this rubbish with a white woman? Most women have low self esteem that is the reason they are treated like rats,when even BAbangida hasn't remarried after the death of his wife,then what excuse does this man have?

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  23. good for him. unlike our igbo bros that keep 3 or 4 side chics by the side. marry kwanu they won't marry n d stupid girls go dey damage their wombs on abortion. Smh

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  24. allah ya baku zaman lafia indeed....abun banza...i will feed you poison..can never organise any party for any body...cannever be a second wife to any man...if my husband decides to take a second wife, his cross. i will move on with my life and let them enjoy each other. marriage is not do or die abeg

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