Controversy is currently trailing the death of a housewife, Joy Bakare, 35, after she gave birth on Aya-Oye Street, Ejiigbo, a suburb of Lagos.
The housewife reportedly died mysteriously a few days after she was delivered of a set of twins.
It was alleged that after she got pregnant, her married lover, identified simply as Fatai, took her to the home of a single mother (names withheld) in Aya-Oye Street, Ejigbo, to cover up the shame.
Vanguard learned that Joy already had three children from her estranged husband who resides in Surulere area before she became pregnant for Fatai who resides at Abaranje in Ikotun area.
It was gathered that a few days after she was delivered of the babies in a hospital and was brought back to the woman’s flat, she was found dead after foaming from her mouth on a bed in one of the rooms in the flat.
A neighbour, Iya Kubirat, who spoke to Vanguard, said: “I can’t say what was responsible for her death because the incident occurred a few days after she was delivered of the babies in a hospital and was brought back to the woman’s flat.She was found dead, foaming in her mouth on top of a bed in one of the rooms in the flat.
“When the woman who harboured her in the flat heard the babies crying, she went to Joy’s room to find out what was happening only to discover that Joy was dead. She raised an alarm which attracted neighbours. I was among the people who rushed to the flat. The cause of Joy’s death could not be immediately ascertained as there was no report of autopsy from any doctor.”
However,trouble started after the woman who harboured Joy contacted her husband and family members and they rejected her corpse. She then contacted Fatai who later went to the place and also refused to take responsibility for her burial.
It was gathered that Fatai explained that he did not marry her as his wife and as such,would not accept the corpse for burial, even though he was the father of the twins.
The deceased’s corpse was later deposited at Isolo General Hospital mortuary after Joy’s elder sister arrived.
Meanwhile,the twin babies were handed over to Fatai who took them to his house at Ikotun.
Vanguard Reportage
Chai
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
Abeg of a truth , how many of you married women with kids can swear that you have not committed adultery before? How many of you can swear you haven't slept with another man since you got married? Hoe many of you can swear you have been absolutely faithful in your marriages? None? I guessed as much. NĂ¡ una colleague just die so, give yourselves brain please before e reach your turn.
DeleteWhat a sad end for her
DeleteR.I.P
Eya
Delete@Galore
Fatai so while you were spreading her legs and fucking her, you didn't know she wasn't your wife abi ?? Foolish women are easily deceived in believing a man they leave their husbands for would take them seriously. If you cheated on your husband with him, why wouldn't you cheat on him with another ?
DeleteI can swear. Not everyone succumbs to temptation. And I didn't date anyone's husband either.
Delete@God is watching, you will be suprised how many God fearing, virtuous women we still have. Quit using your own morality as a yard stick for others.
Delete@God is watching,the fact that some married women fool themselves doesnt mean all married women are like that. Pls change ur mentality about married women u hear. Sometimes I doubt it when I hear gist about married women and their waka because I wonder how they have time. Y shld I invite evil spirits into my home by committing adultery,. A woman should empower herself and get busy,life aint about sex sex sex
Delete@God is watching everyone. I can SWEAR. Not all married women commit adultery. Most of us r still very decent as regards to dat.
Deletehmmmmmmm. a deep world.
ReplyDeleteVery suspicious.
ReplyDeleteomojeje says:
DeleteAbeg, she probably had pregnancy induced hypertension (higher risk with having twins), it got worse after delivery (which happens in some cases), subsequently had a prolonged seizure (foaming at the mouth) and died.
I agree with you @omojeje that is why proper monitoring during and after pregnancy is essential. But the deceased could have still been alive today if she didn't leave her husband or committed adultery.
DeletePersonally, I have suspicion that my hubby is cheating on me. I don't say anything to him,I just got naked and cried to the Lord at 2am. I did this for 7 days....the holy spirit has definitely chased him back home...on top the wahala wey hin eye see from the waka waka. If he didn't stop he would have landed himself in kirikiri...lol. I serve a living God jor.
hmmmmmmm. a deep world
ReplyDeleteSomebody maybe be trying to cover up a shameful situation here.
ReplyDeleteWhich kind wahala be this? Awkward story and situation. Where's the real hubby? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteWhat infidelity will cause. The lives of her 3 kids and the twins will take a different turn.
ReplyDeleteWhat could have pushed her into getting pregnant for another man? Or was she seperated from her husband already?
Haaaa! I pity those kids.
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RIP
ReplyDeleteThings are really happening.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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So the twns will grow up with out the love of a mum... May her rip
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Ehn her family should bury their dead. I know some will say good for her. Well....not me. Who am I to judge? Maybe she couldn't live with the shame. May God have mercy on the innocent twins.
ReplyDeleteShe couldn't live with the shame? But she carried the pregnancy for 9 solid months!
DeleteWetin u want make I talk? That things didn't turn out d way she wanted. Merely speculating. May her soul rest in peace.
DeleteSo sad,i hope her soul rest's in peace!..
ReplyDeleteTravails of a side chic.
ReplyDeleteI suspect the man's wife. RIP to the dead.
ReplyDeleteAm dumbfounded!
ReplyDeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteNkan n'be...
ReplyDeleteWhy be sey every bad bad thing, story. Na this ikotun - ejibgo???
ReplyDeleteNawa!
ReplyDeleteSee what adultery/baby mama title has caused. The Fatai accepted the babies but not her corpse claiming he wasn't married to her. R.I.P to the woman, God please protect and provide for the babies. So sad!
ReplyDeleteCan u imagine, now d twins will ve to pay for their mother's promiscuous act. Rip Joy and I hope ur children gets proper care
ReplyDeleteRIP
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
So sad
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
We all know that this people are expert in juju. They have killed her with their african remote control.
ReplyDeleteHun????
ReplyDeleteMadam, change your DP. The man's face is not even clear, very dark.
DeleteFor the love of God Okija wife we have fasting Muslims here going through this blog is this what you want us to be seeing during fasting?? Pls fear God and change this for God sake.
DeleteGoodnight Joy.
ReplyDeleteWhat a bad way to die. Either she got poisoned or something went wrong in her body system.
God, pls give d family the fortitude to bear the loss.
And let d twin babies be taken away from Mr Fatai abeg.
So so sad.
Its a sad one,but women when ll they learn???Imagine the disgrace!!!!!
ReplyDeleteShegejagwa!
ReplyDeleteHmm... Ife ne eme
ReplyDeleteHmnnnn mystery
ReplyDeleteWhy will Joy's family allow Faatai to take the babies to his house just like that?
Ghen ghen..Dis is exactly what will befall any stupid hoe that tries tp snatch my DH by getting pregnant for him..Married women aint smiling these days oh...I'm sure Fatai's wife went to some babalawos just to deal with her husband's side chic.
ReplyDeleteShameless woman..U left ur husband to be sleeping around with married men..D dick and d money he was doling out to u no reach u..u come carry belle join..U see ur life.. U already have three kids..why get pregnant again when u are not financially capable? Poverty is a disease..See how u have made ur kids motherless..Foolish woman...Mtcheeeeeeeww!.
All d side chics nursing d idea of getting pregnant for their married lovers,dis go be una portion.
C dis mumu. Who is interested in ur carrot colored igbotic Dh? U are mad o
DeleteChizoba gbazaquin will u shut up ur mouth!! Na on top man head u go die put abi?? I'm sure ur hubby have chains of side chics and u are here fooling urself. Ode. Agbaya. Didirin
DeleteChizoba gbazaquin will u shut up ur mouth!! Na on top man head u go die put abi?? I'm sure ur hubby have chains of side chics and u are here fooling urself. Ode. Agbaya. Didirin
DeleteAMEN
DeleteChizoba, shut up your toto there. If you are a good wife, your husband eyes no go dey outside. U think say na only married woman sabi go babalawo place.
DeleteHmmm! This is a genge something
ReplyDeleteBut wait if he didn't marry her,and refused to take responsibility of her burial.Then the twins should not be with him.....well Dats the igbo culture
DeleteThis is so sad. I hope an autopsy will be done. May God be with those innocent twins of destiny.
ReplyDeleteVery sad story. She most likely died of post partum eclampsia.
ReplyDeleteOMG! What now happened. My God may her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteStupid woman...why would you get pregnant for a married man...
ReplyDeleteHis wife has dealt with you codedly...
Messy!
ReplyDeleteI'd rather not speak ill of d Dead.
Poor Babies.
stupid pretender @general's wife or whatever ur fuckin name is.
DeleteDis is really bad,y would dey even reject her corpse,atleast let dem pay her d last respect dats all...
ReplyDeleteVery sad news...it seems like she was poisoned. What will be the plight of those innocent babies now?
ReplyDeleteShe left her home and got pregnant for another woman's husband hmmmmm things are really happening. So who is to blame now the man's wife or her husband? Ladies be careful oooooooo God is watching us all.
ReplyDelete"Na wa" is this case
ReplyDeleteToo bad.
ReplyDeleteAll the parties involved need to settle their differences and bury the dead woman. She deserves to rest in peace. She should be buried w properly. All of them have a fault in this matter.
ReplyDeleteConsequences of sleeping wit a married man. Women be careful. Leave pple's hubby alone so dat ur days will be long.
ReplyDeleteFake chizzy,how far Na???
DeleteLong time no see!!!
I dnt hv ur time
DeleteUr super lonely.
Byee
Consequences of sleeping wit a married man. Women be careful. Leave pple's hubby alone so dat ur days will be long.
ReplyDeleteA very tricky situation.
ReplyDelete1.The adulterous married man is ashamed of burying the woman that bear him twins but he was not ashamed when he was fcuking the toto skin to skin all the time.
The estranged husband will want nothing to do with the corpse since another man have put her in a family way.
Her own family is the only hope bcos she is still their daughter. The two men in her life will have to take care of the expenses of her burial.
Sad
Delete@chizzy, shut up your toto there. Her husband drove her away. It must have been very difficult for her to make ends meet. The adulterous man only took advantage of her.
ReplyDeleteYou be telling girls to always be careful in choosing life partners, so they don't end up vulnerable and perhaps losing their life also.
Anon 10:34 shut up and stop making excuses for her. Were you there when the man drove her out? Seems you are an adulterer also. Your type always believe a man you are cheating with would wife you or take you seriously. Now it has happened , fatai has denied her, but while he was fucking and deceiving, she believed him.
Delete*You should be telling......
ReplyDeleteCan u imagine, now he denies her corpse had she been alive he would have continued with the affair. Women wake up! Separate ur brains frm ur heart and ur punani. kapish
ReplyDeleteMarried women that will not leave adultery alone. see how she ended her life. I hope others are taking examples from what happened especially this blog that adultery is celebrated.
ReplyDeleteHusband denied, lover denied. in short whole family denied. who will accept now. So Heavenly father accept it.
May her soul rest in peace.. It's possible she committed suicide just to cover her shame. Things are happening oooo
ReplyDeleteWhat shall it profit a man/woman after enjoying sexual intercourse with another (like in this case) and the person dies.
ReplyDeletePoor twins
God! Some women dey take risk sha. I pity the kids she left behind may God console them and may her soul find peace
ReplyDeleteI love and adore twins, but this isn't the kind of twins I want to wake up to. May she RIP
ReplyDeletePostpartum eclampsia
ReplyDeleteNa Wao tinz dey happen, married woman getting pregnant for another married man, tomorrow they will say men are bad.
ReplyDeleteNawa oooooo
ReplyDeleteIt is well with her soul.
ReplyDeleteHello guyz am new here,so what's is d trad here,cos i actually just heard about d blog and i decide to visit d blog,well d blog is really nice i must confess,happy new month guyz
ReplyDeleteHmmm she will end up as cadaver for medical student s.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to her is called punishment for infidelity. May she rip.
ReplyDeleteAND THIS IS WHY WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE SIDE-CHICKS. After impregnating her, it's now he remembers he didn't marry her. Doesn't have the decency to accept corpse ba. If she win LOTTO now, or win American lottery. He will know she's his wife. In Yoruba old culture nways, once you impregnate a woman u don become her husband be that o. (Atlst old custom).
ReplyDeleteI'd rest easy if it were the late woman's family that had taken custody of the twins..
ReplyDeleteThose kids are not safe with fatai, simply cos of his wife.
They are better off in an orphanage rather than be slaves in their father's house if you ask me.
Rip to the dead, bear your loss to the relatives. You people and juju self. If you want case go for autopsy if you don't want case bury your dead and accuse anybody. People die before, during and after child birth in their father's, husband's relation's,friend's house. That is life. It has nothing to do with adultery or side chick. You don't know the health of the person which is the only cause of death. But have you asked why a will leave his wife or vice versa. Women always blame their husbands and the other woman exonerating themselves and their own roles. Any man who wants to marry a second wife should boldly go to woman's people pay and take home. No crime there ,no sin there because didn't condemn any of the people that married more than one wife. He even told David that he needn't kill to get a new wife and punished him for killing and not for marrying. God told him that if he needed more wives and asked he God would have giving him. However if you think it a sin, when has it become you responsibility to admister God's punishment for for sin on his behalf. If you can't live with your husband marrying another wife, then leave but be sure you didn't contribute to his action .because you will never admit that you failed or refused to make his home more homely than outside..
ReplyDeleteSome people r just so heartless,dis poor woman is dead n all u can do is still rain abuses on her,learn 2have a heart abeg,nobody knows d real situation or wat brought about all des.The poor woman is dead,pray 4her soul or jump pass if u can't show any sympathy. And Chizoba all dat ur rant n curses is uncalled for.*****Oj
ReplyDeleteNa waoooo. So pathetic. May God protect her twins
ReplyDeleteAnother very ignorant report. Why do Nigerians like drama like this? Tufia.
ReplyDeleteProbably eclampsia. Anyone thinking at all??? Anyone? Africa oh Africa. Truly the dark continent.
Dr Lagbaja
Poor twins
ReplyDeleteI have learnt not to criticize people's actions until you have walked in their shoes.
ReplyDeleteRIP to the dead. And may God protect & provide for your children, Amen.
before it was single girls as side chicks now married women are the ones cheating like they give them trophies at the end of the end. I don't know what this world is turning to, married men and women are on a cheating spree..lol and to those who love being side chicks or who think they can bear children for a man whose wive is waiting on God, hmmm God is giving u time to repent and stop being the devil errand girl or boy(guys who are sleeping with married women and have them as sugar mummies)
ReplyDeleteI meant to say kind of story, not kind of twins
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of heart lies in men? Her body was good enough to provide this man with pleasure, to bear and give life to his two children, yet her body was not good enough for him to claim upon death. We women need to be very wise of the men we allow into our lives and to impregnate us. Everything is good when we are healthy and able, but once we are of no use to these men their true colours come out. Who are we sleeping with?
ReplyDeleteChizoba, it's obvious you're having a pathetic marriage. Poor you! The pain in your voice is so deep. I can bet you aren't employed. Get a life!
ReplyDeleteIdiots here should stop cussing people when you don't know their story......am a married woman and my hubby has been cheating on me severally....Infact right now he has left the house that he is no longer interested in the marriage coz he is fucking one Efik girl...he has not asked for a divorce but wants to just do what he likes.......I have tried to beg him to come back but no way but guess what I have made up my mind that enough is enough.....I am going to have an affair if anyone come my way.....so per adventure I get pregnant even if am not planning to have more kids and I keep the baby then some idiots will be insulting me that am an adulterer? It's a pity this woman died but God knows I won't give 2 shit what people say....women can't keep tolerating rubbish in the name of wanting to stay married....she might have been a wayward woman and then again she might have been in a bad marriage and unfortunately got pregnant so we can't judge her till we know her story....
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