tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post8718035782164774849..comments2024-03-29T15:51:40.252+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: A Wedding Was Cancelled...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger162125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18402484800520139332016-12-20T22:17:25.701+01:002016-12-20T22:17:25.701+01:00I wonder if HIV/AIDS would recognize that she was ...I wonder if HIV/AIDS would recognize that she was trying to be a dutiful and honest wife when she decides to account for herself alone and leaves the husband to do as he pleases and catch all sorts out there to bring home to her. Abeg ces la vie, you're not making any sense in this context. They both need to be accountable to themselves and each other otherwise the good one among them suffers due to the bad one's conduct/actions/extramarital activities. It is not in every situation that you have to bury your head in the sand as long just because you're the one doing what is right. No no!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18843311336688004802016-12-19T12:27:03.035+01:002016-12-19T12:27:03.035+01:00Ah hear.. Them no serious at allAh hear.. Them no serious at allAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07195046763923641670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6538396773757525322016-12-19T09:49:21.296+01:002016-12-19T09:49:21.296+01:00That's my place with our strong tradition.That's my place with our strong tradition. Cynhams Cakes, Abuja. Home delivery 07034794947https://www.blogger.com/profile/06077901858320547465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-10723233895394670832016-12-19T08:41:43.122+01:002016-12-19T08:41:43.122+01:00If the man refuses to accept the return of the bri...If the man refuses to accept the return of the bride price, the lady in question should file for the dissolution of the marriage at the customary court. The customary court has the powers to dissolve traditional marriages where the man refuses to accept the bride price.<br /><br />It will be paid into the court's Registry and for all intents and purposes that marriage ceases to exist in law and tradition. You can "cage" a wife by refusing to collect the bride price you paid. I hope lady gets legal advice.Ronalda.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-75429512650784806772016-12-19T08:30:26.304+01:002016-12-19T08:30:26.304+01:00You guys fail to realise that this is a traditiona...You guys fail to realise that this is a traditional marriage. The husband is not expected to be faithful because he can marry other women. It is unfair but that's tradition for you. It's marriages conducted at the Registry or at a church authorised to wed and issue certificates, that both parties take the same oath and infidelity by both the man and the woman, is forbidden.Ronalda.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26827740627452476092016-12-19T08:18:09.888+01:002016-12-19T08:18:09.888+01:00Relax guys, traditional marriage is also known as ...Relax guys, traditional marriage is also known as polygamous marriage. It allows the man marry other women but it forbids the wife "having" other men.<br /><br />If you want "equal rights", which is more enforceable in theory than in practice, insist on marriage under the Act, which is conducted at the Registry or at a church licensed to wed couples and issue Marriage certificates.<br /><br />Most traditions are unfair to women and has been in existence for centuries, but it is what it is. You either subject yourself to it or refuse to be bound by it.βRonalda.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-2412527409463939382016-12-19T08:09:56.099+01:002016-12-19T08:09:56.099+01:00There s not trust in d relationship from d beginni...There s not trust in d relationship from d beginning.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-42534475086926796812016-12-19T08:02:52.372+01:002016-12-19T08:02:52.372+01:00Stellz, by now you ought to realise "gender e...Stellz, by now you ought to realise "gender equality" in cases of marriage or infidelity can never be attainable, especially in countries like Nigeria. It will be a monumental waste of time and energy to keep the debate on. For one, traditional marriage, which is one of the 2 valid marriagesβ in Nigeria, clothes the man with the right to marry more than one wife. Surprisingly, a lot of people, women included, favour traditional marriage to marriage under the Act (Registry or Church wedding). A lot of people have more regard for the payment of the dowry Β or bride price than the marriage certificate issued at the Registry or in a licensed church.<br /><br />Clearly, the instant cases is about a traditional marriage where the man can sleep with and marry other women but the wife is not permitted to sleep with or marry another man. Polygamy is accepted by tradition but polyandry is considered a taboo. So how can you wonder whether the man was asked to make the same oath? Of course he wasn't. That would be untraditional. It's only marriage under the Act that somewhat insulates the wife. She can file for divorce on grounds of adultery if her husband cheats (we all know it's still the woman who will be under attack if she chooses to exercise this right). Secondly, once a man marries under the Act, he can no longer marry a 2nd wife, even under tradition, without dissolving the 1st marriage. If he goes ahead to pay the bride price of another woman while his 1st marriage subsists, that amounts to bigamy, a criminal offence (of course, a lot of women are still discouraged from filing criminal charges against their husbands, plus a lot of courts will frustrate the complainant till she has no choice than to withdraw the charge and settled her marital issues at home). You see? Even when the law protects a woman's interests, it's still almost impractical.<br /><br />I'm not sure why the lady in question refused to swear but I commend her guts. I'm a stickler for honesty, no matter the backlash. It's also possible that her faith forbids her swearing. We should also consider the fact that she was blindsided. Perhaps she had no idea that she will be asked to take such an oath. A lot of oaths taken in traditional marriages are fetish because the "enforcer" of the oaths are the village deity.<br />Ronalda.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-29593141429671759082016-12-19T07:58:46.433+01:002016-12-19T07:58:46.433+01:00Not believing this story.Not believing this story.Stella Maris babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15931339985365235954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-24440898385464352502016-12-19T07:46:11.261+01:002016-12-19T07:46:11.261+01:00ππππππππππππππStella Maris babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15931339985365235954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46132785888846444752016-12-19T07:45:51.546+01:002016-12-19T07:45:51.546+01:00Seconded
Nonsense oath.Seconded<br /><br />Nonsense oath.Stella Maris babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15931339985365235954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15783228406426717352016-12-19T07:41:14.514+01:002016-12-19T07:41:14.514+01:00ππππππππππππππππππππππππππππStella Maris babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15931339985365235954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-63447061299470523122016-12-19T07:27:35.544+01:002016-12-19T07:27:35.544+01:00Hahahahhah join golden morn to the 'oats' ...Hahahahhah join golden morn to the 'oats' LOL Green Fieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09454365707182403424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-20434253803122535382016-12-19T07:24:55.154+01:002016-12-19T07:24:55.154+01:00Just imagine!! Men anyway most men are extremely s...Just imagine!! Men anyway most men are extremely selfish. Girl did d right thin bikoGreen Fieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09454365707182403424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-70202597124075988852016-12-19T07:19:46.424+01:002016-12-19T07:19:46.424+01:00My hubby people say if a married woman starts slee...My hubby people say if a married woman starts sleeping around with other men and the husband knows and refuses to talk that things will be difficult for the man .<br />They told me this before marriage , I had to tell my papa say abeg u go need to tell them too say if a married man sleeps with any other woman apart from his wife , he will run mad for life and that the madness no get cure.<br />Trust my papa na, him give them the history when I was absent na so hubby tell me , I pretended not to be aware my papa passed dat message.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59794160616379795202016-12-19T07:13:40.976+01:002016-12-19T07:13:40.976+01:00Why should the woman take the oath alone. She gave...Why should the woman take the oath alone. She gave herself brain. What nonsense.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11014971388187958968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79749503231806609222016-12-19T03:20:28.167+01:002016-12-19T03:20:28.167+01:00Enuguezike in Enugu state still do it but there me...Enuguezike in Enugu state still do it but there men takes care of their wives cos they don't waste time in divorcing them if they mess up Amacastelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13553010097277607629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-27158110247331083892016-12-19T03:15:05.138+01:002016-12-19T03:15:05.138+01:00Peace maker bring ur sister & daughters to swe...Peace maker bring ur sister & daughters to swear onuku Amacastelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13553010097277607629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47752649971211218922016-12-19T02:42:13.051+01:002016-12-19T02:42:13.051+01:00The place you are talking about is Agbor,delta sta...The place you are talking about is Agbor,delta stateBettynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8635932244647933812016-12-19T00:39:19.258+01:002016-12-19T00:39:19.258+01:00Thanks for the information @ precix cakes but my q...Thanks for the information @ precix cakes but my question is ....Was the bride not aware of this oath taking ceremony? Am a man and married for 15years and I don't agree that she should take any oath unless the man takes it first. He is the head and should lead by example if his intention is pure and innocent. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59754718930760893922016-12-19T00:22:41.789+01:002016-12-19T00:22:41.789+01:00Correct guyCorrect guyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41267798384575348932016-12-19T00:21:38.325+01:002016-12-19T00:21:38.325+01:00Mayor
He can marry more what??? Like he can contin...Mayor<br />He can marry more what??? Like he can continue polluting the world? Indeed you have head but no brain.<br />White men done use the title MAN wey u dey use anyhow take invent things to better your life. Y are u still living below expectation when other people have gone ahead of u? There is more to being a man, start thinking, talking and acting like one. Africa men take your rightful place and forget a these menial topics(witchcraft).<br /><br />MarjorieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-30993118188396726602016-12-19T00:01:45.833+01:002016-12-19T00:01:45.833+01:00Loooolz @ anon 18:00Loooolz @ anon 18:00Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-67634848657790523032016-12-18T23:56:09.506+01:002016-12-18T23:56:09.506+01:00While as a married man fuck the whole world bah???...While as a married man fuck the whole world bah???<br />I can you have head but where is your brain???<br />Empty case!<br /><br />MarjorieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-90226654907028185772016-12-18T23:50:30.777+01:002016-12-18T23:50:30.777+01:00Yes u are ryt and that secret lover is you bah?
Th...Yes u are ryt and that secret lover is you bah?<br />There are no uncertainties here Pissmaker! The only thing on the write up is certain so stick wiv that.<br />How u take manage pass English language for WAEC?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com