New Year's Day Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Na wah!........wetin person no go read for this blog?
Ladies,this is 2015,shine your eyes abeg!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

SNOOPER CONFUSED ABOUT RESULTS FOUND

My story is quite confusing. I have been seeing this guy for about one year now, I really love him but we live in different towns and we dont see often. I decided to spend Christmas at his this year.

I being an FBI decided to snoop around and I stumbled on his account journal. I was very impressed at first, I love a man that is very well organised and keeps his finances on check. I hurriedly scrolled through.

I had already kept the journal back when I realised I saw a name that was consistent. People, my mouth was wide open when I realised he has been sending money everymonth to the same name for four years! In different amounts, from 10k to even up to a 100k and he doesn't miss it like he is paying tithes.

This got me suspicious. I found another journal where he had names and numbers written out and then I saw the full name and name, I realised it was his 'ex'. Now my problem was why he has been sending money to his ex even up to 3months back when we had been dating? Meanwhile the journal stops 3months back, he probably continued somewhere else so I have no way of knowing he isn't still giving her money. 

I confronted him and he told me this long story of how she was there for him when he had nothing, but they couldn't marry when they figured there were of the same genotype. So he respects her etc. My fellow blog visitors biko help me analyse this situation, am confused as to going ahead with this relationship.

Hmmm another snooping wahala.I hope you are happy now.let your co-snoopers advice you abeg ,this na new year.

you used your hands to fish out problems and i dont think whatever he explains you will believe..na you sabi.

oya team snoopers over to una.

Mscheeeew!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

DECEIVED INTO MARRAIGE-USED AND DUMPED

I met him 8 years ago when I was posted to his office for my Industrial Attachment. He was a nice boss and gradually we became friendly. He came across to me as a man who was not happy and was struggling with issues. With time, he confided in me that he had marital issues and his wife was leaving him because they had been married for about 10 years without children, the doctors had certified them okay but she was tired of waiting and believed their destinies were not intertwined and they should try other people as they were both not getting any younger. 

I felt really sad for him and tried to cheer him up the best I could till my Industrial attachment came to an end and I left. About a year after our paths crossed again, he told me he was single and asked me for a relationship which I obliged. Everything was fast, he came with his family to meet my parents and ask for my hand in marriage, we got married and the kids came in quick succession, his job took him away a lot of times, sometimes for weeks or even a month , he isn't around. 

Then he changed, he will complain about an irrelevant thing, if I try to explain, he will get angry, call me a nag and leave the house,stay incommunicado for weeks on end. Ha, I became an emotional wreck. 

Sometime last year, I ran into an old colleague from his office and she gave me the shocker of my life, my husband was still married to his wife, they never separated, like me, she has 2 kids now, same age with mine just four months difference, each time I got pregnant, she got pregnant too, while I have 2 girls, she has a boy and a girl. 

I confronted my husband, he insulted me and told me to stop snooping on his wife and kids that if anything happens to them, he will kill me. While she lives in the highest brow area of Lagos with kids in a school that the school fees can buy a good car, I live in the dungeons of Agege with my kids in a school that combined the fees is not up to 100k. They travel round the world at will, we have never even gone to Cotonou.

 The other time the wife was ill, they both called to threaten me that if she doesn't get better, I will be done for. If her kids fall down, it's me, if they have fever, it's me. 

My husband doesn't come home again but sends our upkeep peanuts regularly 

Stella, I have become their common enemy. I am sad, I am pained, I know I didn't snatch anybody's husband, I was simply deceived, used and dumped. I have a strong feeling he did it all in collaboration with his wife. I don't deserve this at all. The man is 50, wife in her 40s while I'm just 30. Wicked people. My God will judge them.

huh? there are too many holes in this story.
The people who escorted him to marry you said nothing? you knew nothing? you asked him nothing when he came to ask you to marry him?
I guess in your desperation to marry you forgot to do your homework.

Why would you think he planned it with his wife?what does he want to achieve?

He probably used you as a rebound and went back to her.

do you work?if not,please get busy and forget about him,he isnt yours and will never be...sad but true.
May I add that something about your mail just suggests to me that you nag?I got that impression from the part where you confronted him...I am sorry if i am wrong but it is what it is.